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Sorry I've been AWOL for so long, y'all. I would like to be more active, but I won't make any promises - we've got a lot of stuff cooking! I did want to participate in this thread, though. We eloped - it was just us, a couple married friends of ours (and their infant daughter), and our officiant. We got married under the clock tower near the river in our town and headed to a microbrewery across the street afterward where we had a couple beers and dessert with our little group. I wore a white sun…
/r/RedPillWives21/05/18 11:53 PM
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I teeter with whether my husband fits Caveman or Renegade better; I could've sworn I commented in the original thread about this, but I can't find anything I wrote. In any case, I am still unable to determine which he has a stronger inclination for. Both fit him extremely well; perhaps Caveman a little more as he does have social standing and works to fit into the social structure of his workplace, although this has been a point of contention due to some interesting social dynamics. I won't elab…
/r/RedPillWives28/07/17 04:37 AM
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I don't think the left honours masculinity in any form, so wouldn't like any of these archetypes. Very good point; the focus on masculinity as being toxic is something I strongly dislike, I think it's harmful to society as a whole to discourage masculinity. Interesting observation, especially about traditional and alt-right preferences!
/r/RedPillWives28/07/17 04:25 AM
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I'm obviously several days late to the thread, it's been quite a week. Anyway... I'm absolutely his. He is my first priority, and I do my absolute best to show him this. I don't speak negatively about him to others (with the caveat of jokes while we're together with friends), I sing his praises to everyone, and I try my best to do whatever he asks of me. Humans guard their prized possessions; I am fortunate to be one of the things he values. He does not devote time to anything that does not enri…
/r/RedPillWives28/07/17 04:10 AM
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I'm a few days late to this so most of what I would have said has already been said, but I'd like to add one thing: You don’t have to have a brain, drive or special skill set to get married. You just have to have a willing partner. However, getting into X school, graduating with Y degree, and landing Z job does require actual hard work. You do have to have a brain, drive, and what are considered special skills in today's society to get married. Not one worthwhile man is going to marry a vapid cl…
/r/RedPillWives17/07/17 01:08 AM
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I try to find something to tell him he's amazing for every day, no matter how small. Today, he woke up really early before the heat and humidity got too bad to go cut up a large branch that fell at our old house before a showing that was scheduled for today. I made sure to let his parents know he did that when they stopped by!
/r/RedPillWives17/07/17 12:54 AM
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Oh gosh, I saw some MTV or TLC show about ridiculously expensive quinceañeras - none of that sounds pleasant. Sounds like a great teachable moment, though.
/r/RedPillWives17/07/17 12:51 AM
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We have told both of them! That was a barrier to eloping initially, B was worried his grandparents would be upset. So far, all has been fine. I think everyone would prefer if we have a celebration, but the idea of a party that we pay for to celebrate us still just sounds so narcissistic to me so idk. The albums are a good idea though, I haven't decided what to do with giving pictures to them yet.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/17 01:09 PM
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Thank you! That's how I feel about it - it wasn't a performance or a party, it was just for us. It does feel different! It's super weird getting used to socially, but it's nice. I still said boyfriend instead of fiance frequently, so now saying husband instead of either is even more of a trip up lol. It's fun getting to correct myself though. It feels different at home too. I don't know if it's supposed to or not, but I actually feel more submissive. I think subconsciously my mind is saying "OK,…
/r/RedPillWives08/07/17 12:17 AM
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My MIL just asked me if we had anything planned when I was talking to her earlier. We might, it's not ruled out. We'll see!
/r/RedPillWives07/07/17 03:05 AM
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Yeah, I really agree with /u/Irisandoleander. While you need to address whether this is something you're willing to deal with - it's put up and shut up or goodbye. But, there isn't a snowball's chance I'd deal with this - that is a hard, hard no.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/17 01:10 AM
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Thank you! Happy to be back. :) I am really happy that we got through all of it with no debt and no real dip into our savings, especially with two mortgages at the moment. We're trying to build as much savings as possible right now even with that.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/17 01:03 AM
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As long as you have the money to spend, I don't think there's anything wrong with it. :D You're so much more extro than me, so I think it fits for you!
/r/RedPillWives07/07/17 12:58 AM
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You are not wrong, not at all. ;)
/r/RedPillWives07/07/17 12:34 AM
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Thank you all! It feels good to be married. :D
/r/RedPillWives07/07/17 12:00 AM
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First, I am grateful for my brand new husband! We eloped yesterday. :D Second, I am grateful for our families, and our brand new nephew who was born this morning! Third, I'm grateful for air conditioning because it is hot as a mug out there. Bonus: I was going to make deviled eggs once but didn't have enough mayo and didn't realize til after I started making it, so I added more mustard and chicken and a bunch of spices and ended up with the most boss chicken salad ever. Also I made a cherry pie …
/r/RedPillWives06/07/17 12:41 AM
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Oh boy, this is better than I was expecting! I have been doing really great with practicing, except for the last two week! I really should reward myself with the sheet music trip! Haven't taken my bike out. Really not psyched to. That's okay, priorities have changed. Haven't been ice skating. That's totally on me - I couldn't get over the whole going ice skating alone thing. I should work on finding someone to go with. Credit cards are paid off, woo hoo! On top of that, we closed on our new hous…
/r/RedPillWives09/06/17 12:03 AM
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Ugh, I'm sorry for it being ages before I replied to you - I'm really trying to balance things, and it leaves Reddit and whatnot to the bottom of the pile. You're in Oz, right? Auctions are fairly common here with foreclosure properties, however there's a certain stage for each one and they're kind of hit or miss. Thankfully, houses in our area are not even close to being in that price range! We spent under $150k for our place; it is worth over that currently, but once we're done with a few move…
/r/RedPillWives03/05/17 05:36 AM
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often find myself wasting time doing things I know I'm not really invested in This is troubling to me actually, why would you view it as wasting time when you're spending time with your man? The way you frame it sounds like you are neglecting yourself for him, but it also sounds like you're either spending all of your free time with him against your will or you aren't both on the same page as far as personal time/needs go and are just trying to make do. Independent time is important, and we both…
/r/RedPillWives03/05/17 05:25 AM
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Ohhh my gosh, this was a rollercoaster for me reading this. I am acutely aware of how fickle and sensitive insurance can be, and I think you handled the situation beautifully! Every day he told me not to worry, and every day I told him I wasn't and that I knew we could get through this. Ultimately, that's what it all comes down to - that trust and knowledge that you'll get through it together. There is (most of the time) another door to be opened even after several have closed. We will always ma…
/r/RedPillWives29/03/17 03:12 AM
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Beer is the key to B's heart - I can't really suggest anything better than that, sadly. I mean, other than chocolate - I know that's supposed to be the key to a woman's heart, but he out-chocolates me 10 to 1 every time, plus those weird cherry sours that come out at Valentine's. He just loves those. For him though, the best thing is to give him just enough attention, then leave him alone. He and his dad (I know, it's weird, but I'm grateful that he's just like his dad so his mom can give me poi…
/r/RedPillWives29/03/17 02:55 AM
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First of all, /u/PhantomDream09 gave you the best answers ever - I could not agree more with everything she said in this thread. So, for overall advice, I would stick with what she gave you - I can't add to that, really. I want to talk about your partner not working, and what you likely already know about the IT world - but how you may or may not realize how he feels about it. You were already living together before he quit his job, and he had savings built up that time. As you know, IT is stres…
/r/RedPillWives29/03/17 02:32 AM
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Well hello! I have not done one of these for a while, so let's go: I am grateful for B and his strong, steady hand guiding us while we work towards buying a new house. We lost a place we really loved because we didn't get a chance to put an offer in before our vacation, but that has really motivated us to be proactive in our search and be aggressive once we find the place we're sure about. We've been seeing a lot of houses, and plan to see two more (whoo!) on Thursday night, with a drive-by on o…
/r/RedPillWives29/03/17 02:04 AM
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Hnnnngh I love this show - the next season comes out on my birthday! We binge the seasons together when they come out, so I am very excited. :D
/r/RedPillWives29/03/17 01:52 AM
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I've never seen one of these! We've been looking at water softeners for a while but when we had Culligan and a local place come out, they said we didn't have any room for one given our weird/small layout. This could be a good idea to maybe help with the faucets even if it won't help with the shower and dishwasher. I just asked my SO if he had seen them and he was surprised I hadn't, hahaha - but he apparently has had these on the radar in case we exhaust all of our other options. Thanks for post…
/r/RedPillWives22/03/17 02:43 AM
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First off, hi everyone. It's been a crazy, crazy time in our lives lately. Miss y'all. Alright, down to business. This is a sanctimonious piece of garbage. I'll commentate as I go through. “One of the areas of greatest untapped potential in the Australian labour force is inactive and/or part-time working women, especially those with children,’’ concluded the landmark study. “There are potentially large losses to the economy when women stay at home or work short part-time hours.’’ Oh? Well, I hop…
/r/RedPillWives22/03/17 02:37 AM
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Yay! I am so happy that happened for you guys, congratulations! <3
/r/RedPillWives27/02/17 01:59 AM
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Check out this post! It explains the different relationship dynamics as they pertain to dominance.
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 04:47 AM
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I typically say it that way because no one will argue with me about it. There's a certain sense of guilt that comes along with it, and in my opinion at least, the reason that other women try to drag down women who want to stay home is because they're trying to justify their own career or choice to stay outside the home. I feel - again, opinion - that there's a lot of guilt that goes along with it, so there's a lot of straw grasping that happens to find ways to make themselves feel better. Up unt…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 03:22 AM
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Really don't know what you're looking for here. I don't consider my relationship a game, and I don't play games with it. We have intimacy because we love each other and we have a deep appreciation for each other. Our intimacy can't be a competition because we're both extremely competitive people and that would just backfire.
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 03:09 AM
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I have never felt more "othered" than I have by feminists. I can't disagree with them and be a rational, thoughtful person. Yeah. I've reached a rift in my relationship with many longtime friends because I won't jump on their train. We're still friends, and we still manage but ...it's the elephant in the room. They know that's what I'm leaving out when they ask me why I think their relationships fail, they know that's what I'm leaving out when they ask why they can't find a good man. I'm hopeful…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 02:59 AM
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A little over a year ago, I began looking for a community of other women who rejected feminism and valued more traditional roles in their relationships. I found it with the lovely women here. I started looking because I was having a lot of troubles in my relationship at the time - we're an HHH couple, and I did not know how to handle that level of dominance. I'd always dated lower beta men prior to my SO, and ultimately those didn't work out because of my very high dominance and my ultimate revu…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 02:55 AM
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At this point, those around me know that I want to stay at home and raise our future children. I generally just let them voice their opinions, let them know that I've heard them, and then let them know that my goal is to raise our children, because they are OURS - not the babysitter/nanny/au pair/daycares, they're ours. We're creating them, we're the ones responsible for how they turn out. If you're comfortable with letting your children be raised by someone who may or may not be a stranger, the…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 02:42 AM
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I'm grateful that I got walked out from my old job when I went to resign on Monday, considering that I got sick again over the weekend it means that I have the full week to work on recovering before starting my new job on Monday. I'm actually really relieved about that. I'm grateful that B has been really understanding about how sick I've been, considering that I've pretty much just slept non-stop since Monday. We're in the middle of remodeling our living room so that has kind of just been halte…
/r/RedPillWives08/02/17 08:22 PM
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She is! I totally keep thinking she'd love it here, but it just seems to awkward and weird to invite her, y'know?
/r/RedPillWives03/02/17 08:59 PM
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Ah! I have seen both of those posts. I've been keeping political things off of my Facebook for a while now because things got extremely hateful during campaign season - rather than deal with the pettiness and drama, I just dropped it. I really wanted to share the conservative post, but didn't for this reason. A few lovely ladies that I know did share this post. One in particular is the girlfriend of a guy I grew up with - I've actually never met the girl, but after seeing a lot of their posts to…
/r/RedPillWives03/02/17 07:54 PM
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Saved! I also have an essay that Camille gave me to read a couple weeks ago too, I'll have to just sit down and knock them all out at once haha.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/17 11:31 PM
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When I was watching the news this morning, they kept insisting that no students were involved in the damage or violence - I mean, if they're so sure, are they sure that everyone was arrested and will be charged? I am not so confident. The news ONLY uses the term "undocumented" immigrant, as though that somehow erases their status as ILLEGALS. The news also conveniently tries to say that Trump is against immigrants as a whole (never mind he's married to one). Completely agree. It's all in the wor…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/17 10:58 PM
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Ohhh I agree so much. This stuff has gotten so out of hand. I have nothing against protesting - I've participated in a few - and I can turn a blind eye to people protesting about causes I don't believe in. They want attention to a "cause", I don't believe in their so-called cause, so they're not going to get attention - it's as simple as that. But the fact that so many of these women's march participants agree with things like what happened at UC Berkeley last night ...no. I'm extremely grateful…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/17 09:54 PM
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Thank you for posting this article. It actually inspired me to make a post trying to gather up all of the ladies who I've gotten to know better over the past year or so - the election really brought a lot of info to light, and I got closer with some ladies who had previously just been acquaintances. I'm the common link between them all, so I'm hoping to bring them together! I've had a lot of trouble keeping friends over the years. I don't have a problem making friends at all - despite being very…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/17 04:17 AM
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Yay! Very excited for this! Looking forward to seeing all the great contributions. :D
/r/RedPillWives01/02/17 08:25 PM
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1.) I am grateful for my new job! Very excited to make such a huge change. 2.) I'm grateful for my SO's sense of humor, even when it drives me crazy I can laugh about it later. Did you know that Tiger Balm hurts on chapped lips!? 3.) I'm grateful for all of my God-given talents and the ability to continue working towards improving them all the time.
/r/RedPillWives31/01/17 03:57 PM
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Our date nights are always sporting events - I know, you're all entirely shocked. :) In the fall and winter we go to hockey games and in the spring and summer we go to baseball games. If you're at all into sports, I highly recommend looking into your local minor level teams - we have a single A baseball team in town, we can have a fairly cheap date out there. $20 for two tickets, then whatever you spend on food and drinks. Occasionally, the park will open up the VIP section to the public with al…
/r/RedPillWives29/01/17 02:17 PM
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Both of those sounds really awesome! I especially love the idea of swapping out vinyl and then listening to it together. Sounds fun!
/r/RedPillWives29/01/17 02:14 PM
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For real - I still would have thought it was kind of ridiculous, but it would have made more sense if that's what they called it, especially with the March for Life happening just after it. I'm really mad about the fact that they lit a Trump-supporting woman's hair on fire and knocked down a pregnant pro-life woman. That's just straight up violence for not supporting the narrative.
/r/RedPillWives27/01/17 07:55 PM
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The continued fallout and watching how it's dividing women is probably the most interesting part - I'm in a few women-only groups on FB (I know, safe spaces!), one of them being a shooting group, one is a Catholic group, one's a DAR group, etc. In every single group, the subject has come up. In all but the Catholic group, infighting and cattiness has prevailed - the DAR is an apolitical group, so they've had to crack down on some posts hardcore (/u/irisandoleander saw too lol). I thought the big…
/r/RedPillWives27/01/17 07:42 PM
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Got a new J-O-B! They made the offer yesterday but it was too low, I negotiated with them today and got to a place where everything will still be comfortable and we can still hit our savings goals. Woo hoo!
/r/RedPillWives27/01/17 07:39 PM
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...maybe we should have the same rights as guns. LOL
/r/RedPillWives27/01/17 07:38 PM
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SOO excited! Can't wait to see the beebs. :D
/r/RedPillWives26/01/17 03:31 PM
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HERE THERE BE SPOILERS OK - so, for Rory, I'm actually kind of torn between Logan and Jess still. I like Rory best when she is with Logan - she, in the original series, was just a better person overall when she was with him. She actually cared about him, whereas I don't think she ever really cared about Dean and was mostly intimidated by Jess. New series Rory just sucks though, she's a total wuss who doesn't put herself over anything - she's disrespectful to Paul, and to Logan and his fiance by …
/r/RedPillWives25/01/17 05:24 PM
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I've been participating in a conversation in a group on FB for the past two days about the obese 15 year old whose "breaking barriers" by doing ballet with normal sized girls. The fatlogic in the thread ...omg, it is insane.
/r/RedPillWives25/01/17 12:09 AM
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I'm an oldest child (of two), and my SO is a middle child - with only one exception, all of my exes have also been middle children. I would say that "middle child syndrome" has actually been a common trait among all of them though, even to a certain extent my SO. With my SO, there's actually this ongoing thing about a quilt that his mother was supposed to make - his older and younger siblings both had quilts made for them as children, but she never got around to making one for my SO. This comes …
/r/RedPillWives24/01/17 02:57 PM
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Ooh the peaches in white wine sounds awesome - will have to keep that in mind. My SO's mom got me started on mixing La Croix with white wine and turning it into sort of a spritzer, that's really good too!
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 09:58 PM
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On Pinterest last night I saw a little thing where they sliced up lemons to keep in the freezer and add to water as you go to chill it and lemon it up, so I'm thinking of doing that - iced lemon water perks me up for some reason. On the cleaning one thing a day - I feel more exhausted if I let it all build up and do it in one day. I did have to talk myself into being okay with that though, it did used to bother me knowing that there was still more work to do. I save the "heavier" tasks that will…
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 09:33 PM
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I got this from my former best friend. I hate saying that too, it sucks that 17 years of friendship is gone. Anyway... It's no one's place to judge my relationship - they don't know our internal dynamics or what our life is like behind closed doors. That's really disrespectful to say something like this to someone - like, really, do you think I'm incapable of understanding my emotions and making the best choices for myself?
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 09:25 PM
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Girl, breathe. Yes, it sucks! I know the struggle - it's real. I have fibromyalgia and it makes it very hard to get up and get moving sometimes, pushing through doesn't always feel good. But, we do what we gotta do, right? OK, so here's how I do it: plan your tasks out for the week into just one thing per day. If I only have to do one chore per night, I don't have such a hard time. Tonight, I'm fixing dinner and wiping down the counters, stove, and microwave - the trick is to stay on it so it do…
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 09:15 PM
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Good: Got texts from a few of my references this morning that the place I interviewed with last week had contacted them - very good sign, I wasn't sure how the interview had gone but I'm glad to hear I'm still in the running! Also, we've been compiling a good list of homes to check out - very excited about buying a new house together and filling it with babies. :D My bullet journal is coming along! Bad: Took my piccolo to the shop last week because I'd been having a lot of intonation problems, i…
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 06:10 PM
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We have a lot of ads for it here - I always think they're hilarious. I wonder how successful it actually is though considering the number of people who farm, lots of people have farms in addition to their "regular" job so it's a hugely common thing here.
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 02:39 PM
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I think folks are just lumping the Farmers' Only site in with the rest of us uneducated racists in Dumbfuckistan. :)
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 02:37 PM
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Thank you! :D
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 06:04 PM
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Oooh gotcha. My binders are on the bookshelf with the rest of our books. Binders are hard though, they don't fit on a lot of bookshelves. That's tough!
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 02:16 AM
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All the murder! Bodies that would never be found! Naturally, I swooned. I died laughing, hahaha. That's the best!
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 01:52 AM
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I am a big fan of the storage cubes with the little cloth drawers for craft stuff (I'm actually buying one for socks/underwear/bras/workout clothing). Super easy to expand on later, too.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 01:38 AM
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Congrats on the baby. :D
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 01:23 AM
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It always looks worse before it looks better! You'll get through it. :D
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 01:23 AM
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B is literally the funniest person I have ever met - I totally believe he should be a stand-up comedian. Almost everything is a joke to him, and it really makes everything seem easier even when things are tough. He is great at taking charge of our future, too. He has grown our savings by a ton, which is allowing us to take our second vacation abroad together in March and buy a new house by the end of the year. He is super understanding, too. I used to have a problem with sharing my problems with…
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 01:22 AM
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That looks so good! I might add more to mine, it looks really plain compared to that. I was thinking of adding some quotes or Bible verses to it in different fonts.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 12:25 AM
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Finally got around to making my front page for my 2017 bullet journal - http://i.imgur.com/FzskIhb.jpg I'm new to BuJo, so we'll see how this works out. I'm still deciding on the rest of the layout.
/r/RedPillWives21/01/17 10:31 PM
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I'm personally pro-choice as well - I'm of the opinion that one can be personally against it and think that it's immoral and wrong, but it is no one's place to enforce their beliefs on others. I feel about it the same way I feel about banning gay marriage, marijuana, etc. I've traditionally considered myself a libertarian, but more and more I think I'm trending toward republican due to the agendas being pushed by the left that I'm not okay with laissez-faire-ing away. The ridiculous marches goin…
/r/RedPillWives21/01/17 06:40 PM
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That's awesome! I've always wanted to run a marathon, but I hate running. I know, it makes no sense hahaha. A few of my runner friends have gotten a lot of donations through Facebook - just creating a post and encouraging people to share it. It's always been pretty successful!
/r/RedPillWives20/01/17 08:58 PM
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Done!
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 08:39 PM
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I almost wonder if maybe he was afraid of her cheating on him because he knew he would likely cheat on her...
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 08:00 PM
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I definitely do this. It's so stupid, but it obviously makes sense - you don't want to ruin his fun or be a pain, so you bottle up and stew on it. I always try to tell myself it's in the name of being a good partner, but ultimately it gives me a martyr complex - "I sacrifice so much for you, why can't you just do XYZ for me!?" Well, he has no idea I gave anything at all up because I was just chewing on it and getting all worked up while he thought everything was fine. And that, my friends, is ho…
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 07:44 PM
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I'm incredibly biased on this topic and I'm sure it's affecting my ability to approach it from any semblance of neutrality. Recognizing it puts you miles ahead of most on many subjects. I don't think anyone can blame you when your family is in such a scary position, though.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 04:51 PM
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Men will want to be men, and women will want them to be so, as well. The reduction in family formation, fertility, and the resulting cultural ennui is partly a function of scrambled gender relations. All of the financial stimulus provided by the Federal Reserve will not matter in a society where men feel no security with their children, no confidence in their place in society, and discrimination from civil authorities. I very much look forward to the changes to come under Trump. I think there's …
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 03:09 PM
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I would agree with that assessment; I think Duterte himself is a result of encroaching globalism, although I get where Bella's coming from given her family's situation.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 02:59 PM
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Aww, I hope he does find a great girl! My SO has all of my turn-on traits (except for the musical instrument actually, but he's been eyeing my violin and talking about learning to play some bluegrass - it's not a non-negotiable to me, just an added bonus) and started going gray at an early age. I personally love it, I think it looks wonderful. It especially goes well with his blue eyes.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 07:23 PM
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Ooh, my SO wears Hawaiian shirts all the time - he has an extensive collection, that's pretty much his go-to if he's not at work or going to a sporting event. They work for his personality though.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 04:21 PM
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To me it definitely says both. It makes me feel like the guy is afraid his woman is gonna forget he's all about her if he looks away for a few seconds. If your woman needs constant reassurance that you're not going anywhere, she's insecure and she needs to get herself sorted out. And in all fairness, because there are men who feel that way with no reason, if you're feeling that way, you need to check your frame and reevaluate where you stand on things because your beta is showing.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 04:08 PM
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Turn ons: His forearms when he wears a button-up shirt with the sleeves rolled up Confident speech - tone of voice, words used, no wavering or stuttering Being respectful and friendly to service staff or just people that you encounter in public Being handy - so many men don't have the ability or desire to fix things or build things anymore The ability to play a musical instrument somewhat well - it just makes a man seem more well-rounded The ability to just take charge of a situation Blue eyes a…
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 03:29 PM
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First, go ahead and let it all out. I know it's scary, and you have every right to feel what you're feeling. My mom's a breast cancer survivor, too. Fortunately, she also caught it at stage one! She will hit ten years of remission this coming October, which is when she'll also turn 59. Chemo and radiation is tough, for sure. My mom chose to preemptively shave her head once her hair started to fall out. They did both of these treatments as a precaution even though they were certain it was all rem…
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 02:29 AM
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I am grateful for my SO's sense of humor. He is the funniest person I have ever met and never fails to make me laugh when I need it. Also thankful that he didn't get too bummed over me crashing his day off due to the ice yesterday! I am grateful for my sister. We haven't always had the best or closest relationship, but it has improved in the past few years and I'm glad that we've mended things and can talk to each other for advice when needed. I am grateful for the friends that I still have afte…
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 09:36 PM
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:D Thank you! My optimism is ridiculous right now, haha.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:29 PM
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I. LOVE. THAT. MOVIE. Seriously, it's visual candy. I watch it any time I need a pick-me-up because it's just so beautiful and the soundtrack is amazing.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:15 PM
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There's one song that I think absolutely sums us up - It All Started With A Beer by Frankie Ballard. We met online, and the first time we met IRL was at a bar near Busch Stadium before a baseball game. Other mutual friends were there as well and waved as I was walking up, he grabbed another beer from the bar at that moment and turned to hand it to me as soon as I got there. Later, when we decided to take things to a non-platonic level, I drove up to see him for our first official "date." When I …
/r/RedPillWives16/01/17 10:09 PM
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Good: I'm just really happy with the way life is progressing right now. I feel like 2017 is going to be the best year yet, and I am so excited to make it happen. Feeling secure in the future and knowing that things are continuing to move in the right direction is making me feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders. It's fantastic! Bad: It's a sheet of ice outside so I can't make it in to work. I normally just brave whatever weather is thrown at me, but last time I attempted to han…
/r/RedPillWives16/01/17 01:48 PM
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:D :D :D Great idea for a post. :) Here's mine: Music, obvs. When I was in college and focused on nothing but music, I used to say it was my boyfriend and that's why I had no time to date. I cringe a little when I think about that now, but hey - we've all had our blunder years. My genealogy research. I love finding new information - it's like discovering a new part of myself every time I uncover a new piece. Yoga. It's so blissfully indulgent to me, but it's good for me. There's a teacher in tow…
/r/RedPillWives16/01/17 03:52 AM
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Ahaha I love that guy, I can empathize with that attitude.
