toughanswers Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
450	When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 06:48 PM
219	Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 09:04 PM
218	Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 06:58 PM
185	If a woman's past body count is "irrelevant" (past is past), a guy having seen a prostitute in the past is "irrelevant." Either both are, or neither are.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 09:33 PM
175	People need to learn to give only what they're willing to give without receiving anything in return.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/21 12:41 AM
170	Women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 06:49 PM
124	Women's dating/relational motivations are seen by mainstream society as more noble than men's, but they actually aren't		ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 09:51 PM
123	Women's rewards from marriage are typically front loaded. Men only see the investment pay out over the long term. Thus, the glorified quickie that is modern marriage, breakable at any time for no reason or any reason, is a poor decision for men.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 07:55 PM
119	Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prize	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 11:42 PM
114	VR Porn - "Some experts believe it makes sex so satisfying, men who find it hard to connect with women in real life, might give up completely and happily settle for VR porn as a substitute for real life experiences."	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/21 04:22 PM
110	Sen. Josh Hawley says liberals' attacks on manhood are driving men to pornography and video games	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 06:22 PM
108	Women are so terrified of being taken advantage for sex, and men are so terrified of being taken advantage of for money/paying for dates, when the answer is simple:	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 08:18 AM
104	Men want a woman who will go wild just for them; Women want a man who will be tamed just for them (for a while at least)	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 05:06 PM
103	Women don't actually care that much about being "pumped and dumped." If they did, they would withhold sex until receiving whatever degree of commitment they want to be tied to sex.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 08:09 PM
102	Vigorously avoiding risk and discomfort is the source of many modern problems, including dating problems	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 11:24 PM
93	On Sheryl Sandberg's advice to women on finding a life partner: be the first guy	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 05:53 PM
90	Bloomberg - Fewer Young Men Are in the Labor Force. More Are Living at Home For 25- to 34-year-olds, the two trends add up to a failure to launch.	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/21 08:47 PM
83	If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 03:25 PM
77	What will children of the ones currently posting thirst traps/racy tik tok videos think when they stumble across their parents' profiles?	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/21 04:26 AM
65	When it comes to birth rates, "improved parental leave policies" is a red herring. The nations with the best parental leave policies have the lowest birth rates.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 07:57 PM
58	If you’re smart, don’t drink much, stay out of fights, display a friendly personality, and have no criminal history – then you are the population most at risk of being miserable and alone	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 10:21 PM
55	Many modern complaints about men with regard to lack of direction, unmarriageability, etc. are by and large caused by disintegration of the prop ups provided by patriarchy.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 05:28 PM
54	"Admitting" sexlessness or "dating privileges" are a problem or that they exist, or empathy about it, won't change the facts in any way. So why does it matter?	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 08:13 PM
47	Why don't wealthy/powerful men think they're too good for hookers/to pay for sex?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 03:34 PM
46	Women who think their parents will invest more money in their future children are more likely to prefer men with masculine faces	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/21 02:57 AM
41	NPR - women matching (and young women outpacing) men in drinking	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 07:15 PM
34	"Husbands leave their wives because of wives' illness" and "wives leave their husbands because of husbands' job loss": either both prove that relationships are "transactional", or neither do.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 05:44 PM
34	Over half of young adults are obese or overweight, study says. What might the impact be on dating etc.?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 04:19 AM
31	New study provides insight into how heterosexual college students seek out hookups	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 01:33 AM
30	NYT - Why American Women Everywhere Are Delaying Motherhood	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 05:25 PM
29	Women yearn for the return of chaperones	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 07:14 PM
27	Which is more of a penalty when it comes to a man having dating options: being "boring", or being "criminal"/"sociopathic"?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/21 05:51 PM
26	"Pornsickness" is exclusively a concern of undesirable women	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 12:56 AM
25	Polite mainstream society wants to liberate women and imprison men, hence its wholly disparate reactions to women casting off obligations to go "find themselves" (teehee) v. men doing so.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/21 05:59 AM
24	How common is guys getting into relationships because they want to avoid sexual dry spells?	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 07:04 PM
22	Of course women are outperforming men modern society gives women everything they demand	Question for BluePill	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/21 08:15 PM
22	If availability/practicality/social stigma is no obstacle, do men prefer virgins/chaste women for marriage? What proportion?	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 05:05 PM
21	NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 06:36 PM
21	Woman good man bad	Purge Week!	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/21 07:24 PM
18	Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 03:35 AM
17	For men who want to be a woman's "best", isn't this directly compatible with women being hypergamous?	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 08:08 PM
17	Women are more hostile to prenups than men, revealing the true nature of the marital transaction	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 05:51 PM
17	Women know sex is all they're good for	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 06:27 PM
