| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 94 | Long story short, this is how I got into FDS | REDDIT HATES WOMEN | whenthingsconsidered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:27 PM |
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| 14 | He absolutely despises her.She still calls him bf? what's wrong with her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 09:49 AM |
| 50 | PiCk Me. I don’t require any effort or standards.This conversation sounds like it's happening right next to my ears. Too visceral | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 09:48 AM |
| 28 | He proposed on our 1st anniversary. Success story!Congratulations! The ring is so beautiful. All the best to your happy life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:17 PM |
| 11 | I can’t evenI mean, with that, she doesn't need extra means to send away a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:01 PM |
| 4 | He does his own laundry. What a catch! 🤩🤩I hate water now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 12:58 PM |
| 24 | CALL 👏 PORN ADDICTS 👏 OUT👏 I was so happily surprised to see this on Zara Larson’s Instagram storyI am so happy and excited to learn about her and her admirable stance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 07:56 AM |
| 65 | Hypothesis: You can tell if a man is ready to “settle down” by looking at his hairline. 😂😂Will add link in comments.Kudos to the lady in the bar who put the balding man back on where he shall stand | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 02:35 AM |
| 8 | Pick me WAKE UPwhy did you keep any kind of contact/relationship after the 10 years of on and off and then the cheating? Don't waste your time and energy on "calling out on his bs." He's also getting something out of that interaction, the confirmation that you still care enough to talk to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:43 PM |
| 11 | I Love It!I laughed so hard in the morning. hilarious af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 10:54 PM |
| 3 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …what the f is self-asteam? Scrotes can't spell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”Above all, his grammar bothers me so much. "YOU WAS" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Books written by women ab religion?came to write this. glad to find someone also appreciated the book | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:36 AM |
| 10 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyThe BMW bit hits me hard. NO Never BMW for a guy ever again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting melol it's hilarious the list of things he is describing her doing as impulsive car for her joy and convenience, house purchase, talking about big investment-worthy stuffs, a lovely loyal pet that she is taking care of, side business duh queen energy right there, expression with her body and appearance, and education and degree in a highly competitive field/school Sounds like she's living her life to the fullest and he's just rotting and killing himself of jealousy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 07:04 AM |
| 11 | It baffles me why men who complain about FDS think they are the type of men we want in the first place. Male biological delusion is realThe last few sentences read like a poem lol. So perceptive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 09:42 PM |
| 28 | Dating during the time of coronavirus deaths. Does he or does he not respect my time?Um.. you should not try being there for him at all...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:43 AM |
| 18 | If he still uses Snapchat, lovebombs you in the talking stage, and/or attempts to triangulate you against his ex/gf while seeing you or otherwise uses EtHiCaL nOnMoNoGaMy to justify why he needs multiple women, DISCARD HIM. Do not be the unwitting participant in any scrote’s harem 🤮The description in your title defines my ex lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:55 AM |
| 136 | Just started talking to this guy on Hinge (28M) and he's already tryna make me (22F) his motherTHIS He is a potential abuser, if not already, and it's a common mildly-joking (not really) way of gaslighting. You already stated clearly what you are dreadful of, and he plays around the idea. Some pickme might think it's "cute" and he is just kidding, but never let a scrote crumb escape and eventually damage you, even in the slightest bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:52 AM |
| 11 | FDS isn't about giving the benefit of the doubt. It's about being smart women who don't get played.This should be made into a flyer and distributed globally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | He Who Poops In The Shower.... RUN!i am just laughing at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 11:14 AM |
