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Its highly specialized so I'd rather not say
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 07:00 PM
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Because it's not about being right
/r/AntiFeminists30/12/22 12:35 AM
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That would be like saying I'll find a way to quit needing water. It's impossible
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 06:25 PM
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Id just go cold approach them. Obviously do it right, which means not being a creep, not overstaying your welcome, leaving them with an out etc... Do it enough, go on enough dates and you'll start to subconsciously asses what they are really all about. Eventually this will replace TRP ideology in your Brain with the truth
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 06:24 PM
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You're hard wired to want relationships with the opposite sex. It's impossible to turn that off
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 05:57 PM
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Go and actually interact with women. Watch their behavior and draw your own conclusions about their wants and needs.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 05:56 PM
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Bold of you to post that. This place is basically a feminist echo chamber for women who live in denial and are threatened by what TRP teaches. I seldom see any actual ex redpillers here.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 02:36 PM
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Confidence and humor my man. I've seen real creatures with very beautiful women because they're good with people
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 10:51 PM
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FWB situations are pretty helerious. Someone always catches feelings. It's like maybe casual sex isn't fucking good for you
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 10:50 PM
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Hard to describe what he looks like. I make fun of him and call him the Pillsbury Doughboy because he's pudgy as fuck. He met all these women in person through friend groups or clubs n shit
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 02:50 PM
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One of my cousins sorta fits the bill. Unmarried and 30 with no boyfriend and probably will never marry. She's been having a very difficult time emotionally and I feel very bad for her
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 11:52 PM
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One of my brothers is a huge fucking nerd, plays with Lego into his late 20s yet has had girls all over him since I can remember, i dont actually recall him ever not having a gf, they were all good looking too. He ain't even that good looking himself. He really just doesn't give a fuck what people think
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 08:51 PM
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I already work with a therapist, no personality disorders. But atm were going through other things that are maybe more important
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 10:56 AM
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Yep
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 12:59 AM
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Discussions on narcissism, it's causes, and how to fix it. I'm at my core a very insecure person, and it would be good to figure a way to fix this insecurity and be emotionally healthy again
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 10:01 PM
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Some will find it creepy. I leave them alone. Alot of girls will actually be super flattered and tell me they wished more guys did it.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 11:42 PM
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Interesting that someone picked up on this. I've often confided in close friends that I often fall in love with the idea of a women, and not the women. Alot of my friends (some of whom are women) would agree
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 11:05 PM
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I've cold approached quite a bit. You'll find a women if you're able to persist through the constant rejection, which extracts a heavy toll
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 11:02 PM
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He would do that
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:50 PM
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Only one irl who was TRP. Lied about everything, clearly a covert narcissist
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 10:05 AM
2

