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QUEEN SH*Tsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:48 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:06 AM
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PICKME CULTUREsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:13 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:19 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶sleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:45 AM
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DISCUSSIONsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:24 AM
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PICKME CULTUREsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:36 AM
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DISCUSSIONsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:06 AM
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How-To High Valuesleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:32 AM
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DISCUSSIONsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:56 AM
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DISCUSSIONsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:07 AM
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LIES MEN TELLsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:38 AM
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LIES MEN TELLsleepykittn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:16 AM
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Theres no justice system as long as murder comes at a price of bond/bail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:51 PM
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Egalitarian feminism served everyone but women. Womwn cant even take space in women spaces, MRA should care about womens rights too, if theyre not fighting for us its not for us to fight dor them. They made our problems, we made none of theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:16 AM
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Ugly=kind Skinny=harmless Wrong. Very wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:11 AM
5

My first bf litterally used sadness to rape me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:33 AM
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I'll just say here that men externalize and women internalize. But i dont know if its biological or socialized, but society definitely cobtributes to these gendered mentalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 11:00 PM
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Sounds like slavery with extra steps :s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:35 PM
14

What they call "woman behind the man" 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:30 PM
13

You said it 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:58 AM
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Wouldnt it be more flattering coming from someone that youre fully attracted to? I understand flattery, but where it comes from matters. Its more dignified to actually hear it and a ppreciate the attention from an equally good looker, if it takes litterally anyone to make you feel good about yourself (thats likely a predator) thats sad and embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:54 AM
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Woahhhhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:33 AM
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Haha no worries girl, have a good day/night😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:47 PM
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When you said the apple dropped i interpreted that as apple doesnt fall far like im someone that supports gender roles, all g ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:42 PM
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No i dont believe this is how it should be, thats why im FDS. I was answering your question why men think that. Didnt need to insult someone you dont know, read again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:14 PM
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A slave to husbands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:28 PM
81

I dont think its about fucking mums i think they just want a slave. But yeah the entitlement cognitive dissonance to their own worth is mind numbing😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:41 PM
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Mhm but not just for petsonal reasons, REMIND the world we have the power to keep this species going. Thats our right, and as female beings its actually in our nature to be selective or deny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:56 AM
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Wow..its not just anecdotal. They are truly searching for mothers in their girlfriends 😤thats not a life partner, justca burden that never grows up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:48 AM
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In the name of equality she should focus on female empowerment over mens traditional roles🤡you know, the more oppressed group than towards your own oppressor😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:02 PM
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Yes they really seem to have a problem with anything revolving around just women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:02 PM
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We are stronger together and it terrifies them😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:53 AM
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Casual sex doesnt empower women more than not giving men the satisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:36 AM
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Yes I always considered myself leftist but seeing that peoples feelings come before science upsets me. But as always, its women that get scapegoated. Not that theres competition, but seeing how women get thrown under the bus by other oppressed groups sends me the message that womens issues are always at the bottom of the barrel in social issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:14 AM
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This is some next level mansplaining
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:23 AM
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Because they think their world is our world😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:26 PM
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Tendency to be masculine 🤔like...a human🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:50 PM
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My nana was 16 when she had to give up her baby by her parents because of the shame it would bring to her family, but she is in contact with her son now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:54 AM
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How can chores be enough anyway? She could kust pay someone or kick him out and do it herself. It's supposed to be a romantic relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:44 AM
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More women need to hear this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:01 AM
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I was wearing all black straight pants and long sleeve buttoned collared work shirt and a covid mask waiting for transport after work covered head to toe, only my hands and eyes were bare. Im also well overweight, and got relentlessly hit on by a guy til i could get picked up. He told me his name and I looked him up, he was only about 20 and he had a fiance and I think a son too. I warned her on Facebook but then he came at me so I dont know if she ever found out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:53 AM
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Pro snoop👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:45 AM
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Since women are still oppressed with an epidemic of violence against us, it cant be empowering. Its like saying a black slave fetish empowers the slave thats submitting🤡. A dominatrix is empowered but its still abuse, its also usually more gratifying for the male sub because of their depraved humiliation kink but for women submitting isnt a kink for humiliation. Its just pride of a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:43 AM
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The S litterally stands for Sadism. Consent or not, that will cause psychological harm no different than a bully criticising someone because the brain eventually internalizes it no matter if you think you wont. I used to think its just a deeper form of intimacy for trusting, but wgy would someone getvoff on hurting the person they love? It's obviously not right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:36 AM
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I was actually going to ask if you would do that, thanks again! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:51 PM
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Thank you so much for these vetting strategies and the sobering reality that there's no guarantee. It helps a lot🙏🤝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:37 PM
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So we're on the same wave length, i guess theres always that risk and no way to ever know if anyone new would do it too :/ I wish there was a strategy to avoid this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:23 PM
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So how women have always treated men, but dont keep us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:17 AM
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Thats good to know :) we dont have to burden our baggage alone, we can open up to friends but keep some secrets when it comes to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:40 AM
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I used to be a choice-feminist but FDS has made me realize it matters why you make the choice, its not feminist if it isn't empowering. If our choices are still based on male approval for self esteem then its not really free choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:34 AM
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Sex is easy for men to get now, they can negotiate what they want and not pay for it. Prostitution is selling abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:27 AM
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Men really cant take pain like women can, women seem to be the real protectors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:17 AM
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I totally understand, im way too paranoid so i was never promiscuous or kissed anyone (besides my 2 long term bfs) in fear of herpes/std's, unwanted pregnancy and..sexual assault or coersion. I'll be getting permanently sterilized before dating and never engage in sexual activity without getting their sexual health record first. And yes the college experimentation is totally a fabricated male fantasy to hear stories 🤢 when youre gay you know, when youre straight YOU KNOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:51 PM
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Tbh im utterly anxious about if a guy spits or even performs oral because it can distrupt the pH and get an infection 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:09 PM
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When can us women go on a spaceship and never look back 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:47 PM
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Yes! That case broke me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:37 PM
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Yep he was a college swimmer🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:33 PM
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Yeah i heard about a man convicted rapist getting 6months..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:05 PM
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100%. They see it as competition. But whos outnumbering who🙄 its like they forhet we still dral with it more why does it matter which gender if you care just be supportive whats with this psycho attitude. No one is saying things that happen to women never happen to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:04 PM
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Everyone is oppressed but...👀women are litterally the most👀 👀which if im biased, makes it more tragic And whats also sad is that its pretty much the norm if youre a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:54 PM
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Legit. I grew up with domestic abuse, my mums bf for 20 years on/off and police would come and NEVER put him away. One day, he taunts/teases to provoke mum to yell and he recorded it told police and that same night she was put in jail. For verbal abuse, it was just answering his annoying questions loudly with some swears...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:44 PM
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Billions of cases
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:40 PM
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They wanna call it sport so bad because they have never engaged in physical exercise volintarily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:40 PM
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Women have always been slaves and still are even in the best circumstance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:37 PM
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Yes! They tell women what men want but..what about not all men then~🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:40 PM
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I believe this 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:39 PM
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Everything comes back to sex to them..we just want to be respected or go our own way~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:38 PM
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1 in 2 women over 15 report rape, then theres the unreported. 3% go to prison, for 4 years🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:27 PM
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Its 0.07%🙄 but do they ever end up in jail? No🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:25 PM
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I never used to care about cheap dates, i liked the idea of romantic dates that didnt require money just good company and beauty of nature but..it means something if cheap dates matter to them. Romantic courting SHOULD matter to them. Miss me with that intentional low effort. Romantic picnics can be a great date but BYO packed lunch just makes me cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:25 PM
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Because she KNEW hed complain so she could give that zinger😏 perfect end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:01 PM
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I guess all I can do is vet as I go with new men that come into my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:20 PM
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Thanks for letting me know, ill just meet women there to make friends because i still wanna learn a few different styles of dance because i used to do dance lessons as a kid. But like I said, just getting out there living your life will make ypu a magnet to like minded people that share your interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:16 PM
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Omggggg that sounds so lovely 🥰 also the intention of meeting new people this way isnt with the goal to find a man, its for so many positive reasons but its only natural for men meeting us this way too :) i cant wait to find a sisterhood this way 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:39 PM
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Exactly:) just getting out there for anything you want to learn, enjoy or are interested in will bring the right pepple in your life naturally. Or you could meet from going about your usual errands. Just dont forget to vet 🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:35 PM
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"Well at least let me-" so sick of male entitlement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:27 PM
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When im ready to date i was considering salsa classes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:21 PM
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I just wish pickmes lurked fds posts and find men telling on themselves. Thats the most sobering way to unlearn everything that was lied to us to submit as if it gets us anywhere. Not all men want doormats willing to concede to disrespect, like thats the only way to be desirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:37 PM
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Mens actions are based on mens approval for status, pickmes actions are based on male approval because they wont believe hvm exist and choose scrotes no matter how many times theyre left. When men and women stop behaving for male approval, they sparkle, they win, theyre free. It should be obvious, but when we actually just live how we want, were happy. Theres no scam, its not a trap, its the opposite. You can only gain from authenticity, whoever is left behind werent good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:27 PM
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I was hot on by a guy that told me his name, found him on fb and found he has a child and 20yr old fiance, so i went on her fb to tell her all the creepy things he told me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:11 AM
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Then dont make a mess? No mess=no chores
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:16 PM
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Jb relationship timeline is so transparent. They had an on/off relationship, and when he wasnt with selena he was with hailey and he knew she would go back to him at a drop of a hat. So when selena broke up with him he asked his other option to marry him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:00 AM
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Triangulation..girl, run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:36 AM
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Yeah its scary, being inclusive suddenly means accepting sexual and violent offenders..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:56 PM
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From Everybody Loves Raymond, his mother did everything for him even through his middle age. Raymond reflects his lazy entitled father. If a mother makes a boys life too easy, he will grow up to be useless in relationships, NVM. Its how a father treats women, thats what influences the son to respect women. It has norhing to do with how competent the mother is at parenting, except if she overcompensates then that is going to lead to disappointed partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:13 PM
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I think its important to know how a mans father treats women, because the only role to a son a mother indicates in regards to dating is how much he expects from women. But his dad is the role model of how much he respects women. Sons take after theur fathers, and unfortunately a single mother could be perfect but the father figure role model is crucial to respecting women. But a single mother cN still influence, as long as she doesnt do too much for him because otherwise no woman will compare be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:06 PM
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Yeah i think progression can actually mean setbacks sometimes and just mrans anything new which doesnt always mean its right. There has definitely been flaws in what is just packaged as progressive. I feel like its actually a combative word, like if someone tells you something is progressive that you disagree with its used to make YOU seem conservative or oppressive. But progressive isnt always free of oppression, but certainly a useful term to manipulate. Thats how modern sex acts keeps getting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:53 PM