| 4 | Having extreme dislike/hatred for the new woman? Justified or unjustified?I commented on your other post but here is my reply there. Being a feminist has nothing to do with not feeling what you should and can feel toward other women. You made an accurate observation and reflected on what happened. Yes, the pick me used you for emotional support and "female solidarity" until male attention and validation come along - "girl power" and what not mean nothing when it's uttered by low value people. It is totally justified anger. I wouldn't wrestle with my self-righteous ego… | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Bitterness/Hatred towards ex's new girlfriend? How to handle?Being a feminist has nothing to do with not feeling what you should and can feel toward other women. You made an accurate observation and reflected on what happened. Yes, the pick me used you for emotional support and "female solidarity" until male attention and validation come along - "girl power" and what not mean nothing when it's uttered by low value people. It is totally justified anger. I wouldn't wrestle with my self-righteous ego having too much pride to swallow my own feeling. Your ther… | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 11:36 PM |
| 39 | Orgasm Inc. - Big pharma creates fake disease "Female Sexual Dysfunction" in order to sell 'pink viagra'. Creating a narrative of what healthy sexuality is 'supposed' to look like & convince the largest amount of women possible they have medical problems only solved by dangerous pills and surgery.Once again, male incapability is diverted and framed as women's fault. And women have to pay money, time, energy (to care) - all already scarce resources - to redress it. Also terribly reductive, mechanical view of women's sexuality. The whole rhetoric sounds similar to how some women go through unnecessary plastic surgery on their genitalia just to make it look like ones appearing in porn and claim it was "for their own choice and pleasure" when in reality, the very choice was pressured by eith… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:56 PM |
| 4 | Don't forget to head over to r/askFDS and help a fellow FDS lady today!I applied to be able to write in comments a while ago and saw that the sub needs more hands to handle the volume. I would love to help if approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 03:32 AM |
| 2 | The wordiness of this sweatshirt makes me just *feel* the mental and emotional stress of being in denial about an abusive relationshipIs this another way women send out sos nowadays? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Know her nameTruely amazing woman. Saved the children's lives. She is now my hero. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:55 AM |
| 2 | The audacity is off the chartsWas he trying to write "fetish"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 32 | Keep your standards AS HIGH AS POSSIBLEHon, I am on board with you about keeping the standard high and this is on a completely different note --- just be careful when engaging with a man like that. I am sure you've taken appropriate measures to cut him off completely and without any ramifications of no-future man child's rejected ego fury. I am just concerned that he has a criminal past and the extent which he knows where you live and do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:54 AM |
| 96 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!You were wayyyy too kind to even reply with so many fillers... should have blocked and deleted after wanna fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Do LVM’s ever change?hon, no one here would disagree on this point. Men never change for anybody else including their wives or children. If they do, that's because their behaviors had affected themselves in a significant way that they finally have to deal with the consequences. It is the epitome of selfishness, no question. That's why FDS guideline has "do not build a man." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:15 AM |
| 7 | Why is this the first thing to come out of his mouth when myself and female coworkers are having bad weeks?Love, I am sorry that you are feeling low and going through this and also some dude's senseless/unempathetic comment. Classic case of men having no emotional intelligence nor having to learn it. A lazy one who didn't even spend some mental energy on how to respond with a basic human decency when someone is having a difficult day. I noticed that when women are experiencing hardship, completely unrelated to anything with relationship or men, men tend to reduce it to something related to it. I thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 31 | Do LVM’s ever change?LVM never change. That's just what and how they are. On some rare occasions, they do change but that's not due to any women's influence but all coming from within. In fact, no one changes for other people. If a man proved himself to be a lvm with a woman, and immediately after her, is giving his all - whatever that be - to the next, he is not providing anything worthy because he is still a lvm. It might look that from the outside, but his farce will fall apart soon. On the fundamental note, lvm … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:02 PM |
| 57 | Negging because your pretty 💀That discomfort of yours is what they are aiming at. Women are empathetic and nice, much more so than men, and they know it well. By their saying you are out of their league (duh), you feel "guilty" or uncomfortable and would unconsciously compensate for their "hurt." You might even say something like "oh no no you have great xyz qualities" or "oh no I am no that special." Either way, you lower your standard, whether it's of yourself or by projecting good - nonexistent however - qualities on the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 12:23 PM |
| 40 | Do Men Really Need This Level of Bro-ism to Wipe Their Asses Properly?I am almost getting some business ideas from this bro-hygiene industry... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:10 AM |