Mind citing that research?
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 05:11 PM
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Dude you don't sound like you're in a good headspace at all
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 05:07 PM
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Is Jesus redpilled then?
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 02:20 AM
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Depends. Ime they only really freak out if they don't have kids. They don't really care about the relationship aspect
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 12:23 AM
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David tian
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 03:40 PM
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Haven't ever seen that personally
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 06:56 PM
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Ad hominem attacks are a sign that your argument is at a intellectual dead end. Again, maybe try listening to him instead of just reading retarded hit pieces. I'd wager you probably haven't listen to a second of him actually speaking
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 06:16 PM
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His followers are irrelevant. He called MGTOW guys pathetic weasels and told incels if they wanted to get laid they should stop being so fucking useless. Would a redpiller say that? Try listening to him instead, he's in the top 50 most cited clinical psychologists of all time, was a tenured professor at the best university in Canada and taught clinical psychology at Harvard before he was 30. Pretty sure he isn't full of shit Edit: stop being
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 06:04 PM
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I can understand the rule. Love JP but he would derail so many discussions because people who've never really listened to him would spend hours arguing about whether he's red pill or not
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 12:33 AM
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made me really sad reading that, I don't think you deserve to feel like that but I can understand and relate to why you do. I'd keep two things in mind. The people who wrote that are themselves deeply troubled and confused about the world they live in. Their negativity taints everything they see You might have some mental health issues underlying all this. For me, I already didn't believe that I was a valuable person. After the RP I became an anxious mess. It gave me negative self-image substanc…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 07:04 PM
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I have been too, just annoying when you have to sift through shit. Never used to be like this
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 03:22 PM
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Sick projection In reality I find your constant proselytizing, virtue signalling, condescension, insecurity and arrogance fucking annoying and detracting to the purpose of this sub which is to help people suffering from toxic beliefs reconnect with reality Edit:virtue signalling
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 03:15 AM
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They're everywhere and what's worst is they just shit on people with genuine complaints calling them misogynistic. Most threads are full of comments about how evil TRP is and how misogynistic it is while completely ignoring the point of this sub which is finding the truth and leaving the ideology. They couldn't care less about our suffering they just want to feed their narcissism
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 02:55 AM
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You're not wrong. This sub is predominantly feminist women and white knights. I have the suspicion that the majority of users here were never actually redpill Edit: feminist women
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 01:34 AM
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How long is the read?
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 01:24 AM
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I've read parts of this and found the arguments pretty damn weak
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 12:24 AM
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No worries. Hope you find it insightful I honestly think it should be required listening for anyone coming on this sub
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 12:07 AM
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https://youtu.be/qIzzNh84ANw Happy listening
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 09:21 PM
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I saw a David tian video that did a good job at exposing the insecurity behind most red pill coaches and adherents. After that I couldn't see it for anything besides what it is. A bunch of insecure and wounded men
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 05:44 PM
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If you don't become brave you won't live a very happy or meaningful life
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 12:05 PM
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Not sure who you hang around, but if this is stuff you've witnessed over the years you need to find new people to be around
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 11:03 AM
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No, because like I said I'm a grown ass man. They just show the same side of themselves (the maternal side) that they show infants and small children when they're distressed. Which is a compassionate and understanding side like I said before. I think most people who agree that most women have a side like this, no need to split hairs for no reason
/r/ExRedPill21/06/22 10:52 PM
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Imagine a mother's response when a baby is distressed. I think we've all seen it, the mom rushes in and holds and codles the baby, rocking it back in forth to try and calm it down. Textbook mothering shit right? That's basically what I'm talking about, except it's in regards to a grown ass man talking about his feelings and bad experiences in life. I'm not conflating basic sympathic behavior with mothering instincts. Women are sympathetic to me all the time. This is very much different
/r/ExRedPill21/06/22 09:45 PM
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I don't think you're understanding what I'm trying to say
/r/ExRedPill21/06/22 07:07 PM
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Understanding =/= nurturing. They really wanted to help and were very compassionate
/r/ExRedPill21/06/22 02:47 PM
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Only happens if your women is already done with you. If a girl (or a guy) loves you the blinders go up and everyone becomes invisible to them. And really from what I've heard, a women really only cheat when they're basically through with a relationship as well.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/22 12:43 AM
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He's called MGTOW guys pathetic weasels before so I think you can probably figure out where he stands on that front
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 05:05 PM
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They don't understand the difference between vulnerability and being overwhelmed. So they lump it all together and say you should avoid it. I've been very vulnerable with girls before, telling them about my insecurities, depression, anxiety etc and it actually strengthens the relationship. It's really brought out their maternal nature. I've also been overwhelmed (when your emotions take over and you cannot help but express them) and it's not gone over well for the most part.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 12:01 PM
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I agree too, alot of girls I've really enjoyed talking to just because they give me an honest perspective into what its actually like for them. I think alot of guys just assume that they think roughly the same way when it isn't really the case. I don't think men fully understand how closely tied women's emotional needs are to being valued for something other than sex. Do you really think that this is pretty much universal amongst girls these days? I see it often, but I also see girls who think t…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 06:29 PM
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It's not that a man doesn't value her. It's that he's too prideful to stick around. I get how it comes off to girls. But this is a aspect in some cases. Not all or even the majority, but some. It should be kept in mind Edit: and yeah, in a way I am confirming what you're saying. I'm just trying to say that it isn't always so black and white. And I also said that a women's best parts aren't just her beauty, it's her tender heart as well. I literally only fall in love with girls who show a compass…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 05:02 PM
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Id be careful with why dudes don't stay after they're turned down. 100% of the time if she isn't part of my friend group and I have to see her I won't be friends. Not cuz she isn't a cool person (although most of the time this is the case) but because it's kinda an insult to me as a person and many women will exploit guys who are willing to be friends afterwards for attention. I've seen it happen time and time again and it's even happened to me a few times. Like, the way I see it is that I'm rea…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 03:58 PM
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The vast majority of women I know want relationships, even if they say they're only about hookups. It's why the get upset when the guy doesn't text back in the morning while when the same happens to a guy they don't give a fuck. Just try and imagine that women feel the same way about getting relationships as guys do about getting casual sex. It's really just a shit situation for both genders tbh
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 11:15 PM
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I like this perspective. I've known girls who've been really depressed because they think no man really likes them for who they are, just what they can provide. Haven't seen it laid out this well before tho
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 11:03 PM
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I've seen it many times
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:13 AM
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They do, I did. But are they healthy relationships with healthy women? No. Absolutely not. They were codependent messes of sex and cheating with little to no trust and it was far worse than being single
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 03:30 PM
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nah, I've seen escorts when I've been too lazy/afraid to go out and find women. its pretty normal. I'd recommend going out and trying to meet them irl tbh
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 05:21 PM
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If i understand your question. I'd try to remember that some women feel the same way about makeup as you do about muscles
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 05:19 PM
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sad but true
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 05:16 PM
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Confidence comes from knowing you can meet your needs. Learn how to defend yourself, if you don't already have marketable skills get them, hopefully you already know how to make friends, learn how to find a good partner in a reasonable amount of time. If you know you can do all these things, by virtue of who you are, you'll be very confident and not much other people do will be able to change that
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 09:46 PM
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Same reason anyone thinks in black and white. It makes sense of a situation that you don't understand. Even if your conclusion is wrong. It's better that not knowing to them
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 03:04 PM
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Depends. If you need one, you're gonna end up being so anxious that they'll leave that it'll make you miserable. If you don't need one, but you just like having a certain person around it's amazing
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 10:27 PM
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It's true that female virgins tend to fall in love with whoever took their virginity. Doesn't mean they can't fall In love harder with someone else after that
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 05:53 PM
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Don't apologize for being jealous man, it's perfectly normal, it's the narrsasistic feminist harpies who come on here and cry misogyny at any guy who feels even a little bit negative about the opposite gender for any reason who make it seem like it's wrong to feel this way, as if feeling a certain way can be wrong (something TRP espouses heavily) With that said, I seriously struggle with the whole "she gets it way easier than me" thing. I don't know what to say to that accept that that is the re…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 05:48 PM
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There's something about male role models that cannot be truly emulated by a women. Just like theirs something about a female mom that no man can ever really be
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 01:12 PM
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Its true unfortunately
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 12:26 PM
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Although I hoheartedly disagree. The rule would be to diswade feminists larping as exredpillers to fuck off so that men who've actually been damaged by this ideology can discuss things without a but of nonsensical bullshit being thrown in their faces
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 12:37 PM
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5-8 are unfortunately quite true. I've been friends with alot of women in my time, some of them older. And this is their reality. Although I've know some very attractive men who'd never cheat on their SO's. Their the exception unfortunately, from what I've seen, most "HVM" aren't seen as relationship material purely because they can't be tied down. And most HVM I know have a history of cheating
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 12:27 PM
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The real red pill is that the truth is in the Grey. TRP isn't wrong but it also isn't true. Just like how we're brought up to view women isn't true and isn't wrong
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 08:59 PM
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no spreading of feminist ideology. I didn't get out of TRP just to jump on another toxic bandwagon
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 12:29 PM
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Redpill didn't make me feel this way. Just saw it happen in real time twice. It's sad but even the second time, I wasn't actually even attracted to the women. Yet she had a rotation within a month of us not seeing each other. I'm not sure what to think of it. Modernity is a bleak place for a guy if you aren't part of the small portion of men that are actually attractive.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 01:32 PM
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I never applied the advice. but the general teachings which boil down to "she will never love you" ruined many of mine
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 05:57 AM
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Just some more feminist virtue signaling. She doesn't give a fuck about OP's struggles, she just wants to be morally superior
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 02:58 AM
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I've been told by alot of men and women that I'm very masculine, I use quite a bit of injectable testosterone so it would make sense. I get rejected alllll the time. Ime if you're super masculine women generally only want to sleep with you, sometimes not even that. You get called a fuckboi alot. Women from what I've seen start relationships with more sensitive and emotionally avaliable guys who they've know for a while. It's kinda funny actually. All the women who've fallen in love with me have …
/r/ExRedPill24/04/22 09:43 PM
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Nah you can be successful, but like another guy said, it's a huge numbers game, takes a massive amount of effort and can be very hard on you mentally
/r/ExRedPill21/04/22 10:22 AM
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There's alot that can be said. I think the most harmful aspect is how much it shames some women's feelings and instincts under the guise of "liberation" and being "independent".
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 06:52 PM
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It's far less obvious why modern feminism is highly toxic. with TRP it's alot more clear
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 03:51 PM
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Start small, with something doable. When I feel too much fear, I approach women who are sitting and there aren't too many people around. If you can't even do that then I'd recommend going and doing it with a friend and keep trying till you muster the courage
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:30 PM
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Just world fallacy? Hypocritical, you're being extremely polar which itself is a logical fallacy.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 06:50 PM
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Suck my fat cock
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 01:00 AM
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How many times did you get laid tho?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 04:51 PM
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I'd agree with that
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 04:01 AM
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If women were being treated this terribly there'd be military in the streets. This perception is delusional and not shared by the vast vast majority of mentally healthy women I've ever talked too in the west
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 02:55 AM
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Maybe I'm a little blunt. I'm more saying that alot of rhetoric used In this sub carries a implication that men are not safe. It's an attitude that is shown through action. If you want an example go check out the thread about "Dave" and how the guy finally realized why women are afraid of men. It's very very similar to the whole paranoia of divorce rape and cheating that is endemic in men's rights groups
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 02:53 AM
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I wasn't making it, I was asking women I know I ain't saying that it never happens, in fact most women are gonna meet acouple creeps in their lives. Hell, I've been targeted by creepy men before, it happens. But feminist types use that as a justification for calling all men rapists, just as the manosphere says all women are divorce rapists
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 05:59 PM
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Absolutely
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 05:08 PM
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Sad but true. I got downvoted to shit for daring to say that women aren't getting sexually assaulted/harrased daily Some people really do have an axe to grind and nothing else
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 05:02 PM
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It's unfortunate. Too many feminists ideologues
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 04:57 PM
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After experiencing the men's rights stuff (MGTOW, TRP) I'm pretty convinced that modern (smash the patriarchy) feminism is just about as toxic, ignorant, naive and deluded as it is. You'd be doing yourself a favor ignoring them
/r/ExRedPill04/04/22 08:53 PM
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no worries. if you're friend is on Reddit, he can shoot me a DM, I'd be happy to help him out
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 04:34 AM
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dave is not sociopathic. dave is probably either autistic or deranged. sociopathic people don't stalk others the way dave did. they act normally like you described. makes me think that you have no interest in the truth and just want to victimize yourself. its also sexist as fuck to think that men don't have to deal with the converse, which is sociopathic women, or sociopathic people in general
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 04:32 AM
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getting approached by "daves" is not a daily occurrence. if it were, I wouldn't need to know women, I could see it constantly in my day to day.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 04:23 AM
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An abrasive asshole who has no concept of boundaries vs a guy who is respectful and understanding and doesn't overstay his welcome. It's like asking how you know if someone is patting you on the back or punching you in the back of the head. Its very fucking easy and you know instantly
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 04:21 AM
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almost every woman i know has a story about a dude in public who started being really fucking weird to them and not leaving them alone. i really, really do not think this is as rare as you think it is. Come to think of it, I'm not sure why I originally said it was rare. Sure, many women I talk too don't really have stories as serious as the one in the OP, but guys being creeps and not knowing boundaries? hell that's happened to me on occasion
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 04:06 AM
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I usually approach, smile and say something to the effect of "Hi, excuse me, I know this is sorta weird, but I saw you doing xyz and wanted to introduce myself". Then I ask their name, say mine and start a conversation if they seem interested. I'd tell your friend, that you can look like brad pitt and have the charisma of George Cloony and still have little success approaching women in broad daylight. Its about being patient and waiting to find the right person
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 04:03 AM
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I ask women. How else would I know edit: also like I told the other guy, come to think of it, it isn't that rare. I've had gay men and at times women be way too fucking much with me on occasion
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 03:56 AM
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I've done quite a lot of cold approaching, and to be honest, I wouldn't think about "women's fears" or even "women" in such black and white terms. It's a vestige of the insecure need to eliminate any uncertainty about the world, even at the behest of accuracy and truth that TRP feeds off of. I've had some women flat out reject me, I've had far more tell me that they wish men had the balls to actually come up to them and introduce themselves like normal humans. Most however are ambivalent, they t…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 03:12 AM
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You're gonna have to start approaching women. While you're going about your day, if you see a women who you find pretty, and who obviously isn't super busy and who isn't boxed in. Just go up to her, say you saw her doing xyz and that you wanted to introduce yourself. Then just talk to her, and see if she's someone you'd want to get to know more. Don't be a creep, be friendly, and don't overstay your welcome. It's really hard at first, and you have too commit to it because you'll have to approach…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 07:10 PM
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Lose the beard, it doesn't look good, you'd look alot better clean shaven
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 11:27 PM
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I've cold approached a fair amount, 95% have been very attractive women Sometimes I'll ask if they've ever been approached before and they all have told me no. Guys just don't approach girls these days unless its at a nightclub or bar
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:38 AM
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Gladly
/r/ExRedPill18/03/22 05:33 PM
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I really hate this sub
/r/ExRedPill18/03/22 03:55 PM
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It'll work better if you just walk around during the day and approach girls eating lunch or studying, not waiting for parties and whatnot, thats actually not a great idea, they'll be weirded out that you just showed up to that shit. Also, I found that it gets very hard at some point, usually before you start seeing any results, which can take over 50 or 100 approaches for some people. Generally this is because you're still getting used to the scenarios and are trying hard to be yourself. Keep pe…
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:27 AM
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Sure the rejection rate is pretty fucking high, 500 approaches and only 1 date though? The guy is either unbearably ugly, or (and in all likelihood) is doing something incredibly wrong. I've done a little under a hundred cold approaches and generally will go on a date once every 10 approaches which is a perfectly fine ratio. The rejection only really goes to your head if you your intentions are wrong. If you're doing it to jerk your ego off you'll burn out really quick. If you're doing it to mee…
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:59 AM
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Unfortunately ghosting as a dude is a given no matter how hot you are. I have a very good friend who is probably a 9/10, very good looking, tall, muscular. And he gets ghosted constantly. Tinder is awful for him to the point he refuses to ever use it
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 11:35 PM
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Unfortunately, I've found even people who've been through decades of therapy to heal from their abusive upbringings are prone to extremely toxic behavior. Prone being the key word. You have to take it with other behaviors. On its own it doesn't mean too much besides that you should keep your eyes open The self harm thing is different. In my experience self harmers (or former) always go onto display manifestations of the core beliefs that are at the center of BPD. Emotional instability doesn't re…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 05:38 PM
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A non exhaustive list Still is in contact with their ex outside of business (never stay with women like this, its absolutely unacceptable and it will end badly) alcoholic or abuses substances (or other addictions, sex for instance) bad and or mentally unhealthy parents, siblings, friends, extended family unhealthy environment growing up history of abusive relationships history of eating disorders (I've found basically all the women I've met who've mentioned this too me have also gone onto show a…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 02:20 AM
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bitterness builds on its self and gets exponentially worse until you end up at a point where you end up like most school shooters. With that said, acceptance goes a long way, and so does gratitude
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 05:18 PM
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Bro 1. He was addicted to kpins not xanax 2. He was actually prescribed them by his psychiatrist because he couldn't handle the fact his wife was dying 3. He went to Russia because he'd already went cold turkey (which admittedly was not smart) and doctors in NA couldn't figure out how to help his withdrawals 4. He doesn't recommend an all meat diet for everyone, he just states it worked for him and his family in treating their auto immune problems I'm pretty convinced at this point 99% of the in…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 02:51 PM
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The thing about feelings is you will always show them, even if you're trying to hide them, and people will pick up on this. Your women probably thought it was sweet that you miss her
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 01:11 AM
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I find it interesting that he thinks ADHD is a result of trauma. It'd make quite a lot of sense just based off my personal experience and observations
/r/ExRedPill21/02/22 07:39 PM
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Dude if you actually read the essay and not just the headlines, its clear that she lived a life of trying to prove herself to everyone, and yet when she made amazing achievements (I believe she had an MBA from very high ranking university, was a student track athlete, and was generally very successful in everything she did from a young age) she said that it all felt empty. she asked herself "why?" even when she won miss USA. I think it has more to do with her parents putting incorrect expectatio…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/22 07:37 PM
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Are they retarded? Eastern European women are some of the least feminine on the fucking planet. Just like stefan molyneux saying Poland is a paradise when it's really just a fucking impoverished shithole (sorry if you are from Poland, yall are cool people)
/r/ExRedPill21/02/22 05:55 PM
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I have a pretty high sex drive so porn helps me scratch an itch when I can't go out and meet people easily. Besides that porn should be avoided
/r/ExRedPill20/02/22 07:12 PM
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I was in a similar situation. It doesn't hurt as bad as being used as emotional support, but it still fucking sucks to know she only wants your cock and nothing to do with you
/r/ExRedPill20/02/22 06:55 PM
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What if you have zero idea how attractive you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:53 AM
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Still has no idea what he's talking. Even more evidence that 99.999% of people have no idea what toxic masculinity is... Also generally just a terrible video
/r/ExRedPill19/02/22 06:03 PM
0