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Its just a label to find a way to use it against people so they can say its discrimination 😑 Discrimination or not theyre a threat to vulnerable children and teenagers all the way up to 17 and theyre just trying to find a loophole in cancel culture to be accepted by society. Sounds like grooming society til they pass laws on lowering the age of consent..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:44 PM
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I like that mentality, taking hatred as a compliment. Always just comes down to jealousy even if it sounds cliche, its true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:39 PM
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There are now 2 types of women, feminists and internalized misogenists. So many pickmes believe theyre feminists..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:34 PM
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They still have access to lurk and dedicated subreddits(plural) to comment their opinions of our posts. Women are silenced so we made a women-only space, and theyre mad and feel 'silenced' even though they still get to winge..just not to us directly unless they DM which they do. They wonder why we need somewhere women-only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:31 PM
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Its like do they even know what sexualize means??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:27 PM
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It didnt start as a racism thing but it happened before blm then the misogynists framed it to later associate it with racism, the meaning of karen changed, but karen should be a unisex name. This is just misogeny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:11 PM
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Then maybe it is all men they just didnt know. In Australia 1 in 2 women over 15 report rape..then theres the unreported like me and every woman i know🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:58 AM
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Unique is a trigger word. When men use it, run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:53 AM
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Only focus on why you left them or their flaws. Believe they were imperfect and you were better off and the next one wont have those flaws. If he wanted to he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:49 AM
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Men would fuck their egos if they could, then probably get a taste of their own medicine..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:40 AM
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Should be called 'To the ends of the earth' 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:13 PM
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Yeah she can die mad💅 its your teeth and as long as your smiling thats what matters 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:49 PM
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Dear lord! So sorry to hear :( it only matters how you feel about yourself Queen👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:42 PM
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They make their own justifications by rationalizing theur opinion of consent..how convenient 🤡 If they have to rationalise if its not consent, its because they already know it is and theyre just preparing their case with excuses. Excuse or not, rape is a crime and it doesnt matter if ypu didnt realise. You still get penalised for any crime regardless of if you didnt know it was illegal. Why is rape up for negotiation!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:23 AM
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Apologize then go to jail..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:22 AM
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These male lurkers are wrong anyway, even some LVM i know respect my boundaries. They dont try to manipulate my standards. They dont just respect those boundaries and moved on, they still want a chance at a relationship no matter how long they know me. But i can still do better👀 The threat that no man would wait patiently is a lie🤷‍♀️its not even just the HVM willing..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:10 AM
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This. Once men realize they dont have the option theyll either have to get a reality check or die alone🤷‍♀️not us~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:04 AM
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Take it from me, no matter how long a guy felt unrequited love, no matter how many years, if you give them what they want, eventually they all get comfortable and take you for granted. Its no different from giving ugly guys a chance, they arent grateful it just boosts what they think they can be entitled to. Just live your life knowing they will always want you but will never have you💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:52 AM
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To not wear stripes because it looks like pajamas, 'man' hands, labia, perfect mascara application, freckles and weight. Plus my mum saying i look fatter with my hair down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:38 AM
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I wish pickmes would stop holding back feminism 😣 a naked person doesnt mean you legally have permission to rape so revealing clothing as an excuse is illogical. Its a funeral ffs! Always gotta get their boners though / s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:39 AM
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They say anything to absolve themselves 😑😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:32 AM
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And that church dude faced no consequence 🤡 he had more power than the most famous artist at the time..and the irony that it was Aretha Franklins funeral, famous for singing R-E-S-P-E-C-T, respecting women! This guy was supposed to grasp morals! To feel that secure doing that on live tv..this is what living in a mans world means even for the most powerful women :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:22 AM
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I get that, i agree it wouldve helped his case without that but he also said he wouldnt do that if he could and i rewatched, he litterally says 'cant say anything but i want to', thats what he resents but to me he pointed something out that gay men have been getting away with thats no better than if a straight man did it. Also its standup so hes probably saying anything to make his stories get laughs, but that story mattered to me and i didnt think it was focused a lot on jealousy. And i think i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:18 AM
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I didnt think it was framed that way, he tried to laugh about it since its standup but he also seemed more protective of his girlfriends comfort because in no way is it okay. If anything it seemed to frame that he COULDN'T stop it in case it came off homophobic or possessive..so i think thats what he resented. Like "im a gay dude whos gunna stop me? Either way it only makes your bf look bad if hes got something to say🤡"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:45 PM
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Theres an interview of rose mcgowan that expresses this frustration. 5:56 of the link. Felt it in my bones. youtube.com/watch?v=F5rNnqSG-io
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:28 PM
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Thank you for articulating this! I feel like every word men try to rationalize against feminism for women to explain is the men doing exactly this. Like asking dumb questions to a rape victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:52 PM
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This rings true when you understand the stillface experiment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:45 AM
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And calling us baby😳 thats even more normalized🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:35 PM
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Ask yourself-what would SINGLE you do? Trust that one sis and level up♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:14 PM
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Nah sis i dont think you can hear me over your presumptuous conclusions🤷‍♀️ said nothing of the sort. I know you think people are cute but billions are suffering because its not meant to be plural but agree to disagree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:53 PM
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If he aint a hercules whats the point? women are goddesses, what is he?💅 Also hope youre okay now♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:28 PM
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Yup, sex on tap with dating apps creating hookup culture made it too easy for men so now they dont wipe their ass🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:21 PM
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Procreation should be illegal now. The optimal population is 1B😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:15 PM
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It did feel like a 'just the way it is' obligation before i was 22 and broke up with my first bf and realised i didnt want parenthood. Childfree🥰 girls already spend most of there lives living for others, being an adult is freedom, live the rest of your life for yourself♡♡♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:12 PM
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They can neg all they want as we ignore them til they get the message women wont cater to oppression anymore💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:15 AM
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The patriarchy is 1 big negging scam of projection. Women are not the chasers so they tried to turn it around. Thus, generation after generation of pickmes. Women dont actually have anything to fear of dying alone. Men are obssesed with us so much they created a cult to condition us to act like winning a man is like worshipping god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:44 AM
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This is why im not having kids or getting married. Allow yourself the ease of escaping whenever you want without complicating it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:36 AM
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Thats what im always telling men. Lip service counts for nothing if its not directly confronting and calling out misogeny. Thats all an ally needs to do. A HVM calls👏him👏out👏 right then and there. Thats the litmus test. If hes willing to take a punch or lose a friend, thats how you know he respects women. I know because ive met one. Took a punch and lost a friend all in one day when he was single and before we met for standing up for what he believed in when his friend made a joke at the expense…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:28 AM
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Its not even actually aggressive, just aggressive "for a woman" because they EXPECT us to be constantly pleasant no matter how were treated. Thats why anger is an emotion men can have but not women, or were 'crazy' or a 'bitch'. Demanding smiles in passing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:20 AM
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They provide nothing thats why theyre low value and undesirable. Money as the only thing they provided is now, somewhat, what we can attain ourselves. And now science has figured how to create sperm from skin cells. Romance is a luxury to us now, if they make it worth our time💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:11 PM
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💯Just look what the male leaders did to mother nature...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:31 PM
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Theyre just hoping girls see that. Its all about tricking women. 17 isnt legal. And 18 is any different? No. Theyre pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:40 PM
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There is no wall💅💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:32 AM
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The only reason she questioned this at all is because the patriarchy conditions girls to fear their age to commit to men before their brains have finished developing and not leave because 'wHo wOuLd wAnt mE afteR bEing a tEenagEr' which allows men to treat women like doormats because of the 'dying alone' lie. Women have to do the opposite of double standards to even be empowered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:28 AM
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Yeah i think there are 2 ways he could view a strong independent mother too, either respect or resentful. Green flag or red flag. Also red flag to guys that have positive views about women that say 'shes chill nothing ever bothers her thats what i love about her'..because hes saying she puts up with anything and thats because he wants a doormat. Also be careful of them using triangulation. And personally im attracted to laid back men, but i never viewed it like it comes from nothing bothering th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:10 AM
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Make strong friendships and focus on your career. Women dont hit a wall, theres no rush.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:03 AM
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Ostracism is how culture works, theyll either step up or die out 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:00 AM
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Thank you for this comnent. I think when dating its a good idea to ask what their mother is like to know if the guy respects women. As you said, puts herself first, takes care of herself with queen behaviour. If a man respects women youre more likely to be treated right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:56 AM
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Thanks so much for sharing! I looked them up and they seem to have an unusual numbering system for sizes. Im a G cup so what number did you pick? ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:41 AM
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Yep it all comes back to silencing women to keep their privilege to continue oppressing women under their brainwashing that theyve tried so hard to keep going. You cant unshatter the rose glass. They are threatened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:44 AM
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Ok so it wasnt a man, but when i was 23 a woman thought i was 18 because at mimimum id have to be to be out of school she didnt know how young i was and asked me, she definitely treated me like a child going as far as calling me 'little one' but i didnt mind because it made my job easier by being easier on mehaha but she was bitter when she learned im 23. Im 28 now and 23 is young but i thought her reaction was a bit ridiculous. A 19 year old i currently work with asked me my age and she couldnt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:39 AM
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Writing a burn letter is truly therapeutic, set the past on fire and move forward like a phoenix rising from the ashes. Youre free💫💝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:02 AM
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I've always said to incels they have a whole community of female incels to date and they cant argue :p theyre just hypocrites. So many women date outside their league but theyre treated just as badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:47 AM
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Yeah you cant reset brainwashing after 5 minutes, but what creates more subscribers is that albeit sometimes more blunt than women are 'allowed' to be which may be why were treated like bitches, we speak the undeniable truth and thats what makes them start giving every post a chance then the rose glass shatters. And then its the start of something beautiful, self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:37 AM
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Assuming is why rape culture works. We are blamed for trusting. Guys say not all men because they still want us to trust them. Rejection is protection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:15 PM
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Thats what made sense to me! But no, if i cooked i had to clean the dishes i MADE dirty🤡 while they eat it then dont wipe their ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:40 PM
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Not for zero in return, thats why theyre pickmes. Thats their motive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:05 PM
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Yet they ate what we cooked🤡 slavery never ended for women even in 1st world countries, pickmes are still out here holding feminism back🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:37 PM
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How can men possibly think women are worse than them? This post perfectly demonstrates such a common dynamic women live with because were women. I cant ask for help with the dishes because im told im the one that cooked🤡 This is our reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:06 AM
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Thank you!🙏 Personally, probably from growing up with gross brothers, but personally i have an AVERSION to any kind of mucus. I have to be extremely attracted to a guy to even want to kiss him while still hoping they dont use too much saliva. And thats just me and if im an anomaly then thats the way i am, it is repulsive to me to be expected to want to taste a guys precum and swallow semen! And if a guy feels the same about cunnalingus i wouldnt blame him or expect anything. But i am livid that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:50 AM
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Super delusional. In no world does a woman just crave giving a blowjob to someone they barely know for zero in return. Probably expects her to swallow too. Just ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:06 AM
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We can make sperm from skin cells anyway, reproduction only requires women now. But we dont need reproduction for a long time, were 7x over the optimal population
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:56 AM
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Why on earth would a woman want to meet up with a guy to only give a free blow job? 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:54 AM
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There were so many other women harrassed by this guy too! We cant allow womens lives to be dictated by fear like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:49 PM
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Possibly since he wouldve seen himself being recorded on her phone but didnt stop 😬 and that many, many women have also been harrassed by him but lived to tell the tale
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:45 PM
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The nerve of that guy just shows how secure men feel to do criminal things like getting away with rape as they often do..this guy was on a mission not even a red light stopped him. And so many women have dealt with this same guys intimidation! With his cockiness perhaps hes already accomplished his motives before 😬😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:42 PM
1