| 31 | Today a guy asked me out and told me to pick the place on Tinder and this was his reply when I answered with Sushi.... keep in mind this is a 35-year-old engineer.Ah, another lovely variation of park walk date! I wonder why his 15 dates didn't work out for him. and what's up with his profile pic lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 01:48 AM |
| 6 | What are your tips/strategies when you feel your inner pickmeisha selves coming out again?I ask him about important political issues - various women's rights to be specific - and usually get a cold shower. Then I ask myself: if I were to be with this person for the rest of my life, will this person bring me joy and improve my and other women's lives? Does his existence better the world in a way that I want the world to be heading? I usually find "meh no this dude is fickle" or "ar another liberal male feminist who can swim with mouth peddling." At least I get "ok my old self who want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 01:46 AM |
| 6 | Repost: "People no longer marry other people, people marry the corporation they work for"Thanks for understanding what I am saying. I am also confused as to why I get so downvoted for the above comment. While FDS has dating in its title, its focus is entirely not on it. It's about women living their full lives solely for themselves. Men are always abundant and not a necessity to her fulfillment. Job, on the other hand, can be part of that important fulfillment. I wanted to point out that while interpersonal relationship can give much meaning and joy to one's life, there can be other… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 10:54 AM |
| 42 | I saw this on another site and just had to share it here. Holy f.I pray for her quick and safe escape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 09:50 AM |
| 9 | Repost: "People no longer marry other people, people marry the corporation they work for"I don't see any valid point in that post. I also don't find any sad reality or a hint of morose late-stage capitalism. Everybody, especially women, should focus on themselves before any relationship, and that relationship includes one with their jobs as well. One's job might as well be part of one's self-fulfillment. The post OP seems to equate the time spent on something with the level of importance. For the most part, this might be true, but not always. For instance, the said father who works … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 04:48 AM |
| 23 | Paige Lorenze put out a great statement about the abuse she suffered at the hands of Armie Hammer.This is so important. I cannot say much more than that. My life will prove how I will change the narrative and make differences in how people, especially women, approach the topic. Thanks for sharing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:23 AM |
| 17 | Navigating guilt in a world that wants to make you feel guilty.Yes!!!!! I 100% agree with you. Guilt on women is such a useless emotion. Its flip side is nicety (thus if you are not nice, you feel guilty), but as one of the sub's tagline says: nice for what? I try to de-train/de-socialize myself from feeling guilty or embarrassed when I defend myself and my rights while on the way some fragile male egos were hurt and per usual they come trying to "mommy you hurt me by speaking only the truth please re-erect my frail mental dick ApOlogIze." I always ask: wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 03:19 PM |
| 37 | Diguising anger and frustration with humor...Is she... crying? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 03:09 PM |
| 6 | LV lurker gets triggered by a comment I made here, lets me live in his head rent free 😂I decided to stop reading after like.. five words. There is something repugnant about low value men's writing even through the screen. Anyway, my guess is that it's a paragraph about how he is having a small dick, and women writing on the internet for fun makes it shrink even more? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 03:06 PM |
| 23 | [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+386 subscribers today; 140% trend score)I like that it's "mildly" trending lol much better much subtler we are everywhere and nowhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 10:38 AM |
| 10 | YAS, Queens!I am so happy that our VP is a role model. I wish she is the president (but oh well good ole man-loving amurica..) Incredibly successful, charismatic, hard-working, self-possessed, competent, resilient, powerful, Harris is phenomenal. I am so excited to live this new era under her leadership. Her personal life stories are full of inspirations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 10:34 AM |
| 283 | The Tea ☕️You know what's also funny about men promoting sex work as work? I have yet to meet a man fighting on the street with those other men who slut shame the "sex workers." They only care about stigma attached to male customers because they want to pay nothing to feel entitled to and abuse women's bodies, and don't mind the actual women being harassed and exploited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 04:10 AM |
| 9 | The psychology behind gift givingThis is so important. Also remember not all gifts are physical or tangible. You also give the gift of your company, presence, emotional attention, and care. I never thought of gifting in this light, but very true. We should never gift the unworthy at all cost, for our brain and habit's sake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 01:59 PM |