I saw escorts for a while. Be careful, it will absolutely RUIN your bank account. Plus the experiences aren't that great. Better to keep looking for a gf you can cuddle and cream pie. You'll thank me later
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 10:50 PM
5

If they didn't do it, I'd dump them. Been around girls who've still kept contact with there exs because of "shared assets". What a fucking tire fire
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:34 AM
1

if you're on reddit or any online platform its almost a guarantee unfortunately. I think if you're in person you're probably right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:25 PM
10

He called them pathetic weasels. Seems about right
/r/ExRedPill16/02/22 07:52 PM
1

jealousy sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:39 AM
1

Just tryna find the truth to make my dating life easier. But it sounds like I'll never find it. Mens perceptions are clouded by bitterness and the women here can't tell the truth because modern society has conditioned them to be ashamed of their basic instincts and needs, I'm also not convinced a lot of women even know what they want I only comment (for the most part) because I'm a narcissistic fuck and want attention, I genuinely feel enormous guilt whenever I post on these type of subs for tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:37 AM
2

but machismo prevents most men from it, no, you just get branded an "incel"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:27 AM
1

Weird how this isn't a common occurance with FtM transgenders
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:24 AM
5

find a good girl and settle down within a year max you have any idea how rare a "good girl" is? Its like a good man, you could spend your entire life looking...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:07 AM
1

I'm certain 99.9999% of people who've ever uttered those words have 0 idea what those words even mean Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:55 PM
3

I admire your character to go and seek therapy
/r/ExRedPill15/02/22 01:07 AM
1

The moment I find out a women I'm dating is into FDS is the moment she is cut from my life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:51 AM
0

Did I saw it was anyone elses problem but their's? OP was asking why Redpillers are bitchy and I said why lol
/r/ExRedPill12/02/22 12:18 AM
1

see my reply to the other lady
/r/ExRedPill11/02/22 06:59 PM
1

maybe we're confused on what is meant by "worth" Generally, (and this is a concept I still don't quite understand) people have a base of good feelings in regards to who they are. Sure they might feel lonely, vulnerable, guilty etc... but at the end of the day they don't feel shame surrounding these emotions, they don't take their life circumstances as a reflection of their value as a person, but rather just a set of circumstances. People with this perception of their own value are kind, confiden…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/22 06:59 PM
2

Missed the point entirely
/r/ExRedPill11/02/22 05:04 PM
5

You'd be pretty bitter if you felt you had to earn your worth as a human being
/r/ExRedPill11/02/22 06:41 AM
18

TRP types see relationships generally as something intertwined fundamentally with the ego. When in reality, generally most relationships I've seen start off with two people knowing each other for a while and deciding that they like each other and they go from there, no jealousy, no insecurity. They were happy before but they're happier now. Unfortunately most red pilled males unconsciously see relationships as narcissistic source. And it shows in how they describe them with such coldness and dis…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/22 06:22 AM
1

The second half is pretty correct
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:28 AM
8

What do you consider high?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:23 AM
1

Nah I have some handsome friends who look for girlfriends. Some of them stay single for long periods of time too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:08 PM
5

Forrest Gump is also fiction
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 02:09 AM
2

More and more men will stop having sex and being in relationships, leaving them lonely, depressed and bitter. Women will keep trying harder and harder to be with the best men, who will inevitably won't commit long term, leaving them lonely and depressed and the men on the top will kinda just sit back and be like "well this fucking sucks" and become cynical Leaving nobody happy. What a time to be alive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:56 AM
2

Redpill is just dudes misinterpreting data to fit their confirmation bias and feed their narcissism and shame. Exredpill is just one-sided r/PurplePillDebate where instead of people actually coming together and detoxing from that shit, you get a bunch of willfully ignorant fools and feminist types who've never actually partaken in TRP who come here and just spew nonsense constantly
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 06:45 AM
3

I've talked to alot of gals and it's their primary concern most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:40 PM
1

If a FDSer came onto me I'd take it slowly, and consider it in the context of indicators
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:09 AM
3

Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:55 AM
10

I stopped because it was pointed out to me that pretty much every redpill coach or major adherent was quite narcissistic/bitter and almost always deeply insecure. Not the kinda people you want informing your life decisions edit: there's more too it than that, but thats what it boils down too. these peoples perception of reality is skewed by trauma
/r/ExRedPill22/01/22 05:14 AM
0

Yep some of it is
/r/ExRedPill22/01/22 04:50 AM
2

How'd you meet all these people out of curiosity?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/22 07:00 PM
2

They're in the minority. I do alot of cold approaches and most women find it very flattering. Many will tell me they wished more men would do it. Just don't be fucking obnoxious, unaware, or creepy and you're fine Saying that most women dislike it is just a huge cope because its scary as shit and hard to do.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 03:58 PM
0

Women don't hate being cold approached who ever told you that?
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 03:20 AM
1

The way I always look at it is this Why do women laugh at men who fail shit tests? They laugh because it's pathetic (sorta). And its pathetic because men have intrinsic power and when its not realized then it almost is kinda pathetic. We have testosterone that makes our bones harder to break, our muscles stronger, it makes us far more assertive so that we can effect change in the world. You're an agent of change as a man, you have a presence, and when you don't realize it, girls, and people, in …
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 05:06 AM
2

Not really. its black and white reductionism has pretty permanently fucked my brain and my perception of the world
/r/ExRedPill24/12/21 12:54 AM
4

Really? I've changed my location from canada to the US and I actually did alot better. It's weird
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 01:44 AM
1

fuck I just went over to that sub and holy fuck are they harsh. They rated Katelyn traver as "above average", below the "slightly good looking" block. and they rated tsanna latouche as a 7.5 when shes a 6 at best. that sub is so full of shit
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 02:07 AM
1

if it makes you feel any better I've had girls literally describe me as what your aunt did, the "safe option" essentially. And I've also had girls treat me like the guy they have "fun" with, been called chad by acouple of these women... girls are kinda silly and talk out their ass half the time. p.s any family member who says that about you is a cunt. Also, people don't do coke out of vaginas, that's fucking retarded...
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 01:41 AM
1

it's too bold and direct, it puts a ton of pressure on the girl. that and the girl probably is thinking he just wants sex/being creepy. At least thats the feedback I've gotten from some women who ask me
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:21 PM
2

It just seemed to be something you were implying
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:13 PM
1

in some cases yes. I'm 6'2, 210 with abs, a decent face, and good conversational skills. I think some girls get the feeling I'm just looking too fuck and get put off. its not all but I just wonder if maybe I could be improving my approach somehow
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:06 PM
3

How'd you go about opening though? I usually say "hey I was walking by, thought you were pretty and wanted to introduce myself". I hear this is too direct though, how'd you go about it?
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:50 PM
6

That whole concept is fucking stupid. Close friends of mine including myself are going through/have undergone shit that is pretty much analogous to the "alpha widow" senario and were dudes
/r/ExRedPill02/12/21 08:35 PM
3

I don't eat girls out if I don't find them attractive enough. but if a girl is genuinely gorgeous I'd eat her ass no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:34 AM
2

I think in general married people are happier. The unhappy ones just get divorced 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:43 AM
2

Not sure how the researchers defined it. But I'd guess in it's most basic form it'd be whether someone was happier being married or single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:37 AM
3

If you look at marriage satisfaction it doesn't reflect what you're thinking. good question though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:15 AM
1

99.999% of men will never be that guy. yah no, I've met guys who were complete bums, total losers who weren't going to go anywhere in life besides work deadend jobs, these guys were also ugly as sin. yet the women wouldn't be able to leave, literally just because the guy was funny and somewhat good with people. it really is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:10 AM
2

If he wanted to take you out, he would instead of just wanting to "hang out" at your/his place I'm in a situation right now where I'd like to take a women out to do shit, but our relationship is complicated and I'm not sure itd be the best thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:00 AM
1

You said it in the OP. You do it so people will like you. That's 100% nice guy syndrome
/r/ExRedPill21/11/21 04:52 PM
1

Quit the "humble" bs. It's desperate and girls smell that from a mile away and run
/r/ExRedPill21/11/21 03:44 AM
2