/r/RedPillWives15/01/17 03:43 PM
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Thank you! :D
/r/RedPillWives15/01/17 02:59 AM
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I am super sick today and want to see pictures of your dogs. Here is one of ours from last night, doing her paint-me-like-one-of-your-French-girls pose.
/r/RedPillWives15/01/17 01:57 AM
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First, I want you to know that I am very sorry for your loss. Losing someone you love, no matter how complicated the relationship may be, is not an easy thing. Alcoholism can have extremely serious consequences, I've also watched someone I love suffer through it. It's painful for you too. I would recommend trying to look into AlAnon or something similar once things have started to slow down for you. Second - you just lost your mother. I would not be concerned with appearing feminine to your husb…
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 07:49 PM
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I'm wondering if maybe the first problem is contributing to the second problem? My other thought on the second one though is that maybe the job stress is causing it - I know mine has taken a hit - does it feel like you've just got way too much other junk on your mind to think about sex? I've been trying to make it a point to initiate more blowjobs without being asked, but it's been a little more difficult. I typically have a much higher libido than B though so it's not affecting us too much.
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 03:59 PM
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R's eyes kinda glaze over when I talk about cemeteries and dates and census records B too haha - he doesn't get why I care so much about dead people. I doubt either of them will be getting any HODAR pins. :) That's fine though, Destiny and Binding of Isaac don't exactly get my motor running, but I love seeing him happy about an interesting event in Destiny or hearing that he placed pretty high on the daily run in BoI.
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 03:09 PM
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I am so, so sorry to hear about Lady Tamid. I can't imagine losing my partner, regardless of the stage of the relationship. I would imagine filling your cup is a very important thing for you right now while trying to get through the grieving process. would you call your band a source or a resource for filling your cup? Is it the music itself that fills your cup, or sharing the experience with your nice bandmates and B? Or all of the above? All of it. I'm not an extremely social person (INTJ) but…
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 03:05 PM
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It's a self-perpetuating cycle of good stuff, for sure!
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 02:51 PM
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I'll try not to update too much, because I definitely do talk about it a ton. Between music and my genealogy work, I will totally drone on for ages, haha.
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 02:50 PM
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He was pretty happy - he totally gave me a "see I told you so" too. :)
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 02:49 PM
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I hear that, for sure. I typically just lurk over there and make a comment here and there, but I saw that one post about the girl who is already starting to knit baby stuff and now I am just thinking of all the cute baby blankets I could be sewing hahaha.
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 09:39 PM
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I'm hopeful because my mom had me (the oldest) at 28, and my sister at 31 - so I think it shouldn't be too horrible. But you're right, reading the statistics makes it sound way, way more scary. It seems like most of the ladies on r/waiting_to_try are all older too and I'm just like AHH WHY ARE WE ALL WAITING THIS IS SUCH A BAD IDEA but really, I understand, and I get it. Ugh. I have thought about it, actually. I try not to, but I've kind of made peace with it in a way. My SO actually brought it …
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 09:31 PM
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I worry about this too. We're planning to start trying in the second half of this year too right after I turn 29, so I am exceedingly nervous...
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 09:16 PM
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Next year, RPWi meetup at CC! Haha. If the job changes I'm hoping for go through by April, I should actually be able to page at state this year - fingers crossed! I think my list is at 6 supplementals that I've built but don't have all my proofs for yet - I also have a few other unverified patriots that I need to work on getting service and tax info for. I don't think I am EVER going to get close to your mark though!
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 06:30 PM
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I'll be 29 in May. My before 30 things list is pretty short. Get married (working on it) Have a baby (should be working on it soon after, hah) Be getting paid for making or teaching music Get at least one supplemental DAR application approved lol Edit: I'm just going to keep editing as I think of more. Finish a half marathon with a reasonable time Build my little sound-proof heated and cooled music shed lol
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 06:21 PM
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It's good information to have overall - I think we've got, at least in the US, a woefully poor health education program. Girls and boys both need to have a better understanding of human biology.
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 04:44 PM
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Ooh, you might wanna check out some of the comments in this thread from a while back: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/55tark/women_talk_about_how_the_pill_has_completely/ I'm absolutely against hormonal birth control (caveat: some women do need it for medical conditions, my sister is one of them) because of the damage it can do. I'm a much happier, healthier person without it in my life, NFP is the way to go. Here's a great post on NFP: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/commen…
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 02:50 PM
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Heh, I got the same type, just much less on edge. Sadly I do feel it's accurate for me too, but not the worst thing in the world because guarding your heart is also very important.
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 02:46 PM
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Your attachment style is: 5.6% On Edge, 33.3% Avoidant On Edge-Avoidant (Mistrusting): Individuals in this quadrant share the Dismissive type's misgivings about others, but have not developed the armor of coolness and self-sufficiency that allows Dismissive types to live without attachment and bonding. Consequently, Mistrustful types recognize in themselves a need for intimacy and close relations with others, but as soon as they start to get close to others, they also find that they have mixed f…
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 02:44 PM
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We're allowed to decorate our offices any way we want, as long as it's not like, ridiculously offensive. I believe I'm the only one who is offended.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 11:04 PM
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I love this article so much. So much of it is just DUH stuff, but I'm absolutely guilty of doing some of these things. I'll admit it, I'm not perfect. I've totally gone to the store after bottomless mimosa brunch on a Sunday, bought more champagne and pomegranate juice (btw try it - SO good), and neglected all the housework because HEY THAT'S WHAT YOU DO WHEN YOU'RE YOUNG, RIGHT? But the party has to stop at some point, and hangovers are not pleasant. This was me (to a much lesser extent) prior …
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 09:55 PM
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I'm catching a lot of downvotes today, I thought I was giving bad advice! :O
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 07:59 PM
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That article is amazing. I am saving it and re-reading it every single week whenever I start to slip and think "It's okay to dry shampoo my hair again and sleep for another hour because that's just what people my age do!"
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 06:28 PM
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which was a huge amount of money for jeans back then That's still a huge amount of money to spend on jeans to me!
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 06:18 PM
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I agree on being triggered - trigger warnings have got to go as well. I understand that certain things can set off people with real, genuine mental illness, and I feel for those people. But society cannot keep catering to the weak. You either adapt or you are left behind. Social Darwinism is a good thing that I feel people have tried to phase out. It needs to come back, hard. Septum piercings. You look like a bull. I can't tell if I should shake a red cape at you or I use the ring as a door knoc…
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 04:02 PM
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r/WackyTicTacs I hate them, I hate them so much. One of our accountants has a full wall full of minions figurines, I want to torch them.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 03:39 PM
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instagram makeup. you all look like drag queens. let it die. Um. But no, I'm with you. It's ridiculous and unnatural.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 03:39 PM
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That's awesome! You're really lucky to have that. My sister is my closest, but she's down in AR so we don't see each other often. And even then, she's not super RPW, she's just got a pretty sensible head on her shoulders and hates feminism. Her SO and mine are both Marines and have a surprising amount in common, so it's nice when we can all get together.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 03:11 PM
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I would probably be pretty ticked about the lifejacket thing too, but the movie thing seems really insignificant. I don't know, it seems weird. To me it almost comes off as a one-upsman kind of thing, like they're trying to fight for who gets to be #1 Man in your life. I could be wrong, but that's the impression I get. I think trying to put up a stronger stance behind your husband would be a good way to settle this in the future - he's your husband, and it sounds like your dad loves you which is…
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 03:06 PM
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I think some of it has to do with the fact that conservative women aren't spending so much time and effort on trying to fight the system - being a progressive will wear you down. I admit, I spent a small portion of my life as a progressive. Thankfully I saw the error of my ways. Conservative women aren't usually the kind out there putting 20 holes in their faces and dying their hair seafoam green, either.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 03:04 PM
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That's awesome, she handled it really well. Props to her for respecting her husband.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 02:59 PM
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That would be my response, for sure. I don't put up with the petty playing favorites bull.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 02:24 PM
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I told DH all the particulars (granted, I wasn't sure how to approach this honestly). You did the right thing, total honesty is good. But it isn't the first time my dad has made decisions like this (to be fair, I believe it is the first time DH has been specifically excluded). What other executive decisions has your dad made that has impacted you, your husband, and your kids? I'm just curious what kind of a trend this is. Do you think your dad doesn't like your husband? I mean, with as long as y…
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 02:14 PM
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<3
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 12:44 AM
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Fite me IRL
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 12:44 AM
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If you write n in place of and/u for you/r for are, I'm assuming that you are probably an idiot. YES. I physically cringe when I read it. Glitter is Satan dust. Yes, my high school friends put it in the vents of my truck, it never went away. Glitter is the devil. Those plastic flip flops should only be reserved for the beach and kids. #flipflops5eva
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 09:46 PM
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I have super thick brows naturally too (thanks, eastern European genes) but I thin them out significantly. I will fight nature til the grave on that one. I feel similarly about chokers.
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 09:32 PM
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I'm opinionated. Ketchup belongs on hot dogs. Gigantic eyebrows are stupid. Your powerbrows look bad and you should feel bad. Belly shirts don't look good, no matter how flat and perfect your stomach is. Toilet paper goes OVER not under. Black lipstick is for Halloween or football games when one of your team's colors is black. I love unnaturally dyed hair (my hair is super dark right now, and I totally want a black to grey ombre) but I think it's unprofessional and you shouldn't do it over age 2…
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 09:06 PM
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I am grateful that my SO is patient and puts up with my moods and craziness. I am also grateful that he's supportive of my happiness, and encourages me to do what makes me happy. I am grateful, once again, for our super low cost of living that is going to help us reach our goals! We may not have the same opportunities as people in other parts of the country, but the low cost of living really balances that out. Hmm, I don't know what else ...I'm grateful for all of you, I love you guys. <3
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 05:18 PM
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Well, I definitely teared up. Losing B is my biggest fear, and I absolutely say more than I should about the underwear left on the bathroom floor. This is a great reminder to not nag and appreciate the fact that you have laundry to pick up in the first place.
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 04:18 PM
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I don't know how to find a job I can love. I don't know. I just end up on Indeed and Craigslist and find the usual suspects. I think this is the worst part about it. You can't know if it's a good job til you test the waters - which is what makes at-will employment good, you can separate at any time on your own and it's no harm, no foul. But jobs in certain fields aren't always easy to come by, and hopping from job to job looks terrible on a resume. Every move is a risky one, no matter how much r…
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 08:45 PM
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I'm tearing up here reading this. Once you mentioned you posted a FR relating to this, I had to immediately come read. We're definitely on the same page here... I don't understand how we spend whatever percentage of our lives in our office buildings, then follow it up with some paltry amount spent in the home. Why would you invest no time in your household and expect it to thrive? Would you expect the same of a business? No. YES. What is the point of wasting your life working for someone else to…
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 07:20 PM
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Your comment ...all day long. That is exactly what I'm feeling. I just want to go to work and not feel like it's the worst thing in the world. I know it's possible, I just need to find the right place! I'm working on a budget for me to potentially be a SAHM, so I'm less concerned with finding the right place right now. But, in the meantime, I want to not be so sad and grumpy every morning at the prospect of going to work all day long.
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 07:07 PM
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I do think being a paralegal is sustainable for the most part; more so than actually working as an attorney. I like what I do, but I am really burnt out on the whole deal. I'm considering doing contract work again, which gives you a lot of flexibility but isn't the most dependable if you need to ensure a steady income. I don't like being under anyone's thumb, and while I work almost entirely independently (seriously, I can go a few days without seeing or talking to anyone else in my firm), not h…
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 06:36 PM
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I have a few friends in Raleigh and one of them made a post about scraping her windshield with her iPhone case this morning. I know it's super out of the ordinary for you guys so no one should expect everyone to deal with icy windows like they're an everyday thing like we do, but I can't help but laugh. Also, in a pinch, a CD case works well as a window scraper. :)
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 05:23 PM
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There's dozens of us!
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 04:26 PM
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Good: Got some stuff done around the house this weekend! It wasn't much, but I've been in a huge slump for the past few weeks so doing more around the house felt fantastic. Also, we did more timeline talks, which was awesome and I'm ridiculously thrilled about and trying not to squeal over. :) Bad: I've started recording my practice sessions like I used to do. While it's a good thing because it gives me a better idea of what to practice on, it really showed how bad my lung capacity has gotten. I…
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 03:07 PM
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I'm also 5'10"! I know now my dad was lying to me, he was just scared of me going into the military. I went in as a musician instead though, haha. I think someday I will take lessons - aviation is a big thing in my family, one of my paternal great-grandfathers started the air patrol for the state police in a state I spent a lot of my early life in (I have no idea if that's a thing people could look up, we don't have a very common last name though). I was actually pretty adamantly childfree. I di…
/r/RedPillWives08/01/17 04:00 AM
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I totally want all the babies too... It's a problem lol
/r/RedPillWives08/01/17 03:22 AM
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Tomboy, didn't want kids until current partner, wanted to be a pilot ...ARE YOU ME!? No seriously, I was a huge tomboy - this is why my sister (also a tomboy) and I destroyed our dolls. I was firmly childfree until my current SO, too. When I was a kid, I wanted to be a vet until my mom told me I'd have to put animals to sleep too, I just wanted to pet all the animals. Then I started learning about airplanes and flying with my grandpa and uncles who had licenses, and then learning about Amelia Ea…
/r/RedPillWives08/01/17 02:45 AM
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Seconding fleece lined tights - I wear them under jeans when I'm chopping wood or shoveling snow, they are super warm but also cute too!
/r/RedPillWives08/01/17 01:28 AM
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That sucks, I'm sorry. Re: the check, write them a demand letter - tell them to forward it to you by mail within x time frame or you will make a wage claim with your state's department of labor. Document everything and all that jazz. I don't work on sexual harassment claims, but I think it sounds like you may have a case based on what little I do know. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 07:23 PM
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If you're in the US, you may wanna contact an employment attorney about the sexual harassment situation if it escalated to the point that you needed to leave your job.
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 06:54 PM
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Oooh. Well, I would obviously be hurt, and probably angry because he broke vows. But, I couldn't blame him. I think I would have to force myself to get over it. I can't blame a man who isn't getting laid by his fat, hateful wife for going out and getting his rocks off with some girl who isn't going to bust his balls. But, that would also probably be the kick in the ass needed to start trying to fix myself.
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 03:39 PM
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I'm originally from the south, but I've actually moved to Iowa. I do love it here! I'm actually in a much smaller area than where I was active as a musician (St. Louis). I'm a flute and piccolo player - I've been playing since I was 9 and went to college for a few years for it before I had to leave for financial reasons. There's always an over-saturation of flute players in every market because it seems to be one of those instruments that people love to pick back up in their retirement years. Un…
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 02:54 PM
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That's not how I see it. I think the way "respect" is being used in RP is akin to the phrase "putting the pussy on a pedestal." I think those with more BP attitudes have a tendency to worship womanhood and revere it. Some of the comments below are good though - /u/speed3_freak says it well: Respect is earned. Not being disrespected should be a given. That's a much better way to put what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 02:37 PM
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He sounds like a great kid. :) OK, that's the free time I was kind of expecting - for some reason I got the impression that you were saying you had like LOADS of time to just do anything in the world, I don't know why I thought that hah. Now I want like 8 babies, 'cause this one's so awesome. I always think this after I see how good the nephews are and how my aunt and uncle had 7 daughters, but then I realize we don't make that kind of money and I don't actually think I'm the kind of person for …
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 02:29 PM
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Ooh, I want to hear more about your musicianship. I'm a musician as well, I'm hoping to build up my student base to something comparable to what I had before I moved up here. It's so much more difficult than I realized to resettled as a musician in a new place! I've kind of been marking time and just doing whatever for the past three years, but I've got some performance and teaching prospects coming up here shortly. My goal is to contribute to our income with that after we start having kids.
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 02:26 PM
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That's good that you got an understanding of what babies are like at such a young age - I was never really exposed to them, so I had no clue. Sounds like you've got a plan!
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 02:24 PM
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Thanks! I hope it spurs some good discussion. :) I think the PA path is a good one - definitely much less loan debt, and more actual hands on patient care without quite as much mess that comes along with nursing.
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 05:32 AM
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Oh gosh, I'll be 29 in May and I don't even have one ...I feel so behind compared to you! Are you a SAHM now? Given that you had your first at 19, did you ever consider a career or anything, given your interests?
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 05:32 AM
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24 years, 6 months, and 2 weeks old Happy belated half birthday! I'm curious about your natural inclination towards motherhood as a child, but then that point where you steered towards being childfree. I'm only two years older than you and our family was hit by the recession pretty hard too - my dad ran a roofing company that primarily did new construction, so the money ran dry pretty quickly. I went through a CF phase too, although I later realized that mine was more linked to the fact that I d…
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 05:30 AM
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That sounds really hard! I don't know a whole lot about autism, actually. I have heard that sometimes kids can end up functioning at a much higher level in their later years though, so I hope the best for you and your family! We have learned to be true, self-donative partners, not just good-time pals. I think something like that would do it, for sure. It seems like something that would surely be a team effort. if women were pregnant longer, our pelvises would have to be so wide as to preclude wa…
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 05:23 AM
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Respect is earned, not given. No one deserves respect just for existing, woman or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 10:16 PM
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Yay, go me.
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 05:26 PM
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it's still kind of a stereotype for only American Soldiers specifically to be black (they used to be pretty much the first/only black people in Germany after WW2 until maybe 10-20 years ago) Any idea why that is? I personally don't know, but I'm curious. I am a big fan of the musical Hedwig and the Angry Inchonlygodcanjudgeme and in it, the East German main character hooks up with a black American soldier. I'm now wondering if that was a play on the overall stereotype, I just assumed it was a di…
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 04:51 PM
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Blacks find me "bougie". Did you run into that more or less during your time in DC? I always imagined that it would be a lot more accepted in a more metropolitan area, but I can also see how the opposite would be true depending on your social circles or class. The biracial friend I mentioned above got a lot of disturbing messages when she was using OK Stupid - things like "I don't normally like black girls but you give me jungle fever" or "I've always wondered what it's like to fuck a black girl…
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 04:46 PM
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That sucks. :( Did you ever consider dating outside of your race due to that?
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 04:36 PM
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Barbarians - it's her first book, just came out in December!
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 04:11 PM
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a similar upbringing and similar values are very important to a relationship's success This is why class is also very important in the vetting process; while it's possible to make a better (or worse) life for yourself in adulthood than you had as a child, how you were raised plays a big part in how you perceive a lot of things. An example: someone whose family was financially comfortable as a child will pay a lot less attention to item pricing and the overall grocery bill, where someone whose fa…
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 03:49 PM
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Never previously, however my SO is a former wrestler and football player. And also a Marine, and a frat boy. Every other guy I've ever dated came from my own social circle, which is full of musicians, artists, and actors. I feel like a lot of those men tend towards very, very beta qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 03:26 PM
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I like him because he's inflammatory. Also, his Snapchats are usually pretty hilarious. As for whether I'll get his book? If it ends up being available on Kindle Unlimited, I'll read it there - I'm sure it will be. I just got Lauren Southern's book - it's not very long, I just haven't been able to force myself to sit down long enough to get through it.
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 03:20 PM
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INTJ. I personally don't have a problem with interracial dating, but mostly because I don't care what others do with their relationships. My view on interracial dating has changed a lot over the years, entirely through meeting different people and hearing them tell me about their dating struggles and relationship issues. A lovely biracial friend of mine has had a lot of trouble attempting to date white guys, but isn't interested in dating black men. I had always wondered why, because her father …
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 03:08 PM
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Dear Dixie, Things seem tough right now, but don't they always? It's okay, you've got this. You've been doing a great job of practicing more - keep it up! Let's increase the practice time another hour and knock off an hour of internet time. If you do this, you can take a day trip to the shop with the cheap sheet music in Quincy. You resolved to do more biking this year, so do it. Don't complain when you fall down - and drink more water before and during rides so you're more alert, you'll fall le…
/r/RedPillWives05/01/17 06:45 PM
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you should be a feminist, but you misunderstood what it meant and wrongly rejected it This is the most common initial argument I hear from feminists trying to "convert" me. It usually turns from "you just misunderstand" to "you're an evil person" pretty quickly.
/r/RedPillWives05/01/17 02:30 PM
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Rules to live by, truly!
/r/RedPillWives04/01/17 09:16 PM
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/r/awfuleyebrows
/r/RedPillWives04/01/17 08:43 PM
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For me, submission is trusting that he's making the right calls and decisions for us. I'm an admitted control freak, and traditionally have had to have my way on everything - my mom's the same way. Instead of fighting him on things because it's not what I would have done, I consider his reasoning. 9 times out of 10, his reasoning makes more sense than mine. He's the leader because ultimately, what he says goes. If I have concerns, I bring them to him - and he considers them before making a final…
/r/RedPillWives04/01/17 05:44 PM
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Power brows. Those stupid, thick, massive eyebrows - that's what drives me the most crazy about that look. I can even sort of accept the ridiculously dark lipsticks that are trendy right now, but freaking power brows. /end rant
/r/RedPillWives04/01/17 03:05 PM
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I am grateful for middle-of-the-night snuggles from my SO, I think he can just tell when I'm having bad dreams. I am grateful that we live where we do. I love our neighborhood and (most of) the people in it. I'm thankful that we'll raise our kids here. I am grateful for the opportunities I've been blessed with, particularly the opportunity to continue playing music at my level in this phase of my life.
/r/RedPillWives03/01/17 03:50 PM
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Hoo girl, you quintuple posted. I suddenly had 5 orangereds and got a little nervous there for a sec, haha.
/r/RedPillWives03/01/17 01:49 AM
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The kids will mind him better than you, almost guaranteed, even though you will be their main caregiver. This is absolutely how it was in my house growing up too. Even though when it came down to things my mom didn't want to give the final answer on, and even though my mom frequently undermined my dad in front of us, we still minded him better. I think dads just give that aura of more power to children, and I personally think it's a good idea to reinforce that perception. :)
/r/RedPillWives03/01/17 01:09 AM
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we're old ladies now haha (28 and 29) Girl do not do this to me, we aren't old yet! :) I hear you so much on the carbs though, PMS will do that. It's okay to give in a little.
/r/RedPillWives02/01/17 11:20 PM
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UGH RIGHT? It makes me think of that cartoon with the Swedish guys about to be beheaded by ISIS, and the one says to the other "at least no one called us racists!"