16	A universal suffrage democracy will in the long run consistently favor women over men, because women are the majority of the electorate at every level of constituency, rendering futile "men's rights" activism or policy changes advocated for by TRP/the manosphere.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 07:24 PM
15	CMV: The future of dating is casual and direct pay/sugar	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 01:12 AM
14	What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 04:51 PM
13	Are TRP ideas: new, old, or ancient?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/21 05:49 PM
13	The neurotic middle class is box checking itself out of existence. Quantum meruit.	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 02:52 AM
13	/sub	/sub	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/21 07:54 PM
12	Women on PPD would agree with me more often if I was better at couching my opinions in polite womanese	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/21 09:27 PM
12	Women want men that are full of life. That is why criminality is less of a handicap to dickwetting than inhibition		ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/21 09:14 PM
10	America is one of the few, if not only, western countries where abortion is legal and imprisonment is a punishment for non payment of child support	Purged	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 04:23 PM
10	TRP post: Ever suddenly become repulsed by a partner despite nothing obviously wrong happening?	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 07:27 PM
9	Do people overall know more about the other gender's nature/sexuality etc. than they used to?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 05:57 PM
9	What impact, if any, would the overturn of roe v. wade have on dating or any of the other topics discussed here? The supreme court is going to be considering Misssippi's 15 week abortion ban, "the most important abortion related dispute the court has heard in decades"	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 11:11 PM
9	What is more important for a guy: sex or money?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 01:04 AM
9	NPR - From Housework To Sex, Here's How Relationship Contracts Can Help Couples	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 12:54 AM
9	The whole sex acts thing, sexually history generally, etc. is resolved by just not committing	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 06:24 AM
7	Tech VC calls men who take six months off to parent ‘losers’, says working harder to provide for their future is the correct masculine response. Are gender roles just acknowledging reality?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/21 01:14 PM
6	In America, who is more free: men, or women?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/21 03:59 PM
6	At what point in human history was sex frequency per capita the highest? Is it today?	Debate	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 03:37 AM
6	Woman good man bad	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/21 05:36 PM
6	Different dating norms/issues in different socioeconomic classes?	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 01:32 AM
5	Can't get "AF"/short term/fun treatment with "BB"/long term/safe priorities.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 05:23 PM
5	Commitment is beta	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/21 06:21 PM
4	With sexually transmitted infections soaring in California, new law pushes at-home tests	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 07:40 AM
4	Preferences where someone doesn't offer what they prefer: either ALL are valid, or none are	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 04:23 PM
3	Women can predict a man’s interest in short-term uncommitted relationships just by looking at his face	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 04:17 PM
3	/subreddit	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 07:42 PM
3	Women are hookers and men are Johns	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 07:06 PM
3	How well would a new "restore the patriarchy" political party poll	Purge Debate!	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 04:50 PM
3	N-count is a fiction designed to help tolerate the fact that what the guys are really looking for in terms of commitment, virgins, are unavailable, but paternal investment, which cannot coexist beyond temporarily with a culture of paternal investment, is still demanded	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 01:47 AM
2	Opt outs, or ban abortion	Purge Week!	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 04:12 AM
1	It's almost like there was a reason for gender roles	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 01:10 AM
1	How long of an "LTR" post-sex will satisfy the conclusion that the man didn't "use" the woman for sex? Given that an LTR can be ended at any time without consequence, what difference does it even make?	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/21 07:43 PM
1	Wives who feel their spouse/SO is an additional child: go raise the kid(s) alone or stfu	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 01:05 AM
1	What is men are "80-20" (and if that's not the ratio, what is it?)	Discussion	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/21 09:33 PM
1	Is there any truth to "no fap", or porn being harmful?		ToughAnswers	/r/askTRP	03/06/21 04:14 AM
0	Sugaring/demanding additional payment up front for the date is the logical conclusion of any possible argument women make for why men should pay for dates rather than splitting.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 11:09 PM
0	Condomsex isn't really sex	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/21 08:46 PM
0	Opt outs, or ban abortion	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 06:22 AM
0	The "orgasm gap" is caused/exacerbated by women not being hot enough to attract orgasmogenic men:	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/21 11:15 PM
0	What determines what is "right or wrong" when it comes to dating and romance, if not laws or religious texts?	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/21 09:43 PM
0	Men will be more compliant and less hostile toward paying child support once abortion is banned.	Science	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 10:37 PM
0	A "pump and dump" is at the least no better or worse than a divorce. The only difference is the former benefits the man's imperative while the latter benefits the woman's imperative.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/21 09:50 PM
0	Long term monogamy is (mostly) incompatible with modern life	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 08:45 PM
0	Middle class men are society's mules. TRP-type discourse is one reaction to this.	CMV	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/21 06:03 PM
0	It's not nice guys finish last	Purge Week!	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 10:02 PM
0	Men win modernity, but men have to understand the how and why first	Gurpe	ToughAnswers	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 08:04 PM