I can sorta see what you're saying, I would say it's my personality but not in a bad sense. I just don't find most people interesting or fun enough to form good connections with. I'm pretty regularly called a good conversationalist. But in regards to the rest. It's suicidal to try and change your personality. That's why TRP is so toxic. Not accepting or approving of your personality is a recipe for constant shame and depression. So you're kinda stuck with what you have. Not to say you can't impr…
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 06:16 PM
2

I'd say the girl you quoted is right dude. In the last six months I've dated ~25 different women. Still single, still fucking bitter and annoyed and still very lonely. Why? Because getting dates doesn't mean shit. what matters is the connection between the two of you. And finding people you truly connect with is fucking hard. Like very fucking hard if you don't already know the person. Alot of guys I know who are very handsome still have to go through like 50 different women just to find one tha…
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 01:05 AM
1

If you're more attractive you have more options, you have more people trying to steal you, get in your pants etc...
/r/ExRedPill14/11/21 10:47 PM
2

yep. I typically get jealous of very handsome men or men who just have an easy time with girls. Seems really easy for them to get women and generally just scratch that itch so to speak. And I suppose I want that badly. It'd be nice not to have to put effort into finding a disirable partner I don't get jealous of guys with "hot" or very attractive wives/gf's. There's a lot of baggage that comes with having a very attractive partner
/r/ExRedPill14/11/21 10:36 PM
1

yeah but complaining about your kids going to school with black kids was generally cordoned off to southern states, as they were the only ones who had jim crow laws and thus had cultures that generally gave a shit about that sorta thing. Anywhere else in the country, sure you had a little racism, but it was nothing approximating 1950's mississipi. If you think otherwise, you should actually take a look at men from that time. I know many who let black people eat with their families without battin…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 07:26 PM
1

for a subsect of the southern US. not even their entire country let alone the world. Fucking reddit obsessing over 1950's race relations in a handful of southern states as if that's the only calamity to befall the human race
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 07:10 AM
1

I've known alot of old school men in my time. not one would seriously give a flying fuck if there kids went to school with a black kid
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 05:41 AM
2

Nah I disagree. Theres alot to be said about why not just men, but everyone is kinda shit nowadays. Theres alot to be said, but generally it just boils down to nobody gives a flying fuck anymore. It used to be that you lived by principle. Now everyone just does what feels good
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 09:19 PM
5

Tell him to see a therapist or you're leaving If I wasn't so compassionate I'd say leave him, and make it clear that TRP is the reason why
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 05:44 AM
6

From the women I've talked too online dating is alot harder than you'd think for a women. You can either be careful and vet people and see acouple people a month. Or you can just go out with whomever and get burnt really bad constantly. Most I know just give up because the sheer quality of men on there is complete dogshit
/r/ExRedPill10/11/21 02:43 AM
1

I literally just be myself during the interactions. Game is stupid
/r/seduction09/11/21 09:23 PM
1

Bro being good at fucking is incredibly easy. Its wayyyy easier than anyone makes it out to be, like people just seriously make it out to be super fucking complicated when it isn't. As a dude all you need to be is 1.relaxed and 2. be dominant ( for the first one just have more sex and you'll be more relaxed, for the second it usually develops naturally if you have a lot of sex so same as 1. even if you aren't relaxed if the chick is into you then it won't even matter
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 06:14 AM
17

I don't get what you're getting at? Anyone is in a position to lie at any given time whenever you're talking to them.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 06:02 AM
1

I don't have an issue xD I just can't find a women I'm interested in who's also interested. Most of the time I just ain't interested
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:20 PM
3

it truly is freeing. although its fuckin hard
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:13 PM
2

talk to them for longer bro wtf
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:09 PM
4

Ditch the mindset of needing to be something. if you can't get the girl being yourself then you 100% shouldn't have her, because whats gonna happen when she sees the real you? and finds that what you are isn't what shes really after? A healthy LTR is hard to get, alot needs to line up and most of the time it simply isn't going to work.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:06 PM
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You're on a forum (r/seduction) that is almost completely dedicated to helping guys fuck more. Its gonna attract the scum of the earth. But don't feel too badly, the center of hell is reserved for betrayers. I can't imagine it'll go well for these people if they get married, have affaris and get caught. or if they accidentally fuck the wrong married women and the husband comes and puts them in the hospital
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:59 PM
7

The ironic thing is a good women will have loyalty and isn't going to leave her man just because you have a nice house, good conversational skills and 17in arms
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:57 PM
5

fuck that is cringy
/r/ExRedPill04/11/21 01:16 AM
1

somewhere around 80
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:22 AM
2

This is by far the lowest ratio I've ever seen. Like veryyyyy fucking low most guys I know of get laid every 50ish approaches after they've killed the fear and worked out kinks in their approach (asking for number too early etc...) For me it was round 65 approaches to get laid. It could have been more if I found good locations to approach but covid greatly complicated things
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:17 AM
1

I know manyyyyy people who married before they were 21 and are very very happy
/r/ExRedPill27/10/21 12:13 AM
1

I watched a David tian video on how most rp coaches display some amount of pathological narcissism. Realized quick after that that these guys are just very hurt and that their opinion should be taken with a grain of salt
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 11:42 PM
2

God this sub is retarded
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 02:43 PM
4

At the same time, how many dudes do you see walking around with 18in arms and dickskin. its a rarity
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 04:07 AM
3

honestly great comparison I see gals have giant fake tits, fake lips, fake asses. and it is seriously disgusting. massive turnoff.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 04:07 AM
0

God that article is cringy
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 06:46 PM
1

https://www.gwern.net/docs/psychology/okcupid/raceandattraction20092014.html https://www.jstor.org/stable/10.1086/673129?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents https://www.researchgate.net/publication/326905666_Aspirational_pursuit_of_mates_in_online_dating_markets Some more recent ones
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 08:26 PM
2

your cousin is full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:06 PM
1

depends on where you are. I'm in my early 20's, in university and it seems most girls just want Weiner or a guy who gives them attention but they dump after couple months
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:45 PM
-1

Nope its true. and its fairly well documented from online dating data. https://www.icpsr.umich.edu/web/ICPSR/studies/36347 is one such study And anecdotally/personally (because if you don't or refuse to verify something in real life and only follow studies then you're a brainless sheep) black women are generally viewed as unattractive. Although on occasion I do see white guys with black girls, but they seem to lack confidence and physical attractiveness. sad sight ​ Here are some more for yall h…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 07:34 PM
5

No seriously. I'm gonna be bald as a bat in acouple years and I fully intend on just covering up my dome with fake hair. Better than lookin like a fucin egg
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 04:46 PM
1

My exs ex was ugly as sin. Just fat and looked like shit. But he managed to pull tons of girls because he funny and charismatic (he was also a drug dealer)
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 04:15 PM
4

Get a hairpiece
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 04:10 PM
9

I've yet to hear people use anything besides "beta" or "alpha" irl. If I heard someone say "betabux" I'd die laughing
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 12:44 AM
2

I like "women like emotions, just not emotional baggage". Makes alot of sense
/r/ExRedPill08/10/21 05:17 PM
1

I wanted the truth
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 01:17 AM
-3

Disrespect you how?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/21 11:44 PM
1

No it's ok man. I struggle with this question. Even when it comes to platonic relationships. I don't think this is a modern problem at all though. I've heard of this kinda relationship insecurity way back in the 60s
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 09:13 PM
1

I wouldn't say they got mixed up. I just became willing emotionally to overlook red flags and bad behavior
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 08:47 PM
3

I had that opportunity once. It was the day my ex gf left in a really sketchy way in the morning, I thought shed gone to see her ex. I went out with a budy that night when a 9/10 approached me and my friend with her friends, invited us for drinks. To my shame I accepted. Anyways, she was all over me (the 9/10). When we went to leave I decided not to go in the taxi with them, but my friend went. I guess I wanted to know that I had the option, but also wanted to take the high road and stay true to…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 08:26 PM
1

I'd be careful with the whole abusive ex thing. My ex was very toxic, and yet I still love her, and can really only see myself with her. Yet there are decent, good looking women who see this and are very upset because "they'd treat me right". When you fall in love with people its very easy to let abusive behaviour slip, because you've lost your ability to walk away
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 06:30 PM
1

Unfortunately I think you have a point. In my last relationship this was the case. We both didn't trust and as a result we both held back. Her moreso than me. But I still held back.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 12:09 AM
2

There's a difference between knowing and being A guy who knows might be really nice, but everyone generally gets the gut feeling to respectful
/r/ExRedPill01/10/21 01:50 AM
1

People won't take you seriously if you don't know how to be aggressive
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 08:58 PM
2

I'd ask her about it. maybe her dog died or some shit if she doesn't say anything or refuses to talk about it, than match her energy. go cold as well. You need to have the self respect to not chase someone who isn't sure they want to be with/involved with you
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 10:23 PM
0

I'm ex redpill and I like dropping by and share my 2 cents like anyone gives a flying fuck This wasn't ever really a sub for ex redpill recovery. its more of a debate forum. hence the gross intolerance. can't say I help though, I'm a huge hypocrite when it comes to this
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 10:08 PM
1

nah I find it helerious
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 04:01 PM
1

Fair enough actually. I always find the ftm transition stories kinda sad
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:50 PM
2

I ain't the one saying that men get zero attention from girls and that girls aren't really lonely because they get attention from men, just not the right men I'm simply demonstrating that you and men in general are in the same position as women
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:26 PM
2

Bruh how many 250lbs landwhales have you scofted at. Don't be a hypocrit ffs
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:13 PM
5

I've heard people say that you need to get to a point where you trust that you'll be alright if they do cheat. if you can't handle it then you probably shouldn't be thinking about relationships
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:03 PM
2

I 100% guarantee if you arent having your existence acknowledged then you're either not leaving the house or you're with the wrong people
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 02:47 PM
3

I've met almost as many lonely women as I've met lonely men. All you have to do is be a good listener and women will tell you all about how fucking lonely they are. Like if I had a nickle for every time I heard a girl say "I wish I just had a man I could share my feelings with" I'd be rather wealthy The loneliness in our world ain't exclusive to men in the slightest
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 08:07 PM
1