/r/RedPillWives02/01/17 05:24 PM
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I don't block or delete people ever, I think doing that creates an echo chamber and I don't want to do that. I just read it and didn't respond because I know seeing that I read it but didn't reply will cause her much more agony than anything I could say would do. :) And thank you, despite my fear I am excited for Paris. :D
/r/RedPillWives02/01/17 05:23 PM
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Credit to /u/irisandoleander for posting this elsewhere recently, and for making me think of it with her most recent post. This was a surprisingly good article from HuffPo of all places about the diminished role that society has given to fathers today; fathers are not babysitters, they are parents!
/r/RedPillWives02/01/17 04:10 PM
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I think this gives a very good perspective of the important role fathers play to their children - a role that seems to be perceived more and more and one that is less important or less involved. We obviously know that pets are not children, but it's a good correlation for surrendering in parenthood - mothers and fathers play different roles, but both parents are extremely important.
/r/RedPillWives02/01/17 04:08 PM
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Woo, first comment. Good: Enjoyed a nice long weekend away from work. Had plenty of silly moments around the house. Got some practicing in, and got asked to play with a local wind symphony here soon. It's only 2nd part because they don't have enough people to fill out the section, but hey - it's something, and I'm glad to hopefully find an ensemble where I can belong after almost 3 years of being here! Bad: Feeling like I don't belong here again; some guy walking behind me in the skywalk hollere…
/r/RedPillWives02/01/17 03:59 PM
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Thank you, everyone, for making this community the amazing and refreshing place that it is. I've developed great friendships over this past year and really appreciate the words of advice that have helped me grow as a person and be a better partner for my man. I really appreciate how much work our mods do, and I am especially grateful for all of the laughs we've shared along the way. Happy 2017 everyone!
/r/RedPillWives01/01/17 09:43 PM
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The dominance threshold post is probably the most helpful post I have ever seen on here; it made so much click for me. It made the past and present make more sense and it made me understand even my own relationship dynamics better. We are what I feel is a more uncommon matchup (HHH) but learning how to handle my own dominant personality has made things flow very smoothly. We've definitely evolved into a much stronger team, I would even go so far as to say we've become a power couple in many aspe…
/r/RedPillWives01/01/17 09:28 PM
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We decided on Paris as our side trip for our vacation and bought our train tickets for that, and B also decided to pull the trigger on some Ajax tickets so we can see a match the day we get to Amsterdam! Other than that, it was pretty uneventful, which is fine. :)
/r/RedPillWives01/01/17 09:25 PM
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Traditions! The only one we really have is sort of an unofficial one, and it's definitely a weird one. I also think it's funny, so it hits all the marks! Basically, just "let's see who gets drunkest" on Christmas Eve. This year it was my darling man, hahaha. He also has what his father refers to as "his mother's problem," which is that he doesn't get hangovers. It's unfair, truly. Holiday Season! I love the snow that's supposed to happen - snow, snow, snow! I also love B's Christmas sweater and …
/r/RedPillWives29/12/16 08:28 PM
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PurplePillDebate PurplePillDebate Debate Granted, I don't participate a ton, but I read a lot and I don't think anything goes on but actual debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 06:27 PM
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unaware of the oppression because of your NT privilege. Would I still be privileged if I went and saw a few doctors and came back with a diagnosis of Aspberger's/autism? Because for all I know, that could be the only thing missing. And there's that "privilege" buzzword; I'm having a much harder time taking what you say seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 10:00 PM
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I am extremely hesitant to consider someone who is not neurotypical oppressed in the plainest sense of the word. Any perceived oppression would appear to be entirely self-imposed. This is also the internet and I'm a stranger, you don't know my life, blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 09:53 PM
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There were some parts to it that really struck me like "Hey, I can identify with that" - it felt weird, but kind of comforting in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 08:31 PM
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any tips to push through the jet lag and exhaustion? Just push through it for a while longer, eventually it'll even out. It's so tough trying to readjust, but it'll get better. Some people get over it in a day or two, some people take a full month to readjust their body clock. Your body is learning a new Circadian rhythm, give it some time. :)
/r/RedPillWives28/12/16 08:30 PM
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We also moved in together pretty fast after becoming official - we were 5 hours apart prior to that. It just seemed right considering the long drive to see each other. We knew each other for several years before that though, so that's how I told myself that it was okay. So, here we are, after almost three years of living together. Combining things was a little difficult and there are definitely still compromises that have to be made on things like decor and furniture, but we've gotten into the g…
/r/RedPillWives28/12/16 08:27 PM
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FANTASTIC movie - we just saw it at the cheap theater last week, I cannot recommend it enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 08:14 PM
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I do this. My SO will actually interrupt me while I'm doing it sometimes too, which is funny because I don't realize I'm doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:25 PM
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I cannot point to any legit reasons or motivations as to why other than parents and doctors being fanatic zealots about prescription medicine and/or SJWs wanting to increase funding for ADA laws and access to federal aid by increasing the number of those affected by a particular illness or condition. I think poor parenting is a big part of it - telling people your kid has a problem is a lot easier than admitting that you're a shitty parent. My other theory is the fact that the pharmaceutical ind…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:21 PM
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I think most mental illness diagnosis are unnecessary medically but I understand the compulsion to assort the human race into as many categories as possible for the purpose of study and discrimination. That said, I'm sure if it was forced, EVERYONE on Earth would have a mental illness. YES. OMG YES. I absolutely agree. I've caught a few diagnoses in my life (autism/Aspberger's not being one of them) but they don't define who you are in the least - my opinion, while potentially seen as harsh, is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:09 PM
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A certain subset of the population seems extremely obsessed with labels, and that's part of the reason that I think that doing away with the Aspberger's label is beneficial - it's one less way to try and differentiate yourself. Focusing too much on what makes you different gets you nowhere. At 28, I still fail to see a reason to put a label to it - while I do identify as an INTJ, it's just a test that can provide a little bit of insight into why you might do things a certain way, but it's ultima…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:01 PM
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That makes sense, but for diagnosis purposes I think that eliminating the term in itself and instead referring to it as just another point on a spectrum is better for understanding the different aspects and severity of autism. I am not a medical professional though, so my opinion is just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:57 PM
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"well how come this isn't just second nature to you??" that may be a factor as to why. I didn't think of it that way, that's a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:51 PM
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It's just considered part of the spectrum now, part of the high-functioning end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:50 PM
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It was removed from the DSM in 2013 - it's still in the ICD-10 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:50 PM
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Aspberger's isn't even recognized in the DSM anymore, I think it's just another snowflake-y label that people love to assign themselves. Being an asshole isn't a disease, it's a personality flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:48 PM
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I know, maybe I am an aspie and I'm just in denial lol I think there are a lot of RP folks who do exhibit similar traits to autism - I really think a lot of incels fall on the spectrum though, although I have no real evidence to back that up. My best friend and I have actually had more than a few discussions about RP vs. autism though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:45 PM
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I am not on the spectrum, however I took that last night and got a 39. I've taken a few variations of the test and typically end up in that "you're probably autistic" zone. I am definitely not though, I think it's just the INTJ thing. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:36 PM
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I actually didn't want to play flute - I wanted to play violin. My school was so small that we didn't have an orchestra program though, so the next instrument I wanted to play was piccolo - but they told me I had to learn and be good at flute first. So I did, and now I'm a really awesome piccolo player (not to toot my own horn or anything - GET IT!?). I bought a violin a few years ago to try and learn, and I rarely fiddle with it (I'M ON A ROLL GUYS). I think everyone's got their niche! And for …
/r/RedPillWives28/12/16 04:56 PM
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That's awesome! I tell you what, good accompanists are hard to come by - you can totes be my accompanist for my world tour some day, hahah. The fantastic thing about piano is that there are always people looking for piano players. I tried so hard to like my methods class in college, but piano just never did it for me - even so, I still daydream about sitting down at one of those randomly-placed pianos in a city and whipping out some beautiful nocturne.
/r/RedPillWives28/12/16 04:44 PM
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Oh yeah - I try to live by that quote, but sometimes the hamster just gets to me, ya know? I would totally get rid of Facebook but I need it for work and a few other random things, so I just need to get better at separating it in my head. :) Oh yeah! Music is my thing - that's what I went to college for. I'm trying to prep some stuff for busking in Amsterdam in March, and (still) trying to find an ensemble to play with here, but I've got a few prospects on that. I totally wanted to be a professi…
/r/RedPillWives28/12/16 04:26 PM
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What would make you a bad fiancee is knowing what you do NOW and still not doing it. Right. I just have to stick to the self-improvement train - CHOO CHOO. I think... and I know this was a vent for you to decompress but... you are being really hard on yourself and not seeing this as an opportunity for growth. You and Bella are right, I am being too hard on myself. That's definitely a personality flaw of mine, I'm guilty of being a perfectionist in many areas of my life. I think I need to just st…
/r/RedPillWives28/12/16 03:58 PM
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Thank you <3 That helps a lot. I am trying to not let myself wallow because that's just not what I think I should be doing, but maybe if I do it'll go away sooner. I hate feeling like this, it feels disrespectful and I hate that. I will maybe take you up on the bottle of wine, I think I could certainly use it.
/r/RedPillWives28/12/16 12:43 AM
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Alright, I'm going to vent a little bit. And please, I don't want anyone to take this the wrong way, my feelings are hurt and it's entirely my own fault - I'm working on getting over it but it's hard. I've mentioned that I'm having a lot of burnout with my job and things like that. Well, on Christmas eve, B decided he wanted to do an airing of grievances - it started out really silly, but as it got more serious, I felt like it was a good time to go ahead and put it out there how I'd been feeling…
/r/RedPillWives27/12/16 10:50 PM
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I'm having a very hard time feeling grateful today, so I've been sitting here staring at this page for over an hour now trying to think of the right things to write. So, I'll give it a shot. 1.) I'm grateful for my SO's family, who gifted us many nice things but most notably the nicest sheets I've ever slept in plus a really nice down comforter. 2.) This is going to sound really stupid, but I'm actually really grateful for r/the_donald - I realized this last night while I was lying in bed unable…
/r/RedPillWives27/12/16 07:07 PM
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I haven't read this yet, but I'm getting ready to buy Lauren Southern's new book Barbarians - from what I can tell, it looks like it'll be pretty good.
/r/RedPillWives24/12/16 05:19 PM
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That would also weigh into it - like, say girlfriend told me three months ago that she was coming into town, we had these plans set in concrete, put our handprints in it and everything. In version one, I wouldn't be breaking those plans. But, on the other hand, say she was coming to town for a family emergency and it was really sudden - I might even break existing plans with the guy for that depending on the situation. It's hard to say, really - so many variables could change the outcome for me.
/r/RedPillWives22/12/16 08:22 PM
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First, <3 OK - it would really depend on how the relationship was going, how long it had been going on, and also who made plans first. Version 1: Have been on a few dates with the guy but nothing has been solidified as far as relationship goes yet - gal pal is suddenly in town and wants to hang and y'all have been planning on it, guy says he wants to take me out tonight. I would really have to consider where I thought things were going in the relationship, to be honest - it would entirely hinge …
/r/RedPillWives22/12/16 07:57 PM
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This is silly, but driving. I'm a good driver, I really am. B, however, does not think so. After many calm, straightforward comments over time that I would like him to stop insulting my driving, I finally got upset and cried and snapped at him over the weekend and he shared with me that he genuinely does worry about me driving. I disagree with this. I know all of the age-old jokes about women being bad drivers, but I am not one. The worst offense I'm guilty of is bitching about other drivers (I …
/r/RedPillWives22/12/16 07:38 PM
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I get ya, I'm very pale and freckled too - I burn very easily unless I start hitting up the tanning salon in small increments before summer rolls around. Not good I know, but it prevents me from burning like crazy and helps my acne-prone skin a ton. I can't imagine being super pregnant in the summer here, it sounds miserable! B was born in late July and was over a week late, his mother has definitely made me aware of how miserable she was haha.
/r/RedPillWives22/12/16 02:20 PM
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OK, now, summer in the UK is like, what I dream summer was here - if anyone else wants to back me up on this, be my guest. Summer in the UK is like a glorious springtime that just feels like a dream, sitting outside at a pub in St. Albans or Rickmansworth on a summer day felt like something out of a movie to me. Sitting outside at a pub here in Iowa in the summer is a rare thing, only on the cooler days - otherwise you're sticky, frizzy, sweaty, and just miserable. The midwest gets all the best …
/r/RedPillWives22/12/16 01:47 PM
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Let me preface this by saying I LOVE WINTER. It is my favorite, I love snow and I love cold. I would absolutely trade summer for another winter, even though I love beachin' on the river. Anyway... Most of my summer wear transitions to winter wear by the addition of leggings, heavier socks, and boots instead of flats. The majority of my wardrobe anymore is in shades of black and grey - it used to be pretty colorful, but I realized that I valued simplicity over variety. It saves me a lot of time. …
/r/RedPillWives21/12/16 04:27 PM
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Thank you for linking these so quickly - I'll give them a read after dinner tonight, I'm leaving the office in just a couple of minutes.
/r/RedPillWives20/12/16 10:52 PM
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I would be hesitant to take anything from Huffington Post seriously, but having seen somewhat the opposite as a result of feminism, I'm curious now. Can you link the source article for that picture?
/r/RedPillWives20/12/16 10:43 PM
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You make a very good point. However, I think the fact that it's an undesirable response to the mainstream norm classes it as mental illness; it's a symptom of a greater ill in society overall.
/r/RedPillWives20/12/16 10:29 PM
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Forgot to check in on this yesterday! Good: Lost a couple of pounds. Woo hoo! I quit doing keto because I was really miserable without carbs, I'm back to IIFYM. One week of IIFYM helped me drop 3 lbs. I'm still cooking keto-friendly dinners though because B is still doing keto. Bad: I'm having some major burnout at work right now. I don't know if it's just the time of year, stress over trying to come up with enough work, or just the fact that I would much rather be at home taking care of the hou…
/r/RedPillWives20/12/16 06:35 PM
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Great article! I've been pondering this concept for a little while now - I really think the downward trend in overall mental health in our society in general has to do with feminism's influence. Masculinity and femininity are both vilified; when you fight your own nature, of course you're going to be miserable.
/r/RedPillWives20/12/16 06:13 PM
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1.) SHORT WEEK THIS WEEK AND NEXT WEEK AND THE WEEK AFTER THAT! Very excited to have some extra days off. I'm planning to go ice skating by myself and bring my best friend a Christmas gift in the hospital. I'm trying to pull some strings at the hospital to see if her boyfriend can bring their dog to visit her, keep your fingers crossed! 2.) Today it was a little warmer! It was 20F when I left the house, it felt like springtime. I couldn't even bring myself to wear a coat, hahaha. It's supposed t…
/r/RedPillWives20/12/16 06:11 PM
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Do a sports thing. That’s funny. That's me. Have short hair and do something sportsy while also wearing your purse as a bra. Ya lost me.
/r/RedPillWives18/12/16 02:00 AM
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Woo hoo! Welcome welcome, new folk!
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 06:42 PM
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I'd probably rather have a lass as a sniper, and lads for bayonet drill, sure enough. Agreed. especially if some of the privates fancy bumping privates and get competitive They do, and despite the fact that adultery is punishable under the UCMJ, that frequently happens as well. I did know of a girl who was referred to as the Trifecta for more than one reason, she caused a lot of problems.
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 06:30 PM
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if they gave article 15s to everyone who drinks or shows up to work buzzed they wouldn't get anything else done here. Right? Sometimes folks have nothing better to do than screw someone over though. Signatures are a funny thing. I would love to say more on that hahaha.
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 06:23 PM
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This is my shame on the ol' Facespace - I vote that one.
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 06:13 PM
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Why not treat people like adults? Unfortunately, a lot of people go into the military with no understanding of how to function in the real world. B actually met a guy at Pendleton who literally had no clue how a bank account functioned - he thought as long as he had checks, he had money. You can guess how poorly that ended for him. On another note, you are the property of the government when you're in - the government obviously wants to protect their property. If a soldier gets into trouble, tha…
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 06:07 PM
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Interestingly, Russia actually preferred to use women in sniper positions in the Soviet era as they were perceived to be more patient. I'm not sure how true that in itself is, but there may be some truth to women being a better shot - one of my good friends and I far surpassed the boys on our shooting team growing up, and my sister did the same in her age group. As we know here, women and men have different strengths and abilities, and a lot of what is done in the military is not in line with ou…
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 06:00 PM
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That's a fantastic way to put it. Not every deed requires an equal response - that's a slippery slope into feeling like you're "owed" something.
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 05:39 PM
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I really respect when parents treat their children that way - I think it actually does encourage them to behave better just because they know that they won't have to lie about their misbehavior. I know for sure I would have had a much better relationship with my parents had they followed this policy - I hid things that weren't even bad just because I was afraid to confront them!
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 05:37 PM
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https://aboveaverage.com/frosty-the-snowperson-and-9-more-millennial-christmas-songs/ This was kind of cheesy and could have been better, but I totally laughed. Any ideas for other Christmas songs for millennials?
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 05:36 PM
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I failed and remain llama'd until tomorrow! B got it wrong too though, so I guess it's not so bad hahaha
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 05:34 PM
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I would request that this llama flair please be Llama Del Rey. Por favor. :)
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 05:33 PM
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I absolutely 100% agree with this. We actually just saw on the national news the other night that a lot of Marine Corps recruits have been speaking out over the "appalling" treatment they received after arriving at basic. Pretty much everything they listed as "mistreatment" were things B went through. Being put through things that most people would never be able to handle is a necessary part of the training - you're not going there just to become physically strong, but mentally strong. If you ca…
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 09:31 PM
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I feel like I don't have the time to actually make broth - I usually buy stock for soups and stuff. Chicken bouillon cubes are great, I like it extra salty so I don't add a ton of water. My mom used to give me pickles to suck all the juice out of when I was a kid (I wouldn't eat them though lol) so there is photographic proof of my love for pickle juice - no point in fighting it, hah.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 02:24 AM
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I hear that helps a ton, but it seems way easier to me to just buy the broth. Also, I have to admit, I drink pickle juice lol.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 02:09 AM
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That one is SO good. Definitely a favorite. I'm also a big fan of pickle wraps - just put some whipped cream cheese on a slice of black forest ham and put a baby dill pickle in it, wrap it up and eat. Good way to get fat and sodium in!
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 02:01 AM
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Hahaha true. I found a really good chicken bacon alfredo post on there a while back, that is definitely a favorite. I do find some good stuff on Pinterest too - a lot of paleo foods are easily converted to keto foods, so that's a good place to look. B makes bulletproof coffee every morning, it's so good!
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 01:23 AM
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Oooh I love pumpkin! Those sound great. I usually just use /r/ketorecipes or if I have an idea for something I want, I just google "x food low-carb version" and try to modify from there if it needs it. I am super lazy about it, haha.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 12:55 AM
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It's so hard to find ways to cram enough fat in - I have the same problem as you. I actually bumped my calories up to 1,400 because I'm so tall, and I'm good to go then. I made these weird little lasagna-type cup things for lunch this week - they've got a ton of fat in them, but they're also fairly high calorie so I don't think I'll do them again. They keep me full for quite a while, but I actually aim for 1,200 calories a day to give myself room for a little snack or something. Carbquick sounds…
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 12:12 AM
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there's one walking distance from my apartment! Ahh lucky you! Closest one to me is still Chicago, which is four hours away. :(
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 12:08 AM
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Yay, thanks for the review! I can't wait to see it. Part of me wants to try to organize a showing just because I know it would rustle some jimmies, but Roosh actually had to cancel a planned meetup here back in February because of some violent threats from feminists so I expect I'd receive similar treatment even as a woman. Also, I have no time lol.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 12:06 AM
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Woo hoo! Raises are the bomb dot com. :)
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 11:58 PM
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Ugh, been there with the doxxing - I got doxxed on one of my old accounts about five years ago. I'm definitely not a super private person on here, but I am careful about what I post to make sure nothing horrible would happen if I were outed. It does suck to have to censor yourself on the internet of all places!
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 11:58 PM
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LOL no worries, I figured something just came up or something. :) How much snow did y'all get?
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 11:57 PM
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That's awesome that you've found a great friend group! I think I'm on the verge of one here finally (after almost three years!) and it feels great.
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 11:56 PM
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We're doing keto too! I am not gonna lie, I miss pasta - but I also really love cheese and meat so it's not soo bad. Also, I hear you on the cold, girl - our high on Sunday is supposed to be -7. NEGATIVE 7! That's like, not even any degree, in fact, we OWE degrees! I have Bearpaws because Uggs are out of my price range, but they are seriously amazing. Our floors are always cold so I wear them indoors too. Little pillowy ovens for my feeties.
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 11:55 PM
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Best part about libraries is that you can get cookbooks from there too! :D
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 11:53 PM
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I don't think it would be weird at all - a lot of travel blogs actually advocate bringing chocolate for the flight crew if you want to try to get an upgrade, doing it just to be nice can't hurt a bit! We were actually in Frankfurt over easter and the TSA-type people there actually gave us little chocolate bunnies in cards that basically said sorry for the inconvenience. It was sweet. Welcome to the US, hope you love it here!
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 11:52 PM
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as he left the house for the day he opened the door, paused, and then took a step back in and said "hey, look pretty by 8pm" and left. I might be a sucker but that is super romantic hahaha. I love it!
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 11:51 PM
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Woo hoo! Congratulations on motherhood! :D
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 11:50 PM
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Updated finally. :)
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 05:29 PM
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Oh. My. Goodness. OK. I'm commenting as a placeholder as I'm getting ready to shower and heading to bed early tonight, I'll flesh this out tomorrow. Briefly: I love my mother, and I've learned great things from her, but I've also learned a TON of things not to be or do... EDIT! Alright, I've got a little time to write now. My mom is, in short, not a good wife. Granted, my father is an extremely difficult man, but my mother lacks any patience or compassion to deal with him. I think a lot of it st…
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 12:58 AM
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Bad example. Not all rape victims experience PTSD, and many go on to have completely healthy relationships with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 01:45 AM
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I think the first round of snow was just a teaser to prep us for the for-real snow. :)
/r/RedPillWives12/12/16 10:17 PM
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Ooh true! I try to be as nice as possible, but it's not always feasible in my line of work. I try to exercise as much professional courtesy as humanly possible though in hopes that the favor is returned.
/r/RedPillWives12/12/16 04:06 PM
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Good: Future SIL's baby shower yesterday was a huge success, despite the snow! Attendance was not as high as was expected - the party was in a beautiful lodge in a state park off a gravel access road, several people got stuck in the snow trying to get up and many of them turned around to go home. :( But, everyone who made it had a good time, and my future MIL and I put together a pretty good spread. DAR meeting on Saturday went well with the cookie exchange, excited for our service project next …
/r/RedPillWives12/12/16 04:04 PM
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Ooh I love this! Learning how to balance this was a huge turning point for me; learning to slide over to the passenger seat once I got home made everything move smoother. Just noticed the author of that article has a book coming out in February, The Alpha Female’s Guide to Men & Marriage - I think I'll pick that up for airplane reading. Sounds like a really interesting book.
/r/RedPillWives12/12/16 03:33 PM
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not understanding what a K is in baseball OH MY GOD
/r/RedPillWives11/12/16 06:33 AM
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I personally would have an easier time moving past an escort related incident of infidelity So, it would get to you, but you'd just get over it faster? I think I see what you're saying. Maybe it's because I'm an INTJ, but I don't think I would be able to move past something like that - I would certainly try, but the forgetting part of "forgive and forget" has always been a catching point for me.
/r/RedPillWives10/12/16 04:50 PM
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It's definitely fun to see how far we can push it - the shenanigans we have gotten ourselves into have given us stories for years, hahaha. There's no shame in it as long as you're honest and trust each other!
/r/RedPillWives10/12/16 04:45 PM
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I like /u/MountainsAndMeadows description the best - that's pretty much exactly how I feel. I would expand to add that other women flirting with him and him going along with it for either shits and giggles or a free drink is okay - B frequently likes to mess with girls like this, and I find it hilarious. I've shown up to a bar at his request where a girl was leaning in and staring at him and had just bought him a drink - he happily introduced me as his fiance and she scuttled off quick - we laug…
/r/RedPillWives10/12/16 02:43 AM
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any romantic interaction at all with other women is cheating with the exception of prostitutes/escorts I was with you until this - can you explain this further?