| 44 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha selfThere is no "real" BDSM, it's just another way for men to control us. And no, you didn't enjoy it, you were depressed and used it as a form of self harm. This. I wish more women in that pathetic "subculture" get up and see therapists, not the "understanding" ones but actual properly licensed ones with common sense. I wish women there (me in my depressed past) have courage to trust their feeling when someone feels not right or too much or having to keep telling oneself that 'I enjoy this, I cho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:31 PM |
| 39 | Surely linger dating/"courting" period before marriage is fine if you're young and/or still a student?No proposal after a period of time as a lvm trait is an application of the most important FDS rule in my opinion. The rule here is that you, as a self-fulfilling woman, pour all your energy and life to be the best version of YOURSELF, independently of all the other people in your life. Make decisions and judgment solely to your advantage. The key is not to deceive yourself as some libfem “choice” proponents do. What do you truly want in life? What are you doing to achieve that goal? Is your curr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 12:57 PM |
| 67 | FDS incarnate: the story of my momThis is such a great story. I love every detail of your mom and family's journey and praise what you have established. What a truly strong role model your mom is. How I wish someone told me what she told you when the first lvm appeared in my life. (But we all learn and your mom's saga is inspiring, having a vicarious educational effect) It is so important to maintain the stance that if the man doesn't add any worth value and constantly proves it, he shall not be part of our life. This, as your m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:18 AM |
| 67 | You. Cannot. Change. Men.👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 So well said. I want to frame this writing. I also noticed lately there have been a lot of newcomers to the sub, asking for man advice when they didn’t even cut the trash off. So important and never enough to emphasize, we cannot change anyone but ourselves. That applies to our relationship with men and other women too. Lvm CHOSE not to change for their women. If he were redeemable, he wouldn’t have hurt you in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 06:03 AM |
| 18 | We've seen the bad, what good gifts have you gotten?Cartier order-made earrings. It was good in that it was practical. When we broke up, I could pay my rents in Boston for 6 months while mending my hurt. I could save my income during the difficult time. Otherwise, weekly flower deliveries and thoughtful travel plans, both of which the ex remembered what I precisely told him that I like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:19 AM |
| 31 | I left him!!So proud of you sister! You have tried more than you should have and he still was worthless. Do not waste your breath and time on him. The most valuable resource in life is your time and energy. As the old man Einstein said, the definition of insanity is to repeat something with the same way (here: your ex, the same person - and we know god damn well men don’t change) and expect a different result. Let us not romanticize a life of unnecessary hardship. We’ll have moments to cry anyway. Let us cr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 18 | I swear, why are male “feminists” always so terrible? 🚩 Married scrote with woke tags ON HIS TINDER PROFILE is still, painfully, a low class scrote. Remember, this guy always swipes right, because you’re worth it! 🤮I dont know the name. A french friend told me when i was in the grad school. I didnt ask further because am not even interested in ascribing him a martyr-like status. If he was truly guilty, he should have spent all his life resources to improve the lives of women without meaning to take any credit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 03:28 PM |
| 44 | I swear, why are male “feminists” always so terrible? 🚩 Married scrote with woke tags ON HIS TINDER PROFILE is still, painfully, a low class scrote. Remember, this guy always swipes right, because you’re worth it! 🤮Lol he wants some pat on his butt chick from a random woman on tinder, for he is so “loyal (wOnT CheAT) male feminist”. The only true male feminist was a phd student in paris who studied feminism and committed suicide because he was too guilty of what men have been doing to women for centuries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 01:36 PM |
| 6 | When they make assertions about you, then ask you to prove them wrong/ change their mind, don't bother.So true. Man who does this, romantic or not, is worthless. As the above said, they are just projecting their lv qualities onto us. Whatever we say to help them see from more an empathetic perspective doesn’t work because they didn’t care to listen in the first place. As all things go, when lv is detected, just ignore, fade away, and finally block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 01:32 PM |
