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Defend. Explain. Excuse. Rationalize.
/r/askRPC07/02/24 07:46 AM
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You better hope you’re not wrong about my “imaginary friend” The irony in what you said is hilarious. All this sub does is insult people who want to do better. He asked a question I gave him the most obvious and honest answer.
/r/askMRP23/07/23 02:02 PM
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The easiest most obvious answer to get married is if you’re a Christian and believe in God and the teachings of the Bible and not a bunch of fat wanna be alphas on a subreddit, who’s only advice is to stop being a pussy and lift. Oh and if you want to utilize the benefits like providing for your family by giving your wife health insurance, etc.
/r/askMRP23/07/23 03:26 AM
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Thank you. This was a good breakdown
/r/askMRP28/11/22 04:20 PM
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I’ve laid out exceptions in the past and it turns into her making excuses for her laziness. Blaming it on not feeling well. Actually said “I never clean the kitchen when she comes home from work” which is the biggest crock of shit in the world. She then stormed off saying she wishes she would die and not have to feel this way. It’s insane. Idk how to manage that. Other than STFU and keep doing all the work. While she sits around and continues to make a mess and be a push over. Get someone to tel…
/r/askMRP27/11/22 07:43 PM
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Thank you. I still have them books. Great response
/r/askMRP27/11/22 03:17 PM
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Well said. I miss the times when jackten was on here and those guys.
/r/askMRP27/11/22 03:13 PM
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I wouldn’t say I’ve been applying everything for years. I was a part of the community years ago. And like I mentioned I know I need a refresher. A lot has stuck with me. But my anger is something I’d like to change. I’m trying to STFU to avoid emotional out burst in myself because it just feels good to get it out. I know it isn’t healthy and quite a female way of responding to this stuff. If I was smacked in the Face I would probably flip the fuck out like I’m doing now. All I know is there’s be…
/r/askMRP27/11/22 06:48 AM
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Carnivore diet bro.
/r/askMRP27/06/22 05:01 AM
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Dude just say “I’m was going to propose to X. I’d love your blessing” Who gives a fuck about being dominate to the girls father. This is full retard. The dude is asking because he wants to be respectful not because he was to be chad.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/22 09:20 PM
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“Hey I am going to propose to X. I’d love your blessing” Not everything has be “alpha” just be a real dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/22 09:18 PM
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I’m sure you’re right
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 11:01 PM
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Oys 1 Stats 220lb 9% bf. Bench 345. Reading WISNIFG. Read NMMNG, MAP, sidebar I started upping my SMV. Focusing on myself but I am finding I am not attracted to my wife. I actually can’t stand being around her. Everything she does is annoying and during my readings I found out she is 100% BPD. I’m using her as a sparring partner but she has been begging me for comfort. Affection. And wanting to have sex every night and I just have no interest in her. The juice ain’t worth the squeeze. The sex ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 07:30 PM
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Thanks for explaining that.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 08:02 PM
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What is my autistic brain missing
/r/askMRP01/02/22 05:26 PM
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I set a rule in the beginning of the relationship. We don’t get each other gifts on holidays. Or birthday. Just whenever we feel like it. Makes life so much better
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 04:33 AM
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Yes I see what you’re getting at. I mean I already went over the risks with her even past the ones she already was aware of. She well informed. I sat her down and told her she’s not driving the suv anymore. She said she understands And that if she does it again I’m done taking this relationship seriously. She said she already thinks I don’t. But I wasn’t going to go down that path. Hate fucked her an hour later and she made me lunch
/r/askMRP31/01/22 10:37 PM
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You make a good point. And that’s always been one of my problems. The MPO. I am working on that as one of my main priorities. I sat her down and told her she’s not taking my car anymore. Which she said she understands. And if it happens again. I’m done taking this relationship seriously. Which she said she thinks I already dont. But I didn’t respond because I knew she was trying to change the subject to put blame on me. I broken record and she said I get it. And then I hate fucked her.
/r/askMRP31/01/22 04:29 PM
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Thank you this was very clear and informative. I think the best plan of action is to have a talk today. Take my keys and let her know if this were to happen again. I am done taking this relationship seriously. I am going to be honest. I am not at the point where I am okay leaving my kids. I have made this decision. I will stay living together to raise the kids and because I feel like if I can learn to handle myself around her I can do it around anyone. It’s the best practice for me. But I would …
/r/askMRP31/01/22 12:39 PM
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That’s kind of what I’m here for. I mean she has her own car. So she’ll just drive that which is fine but it’s not enough. Not speaking to her for 2 days will her hurt a lot more than you might think
/r/askMRP31/01/22 12:58 AM
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Good input. She was doing it at work. She’s a manager of a bar and she is in no spot to handle the stress and responsibility easily. I know she uses it as an escape sometimes when the stress gets too high. But it is what it is. We went over this already. She’s going to have to come up With a solution to her problems. I’m taking the car keys. She can drive her own car
/r/askMRP30/01/22 11:12 PM
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I didn’t give her any cuddles. I said not now, I rolled over and went to sleep.