I'll never be free because I need to drink water and eat food to survive guess I'm a slave xD
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 07:59 PM
2

This is a place for ex manosphere folks. how are you surprised
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 07:57 PM
4

Eh they seem alot like TRP. I've met my fair share of women who've turned lesbian after bad experiences with men and it seems to me that they fall for the same trap that men do at times. Which is to associate bad behavior with the opposite gender instead of with people in general.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 07:56 PM
5

Better to let idiots speak and out themselves as retards then to shame them which only serves to bolster their resolve by creating or reinforcing a victimhood complex
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 07:51 PM
1

Shoot me a dm and I'll be very fucking honest with you
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 01:07 AM
11

This is good advice what are you talking about. Why would you want to be with someone who wasn't excited to be with you?
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 01:07 AM
2

I'd say they lost their ability to love when they became redpilled. because they lost their secure attachment, and I think its very hard to love someone when you cannot be securely attached
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 08:07 PM
1

Yeah. one of their pillars is "she'll never love you the way you love her"
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 07:29 PM
1

you (a man presumably) aren't loveable
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 07:18 PM
2

Can 100% confirm that having your own place makes dating/hooking up 100% easier.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 07:07 PM
1

From studies it seems men are more likely Anecdotally both genders are equally likely. It comes down to character traits
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 12:01 AM
2

Bruh in most scenarios I'm easily the most physically attractive man in the room (6'2, 205lbs ripped, 7-8/10 face, charming, clever, and funny) I do very well on tinder (~5 matches a day and they're above 6's). I often get referred to as a "chad" by guys and girls alike. and yet, with all of that my ex cheated on me with her bf who was 5'8, overweight, ugly, and stupid. Like the guy asked for handouts from her family and needed her to write him a CV because he couldn't do it himself. and she sti…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 05:20 PM
3

you don't trust her. break up, its literally over and is unfixable at this point
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 05:13 PM
1

Just waiting for the downvotes to roll in after this A sizable minority of users are female on this sub, good luck getting an honest, truthful answer from the majority of them though
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 12:13 AM
2

I personally have seen a pretty big difference in terms of how much attention I received from women before and after getting big. I also never noticed women finding me boring for following a diet. If anything they'd find it attractive, as long as it didn't take too much attention away from them. At the end of the day though, I've found that confidence and controlled aggression (argue this all you like, the number of women who've told me that aggression is hot is mind-boggling) is much more impor…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 12:10 AM
3

damn who the fuck do you surround yourself with bro
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 01:21 AM
3

Bruh. He was prescribed benzos by a psychiatrist because his wife was dying of surgical complications, and took it as prescribed. Then when he realized his doctor was full of shit he quit and he got fucked up from the withdrawals. He also follows his own advice and detaches himself from his kids to the point where demanding she stops posting her snatch on IG would be inappropriate.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 08:49 PM
1

You have to just accept it. To be jealous is to be human. The more you fight it, the more intense it becomes. Kinda like trying not to think of a purple elephant. The more you try not to think of it the more it pops into your mind. You can change your thinking though, which can minimize the amount of jealousy you feel
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 08:43 PM
1

Just don't let it become an obsession. see it as another chore
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 01:59 AM
1

I like this alot. Wayyy more practical then doing mental gymnastics
/r/seduction26/06/21 04:35 AM
1

Gotta keep reminding myself not to blame myself for their reactions. How does one kill their ego tho?
/r/seduction26/06/21 03:55 AM
18

You two were incompatible. If it happens often then maybe you're being too needy Generally a first date goes well if she's exited to have a second one with you
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:54 PM
8

An ideology like any other. A cheap twisting of the truth to fit a narrative preconceived by its inventors. It's dangerous
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 12:16 AM
2

It's 100x easier for your average girl to seduce someone compared to your average guy
/r/seduction22/06/21 07:02 PM
1

Going on sex apps excluding tinder seems real fucking creepy to me. Worse so than just asking strangers for sex
/r/seduction22/06/21 02:39 AM
1

Fair fair. Never had too much success off tinder. I mostly ask for drinks instantly and it worked better than messaging 3 or 4 times just to be ghosted. It's actually how I met my ex. In all fairness though my pictures were sorta shit, so I think I'd have more success with the ones I have now considering they're fucking great.
/r/seduction22/06/21 02:36 AM
1

Thanks for the insight! Getting the opinion of a girl instead of a guy's rough approximation is invaluable Im very good in bed. Always been pretty natural at it when I know the girl is dtf How do you communicate sex interest in a daygame cold approach? I've heard during nightgame a decent strategy is to straight up ask chick's at clubs but idk...
/r/seduction22/06/21 02:20 AM
1

I'm not in a relationship right now. Unfortunately haven't fucked since it ended a month a half ago and I'm getting desperate. Mostly because I know my ex is on tinder and getting it right now. I'm not begging women for sex though. I'm doing cold approaches. been on 7 dates (3 planned 5 instant) and haven't gotten sex from any. I think that it's because of neediness and I've been trying hard to get out of it. I know the general rule of thumb is, to be honest. But going up to strangers and asking…
/r/seduction22/06/21 01:36 AM
1

Women from a man's perspective have it made. Sex whenever they want it, never have to be alone, can sit back and do nothing letting the man work and its acceptable (stay at home wife). But women have to deal with far more negative emotion than men do generally. They feel far more vulnerable in the world and are generally far more insecure in my experience. So don't envy them too much, because while it seems they have everything they deal with alot on the emotional side of things that men just do…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 01:22 AM
5

No. Everything I've experienced in life has shown me that women love the same as men, sometimes much deeper
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 01:18 AM
1

When you can get what you want (In your case social validation) you won't give a fuck about the bigger fish
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:30 PM
1

I hate it when people don't answer questions. But I'm going to be a hypocrit Women flake all the time. Get used to it
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:28 PM
1

That you don't give a single fuck about being alpha or beta Also not asking this question
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:25 PM
3

You need to do cold approaches Ftfy Google "mpmd PUA". He explains very well why you need to do this
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:27 AM
2

Cold approachs
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:16 AM
-4

Go to r/seduction and learn how to properly, respectfully and honestly cold approach women. Shit is magic when you get good
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 11:30 PM
2

Love isn't rational I know my ex was NOT right for me. In almost any way, I know there are way better women out there for me. But I love her and right now nobody even compares in the slightest
/r/seduction18/06/21 06:54 PM
9

without hesitation I would tell the husband. I have a rule that whenever I see infeielity I have to point it out. I fucking hate cheating I fucking hate it
/r/seduction18/06/21 02:44 AM
3

depends on where the conversation goes. I never initiate an intimate conversation directly. I just open up slowly about myself and let the other open slowly. Asking probing questions proportional in emotional magnitude to the willingness of the other to open up. Its all-natural and I never think when I'm doing it, I just let my curiosity and natural social ability do the work. And if they aren't ready then I don't go there. An example might be family She might ask about my brothers. I'll share y…
/r/seduction18/06/21 02:34 AM
2

I think if you play the numbers game right you'll have more than enough women who want to be with you more than you with them
/r/seduction18/06/21 02:27 AM
2

If she ran off to a man with bpd than she was doing you a huge favor leaving
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 11:53 PM
-2

80/20 I've seen personally and in the psychological literature countless times. It also just makes intuitive sense when sex is more risky/less stimulating to women
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 10:54 PM
1

I feel like given what you shared it makes sense what happened She wasn't really into the relationship, then a problem came up and why bother trying to fix it if she didn't give a fuck. May as well just move onto the next
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 10:06 PM
1

What'd she lie about?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 09:50 PM
1

Oof I'm sorry that happened to you man. At least she was honest
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 08:36 PM
2

I've seen it happen to me, men and women. For me personally the excitement of the relationship wore off and I just didn't feel the same way. In my experience this is what happens to others. The excitement dies down and they realize they don't really like the person. So they leave
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 07:14 PM
1

I like that
/r/seduction15/06/21 04:37 PM
1

Oof... mine has 1.4mil so I'm hoping that I don't run into the sane issues as yall
/r/seduction15/06/21 04:28 PM
1

How big the city?
/r/seduction15/06/21 01:19 PM
1

How big the city you live in?
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:15 AM
1

How many approaches have you done?
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:05 AM
6

It all depends on the conversation. I just tell the truth. If they asked if I had an STD and I did I'd tell them I did. Do drugs? sure Just looking to get laid? yep not that any of them have asked things like this on the first approach I think where this shines most is with insecurity and emotions. When you can open up from a place of confidence they find that very very enduring. Like I sat down with this one gal, and we got to talking about my ex (we were talking for a long time at this point),…
/r/seduction11/06/21 06:24 PM
15

When I cold approach I make a point of telling the truth, even if it means not getting the date or whatever. I find that it works insanely well. Women LOVE when a guy is just honest with them for once, instead of hiding who they really are in a bid to come off as manly. It's a huge relief to them and they love you for it.
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:39 PM
1

Their dogma is a response to fear. It's hard for your average person to have empathy for those they're also actively threatened by
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 07:50 PM
8

You shouldn't just get into it was a waste of time women because "oh well everyone gets a broken heart at least once" It's better to get your heart broken by a girl who was actually worth your time. Someone with long term potential and not a thot A broken heart takes a long time to heal. It isn't worth getting one over a girl who just wanted quick sex
/r/seduction07/06/21 05:21 PM
1

Did it for first time acouple days ago. I decided on the girl I wanted to chat up. Went up and did the approach like it was a single girl with the exception that when I called her pretty, I mentioned "and your friends" as well. If a conversation started I would have asked for all their names, while paying most of my attention to the girl I was interested in. Pretty simple, just pay most of your attention to the one your interested in but make sure to include the others from time to time so they …
/r/seduction07/06/21 04:36 PM
4

That should happen over the right women. Not some thot
/r/seduction07/06/21 04:30 PM
10

Like everyone said. Be careful you don't fall in love
/r/seduction07/06/21 12:57 AM
2

Seems like it was created by exredpillers but is overrun by people who were never red pilled and are here to simply push forward their own ideology. It's fucking annoying
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 05:01 PM
1