| 9 | My girlfriend always made me feel so secure when I was the one fucking other people and refusing to get married. What happened???Phew, I almost made a comment there but resisted the temptation.. but here it goes: She kept you for so long and some of the essential benefits you received from her - emotional safety, financial and livelihood stability, and care - you did not return, it sounds like. It wasn’t you, but her love that kept this relationship together. And for that, I think you should pay for her hurt and therapy. Clearly, that woman is suffering your abuse. I don’t think it’s a matter of poly or not. All relations… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:50 AM |
| 136 | International LVM #firstpost 👋🏽lol I actually wish him to pay his hard earned money to fly to the sex dreamland that is the west in the grand hope of shagging women on the street, only to be slapped and sent back to his home country for sexual assault, public indecency and misconduct | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:48 AM |
| 47 | Kill the narrative that women are weak, or waiting to be saved. Don't take our kindness for weakness. Also, their eyes... wowThey are the coolest. I wish there’s a hero documentary of them or movie out of their stories. Want to know their individual motivations and struggles, also how they overcome the difficulties. Inspiring! Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 03:37 AM |
| 37 | This is why I never make friends in the workplace. Especially not with dudes. Corporate America is crawling with “NiCE GuyS”“Shorter than men which makes dominating them much easier” what is he, a monkey?? I thought we are talking about workplace for humans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:52 PM |
| 21 | Let's talk about angerI can relate to this so much. My family also has a similar tradition where my mom actively tries to dissolve the thick air when difficult subjects or tension arise. I was always taught that it is also womanly and graceful to handle any situation without “making a scene”. Reflecting back, I now see it as a social conditioning that made me prioritize others’ feeling over mine to the point I can’t even express my righteous anger and demand justice at the moment. Instead, I tried to find a “wise” so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Since I've seen that u like him... here is another one.This is the most arousing thing I've seen on the internet since the dawn of the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:34 AM |
| 8 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?u/Partypuppers u/aquietsword Thanks for your kind words and interests. I think more women should inculcate interests toward the conventionally "masculine" subjects. War is such an exciting subject. It makes an allegory to almost everything and anything in life. Big or small, hot or cold, tangible or intangible, some things are confined to the structure while the others are up to the willful agents, it's a human phenomenon. Long story short, here are a few suggestions. For a general topic of stra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:39 AM |
| 90 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?Military history, especially of the civil war. Seriously, I have a phd from the top 3 and got a job for my analysis of strategies and their implications on the following warfares. Men who like to wear the confederate uniforms or keep 12+ guns in their basements think what they read on reddit milsub and 4chan are historical truth and lecture me. When I tell them where I work, the “better knowing” ones usually shut up. The intellectually and socially entitled ones don’t even know what it is. At th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:50 PM |
| 4 | You think this guy gets second dates?lol so funny he’s probably a man in his late thirties, drank too much red pills as a solace to his balding hairline and expanding waistline. I bet the only “meaningful” sexual experience he thinks he has is with sex workers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:19 AM |
| 29 | A quick anatomy lessonPreach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 01:44 PM |
| 47 | YIKES!!!!!!Wow he is so delusional that Greta will ever care about his existence, let alone notice his whatever waste of internet space comment? Talking about entitlement and arrogance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:57 AM |
| 41 | 🤭 all imma say is... someone should’ve shown the first woman FDSWell, at least from the viewer’s perspective, it’s a happy ending (not for the first main character obs) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:55 AM |
| 7 | I love the “Here’s my hand with my new ring I bought myself” pics. This is my “here’s my hand with the keys to my new house I bought myself!” pic. Resolve to evolve, sis! Here’s to our new year!This is so inspiring and such a power move. I'll be joining you in the home owner's club in two years! Keep up the great work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:58 PM |
| 21 | FDS Principles Are Essential to Professional Success In a Man's WorldSpot on. Every single word, I vouch and preach. True power comes from money, politics, and having means to dominate, professionally and personally. It's no joke that women should "have confidence of a mediocre white man." Even when we act "entitled" by our standards, we are not because the lifetime of gaslighting and devaluing done by our misogynistic society and men who want to take advantage of us has conditioned us to be undervaluing ourselves. Seconding everything you said and the last parag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Men : "wat do u bring to the table" Also, men :I am confused. I am genuinely curious what men like him expect to gain from this kind of profile. Even the record-breaking pathetic queen of pickmeishtown would not swipe right. Is it the two seconds of "haha I am a KING because I write that on my OLD profile, and women will drool over me for my delusion" that may help him mend his infirmed ego? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:40 AM |