/r/askMRP30/01/22 11:08 PM
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What?
/r/askMRP30/01/22 08:43 PM
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Will do. But I disagree with fucking her. This has been spoken about before. I’m not giving her affection or pleasure when she’s putting the family at risk. I wasn’t in the mood to fuck her anyway. She’s been wanting to fuck me more than I want to fuck her lately. She was def being manipulative. She knew she fucked up and didn’t want me mad at her so she pulled the sex card. I wasn’t even mad. I was disappointed legit. I just didn’t want to be around her. That was my way of stfu
/r/askMRP30/01/22 08:23 PM
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I just started enforcing boundaries. Can you give me an example of what could be proper consequence other than removing time and attention. Or point me to an article that talks about this. If this was my daughter, I’d take her car away from her. But if my daughter was out of the house. There’s not much I can do besides express my disappointment. My wife has her own car. And this was at her work. I can’t tell her to stop going to work or to stop driving. The only thing I can control is my time an…
/r/askMRP30/01/22 05:41 PM
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I don’t think you read the post. I don’t give a shit about those cuddles. They were just a form of manipulation. There’s a lot of advice on here about enforcing boundaries. But I don’t see anything on what to do when boundaries are crossed besides the generic “remove your time. Affection. Attention.” I don’t see much on how or when to reengage once the boundary is crossed. That’s what I’m asking
/r/askMRP30/01/22 05:36 PM
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I told her to call me if she needed a ride before she drove. And she didn’t. Can you explain what you mean by you won’t shoot the messenger but there would be appropriate consequences
/r/askMRP30/01/22 03:53 PM
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Thanks Bobby. I understand what stfu means. It’s just every time I open my month I get myself into a place I don’t want to be in
/r/askMRP26/01/22 06:12 PM
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I agree. I feel like she has a lot of issues that never got resolved. I figure if I can stay with her and get my shit together whether it works out or not. If I ever get into another relationship not only will I be better equipped to vet and set the frame but I will be able to handle any shit that gets thrown at me. Because it’s nonstop right now. I’ll get there
/r/askMRP25/01/22 08:24 PM
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If you read anything on the side bar you’d know I’m in no position yet to be demanding respect.
/r/askMRP25/01/22 12:58 PM
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Right now I don’t. And I’d totally agree with everything you said. I 100% care too much. I so much spend time trying to figure out “what I did now” trying to think about the way I fucked up the last situation. It’s exhausting. She’s always pissed off. Every single interaction is this dramatic situation. I’m so tired of it. And still I GAF. My nice guy behaviors are so imbedded into me that it’s hard for me right now to shift gears and stay there. And I’m getting pissed at myself for me. As I sho…
/r/askMRP24/01/22 10:29 PM
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Ahh! Got ya. Thank you that actually was quite helpful. And embarrassing enough. should of been blatantly obvious… And you’re right idk who I am. Or what I want. I’m putting in the work and hopefully I’ll get there on the way
/r/askMRP24/01/22 12:59 PM
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Its possible to have both happening. Walking on eggshells because you’re afraid of your wife’s emotions. But also have an anxious wife who begs for comfort. It’s stuff like this that is confusing for me. I have high SMV (fitness. Looks. Game. Dress. Hobbies. Friends. Etc) but I have nice guy behaviors out the ass. So there’s this constant conflict. For me at least. With situations where idk if I should be STFU. Or giving comfort. Leading the team by example or stop rewarding bad behavior. Am I c…
/r/askMRP24/01/22 05:41 AM
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Yep I’m working towards it. Like I said I wish I could just STFU properly in the meantime. without sitting there like a retard doing math in my head and then blurting out 2+2=5!
