Really helpful to realize!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-27T20:21:48+00:00

Just like according to men and liberal feminism female sexuality is doing whatever men want. Where's my liberated sex positive female sexuality where I don't have sex until I've got an hour of foreplay at my vagina is really ready and I can orgasm quickly and easily? It's nowhere to be found. You will be crucified for asking ANYTHING of a man before having sex with him. Where is my fantastic oral from hot, hygienic men who give me 4 orgasms? That's work for men so it's the worst sin to expect. It's "selfish".

I posted here about how women deserve to orgasm every time they have sex just like men. In response men sent me messages calling me a "sex pervert" and asking how dare is ask for so much and how they aren't slaves etc.

VeronaMoreau · 2020-12-27T21:57:36+00:00

I have always said that the main goal of sex-positivity is creating an environment where women can make choices and have them respected.

I think the right to say no is more important than the freedom to say yes.

Starsuponstars · 2020-12-27T23:28:04+00:00

THIS. The sexual liberation was a liberation FOR MEN.

DallasM19 · 2020-12-28T09:21:38+00:00

One of the scariest dates I've ever been on as where the guy was acting all frustrated and weird and then said "we better have sex soon". I hadn't even known him for a month.

Later found out that when he was 38 he was accused of raping a 16 Year old GIRL and her friend. It was tossed out because the friend wouldn't talk on the stand and because Canada hatess female victims of SA. I've been through the system and the detective will 1) threaten you with criminal Mischief charges "if you're lying" 2) will intimidate you and say "you think this is hard? Wait until if there's a trail. He will have lawyers and EVERYTHING. 3) they'll dig into you personal life and say they need your exes samples, and if they don't get your exes profile all of your evidence will be destroyed. Some of that evidence having been very traumatic to get (rape kit). The ex seemed to be understanding but will never ever speak to, or look at me the same way, ever again. It would have been nice to be cordial with him but no.

esthermaniii · 2020-12-30T08:08:43+00:00

This reminds me of the time I went on a date and this man told me he wouldn’t have matched me if he knew I was celibate.

Title	Really helpful to realize!
Author	LexiJay94
Upvotes	759
Comments	20
Date	December 27, 2020 5:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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