/r/RedPillWives10/12/16 02:37 AM
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I found myself reminiscing earlier about the last time B came back from visiting Pendleton almost 3 years ago. When he's around other Marines, his whole demeanor changes and he goes full on motard. I don't know why, but it's the most endearing thing in the world. But anyway, the last time he came back was actually from watching his cousin graduate boot camp - the only other Marine in their family. For a solid month after he came back, the moto was turned up to 11, and took a while to go down aft…
/r/RedPillWives09/12/16 06:26 PM
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I'll admit I have bad eyes, but when I first opened that picture I thought the barrettes on her forehead were actually a penis drawn on it.
/r/RedPillWives09/12/16 01:37 AM
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I have a creepy fondness for drag queen gifs.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 10:23 PM
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YES
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 10:10 PM
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Here ya go: http://theredpillmovie.com/see-the-film/
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 08:07 PM
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Ooh wow, can you post a review? The closest showing to us is still 5 hours away on a week night, so I won't get to go to a showing.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 07:59 PM
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I've got some great stuff for my SO, I'm really excited to give it to him (PM me if you're curious, he knows my Reddit name and is very curious as to what I got him, so I will not be posting!) We actually don't do cards though - he thinks they're stupid and a waste of money. No one in his family does them either, which is strange to me because my WHOLE family goes Christmas-card-crazy. So, there's a really, really silly tradition in his family - on Christmas eve, there's a handle of bourbon. Eve…
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 06:58 PM
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I seriously just heard the original song for the first time last weekend - I thought it was really cute! Now, just a few days later, this crap. For all of the offense that they take to "us" not respecting their ridiculous behavior, they certainly hold nothing sacred.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 05:18 PM
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Ah yeah, that sucks. I really do like the Windows OS, it's pretty good but the lack of development makes it kind of worthless. We were looking at cheaper Android phones to potentially pick up as burners to use when we're back in Europe in a few months, BLU has some really good phones that are cheap.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 02:49 PM
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What kind of phone do you have? There's an IRCCloud app that I've got on mine, it works pretty well but I feel like it's harder to keep up with on mobile.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 02:27 PM
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a way for ramen to learn how to present themselves I'm sorry I had to point it out, it made me laugh hahaha
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 02:25 PM
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Blaire White actually did a really good counter point to this issue recently. CQ got it though - OF COURSE it's discriminatory. EVERY PERSON ALIVE is discriminatory in the dating process, that's called vetting, and if you're not doing it, things aren't gonna end out too well for ya.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 12:42 AM
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Get you one of those little handtrucks or a dolley to cart it around lol
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 06:28 PM
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I find UK politics to be quite interesting - I used to watch a lot of Sky News when I was working second shift because the morning news was starting when I got home from work. It's interesting how you guys have managed to actually have a >2 party system over there, yet people still (in my perception at least) tend to just fall behind left or right depending on who's in control. Personally, I think UKIP has got the right idea on things, but it seems you can't say that without immediately being du…
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 04:08 PM
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Twitter is dying, but right now it's one of the best places to actually communicate with likeminded-people. P.S. follow me! :D
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 09:46 PM
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As of right now, my SO would prefer that I continue to work. That may change in the future, but we have a close family member that we trust to watch the children for us (she's done a great job with her own kids) that makes this the better option for us financially. I'm not comfortable with daycares or strangers watching my children, if we didn't have her it would be a different conversation. That's not to say it couldn't change, but the conversation has been had more than once and frankly, if I …
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 09:25 PM
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I'm a minority, I know lol - we got 6" in total. SO's dad said I might be sick in the head to love snow so much!
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 07:36 PM
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1.) I'm grateful for my SO's fantastic budgeting skills. If it weren't for him, we wouldn't be taking this amazing vacation in March and I am SO excited to cross the ocean with him again! 2.) I am so very grateful for his family. I've lately been realizing that they truly have taken me in as one of their own - I was talking with one of his cousins yesterday after she told me how surprised they all were when they first met me that they actually liked me. I'm glad I've done nothing to ruin that ei…
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 06:06 PM
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It's so sad to me, honestly. I've loved the time we spent in the UK and we hoped to someday retire to Scotland, but I doubt that'll happen. I wonder if the fear of anyone who doesn't fit the liberal mindset is almost a guilty reaction to the historical "xenophobia" that Britain has traditionally been credited with? Granted, I don't know quite as much about British history, but the way it was always portrayed to me was that the UK was very isolationist, despite its colonization around the world. …
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 05:39 PM
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Ugh, so I've heard. I've got a few Brit friends and they all think we're crazy for electing him, however they also were against Brexit so it does make sense to me. I just saw Labour moved to have a Brexit plan fully published before triggering the EU exit process - just delaying the inevitable. :(
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 05:03 PM
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This is terrifying. I knew it was bad in the UK, but not this bad. Thank you for sharing - this makes me so much more thankful that Trump won.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 03:39 PM
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Interesting article! I'm curious now, I wonder what the results would be if they tested transgendered people - would their eye scanning patterns be similar to their biological gender or their chosen one? Hmm.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 02:23 PM
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That's unfortunately the society that we live in. I myself am envious of women who get to be homemakers/SAHMs - it's not 100% off the table for us, but about 96% off the table. Does it suck? Yes. But, that's the way the cookie crumbles. /u/blushinglilly said it first - she needs to not discuss these things with her coworkers or any friends/family that she knows won't support this idea. After typing that, I did get a little sad - it's shameful that something so natural is so offensive, isn't it? …
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 02:21 PM
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I want to hug you for this! What a fantastic job - I love how it worked out for you guys. :D
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 12:00 AM
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It's a shame because there are women in the world who need help - take for example the women in Saudi Arabia who aren't even allowed outside with out a male chaperone. But if you say that, you're a racist. /s
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 05:37 PM
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AKA Based Mom LOL! Feminism is drowning in myth-information. Advocates never tire of telling us that women are cheated out of nearly a quarter of their salary; that one in four college women is sexually assaulted, or that women are facing an epidemic of online abuse and violence. Such claims are hugely distorted, but they have been repeated so often that they have taken on the aura of truth. This is what gives me hope that feminism will either die off or return to a level of sanity - you've got …
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 05:37 PM
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WOW, this is a very thorough post and fantastic writeup on finances. I think this is something a lot of women don't start thinking about early enough, it's really important to start building these good habits early. Great job!
/r/RedPillWives04/12/16 03:00 AM
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Clarence realized that his dream of being a cow herder had been fulfilled, on the day he married Bertha.
/r/RedPillWives02/12/16 06:06 PM
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I would definitely love to hear other perspectives on this ...maybe I'll go ahead and make it into its own post. I just didn't think it was a big enough topic to warrant that, lol
/r/RedPillWives02/12/16 12:45 AM
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That's true - I do think usually that's the case. Maybe I'm just projecting here - ENTIRELY possible.
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 08:00 PM
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OH. OK, yeah I wasn't thinking about that. Although I think men are also more resistant to physical stimuli when there are too many external stressors.
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 07:54 PM
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womens sexuality is mostly reactive to stimuli whereas men are the proactive ones Meaning like environmental or situational stimuli? I would disagree with that, I think that a lot of men's sexuality is impacted by the environment - we're kind of dealing with that right now, it's kind of frustrating not being able to do anything to fix it. men are typically emotionally reactive while women are the ones who are emotionally proactive Yes to this, absolutely.
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 07:47 PM
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This is probably a good place to discuss that "kisses aren't contracts" thing I've been mulling - I still haven't been able to meld it into any sort of a coherent post. For reference, this came up in a journal that my grandmother wrote when she was still alive - my grandma married my grandfather when she was 20 because he was her first kiss and pressured her into losing her virginity, and she wanted nothing more than to be a wife, mother and homemaker so she dove in headfirst despite a lot of al…
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 07:33 PM
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Ahh. See, I tend to forget to just do the things that bring me simple joy. I go to work, I come home and do chores while I cook dinner, and then I start on all of my little personal projects. It took me many months to finally re-watch all of Gilmore Girls in preparation for the new stuff. I had to re-watch it because the first time around, I missed a ton due to ...being too busy.
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 09:51 PM
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We have no more carbs in the house! 😭 That was part of our going-away party for carbs in our house, we're both on keto hardcore until our vacation in March.
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 09:39 PM
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Let me know after you're done! :D
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 09:35 PM
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A small part of me always hated Rory, just a little bit. But I'd be lying if I said that small part didn't get a little bigger. You NEED to watch it. I hope nothing has been ruined for you yet!
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 09:25 PM
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My marriage is healthier when I'm taking care of myself rather than wishing my SO would fill my bottomless pit of need. Bingo! I have this problem where I go in cycles; I overload my plate and then get overwhelmed and everything suffers. Learning to actually allow yourself time to take care of yourself is pretty hard. I still feel guilty when I do things for me, but I'm getting over it. Sometimes it's okay to say "nothing is going to fall apart and burn if I drink this wine and eat this gigantic…
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 09:02 PM
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Two questions for you: are they going to be there before Christmas at all, and if so, have you already put the tree up? If they're going to be there prior to Christmas, I would have them help you put the ornaments on the tree - that's one of my favorite memories as a kid. Another tradition we had in my family was gingerbread house day - we would pick up prebuilt gingerbread houses from the local bakery and TONS of candy, pretzels, frostings, etc. and just spend the whole day decorating the house…
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 07:33 PM
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Aww congratulations! That sounds like such a nice holiday - I bet Christmas is going to be even better.
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 07:29 PM
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I generally don't really know any people that annoy me - maybe that makes me the annoying one lol. But that's a good idea, gilding someone with an annoying comment haha.
/r/RedPillWives29/11/16 06:48 PM
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Day 1 - Do something kind for yourself. Hmm. I just bought myself a new backpack for our trip so I will count that - it was a really nice backpack. :) Day 2 - Do something kind for your SO or a guy your crushing on. Have a few ideas, but not posting because he knows my Reddit (I don't honestly know if he checks it, but we interact on other subreddits occasionally). Day 3 - Do something kind for a family member or close friend. My best friend is in the hospital again from another surgery, I'm goi…
/r/RedPillWives29/11/16 06:00 PM
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I'm grateful for the amazing person my grandmother was, and that I got to spend 18 years of my life with her in it. I got two boxes in the mail from my mom on Friday full of her journals, genealogical research, and other odds and ends. The journal she wrote was about the relationship she had with my grandfather, who is really not a good person - I learned a lot more about the ways in which he was a bad person, and that was rather shocking. In it, she had some really great advice that I wish all …
/r/RedPillWives29/11/16 05:45 PM
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Yay! You'll love it, there's so much to see and do. Such a beautiful, historic place! Baker Street is FULL of the most touristy souvenirs and everything too, all very cheap stuff - I mean, I still have a little Big Ben I bought there sitting on my desk, but it is what it is. :)
/r/RedPillWives28/11/16 07:31 PM
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So most of my time over there was spent in suburbs of London or Ediburgh and Inverness up in Scotland. If you go to Baker Street, avoid most of the touristy stuff except for the Sherlock Holmes house, which is awesome. There are random little historical gems scattered all over the place - in Oxford Circus there was a little park that was also a cemetery, the headstones dated back to the 1100s! I geek out about things like that so it was really cool to me. There is a chain restaurant over there t…
/r/RedPillWives28/11/16 06:28 PM
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Awesome! I really want to see France, but I'm a little iffy about visiting right now. I hear Belgium is amazing! Let me know if you need/want any UK recommendations. :)
/r/RedPillWives28/11/16 06:06 PM
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Yayy! Where are you guys going?
/r/RedPillWives28/11/16 06:01 PM
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That sounds a lot like our division of duties - I would be absolutely miserable if I had to deal with the money, he's pretty much got our whole world in Google Sheets and a notebook. Although I have to clean the hair out of the drain because it's all mine, haha.
/r/RedPillWives28/11/16 03:50 PM
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Welcome back! I wondered where you went. Re: dealing with the post-BC phase - I've been off it for a long time, but I found the best thing for me was to start tracking my cycle closely and just listen to my body - and enjoy it! Have you seen this post on NFP? That's what we use; I can't tolerate hormonal BC and don't want to deal with a non-hormonal option that's supposed to be in for several years when we're not planning to wait that long: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/4dxfnu/n…
/r/RedPillWives28/11/16 03:48 PM
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Have you been making separate resumes for each thing you apply to? One of the biggest issues with applying for jobs that you're overqualified for is that a lot of them will pass on you if they think you're just marking time til you find something better. I don't know if you're doing it already or not, but I've found that a lot of people tend to overlook it.
/r/RedPillWives28/11/16 03:40 PM
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Good: We bought tickets to Amsterdam! This is to be our last trip abroad before we start having kids and whatnot, so I'm really excited that we're going in March. :D We may take a trip to Zurich as a little offshoot of this trip, so I'm really excited about that too - Zurich is a really close drive to Lake Constance, and I've got some ancestors who came from there on both sides of my family so I really want to see it. Bad: We agree that we're both getting back on a ketogenic diet hardcore betwee…
/r/RedPillWives28/11/16 03:26 PM
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In person friends? Now that I think about it, more than I realized - I have about 10 close friends in real life, however only one of them lives near me anymore. I have a lot of internet friends that have bled over into real life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 05:05 PM
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Amazon! They have a few new variations out there now - just google "Cubs Hawaiian shirt." :D
/r/RedPillWives23/11/16 01:15 AM
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Fantastic example of the STFU method! Great job. I was able to minimize what would have, in the past, been an hour long fight that would've ended with us going to bed pissed off instead of having sex and cuddling. This is my favorite part - not being a bitch has such fantastic results! ;)
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 10:10 PM
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My parents' cats used to go lie in the neighbors' flowerbed - those stupid cats just would not stay out of it for anything. It's really just one of our dogs that's like this. She's extremely stubborn and doesn't learn, my theory is because she spent her puppy life in a frat house. :)
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 07:16 PM
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Eww brown Christmas just feels weird! We don't garden at all, any time we try to plant things we can't keep the dogs out. We planted a rosebush and one of our idiot dogs just decided that was the perfect sunbathing spot, lol
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 06:55 PM
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Ah, totes jelly. Our average first snowfall is November 10th, so I am sitting here like ...WHERE'S MY SNOW!?!? We've got a 20% chance Thursday night, but I'm not getting my hopes up.
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 06:54 PM
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the men of the family are all the same, we just have to let them do the job they're set on, get them into old clothes first and give them a reason to come inside. Sounds just like my SO and all the men in his family, lol. There's no fighting them - just let the river run its course.
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 06:51 PM
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Pretty jelly about the Eric Church tickets - I expect photos! :D
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 05:35 PM
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Ahh lucky you! I can't wait for our snow to happen - I still haven't seen a flake, super strange this late in the year. :(
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 05:16 PM
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I am grateful for a three day workweek so we can have a lazy day Friday! I'm going to watch Gilmore Girls while he plays Civ 6. :D I am grateful for the beautiful view from my office window - they're wrapping the trees in Christmas lights, it's going to look so beautiful once we get a big snow! I am grateful for my wonderful SO and his ability to fix and build things - he just built himself a new desk over the weekend, and then rebuilt his computer last night with a new graphics card and some ot…
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 05:15 PM
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We do gifting! I always go overboard with his gifts too, I don't know why. I've traditionally preferred to make gifts, but as I have less and less time I've gotten away from that. This year though, I am actually making all the gifts for his family. I do know what I'm getting him this year, but I'm not posting because he does know my Reddit account :) I think the gift that most left an impression was this shirt - yes, it is a very silly shirt. But, we saw a guy wearing it when we were at a Cubs g…
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 02:31 PM
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Hm, I think I agree with you. When I think about it, I am extremely confident in my communication skills professionally - I know what I want to say, and I don't mince words to say it. I am very blunt and straightforward. I wouldn't speak to my friends, family, or partner the way I speak at work. I speak differently to my SO, but sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't - I don't always make sense when I speak to him because I have a tendency to give superfluous details that seem relevant to me. I wonde…
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 08:35 PM
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I do agree, there are a lot of interesting dynamics to the show that make for great discussion. Not until I discovered RP theory did I even bother to pick apart the relationships and characteristics of fictional characters! I've never seen Gossip Girl either, I don't really know what it's about.
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 08:31 PM
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I get so mad at Lorelai - Luke is so great, the way she just gave him an ultimatum and then went to Christopher's house actually made me feel sick. She just doesn't treat him the way he deserves - and he obviously loves her, but she just acts like she doesn't care most of the time. I love Luke because he reminds me SO much of B sometimes. Rory's pretty awful too, but I mean - look who her role model was. I think Jess was the best option for her, they seemed like they fit the best intellectually.…
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 08:15 PM
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She is! The only big name from the original that isn't coming back is Edward Herrmann, but that's because he passed away in 2014. :(
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 08:01 PM
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I've already seen a few spoilers - Luke and Lorelai are living together (whether married or not I don't know) and Rory is attempting to work as a journalist, but doesn't quite have it figured out. All three of her ex-boyfriends are set to make an appearance. What's cool is they have the original writers back, who didn't write the last season of the show (which ultimately caused ratings to drop, and then cancellation). I have high hopes!
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 07:53 PM
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I haven't! I've been told to watch both Marco Polo and Deadwood, but I've never heard of the other two. Right now I'm just trying to finish up Gilmore Girls so I'm ready to sob once Friday rolls around. :D
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 07:43 PM
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I think CQ gave you a much better answer than I did, so I'm just going to piggy back here. It sounds like you were really going through a lot and that you're still pretty down on yourself - while you're obviously here to improve both yourself and your relationship, you should take a good look at how you perceive yourself. I'm still working on accepting the life I live. I think that needs to be something you focus on heavily. If you're not accepting that, you're not going to put your full effort …
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 04:58 PM
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Speaking of bad guys ...I probably could have put Patrick Bateman on the list!
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 04:38 PM
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Hell on Wheels is a great show, but I'd be lying if that face wasn't a big part of what got me hooked. :)
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 04:33 PM
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Cullen Bohannon Walt Longmire Luke Danes I've obviously got a thing for cowboy types, with the exception of Luke (who always reminds me of B :D).
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 04:02 PM
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Finally we had a breakthrough about 2 months ago, so far so good. We've kept up with it a couple times a week. Things are getting better all around and I think in part has to do with him reclaiming his masculinity. I guess my question here is how do we keep this momentum going? So, things have been going well for about 2 months, right? First, I'm glad you've made it this far - good on you for continuing to put in the effort and not giving up on your marriage. Second, do you know what change in p…
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 03:52 PM
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Thank you! I am not typically an emotional person like that, but shark week got me wound. I have notoriously bad luck - things like this happen to me all the time, it's actually almost funny at this point. Last time I drove with the trailer on, we got rear-ended and the guy drove off! It's sometimes hard to not get down about my bad luck though.
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 03:14 PM
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Congratulations on EVERYTHING! :D
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 02:51 PM
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Good: Three day work week this week, woo hoo! We had a great weekend - nothing too crazy or anything, just one of those really nice weekends where everything feels perfect. We had a great time at round one of Thanksgiving yesterday, it's so fun watching the kids be silly. Bad: B asked me to take some tree branches to the landfill on Friday since I was off early - well, we had a wind advisory. It was ridiculously windy, gusting almost 50mph. So, driving there was scary - in particular, because th…
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 02:50 PM
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Check who makes the clothing item and search for them outside of ModCloth -- they have a huge markup. Thanks for the tip! I love their dresses but the prices always get me down.
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 01:55 AM
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Too true - it took me ages to find a stylist after I moved up here, conveniently she happens to be one of my friends and the wife of one of my SO's best friends. I've not seen any tattoo work done up here that sells me on any artist's abilities though, which sucks because I have a couple planned. Seems the further you get from major metropolitan areas, the harder it is to find quality stylists or tattoo artists...
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 01:51 AM
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Ahh I didn't bother checking, I just saw the little blurb on the front page about Australia and Singapore and left it at that lol. :3
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 12:18 AM
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Pretty reasonably priced for essentially custom clothing!
/r/RedPillWives20/11/16 10:25 PM
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I don't wear pants unless there is inclement weather - I'm talking like, a few feet of snow on the ground. I pretty much just wear dresses and skirts. I really love eShakti for dresses. You're basically getting a custom made dress, including hemline, neckline, and sleeves. And on top of that ...a lot of them even have an option for pockets! I know you mentioned in one of the other comments that you live in Canada, and I'm not sure if they ship there, but based on the fact that they just opened u…
/r/RedPillWives20/11/16 10:01 PM
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Happy cake day! :)
/r/RedPillWives20/11/16 09:57 PM
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B's mom insists that we all provide lists for her and her mother so there's no question of what to get - it's kind of nice, because you actually get what you ask for! I never got any gifts that I asked for when I was a kid, so this is cool to me. :) AncestryDNA test - I've wanted to do one of these kind of tests for SO LONG, so I am finally hoping to do it this year! SUSHEZI! I'm hoping this thing is cool and works well; if so, I foresee quite a bit of sushi in our future. This lap desk so I can…
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 09:28 PM
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Thank you! I have considered making more to sell, but I'm not sure yet. I've gotten a lot of compliments! :)
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 07:13 PM
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The first Thanksgiving celebration of the year is this Sunday! We don't see my family for the holidays because they're so far away, but we do a different Thanksgiving for each set of his grandparents. This year should be interesting given the current political climate; our hosts this weekend are Clinton supporters, as are a few of the cousins. We're not alone as Trump supporters, but I am a little concerned about future BIL purposefully being offensive (although I will be laughing my ass off on …
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 06:49 PM
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A couple of my friends used to mod /r/spacedicks - so, from those incredibly weird people, I found several other incredibly weird things. /r/buttsharpies is probably one of the weirder ones, but I feel like a lot of people know about that one anymore.
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 06:42 PM
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Funny thing about him; I follow him on Twitter and as soon as I noticed that he was a liberal, BAM - Anson Mount crush gone. I still follow him for cute dog pics though.
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 06:28 PM
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My preference has actually changed over the years. When I was younger, I absolutely hated facial hair. I don't really know why I did, either - it was just an absolute nope. Now, I definitely prefer the full beard. I think clean shaven men look weak for some reason, and I can't really explain why. Even men that I know aren't weak just come off that way. My SO's beard is fantastic and well groomed. I love it. :)
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 06:21 PM
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Uuuuhh Cullen Bohannon is absolutely my fictional crush - that salt and pepper beard with those blue eyes! swoon
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 06:19 PM
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Well, I was going to Ulta this weekend anyway, I will probably pick some up!
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 05:43 PM
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Ooh what heat protectant? I've been using CHI stuff that smells amazing, I'll totally switch it up for something better. :)
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 05:32 PM
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His love language is acts of service - he shows his love by doing things like starting my car for me and clearing off all the ice and snow. Tangible things like that aren't typical for him, so I guess they're a little more special.
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 05:11 PM
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For me, it's important to remember that women have been dealing with this for all of existence, in much harsher living situations. While it is not the most pleasant week of the month, I shouldn't be expecting any special treatment. I am lucky though, sometimes I end up with surprise bottles of wine sitting on my desk when I come home if he knows what's going on.
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 04:39 PM
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I don't expect him to know anything other than it happens, and that if it suddenly doesn't happen, we're looking at some future changes. He's actually a little more in tune with it than I am though; we use NFP and a tracker on my phone. I don't always realize when PMS is coming on, but he notices and points it out to me. The first time he mentioned something I felt a little annoyed, but - he's always right about it. I don't tell him I'm actually on my period until things get to that point in the…
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 04:22 PM
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Ask your boyfriend before making anything - he'll know better what everyone's tastes are, and may even know what is being made for dinner so you could make something to complement. Who knows, they may be the kind that wouldn't like it if you brought something - my SO's family is particular, no one from our generation gets to bring things to the gatherings.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 09:30 PM
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I'll join you here in admitting I DIDN'T DO IT I just totally forgot about it. My bad. Although, with just a month and a half left in the year, maybe now is a good time to start and finish the year on a positive note.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 05:47 PM
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Agreed on your first point, absolutely. Second point though: I HAVE TO HAVE ACCESS TO ALL GILMORE GIRLS WHENEVER I WANT, THIS IS VITALLY IMPORTANT. :)
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 03:46 PM
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UGH I hate Thanksgiving too! I mostly hate it because I don't like traditional Thanksgiving food and you're always expected to eat until you are near explosion. It's just a generally disappointing day all around. I think the baby coming on Thanksgiving would actually be a blessing in disguise - you wouldn't have to deal with celebrations! :D
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 01:16 AM
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I didn't figure the Chanukkah tweets would go over well. HAHAHA I died. I wonder what they would do if they knew I had black friends...