I don't think this is exclusive to women. My brother is a good example. Typical "alpha" type. Handsome, highly highly intelligent, very popular, especially with women, very confident. First string of girls he dated were toxic as fuck and abusive emotionally. As he matured more and learned what he wanted he found better and better women till he meet his wife.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 10:33 PM
1

There is quite a bit right about it. Quite a bit incorrect.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 10:21 PM
1

You can hold boundaries and have the ability to walk away.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 10:11 PM
1

Masculinity that arises from a conscious effort to act masculine. Natural masculinity arises from a confidence you have in yourself to get what you want out of life (which is quite a complex concept). Toxic masculinity comes from people skipping the learning of how to actually effect change in their lives and goes straight to plastering fake behaviors on top of their fragile egos.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 09:33 PM
1

I think it's one of the best ways to build confidence as a man. Just make sure you're being genuine and honest. Also if you aren't a handsome man, invest into your appearance before you start
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 09:30 PM
2

Saw a David Tian video that pretty much outlined that redpillers are a bunch of broken, sexually unsuccessful men with ego problems. really opened my eyes to how damn insecure and toxic that whole place is
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 05:09 PM
2

I'm pretty convinced that every time you have sex with a women who means nothing at all too you, you die a little inside and vice versa
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 05:07 PM
1

Bruh...
/r/seduction02/06/21 12:07 PM
1

If the lady you marry wouldn't marry you because of a hair piece why marry her? From what I gather most spouses really don't give a fuck
/r/seduction02/06/21 11:50 AM
1

Why? If you buy one of decent quality, nobody will be able to detect it, it can be literally anything you want (curly, black, blonde etc...) and you never have to worry about it coming off inadvertently. Sounds wayyyy better than having zero dating/sex options
/r/seduction01/06/21 11:23 PM
2

Get a hairpiece lmao
/r/seduction01/06/21 11:10 PM
1

Seems like to much work tbh. I'd rather just approach a ton of people
/r/seduction30/05/21 09:06 PM
1

Pretty disingenuous if you're just looking to date tbh
/r/seduction30/05/21 08:51 PM
2

Canada. Id recommend going with a friend and doing this. Especially one who will push you to do it
/r/seduction30/05/21 08:00 PM
2

None. The first approach told me somewhat rudely that she wasn't interested but later apologized. the other ones who rejected me were super flattered and let me know that I made their day
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:57 PM
2

thanks, man. It helps to be motivated and knowing what you're going to say. My opener is generally "Hey, I was doing XYZ and saw you, I thought you were pretty so I thought I'd come introduce myself" If they want to have a conversation its a tad more tricky tho.
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:47 PM
1

what do you mean?
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:40 PM
1

Oof
/r/seduction24/05/21 10:28 PM
4

Just got into cold approaching last week. Only done two so far, both with masks. Already got a date (if she doesn't flake)
/r/seduction24/05/21 09:11 PM
1

Starting out. Going off mpmd advice I think I need someone who is going to push me to do approaches and who might possibly give me feedback
/r/seduction22/05/21 12:36 AM
1

Yes but its a rarity, definitely not justifying the majority of the users on this sub being women
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 02:40 AM
1

maybe a anti-TRP sub should be made, then our's would be left alone? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 04:20 AM
3

don't worry about being insecure, it's part of being a human, don't be ashamed. I'd try to stick up for yourself. Refuse to do shit that you don't want to do, but don't be a dick. When she realizes that you'll put up and fight for what you want, she'll respect you more and become more attracted to you. Guaranteed. There is also a chance she won't like it and leave. In which case that's perfect. You want a partner who'll respect you, and not feel dominant in the relationship.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 03:53 AM
1

I've heard it said before on TRP forums that "women want an alpha" "men want a haram" IDK, when I get attached to a chick I don't feel like being with any others tbh
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 03:45 AM
3

Nah it isn't just you. Its pretty fucking annoying, I'd rather just talk with guys who've broken free from the brainwashing as opposed to a bunch of feminists who don't like TRP. This isn't a anti TRP sub its an ex TRP sub
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 03:41 AM
1

Again. It's all implication
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 01:45 PM
1

It does say you aren't good enough, just indirectly. With all the "do this do that or she'll leave" shit.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 01:41 PM
5

I live in a small town outside a major city. If I want to do anything social I pretty much have to drive around 40m. 1.5hr isn't too much of a stretch, just do it
/r/seduction11/04/21 11:08 PM
1

chances are if this is the first time hanging out with her and its just the two of you she defiantly wants romance or a good fuck
/r/seduction09/04/21 06:27 PM
1

The untrustworthiness is easy because I know I don't cheat, so I'll just have to be more open with my phone, not being insecure about all the weird shit on it. My inability to trust is another. I have a therapist and he's basically said that I have to take a leap of faith with people. And I suppose I did with her and it turned out alright, I definitely was not thinking straight through a lot of it. I think finding someone who is worthy of trust (doesn't still have feelings, not necessarily love …
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 04:08 PM
1

I feel like TRP thinks this way because they've put women into a totally different class than men, when both genders share alot of behaviors. They think playing dreadgame will make a girl crazy over you because its so "masculine" when in reality they simply are craving your intimacy because you aren't giving it. Like how dogs love you more if you don't pay attention to them but are distant when you are too affectionate. It's fucking emotionally manipulative/abusive and convinces me even more tha…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 01:02 PM
2

I just say fuck it and try to be myself. Sometimes that means being emotional but whatever. I feel like if you own it your girl might even find your confidence in being so vulnerable attractive. Either way a girl who doesn't like your emotions should shown to the street ASAP. no point dating someone you cannot be yourself around
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 12:51 PM
1

Projection
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 12:45 PM
1

Peoples identities are largely in part constructed based on their emotions "John is an angry man", "Sally is a anxious women", "John is adventurous" etc... what you like is emotional, how you feel about the world is emotional. Its very important
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 12:43 PM
1

My cousin was approached by her husband at a gas station. He thought she was beautiful so he went and asked her out. She said yes and now they have 3 kids and have been married close to 10 years. I know of other people who met the same way. The guy just went up and asked her out, was direct about it. Girl liked it and they were happy ever since. So with that said I think it's good and more men should do it. I've had luck with it before. Just don't try and make conversation where there isn't one,…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 01:59 PM
2

Depends what you mean by high functions autism. I know plenty of aspies who were good womanizers. Know some who are basement dwellers. The successful ones were outgoing
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 01:24 PM
5

For me? She still was dealing with the emotional detritus of her previous relationship. I wasn't sure she was ready for a new one. I also think our personalities were incompatible. Like we always had a great time, laughing and giggling but she didn't talk easily because she was shy, I need a girl who can keep a conversation going. For her? My inability to trust, my jealousy, and my untrustworthiness in addition to her still having feelings from her previous relationship and general poor mental h…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 01:54 PM
3

rich cooper gave me those vibes too. cheated on, horrible divorce. knowing his personality he probably had alot to do with that happening, especially since she cheated on him after a bad argument
/r/ExRedPill23/02/21 03:54 AM
1

I'd forget about your beliefs and his. Focus on healing the wounds that he received from your father and the kids in high school. This is far more important because I think when he's at peace with who he is then he'll discard TRP ideology and childish behavior like a crutch when someone can walk on their own again.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/21 05:52 PM
1

In my social life? Women don't want relationships, they just want to hookup and be with the "alpha". Made for many cringy escapades where women would profess their interest in me, only for me to just try and have sex before we even date. Needless to say, they're disgusted and walk-off. Psychologically? All women cheat and women don't really love you.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 07:23 PM
7

You'd be surprised at the number of women who just want relationships in university. Sure they want to fuck but afterwards they want to start dating and shit. The majority of the time they won't have sex with you till you start dating I usually don't get insecure as long as the girl is attracted to me (gets wet during sex, initiates sex, cums during sex) and wants to spend time with me
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 06:54 PM
-2

Listen to jordan peterson on "being too nice" hes got a good portion about it on the jocko willink podcast
/r/ExRedPill18/12/20 04:34 AM
1

Dude, lots of incels and blackpillers are just aspies who dont understand people. They compensate for this by using science (it appeals to their quantitative nature). Truth is no matter what it is, science doesnt perfectly break down humans very well. It can identify trends but there tend to be many exceptions because people are unique. Dont make the mistake of trying to understand what can only be understood with experience by reading and not getting experience. And by experience I mean actuall…
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 03:08 PM
1

You can predict everything their gonna say
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 03:04 PM
1

Ohhhh yeah. I kinda like it, in the sense that it's a challenge to overcome and will make me braver and more of a man
/r/seduction27/10/20 01:40 AM
7

Should you really be taking relationship advice from a guy who was divorced 4 times?
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 02:17 PM
1

They aren't wrong here, workout and learn to be confident it is because if you're dating the right girl its painless and very fulfilling. Red pillers have dating experience with the kind of women you need to steer clear of (see #7) plenty. minus the "they will never really love you" and "they will cheat on you if they find a better man". Reality is a women worth dating will stay loyal as long as you're meeting her needs (making her feel special, being the best (not perfect) you can be) not true …
/r/ExRedPill09/10/20 12:59 AM
12

I'd recommend focusing on the mental illness in TRP. Mainly how it generates, enables and idolizes mental illness, namely narcissistism. If TRPers see that their in a trap of using women to cover up their psychological wounds, and that escaping means learning to be confident without the input of others then "maybe" you'll help some. Unfortunately though many will never because their narcissism is too rewarding
/r/ExRedPill09/10/20 12:34 AM
1

I think it's important to find a partner to have a family and spend your life with. But until the divorce laws are changed I'm never signing a marriage contract.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 12:41 AM
1

this is delusional. the vast majority of girls (just like men) are gonna like the same traits albeit with a little nuance. meaning that most girls like a guy with a handsome face, some muscle and height. Some might not prefer height while for others its a deal breaker. Telling some guy that he should just "be confident" and screw your personal hygiene and fitness is endorsing a disney fairytale
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 10:11 PM
1

He does but thats delusion. Believing you're attractive is great but actually being attractive will do this guy 10x more than just being confident
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 05:38 PM
3