| 15 | Do you ever imagine flexing on your ex? How do you stop?I second this. We are just humans. We ruminate and think about what ifs. There is also a layer of anger and the normal degree of humiliation and sadness that come after any kind of romantic misgivings because we, being empathetic, put ourselves out there, invested, and got a bit hurt, even over men of low or no values. At that point, it's not about them - it's about our ego and feelings fractured. Very natural. Literally for centuries, humans have been doing this. What matters is our actions. Li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 11:40 AM |
| 14 | Open Relationship?This is the best, most clarifying read I had this year. I never grasped to its full extent what happened to my last relationship with the biggest loser who also identified as a "kinkster" and wanted a poly relationship. Now I know that I was all along so confused about how he, being such a mediocre scrote, had such a level of delusion. As you extrapolate, he had neither self-awareness nor the sense of reality. Thank you for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 11:22 AM |
| 5 | Thank you FDSSo proud of you! May there be great success, power, and abundant wealth on your way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:36 PM |
| 8 | Go see Promising Young Woman.I am so so so excited about this movie. I am going to watch it anyway but please let me know if the ending is less than oh yes this is what art should do i’m having a venge-rgasm... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:04 PM |
| 3 | I broke up with him! Please laugh at his clownery with me.Lol did we date the same scrote? Cheers to you and happiest merry christmas! May there be showering money and glorious prosperity on you! 🎄🙏💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:58 PM |
| 3 | #KickHimOut2020 happens in 2.5 hours.Merry Christmas, love! Sending you power! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 43 | Stay BusyRight, but to recap what she's preaching, which I resonate so much, it would also be your hard-work, keeping busy with improving your skill set and qualifications that help you find another equally great or better jobs. Maybe your current job may leave you, but not your inner strength, capabilities, any qualified certificates (e.g. degrees, licenses, etc.). They will stick with us no matter what and will help us protect ourselves better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:33 AM |
| 1 | it's easy to think the bare minimum is something special when you're so used to people just taking everything from youThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:19 AM |
| 111 | She really predicted the future ...I don’t know the author of this card but Andrea Dworkin (she passed away. May she rest in power) and Catharine MacKinnon are the greatest proponents of women’s rights and both worked (MacKinnon is still) to put an end to normalizing pornography and prostitution. edit: MacKinnon's name! I misspelled the first time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:00 AM |
| 4 | it's easy to think the bare minimum is something special when you're so used to people just taking everything from youWhere is this place? I need to spend money on whatever merch they are selling... the window’s saying “female warhol..”? If somebody knows please share with me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Just assaulted and need to vent without having to protect male feelings.Hope you eat something you like and sleep well surrounded by good words, love, and care. And we are here because we’ve all experienced the male violence and the world trying to protect them. Men are trash worthless creatures, biologically speaking (and more). I’m all here if you wanna chat and bash men together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:35 PM |
| 12 | Why do guys demand you tell them why you rejected them?Entitlement. They just want our last attention (they enjoy any female attention) and waste our time and thoughts (in fact you are thinking about this now) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:07 PM |
| 127 | If a guy says he is "sexually dominant" he is probably a massive loser IRL. Literally every "dom" I've ever met were unambitious and unintelligent, often working minimum wage or entry level jobs well into their 30s, 40s, and older.100% I can so vouch for this. My nex who revealed that he could not live without performing his bdsm kink claimed that he can be a switch but prefers to be dominant. He even asked me to call him "master" oh master please punish me lol. This was funny because right before him I dated some pathologically success oriented men who while not putting the label of being submissive, all wanted me to do harsh things to them. I got so sick of them, typed and avoided them like pest. Then I landed the nex w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:02 PM |