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 12:31 AM
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They kind of flock to any conservative/traditional white females on there. I let most of them follow me, unless they start trying to involve me in their conversations.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 12:21 AM
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/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:44 PM
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Oh jeez, I felt uncomfortable just imagining something like that.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:37 PM
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You're only a victim if you let yourself be one. :)
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:18 PM
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Exactly! I can't imagine having to explain to my parents that we're not coming to an event because my partner can't handle it. That's just cringey.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:18 PM
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I can't imagine how difficult that would be - but it is exactly why abortion is legal. Abortion is not a thing to take lightly - you don't just act carelessly thinking "I'll just get an abobo if something happens #yolo!" You are literally messing around with how life is created. This is why I'm such a stickler for not sleeping with anyone you don't intend to have children with, either. :)
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:17 PM
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Oh for sure :)
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:12 PM
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1.) I am grateful for the seasons - I am a total fool for winter, and we are going to get our first "snow" this weekend! It's really just going to be flurries, and even at that it's late for us, but ...it's snow! 2.) I'm grateful for my family. My grandpa's health has been in decline since May and my grandparents just moved to TN to be closer to the majority of our family. I am a little miffed that they're now a 10 hour drive from me instead of a 5 hour drive, but I'm glad that my family has all…
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 07:51 PM
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All of you are such a great example of strong people with a sense of personal accountability Thank you <3 It did shape me in a lot of ways - I'm a lot more suspicious of people, and a lot less trusting. I have had one situation where I did kind of wig out a little bit over something that I shouldn't have (in retrospect it was hilarious and B and I both laugh about it now) but I learned from it. I also carry a gun now, as a result of this and also being mugged.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 07:24 PM
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I'm with /u/BellaScarletta, could you please clarify what you mean? You keep asking for her to explain, and I think she has done a good job of that.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 07:16 PM
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I feel like most of us here fall on the conservative end of the spectrum, which tends to be anti-abortion. I absolutely fall on the conservative end of the spectrum, but I cannot justify abortion being outlawed or banned. Late term abortions, that are not jeopardizing the health of the mother or child, those should not be legal - once you get past the point of viability, you don't get a chance to have cold feet. But there are a lot of people who simply shouldn't be having kids, and I think it's …
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 07:14 PM
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I'm probably more 80/20 in favour, excpet my 20 days are like "wtffff there's no way this could ever work!!!!!" and then the next day I'm like "babies, yes to babies." I feel this way sometimes. I absolutely want babies, but some days I look at everything and think "Oooh there's no way we're ever going to be able to do this."
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 07:02 PM
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It's ridiculous. Most of us even have friends and go out with them! It's like these kids are afraid to meet people in the real world. Lord help them once they have to get out there.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:58 PM
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Bless you, my child.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:42 PM
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Do not complain to me about how hungover you are and do not use it as an excuse to blow off obligations. You are an adult. You chose to drink, and you know the consequences. Absolutely. The World Series and Election Night left me hungover at work a few times here recently, but it was no one's fault but my own - I powered through it like a champ! And drank a ton of water. I think dairy consumption is unnatural. You will pry my cheese from my cold, dead hands.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:41 PM
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I think childfree (by choice, not infertility or other health issues) women are a plague to society, selfish, and something is medically and mentally wrong with them. Childfree people also tend to be incredibly immature, irresponsible, and self-centered - typical millennial garbage. I used to think I was childfree. I realized once I met my SO that I wasn't childfree; I had just never dated any men that made me feel like they could be a good, responsible father. But to a certain extent, I'm glad …
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:37 PM
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I don't think we have a rape culture, we have a alcoholic and slutty culture I think it's more that we have an immaturity problem where people can't process regret. There's no accountability for actions. society benefits from traditional family structures and places where that is the norm are safer and more friendly Absolutely - single-parent homes tend to raise maladjusted children.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:35 PM
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DEAD - and totes saving for later :D
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:33 PM
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No one should believe in astrology, it's completely unscientific. That said, it's good for a laugh. I also have no desire to spend a ton on a wedding; we're budgeting for $1k, I'll be even happier if we can do it for $500.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:32 PM
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I think most of today's "introverts" are just whiny self-important brats who think being quiet and reserved makes them "special" and "unique." As an actual introvert, this trend drives me crazy. It's not an excuse to be socially retarded! Grow the fuck up and go outside, eat a vegetable, and spend a day or two off the internet. You'll feel a lot better.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:31 PM
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I agree with everything you've said! This is how I know we're all in the right place. :)
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:30 PM
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Most progressives are racists with a savior complex. Most conservatives romanticize history. Absolutely; the ones who are conscious of this are the ones we should listen to for advice. Unfortunately, the loudest voices aren't always the most conscious.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:29 PM
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Ahh! I pretty much made this post then went into a meeting - there's a ton here I already agree with, so here's mine: Maybe not an unpopular opinion overall, but I'm actually pro-choice. I'm pro-choice for the same reasons I'm pro-assisted suicide and pro-death penalty; there are too many people on the planet, and frankly, if a woman is considering abortion she's probably not going to raise the kid well anyway if she goes through with the pregnancy. I know adoption is an option, but that's actua…
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:27 PM
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Alright, I am just now seeing this post and already at work for the day, but I will get on it for tomorrow! I'm one of those people who absolutely hates waking up in the morning (especially this time of year when it's so warm in bed with him but so cold out of it) so my trick is to shower and do my hair at night - then, in the morning, I just have to touch it up with the flatiron. That saves me SO much time, then all I have to do is brush my teeth, get dressed, put on makeup, feed the dogs, grab…
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 01:54 PM
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It's not one size fits all - I don't wear heels because my SO and I are both 5'10". You do whatever dressed to the nines is for you.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 01:49 PM
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I usually wear yoga pants, a tank top, and a cardigan at home. Cute but supremely comfortable.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 01:48 PM
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Sometimes you gotta break up the negativity with a little outlaw country! :)
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 01:27 PM
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What kind of road games did you play? I'm always down for a few to add to the inventory. :)
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 03:22 AM
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/u/IrisandOleander for being my Twitter bestie! /u/Sunhappy_DC for knowing what's up on the back burner - she's fantastic at seeing the full picture. /u/CoochQuarantine because sometimes I wonder if she's a more advanced version of me. /u/Camille11325 because she seems to know EVERYTHING! I feel like there's not a topic that girl can't speak on. /u/PhantomDream09 for being my fellow tall person - we're still MFP goal buddies! :) /u/TempestTcup has so much wisdom that I feel doesn't get enough re…
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 03:17 AM
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I agree. Texas seems pretty friendly on taxes though if I recall, isn't there no income tax there either?
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 09:16 PM
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Woo hoo! I will pray for a smooth, seamless transition for you. <3
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 07:21 PM
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Food is actually taxed in a lot of places; I never knew that it was thing to not tax it til I moved to Iowa. I was young enough to not need to purchase my own food when we lived in Texas, but in Missouri and Illinois it's all taxed.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 07:21 PM
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I had already rejected feminism as a concept that did not represent me or my ideals, and wanted to find other women who felt the same way I did. Surely I couldn't be the only one, right? I started bumbling around Reddit and found TRP first, and then did some digging around in there to find a female counterpart. It's been a little over a year since I started the search, and being a part of /r/redpillwives has had a significantly positive impact on my relationship and my life overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 04:37 PM
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I haven't watched that yet, I tend to save videos for when I get home from work (otherwise I'd never get anything done lol). I agree with that assessment though - did you happen to see the SNL skit with Chappelle and Chris Rock from Saturday night? The reactions of the other actors was so accurate - it's like they just could not fathom that they could lose when they had such a great platform.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 03:46 PM
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I'm in Iowa - of our 99 counties, 4 went blue. I happen to be in one of the 4 blue ones. We are an extremely diverse community with lots of refugees and immigrants, legal and illegal. I actually got called a dumbass on Election Day by some smelly hippies at my polling place for wearing a Women for Trump button. even one lady tried to commit suicide because of the election outcome I feel like this is indicative of a much bigger problem with the echo chamber created by her supporters; they absolut…
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 03:32 PM
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Me too! I kind of want to road trip down there to visit though.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 03:29 PM
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Good luck on your interviews! I hope your homecoming is fantastic - what a great time to get out of the shitshow that is DC!
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 03:21 PM
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it is now just one big threat to drink over who the president it A friend of mine has been sober for almost exactly 4 years as of election day, and straight up said "I'm confident that if this didn't make me fall off the wagon, nothing will." I don't know how y'all east coasters deal with it, the bars here were a little heavy on patronage this week but life goes on. The kids at the university shut down the highway for like, 5 minutes but the police came and shut them down real quick. No one has …
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 03:19 PM
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AHH I LOVE PIONEER WOMAN! I also love all of her stuff they sell at Walmart - my kitchen is totally full of it. She's opening a restaurant thing in Oklahoma too!
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 03:16 PM
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I may have a problem. :)
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 03:14 PM
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Thank you! That's actually what we had before - it was a little homey because I put a little afghan on it that my grandmother crocheted, but it was in terrible shape and I hated it. We also got a matching chair! I think we're going to get a large storage ottoman too.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 02:26 PM
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Good: Iowa beat Michigan on Saturday night and it was awesome! Also, we got new furniture on Saturday! Felt good going to the dump and chucking our old sofa into the dumpster - I may be weird but going to the dump is one of my favorite things. It feels so good to chuck stuff in a dumpster! Bad: Weight has been slowly creeping up due to all of the celebration beers lately - going to have to stop drinking beer for a while and really hit the gym hard. I haven't really been running since starting my…
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 02:10 PM
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This is amazing!
/r/RedPillWives13/11/16 07:23 PM
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Redpillchick has been around for a while - not actually RP though. Haven't seen redpillbabe before, I'm surprised she has so many followers for only being on Twitter since May. Maybe I need to step up my Twitter game? There's been a lot of political overlap with red pill theories or at least red pill ideals, I think that's where most of it is coming from.
/r/RedPillWives13/11/16 04:07 AM
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Thank you for your offer, however I feel it would be insulting to suggest to him that I feel that he is not doing all he can for us.
/r/RedPillWives13/11/16 03:24 AM
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All of this was ultimately his decision, and I am not questioning him. He made this move due to the benefits that greatly outweigh what he dealt with in the private sector. I trust his judgment completely, he knows what he's doing.
/r/RedPillWives13/11/16 01:50 AM
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He's a network engineer working in the government sector. He will not be leaving his job due to the benefits.
/r/RedPillWives13/11/16 01:26 AM
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I would love to stay at home, that is what I want more than anything. However, my SO and I both grew up very poor with SAHMs - because of this, we both have a strong desire for our children to have the things we never had, and to never feel the way we did when we could sense that our parents were extra stressed about finances. While we both make good money, we do not make enough for either one of us to be a stay at home parent and provide everything that we want them to have. This is a subject w…
/r/RedPillWives12/11/16 08:32 PM
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Jeez, we are so oppressed. /s
/r/RedPillWives11/11/16 01:21 PM
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OH SNAP PEPE FLAIR, THIS DAY JUST GOT SO MUCH BETTER! Back on topic: Ivanka is a fantastic role model, I am so impressed by her. She is something of an idol to me: loving wife, great mother, and successful career woman. I am so happy to see her share the importance of her relationship with her father; fathers are so demeaned in today's culture, almost deemed to be unnecessary by so many women. Parents need both parents for different reasons, and I believe a lot of the weakness that we're seeing …
/r/RedPillWives11/11/16 03:37 AM
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Thank you for posting! Kellyanne did a fantastic job, she deserves a lot of praise for her fantastic support of our new president. You could even say she's a Trump card for the left's argument that we hate women. :)
/r/RedPillWives11/11/16 03:25 AM
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Thank you! There's a lot of talk right now of "What will we tell our children?" Not only should we not be burdening the children with adult problems, but we should be setting a good example of how to be gracious and loving to each other.
/r/RedPillWives10/11/16 04:04 PM
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I absolutely love the last part about what you said - there's a big problem with people becoming blinded by their own rage and histrionics right now. I'm watching once seemingly-normal although liberal people turn into vicious monsters - it's like someone fed the mogwai after midnight.
/r/RedPillWives10/11/16 04:04 PM
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I'm hopeful. I do feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders today, I can breathe a little easier as a woman who rejects feminism and SJW culture. We're not alone!
/r/RedPillWives10/11/16 02:45 AM
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By the way, /u/Camille11325 - great idea for a post!
/r/RedPillWives10/11/16 01:04 AM
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How do you think Donald Trump's election will affect inter-sexual dynamics? I think for a brief period (now until 7-8 months from now) we're going to see a sharp uptick in women who identify as feminists, and the women who currently identify will become more radicalized - entirely reactionary. As we've seen so far, most Hillary voters have been extremely reactionary in the past 24 hours. I think after this period, once everyone gets their heads screwed back on the right way, it will begin to daw…
/r/RedPillWives10/11/16 12:55 AM
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I'm grateful for being born in America, where anything can happen. I'm grateful for our constitutional rights as Americans - that I can say anything. I'm grateful for my dear man and the fact that he can make me laugh through pretty much anything.
/r/RedPillWives08/11/16 10:48 PM
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And perhaps some antipsychotics!
/r/RedPillWives08/11/16 06:09 PM
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You again!? STOP MAKING ALTS!
/r/RedPillWives08/11/16 05:51 PM
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I have never seen so many grown-ass men sob like babies. It was like being in another universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 02:43 PM
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#MAGA Super excited, my excitement levels are about as high as they were last week before game 7 of the World Series, and after the Cubs won. MASSIVE LEVELS OF EXCITEMENT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 02:36 PM
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Let me know if you have any questions about pursuing a career in the legal field! I'm a litigation paralegal and I also mod r/paralegal. :D
/r/RedPillWives07/11/16 08:20 PM
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I love nights like that! Everything just feels so fast and exciting and happy. We kind of had a little bit of a night like that on Saturday night, it felt so good to be talking to a bunch of friends with his arm around my shoulders and holding his drink while he played some pool. It's really the only way to go out!
/r/RedPillWives07/11/16 05:53 PM
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he flipped me upside down and carried me around the house like that LOL this is the best hahaha - things like that are always the best for an attitude adjustment!
/r/RedPillWives07/11/16 05:51 PM
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Good: Despite sleeping until noon yesterday (we had a long night!) I still managed to get my meal prepping done for the week and get all the laundry done. B stayed in bed watching football all day too, and I totally catered to him in bed - I seriously served him all three meals in bed and it was hilarious because he just laughed every single time I brought him something. Bad: I can't really think of anything bad, actually. It's been a good week! Ugly: That whole election thing tomorrow. I've got…
/r/RedPillWives07/11/16 05:43 PM
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I think a lot of people today miss just how important it is for moms to be home and available for their kids. Even many of us who grew up with our moms being there all the time take it for granted. In a recent conversation with my SO's mom, she shared that she stayed home with the kids by choice. I knew from previous conversations with both her and my SO that they did not have a lot of money when he was growing up; I've been told a few times that she cried when she found out the kids were eligib…
/r/RedPillWives04/11/16 04:46 PM
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The last few weeks have been a whirlwind, I am so happy this weekend will be relatively chill! I do have a few things on the agenda though; I'm putting together a care package to mail to my sister 650 miles away, so I'll get that together by tomorrow morning so I can get it out while we're doing the grocery shopping. We have a lot of yard work to do on Saturday before the football game that evening, too - we seriously got the whole lawn mowed and raked before the baseball game on Tuesday night, …
/r/RedPillWives04/11/16 04:26 PM
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Ab Fab: 20 Years Later
/r/RedPillWives02/11/16 07:53 PM
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I missed Gratituesday yesterday as we were watching the baseball game when it was posted and I try to stay off my phone during that (save for the occasional tweet), so I will post today. :) I am grateful that my SO is so understanding and patient with me in everything, but especially when it comes to communicating my feelings. I am grateful for my SO's parents, especially his mom - she's fantastic. I am so fortunate that he has such great parents. I am grateful for the leadership opportunity tha…
/r/RedPillWives02/11/16 01:59 PM
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We make "jerky" - it's really just dehydrated, smoked top round steak that gets marinated for 24-36 hours beforehand. It is also the most delicious jerky in the entire world. If you have or ever get a smoker, I highly recommend it.
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 07:00 PM
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On a side note, Worcestershire sauce makes a very good marinade base for beef jerky.
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 06:52 PM
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Part of that sounds like me too - it's just the meeting inner expectations part that I miss the mark on. I am really bad about that part, haha.
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 03:55 PM
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I don't really follow a recipe - it's different every time. I am, in many situations, a chaos cook, lol. Here's what I did last night, in the order that I put it all into the crock pot: 1 lb. stew beef, cubed 1/2 yellow onion, diced 3/4 bunch of celery, diced 6 carrots, diced 1/2 bag gemstone potatoes (approximately 10 of them, cut in half or quartered depending on size - I like gemstone potatoes because they are colorful and flavorful) Basil, thyme, salt and pepper to taste 1 1/4 box organic be…
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 03:52 PM
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I think it's absurd to denigrate women who choose to be feminine, like we're some sort of gender aberration or oppressed creature of the patriarchy Bingo. It doesn't fit the narrative that women are oppressed. There is this pervasive theme in feminism that wanting what we here want is because we've been victimized by the patriarchy. We're just poor little sheep who've had the wool pulled over our eyes by the big bad wolves. Never mind the fact that feminism purports to empower women to choose an…
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 02:54 PM
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I'm an obliger; this is unsurprising to me. I am absolutely a people pleaser. I will drop things that are important to me in order to do something to make someone else happy. Example: I had planned to take a nice long shower last night, give myself a hair masque and a blowout and go to bed early to watch Gilmore Girls while B watched football. He asked me to make his lunch for the week though (normally he prefers to do that himself) so I, of course, dropped everything and started making beef ste…
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 02:50 PM
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Alright, I saw this last night while I was browsing on my phone and I couldn't gather my thoughts to comment. I still feel scattered on this because, seriously, WTF? Muhammad was literally a child rapist. That in itself should be inexcusable. The fact that this comes from HuffPo is telling enough, but it's just yet another attempt by the left to excuse Islam and draw them into their culture of victimhood and perceived oppression. Islam and feminism are two fundamentally incompatible ideologies.
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 02:27 PM
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Ooooh! I love paranormal stuff, this is totally my jam. So I don't know of any paranormal lore or anything like that about where I live now, but I spent the majority of my life near Alton, IL - the (disputed) most haunted city in America. Background: Alton was home to a prison for confederate soldiers during the Civil War. The prison conditions were terrible, and disease was rampant - typhoid especially. Many prisoners died in there - at one point a smallpox epidemic broke, and many infected pri…
/r/RedPillWives30/10/16 01:12 AM
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I did see that! Honestly I wish there was a way Trump's campaign could have found her a job. She is exactly why we need him - her signs were great, no wonder the libs wanted to silence her. She ruins their whole narrative.
/r/RedPillWives28/10/16 11:39 PM
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Big fan of the movie and that song! SUPERHOT is such a strange game, but it's so fun.
/r/RedPillWives28/10/16 05:24 PM
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I have not! I'm actually trying to get my Windows PC back up so I can play SUPERHOT. Right now all I've got to play on is my MacBook Air.
/r/RedPillWives28/10/16 05:15 PM
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Ahhh congratulations! I am so happy for you. I can't imagine how awesome that first ultrasound must have been. :D
/r/RedPillWives28/10/16 04:34 PM
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Dante's Inferno was an amazing game! I feel like it did not get nearly enough credit, it was such a great game from beginning to end.
/r/RedPillWives28/10/16 04:19 PM
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I did! Jim Hoft, a/k/a the Gateway Pundit, posted his own version earlier on Twitter but yours looks like a much less biased source. :)
/r/RedPillWives28/10/16 04:05 PM
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Trump is going to be here tonight! I really wish I was going (I've already seen him in town once) but game 3 of the World Series is tonight and I will be watching that with the man. #DraftYourDaughters has been trending on Twitter today - it started with a bunch of awesome shitposting but people are actually realizing that Hillary said she was in favor of women registering for the draft, and people are realizing that now and changing their votes. Pretty cool to watch. Also, #FlyTheW has its own …
/r/RedPillWives28/10/16 03:59 PM
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Soo ....I am an extremely anxious person. Far too anxious. I don't like to talk about these things because baggage sucks, but ...here it goes. Fears My SO dying. We have had conversations about what would happen if one of us were to die; like, financial stuff and all that. Any time we do, I am extremely anxious for several hours afterwards. I worry about the dogs dying, about our parents dying, our siblings dying, but the one that affects me the most is the fear of him dying. I definitely have a…
/r/RedPillWives26/10/16 08:53 PM
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You know, a lot of this is why my friend of 18 years and I are no longer close. I made the mistake of venting to her one time when I was very upset, said something negative that I immediately regretted, and from that point on she started trashing my SO. My SO and I got over the problem and moved past it quickly, but she did not let it go. This created an irreparable rift that we could not fix. I agree with the others saying that you need to politely but firmly tell this friend that while you app…
/r/RedPillWives26/10/16 05:49 PM
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I'm going with girl! I think it's a girl. :) I want a girl first, and I have this feeling that's all we'll have. Thankfully, I have lots of girl names I love - Abigail, Lucille, Rachel, Evelyn, Caroline, Lydia, so many more lol
/r/RedPillWives25/10/16 08:36 PM
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Usually I just give kind of a blank, confused look and say things like "I don't get it" or "I don't understand." This is usually followed by an attempt on the other person's part to rephrase their statement, during which I nod like I'm following, then pause, make a frustrated face, and say "That still doesn't make any sense, I'm confused." Rinse and repeat.
/r/RedPillWives25/10/16 02:28 PM
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they see things that wouldn't work for them and are unable to understand how or why it works for me and my SO, so they talk to me about it in a way that sounds like they're encouraging me to rabble-rouse or become dissatisfied with a relationship in which I am quite happy Crabs in a bucket mentality - if they can't be that happy, no one can. My strategy when people do that to me is to play dumb and consistently act like all of their negative statements don't make sense. It's probably rude, but i…
/r/RedPillWives24/10/16 09:30 PM
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I'm thinking of turning mine (you know, once I've got one, lol) into a dress for paging for continental congress. :)
/r/RedPillWives24/10/16 06:24 PM
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Hey, Detroit did something worthwhile for once! ;) Hawkeyes lost too, Wisconsin is playing phenomenally this year though so I can't be that mad (I know you feel me there!). In all honesty though, we both almost lost focus about halfway through when we saw rumors that Kyle Schwarber might be coming off the DL to play in the WS (huge if true).
/r/RedPillWives24/10/16 01:38 PM
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How can you not be romantic about baseball? ;)
/r/RedPillWives24/10/16 01:27 PM
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Good: The Cubs are going to the World Series! I have talked a lot about our baseball rivalry bringing us together, and recently came out of the closet as a Cubs fan (check my history if you want to see the ridiculous post to r/CHICubs - also, how can you NOT love the Cubs, their club is just so freaking endearing). I have never seen my SO so happy. It took a while for it to kick in, but when it did, he picked me up and squeezed me hard and just yelled YES! We celebrated all night. He'll be in Wr…
/r/RedPillWives24/10/16 01:22 PM
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Keep watching, it's going to get weirder. :)
/r/RedPillWives22/10/16 12:39 AM
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Anyone else obsessed with all of the new stuff coming from Wikileaks? My excitement for it all has definitely gone from like a 4 to an 11 on a 1-10 scale. Definitely bought my first MAGA hat today along with a Women for Trump button. :)
/r/RedPillWives21/10/16 06:51 PM
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Thank you! I really appreciate it. :D
/r/RedPillWives21/10/16 03:22 PM
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Anyone can feel free to add me on there too! Just make sure to add in your message that you're from RPWi. Same username as here - I log in every day. :)
/r/RedPillWives21/10/16 02:59 PM
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When it comes to fitness goals, I absolutely lack the discipline. So, I'm combating that by hiring a personal trainer. My first appointment is tonight! We'll see how it goes - my biggest problem when I was in the army was that I push back against people pushing me, I got smoked quite a bit. Something that helps me with maintaining my diet is looking at other people's food diaries on MFP and keeping a private thinspo board on Pinterest. I know that is extremely frowned upon by many due to the cor…
/r/RedPillWives20/10/16 05:49 PM
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Not a strong reader, are you?
