Negging because your pretty 💀

slythergin23 · 2021-01-24T10:41:57+00:00

i've been getting the "you're out of my league" whining lately. not really sure what they're trying to accomplish, but it's so damn uncomfortable.

electroloop · 2021-01-24T11:30:25+00:00

Just remember that social media, OLD, and internet in general is riddled with loser men who wouldn’t have the nerve to say such things to your face.

This guy sounds like he was trying to knock you down a few pegs to be more on their level.

On OLD especially, men will go out of their way to make fun of a woman’s appearance. It’s all part of their “men good women bad” incel mindset.

Sherbert-Trick · 2021-01-24T12:35:40+00:00

The last guy I dated said, “You’re so hot that I can’t believe you’d even go out to lunch with me.” Ok sir???

stormstormstorm9 · 2021-01-24T14:12:13+00:00

they have low self esteem and they want to bring yours down to their level. one guy told me i was “hot enough to be in porn” as an attempt to make me feel better about his pornsickness? no thanks, you can beat your dick into oblivion on your own, in your mom’s basement.

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-01-24T15:05:03+00:00

It's a bait and switch tactic compressed in one sentence. They 'bait' you with flattery, the kind that only works, when you have low self esteem. They pull the 'switch' turn you around to prove your (intellectual) worth to them. You can also read it as an insult, since he reduced you to your looks.

2021-01-24T18:41:49+00:00

I swear most men are stuck at age 2 mentally. They're just able to formulate words and sentences....most of the time lol.

Yesterday some guy messaged me saying "god you're ugly". But had pepe the frog as his profile pic. He did all that and never even got a reply. A few years ago another guy did the exact same thing. Slid in my dms to call me ugly, and it ruffled his feathers that I left him on read and didn't reply. He started spamming me and threatening me afterwards. I swear men's egos have the same strength as paper.

qwaliY · 2021-01-24T10:38:32+00:00

Yep, or they just compliment you at all become they want to make you doubt your looks !

sleepykittn · 2021-01-24T14:05:02+00:00

What kind of pickup line is that? Hope you didnt respond, blocked & delete so maybe, MAYBE, he learns negging doesnt work.

ReignOnYou95 · 2021-01-24T19:29:45+00:00

I dont get how people judge if someones smart or not just because theyre attractive or whatever. Its weird to think someone can either only be smart or pretty. I never got it

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Title	Negging because your pretty 💀
Author	melonsoda-
Upvotes	202
Comments	17
Date	January 23, 2021 11:31 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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