| 33 | I haven't had sex in over half a year and thinking about it, I feel great.I feel this so much. I have been in a series of relationships with men for the past 10+ years (here comes the serial monogamist me - seems like I always so convincingly persuade psychopath/lvm/nvm/narcs to get into an exclusive relationship as soon as possible... all my relationships began with them pushing real hard + mega grand ge$tures and love bombing within the first months. now I know better and that was literally me being naive, stupid libfem and letting myself being taken advantage of). … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:47 PM |
| 34 | Story about a HVM ruined by a scrote.You sweet person, you are too generous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:25 AM |
| 30 | The LVMS of the world let out a collective scream of pain: PORNHUB removes 80% of video uploads because of child abuse and rape.I've never been happier this year... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:03 AM |
| 4 | 🤮 “ion see shit wrong with this” EXACTLY why we don’t do dinner at home dates ladies - the queen in this story up and left!!Let that be the definition of prude, for all those sisters who got called as such for they refuse to sex man up 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:19 PM |
| 10 | MFW Pornhub deletes +/- 80% of its content overnight and people start losing their sh*t. It’s not perfect, but it’s a satisfying start.Good grace. I bought Visa and Mastercard stocks after the new releasing they blocked pornhub purchase due to its possessing rape, child sexual abuse, and revenge "porn" videos. And of course, good companies perform well. will keep them for 10+ yrs unless they disappoint me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:25 PM |
| 10 | 🤮 “ion see shit wrong with this” EXACTLY why we don’t do dinner at home dates ladies - the queen in this story up and left!!The number of times he used "shit" in describing that shit though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:37 AM |
| 73 | FactsThanks for sharing this. This is so true. The "female hygiene" which sometimes is also labeled as "women being professional/courteous/proper" is also economically detrimental. All those so-called "investment" in physical beauty consist of the consumption of commodities that are forever diminishing in return and encouraging women's financial drainage. It's not a difficult calculation. Just think of all the money you have spent on buying makeup, unpractical clothes, laser/beauty treatments, and su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:32 AM |
| 10 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”jesus christ I can't brush off the thought that the poor woman who committed suicide (may she rest in peace) was a victim of his emotional or/and physical abuse... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:25 PM |
| 22 | When men ruminate on gender roles and marriage 🙄I am a little confused by his stupidity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:58 AM |
| 94 | A very apt rebuttal to the recent terrible New Yorker cover (NSFW but tried to censor a bit)Ok, at this point you are just so talented. I hope for the same level of impact as the new yorker cover, this gets to be shared and retweeted million times. Look at the colors throughout, the perfect composition and incredible details. And the poignant expose! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Long story short, this is how I got into FDSI am sorry for only coming back to reply and express my gratitude now. I really appreciate all the other comments as well, but your thoughtful comment and sharing of experiences and resources have been on my mind. I felt some strange difficulty even to reread my own post for a while, and slowly however, I do feel much better. I did exactly what you suggested -- cutting off those who are denying my experiences, feelings and thoughts on my history -- and the cleaning of my surrounding surely did h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:36 AM |
| 54 | A LVM who disrespected me reached out because he is now in my area of business and needs my help.So happy to read your post this morning -- thank you, Queen! What a loser he is for thinking after getting deleted from literally every platform like a persistent pest he still deserves even a conversation. We know those men never learn. LVM/NVM are especially with that level of blindness to himself never get anywhere. And god, it is so inspiring that you are the decision maker in your company. What a powerful woman. Hope you keep walk the path of gold and authority. edit: typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:10 PM |
| 14 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?a super left, “feminist” mindset. Not a radical feminist one but more of the promotion of sex work as something “normal.” If you ever see a man try to promote lifestyles or “not kink shame,” RUN. This. So much of this. Basically, all of the pornsickness symptoms apply to my next but this one particularly strikes hard. This so-called "feminist" mindset is also known as "equalism." Beware of men who openly, usually during the courtship period, promote themselves as "believing in equality." If he t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 12:35 AM |
| 2 | If Eve would have met FDSthis is my wallpaper now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:08 PM |
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