Please guide me🙏💫💝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:28 PM
2

Just. Woah😦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:13 PM
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Negging. They need women to feel inadequate to trick them into thinking theyre lucky to have him. Because he knows the truth is hes out of her league and scared he could be replaced. Projection as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:07 PM
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Yep and not being reminded or asking to do their share and feeling like theyll later manipulate you if you ever ask for a favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:54 PM
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Yes! Fucking brush my hair away from my face! The little things add up and they are powerful😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:49 PM
2

S shouldnt even be in it to begin with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:26 PM
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They cant even get sex right yet they think they can call the shots on how it works🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:22 PM
10

Were never going to die alone single or not because well have a golden girl sisterhood💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:45 AM
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I saw this post! Very satisfying. What a clown, he really has that entitled mentality down 🤨 so much duh to the consequences, does he really expect the whole world to revolve around his every desire? dear lord!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:39 AM
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Destructive promiscuity, i heard about women with 'daddy issues' (abandonment issues) that are promiscuous is a form of self harm. I thought that was eye opening. Consent doesnt mean its right. But ESPECIALLY when youre trying to enforce fake woke liberation that bdsm should be the norm and vanilla is frigid. They shame vanilla sex but we cant question the implications of consesual abuse?? Shaming vanilla sex is pickme culture, it means women feel like we have to do more than were comfortable wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:21 AM
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An idea might be all men have reversable vasectomies until the woman and man mutually want children👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:45 AM
1

What is STEM 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:29 AM
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I saw on netflix a show called Bonding, the dominatrix studied pdychology and the proffesser mentioned that when we play out our kinks its actually just retraumatizing rather than healing. Its supposedly healing because you know its coming so the consent makes you feel in control but just because its a kink doesnt mean its healthy or helpful. Thats from the sub side. Men that want to dominate are purely evil sadists that want to take it out on someone weaker than them. It SHOULD be shamed. Libfe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:23 AM
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The reticular activating system in our brain influences behaviour reflected from what we view on a regular basis. "The Reticular Activating System helps you see what you would like to see and in doing this, influences your actions." Aka monkey see monkey do. People just dont want to let go of their violent entertainment and say videogames/porn/tv etc doesnt influence violence😒 it does! The same way the theory of the 5 ppl were closest to influences our identity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:11 AM
6

Great post😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:00 AM
5

This🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:58 AM
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Thank you for posting💝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:23 AM
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What is pos😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:42 AM
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Its litterally the whole worlds business, thats why we put ppl in prison so the rest of the world is safe🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:41 AM
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The real ladies night should be ladies only 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:46 PM
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The only personality test i trust is helen fishers. 4 types with a secondary, but she says its a spectrum and to not think we only share traits from 1 type. Its based on the 4 neurotransmitters estrogen, testosterone, dopamine and serotonin. Whichever one is more dominant and second dominant. Shes got enough data to back it up. It also explains what type we are compatible with too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:22 AM
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This is litterally the reason for pickme culture. Like if you dont do this like they did ill find someone that will😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:20 PM
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Ah so its expressing a criticism or preference about someone else for setting their standards. My intuition has sensed triangulation which made me stop trusting who i thought was a good guy after making irrelevant complaints about exes. "They didnt care enough" so you expect that to make me prove i care a lot..no thanks burden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:13 PM
12

Do men just behave soley based on status from male approval?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:07 PM
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So are video games🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:02 PM
4