I like the second red flag alot
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 03:47 PM
0

what if he "loves" his body at 300lbs but keeps getting horribly rejected?
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 03:36 PM
0

tell that to the guy who's 300lbs of lard and not much else man. Girls like a bold dudes but hell they also want a handsome, physically attractive one
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 03:32 PM
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not on reddit, go out and live your life, do stuff where you'll meet new people, just don't date in the workplace eat, sleep and lift. then diet down when you have enough muscle under all of the fat see 1 girls who fall in love extremely fast, party girls (narcissists), in general the more experience you collect the more you'll be able to know what kind of girls to avoid without even needing to think about it go and date expect to go and meet some interesting people, I don't like to expect sex t…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 03:29 PM
2

White knighting
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 06:52 PM
1

That's prejudice
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 04:27 PM
1

Well I'd be prejudice then if my perceptions were unreasonable. But there not so I dont get what you're on about
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 03:14 PM
1

People on reddit really do find the stupidest shit they can to call you "bigoted", "misogynist" or otherwise "prejudice". How is not wanting a toxic relationship prejudice in anyway my dude. And the fact so many people are popping happy pills just goes to show how sick our society really is. But I guess that's what happens when mental illness is romanticized
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 02:20 PM
1

doesn't have to be a bar. just somewhere where its socially acceptable to approach women
/r/ExRedPill13/09/20 12:56 AM
2

go to bar (bars are good but it doesn't have to be one) wait till you catch a girl looking at you wait till you catch her looking again (bonus if she looks away quickly) go and chat with said girl ask for her number so you can get coffee or just ask a girl you know on a date not rocket science
/r/ExRedPill12/09/20 10:36 PM
2

"people don't have ideas, ideas have people"
/r/ExRedPill12/09/20 09:04 PM
2

go date healthy women and see for yourself. don't be asking a bunch of randoms (half of whom are obviously not exredpillers) about something when you really should be going and seeing for yourself
/r/ExRedPill12/09/20 09:03 PM
11

That's a Freudian slip you cannot love something you are simultaneously threatened by (with the obvious exclusion of something like a fathers discipline etc...) if these people cannot love women because they "understand" them then they must feel threatened by them. This is the whole redpill conundrum
/r/ExRedPill12/09/20 09:00 PM
1

I think the 80/20 rule exists because women have naturally lower sex drives than men. not because of hypergamy. Give a woman androgens (testosterone, DHT etc...) and their sexual behavior start to mirror that of a mans. So it wouldn't make sense to see that in gay men and we don't see it. I wouldn't opt out of dating women tho, just takes a bit more effort is all
/r/ExRedPill12/09/20 12:20 AM
1

thanks man
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 11:57 PM
1

not really because I was a pretty troubled teen and got into with some not so healthy women (like attracts like right). Lifting weights is a really good way to make yourself more attractive. Went from basically getting zero attention from average looking girls to getting glares from some very beautiful women as soon as I started to look like I lifted
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 11:47 PM
2

Some of the weakest men have had the displeasure of meeting have had both lots of money (from mommy and daddy) and plenty of guns. yet they couldn't do a honest days work without quitting on the first day
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 11:24 PM
1

Advice on how to be actually strong As many who go through difficult times (concentration camps, survival situations, injuries, war) and the greatest psychologist to ever live said. "Someone with a why can withstand almost anything, possibly everything". Think about your "why" in life, what you get up for every day. If you find a good enough "why" (which is usually those you love) you'll find the strength you never knew you had. also, I don't believe the "strong men create good times" shtick alt…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 11:17 PM
1

pretty much. In all the groups of friends I've had over the years it was like the one obviously handsome guy got most of the women and everyone else got wayyy less sex, thats just how it is with hookups. Dating is different though, as long as me and my friends were in a good place and happy we all had "some" dating options.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 11:00 PM
19

That's the very reason I left TRP. They advocated plastered fake confidence while not addressing deeper issues. unfortunately, I think many forsake the idea of really liking who they are so all they are left with is bolstering a fake persona. its a real shame
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 10:56 PM
1

I havent really seen the orbiter thing alot, I have seen guys try and earn women (white knighting) but I also have seen and had women do the same to me 80/20 rule is undoubtably true 100% in my experience. But that more so applies to sex. Dating is less so skewed because looks aren't as important
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 10:47 PM
1

No, I'm not. Hence why I left trp because some of their ideas made me depressed so I decided I'd just figure things out based on my experience. I don't read dating advice on the internet. I just go and live my life and see what happens. And I just so found that you shouldn't date women who are depressed/anxious enough to be on meds because the chances that the relationship could turn into a codependent mess was always way too high
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 04:45 PM
1

If people are going to dismiss redpill ideas (which mine aren't by the way, their mine and nobody told me to think that way) in a black and white fashion then maybe they should think about why they left. Maybe they feared some of the views forwarded and left to go bury their heads in the sand. Kinda like people who fled to TRP in the first place
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 02:27 PM
1

god people on this sub really only read what they want to read
/r/ExRedPill10/09/20 03:58 PM
1

Maybe you should learn what real empathy looks like my dude
/r/ExRedPill10/09/20 03:11 PM
2

The incels, the alpha/beta mentality, the advocacy for fakeness, the inability to see the grey area in life
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 09:39 PM
2

the truth of TRP is in a grey area, some of it is true, some of it isn't. Don't listen to people on this sub. Go out and explore the world and see for yourself
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 09:38 PM
3

firstly you clearly aren't ugly because you've been dating a good amount man so there's that. Secondly, I'd say that TRP might not be your issue but what lead you to TRP could be. Sounds like its low self-esteem. learn to accept your strengths and weaknesses and your true, happier personality will come out and I promise you'll get better results
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 09:36 PM
0

I mean I was at one point considered an "at risk teen" and managed to pull myself out of it by fixing my mental health so I think that qualifies somewhat
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 09:23 PM
-2

weird how yall are getting so offend by this. arm chair psychology isn't psychology that's gathered from personal experience, rather its psychology that is learned from a book or computer, hence the arm chair. so really interpreting field data is about as far away from armchair psychology that it gets. I think about things the way I do so that I can live an easier life, not to feed some narrative of mine. I don't have one, why would I? I stopped subscribing to TRP because their narrative destroy…
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 09:21 PM
-1

I mean I'd say the same to a women who asked about men, that they shouldn't date men with depression or anxiety. the advice is largely non gender specific
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 09:19 PM
0

I guess you just missed the neaunce. I tend to accidentally leave out alot of information and it insults people unfortunately. By "attention seekers" I mean the girls who want a "trophy husband( or boyfriend)" to feed their ego. They wont really love you, they'll just love the attention they get from being with you. Nothing wrong with liking validation. Just be careful dating girls who live for it
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 06:04 PM
-5

In my experience you shouldn't date women on meds. Just a tragedy waiting to happen
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 05:28 PM
-6

I get the armchair psychology thing, its quite hard to explain with words. With reading a women it's like reading an animals behaviour. You can try to explain to someone how an animal is feeling, whether he's at ease or getting ready to attack, but without the experience and being able to "feel" a person/situation it sounds just like conjecture and overanalysing. I've used to think I was overthinking peoples behaviour till I kept being proven correct.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 05:09 PM
-3

fucking hell chill out man. the guy is clearly looking to date someone who will be good for him. I've been with lots of girls who have "depression" and "anxiety" issues, which have nothing to due with being good or bad person, but in my experience mental health issues are usually the tip of the iceberg and there's usually something festering underneath that you don't want to take on yourself. couple that with attachment issues and feelings that everyone hates them the chances of the girl having …
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 05:05 PM
-27

Learn to psychoanalyze. Its always been easy for me so I've never really gotten into it with broken chicks. Really all you need to look out for is. Girls on anxiety medication and or say their depressed/anxious. Girls with attachment issues and or think everyone hates them (NEVER EVER DATE WOMEN WHO ARE LIKE THAT) Girls with cunty friends. Girls who are drama queens and or treat those beneath them like shit. Girls who seek validation. Girls who are too clingy and girls who identify too heavily w…
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 02:45 PM
1

The people are largely the problem. TRP is about 50% true in my experience. It's just the bitter old men and incels who devalue women and men in a bid to save themselves from heartbreak (women are whores and most men aren't good enough). It can rub off on you in a bad way like it did with me. I mean just go over to trp and you can see it's such a festering shithole. Mostly just posts flexing about how some guy raw dogged a girl with daddy issues and some how that proves AWALT
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 02:39 PM
5

That and we should like ourselves. We shouldn't need others to give us self esteem. Many red pillers fall into the trap of using women to boost there self esteem
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 03:12 PM
5

I'd be careful. "Loving aloneness" and "loving yourself" sound great but it's a fact that the quality of personal relationships is the only predictor of happiness. It's also a fact that inmates who are put in solitary for extended periods develop PTSD like symptoms from the lack of social contact. We humans need social contact, we need to feel connected to others emotionally or we tend to go insane
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 02:59 PM
5

Ask
/r/ExRedPill06/09/20 11:04 PM
2

there are no bad women. only bad people
/r/ExRedPill06/09/20 06:47 PM
0

learn to fight if you haven't already
/r/askTRP05/09/20 04:50 PM
1

let your guard down, be vulnerable. If you come off as guarded then she'll think you're up to something and will think that's creepy. If you just relax then your emotions will flow freely and she will be able to reciprocate. It works great for hookups, you don't need to say too much overtly sexual early on because once you start getting turned on and your unconscious expressions start to change she'll notice that and could possibly reciprocate. You may think that sounds stupid but do you ever te…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 04:48 PM
1

Unfortunately you have to earn your testosterone and modern life just doesn't require men to have normal levels of testosterone. everyone is coddled and pussified. back maybe 60-70 years ago I'd say look at your broad health but nowadays its just too hard and disruptive to get test into a good range. Pay for private labs or go see a mens clinic
/r/askTRP02/09/20 10:30 PM
0