/r/RedPillWives20/10/16 04:42 PM
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YAY GIRL! So excited!
/r/RedPillWives20/10/16 04:42 PM
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We're big sports people, but there are no top-tier professional teams in our state. Common summer dates are going to the single-A baseball team in town for an all-inclusive package - so fun. In the winter, we go to a UHL hockey team and that's my favorite. That's actually our Valentine's Day tradition - we've even started to bring our couple friends in on it too, we rent out an all-inclusive section together. Tons of fun - this past year we got a really nice hotel room too, it was great.
/r/RedPillWives19/10/16 11:55 PM
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Good: Going to start working on a lot more criminal cases at work. I'm really excited about that as it (along with family law) is my favorite practice area. As time progresses I feel more and more confident that I made the right decision in switching firms, even though I did love my old coworkers. The attorney I work for is great - she is definitely an INTJ like me, very smart, and very good at what she does. I heard nothing but bad things about her from my last firm (I had never worked across f…
/r/RedPillWives17/10/16 05:09 PM
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Followed!
/r/RedPillWives16/10/16 11:31 PM
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I got a cherry, but I'm totally an apple.
/r/RedPillWives16/10/16 11:30 PM
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I did not know that! Do you have pictures of stuff you've done that you could share?
/r/RedPillWives16/10/16 11:22 PM
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I like to gauge whether other tall women wear heels or not. I don't because a) I'm tall, b) I walk a lot during the day, and c) comfort is king. I am self-conscious about being taller than my SO though, we're both 5'10" - any time I mention not wearing heels for that reason I get comments about how I shouldn't care because girl power and all that. :P
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 08:30 PM
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I finally renewed my Ancestry membership after taking a break to focus on other things and started hitting it again hard last night - between this afternoon and last night, I found two more definite patriots and two more unverified but potential patriots for supplemental applications to the DAR. So, that puts me up to 6 in total. There is still SO MUCH searching to do, but I love doing all of this digging and researching.
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 08:17 PM
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Yay! Saved to look at later - the tall struggle, it is real! What are your thoughts on heels, and what is the height difference between you and your husband?
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 08:12 PM
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Oh come on, don't pretend like you were going to do your job or anything. ;)
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 07:29 PM
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I'm @whistling_dixie on Twitter! I'm Dixie Lee on Pinterest! My Instagram is private because I do post pictures of me, my SO, and other family members, but I do (extremely selectively) accept followers for it. I haven't figured out how I'd like to go about sharing that.
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 07:13 PM
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You can take the man out of the Marines, but you can never take the Marines out of the man. I was going to follow that up with a joke about the big green weenie but ...nah.
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 04:54 PM
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I don't know if I'm going to have one this year! Halloween itself falls on a work day, and while we're having a costume party I feel like I wouldn't have any fun being work appropriate, haha. Halloween weekend is also World Series weekend soooo ....if everything goes well, I'll be wandering around Wrigleyville dressed as a lifelong Cubs fan. I'm not actually a lifelong Cubs fan but I did just come out of the closet
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 04:52 PM
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Cock holster does it for me every time.
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 04:49 PM
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Such a good movie too! Love it!
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 04:40 PM
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be the kind of man that a good woman wouldn't want to leave Nailed it! Fantastic answer.
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 12:57 PM
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Definitely no cell phone, it just causes anxiety. Um, is dying an option instead? If not, I would give up cheese although I would hate every single moment of it. Know how I die - I would just avoid that particular thing. One hundred duck sized horses - I would probably just kick them all.
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 12:53 PM
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Hmm... Have no one attend my wedding Be in jail for 10 years Lose my sight Never have cramps/headaches again (it says never HAVE to shave again, so I am assuming there is nothing to shave ;)) Go completely bald
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 12:51 PM
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I'm trying really hard to understand what in the hell the point of all this is ...is this person just a troll, or are they dumb? WHAT IS GOING ON?
/r/RedPillWives12/10/16 03:42 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 05:54 PM
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I have a fairly small regular portfolio of meals that I typically use, although I'm investigating new meals now as it seems we are both finally getting sick of chicken. :) I have things I know how to make well that are simple, healthy, and filling - I work a demanding job (that I love) and so does he, function over form is much more important during the week. By the time I get home, he is already in the middle of something on his own, so I just feed the dogs and start dinner. We actually rarely …
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 05:34 PM
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I am grateful for this beautiful weather we are having! I'm absolutely thrilled to be back in leggings, cardigans, and boots. I just want to lie on a blanket on the lawn in the sun and soak it up. I am grateful for the amazing doctors my best friend is seeing. She got some bloodwork results back yesterday that uncovered some more info that sort of puts things together more, and she's seeing her specialists today. Also thankful that she got an emergency medicaid approval, as she was looking for w…
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 03:58 PM
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I've not been there, but I will make a mental note to avoid it. :)
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 02:01 PM
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Yep - I'm a big fan of Giordano's, they're a chain. They ship it too!
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 02:00 PM
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OK, chili dogs are legit though, as long as there are no onions. I can definitely get behind chili dogs. I do love Chicago-style pizza though, it is the superior pizza.
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 01:52 PM
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I swear I saw them at our usual grocery store, but I was at Walmart last night because I had to quickly pick up a shirt to wear with my blazer for headshots this morning. Walmart is the worst, I regret going there every single time. In all honestly, I don't like Chicago dogs. I don't like mustard, relish, onions, pickles, or tomatoes. I only like ketchup on my hotdogs. I am a monster, I know.
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 01:48 PM
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That's really thoughtful of him to help you out like that. Cooking together is really fun, too. Happy birthday a day early! :D
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 01:33 PM
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That is a long time to be without the little! Fingers crossed you're all back together soon!
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 01:31 PM
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Thank you <3
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 01:30 PM
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Good: I set up a Chicago-style hot dog bar for my SO for dinner tonight since it's game three against the Giants - I thought it would be a nice little thing for him, but I couldn't find poppyseed hotdog buns or sport peppers at the grocery store. Also, my headshots that were originally going to happen a couple weeks ago are rescheduled for tomorrow, which is awesome because the breakout I was dealing with then has totally cleared up! That flood was good for something after all. Bad: I can't thin…
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 01:07 AM
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Great article. I don't really remember watching the show because I was really young, but I remember some of the controversy over it. I remember my mom and dad talking about it and praising Quayle's stance on it as any children of single mothers that they knew did not turn out well. As an example, my mom was close friends with a woman when we still lived in Texas who got divorced while her son (my age) was still very young. That boy sadly grew up to have quite the rap sheet and a drug problem. Si…
/r/RedPillWives10/10/16 12:11 AM
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I'm flattered! I'd like to thank the patriarchy for this honor.
/r/RedPillWives08/10/16 09:02 PM
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It's been a very long week.
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 07:48 PM
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Day = made. Thankerz!
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 06:42 PM
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I think I will need to get into the IRC tonight for some help with this, I recently changed my haircolor and now I'm having a hard time figuring this out!
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 05:39 PM
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Holy. Shit. I have seen and heard the term before but never really knew what it meant. I am absolutely, 100%, completely guilty of this. I've never meant it to be self-centered but ...that's just how I speak. Do other women view this as narcissistic when a woman they are speaking to does this? I don't personally, but I seem to miss cues like that.
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 02:38 AM
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A tip of the fedora to you, madam! :D
/r/RedPillWives06/10/16 05:33 PM
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I wasn't able to find the re-post here after looking for a little bit, but /u/coochquarantine's classic STFU method post is my favorite. I find myself referring back to it more than any other post because I still have a hard time shutting up. :)
/r/RedPillWives06/10/16 05:25 PM
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She recently passed away, but I really admire Phyllis Schlafly. She tends to be the target of a lot of liberal and feminist hate - and for good reason. She was a huge advocate for families and traditional lifestyles. At one point, she won Mother of the Year in the state of Illinois. And despite all of this, she was Harvard-educated (technically Radcliffe College, the female counterpart as at the time of her education Harvard was still male-only) and received her JD from Washington University in …
/r/RedPillWives06/10/16 01:19 PM
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Hey, you are not alone in crazy anxiety land. There are at least a couple of us.
/r/RedPillWives06/10/16 01:11 PM
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I definitely agree. My SO even says "You know you don't need my permission" half the time, it's just the polite and respectful thing to do.
/r/RedPillWives06/10/16 01:09 PM
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It's pretty cute.
/r/RedPillWives05/10/16 06:24 PM
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So I actually carry two bags every day, my purse and one for work. I will break down each: Crossbody purse: Wallet Small zippered pouch containing: Lipstick in a little Italian leather case with a mirror in it (inherited from my grandmother) Pen Chewing gum 4" pocket knife Hand sanitizer Tampons Bottle of 800mg ibuprofen because sometimes you get hella pain Currently, my Ruger LCP because I don't have a holster I like right now Keychain from the Guinness Storehouse in Dublin with my car key, hou…
/r/RedPillWives05/10/16 06:12 PM
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firey red hair (so she can be like Sylvia Plath and eat men like air, I'm not even kidding) Sylvia Plath stuck her head in an oven. I don't think feminism worked out too well for her.
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 08:28 PM
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I posted an article from 2001 in another comment that quotes a British study about conception difficulty in nulliparous women - when you look at newer studies, that has been debunked. Science has done good work in the last 15 years. A woman may not want kids at 25, but most women experience some form of 'baby fever' as they age. Others only discover they want kids once they establish a stable long-term relationship with a man This is what happened to me! I was in an LTR and really thought that I…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 07:25 PM
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Here's an old article from 2001 that can kind of shed some light on that kind of thinking. I'm trying to recall how old I was when I asked - I think 23, it doesn't seem like 5 years ago, but that seems right - and my doctor declined.
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 07:01 PM
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The last I heard about IUDs is that they can affect later fertility - that's what I was told when I was younger. I mentioned to my doctor wanting to go with the non-hormonal IUD as I knew hormones did not work for me and was told that she would not perform it on someone so young who hadn't had children as it could affect chances to conceive later on. However, I just went looking for sources to back that up and it appears that is outdated information. The most recent studies show that there isn't…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 06:49 PM
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Nah, you're totally fine, I appreciate it when you ask things like this because it forces me to back up what I believe in and you're not just calling me out for saying something you don't agree with! I like the fact that you question things, honestly. :D Cuz let's be real, we all had a Mr. Right, that turned into a Mr. Wrong Amen.
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 03:24 PM
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I think - and this is my opinion, my take on sluttiness - that maybe the definition has become more undefined as it has evolved over the years, and most certainly even more so since the advent of birth control. The majority of women have pre-marital sex. It's just ...expected. Hell, plenty of us here aren't married yet and are having sex, I myself am included in that number. And I understand the reason for it too, sexual compatibility is really important in a relationship and while there are thi…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 03:07 PM
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Less attractive I just pulled up a few articles on it, but it's a thing. Each word is a link there btw, I just thought that would be easier. There are bits and pieces of actual science in each even though none of them are particularly fantastic, although I do like the breakdown in the Breitbart one. Mean Mood swings, irritability, bitchiness, a lot of different parts that in summation end up to meanness. Obviously none of those things are meant to be mean, but they are often viewed that way by t…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 02:18 PM
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If the changes are bad ones that are adding negativity to your life, I would leave! Think of all that extra time you'd have for other things.
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 06:26 PM
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I'm upset because I should have been selfless and helped her, or at least helped my friend's wife, instead of staring like a deer in headlights My sister is like this when it comes to people she cares about; it's weird. She's a nurse and can help all of her patients, but as soon as a family member requires help, she freezes. I would not necessarily call your reaction an ugly one, it wasn't intentional. Count it as a learning experience.
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 06:21 PM
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If the first thing a person jumps to in their response is "That's sexist, racist, misogynistic, etc." and they cannot logically explain why that is their answer ...it does not garner them much respect. We were, for the most part, taught to show our work when working out problems as children - facts are not racist, or sexist. They are there to provide the framework for a logical, well-reasoned answer to a question.
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 06:17 PM
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Thank you! It could have been a lot worse but we prepared well. We're all very lucky, and I could not be prouder of my wonderful city.
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 05:12 PM
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Great article! I'm glad you posted this. I've definitely been approaching social media with more caution due to the anticipation of being called out for having a differing opinion. It would be one thing if the calling-out was respectful, polite, logical, and well-sourced, but it's typically vitriolic and hateful. It's extremely frustrating to go into something with a mind to discuss something calmly and rationally only to immediately have your entire stance discounted. I've been called a misogyn…
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 05:11 PM
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Good: First, we survived the flood! I cannot say enough amazing things about how our city came together to save each other - complete strangers reaching out a helping hand and going above and beyond. I am finally back to work today and the mayor challenged the bicycling community to visit 15 establishments that were closed for the flood and get a drink at each, so we may be doing that this coming weekend after my DAR meeting. Oh - my DAR application was finally verified, I'm official now! Woo ho…
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 02:55 PM
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I definitely got the warmest fuzzies when reading this, that sounds like such a nice morning. :)
/r/RedPillWives01/10/16 03:12 PM
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Thank you! I am very lucky, I offered to take over the dishes too at one point and he insisted on keeping them! Luckily for me, it's my least favorite chore. I actually just wrote the check to pay off his car this morning, I've never written a check for that much money before but it felt really good!
/r/RedPillWives30/09/16 05:20 PM
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Following his lead is the most important thing I can do for him right now. I do most of the housework (all except dishes, that's his thing, I don't fight it), which I feel is just a given, but I also work full time and we have a lot of goals coming up with paying off our debts, meeting our savings goal, and taking one more trip abroad before we buy a new house. He developed a savings plan that will help us accomplish all of these goals (I'm not the best with money so he is in charge of all of ou…
/r/RedPillWives29/09/16 08:34 PM
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Ivanka is, in my opinion, probably one of the best role models feminism could possibly have, but they just trash her because she's beautiful. It's that classic crabs-in-a-bucket mentality striking once again. And yes, absolutely on her fashion sense - she has fantastic style!
/r/RedPillWives28/09/16 07:06 PM
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That stuff just drives me insane. /u/bellascarletta, any new ridiculous stuff to share?
/r/RedPillWives28/09/16 03:35 PM
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Donald Trump is right not to have time for total political correctness. The feminists might disapprove of what he says, but they should also be defending his right to say it. But this will never happen because feminists cannot even support successful women if they are beautiful or thin - see Ivanka Trump. Feminism and PC culture essentially wish to stomp out the first amendment, their ideal world censors all thought and words that they disagree with. I mean, we're on Reddit, of all places - for …
/r/RedPillWives28/09/16 02:47 PM
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I totally started doing this after the video was posted here a long time ago - I can't recall exactly who posted, maybe Stingray? I have noticed a HUGE difference - it makes my skin look smoother, younger, and it makes my makeup look better. I recommend doing it right after washing your face, and washing the razor every single time afterwards.
/r/RedPillWives27/09/16 11:29 PM
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You've gotten some fantastic advice here, to be sure - especially from /u/timeforstretchpants, /u/Camille11325, and /u/yetieater. I wanted to chime in as someone in a somewhat-similar situation. We had discussed going to church a while back, and did not find a church we both liked. I was raised Catholic (I consider myself "culturally Catholic" at this point) and my SO was raised Methodist. My SO wanted to find a non-denominational church to potentially explore new ideas, but it didn't pan out th…
/r/RedPillWives27/09/16 08:12 PM
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I am personally against nude parenting. While I do think it's important for children to understand that bodies are different and that boys and girls are different, I have just always had a weird relationship with nudity and the idea is extremely uncomfortable to me. As a child, my sister and I shared a bedroom and my mom would stick us both into the same dressing room at the store when it was busy. I never really had any reason to hate it, but I did, and I just feel like nudity is one of those t…
/r/RedPillWives27/09/16 07:58 PM
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I'm totally sending out a huge, gushy feel-good email once we're back in the office.
/r/RedPillWives26/09/16 05:11 PM
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Good: As a few folks here may know, we're experiencing major flooding right now and we had to relocate over 1200 boxes from the basement of our office building to higher floors - we had AMAZING teamwork, I just cannot say enough positive things about what a fantastic team we made. Everyone worked in unison, we helped each other, communicated well, and encouraged each other when it seemed like it would never end. I'm proud to work with such fantastic people. Bad: I feel like I've barely seen my S…
/r/RedPillWives26/09/16 02:03 PM
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After almost three years of making my husband my whole world and really not being happy, I realized I had to create my own word and at the same time make my husband the center of that world. Exactly! Separate, but together. It's important to recognize your own needs and wants, self care isn't just a silly term! But girl, I totally talk to my dogs too, they are just too cute.
/r/RedPillWives25/09/16 12:46 AM
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/u/Littleknownfacts gave great advice, listen to her. That said, YES - I have been in your situation. I relocated to be with my SO after being long distance. It wasn't that long, we were only 4ish hours drive from each other. It ultimately came down to the point where the job I'd obtained since my layoff sucked, my lease on my crappy apartment in the area of town that my dad referred to as Razorland was almost up, and most importantly, deciding if that was the right thing for the relationship. I…
/r/RedPillWives24/09/16 03:52 AM
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I cannot watch this gif without laughing, I love her disgusted look and his crazy eyes.
/r/RedPillWives22/09/16 05:57 PM
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That's a really interesting perspective, I never considered her that way. For all of her brute strength, she really is a fantastic example of feminine vulnerability.
/r/RedPillWives22/09/16 05:56 PM
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They are so cute! I love how much they love each other.
/r/RedPillWives22/09/16 03:49 PM
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I love that this emphasizes celebrating both the good and the bad - it's important to remember that not every little second of life is going to be perfect, no matter how great your relationship is.
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 04:53 PM
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Later he said that it I looked like a wife, not a girlfriend That's a great compliment! Love it.
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 01:05 PM
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Wow, are you in the US or somewhere else in the world? That's really astonishing to me. I get that feminism has pushed people to start having kids much later, but even then, I still haven't run across too many women who have waited so long to start. And just as a semi-irrelevant aside, my aunt is one of those women who started at an appropriate age and had children up through advanced age. She turned 56 this year; her oldest is 32 and her youngest is 16 out of 7 children. I believe she would hav…
/r/RedPillWives16/09/16 11:45 PM
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I would be interested in writing something about the negative impact feminism has had on Western civilization as a whole, more specifically families, relationship dynamics, and overall happiness of women. I've actually been thinking about a post like this for a little while. :)
/r/RedPillWives16/09/16 11:29 PM
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If I recall, she was suggesting it when our old coffee maker decided to bite the dust. My SO ended up just buying a different one after the repairs kept failing, I suggested it and he was not keen on the idea.
/r/RedPillWives14/09/16 05:20 PM
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I love that stuff! We switch it up pretty frequently, it depends on what's on sale or fuel saver at the store. Dunkin Donuts is a popular one, or Caribou Coffee. It's his choice on whatever we get though because he needs to bring his own coffee to work and I just drink the free stuff at work.
/r/RedPillWives14/09/16 05:19 PM
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Nah, we're simple coffee folk. I think it was Camille a while back that was suggesting we try French press, but my SO doesn't care for fancy and I just prefer it to be hot and black.
/r/RedPillWives14/09/16 05:13 PM
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Coffee on the weekend. During the week, coffee is a tool for me - I drink a few cups in the morning to get my brain up to speed. It's a necessity, and if I don't have it my performance suffers. But on the weekend, I actually get to enjoy my coffee. I get to enjoy the taste, just because I love coffee. I feel like it goes a longer way when you can actually take the time to savor it.
/r/RedPillWives14/09/16 04:50 PM
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I am fully aware of the fact that I need to STFU and just continue to lurk in the shadows. I guess at times I am an attention whore. No, never! I love your posts, you give such an interesting perspective. Looking forward to your next post! :D
/r/RedPillWives13/09/16 04:38 PM
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I have no clue why I typed Bartolo Colon. I just had Big Sexy on the brain.
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 05:51 PM
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Girl, preach. Baseball and gluttony just go hand-in-hand - I mean, Bartolo Colon is a perfect example. Tonight is yet another Cards Cubs game for us, but we won't be in STL for it. What is Fenway's "special" food?
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 05:47 PM
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Good: Had a great first week at the new firm, dove right into my new cases and hit the ground running. Really happy that everything doesn't feel so rushed, I don't feel like there's an ax hanging over my neck. I've gotten back to keeping up with the housework, it felt so good to relax in a clean, organized home last night. Bad: Lots of sporting events going on currently (baseball, college football, NFL) which means eating a lot of garbage and drinking a lot of beer. Thankfully, my new job also c…
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 05:35 PM
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Getting hammered, haha. It always generates interesting conversations and general fun.
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 02:15 PM
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My dad's job was like this and he's also a type 1 diabetic, so my mom would pack him a cooler every day of sodas and snacks to keep him going while he was all over the place. Ice packs in the right cooler will keep almost anything good throughout the day, although you might stay away from certain kinds of dairy or avocado just because it browns.
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 01:21 AM
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So I was talking with one of my new coworkers and she said the old medical records clerk from our firm actually put herself up on Freelancer to summarize medical records for law firms that needed some extra help. It pays extremely well, but it helps to have a little bit of medical knowledge. I'm looking at doing this to bring in some cash when I'm on maternity leave eventually.
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 01:18 AM
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We actually have a Friday night tradition in our home - Drink Your Dinner Fridays. It's silly and immature, but extremely fun. However, tonight I wanted to add something special so I picked up some fresh sushi on my way home, it was nice.
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 01:15 AM
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It's in the sidebar under Places of Interest - it's just a place to chat.
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 05:23 PM
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Plants absolutely liven a place up - I brought all my stuff home from my old office last week (including my fake fern) and left the fern there at home just because it perked things up. I'm slowly being able to decorate more (long story) so it's nice to make the home look and feel more like home. I cannot keep a plant alive for the life of me, spending a little bit more on good fake plants is worth it.
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 04:58 PM
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Fortunately, I have a lot of coffee. Seriously, you know that episode of Futurama where Fry drinks all of the coffee and becomes super fast? That's basically me. Welcome! I highly recommend reading the wiki and sorting posts into the top of all time to read some of the best stuff. Also, pop by the IRC and say hi!
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 04:55 PM
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Now, I'm not an expert when it comes to RP theory, but the way I see it is that this proves that AWALT and not to be trusted. I could be reading it entirely wrong though.
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 11:03 PM
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I think women have always had an influence on politics, going back to the stuff of legend: King Arthur lost his kingdom lost thanks to a trifling whore, the Trojan War began over the abduction of Helen, and so on. I am completely unsurprised by your story - it's characteristic of women in general, especially western women. I hate to defend TRP, but I'm not even a little shocked by the number of men who don't trust women. Someday Mean Girls will be studied as an important social commentary on the…
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 11:41 PM
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I used to think I didn't get PMS until one conversation where my fiance mentioned that I always become difficult in monthly cycles. So, I started tracking it along with my periods ....and I start to feel the increase in irritability and decline in my patience about 5 days before my period. I was always really confused by these strange fluctuations in my mood - seriously. I just didn't get it. Now that I understand what it is and what's coming, I just try to avoid anything that will increase my i…
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 11:37 PM
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There are a few Twitter posters that have great content; the subreddit itself has a Twitter account and a few of us here do too. Mine has not been quite as active lately because I've been focusing more on other things, but /u/Irisandoleander is really active and posts great stuff. :)
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 12:29 AM
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We inherited an old junky one from my SO's dad, he fixed it up and gave it a custom paint job. I wish we used it more actually, it's just kind of a pain to clean.