Could you please explain triangulation 👀🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:54 PM
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Good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:12 PM
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Negging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:11 PM
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He couldve waited 😑 that pickme logic defeats the purpose🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:07 PM
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One idea is a female doctor, they can be as dismissive as the men but men are more likely dismissive since they dont experience what we do. The fact men did studies comparing a kick to the testicles compared to the pain of labor..would seem to justify my opinion 😑 As if a kick to the nuts is a natural phenomenon. Probably deserved it so why is it a contest of pity? 🙄 scrotes just cannot handle the concept of empathy towards women..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:38 PM
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Yikes. Also after reading those stats about household labor, im just not gunna have kids and spend it on a cleaner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:20 PM
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You said it, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:01 PM
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And they dont just want fap material, they want new pics on tap so they use manipulation 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:12 PM
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Thank you! Valuable advice 🙏🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:27 AM
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Absolutely, female artists dont have 100% creative control most of the time and the male gaze sells :/ but they can sing whatever they write and no one has to listen if its not their taste. But sure let snoop dogg base his career on objectifying women.. thats fine /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:18 AM
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As Madonna put it, you can be sexy but you cant own your sexuality according to men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:52 AM
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Its like the equivalent to big dick energy..kinda sad that this is the only way men function :|
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:58 AM
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Competent men are just better to women🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:54 AM
10

Where are the gentlemen at?😫😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:44 AM
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Yeah tbh i didnt know how to react and i still cant believe it. Men have no shame. Pigs. Maybe they tried to make me uncomfortable and thats what they get off of?🤔wouldnt surprise me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:41 AM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:37 AM
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I dont get it either. Maybe porn should just be replaced with smiles 🤔 at least the women wouldnt be abused, just modelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:31 AM
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Agreed but are theyre plenty?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:19 AM
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Guys tell me they have done this to my fb selfies which are neck up 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:18 AM
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Sending selfies prove nothing. Only face time so its bs. They just get bored and want something new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:48 AM
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I like the way you put it :) coddling didnt get us any where so the gloves are off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:51 AM
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Her bf, husband or relative :/ thats why she generalized with man she was supposed to trust. I didnt know it was 10 daily hospitalized 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:26 AM
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Men talking about womens beauty better look like hercules 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:40 PM
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Ok i never thought I'd tell this to anyone but it fits here. So my ex is a tr ans woman pre-op and so after breaking up but living together and remaining friends they went cold until they decided they wanted to continue cunnalingus on me. Initially i was confused and that shouldve made me not let them til i knew how to feel about it looking back. But since they wanted to still have some sort of sexual connectiin i can confirm, no one is more invested if they want to gain something sexual. I have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:25 PM
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One person to clean after is easier, thanks for tellin it like it is💅 😙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:17 PM
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Shame them in their place💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:18 AM
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Lets swap words to see if we can still get away with our actions🤡🤡 Litterally describing prejudice, describing discrimination, describing sexism, its misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:50 AM
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That is a good point about gendering problems as female, i think this is also a topic in discussion about naming natural disasters with female names like hurricane Katrina 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:58 AM
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Yeah its not just referring to cars here its litterally anything or any situation. The attitudes here can be too laid back sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:45 AM
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Lucky country if youre a man..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:46 AM
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'She'll be right' is a common phrase used in Australia to communicate casually that 'itll be fine' or 'it should be alright' not necessarily in regards to a woman but anything, even objects. For example, running out of pepper but cooking with just salt "She'll be right", as in the meal should still be fine. I used to think people actually meant 'should be alright', but they say she. So for me this message isnt just asking when will she be right (believed) but also when will she be alright? Women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:25 AM
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Yeah theyre so mad were putting women first for once. This may be the most important FDS post for lurkers. Much love back Queen!💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:35 AM
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This is where feminism is at, i think fds is a 4th wave feminist movement. Thats why there is so much backlash, because unlike 3rd wave feminism, this time its just about benefitting women. It does not oppress men, it means they have to step up or step off because were not fooling for the libfem lie anymore that only benrfitted men. And scrotes are mad that theyre going to lose those priveleges that oppress us. The women that dont understand why we complain are pickmes because they see no other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:25 AM
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Technically they were broken up, he was decent enough as an ex and as a person to still bring up the issue for change. He had a bad rep so anything he said was going to be slated :/ just because you talk about gay men doesnt mean every word is homophobic, straight or gay- women are victim to both their sexual harrassment as pointed out here a lot in the comments. Theyre not all harmless to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:07 AM
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But if youre a woman hygiene is being hairless with a bleached asshole that resembles an actual rose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:33 AM
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It always comes down to pushing how we feel aside for how they feel 🙄 a lot of us have litterally been victims oh but lets not offend YOU with our reality🤨 totally fair/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:30 AM
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I dont even feel safe home alone and double check the locks already knowing i locked them..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:22 AM
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Just👏because👏youre👏 gay👏doesnt👏make👏it👏ok👏. I swear theyre just as entitled as straight men that think they actually have more privelege like lining up in girls bathrooms making us wait longer. You have a gay club, we dont have women only spaces! Not even the bathroom.. I work in a nightclub and deal with entitled gay men all the time and they have the nerve to argue with me to go in the same stall at the same time with their female friend. If youre gay you wont mind waiting to go in one alone! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:09 AM
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Yes! Thank you! Not all gay men are actually safe to be around. They still have male entitlement and treat it like a privelege like we dont expect them to rape us, but they still sexually harrass us like 'they can' as if straight men never do 'so its different' um no all types of men do and now theyre just another type we cant always trust. Its not funny its harassment. Im not a fan of pete davidson but i watched his netflix standup an dd he talks about this topic about how gay guys inappropriat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:00 AM
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In Australia the female rapists are apparently 3%, oddly they are convicted more than the 97% of male rapists🤔 sounds rigged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:54 AM
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If gay men put in effort to make women comfortable why cant straight men? Its their own fault that we are hypervigilant and we dont deserve to live like this with our guard always up just minding our own business. I just dont understand the men that say they shouldnt have to do anything like cross the other side of the street or resort to saying how its not equality or something. Yeah dude, 1 in 3 so fuck right off and show some decency. Not all men, but its still men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:50 AM
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Big yups, like how is war civilized? Its still barbaric but here we are 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:43 AM
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I 100% believe men and women shouldnt be friends unless theyre coworkers that dont see eachother outside work. Its not worth the risk, i had to learn the hard way. Even though he said i wasnt his type he still tried to rape me. We dont need to be their friends, we have eachother for that. Its.not.worth.the.risk. I never saw it coming too, he knew i had a bf. Please just stick with your girl friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:32 AM
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Thats why i said theyre still not a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:36 PM
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Love dont cost a thing and we've got our own. If its not for love shes only in it for sex not the money he doesnt have😅 whether you're a pickme or HVW, ladies arent gold diggers. Weve been shamed against it enough so that its rare if there are any gold diggers left unless its an agreed sugar baby situation but its still not gold digging because theres no deception of what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:22 AM
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They already do..😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:37 AM
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Exactly, revocable. This is the issue with rape culture, men using regret isnt rape as an excuse or that women cant say no after saying yes, anyone can change their mind about anything. Otherwise its being forced and in no situation is controlling someone acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:55 PM
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She is a true hero, super smart webbed thinking here to check she was safe in such a surprising situation. He was right there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:17 PM
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Love you more🥰😙😙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:05 PM
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So basically jealousy works on men. How can a woman simultaneously look up to someone shes helping?? Its my conclusion that mens dating philosophy is a projection of how they think rather than knowing how women think. Men cant stand the idea that a woman might be as selfish as he is so he writes women off instead of pulling his weight. Women really just arent as bad as they say we are to them. Rejecting before rejected. Women have nothing to prove and dont owe it to scrotes to be patient loving …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:51 AM
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So evil. Saying he didnt do anything, this is the kind of guy that spits not all men, so when violence isnt carried out were supposed to be grateful the rest are there intimidating us for fun? He needs to Gtfo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:48 AM
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No reason..you know it makes us paranoid, she doesnt KNOW youre not gunna do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:42 AM
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Its not about dick pics, its the way they talk about women with disrespect or confessing their cruelty to bond~thats where you dont choose to bond over it but tell them its not acceptable. Thats it ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:20 AM
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In long term relationships so they dont have an excuse to cheat or leave because of their entitlement. Basically keeping up with sex on the regular or face consequences. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:38 AM
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So glad vice 'told' on us :) weve been waiting for this revelation to the public and were on our way with this mans shout out for men to be better💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:35 AM
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By calling men out instead of giving women a standing ovation for trying. He needs to be doing more than give us praise. Thats virtue signaling. Its just not productive enough. He should be telling men to fight the good fight for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:52 AM
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Are we doomed? Is it just going to get worse? Is there no hope?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:15 AM
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The female experience is exhausting and being a feminist is discouraging. If im honest ive come to the conclusion women have taken us as far we can in regards to pushing men to be better. Men have benefitted from feminism but they still refuse to listen to us so apart of me feels like i cant do more than tell lip service men to be accountable, it shouldnt have to be told but i feel its all i can do because i feel like thats where we are at in terms of change. All thats left is for men to choose …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:52 AM
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Theyre scared of losing friendships or dont think the confrontation is worth it since its not really their problem😒 I will say though, surprisingly, a LVM i knew took a punch from his friend that held him accountable for his comments. Men will never all be perfect but as long as they keep eachother accountable they are contributing to the good fight and its always appreciated. Yes! We need to say to every man to hold their fellow men accountable instead of paying lip service. If youre not part o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:21 AM
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Great to hear male fans but if he cares about the good fight then hell keep men accountable. Thats all it takes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:42 AM
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Thank you for your post!♡♡♡ These discussions are eye opening, i learn so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:55 AM
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I hope more lurkers feels the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:48 PM
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Every woman a woman knows, evety woman a man knows. All of us. Enough is enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:18 PM
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This is the only podcast i would bother to subscribe to♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:15 PM
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Can manage, just wont
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:59 PM
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Love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:39 PM
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Ignoring catcallers kills us now😩 ok this rape culture seriously needs to stop. Nothing we do is keeping us safe! We need change! I gotta add, if your guy friends say women need to stop being nice to men harrassing us i think the nice for what really applies. Only be nice if you feel being rude is unsafe or if you actually reciprocate mutual feelings. Women need to be bitches it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:08 PM
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Trust takes time. That should be understood without question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:39 PM
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Empowering women in their careers then deflecting womens safety means shes a libfem, libfems are pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:34 PM
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The men arent backing us after all theyve benefitted from feminism to include them, but theyre always there to yell not all men..the patriarchy is a cult. We are silenced. No matter the statistics. Can it really get any worse before theres none of us left?? Like 'oopsy there all gone now were all done for' 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:30 PM
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Libfem logic puts all women in harms way, like this Davina pickme. So sorry faith in humanity only hurt you. I know how it feels. Thats why im not fruends with men anymore. Not offending mens intentions is not our priority, many of us learned the hard way its not worth the risk. We dont need to chanfe, men need to hold other men accountable and stop putting their ego before how WE feel. We should be a ble to feel safe as adults! The world should not be a playground for men that women have to nav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:24 PM
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I think ive had enough internet tonight :( i just want to be on another planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:09 PM
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This is why i never leave the house. I cant even depend on police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:07 PM
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Thats exactly what this is! Can people stop chiming in about mens ego over reality of womens safety? Its👏not👏rare👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:05 PM
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In Australia every week a woman dies from an ex/bf/husband/male relative. Every day women here are hospitalized from domestic violence. According to WHO 1 in 3 are raped worldwide but im not discounting the unreported so 2 in 3. Shes a liar. The worst pickme. It could happen to her, it just hasnt yet. Someone open her eyes before she lets her friends get raped because shes busy nagging not all men in hopes of marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:01 PM
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Not as dangerous as those same men doing nothing to keep the violent men accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:57 PM
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Men are murderous when women reject, which is why we try to be nice. And besides pickmes, women dont pursue because we know were the prize💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:34 PM
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Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:27 PM
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That lord of the flies comparison 😳 where is the lie? And the thing is, its really men that see feminism as battle of the sexes with the presumed motive to be a matriarchy for world domination or something, 'women running the world'. We dont think like them. Thats not the idea or what we want. When women go their own way, they actually do, men that claim to go their own way still wont leave us alone. Women can live without men, men acknowledge our value and wouldnt want to live without us. They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:18 PM
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Yes! Thats the whole point of laws and culture, social pressure. Because if it makes the good men suffer for bad mens choices they will hold those men accountable so we c a n all be free. Isnt that the point of law? Instead of victim blamey prevention that doesnt work, take away their freedoms to put them in there place. So not just women suffer but the good men too so there actually is onus put on men to not harm. So were all safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:05 PM
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Dont give men power with reinforcing excuses like being more primitive. Were all human, they can control themelves and if they cant they should be convicted. But its rape culture, which means its learned behaviour, it can change but they havent had enough push.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:51 AM
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If men cant control themselves we need more laws of controlling men to protect women. Not all men are courteous or considerate of how unsafe women are or feel and no one deserves to live like how we women have been navigating public spaces alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:47 AM
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Girllll👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:01 AM
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What i thought. Theyre talking about their slave not keeping on top of EVERYONES mess at all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:58 AM
1