"societal conditioning" is bullshit. Women wanting strong men is pretty stable across cultures. I wouldn't date till you have made good progress figuring this shit out because it'll just lead to a slew of codependency/narcissism issues that will delay your recovery. Also, don't listen to psychologists who tell you that CPTSD or BPD, NPD are not curable, they are it will just take years of work
/r/ExRedPill02/09/20 09:27 PM
1

get bloodwork total test, free test, estradiol, SHGB if it's low don't bother boosting it with herbs just start TRT. Also, quit mincing your meat all together
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:15 PM
8

it sucks that in the modern neoliberal hellscape that we inhabit we don't have a true rite of passage (no going to college isn't a rite of fucking passage and neither is getting your driver's license). The closest thing we have is getting your dick wet in a vagina for the first time but that isn't even difficult, most of the time its thrown at you. Back in the age of blood and iron men had to go out into the woods with no water or food and have visions, they had to slay lions singlehandedly, end…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:10 PM
1

maybe this girl treated you like shit because you weren't being all you could be as a man which is really pathetic. If you had true self-confidence and self-esteem you really wouldn't care if a girl you're dating rode some cock back in the day. guys get their dicks wet all the time yet I never hear women say that a man is spoiled if he slept around alot back in the day.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 07:56 PM
1

I was like a child in a grown up body Well maybe its time to turn into a real man then
/r/askTRP01/09/20 07:40 PM
1

There are many evil people in the world, learn to spot and avoid them. forgetting is hard, but you just have to be the bigger man and move on, getting into a pissing contest with evil people is a recipe for needless destruction. If that doesn't help just remember that you don't even need to get revenge. someone that pathetic and cowardly must live such a shitty life that their evil behavior is its own punishment
/r/askTRP01/09/20 07:03 PM
8

be natural man. be confident in what you're saying even if it sounds retarded or bluepilled or whatever. its better to not be ashamed of what you're saying. personally I'd have to know the context. if it was casual and I liked the girl then I'd say something playful like "fuck no!, I don't know why I'm even with you right now" obviously sarcastic so she knew that I liked her. If it was serious and there was tension in the relationship then I'd just be as honest as I could be.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:51 PM
2

if you're suicidal then you shouldn't be thinking about getting into relationships. Fix your mental health issues and the good women will come
/r/ExRedPill28/08/20 08:00 PM
2

yep. constantly was made to feel like relationships with women were doomed from the start and were essentially pointless because "AWALT" and "she's gonna cheat eventually bro". Also the cognitive dissonance was intense. Being told that all women are cheating lying whores but then seeing and being with plenty of nice, faithful, feminine women who just want a guy to be more emotionally intimate with really threw my brain for a loop. I strongly believe that RPers really just attract the absolute sc…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/20 07:58 PM
2

dude if you can't tell the difference between crying at the death of a family member and crying because you're suicidal then you're kinda retarded
/r/ExRedPill28/08/20 03:20 PM
2

firstly learn to fight. secondly, you've probably got deep self esteem issues caused from the bullying (possibly something even earlier in childhood, you never know). learn to derive your self esteem internally, learn to accept and value who you are, even the faults. if you're finding this difficult try not to judge yourself by society's standards, but your own. lastly like everyone else said, exposure therapy
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:48 AM
2

yeah pretty much. I hear all about this shit online but almost never in real life do I hear stories like this. and when I do I'm not surprised because the women is "not of high moral caliber" and the guy should have seen it. I'm not surprised that many RPers run into these issues. having deeply rooted emotional issues (like a good amount of them seem to have) will cause you to attract similar types of people. In their case, attention whores, insta thots, and any girl who generally is looking for…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/20 03:42 AM
5

not sure what kinda emotions you're holding back but most chicks (the ones worth dating) like when men show emotional sensitivity because it makes for a more emotionally intimate relationship. If you're telling your gf that you're having suicidal thoughts or something of similar emotional significance tied to mental health then I ain't surprised if she leaves you if she's emotionally healthy herself. Hell I'd dump a girl who's suicidal. You can't fix anyone and it ain't worth wasting time over.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/20 03:33 AM
5

I think the self improvement part might be the most sinister part of all. Alot of it seems to be compensation for what they believe is a "beta" personality. There rejecting and condemning who they really are and dawning a fake "alpha" persona. Sometimes it works but really it's only distracting them from a deeper pain that fills them with emptiness and unfullfillment. I dont get why none of them promote owning who you are. They'd get all the alpha traits they desire plus actual lasting happiness…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 03:58 PM
3

I'd like to add as well that alot of the people on this sub tend to throw the baby out with the bathwater. Trp has some truth to it but some of us cannot see it. It's like they've been fooled twice. First for believing in the red pill unquestionably second for believing trp is completely false. It's like one ideology was just swapped out for another and an underlying impulse wasnt sorted out In the process
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 01:05 AM
0

Women have an unconscious urge to be dominated. It's a character trait they find attractive
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 12:59 AM
4

I cry from lonileness. I am entering the incel and forever alone mindset knowing no girl will like a friendless loner even if he is physically decent looking. I am extremely weird for having no friends at my age. I feel like everyone around me is enjoying their life but I'm not. I don't meet friends at work. I barely get matches on apps. I can't meet people my age where I live. I feel like I will spend my life as a socially inept inexperienced loser. I'm worried I'm destined for sadness. That's …
/r/ExRedPill25/08/20 07:24 PM
2

please do post it again. great information hear
/r/ExRedPill24/08/20 11:41 PM
4

Aaron Clarey maybe an asshole, but hes a smart asshole and I'm glad I listened to a lot of his videos back in the day because he has a lot of wisdom to share (Life is about others and not yourself. don't center your life on your career, use your career so you can afford to do things that give you joy. learn to be emotionally and financially independent of your parents and your spouse, to name a few) He definitely gave me a kick in the ass when I needed it and it changed my life for the better. w…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/20 11:27 PM
1

Ran into David Tian as a result of getting into red pill thinking. Made me realize that I myself was dealing with some very deep insecurity/covert narcissism which I've made good progress in healing.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/20 01:00 AM
3

I'm pretty lucky because I'm 6'2 already but whenever it comes up in a conversation and I ask almost all girls will say they won't date a guy who's shorter but that's about it. being tall helps like having a good pair of tits helps but that's about it. no need to be insecure about height my dude.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/20 12:39 AM
8

you feel threatened by women as a result of what you've been taught. Just go and live your life and forget about the redpill bullshit. Should clear any of that crap up
/r/ExRedPill12/08/20 03:26 AM
6

great solution is to see a therapist lmao
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 03:05 PM
1

I'd say in my experience more girls see sex the way you do than men.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/20 06:00 PM
2

I guess its how you worded your OP, sounds a lot like slave morality. If you're not insecure just go do meetup groups or some shit, just don't make the mistake of thinking university girls are representative of all girls. I know plennnnnnttttty of chicks who have a more refined view of fucking
/r/ExRedPill30/07/20 05:44 PM
3

You sound really insecure dude. What you're saying is "I don't feel like I measure up to the frat boys so any girl who sleeps around with them is going to think that I'm not good enough" I've seen it before all the time with red pillers and incels. if you were secure with yourself you wouldn't care about that shit at all because if she did cheat it wouldn't hurt your ego (maybe you'd be sad about losing someone but that's different than taking it as a judgment of who you are). Also with the "The…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/20 04:41 PM
3

About your bitterness towards women, think about this. A chick is going clubbing with her friends. before she wore jeans, a shirt that covered her tits and no makeup, she didn't get tons of male attention and the little she did get were from guys she wasn't attracted too. Now this time she goes in a crop top, pushup bra, miniskirt and makeup. Now every dude wants to grind her ass and bring her home. She goes home with a dude she finds attractive, fucks him. They go on one or two dates but only t…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/20 04:26 PM
1

Incorporate Never sign a marriage contract if you're a man Girls want a physically attractive man Ignore Pretty much everything else. A philosophy that tends to have a net gaining effect on bitterness and fearfulness should be ignored in favor of the philosophy that strengthens, encourages, and doesn't flee from reality and pain with sweeping generalizations. The saddest part of TRP is that if a man has confidence in who he is ,"""alpha""" traits come out naturally. No need for phony pseudo masc…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 11:22 PM
1

I love psychology as a hobby but would never take it as an undergrad. If you can't get into a masters program then you're pretty much fucked. Try studying something that can get you employed with just an undergrad like engineering or computer science. Even with these you can still go and get a psychology masters (although it would be helpful to get a minor in psych). As for the courses, they seem intriguing although my psych major friends tell me a lot of their professors inject a lot of far-lef…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 11:09 PM
1

I disagree. Many men have poor experiences with women and are left heartbroken and bitter. There definently is some trauma in some you hear but they definently not the majority
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 05:20 PM
1

David Tian is pretty spot on however. he just see TRP for what it is which is insecurity wrapped in pseudo masculinity. quite a lot of the observations TRP makes are true but tainted which is why almost every RPer I've met is bitter as hell
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 03:28 PM
1

you can't. you have to wait till the bitterness is too much and they give up.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 03:25 PM
18

I really hate to say it, you need to have self respect man. leave and never turn back. if she's fuckin dudes but "loves" you she doesn't love you. she's likely telling you that because she feels bad and doesn't want to have a confrontation. Be a man and fucking walk away and find a nice chick who'll actually love because they are out there, you just have to look
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 02:59 AM
2

TRP is great in some respects but I find it often doesn't 1. prescribe the right treatments, 2. It doesn't look into things on a deeper level, and 3. doesn't see the grey area when it comes to the behavior of women (AWALT). Also as a general rule of thumb "Gain in wisdom can be directly measured by a decrease in bitterness" Fredrick Nietzsche. This rule is incredibly true whether you realize it now or not. TRP/MGTOW is incredibly bitter and downright resentful towards women. And as such, they sh…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 02:50 AM
1

covert narcissism mostly. I find they are right about some things. for example women don't want needy men, or sexually desperate men. They in general want a man who is confident with himself and in tune with his emotions. So instead of teaching men to accept and love themselves they advocate a cheap facade of confidence and potency that really just masks incredible insecurity and deep feelings of inferiority. They say you have to play a women's "games" like passing shit tests etc... yet they don…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/20 03:45 PM
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