/r/RedPillWives05/09/16 03:58 PM
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Good: Exited my former job gracefully and on good terms. Went out with a few of the ladies from the office after work for some drinks and chatter about my new job, they absolutely inundated me with compliments and told me how much they were going to miss me. I was told that the general word around the firm was that they were hoping my exit would prompt some major changes because they couldn't afford to lose someone like me again. The receptionist also told me she was really nervous about whoever…
/r/RedPillWives05/09/16 01:51 PM
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Are you UK based? I'm guessing based on the terms lean mince and jacket potatoes. We get a ton of meat each Christmas from my SO's parents, takes forever to get through it all. With the lean mince, I'd honestly make up some taco meat and then just plan to have different kinds of taco-type stuff a few nights during the week. I like to make up a big batch of taco meat and then lay out taco or taco salad making stuff, it's so hands off and that really works for us. With the meatballs, try seasoning…
/r/RedPillWives05/09/16 02:38 AM
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I think extreme circumstances tend to be the biggest tests of a relationship - my example would be B's parents and their cross-country bike ride. It did test them, they had some tough times and it got hairy near the end. But, they're a fantastic team and they made it. This question really prompted me to think, we've survived so much together - unexpected job loss, trans-Atlantic travel, playoff baseball, injuries while hundreds of miles away from home, etc. I got a little mushy thinking about it…
/r/RedPillWives05/09/16 02:35 AM
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Cowboy boots do great in winter and can be really cute with the right accessories! I've got a pair of Justin boots that are amazing.
/r/RedPillWives04/09/16 04:10 PM
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My sister and I were both quite tomboyish, and we had no brothers. Also, most of our cousins are female. I don't really know what it is, but neither of us were ever much for dolls (especially baby dolls) or anything like that - we had a lot of Matchbox cars and Legos. Maybe that was our parents encouragement though? I know my parents also bought us a lot of camo too because we liked to pretend we were going hunting like dad.
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 04:55 PM
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A lot of those recipes sound like something we'd throw together at 1am after a whole lot of drinking, haha.
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 04:52 PM
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I think it works for me because I'm so tall, if I were shorter I don't think it would look good with my body type.
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 12:57 AM
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Here's one from my Pinterest.
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 07:59 PM
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Oh, have I got a surprise for you. If you don't mind waiting for stuff to come over on a slow boat from China, you can get some really good deals here - I've actually gotten a few very convincing designer knockoffs from there!
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 06:07 PM
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Awesome! Most of mine are solid, but I have a few that are different. I've also got this finger-knit lace infinity scarf that's one of my favorites.
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 04:35 PM
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Mine are too, haha. I generally wear cheap boots because I view shoes in general as foot prisons. I have these in black and brown, a pair of Bearpaws (cheaper than Uggs but just as comfy and cute!), and a pair of Justin waterproof cowboy boots that are pretty much my go-to boots in the winter and when we're working. Those are pretty beat to hell at this point because they get used hard, but the stitching is bright and pretty so I can sometimes pull them off with cuter outfits. Those were about $…
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 04:32 PM
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I got some hangers kind of like this one. I really like the way they fit between other stuff hung up and take up very little room (they're in the laundry room along with my wetsuit, hoodies, and coats.) I hear you on the fashion - I have a few patterned dresses, but for the most part, solids. It's so much easier to mix and match solids or simpler, more demure patterns.
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 04:16 PM
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I <3 FALL!!! Seriously, my absolute favorite time of year. Summer and I just do not get along, never have. I'm a warm autumn, so the colors of the season complement me well. I'm a big fan of cardigans over tank tops with a skirt and boots - that's pretty much my fall uniform unless I'm going to be pretty active, then I totally go for the leggings with boots and switch up the top.
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 04:08 PM
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I hear you on the scarves, I own soooo many scarves. How can you lose when you combine fashion with function?
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 04:06 PM
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I can't really remember exactly how I found it, what I remember is that I was searching Reddit for something that would assure me that there were other women like me in the world that did not agree with feminism and wanted a more traditional lifestyle. I had never really heard of RP philosophy or anything like that. I'm still learning a lot about theory of it, RPW just made sense to me though. tl;dr I was searching for like-minded women and found them!
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 04:04 PM
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It's their own internal frustration that the women who are worthwhile won't just give it up and fuck them, and the ones that will, aren't worthwhile. Traditionally speaking, most women involved in the arts or more progressive career paths or hobbies tend to be sluts. And honestly, the ones involved in those fields that don't have a high n-count tend to be FAR more selective in partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 01:33 AM
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I'm also a musician who was educated as such, also work outside of music for financial reasons. I, however, grew up quite poor. I would tend to disagree with your perspective on rich women. My best friend was raised rich in New York, and did go to a well-known private university in Louisiana to study art history. Pretty useless unless you're ambitious. She has never attempted to date rich, and fully appreciates the value of a dollar, the value of a home-cooked meal, and how to keep a clean home.…
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 11:58 PM
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Oh man, the fortune cookie bit gave me chills. That is awesome! I would totally do something with it, maybe put it in one of those tiny wallet-size picture frames with a cute background.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 06:04 PM
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I agree! My SO usually gets home about an hour before me (he works 5 min from home and gets out a half hour before me, I have a half hour commute home) so he just kind of does his own thing. Lately, he's been getting home a few hours after me due to some heavy overtime, so I've been making sure the house is all cleaned up and dinner is as close to ready as it can be. I'm trying to make it as chill as possible for him when he gets in and trying to be totally available for him to vent about everyt…
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 04:10 PM
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My fiance and I both got the wooden spoon as kids. I hesitate to use my own upbringing as an example for anything, but my fiance turned out great, has wonderful parents, and I would love for our children to turn out as great as he is. "Actions have consequences" or "play stupid games, win stupid prizes" is a philosophy that I think goes really well for parenting, but I do think that a swat is a good way to get the point across when nothing else is working.
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 08:35 PM
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It was not without a lot of consideration that I made this choice; I have always told my coworkers that my most important job is the one at home, so I don't think they'll be too surprised. Hopefully no one is too let down. I couldn't date a Yankees fan either! I always said I couldn't date a Cubs fan just because of the amount of trash talking that I have always heartily participated in, but this one seems to enjoy the trash talking to a certain extent. :)
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 07:27 PM
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We do have someone who will watch kids for us for very low cost, so it will be much better for us financially for me to work. And honestly, the person who would watch them is on the same page as us as far as how kids should be raised and her own children are absolutely awesome. So, I'm not worried about whose hands they'll be in, but still ...I'd rather raise my own children. If we had to pay for normal daycare, we'd be breaking even and that just wouldn't even be worth it. I think spanking is r…
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 07:25 PM
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I can't read it without laughing.
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 07:07 PM
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I'm sorry about dude :( You have a fantastic attitude about it though and it seems like you're building a great foundation for yourself, I know you'll come through it happier. :D
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 07:07 PM
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Good: I got a job offer this morning! I started looking for greener pastures a little while back once I realized that things were not going to be getting better any time soon at my current place. I interviewed last week with a firm that had expressed their desire to have me on board a few months back during a seminar, we're still negotiating things right now but I'm confident we're going to reach a mutually beneficial agreement by the end of the day. Fiance and I came up with a great plan this w…
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 07:05 PM
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AHAHAHA that one kills me! The camera falling to the side at the end makes me tear up giggling!
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 06:20 PM
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That and this are my favorite cheer-up gifs. :D
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 06:13 PM
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Here you go! But don't forget these people exist and they vote!
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 06:10 PM
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IT'S ALWAYS RAPE. NEVAR 4GET.
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 05:59 PM
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Number 16 makes me really sad. My opinion is part of the majority, but the reality for me is that I will likely get a couple weeks off, then start working from home to bring in money until FMLA runs out. No matter how we run the numbers, it's just not feasible for me to stay home. I hate that we live in a society where it has become so necessary for most homes to be dual income. I'm rather surprised by number 21, can any of the non-spankers weigh-in for me and explain why you are against spankin…
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 05:54 PM
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I totally get it, that's kind of those one-of-a-kind things tied to a memory that's really hard to replace. That's awesome that you have a meaningful replacement though!
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 05:03 PM
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Aww! As an aside, I LOVE mugs with little spoons - I don't even put anything in my coffee, and rarely drink tea, but those spoons are just so adorable. :D
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 03:46 PM
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When we were in Ireland last year, we went to the Guinness Storehouse in Dublin and I saw this mug that I was instantly in love with. I forgot to grab it before we left and I was really bummed, but he happened to see one in the airport before we hit our flight to Edinburgh. I drink my coffee every morning out of that mug and it makes me think of our trip because that was where I really realized just what an amazing team we make. Our flights back home were planned very tightly - we were taking a …
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 03:36 PM
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Oooh, I will definitely have to listen to that - Hugh Glass's story is so incredible. I don't think from anything that I've read about him that he did actually have a son, I think that was just to add to the plotline for the movie.
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 02:28 PM
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/r/babywearing
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 06:16 PM
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Definitely - I always work out much more in the fall and winter because I just prefer the cooler weather, I'm probably one of the only people alive who starts to get bummed when spring rolls around because it means allergies, humidity, and heat.
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 07:08 PM
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I've been doing better about going to the gym more! I think it's because the weather has been cooling off, I just can't stand existing when it's really hot. Diet wise, ehhh. I've been making a lot of comfort foods lately, lots of bacon wrapped meats and pasta - just trying to add some comfort where I can during this busy period of life, but those calories have to come off somewhere else. So even with the extra gym time, I feel like I've kind of been breaking even as I haven't really progressed. …
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 04:50 PM
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I love your comments so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 04:02 PM
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I'm extremely hesitant to say this because I don't want to encourage any men who are lurking this subreddit to think it's okay to try to pick up girls here, but we met in a small community that spawned from Reddit. We have a mutual hatred for each other's favorite baseball teams, the rest is history.
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 01:58 AM
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I will try to keep that in mind! Probably one of us won't get to do Drink Your Dinner that night though, it seems like a really bad idea for both adults in the home to be intoxicated with children around, haha.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 09:01 PM
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That sounds nice too, haha. I would love to spend weekends just chilling, but I can't force myself to do all of those chores on weeknights after dealing with work all day long. When I was unemployed though, the weekends were awesome! :)
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 07:48 PM
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I do too! They're the last vestige we have of our silly years that we get to hang on to until we start trying to have children, although it does make for a little slow-going on Saturday mornings. :)
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:47 PM
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...I thought she was talking about a real hamster, hahaha
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:36 PM
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Sunday: Do the laundry (it's just the two of us, so there are only 3 loads), clean the bathroom, vacuum, prep lunch for the week, take out the trash. Monday: Clean the kitchen. Sweep. Tuesday: Sweep. Wednesday: Vacuum. Start planning meals for next week. Thursday: Sweep. Friday: Nothing beyond feeding the dogs, honestly - we have Fuck Off Fridays or Drink Your Dinner Fridays to celebrate the end of the workweek. I know this is silly, but it's fun and a great way to start the weekend together. Sa…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 04:36 PM
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This is hilarious. I concur with Iris, you should absolutely keep compiling the best gems and share them on Shit Post Saturday!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 04:21 PM
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Good: I'm getting back on track with the housework after all of this craziness that has been my work life lately, although I have still been coming in an hour early every day and coming in on Saturday. I got a ton of stuff done yesterday while my SO played No Man's Sky, it felt really good to sit down in the evening to so much being accomplished. Bad: I got hangry yesterday morning and ended up being pretty bitchy for a couple hours. It's my fault, I should have eaten before we left the house be…
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 08:52 PM
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The eps in Mad Men are so long, but I love that show too. I always want to put a bar in our living room after watching though. :3
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 08:42 PM
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When you gaze into the abyss....
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 07:18 PM
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It was an audio clip to this.
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 07:10 PM
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I hear you on the No Man's Sky thing - the interesting thing about it though is that even though it's technically an MMO, you're not likely to ever run into each other playing it so it's not really a game you can play together. I've actually been sitting with him and helping point out things like gravitino balls and vortex cubes to harvest for units. I don't know if your SO would like that, but it's definitely helped make it more of a team experience for us. That said, we're playing on PS4 becau…
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 05:52 PM
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Oh, this is a good bot.
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 05:49 PM
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TV I'm catching up on all the Gilmore Girls that I can before the new stuff comes out in November; when it was on when I was younger, I was just too busy to catch all the episodes so I'm trying to fit in a couple of episodes each night while I'm doing genealogy work. We are big, stupid fans of Rick & Morty. Seriously, it's stupid funny. The Meeseeks... and it's even better when you've got a few drinks in you. Before I started my Gilmore Girls kick (I set a goal to finish it all before the new st…
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 05:42 PM
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Submission is not for the weak I wish this, right here, was something more people understood. It's not easy to submit. It's hard. We live in a society where steamrolling your man is not only accepted, but encouraged - it's such a stereotypical part of Western culture that you can't even watch TV without being assaulted by women of every shape, size, and color treating their husbands like they're no better than the trash they're nagging at them to take out. Emasculation is a self-perpetuating cyc…
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 07:48 PM
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I thought pink would look better on me when I was blonde - NOPE. Still looked weird. I just recently bought this SUPER cute dress, it's like a cream color with dusty pink roses on it - I wanted to wear it with a pink sweater, so I bought one. It's a great outfit ...but I look stupid in it. :(
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 08:05 PM
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Funny story about garlic; once upon a time, I made spinach artichoke dip at home and it was god-tier good. It disappeared quickly. My SO decided he wanted to recreate it, so he used the recipe ...he did not know the difference between a clove and a head of garlic though. That batch disappeared too, into the garbage.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 06:06 PM
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For me it is when I'm hungry. When I'm tired I get all cuddly and snuggly. But hungry?? PFFFT Insert Emergency Donut!!! HANGRY. OMG do I get hangry, it's so embarrassing. My SO literally shoved a piece of cheese in my mouth once because I was getting cranky and he knows food will fix it, hahaha
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 06:04 PM
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Right!? My ovaries are all in a tizzy.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 06:00 PM
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Another RPWi was actually talking about writing a blog about this very subject recently, maybe she'll see this and post? I'm not going to tag her because she's very busy right now. I personally look completely awful in most shades of pink (I'm a warm autumn) and I have 5 tattoos and a nose piercing. I don't wear maxi dresses because my SO hates them, but I pretty much only wear skirts and dresses. YMMV, as with everything in life.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 06:00 PM
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Aww ty! I'm totally okay with anyone else here following me, too. :D
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 09:42 PM
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Bam: https://twitter.com/whistling_dixie I haven't been as active lately because life has been crazy, but it's not completely dead.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 08:25 PM
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I have been in this exact situation several years ago, seriously. My SO had quit smoking, and insisted that he didn't want to smoke because he wanted to be better for me. I was, of course, just tickled to hear that because I would prefer that he not smoke, but it was never a deal breaker for me. I was just happy that he wanted to make to make a positive change because of me, it made me feel good. A few weeks later, he was out in San Diego at the MCRD for his cousin's boot camp graduation. It was…
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 08:13 PM
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My job has a lot of drama; digging in and finding dirt is a huge chunk of what I do, I get so excited when I find things that can really help my case. Aside from that, my life doesn't have much drama - I learned when I was younger that people who tend to have a lot of drama in their lives tend to attract that, so I cut people like that out like they're cancer. I also enjoy shitposting on Twitter just for funsies. People get so offended.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 08:01 PM
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I have never seen one woman post that damned quote who wasn't entirely insufferable and completely mystified why she couldn't keep a man.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 07:58 PM
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From my grandmother: Don't be a bulldozer like your mother.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 07:58 PM
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Fortunately, I don't have to stay late at work tonight so I have the whole evening to spend disinfecting every square inch of the house. :3
/r/RedPillWives16/08/16 06:15 PM
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Oh fantastic, I had no idea about that. Guess I'll be washing every exposed linen tonight!
/r/RedPillWives16/08/16 06:08 PM
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Good: After a really rough patch of internal insanity, my emotions are leveling out and my home is becoming harmonious again. I've been a bit AWOL lately because of a lot of personal stuff going on between work and home - SO and I are both going through extremely trying times at work, it's no bueno. He gets a bit of a short fuse when work is like this, and does not want to socialize at home or really engage at all - he just wants to eat dinner, do his own thing, and for me to be available when h…
/r/RedPillWives16/08/16 06:00 PM
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6.) Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. We heat with wood in the winter, but the day he lets me control the building of the fire is probably the day our house burns down.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/16 06:25 PM
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You know how when you look in the rearview mirrors of your car, they say "objects in mirror are closer than they appear"? The same is true for previous relationships. You are far removed from the actual context of a previous relationship once it's gone - you no longer have the perspective of the other person, and the actual tone and reality of the relationship begins to change quickly. Once it's gone, it's never going to be the same as you remember it. Your partner is going to be different becau…
/r/RedPillWives12/08/16 03:55 AM
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Unfuck Your Habitat is great - I once knew a girl with some borderline hoarder tendencies that she learned from her mother, UYH got her onto a much more harmonious path. I only enjoy cleaning when I'm alone and don't have a ton of other stuff weighing on me, which is like ...never! (But when it does happen, I LOVE it.) It's nice to have ways to make it more enjoyable.
/r/RedPillWives11/08/16 09:33 PM
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Everything looks different in the rear-view mirror. There's nothing to be gained from it, it's best to just let the past stay in the past.
/r/RedPillWives11/08/16 09:31 PM
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we both have lungs, hearts, ears, penises, vaginas and long beautiful hair Oh sugar, I think your mama may have missed an important conversation with you.
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 02:20 PM
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$75 for the membership and $235 for the league - I guess it's not so bad if you think about it, but it's tough to pull the trigger on something like that. It's fun to go watch though!
/r/RedPillWives05/08/16 02:46 PM
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We're in the northern Midwest, so it's pretty popular here among certain circles - we're big hockey fans as well! How much does it cost for curling where you are, because it is like ridiculously expensive where we are (but the local club is trying to get money for a new facility, so I think that could be part of it).
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 07:17 PM
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Curling and pizza Like, curling, as in the sport with the brooms and giant stones on ice? I think I've met approximately 2 other people in real life who have ever actually known what curling was - one of my favorite dates we've been on was to go to a curling event and learn how to curl!
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 05:40 PM
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getting mad at idiots is my hobby Get on /r/TumblrInAction - I felt an aneurysm coming on so I had to take a break, but I'm with you on that one.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 05:38 PM
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Sign me up!
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 05:36 PM
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I agree, with one caveat. I have always been told you're only as good as the company you keep - I think it's absolutely appropriate for a man to judge a woman by the company she keeps, especially if her friends are of an unsavory flavor.
/r/RedPillWives02/08/16 06:25 PM
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Definitely this. There's no point in trying to fight it for me, that just means I'll be miserable longer. I had a bad, bad flu in February and I slept for almost 72 hours with a few 1-3 hour awake periods. The best part is the shower when the fever breaks, after that you start to feel human again.
/r/RedPillWives01/08/16 01:06 AM
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Casually Masculine I went so many horrible places in my head with this, hahaha.
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 06:16 PM
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I think it has something more to do with mindset rather than the actual roles you fulfill. I've never thought I was very feminine.
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 05:45 PM
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...I literally just came back from the file room where I did exactly this. The only solution I've come up with is firing the person who is causing the problems that I was complaining about, but we'll see.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 08:49 PM
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I've tried just keeping a positive attitude, but at 28 years of age, I feel like that fatalism is ingrained into who I am as a person so I easily revert to it. I'm not sure how else to deal.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 08:48 PM
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My negative attitude. I tend to be very fatalistic, it's not good. I'm trying to work on that right now, but it's difficult.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 07:36 PM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. It's a line my SO uses a lot, but I find it is extremely applicable to many areas of life. If you do or say something stupid, don't be surprised when you don't like what happens.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 03:13 PM
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I'm anticipating an overload similar to what happened during Obama's AMA.
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 08:59 PM
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We're going to see him speak on Thursday night! Really excited! I'll try to share pictures and such in the IRC. :)
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 08:58 PM
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Feelz over realz, out there.
/r/RedPillWives20/07/16 06:06 PM
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You are always so spot on and articulate, this is a fantastic comment.
/r/RedPillWives20/07/16 06:04 PM
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Oh jeez, complicated drinking games are just ...no fun. Surefire way to kill a good time - why can't everyone just play flippy cup and be happy? :)
/r/RedPillWives18/07/16 05:48 PM
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Congratulations on the beautiful baby /u/lifterofthings!
/r/RedPillWives17/07/16 03:54 PM
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That's very similar to our relationship, we're an HHH couple as well. The team effort of it is one of my favorite things about it all, we are absolutely a well-oiled machine and stunningly efficient in a crisis. B likes to get us into weird shenanigans at bars with strangers - it's my job to play off of his cues and make the situation even more hilarious. We're also gun folks too, I think the rifle thing is a really great description of the HHH teamwork dynamic. has a yardstick for extra reach I…
/r/RedPillWives17/07/16 03:25 PM
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^ Seconding this, Tannerite targets are AWESOME!
/r/RedPillWives17/07/16 03:18 PM
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We operate somewhat like this - we have a joint account for the household bills and groceries and such and we each have a personal account that we get an allowance for. Any extra savings goals we have actually (I know this sounds silly) go into a big jar. It helps to physically put the money in and see it every day, reminding us to keep trucking towards the goal.
/r/RedPillWives16/07/16 12:56 AM
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This is hilarious, Camille. I can't imagine how poorly behaved and defiant this author's children must be. How are they ever going to learn to deal with or respect authority? This is just going to create a generation of people worse than SJWs, if that's even possible.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 06:14 PM
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That post is what prompted me to start trying to fit in with the women! It's coming along, ever so slowly, thankfully because some of the women in the family like football and shooting too. :)
/r/RedPillWives12/07/16 06:49 PM
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This is a really great post, fantastic advice!
/r/RedPillWives12/07/16 06:42 PM
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It's still a battle for me to not be "one of the guys" - I've actually started pulling myself away from the baseball conversations to try and help out in the kitchen, and it still just feels weird!
/r/RedPillWives12/07/16 06:42 PM
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I love the way Shakespeare wrote women; the Scottish play is my all-time favorite. Lady Mac is a prime example of a power-hungry, self-serving instigator who shows what happens when a woman fights her own natural instincts towards femininity.
/r/RedPillWives12/07/16 12:36 AM
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Is it perhaps a generation of men raised by single mothers that has lead us to the current extremes that I feel we see more of than ever before?
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 07:51 PM
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My fiance is the same way - it's better to not push the issue, then he feels like he's being pressured and that's a surefire way to stress him out more, which is the exact opposite of what I'm trying to accomplish, lol.
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 07:49 PM
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I personally dress modestly because of personal preference, there's no religious aspect to it for me. I tend to associate immodest apparel with slut culture, so my natural response is to do exactly the opposite. I do agree with all of your points though - thanks for clarifying. :)
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 06:44 PM
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I've sort of noticed that sons of mothers like this either grow up to be extremely disrespectful of women and disrespect their mothers in the same way, or they are extremely effeminate and have absolutely no spine. Such a disservice to raise boys like this...
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 06:32 PM
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Hollywood is under so much pressure from SJWs to demonize white men - it's ridiculous. The fact that Iron Man is now going to be a black girl makes me think we're about to head into a very, very dark time in film history.
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 06:02 PM
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Belly dancing is also a great workout - highly recommend finding classes if you have any near you!
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 11:45 PM
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I actually thought his Snow White was the most masculine - I think it was the jaw line and eyebrow ridge that kind of made me think that.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 09:55 PM
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I do the same thing! I'm also guilty of pointing out all the great things their husbands have done for them when they start complaining. That guilty look tells a tale.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 09:42 PM
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I think Ariel's facial expressions are my favorite - very flirty and cute. My favorite thing about this whole album is that it really demonstrates that anyone can drastically improve their appearance just by getting creative with some makeup. There's no excuse if you don't even try.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 09:37 PM
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I've often said one of the only reason women become feminists is just anger that no man wants them, so they have to find a plethora of other excuses to make themselves feel better. But apparently I'm a misogynist for thinking this, or so I've been told.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 09:34 PM
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“I know no single woman in NYC who would ever do a man’s chores,” Kinrys says. “It feels like the 1960s. If it were the 1960s, she'd probably be sitting around wondering why the hell no one would marry her. This is actually rather infuriating on several levels - how can any person just think it's okay to take advantage of another's kindness like this?