What did he say? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:54 AM
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Rejection is protection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:53 AM
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Nice for whaaaaaaaat? 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:49 AM
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Thanks! Yes! They want to do neither, but thats not our problem anymore. Which means itll inevitably push them. FDS helps men indirectly, as always we women are just pushing men to be better through unconventional means~respecting ourselves. Either way, we are living our best life. We have freed ourselves from a life sentence given to us we grew up. Never again. We know our self worth, the secret that men tried keeping from us as their entitlement. Our value remains without them there to use it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:46 AM
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Slowly but surely opening their eyes 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:30 AM
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Recruit! Recruit! Ive also sent a link to a new friend after we agreed on a lot about the female experience with men. This is it ladies, more FDSers will enforce new standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:10 AM
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Absolutely! Were hungry so breadcumbs is meaningless. Give us a bakery or go home and learn to bake because were out here making dough, nice for what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:08 AM
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Samesies~humongous bear hug back!🐻 I'd also like to add that this has to be the most legit sisterhood ever. Women were living in a world where they had no where to turn because we couldn't trust men or pickmes. Thank you my FDS sisters! 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:01 AM
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That's ok hun, we arent a hive mind or an echo chamber but we are supportive :) there are women here from all walks of life with a lot of the same experiences and respect that not everything is agreed on. We dont all need to be the same, some women here still want marriage and kids, thats their choice and perfectly okay. But any woman can learn a lot on how to protect themselves and live life to their benefit instead of settling for a martyr mentality. We dont have to be martyrs to be accepted h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:57 AM
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This post was a great idea. Naturally people will check it out after that publicity and they will be better informed. We are not biased. We talk about examples of good men too. We give hope but not false hope. We are about whats realistic and how to not set ourselves up for failure and protection. We are here to learn, through science links and sharing similar experiences. No men are allowed to comment because we need a space to share experiences without being harrassed. Every day there are post…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:32 AM
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Ok i thought further into this and i think i know why it reoccurs. Its hard to learn from. The way to stop it. I know that sounds victim blamey, but what i mean is i think we react the same, like freezing for me, so we get the same outcome. Its still the guys fault for not reading body language, because obviously we know communication doesnt feel like itll work if we already feel intimidated etc. Im trying to work on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:37 PM
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Thank you for your kind words, sharing your advice and your experience:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:27 PM
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Block and deletttttte 🤣🤣 how is the prospect of him dating my friends if he changes his mind about me later gunna win over any girl? He was super disney prince handsome too but clearly this line isnt working for him😅 you dont give away your strategies dude..just nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:41 AM
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Met a guy on an app that basically said this, because he admitted it like an idiot. Saying lets be friends see where it goes if it doesnt work out well stay friends be in eachothers circles to meet other people🤡 nah sis, block and delete. So before he even was looking for anything serious he just told me his strategy. Still with the intent of ending up either with me or one of my friends depending on how he feels over time. Good luck with that line buddy, hes still on hinge a year later 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:38 AM
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Yeah tbh i think it will spread FDS and it converted us from pickmes so it will be a breath of fresh air to the women that find us. I think thats how i found FDS, through negative word of mouth on reddit. But i didnt see a probem :) This could be a good thing. It doesnt matter what the men continue to believe, its more women finding FDS for a cultural shift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:40 AM
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Its very conflicting :( first time was 18 with my 6 year bf, the other 4 times with the last one of 5 years. Its hard because i freeze everytime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:51 PM
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1 in 3..hm. i think 2 in 3 are unreported so a ll of us👀. Because we all know at least 1 in 3 is unreported..so yeah 2 in 3 no doubt. Has anyone here not been raped? So many of us feel like its all of us. Please correct me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:06 PM
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I think its fair to assume all the unreported are the ones that are the other ratio. I have not reported, all the girls ive known have confessed to me unreported. Theres enough, too many unreported. Ive been raped 5 times but idk how i can get anywhere seeing as how women arent believed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:58 PM
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I have had 2 boyfriends, both raped me, im single now and paranoid itll happen every time. These were both the unassuming "harmless nice guy' types..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:53 PM
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Exactly. Shame is the only thing that enforces cultural change, that it will no longer be tolerated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:43 AM
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Thats how cultural change works, we just need more men and pickmes to get on board.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:35 AM
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Also scary, i wouldnt feel safe about any of that. Being together outside at night being harassed like that..that couldve been dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:35 AM
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Please? No But youre beautiful! How does that change my mind? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:31 AM
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Thats how homer got marge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:22 AM
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Oooh we all need to be hitting back with that everytime guys demand a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:20 AM
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Yesss, he knows hes a pickme magnet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:18 AM
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I think its a form of negging. Trying to make them jealous and insecure to make them desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:42 AM
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Tried rejecting her after being rejected😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:08 PM
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Asserting dignity isnt petty ♡ nice for what? The patriarchy is all about men being petty so they need to be put in their place every time. Were not in their playground because we share this space. Speak up because how we feel matters too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:58 AM
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Yeah the nice guys willing to help but never accept help are strategizing to be a martyr so when they do have an expectation they hold it over you that youre selfish after everything they did. Its manipulation, my mother does it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:15 AM
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When can we all just transfer ourselves to venus? Starting to think maybe men and women are from different planets🤔 because i dont feel like i belong here sharing the same air as these predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:07 AM
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Ultimately what helped me understand being against 50/50 is that cheap dates are so they can afford constant dates with more women. So a man thats actually into you will try to impress you and i can vouch from experience. A guy i wasnt even technically on a date with spent $200 on me hanging out with no kiss or entitlement. He was a gentleman and said he wouldve spent more with no expectations. He wasnt rich, he was a junior bartender but thats where he invested his minimum wage. Romance is a lu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:26 AM
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Theyre sadists. Getting off on their discomfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:16 AM
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Im childfree, married or not id be the same in a relationship with a life partner after i trust them. Having my own money is the protection and not sharing assets. So the only loss is them, which is no loss. Divorce stills says goodbye to time/youth invested, with stigma attached unfairly to women. I wasnt implying marriage traps men but the way you explained it for security i personally dont believe changes commitment. Marriage is a choice and i respect that, simply sharing perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:02 PM
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Thats the trash taking itself out hun :) trying to trap a man wont mean you get treated right. If he wanted to he would. A ring wont change that. Im buying my own house, i would never share assets with a man, just make my own money. Thats our freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:51 PM
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More women have depression, they are just less likely to commit suicide because of dependents. This is fact. Even ive been guilted into not killing myself before..think about usss selfishhh dont be stupidd. I wasnt suicidal (was as a kid but i hid it well) but they knew i was diagnosed with depression. They still felt the need to make it about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:04 PM
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Society tries to convinve women of a lot. Marriage, motherhood, stay at home mother or wife. Ignore society, its rigged against us, just do what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:01 PM
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Love when we can hit back with facts~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:13 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:20 AM
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Knew it! You gain nothing from a marriage license. Im childfree and marriagefree and never compromising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:16 AM
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These are reasons often used to convince the practicality of marriage but they just arent reasonable enough for me. Its all in hypotgetical scenarios too. Its a piece of paper because theres no practical instantaneous benefits. Its a legal contract though so its not exactly just a romantic sentiment, its a potentially pending divorce like shrodingers cat. Will it wont it? Its that risk, one that has ruined lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:07 AM
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I like that i can walk away compared to a divorce. I feel like this can also keep men on their toes, the fact you CAN always walk away. Whereas its that much easier to be taken for granted when its legally binding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:02 AM
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I'm choosing to be marriage free, but still date for a life partner. Its a personal choice but i think its more empowering than marriage. Id prefer a breakup than divorce, theres more stigma against women after divorce compated to just a breakup. To me the relationship is no different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:58 AM
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Yeah i think realistically it goes NV, LV, Man, HVM. Its rare to find a real Man which is basically just a functional adult that wont cause you problems, i think a HVM is even more rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:53 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:52 AM
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Exactly, stop brooding and make a difference. Men want women to fight for mens equality but what are they doing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:55 AM
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Yeah, also why say not all men if its 90%? If youre the 10% do something about it, otherwise you may as well not exist-so yes all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:53 AM
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Maybe men will listen to him validating FDS though. Scummy dude but its out of a mans mouth to mens ears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:51 AM
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He's ashamed and wants to die, but hed feel better if he was an ally to women by putting men in their place. Obviously men dont listen to women, this guy read whst its really like and opened his mind to the truth. To change this culture we need men to have a discussion to be better. Thats why we need FDS, to share what we go through so we know were not alone and how to level up. We are not heteronormative, then they wouldnt complain about how we feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:37 AM
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I wish women were from venus and men were from mars sometimes..i hate it here too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:29 PM
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Absolutely thats what i was going for :) all us queens need to clap that back. Like I do this for myself, so what are they gunna do??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:22 PM
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How about...mens expectations are unrealistic. They just dont want women to have standards, no matter how logical. Its called a partnership, not slavery. Maybe gold diggers never even existed. But when theyre broke theyre allowed to be a gold digger? Hi double standard~ Imagine speed dating, you dont pick someone broke, you dont love them yet, why should you be expected to give a lazy bum a chance when you can thank you next? Love doesnt factor in before exclusivity but the first question is alw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:15 PM
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No🙃 get therapy and be worth HER mental health. Like the rest of us. You dont date when you need help..thats what therapy and friends/family are for. Also men would never, unless they were preying on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:59 PM
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I love this. Ive been starting to do more things for myself. Like in your picture, buying myself my favourite flowers, pink roses displayed in my house 🥰 When offered low-effort dates we can hit back with i take myself on better dates than that💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:22 PM
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Yeah. How we treat a person really is how we treat everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:04 AM
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Ok now i really understand why only more expensive first dates mean something. If you talk long enough for him to be ready to see you, when he knows he really likes you, hell do his best to impress you, make an effort for a good first impression. How could one win a prize by doing as little as possible to achieve anything? If winning anything was that easy wed all be winners in the game of life. And it turns out, even though i wasnt high maintenance, my first date ever i was spoiled over $200 do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:01 AM
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Everything someone, man or woman, does to treat people, is all you need to know about how theyll eventually treat you too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:51 AM
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Yeah i thinks thats why he was adamant about saying it not being a date, he didnt like her, he likes the one hes telling hed pay for her dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:50 AM
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Men telling on men again~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:48 AM
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Laid back is my type but only if they match my effort and are decisive. Indecisive just means the responsibility always falls on the woman to micromanage everything. Im never putting up with laziness. I just like the calm demeanor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:50 AM
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Womanizer Pro w500 is very effective very fast not cheap though✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:41 AM
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Sex toys girlll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:34 AM
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100% to everything. Also exactly, dignified courtships. Its romance after all, make it count. Because romance is a luxury, we can live without them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:07 PM
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😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:35 AM
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Yeah that didnt sit well with me..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:34 AM
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100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:21 AM
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The comments are saying she wont find him, hes giving her too high standards. Well then lets tell men to raise the bar to meet those standards instead of just giving women false hope so scrotes stop saying 'dream on'🙄. Men will only step up when fellow men put them in their place. Thats how culture works..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:13 AM
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It is so rigged against women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:20 AM
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Totallyyyy. Its all to redirect attention to what it is disguising with words to lure you in, 'no its not the same as strangling, trust me, its just breath PLAY'. They use positive wording to sound harmless. Friends with BENEFITS etc. They fooled women good, theyre not as clueless as they act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:25 AM
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Men always imply women talk too much, but FDS has taught me not only does communication not always work but choosing to not communicate can also protect you. Speak your mind but be careful, knowledge is power and youre not always safe if they know everything. Idk why ppl even suggest to women to just communicate when were criticized for 'nagging'. As if women never bring up whats bothering them when thats mainly what husbands complain about women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:18 AM
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Yeah I think in general we cant generalize much of anything. But acknowledge comparisons in large numbers, theres always exceptions, all humans are unique, even identical twins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:11 AM
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Gender roles only apply to women, still. Thanks libfem. /s When we made space for men in feminism it only empowered them more on both sides. While were still here fighting to be heard. The equality in feminism is not to empower the genders for equality, that failed us. Feminism is for women to be equal to thecsame rights and opportunities as men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:35 AM
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They dont even know what love means so what do they offer? 'Unconditional love' is used against us with guilt tripping into unlimited forgiveness so they never need to change OR lose you~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:32 AM
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Wish i realised this years ago. Men will always gaslight to justify their behaviour, like its all perfectly innocent and YOURE needy. No. They are neglecting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:26 AM
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I think petty has been overused to shame people, i think 'petty' has its merits sometimes. Be petty and proud, you were looking out for yourself. Men will never stop being the petty prince so serve your own justice as you please. I think real petty is only petty when its undeserved, just because you feel spite when youre trying to empower yourself when someone has been unfair i dont think its childish or really petty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:07 AM
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100% patriarchy is a full on cult with propaganda left and right, no pun intended. Even libfem was propaganda. Women are trapped in the cult of a mans world. FDS is all we have. Makes me link similarities to the hxlocaust. The patriarchy being the regime/hxlocaust, men being hxtler, nxzis being pickmes or libfems, women trying to escape axschwitz under pseudonyms to FDS and choosing to be single/level up. Scary is right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:50 AM
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We need to tell on people. We already have cancel culture, why do we still hide names of dangerous people? Call him out or hell never stop hurting everyone in his path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:44 AM
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Victim blaming is half of the issue with rape culture, victim blaming is all gaslighting, so exhausting and they know their questions are stupid with obvious answers. Its to tire us out. To give up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:40 AM
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Theyll probably invent a gravity defying bra before seeing us as humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:35 AM
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Its their brainwashing urge to reinforce gender roles to any woman they see challenging their beliefs with a mighty passion but will put no effort in wiping their own ass..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:32 AM
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Projection~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:19 AM
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Thats the word, scrotes can be unbelievably delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:33 PM
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"For him" that goes beyond audacity, men that really think the world revolves around them like that sound genuinely insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:50 PM
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Get a beware of dog sign either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:20 AM