/r/askMRP24/01/22 03:48 AM
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It might not be bad behavior but it’s not the type of behavior I want to put up with. I know it’s a matter of not having all my shit together yet. But I struggle to understand the best way to move forward to not put up with this behavior without making my life harder
/r/askMRP24/01/22 02:27 AM
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I did. Not what we originally planned to do but I did do something else with them
/r/askMRP24/01/22 02:22 AM
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She would flip out. Say I make time for my friends and do stuff with them but not with her. Say she never gets time for herself why do I get to go on a vacation. It would be a shit show. And then she would try her hardest to piss me off the second I left and returned
/r/askMRP24/01/22 12:46 AM
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Definitely one of the many difficult things I am dealing with. I wish I could just get the STFU down where I don’t look like an autistic when I’m being pressured to response. Right now I’m either sitting there silent like a dumbass or saying something sounding like one.
/r/askMRP24/01/22 12:38 AM
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Rian I must say you are a confusing one. One day it’s “she’s looking for comfort” the next it’s. “She doesn’t need comfort. She needs honesty!” Then you give her honesty and she doesn’t handle it well. And it’s back to. “It’s a simple comfort test! And you fucked it up”. That’s what makes this place the most confusing for new guys.
/r/askMRP23/01/22 11:45 PM
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What an exciting life you must have
/r/askMRP09/01/22 03:31 AM
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We’ll it would of been better use of both of our times to say that from the get go instead of 8 comments and 2 days worth of non sense. But maybe I’m wrong. Anyway. I can at least work with that. Thanks
/r/askMRP08/01/22 05:29 PM
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Got some great advice from a lot of guys. No one needed that but you apparently. And not sure why you even asked at this point. You didn’t care. Or do anything with it. You just wanted to find something to make a “funny” comment about and a poor attempt to belittle me for some karma like you do with all your responses. Hope your wasted time and pointless comment feel validated now. Here’s your +1
/r/askMRP08/01/22 05:16 PM
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The sex is fine and frequent. I know I’m the problem.
/r/askMRP08/01/22 02:20 PM
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Aloha can read through all the post to leave this long and utterly useless/inaccurate comment but can’t seem to find the 3 times in the thread where I wrote my stats. Where he would find out his scrony ass lifts half of what I can. Clearly here to feed his ego. Guess I’ll fill mine too. Since my stats are so important to you but once I gave you them you said nothing useful. Maybe I’ll help you. Take the fork from fatty and beef your self up you tough alpha male you
/r/askMRP08/01/22 05:44 AM
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/r/askMRP07/01/22 10:21 PM
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So true. That’s my biggest problem…
/r/askMRP07/01/22 10:18 PM
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Really enjoyed this and took away some good points the only thing I disagree with is the stop doing chores. I don’t do them because I like them or hate them. I do them because I don’t want to live in a mess and like to keep my shit in order and I want it done. I don’t need her to do things. She does do things. But I can do them myself. I just don’t appreciate her adding to the mess while I’m ordering our living space, I see it as disrespectful
/r/askMRP07/01/22 07:58 PM
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Hahaha dude. I hope to have the balls one day
/r/askMRP07/01/22 07:39 PM
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I was going to ask that
/r/askMRP07/01/22 07:26 PM
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Lmfao. Point made.
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:52 PM
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Thanks rian. So when my wife is leaving shit all over the place as I’m cleaning up. I need to just shut my mouth and not say anything?. I have so much information from reading. My heads spinning on how to use it all
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:41 PM
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Working on it
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:03 PM
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I get it. If I was a man of value. She wouldn’t want to piss me off because she would be afraid of the repercussions or at the very least respect me enough to care
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:03 PM
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220lb 10% bf. Bench is 345lb. I used to do all types of roids. Now I’m on TRT. As I said to one of the other guys. My fitness is prob my top thing going for me. I go 5 times a week
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:00 PM
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This is what I need to hear. So I want to say something. I usually always do. But it starts a fight, resentment. Bad moods that get taken out on the kids. And usually does more bad than good. Because she will then start to do spiteful shit As a way to “get back at me” for calling her out. What I want might be a little unreasonable I’m still trying to figure out myself and how TRP fits into my life. What tools to use and not use. I’m far from being the man I want to be.
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:36 PM
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I agree about the phone thing but if she’s leaving dishes out on the table while I’m cleaning. I’m not supposed to care or say anything?
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:28 PM
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220lb. 10% bc 345lb bench. It’s not the lifts. It’s my behavior for sure. My fitness is one of my top things going for me
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:26 PM
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So if you’re wife is leaving her stuff laying around while you’re cleaning. You’re just going to ignore it and pick up after her. Let it there. Or say something ?
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:26 PM
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I’ve read WISNIFG. NMMNG. I continue to read. Maybe I’m missing this or just wasn’t ready for the lesson when I read it. Can you reference me to the post or book so I can reread it
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:11 PM
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