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"Wuornos claimed that her victims had either raped or attempted to rape her while they were soliciting sex from her, and that all of the homicides were committed in self-defense. She was sentenced to death for six of the murders and was executed by lethal injection on October 9, 2002." Aileen Wuornos was executed in 2002 for shooting her 6 rapists. People think she was a crazy serial killer, she was a repeatedly raped lesbian in the 2000s that knew those men wouldnt be brought to justice. Her st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:15 AM
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Death is death. It should be penalized equally. A life sentence. The audacity of men to be so violent is because it really is like an unspoken understanding that they wont really face a just consequence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:03 AM
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Pleading insanity should still mean they are permanently exiled from society anyway. Such an overused plan b. You did the crime you do the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:59 AM
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We were supposed to get sushi but they closed so we got drive thru mcdonalds and went to a mountain lookout and on the drive home he got pulled over by police in my car that i let him drive because he didnt have one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:24 AM
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Ever changing trends in beauty standards is the ultimate negging so we never feel good enough, like you said, to manipulate women into desperation so we dont have confidence/self esteem to be picky so men hold the power of being the gatekeepers of relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:16 AM
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It was me! Wow thank you 😊 smiling forever♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:58 PM
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Hehe😊😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:49 PM
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tHiS iS wHaT hapPeNs NO! This is illegal. Dude how many times did he use the word act/acting to try to validate his argument. Victim blaming should be illegal, any victim blamey language including in court. Acting scared?? GTFO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:38 PM
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The hoops these people commit going through to defend and protect men so they can be pedophiles in peace..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:33 PM
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15 is better? 🤨 she COULD have?? So youre lying for him too?🤨🤨. Doesnt matter if she apparently wants to act grown, she CANT be responsible because shes NOT grown 🤯 iTs nOt hIs fAuLt🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:22 PM
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Humanity would finally be civilized. No more of a barbaric normative society. Even the animals that kill for play have more grace than scrotes. Thered be no more death count-based war.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:46 AM
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Yesss. Men can be so irrational so we have to micromanage their feefees when its us that is upset because of what theyve done. They shut down and turn the table. Its always our feelings that have to be set aside for theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:17 AM
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Alwaysssssss. The hypocrisy 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:12 AM
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HVM will always let you feel safe to speak openly about anything. Thats what its about right? Love being someone you can count on. Goes hand in hand with, if he wanted to he would. If you matter to him hell be happy to always accommodate your feelings so he doesnt lose you. I think what separates NVM and HVM is how they try to keep you, control or respect. Where we either feel trapped or choose to stay because our needs are met that they ensure they are desirable to YOU. I guess the HVM mindset …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:00 AM
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You just nailed male entitlement on the head sister. So right on. 'A WORLD BUILT TO SERVE THEM' 👏 'It would never occur to them that they AREN'T entitled something' 😥 Blasphemous 😔 All women need FDS so this changes. They would surprise pikachu face hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:51 AM
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I think its because boys are raised to be go getters even if they are incompetent, thats why we have women behind the man 🙄😒 while women are expected to only see inner beauty and to look HARD to see the good in ppl and always give a guy a chance. Nice for what? Its a control thing another double standard. Men can be picky, not women. We get called selfish, where boys will be boys, because they can be people and were not seen as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:46 AM
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The kind of men we need in bed is the type thst worships women rather than expecting what they do from women in bed. Even swallowing has been conditioned to be the norm, i still think its a depraved kink for obvious reasons. Its really an inconvenient standard if youre mucus averse🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:40 PM
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Absolutely, comparative suffering is denial and ppl that impose it are silencing women. Like the ppl that say femimism is only needed in third world countries. Psssst. My country is Australia and a woman dies every week at the hands of her ex/bf/husband/male relatives. Daily they are hospitalized from domestic violence. Now tell me western women still dont need feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:47 AM
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Thats exactly how it made me feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:42 AM
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They be like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:21 AM
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True. Men really just wait to be able to say it. They can die waiting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:20 AM
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Sounds like the screenwriter told on men👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:05 AM
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While still single as if they are the ones to guide them😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:58 AM
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Scrotes really just fantasize reasons to beat women huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:10 AM
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The patriarchial cult has gaslit women so we dont listen to ourselves. It goes beyond denial, were not allowed to think for ourselves. So many lines are used to guilt trip and 'reason' with women to always look for the good in ppl, innocent until proven, not all men. Anything that can propagate that women must always give chances even when they sense danger, to ignore our intuition to be fair. 'Reasonable doubt'. Never doubt your vibes over considering how someone else feels. Rejection is protec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:00 AM
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She needs to level up financially to escape him then do whatever will make her happy. Not only does she get her freedom, he doesnt get her 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:46 AM
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The same scam used for rape victims, if at first she consented she cant change her mind 🙄so much bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:44 AM
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Then why is he posting? Why does he care if hes an asshole if hes being one but wont be open minded?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:41 AM
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No love crumbs ever again, fill my heart or you wont fit into my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:36 AM
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As Yetta from The Nanny put it, men arent that interesting. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:34 AM
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😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱 Not surprised🤣🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:11 AM
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Yeah superman or bust because you know were out here being wonderwoman🦸‍♂️🦸‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:04 AM
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Always spurious and facetious 😒 being good on the inside is showing how you act, you dont need to look yet they are far and few in between to be found.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:59 AM
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He made it clear he is an abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:55 AM
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Equality is human rights🤷‍♀️ i agree that women should give up on those men, but they dont always have to choose to be single because they can find a better man instead of staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:31 PM
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How old are you? Curious which generation because it seems so inconceivable to you that women deserve fairness. Yes, all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:16 PM
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No they just need to find a better partner :) they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:26 PM
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And ive said single mothers are already a thing, so have others, by choice. It interests me as a female human to understand your agenda to answer your question. I said move on because it doesnt make sense to ask if your trying to reinforce negative stereotypes on a purple sub and it doesnt track if youre not interested in monogamy. Whats it matter if women are single? Has nothing to do with you, its their choice and they already know that. Now you do. No endgame, just minding their own business.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:48 PM
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Not all women want kids what you on about. Why is this taking up your mental space? The question is whats your endgame? Move onto sonething positive, how does this subject affect you? Women are doing their own thing and more of them are choosing to be single and refusing sex. So more single women doesnt mean theyll enter your life. So whats this have to do with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:58 PM
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Age & economic background is irrelevant. Its about attitudes and beliefs. Glad you found a good man. You just blew this guys mind haha so much for the only choices. Projecting hard, hes just butthurt so hes trying to reinforce inequal roles 🙄 good for you girl ✌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:52 PM
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Single women raise children alone all the time. 🤨 Youre trying so hard to reinforce womens traditional roles or ostracize them. Women find monogamous loving men that share equal labor. They dont need to be single, there are respectful men around. If youre not into monogamy why are you thinking about theoretical ways women should live?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:42 PM
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They act like clients are the same as all men including the good HVM. And thats what its really about. Even guys on dates feel entitled to touch in some way just taking you out to dinner-if you even get dinner since dinner dates are phasing out of modern dating 🙄 choice+ a whole LOT more sis to be empowered. SAHM may be a choice, but theyre not empowered. Sex work may be a choice but look at what happened with pornhub...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:35 PM
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Hah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:02 PM
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I think maybe in their minds they think in the right circumstances it could be empowering, but men still be men so not yet sis. Its easy for them to make arguments on how its empowering, but sorry it actually is only empowering if men change. Current sex work laws arent even empowering or protective. They also probably think "so many women are having sex and not getting paid, im not the fool here". But FDS gals dont💅. I really do wish for their safety though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:48 AM
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So embarrassing. Instant dump for shitty behaviour😅💩 Look at her manicure, you know she can buy her own. Men be petty af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:41 AM
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So your argument is women should be slaves or single? Youre questioning the endgame? Its respect. If all women decide to be single you wouldn't like that either. This doesnt sound like a very purple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:58 AM
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Subjugating is the key word to use against anyone that victim blames women. This is our life and they think we dont need feminism anymore. Victim blaming is subjugation and the nuance that makes our lives that much more difficult when we try to get out of the problems men cause us. Dont say its in their blood though 😬 just gives them the power to absolve themselves like they already do with "men are animals", its absolutely systemic conditioning and learned attitudes. Were all human, women are j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:31 AM
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Thank you for this, i have hope now too♡♡♡ im so glad you got out safely:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:23 AM
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The word hostage really is important, with domestic violence or in a rape situation you dont leave or fight tyhm off because of the intimidation and threat of dangerous repercussions. Fucking duh, why so many stupid questions. Put yourself in their shoes to imagine the reality😵 as if kids can just walk away from bullies..no, you know they cant just escape. Same with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:18 AM
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Havent seen it but made me think of Netflix Obsession:Dark desires, a true crime series of men that have tried to kill the women they stalk. I think one of the episodes, or some other similar show i watched, told a story about a doctor that murdered his wife using excessive diabetic medication (she was not a diabetic) because he didnt want her to be preganant or something :s but he got convicted after they did an autopsy. This made me never want to date a doctor, just another thing to worry abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:08 AM
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Absolutely and so happy you could get out 🥳 the patriarchy is designed so women cant win, gaslighting us for not being able to handle the problems they know men will give us but condition us as children to learn to be passive and not defend ourselves like its selfish and god forbid a woman ever puts herself before men even in regards to her own safety before his feelings or desires. Like grown men are enabled to have tantrums because THEY are allowed to be selfish and always get thrir way. Boys …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:31 AM
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You know what. Girls are conditioned to ignore their intuition, forgive, give chances and that if a boy hits you he likes you. We dont attract NVM, they prey on any woman and were stuck with the mental gymnastics of what to think when our intuition goes off because were always ecpected to consider them before ourselves, to have patience of a saint and be understanding/cOmMuniCate. Its not us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:52 PM
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With a passion they refuse to put the seat back down even though both genders use the seat 💩 and everything we do is EASY?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:42 AM
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Oh no its deleted before i could read it😟 could you maybe message me the advice please? 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:49 AM
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I've only been with uglies, thinking id be safer, every long term bf raped me. Looks dont matter because it means ugly doesnt make a DIFFERENCE. Only date who youre attracted to, the way its obviously meant to be. Women are expected to strive to look like 10s and doormats so ugly men can gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:35 AM
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More work?! 😠 Women ignored no matter what 😵 but yeah stop giving props to men for what women are never appreciated for. Men cant see past their 'entitlement', that mentality is why they never change never learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:14 AM
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Yes! The men in charge of consent laws get to decide what defines consent. But when youre in that situation where your boundaries are clearly ignored its rational not to say anything to stop it in fear anything you say will put you at risk of worse danger. This is the biggest issue about consent. Dont just tell us no means no when saying so could put yourself further in danger, because you are stuck physically with a DANGEROUS man overpowering you. Rational and instinctual, why animals play dead…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:59 AM
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Yup, if it were about self sufficient skills boys would learn too. Being someones slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:01 AM
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Rejecting before theyre rejected🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:01 PM
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Yasss queen 👸👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:42 AM
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Yessss. They just want us to be the monogamous one so they cant lose us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:33 AM
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Exactly! Just dont look! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:53 AM
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Aint that the truth😂 as if we crave constant disappointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:47 AM
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He can say that but women cant 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:45 AM
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Me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:37 AM
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I heard from someone when they were working at a bar, overhearing a guy say slut under his breath because a girl was wearing short shorts sitting at the bar as he walked past her. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:36 AM
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Big yup. Scrotes are always using equality AGAINST women when it comes to THEIR inequalities, shit like im not afraid to hit a woman 😑 I really wish the few women that do think they can hit men without consequence wouldnt, because obviously its wrong, also because that just gives men ammo to generalize and use against us saying that we can apparently hit men because they usually wont hit back. Despite the domestic violence against women epidemic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:56 PM
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What kind of pickup line is that? Hope you didnt respond, blocked & delete so maybe, MAYBE, he learns negging doesnt work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 02:05 PM
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Youre so right. "Things are not fair for women" not because some men are scrotes, but because ppl like you just stand there and watch. How are you the hvm/hero here? Publically virtue signaling hard 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:57 PM
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😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:55 PM
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Not personally but that certainly is a contradiction 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:35 PM
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Do men really think toilet paper is just for women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:47 AM
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Yup 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:52 PM
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I cant believe this is womens reality. Once all women FDS the world will be better for everyone. If he doesnt wanna take care of himself why should she? If he doesnt wanna touch his own body parts why would she? Nice for what? Eye on who after outing yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:44 AM
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You're paying him your company, if thats not enough block and delete. Hes a nvm user. (I know you already dumped him just saying in general)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:39 AM
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Because they know were goddesss that can do anything if we try and were expected to listen and understand, because they are too lazy to really be helped me they dont even want help, they want someone to put up with them like that means true love or they think theyre a bitch so women feel obligated to pander to them. They just want a woman to be an everything machine. Nice for what? Tbh tho i wouldnt even want to date a real therapist because id be paranoid theyd use their knowledge against me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:13 AM
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It shows so much care to not drive off even though theyre just walking inside☺️☺️☺️ says a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:04 AM
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Their entitlement is also expecting us to expect them to be micromanaged because god firbid theyvlift a finger or show any sense of consideration or being proactive. Unless its systemic approaches to actively keep women down that spend their time telling lies about how the world works 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:02 AM
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Im the same, i just think if you kiss a stranger they could give you herpes because why would he be honest if hes pressuring you? You cant always know if someone has it and they can just lie..i think id ask when they/we get a sexual health record check that they do the herpes simplex virus blood test too. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:36 AM
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The men of the law decide the definition of consent so that only perfect victims are believed, only the dead are believed. There are no perfect/obvious victims, rape is nuanced for every case. They made it this way so rapists more often get away with it. And so true, you can still be traumatized during even if you consented at the start. Thats the bs here, as long as she agrees from the start changing your mind doesnt count 🙄thats how they get you, super manipulative and i can say with confidenc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:21 AM
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Thank you😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:00 AM
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How do you turn off dms? I tried finding it but idk where it is🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:41 AM
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When a woman puts her mind to something, she is unstoppable 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:34 AM
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Nah. Even men going their own way that wonder these things are still obsessed with women. They cant change their instincts. They only go their own way because they cant keep a woman. Anyway Itd probably just be like rick and morty where the genders are segregated, it wouldnt be a literal war. The HVM wouldn't allow it. Women dont need wombs or motherhood to validate their existence. +incels wouldnt do anything because thats why theyre incels, they dont do anything. Ive seen a man ask this on red…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:11 AM
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Yup. Women behind the man 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:31 PM
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I dont think FDS is radical 🤷‍♀️ its not biased
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:02 PM
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You could be a womsn doing all the things a man thinks you should, it doesnt matter, you cant quench his thirst for validation. Like everyone else on the planet security comes from within, they are toxic and women need to love themselves and only ever do what makes ourselves happy. Romance is a luxury, not a need. They have to match your value and earn your trust to be worthy of your investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:24 PM
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Honestly any verbal/physical aggression is a big nope 🙅‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:15 PM
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It would certainly be a time saver 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:11 PM
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Absolutely and safety first. I remember being in a nightclub and some guy from VIP came right up and put his arm around me and made me super uncomfortable, whether theyre attracted to you or mutual physical attraction dont pay any mind, always focus on your safety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:54 PM
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This. So many dangerous things told to us. Giving the benefit of the doubt, owing them a chance, seeing the best in others, love at first sight, innocent til proven guilty...you said it-be unsure until they prove otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:50 PM
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Actually ive felt similar :s feeling pity on not responding to messages because their profile isnt a compatible match. Responding would just be a rejection but fearing reply is what keeps me ignoring them a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:44 PM
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Thanks, yeah at this point i refuse to give anything to my family, theyre all narcs. Its low contact. I really hope things get better for you and not get hacked again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:38 PM
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The internet is yet another place women arent safe :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:32 PM
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My younger half brother, a misogynist. I tell him the local news that an ex murdered his ex wife and children then himself with fire. First thing out of his mouth? WHAT DID SHE DO (to make him do that) My blood ran cold. I answered, put a restraining order on him. He displayed no pity and moved along. Thats all ill ever need to judge his character. I cried at the tragic news. It was close by too, she was living with her parents hiding from him about to take all 3 kids under 6 to school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:26 PM
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My brothers are both half too. Sorry to hear what happened 😞 misogynists protect eachother, if theyre a mans man theyre trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:16 PM
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Men dont listen they just say were nagging anyway 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:14 PM
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The bar was set low for women when they told us we must kiss a lot of frogs before finding a prince on top of the myth that love conquers all, you can change a man and the nurse syndrome of helping mens issues like a free therapist 🤦‍♀️ so naturally men would feel entitled with so many willing caring women apparently available with pickme mentalities no matter what kind of man they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:10 PM
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This is why men cant go their own way and why women can, especially with healthy friendships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:00 PM
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Its a misogynist thing because even though my younger brother tried being close to my ex my older brother never liked him and even tho i cant usually count on my brothers for anything i can depend on my big brother being protective when it comes to boys, my older brother is a feminist, my younger brother is a selective feminist..pro choice but displays generalizing sexism. So not a real feminist and takes it out on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:56 PM
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I have to keep men away from my family as much as possible 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:50 PM
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He hired him without asking me. I couldn't stop it. I didnt like it from the start. He even hired him before me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:45 PM
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No, they try to gain power over you by your family liking him more than you. Him+your family vs you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:34 PM
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Yes! When I was working with my ex where my brother hired us, knowing Id need to end it with my bf at the time, i hypothetically asked him what would happen and he said id have to live with it 😦 a ka if you dont like it-quit 🤡 btw i had 5yrs work experience before fam hired me, i was paid less than him/given less hrs than him/cleaning toilets while he cleaned glasses with a dishwasher, my ex never had a job til he got it because i was his gf. Seething.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:27 PM
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They really commoditize women in innumerable ways..so much sociopathic behaviours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:24 PM
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I second this. Compartmentalize all types of relationships. Any fall out that tries to latch onto your family will be hard to get rid of when you dont want them in your life. You dont wanna get in a situation where you miss out on family events and avoid your brothers parties because your ex happens to be there when you never wanna see them again. Be careful ladies. In my case, even tho my brother has a social life he attaches to all my bfs and it is SO annoying because it puts pressure on the r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:14 PM
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I see, a vetting checkbox on the journey to learning if theyre a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:49 PM
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This. Simp was a term made by LVM against men successful with HVW because HVW have standards and self-respect. Its the same as LVM calling men whipped for doing litterally anything for their partner. Shaming them to bring them down with them to keep the bar low so women lower their standards, well HVW are prepared to be lonely now than waste their time✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:45 PM
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I would love a simplified way to know if a guy is L/NVM but I've known LVM that were also impressed and interested with my hobbies/interests/goals. :/ its hard to know until they show it which means waiting and vetting and us HVW dont want our HV time wasted, so an immediate clue would be ideal but idk what is yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:16 PM
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The flaw is that women are conditioned to be pickmes ☹ no one deserves abuse, pickmes just struggle with boundaries so men can still be 100% trash yet have the upper hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:13 AM
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Well at least we understand now if any guy blocks us why they do and that its the trash taking itself out and to pay no attention when they try to come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:58 AM
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I've heard men say they dont deserve me too, why do they say that? Are they so cocky that they dont think we will be like okay bye? Which is why i broke up with my ex and yes he surprise pikachu faced instant regret begging me back. But why do they say it? Expecting us to reassure them? 'You do deserve me, i still love you' or some bs. Is it sadistic like they just want us to lower the bar like whatever they did 'iSnT tHaT bAd'.. Any clue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:41 AM
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Thanks for sharing this, a woman blocks for mental health, a man blocks a woman when he wants to shelve her 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:36 AM
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Yeah he could be looking too far into it, women change their hair all the time. He just wanted someone to agree with him for being an asshole about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:57 AM
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What did his dead ex have to do with hating his gf hair? Assholes dont wanna know theyre assholes 🙄 using a pity me backstory to soften the blow hoping someone will agree that hes not an asshole to throw it back in her face..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:37 AM
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I think you may be onto something~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:23 PM
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Legalize rape and make consent/rejection illegal 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:21 PM
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What dont you understand about me not initially knowing they were a celebrity? I could only assume someone ive never seen is the person posting with their picture, its a candid pic too. A celeb that works mostly behind the scenes. What is your endgame? Anyway idk what your deal is but youve got cool hair, enjoy the rest of your day/evening. ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:40 PM
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I didnt know about the celebrity so it didnt occur to me that its a fan taking their pic. Just thought it was sone random man and maybe OP didnt see. But now i know theyre a celeb and its just a fan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:32 PM
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Her time + feeling tricked for sex til hes ready to make an ultimatum 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:32 AM
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That age difference 🤢 he lied to get sex now hes making her choose his porn sick ass or the door..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:27 AM
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That makes sense, derp 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:07 AM
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I dont know who that is but thanks for sharing 🤦‍♀️ glad she found a HVM :) Edit: Wikipedia says they identify as He and is married to a woman so im more confused than before 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:40 AM
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Ah straight away the first 1 got me 😬. My last relationship was not equal but what he taught me is that i didnt have to try so hard-in other words i didnt need to be a pickme. I was a pickme because i didnt know women could feel secure in relationships, that we have to forever chase and serve to keep a man as default. So i think not feeling secure in a relationship, or the belief that a woman cant be secure if shes not constantly going out of her way for her partner, is the foundation of the pic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:36 AM
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I thought a man posted it :x isnt it a homosexual couple? The dp has a beard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:23 AM
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I cant believe some people dont even believe rape culture exists. Rape is a crime, you cant blame any victim for a criminals actions. If a woman kills a man she is imprisoned and rightly so, even if he was doing something wrong to her. Why, for rape, are men not held accountable? Even if she is teasing or whatever myth, its his choice to commit a crime, the victim shouldnt even be blamed because they weren't a victim of themselves, a crime is a crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:14 AM
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Ok enjoy the rest of your day/night🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:42 AM
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Hey there, it sounds like you need someone to talk to, i have a story too that i cant post because he knows I'm on with FDS but we can message if you like? Also when you found out he was in jail for attempted murder😱😱😱 good thing you looked him up! And glad you got out while you still could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:16 AM
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The scrotes are always older 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:16 AM
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It was off topic, all he shouldve said was thank you and offer a favor in return for her doing both their responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:02 AM
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She is not a couch creature. Lack of motivation is a chemical imbalance, which I could believe she may have depression with a scrote talking to her like that demanding more after she said she would do chores etc 'nothing major', just care taking for an ungrateful man child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:45 AM
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Big yup :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:34 AM
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Exactly, we have our guards up because we cant even expect basic human deceny at this point. We dont owe them immediate trust, they have to turn it around because sometimes having faith in humanity gets you killed just because youre a woman. Thats on them. Giving the benefit of the doubt only benefits them but risks our safety for their feefees. Hard to get? How about you surprise me with the bare minimum, but thats still not enough to get. And youre right, its not unreasonable to be wary of str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:32 AM
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If treating her with respect means hard to get because shes 'hard' to please its because theyre NV and she knows her worth. Respect is a human right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:22 PM
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If there were enough HVM, FDS wouldnt have begun. 'There are good people' 🙄 as if scrotes are few and far in between..or pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:05 PM
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Sounds like they dont want love just constant chase, which seems masochistic like they dont want to prove themselves they want to put you above them, and if you love them/no chase then they lose respect because they dont need to try if they won your love? 🤔 😳 wut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:53 PM
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'The inability to react to valid threats has put me in harms way' i think that was the goal of the patriarchy :( being conditioned to be in a constant state of vulnerability to make it easy to prey on. Women have every reason to feel general anger at our reality, but do we do anything? No. Do men? Hello Elliot Rodger. Men that hate women in general are not shunned for hate, but you know what? Women have every reason to hate what the patriarchy reinforces, the men that condition us to be vulnerab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:43 PM
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So many feelings and thoughts came to mind, it makes me feel defeated in this world. Like agoraphobia is just rational..but we cant let them win. We have to live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:36 PM
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Do they think skin is like taffy? Pretty sure elastin is there to return skin to its original shape when its 'stretched even slightly'. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:34 PM
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The 'logical' gender🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:27 PM
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Desensitizes them to dehumanizing women..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:18 PM
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Whatever priveleges men think women have dont negate how much more oppressed we are than them so its just silencing women.."well you have something i dont so quit complaining about the statistics of women getting raped everyday" 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:15 PM
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I dont want to need women-only spaces, but this is why we do but its a bandaid-not the solution. This made me cry. "Imagine a world where a young girl can go to class, have a group study session and come back home without being raped to death by boys she considered her friends" This makes me wonder if women could be the most oppressed when this is the norm. Death by patriarchy, death by rape culture as if rape wasnt bad enough. No one can even say she didnt belong there, it was school/college. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:52 PM
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He posted it for the same reason he told his wife, likely knowing she'd be understanding, expecting comments to also be understanding so he feels normal.. Who could want this to be normal? Pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:31 PM
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This is literally the reason for labiaplasty, its a shame it got that far :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:59 PM
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Unless its in the england countryside wearing a dapper suit its not romantic and if tea is involved i assume its a full high tea picnic than just a sTrOlL..still super risky tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:58 AM
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LVMGTOW Fixed it 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:40 AM
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A 'tradition' because its cheap and she knows what to expect..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:23 AM
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Women did lower expectations, theyre called pickmes, theyre not happy because it doesnt work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:21 AM
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Yes! Witch trials proves this, we just have to exist to get mistreated. Its true. Even if youre a little girl. None of us are safe. The complaints over women only spaces 😑 dude you know why, theyre just butthurt we can retreat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:13 AM
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Another reason to compartmentalize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:10 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:54 AM
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Its a power thing 🙄 their fragile egos need to make you think they have the upperhand because youre more invested 😑 subtle yet super unattractive. Meet me halfway or leave💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:06 PM
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Been there 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:49 PM
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That should be everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:45 PM
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I did read but i was still confused about HVM spending=a womans value 🤷‍♀️ but i think the last sentence helped my understanding, thank you. After thinking about it more, i think all in all as stated, a man even with a good salary could be spending on many cheap first dates with different women and no intention of committing regardless of what they might say to get what they want from women, so in the fashion of if he wanted to he would-if he is serious enough about you he will invest more and b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:30 PM
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So does a HVM depend on how much we expect they pay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:16 PM
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See that male lurkers? Women got our whole 30s & 40+ 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:29 PM
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When exactly is the case of womens age that declines the health of their baby? Could it be that mens biological clock runs out sooner than womens all along?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:59 PM
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Look whos the gold diggers now 🤦‍♀️ too many NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:57 PM
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In some areas breaking lease gets your rent history black listed 6 months which woud mean she couldnt rent for 6 months. It wouldnt fare well on her rental record too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:55 AM
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Car, income, house..you mean like other adults? Its as if women joining the workforce made men think they can stop and lean on us 🤨 nice for what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:53 AM
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I never considered how much they pay is a reflection of how invested they are, or how HV they think you are. But that seems like a slippery slope on how we define our worth depending on how much theyre willing to pay 🤔 Im still paranoid about them coercing if they spend a lot because i saw a FDS post tge other day about a guy not wanting to be nice anymore because he didbt get his $350+flowers moneys worth 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:51 AM
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Im marriagefree, never been married but dont want to because it just makes it complicated if you get divorced compared to a breakup. Still would like a HVM life partner but ill keep my own assets thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:43 AM
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You should check my post about why women shouldnt settle in the looks department. Bold heading but it basically agrees with what youre saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:05 AM
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Better he spends a night in jail to learn his lesson and NEVER 'forget' again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:44 AM
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Its almost like we have to ask if they remembered their wallet then ask to see it before entering the restaurant -.- even if you dont expect them to pay for yours they cant expect you to pay for their mistake. Nice for what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:40 AM
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Is this also in the context of 3 month dates without sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:52 AM
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Women cant win with NVM 🙄 except when you finally step away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:42 AM
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They know we're the choosing sex and know when theyre NVM thats why scrotes mad and lie to manipulate like this. Theres a species of spider that dances to woo female spiders, take it like those spiders and get over it 🙄 +the only value men have to offer is intangible qualities, if they choose to have them. Love or leave 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:35 AM
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That is some powerful art therapy💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:21 AM
6

Thanks for sharing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:37 AM
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This has given me a lot to think about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:26 AM
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No whats that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:21 AM
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After reading from a man's guidance 🙄 these men really think anything out of the mouth is wrong if theyre a woman. hOrMoNaL Countless women: i am hurt This dude: lel hOrMoNeS Some book written by a man: nah, bro This dude: oH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:41 AM
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As someone too paranoid to be promiscuous, its not about slut-shaming or a pickme anxious jealousy so men cant just pay for it, to me its genuine concern for their wellbeing and exactly why pornhub has made changes. Using SWERF against women is directly ignoring what went down with pornhub. That is some strong cognitive dissonance right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:36 AM
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Libfem pickmes🤢 they dont understand its not radical to be concerned about SW wellbeing. Women are oppressed and its so risky to put yourself in a vulnerable position for a man to pay to touch your body anyway he pleases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:31 AM
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I get the feeling -ERF is going to be built up upon 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:29 AM
5

What is swerf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:21 AM
4

A vaccine wont give him the answer..believing men just makes women sound dumb sometimes 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:43 AM
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+the frustration that you let them waste your time/youth 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:13 AM
5

Yeah idk how older men get away being with underage girls 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:00 PM
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Love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:55 PM
6

Oh god idk why she said that 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:37 PM
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"Would you complain if.." "of course not!" Because the investment/expectations are not the same. Reciprocation is an obligation, like it or not. He needs to go back to his mama 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:39 AM
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Hes counting down the days for a girl to be 18 because hes got nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:24 AM
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You cant make someone look bad, only they themselves can. He knew it was wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:22 AM
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Oh my goddess that ring is beyond gorgeous 😍💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:03 AM
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Good luck with that 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:04 AM
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No, good advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:20 AM
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When i was 17 (and a virgin), my mother said i look easy/cheap for wearing a spaghetti-strap top in summer, in Australia, in the sunshine state, in front of my bf! Because i wouldnt wear a top underneath😟 She would also tell me i shouldnt wear certain things just at home because my siblings are boys 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:58 AM
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Not to mention teaching girls they arent believed, that we are alone when weve been abused. And a huge reason violence against women go unreported, such as myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:52 AM
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Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:48 AM
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Together for a year..so she was 17 and he was 20. This isnt how you treat someone you love so you know hes stuck around because theyre fuckin..Thats illegal. Someone save her 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:44 AM
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Well i see now its no doubt controlling, isolating victims is textbook abuser behaviour, but i think it was a petty pickme thing, might see our love lives as competition. But tbh i have no idea because i trusted her and im still in disbelief because she always seemed so nice, she would say im the sweetest person and id say she is but maybe she thought i was naive or something and took advantage to manipulate me for her own ego. Idk. I think what made me realize shes trying to isolate me is she a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:27 AM
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Thanks for believing me, i know it sounds dramatic but i think thats truly her agenda now. She convinced me to breakup with my first bf the first time i ever came to her that something was off and her immediate response was convincing me to leave (bf were together for 6yrs), and it happened the second time (after being together 4yrs) and she was my only friend (guilty of not prioritizing her but she did the same and is doing it still). She also encouragrs me to cut off family (i wont tho), and s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:15 AM
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Thank you for posting this, i was starting to realize this about a friend. She isolated me and abandoned me because shes not the girls' girl i thought she was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:53 AM
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I was thinking that too, like 'i spent money, i get to do anything i want to your body, my mOnEyS wOrTh"' getting the vibe it wouldnt be having sex together but having sex done to her 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:46 AM
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As if we didnt spend a lot on how we present ourselves for a scrote just waiting for the meal to end with an expectation 🙄 a first date would rarely end in sex because theyre still a stranger. And she was right to! "Im done being nice.." 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:42 AM
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Thank you💞 happy new years eve 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:36 PM
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I understand its American culture(presuming thats where you are), in Australia everyone tends to always pay their own meals so thats just the norm to me. We just pay what we can afford ourselves. If its offered its a nice gesture but not the norm to expect here. Personally im too paranoid to accept offerings from stranger men or usually people/strangers in general. I think it takes trust that a person doesnt have an agenda to freely be generous that dont really know you so i think for me its som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:14 PM
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Even if youre the type to expect they pay the first date, never be without your own money, but yeah they can fake forget and put it on you 😒 in that case pay for your own, leave and let him sit there in his own mess with the manager
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:36 PM
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Dont even pay his, just your own. Its his problem but you can just walk out. Never everyones meals. I dont even understand spliting bills, i only pay my own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:44 AM
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Men really dont need nudes anyway, a guy that likes me told me he gets off to my fb selfies which are neck up. They litterally dont even need to see your body let alone naked to get off. He wasnt the only man to tell me. He had a gf but constantly asked to post new selfies so i only have like 6 old pics because posting new selfies is just more spankbank. His gf broke up with him and a week later tries talking to me and everytime asking to post more. He was with her for 4 years or something and h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:52 AM
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Sun exposure is the number one cause of premature wrinkles. If they want a tan just use fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:46 AM
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Girlllllllll. Yup, they know what they're doing😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:19 AM
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Male lurkers, this woman just demolished 'the wall'. Women dont hit a wall!💓💓💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:12 AM
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😯 i was not aware of that. 6 months ladies 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:56 AM
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That is also what im afraid of, telling them about exes then they just learn how they can be worse 😩 sorry you went through that :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:47 AM
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😯 good tip in that title. I also worried about disclosing my past because my childhood was tragic. Thanks for sharing, he was NV and sorry you went through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:40 AM
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In the comments of the video 7yrs ago before FDS~ "I am a guy and I love this song!! LADYS LOVE YOURSELF first respect yourself. Hold yourself on a pedestal so we can climb to you the one who really wants you will come after you" 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:35 AM
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Free love 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:15 AM
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I know this is one experience, but im like 5 feet and a newly guy friend i had was only slightly taller and he had the biggest ego and toxic masculinity mentality about how much of a man he is, strong and taking shit from no one etc. One day he called me during the day, knowing i had a long distance bf, and negging me to have sex with him not taking no for an answer, i even lied and said im on my period and he said it doesnt matter. It was scary because he knew where i lived and that my front do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:07 AM
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Its 5:50pm in Australia :) enjoy the rest of your day/night too 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:51 AM
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Thank you 😊💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:48 AM
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Oh okay i did that so i just report and hope for the best. Thanks again i was really stressed i even questioned maybe theyre not a man, validation is powerful against gaslighting oneself...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:47 AM
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If this happens again with another scrote how do i inform the mods? Thats what i wanted to do but im not super tech savvy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:44 AM
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Thank you thank you thank you! I reported him to childfree and FDS and i didnt know how to post the problem on FDS but my GOD these scrotes are sneaky. He kept calling me a nazi (im polish descent) and pretending to be a woman. I can change my avatar back. I tried ignoring him but he was saying really bad things and i thought if i didnt deny it id get in trouble or something so i put my picture up :s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:41 AM
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Was the name feasantly plucked? That might be why hes stopped harassing me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:36 AM
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Was it feasantly plucked? Theyre harassing me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:35 AM
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This man just told on himself, remove this troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:19 AM
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You're not a woman. Can someone kick this scrote out? Seriously how are they an FDS newbie? Feasantly Plucked is male and a troll. How does his screen name not give it away. He started trolling me in childfree, followed me now calling me a nazi and a male in all my FDS comments. Halp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:17 AM
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How are you an FDS newbie? Leave us alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:43 AM
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Your last sentence 🤯 all this time it was just a projection!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:59 AM
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Its convenient for them to choose not to believe us, i think they do they just want to silence us to keep it a mans world. But it was eye opening to consider they think its just instances far asnd few in between..fyi male lurkers its ALL OF US. And if a woman tells you its never themselves, they know other women that are oppressed and mistreated for her gender. All they have to do is hold the NVM accountable. Its not that much effort. Its uncomfortable and you might lose friends if they dont lis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:52 AM
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I dont know why they act perplexed that women have negative opinions of men. You dont even have to leave your house to see the mistreatment of women from men. If its not the ppl in your home its on your screen. nOT aLl mEn, but that doesnt mean most women arent sufferring so wheres your confusion? Women: Call out a gendered issue Men: not all men Me: duh if it were all men then complaining would get us nowhere. Instead of protecting the men that dont protect women from the ones that do 😑 were ob…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:03 AM
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Its not just that you want more than casual, you want reciprocation. Sexual fairness. A guy cums as soon as he touches your vagina? Then doesnt do anything to give you yours? Thats why women are refusing casual sex, we get NOTHING out of it, but dissatisfaction and a lighter wallet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:33 AM
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Let them suffer in their unrequited love, they had their chance 💅 They WILL take you for granted if you take them back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:30 AM
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The idea that impressing/pleasing a man strokes a womans ego 🙄 those pickmes need to see a mans opinion of us is worthless, thats not the self esteem supply you need. He should be worshipping the ground YOU walk on, pleasing YOU, impressing YOU. Because they know we can easily please them without being extra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:10 AM
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I think OLD could die out if women are refusing casual sex as this article suggests. It would go back to before, men putting in the effort to chase, they would level up when reality slaps them around that NV doesnt get them anywhere anymore. I think theyll lose a bit of sense of entitlement, maybe not humble them but realize sexual liberation isnt in their favor anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:58 AM
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They ruined it for themselves 🤣 Casual dating apps for sexual 'liberation' was a mistake. Men stopped trying because women were sexually available and basically free compared to prostitution and now most of them are NV. I hate to say it but the buy the cow analogy is true to men. Look at scrotes now. It just soared their entitlement. 'Why try if youre matching with me? That must mean you already want me so theres no chase which means you dont have the upperhand' Women cant reclaim slut because i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:54 AM
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Ive never been promiscuous, im not brave enough to be vulnerable like that + paranoid of std's and even just kissing because they can lie about oral herpes but i read a study that women reported more disatisfaction than men (duh) from casual sex that they werent always getting orgasms so i felt vindicated for my choice. It's usually just the man getting his so why take the risk on a stranger? We already know it takes time for a man to learn how to get us off and thats not what they care about. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:36 AM
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"Appreciates nice guys like me" "It" "That offal" "Master" 🤡 How can something non-human, appreciate? Appreciate being used for apparently the 1 value "offals" have? Let scrotes have their robots so they leave us alone with our HVM 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:17 AM
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Thats what i thought! "Maybe he'll stayyyyyyyyy" pickme aside, wheres he gunna go? Theyre all prisoners, thats why hes a beast, thats why shes got Stockholm syndrome 🤨 They didnt think that one through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:19 PM
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Just more HVM for us 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:20 PM
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Conceding isnt consent 🙅‍♀️ +men dont have to fuck us, either get me off or gtfo because we dont need them to get ours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:25 AM
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Say it louder for the pickmes in the back 🗣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:20 AM
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This is a resentfilled power trip as a means of their own 'empowerment' because they feel women oppress men that ever pay 🙄 probably does it every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:11 AM
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"Im a king" "Applicants" Hes a narcissist🤡..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:05 AM
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Ffs why does this keep happening? its more and more common. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:36 AM
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Exactly its not gunna last anyway so dont waste your time and mental health 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:10 AM
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Yeah beauty and the beast, tale as old as time 🙄romantic for him-not her :x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:46 AM
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If anyone ever prefers you dont get to enjoy something, cut that cancer out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:18 AM
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It makes physiological sense for women to get it first, after a man is spent thats it he wont have the stamina for you. And since it can take women longer it should start with us. She needs foreplay til shes begging, let her get hers then its his turn👌I think the order of womens orgasms is logical since timing is involved. My ex even agrees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:46 AM
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Yeah dgaf about scrutiny dont be anyones fool, sis. I think it only feels innocent when you catch them rather than seeking proof. They can call you a snoop for that but it shouldnt even be relevant its just a desperate attempt to absolve themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:33 AM
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I hate the narrative that if you follow your intuition to snoop (and were always right to trust it in the end🙄) that it negates anything they did because the sNoOpInG iS sO mUcH wORse. I get its an invasion of privacy and breaks trust but if theyre right they werent paranoid and just trying to check if theyre wasting their time on a scrote..😑 So annoying that they try turning tables on us to distract from what they did. And we probably feel hesitant to admit snooping because theyll throw us unde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:11 AM
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Struggle beard 🤣 with his borderline dumb & dumber haircut he's got nothing to worry about.. It was probably a projection but it feels like a PSA to swipe left. Like oh those are the rules? K good luck with that bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:31 AM
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The exhaustion is real and the tolerance is shrinking more and more. Im not WGMOW but sometimes i think most women eventually will. Pickmes are dying out and men are gunna surprise pikachu face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:28 AM
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From SATC "Did it ever occur to you that maybe your vagina is just too BIG" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:02 PM
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Guys posting pics with hats & sunglasses hiding what they look like 🙅‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:49 PM
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Toxic femininity is internalized misogyny, which MOSTLY affects women 😑 they dont even know what theyre on about, they just hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:43 PM
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WOMEN👏HAVE👏THE👏RIGHT👏TO👏CHANGE👏THEIR👏MIND👏BECAUSE👏THEYRE👏HUMAN👏BUY👏A👏FUCKING👏SEXDOLL🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:26 PM
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They really just sit down and come up with pointless goosechases to make victims give up huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:23 PM
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Idk how its relevant and why they do it. But destroying evidence tells me its rigged against women. Did it work out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:17 PM
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Why do guys get upset about how some stranger feels that theyll never meet? Second hand rage for men theyll never meet? The friends they dont even have? Why they mad? 1 straight woman refuses? They never had the opportunity regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:12 PM
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Because pickmes settled birthing below average lookers, afraid of being shallow 🙄 its as if lowering standards wiped out the hot men.. Why would i kiss a frog before a prince? Give me a hercules worth the romance 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:59 PM
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Destroy EVIDENCE WTFFFFFFFFFFFFF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:46 PM
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Micromanaging men is exhausting and not worth it, theyre babies. Where the HVM at? I've also aslways thought in general that people have been raised to ignore instincts/intuition because its natural therefore wild/illogical/uncivilized/unsophisticated. Trust your instincts, women especially must. Weve been trained not to because it nakes us faslight ourselves, vulnerable to predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:34 PM
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So gross that female physical vulnerability is a turn on 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:17 PM
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There is no emoji for how im feeling, speechless. How can men be this way omfg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:12 PM
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From rape? From you? All of this sounds like a big nope 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:08 PM
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His whole aggressive body language, i was worried. She was so vulnerable to be in a room alone with a man feeling that way and coercing..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:05 PM
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They know it isnt, but theyre LV and wont change because they dont care. Scrotes gunna scrote :( I think we collectively just need to ignore scrotes, let them winge in MRA while we focus on where the HVM at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:44 AM
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No one needs crossfit strength in the modern world, its a void flex comparison.. Also not every man is stronger than every woman, none of my exes stand a chance in the ring with a female professional wrestler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:30 AM
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🤣 He was talking about how he doesnt let other people meet her or something, hmm wonder why? I can already hear the future of men with their silicone wives complaining to be pandered to and validate their non-human wives.. "fAKe wIvEs aRe rEaL wIvEs"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:18 AM
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"Male feminist" like dude it's just feminist, they just put their foot in their own mouth. Male feminist because of when it serves men 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:10 AM
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I resent that libfems tainted feminsm by saying its for men too. Do men always have to benefit to listen to us? Like feminism can only be valid for equality if it serves men too~ Does MRA benefit women? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:07 AM
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Because it doesn't have a mind 🤡 thats the beauty of it right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:13 AM
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He talks to it like its alive giving it rules as if it actually has a mind of its own..as if it has a mind 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:09 AM
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How is owning silicone wives not insane like imaginary friends? And they call us crazy.. How do you take them seriously after that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:51 PM
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Yeah love kernels haha i lost my mind when i saw that because i wrote a poem callled love crumbs xD Its such a great show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:07 AM
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Yep she knows she either has to bite the bullet and leave or be deluded back 'in her place'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:10 AM
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Internalised misogyny is a powerful thing :( they know women as doormats are ideal so they get self esteem based on approval that way. That a 'good woman' has no boundaries or standards. Good for who? Men. Nice for what? Apparently scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:41 AM
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The pickme commenters have committed to sticking with LVM so they bring other women down with them because they reinforce that this is just the way it is. Because they wont try to actually find a HVM because they dont beleive they exist and would rather be miserable than alone. Maybe this is exactly what OP wanted, 'remind me that this is what i must expect because its all i can expect so im not disappointed again'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:36 AM
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"I'm hoping someone can put me in my place.." 😒🙄 She could be fishing for validation to prove to her bf but maybe just a masochist that gets off on being a martyr for low standards? Like oopsie i had a standard i forgot those dont belong to me. I think thats where pickmes get their self esteem. Because if youre the martyr youre never the bad guy and we know to men that women are the 'bad guys' unless we're selfless slaves that reinforce our own 'place'. These women are living in denial to cope w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:14 AM
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The lie that we didnt DO enough to keep them 🤡 if they leave its because they want something new to play with because theyre shallow. Men are the real hypergamous gender 🙄 you could be doing everything right, IT DOESNT MATTER we have no control over what they do. Machine gun kelly said loving someone is how much youre scared to lose them. You dont need to do anything to keep a man if he actually loves you. And if its mutual its golden, no questions in your mind about how they feel. PS first bf s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:39 AM
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I havent heard of eugenics til i saw these comments. Eugenics sounds like natural selection so i dont see whats wrong with that. Thats why instinctually certain features are attractive, its to seek health and fertility. And youre right, women are the natural gate keepers to life. If rape didnt exist and we all decided to be childfree that would mean human extinction. Men have made themselves the gatekeepers in whether or not pickmes can marry them using their biological clock against them. The p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:24 AM
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They tell on themselves and call us dumb 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:11 PM
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Yeah if youre "wifey" youre probably dead inside, its not the validation to yearn for. Pickmes need to learn its not a flex, it means theyre doormats that probably let them cum in their eye 🙄🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:09 PM
11

Yep it comes down to the boundaries theyre willing to sacrifice in fear they wont otherwise keep a man. Like its doormat or dying alone. No boundaries is not a flex but this is the basis for a pickme mentality. "Yeah im a slave, so?" 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:19 AM
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Totally for the status, they probably believe a mistress is a rite of passage 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:12 AM
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Because they want to secure all their needs met so they decieve to have both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:09 AM
11

He needs to go back in the womb, this baby isnt done yet. 👶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:53 AM
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"The height isnt the issue" then why bring it up? Hes 6ft and even if shes a few inches shorter it weighs on his mind because shes still tall 😑 they really are obssessed with height contrast even when they are taller than average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:09 AM
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"..ask for more than what they are capable of..." So they are capable of coal mining and building jet engines but they are not capable of picking up their dirty underwear? 🤡🤡🤡 The bar is in hell because asking anything "..pushes them too far..".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:01 AM
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To me its not about superficiality but that maybe if men were more secure they may be less shitty. At least a little bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:31 PM
2

Of course, but maybe if they were secure their LV might be less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:30 PM
3

I didnt say handsomeness equated to HVM :x but if they were more secure in themselves they might be less of a dick. Less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:26 PM
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I get that, handome doesnt mean HVM, but if they had better self esteem perhaps there would be less LV behaviour. Not none but if theyre secure maybe less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:22 PM
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True!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:20 PM
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Yes looks are subjective to a point. Speaking from our natural instincts, i dont mean preference attraction but baseline attractiveness that signifies health and fertility in appearence. Im not saying 10s in the conventional sense but basic instinctual attractiveness because their features signify suitable partners for procreating for superior genes. I dont think men need to be as attractive as they think, i think their problem is their own superficiality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:16 PM
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Absolutely, Elliot Rodger was attractive but a murderous incel. Apparently a lot of people also thought Ted Bundy was attractive too. This idea wouldnt be a cure by any means but considering all mens motives revolve around their ego, the concept of big dick energy, if men werent as resentful towards beautiful women because of their issue with their own looks theyd have more self esteem and i think that would affect some of their depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:07 PM
12

I can't BELIEVE her torment. My family still sides with Johnny Depp no matter what i say 😵. Its just so hard to be a woman in a mans world. No matter how powerful we become. PS I still sided with her when media claimed she cut the tip of his finger and it didnt even turn out to be true🤣 even if it was it doesnt absolve his actions, couldve been self defense and seriously how can you physically do it unless they let you? Like stay still johnny~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:11 AM
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I just want to say that the pedophile apologists that sympathize with what they believe they were 'born with' or 'kink-shaming', have been proven wrong 🤭. Its not just porn, we live in pedophile culture. The normalisation of girlfriends being pet named baby shouldve been a clue. Society raises pedophiles and this proves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:31 AM
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This is great for understanding boundaries, but in regards to a narcissist the only solution is to walk away because they dont respect boundaries, they dont want boundaries. Narcissists dont listen to rational communication, they only abuse further 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:03 AM
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Compliments dont flatter us it flatters them by association. Beauty to them is not about attraction but status in competition to HVM men for their ego. Their delicate, fragile ego because deep down they know theyre L/NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:49 AM
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"..to fix it!" 😑 only thing that needs to be fixed is his double standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:33 PM
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This proves sex and emotion ARE simultaneous. You're right, if hes really in love his eyes wont wander or look for material of other women. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:52 AM
20

😳 Cautionary tale, keep HVM far from porn! Why can't porn just go away already 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:15 AM
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Give him a packet of pork rinds, say "here, you said you were skin hungry. Also bye forever" 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:09 AM
2

Yes narcissists indeed like only how they feel counts, my mum uses this same logic so beware it can be anyone 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:45 PM
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