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 09:31 PM
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S that D real fast, save yourself girl!
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 01:52 AM
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I just bought these pretties tonight. Any other stationery recommendations welcome, I send a lot!
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 01:34 AM
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Delete the gym, hit the lawyer, and Facebook up - did I get it right?
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 01:19 AM
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That is AWESOME, and exactly the perfect moment to send a thank-you card for!
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 08:59 PM
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I send a lot of thank-yous for work, it really helps build good working relationships and helps them remember just how much you appreciate them. I think it's such a simple but effective way to make a great impression, regardless!
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 08:58 PM
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How many folks here send thank-you cards for random things? I haven't met many other ladies who do this, but my sister and I sent thank-yous for random things - like, our mechanic squeezing my car in ahead of others when I had an emergency while visiting my parents, the clerk's office being super helpful with my genealogy requests, etc. In any case, I highly recommend it.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 07:09 PM
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They're pretty much everywhere. I caught a Charmander next to our woodstove. It's kind of like Fitbit for geeks.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 07:05 PM
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It's so fun! Basically, it's real life Pokemon. If you see any folks wandering aimlessly staring at their phones and nearly walking into traffic, they are likely playing. It's GPS based, they're almost everywhere. It really kills your phone battery though.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 04:58 PM
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I love this. The best way to turn around a really tough time or a bad day is to just realize how much you have to be grateful for. Thanks for posting!
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 07:49 PM
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Thank you! :D
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 04:44 PM
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Try /r/marriedredpill, you might find some good advice there even though you're not quite married.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 04:05 PM
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Hot: I'm an Americano. Simple, unassuming, strong, efficient. Cold: Vodka soda with a twist. Again, simple, unassuming, strong, efficient.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 03:58 PM
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All I have to offer is using proper grammar and responding as you would if it were an actual conversation. There's no "RPW" way to text. It's texting.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 01:48 PM
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You are in the wrong place, bud.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 01:40 PM
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It's been 9 months since he quit working and he's showing no signs of acting like an adult and getting himself back on track. I'm not meaning to be harsh here, I'm really not. But he's acting like a guy who keeps refusing to speak to his mother unless she gives him more chicken tendies. Avoiding all of his responsibilities to live a life of leisure is not adult behavior.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 12:20 AM
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I don't think it's your refusal to quit a job that's causing the problem, it's his refusal to get off his ass and get one. First, 100 hours is too much. For anyone, man or woman. That's almost twice as much as what I work, and I only work that much because we don't have children yet at which time, I won't work anymore. You can't be a good mother OR a good wife working that many hours. You just can't, not even something you can argue about. Second, I've been there as far as a partner losing his j…
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 11:47 PM
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/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 10:42 PM
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Oh jeez, I had to unsub to TIA just because seeing new content there on a daily basis really depressed me, haha. Ina is a great cook though, I'm not typically one to buy cookbooks but I'd consider purchasing just to show that some women still love cooking for their men. Her voice is so soothing too, I love watching her show in the evening.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 10:41 PM
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That's definitely my fiance - no talking until the second cup of coffee. :)
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 09:01 PM
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Seconding Ballet Beautiful - I'm a former dancer and it makes me feel a little bit like I'm still doing it. She was Natalie Portman's trainer for Black Swan if that helps sway anyone's opinion.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 05:57 PM
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YES - yoga seriously chills me out so much, and definitely helped my performance in the bedroom as well. I also really recommend yogaglo.com and doyogawithme.com for videos online, so many different lengths and levels and styles.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 05:55 PM
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"Who cares how men feel or what they do or whether they suffer? They have had over 2000 years to dominate and made a complete hash of it. Now it is our turn. My only comment to men is, if you don't like it, bad luck - and if you get in my way I'll run you down." Oh good, let's make threats of violence. Because that's a fantastic way to show that you're sane and capable of running things.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 05:44 PM
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I joke about the ring size and up it one more carat. Right now we are at 74 You're gonna need a cart to haul that one around!
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 03:21 PM
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That's what we're planning, simple and cheap. But I love all of those sparkly, glittery Great Gatsby-esque soirees, so there are a lot of those pins out there. :)
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 03:20 PM
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This is a GREAT post, and one I need right now as we're recently engaged but still trying to nail down what comes next. I really appreciate the level-headed perspective (although I would be lying if I said I didn't have a secret Pinterest board long before all of this that I visited every so often!).
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 01:28 PM
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I read her previous posts - I was trying to figure out where the actual emotional abuse came in. :)
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 01:09 PM
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Can you be a little more specific about how you feel he's emotionally abusive, like examples?
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 01:00 AM
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when I started to think of him as a friend, my energies switched from romantic to comfortable and this created issues This created problems for me too. I had to actively address the fact that I was doing that because I got lazy, started neglecting my appearance, etc. Keeping myself in check was tricky.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 07:31 PM
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It's definitely a different kind of friendship, for sure - it's an entirely different level. I have a best friend who I can talk to about the things I wouldn't want to talk to him about, like cramps and watching My 600lb Life and other stupid television. I mean, I still call my man my BEST friend because there's so much more to it, but yeah - it's an entirely different dynamic.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 07:21 PM
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Oooh, I love this - laissez faire is my mantra for a lot of things in life, and it definitely describes my homemaking style. I tried to be rigid and structured about it and ...I hated it. As long as it gets done, it's all good!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 07:03 PM
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I'm in disagreement here. My fiance is my best friend, but ...well, I won't get into our bedroom life because that's no one's business but ours. :) I've never turned him down for anything though unless I was sick or already asleep (I just can't get past the whole waking up for it thing, sleep is the best thing in the world...). That said, we immediately revert to our usual selves afterwards, with jokes, sarcasm, and stories. I think you can have it both ways.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 06:58 PM
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I can't imagine that there'd be that much of a difference between doing it in the gym and doing it in the pool, but it might feel weird doing it in the gym. You definitely sweat while swimming though, so it would probably work! It makes my hair feel a lot softer after letting it just marinate for a while.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 06:55 PM
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So for one, I'm really excited to try the inversion method! I'm trying to grow my hair out for our wedding so that'll help. :) I fight nature and get my hair done platinum with honey lowlights. This is, quite obviously, not the best thing to do to your hair - however, their are ways to maintain it as healthily as possible. My hair is naturally curly, about a 3B/3C. I have an absolutely amazing hairstylist who is great at making people blonde with the minimum amount of bleach, and my hair is so m…
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 02:15 AM
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Thank you! I'll give it a shot. :)
/r/RedPillWives04/07/16 04:03 PM
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Good: I was really positive this past week and made an effort to be happy and keep all negative words out of my mouth. There was a definite positive impact from that, I just need to figure out how to do that ALL the time! Bad: Something work-related that I'd rather not list here, but I've been stressing about it since Friday and I am dreading going back to work tomorrow to deal with it. Ugly: Carpet is difficult to clean when living beings get sick on it. That's all I'm going to say about that o…
/r/RedPillWives04/07/16 03:29 PM
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I'd be excited too! Toothpick should work pretty well for the stars, but you would need a steady hand.
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 08:48 PM
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So, 4th of July is probably one of the most important days in our home. We're very patriotic, to put it simply. We're starting our festivities today by grilling some stuffed burgers he prepared last night (grilling and all grilling-related activities are one of his many talents) and having a few drinks at home. Then, we're going to go to a bowling event in the evening. Tomorrow, we will likely ride bikes from bar to bar and then go to a baseball game in the evening, with fireworks afterwards. Th…
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 06:18 PM
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CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR FIRST INDEPENDENCE DAY! This is probably one of my favorite days of the year - we are extremely patriotic in our home. I think your outfit sounds great, personally. Very festive! I would probably leave the Uncle Sam hat out though. If you want to really go all out on your nails, I would paint all but your ring fingers red with white stripes, and paint your ring fingers blue with white stars (or maybe just one big white star, although that might make people think of Texas …
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 06:15 PM
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My husband is a wonderful man but he has low self confidence, partly because of bullying and criticism he has received in the past from other people. He has a negative self image and doubts his abilities at work, despite the fact that he is very successful. What do you do to build him up? Are you his cheerleader? That will go a long way. it would never be cleaned as there are literally not enough hours in the day for him to reasonably be expected to do that. Is he okay with it being messy? Is it…
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 02:35 PM
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I'm going to keep this really short. They are not even engaged yet and you are literally already thinking about every possible negative that may happen. You realize this is crazy, right? Sit down, calm down, and get a grip. It's not even your wedding, don't ruin someone else's day that hasn't even been set on a calendar yet.
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 01:03 AM
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Ooooh I'm the opposite, I hate when people wait until the end. Zipper merging is important, but I always feel like the people who wait til the end are just trying to beat the pack and I resent them.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 11:45 PM
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I actually had a veteran call me at work one day and insist that he had been poisoned by the water at Camp Lejeune and that it was why he had these myriad problems now. I felt really bad for dismissing the guy as crazy, but who knows...
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 11:43 PM
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We generally don't listen to music during unless it's a Friday night, in which case we're listening to the blues show on a local station.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 09:22 PM
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I've got a low-cost, high-quality, non-diamond ring. I wouldn't trade it for anything, certainly not more debt.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 05:20 PM
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Loved it! Thank you. :D
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 05:20 PM
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I can't figure out why it doesn't draw the same volume of supporters - I know a guy in STL who has been attempting to draw attention to the black-on-black violence, and he's very outspoken and passionate about it, but he just does not draw the same numbers as BLM. It's so stupid.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 03:57 PM
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I personally think there isn't a single person alive that they look good on - crop tops are really trashy, imho.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:26 PM
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See also: Black Lives Matter
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:23 PM
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I don't know, I've seen some women balloon up within a couple months. You can just see the looks of horror on their husbands' faces when they're out in public together, like "what fresh hell did I get myself into."
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:22 PM
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My personal beef with diamonds is the cost - it's ridiculously inflated. I think it's asinine to go into the next phase of your life racking up a whole bunch of debt on a diamond and a huge shindig. The money would be better spent paying down any debts that are existing, or using it as a significant down payment on a new home together.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:20 PM
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You know, I sort of feel like we have the foundation for it on a certain level - we have permanent residents who have all of the rights of a citizen but can't vote, there are green cards, different levels of visas, etc. I think actually making a tiered citizenship structure would be a really valuable thing to have when considering the rights you get in the country, like the ability to vote, own a gun, etc.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:17 PM
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That's such a long shot though. It's just going to create future generations of weak, effeminate men who have no idea how to lead or pass on any masculine traits to their sons (you know, in the event that some poor soul deems them worthy of reproducing with).
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:15 PM
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Depends on who you talk to - a lot of people absolutely froth at the mouth if they find out you own one, let alone carry one.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:14 PM
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Single motherhood should be actively discouraged again by the government and society ABSOLUTELY. Interesting thing that B and I have noticed though - almost every single single mother we know has a son rather than a daughter. And those sons grow up to be extremely feminine. Anyone have thoughts or speculation on how this will end up?
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:45 AM
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You ...have basically summed up so many of my thoughts and opinions. I love you. No homo. <3
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 10:54 PM
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My fiance actually never wants to retire. His dad is the same way - he just retired out of necessity to take a cross country bike trip ...but he'll find a new job when he's back.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 10:53 PM
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sparkling water blows Get out. just kidding, I don't mean it
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 08:40 PM
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The US CDC and WHO should release a joint statement on how fat people and their social policies are one of the greatest public health pandemics in the last 100 years PREACH. The HAES movement and obesity are far more dangerous than any gun.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 07:22 PM
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I think that being transgendered is actually a mental illness. People aren't actually born in the wrong bodies, they're just mentally ill. That said, I do agree that the treatment for it is gender reassignment surgery if all else fails. I am extremely pro-gun and carry daily. I have one in my car, one I carry on me, and we each have one next to our side of the bed. Don't get me started on the cancer that is feminism and the SJW movement. Edit: I'm just going to keep updating this as I think of m…
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 07:19 PM
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This is such a great post! Fantastic job, /u/Irisandoleander :D
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 01:35 AM
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I am pretty sure the standard response of r/relationships is OMG HE'S ABUSIVE DUMP HIM when it comes to any man wanting to have a say in his partner's decisions. This situation is absolutely NOT abusive at all. Seriously, not even a little, in even the most favorable light to that girl. Any man would be entirely within reason to be uncomfortable with his girlfriend taking a flight to go visit an ex. I feel obligated to say that there are situations in which controlling a partners whereabouts and…
/r/RedPillWives29/06/16 07:35 PM
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This is a really interesting article - a few of us were just talking about cleaning being a solitary activity earlier. I don't know what it is, but even if you don't like cleaning, it's just so much easier to do when you have the house to yourself. I think I'm more of a mix of both. If I am home alone, I will idly pace the house and clean and reorganize as I go. In the same vein, I get really creative and adventurous with my cooking when I'm home alone - I like to surprise my fiance when he gets…
/r/RedPillWives29/06/16 06:06 PM
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Glad to hear it's coming together for you guys! Definitely looking forward to your guide. :)
/r/RedPillWives28/06/16 02:29 AM
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Good: I finally verified all the info I needed for my DAR application, confirmed all the records I needed were available, and requested them. Now I'm just waiting for them to finish rolling in to submit my application! I'm very excited. :) Bad: So last week I was so excited that my boss was coming back from maternity leave - I'm not so excited anymore. Her being back means a lot more work now that she's catching up on things, and I am about to head into a nightmarish cluster of hearings that I a…
/r/RedPillWives28/06/16 02:28 AM
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This is a refreshingly honest article, first of all. I love the straightforward, direct way it's written. Overall, this is great and very relevant. Female inclusion into male roles and spaces is not only unhealthy, but dangerous. For example, women are now attempting to join the infantry in the Marines, but failing miserably. Men and women are fundamentally different, and any attempt at blurring the lines is a fool's errand.
/r/RedPillWives26/06/16 01:13 AM
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Ulta is a lot cheaper than Sephora - honestly, I've used very little Sephora makeup just because of the fact that Ulta is so cheap and the quality is great. From the Sephora stuff I have used though, I'd say they're roughly equal.
/r/RedPillWives23/06/16 06:31 PM
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Right now, I'm trying to devise a way to get a good recording of myself playing my flute short of buying a mic specifically made for it. My plan after that is to layer that recording over another recording so I can hear myself play duets with myself for flute/flute pieces, flute/violin pieces, and flute/piccolo pieces. Typing it out, that sounds so silly.
/r/RedPillWives22/06/16 06:17 PM
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I'm an idiot. If I were a bettin' woman, I'd put money on it being the caffeine. Good call. Hah yeah, I remember that post. It's just one of those "really, again?" things with this girl, so it's kind of exasperating, you know?
/r/RedPillWives22/06/16 12:27 PM
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Ulta is THE BEST! They have a ton of good sales and a rewards point club thing. Plus their own store brand of makeup is actually pretty decent, I like their eyeliner.
/r/RedPillWives22/06/16 12:23 PM
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Good: I have been sticking to my personal goal of only two diet sodas a day and no caffeine after 5pm. It's helping me sleep better! I've also been keeping my calorie count in check - I've been plateaued for a bit though so no weight loss. :/ Bad: I've had a headache since Sunday and it's driving me crazy. I know I'm hydrated (thanks Plant Nanny!) but I can't figure out and it's making me on edge constantly. Ugly: I made the weird file clerk cry. I mean, she cries at the drop of a hat so I know …
/r/RedPillWives22/06/16 02:41 AM
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Woo hoo! Hope it turns out awesome. :D
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 11:39 PM
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I was temporarily a stay at home partner, it was planned and lasted just under three months. For simplicity's sake, I'll address your concerns in bullet points: Boredom: A quote I have always heard in regard to this is "Only boring people get bored." I don't know how much I agree with that, but it's a good motivator for self-improvement. I'm an introvert and I was in a new place where I knew no one, so social activities were not an option but I read a lot and put more work into the house and pla…
/r/RedPillWives20/06/16 05:49 PM
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I'm working on getting mine that long again! Mine is currently mid shoulder blades. Braids are the best - there are so many different ways to do them. My hair has thinned with age, and I have found that braids add a lot of volume and dimension to buns. Also, French twists with braids added in are a really quick, easy way to get your hair up. I am also a big fan of chignons. I know I was talking about it the other day in regard to style, but if you look up Apostolic Fashions on Pinterest, there a…
/r/RedPillWives20/06/16 05:38 PM
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You know, the only time that anyone has ever insulted my man in front of me, he laughed it off until he got fed up and then laid into the person - I never realized I've always let him handle it until just now. My family loves him - I visited my grandpa in the nursing home last weekend, and my grandpa only asked questions about my fiance because he wasn't there! I think they love him more than me, lol
/r/RedPillWives19/06/16 12:09 AM
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I scored a 5 on hostile sexism and a 1.67 on benevolent sexism. I'm a monster lol
/r/RedPillWives18/06/16 09:16 PM
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How Sexist Are You? - a quiz written by a woman. Couldn't be that bad, right? RIGHT!?
/r/RedPillWives18/06/16 09:00 PM
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I will join you! This sounds awesome. I would also add in maybe 20-30 minutes of journaling each day to chronicle progress or any observations?
/r/RedPillWives18/06/16 07:21 PM
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Never talk badly about your spouse to other people or vent about them online. Protect your spouse at all times and in all places. Great post, but I think this line is super important. I realized last night that if you refuse to complain about your partner while you're with someone who is complaining about hers, she'll realize what she's doing and change her tune. Positive attitudes are contagious, you might even help someone else appreciate her man more!
/r/RedPillWives17/06/16 05:51 PM
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That's awesome! Congrats :)
/r/RedPillWives17/06/16 05:43 PM
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Have you heard of Stitch Fix? Here's a great post /u/PhantomDream09 did about it.
/r/RedPillWives17/06/16 05:41 PM
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Huh, TIL - thank you!
/r/RedPillWives17/06/16 12:14 PM
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It did not, actually - it started working to clear it up after maybe, 2 weeks into my first pack?
/r/RedPillWives17/06/16 12:13 PM
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There can be no end to our sense of emptiness and incompleteness. But none of this is unusual or grounds for divorce. This honestly makes me think of a line from Garden State - "It's like you feel homesick for a place that doesn't even exist." I think ultimately, what we're looking for is the honeymoon phase to last forever - we feel that, and we expect it to always be like that. But realistically, it's probably not going to be like that forever. That doesn't mean it's bad though. Just, differen…
/r/RedPillWives16/06/16 07:45 PM
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Needs (fiance has all of these): - Must be attractive in my eyes. - Must have a career - not just a job, but a career. - Must take no shit, including mine. Men can be doormats too, and I have no desire for one. Wants: - Taller than me (my fiance is the same height as me, but I'm 5'10" so it's a tall order - GET IT?) - Same political ideals (we mostly agree on this, but he doesn't take politics as seriously as I do) - Well read, intelligent, able to hold conversation about history, politics, curr…
/r/RedPillWives16/06/16 06:08 PM
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The truth is the only way to fail at being feminine is not to show up for it. Exactly! Really, you can look feminine even when you don't have a whole lot of money. I have a file room clerk who always compliments my wardrobe and says she wishes she looked like me - I tried to give her helpful encouragement, but it just lead to her doing things like wearing strange-looking skirts over sweatpants. Anyway... Modesty is a big thing for me. I don't like to show off the goods, and I prefer not to wear …
/r/RedPillWives16/06/16 05:56 PM
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Update: I accidentally dumped my water onto my keyboard at work. It got worse. Lol.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 09:44 PM
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I think hunger turns us into beasts, to be quite honest. My sister is the exact same way - her boyfriend will call her out for it and she shuts her mouth instantly. It's so silly.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 07:59 PM
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I got this one - and now that I check, it doesn't actually start til August 1st. Ahh! They have a ton of really cute designs. I bought this Bible study journal with it too, interested to see how it goes.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 07:32 PM
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What's your care method?
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 07:13 PM
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My hair is curly - between a 3A and 3B. I usually wear it natural except on weekends because my SO likes it straight. I got a Brazilian Blowout once and it did take all the curl out of my hair, but it took quite a long time for my curls to come back. The problem is my hair started getting thinner when I turned 18, it's not super thick and silky like it used to be. I just want that back!
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 07:12 PM
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That's cool. You're an INTJ too, right? I'd be hiding in my room, haha.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 06:58 PM
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Uuugh, microwaves are so annoying to clean too. I know the vinegar and water thing makes it easier, but the smell of vinegar makes me gag. Everything has been really wonky since the weekend before Memorial Day - which sucks, because Memorial Day was my birthday! Hahaha.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 06:58 PM
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WOW thank you for the thorough answer! That sounds like a lot of work... Definitely gives me a lot to think about, I already spend quite a bit on being a platinum blonde, I don't think my SO would approve of me dropping that much more money on my hair. Will have to think about it.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 06:56 PM
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New planner got delivered today but doesn't start until July 1 - old planner fell victim to open windows and a thunderstorm that also claimed the life of our 4-year-old TV. I just realized that my luck has been WICKED horrible lately and has mostly resulted in huge expenditures of money. Anyone else having this right now?
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 06:18 PM
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Are you going to have to deal with roommates at your new place? Money is awesome and all but dang, I don't know I could handle having roommates again.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 06:16 PM
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So I've actually been really wanting some sew-ins to add some volume to my hair, but I know nothing about actually having them. None of my friends have gotten them. How long do they last and what kind of upkeep do they need? Also, do you color your hair, and if you do, how do you get touch-ups while you have them?
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 06:14 PM
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Sunhappy and Tempest have some really great answers. I want to add two more subs to the list though - /r/couponing and /r/coupons. We have stretched single incomes before - B suddenly and unexpectedly lost his job last year and his unemployment was not much. We live an extremely affordable life (our mortgage is literally 10.5% of our take-home pay, we are cord-cutters, etc.) but we set aside a large portion of our take-home pay to save for our next home. Couponing is silly, but it seriously will…
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 06:08 PM
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I started taking Ortho Tri-Cyclen in college to combat my acne - it worked for the acne, but it gave me wicked mood swings. I stopped it for a few years because I was not sexually active, and then started again - same mood swings. After that, I tried the patch (can't recall what the name is) and noticed that I was becoming extremely bloated. Stopped it and the bloating went away. Tried Yaz, I became an entirely different person - the mood swings were way worse and it made my periods way worse. S…
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 05:58 PM
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I definitely get hangry, it's kind of embarrassing but my SO knows all will be fine if I just eat something ...so he teases the hell out of me until I eat something. Whenever I get the flu, I get SO emotional - this last time I had the flu in February was the worst I've ever had. Whenever I'm sick like that, the only thing that tastes good to me is a McDonald's cheeseburger with just ketchup on it - I can't help it. I asked my SO to bring one home for me on his way back from work - instead, he p…
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 05:54 PM
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How are you doing with your personal goals? Are you living a life you want to live? (are your values aligning with your actions?) I would say so. We are evolving our plans for the future, our budget, and timeline for doing certain things. We had some unexpected expenses this weekend (my AC went out less than 50mi into a >300mi drive during the first heat wave of the year - AHHHH!) that kind of made us think differently about our savings goals and change where we're putting money. How have you sh…
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 11:48 PM
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As a musician myself, I listen to a ton of different kinds of music (lots of Lana Del Rey as Sunhappy mentioned) but I also listen to a lot of country. Any more, country is getting to be just as trashy as the rest of it - Luke Bryan has this really trashy song about meeting a girl in a bar and texting selfies to their exes about how they're hooking up later. It's gross. But older country tends to have a really good message. Not older, but a song I really love is Love Song by Miranda Lambert. It'…
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 05:58 PM
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I think Lana's one of the best non-feminist artists out there right now - I have posted this probably 90 times, but Video Games is one of my favorite songs in general and is also very feminine.
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 05:48 PM
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Maybe it's a side effect of being happy at home? I mean, socializing is still pretty fun, but it's almost a chore too. When I do socialize, it's pretty much right after work for a very short period of time or at the gym or yoga. Or a bicycle bar crawl, hahaha. P.S. New flair is top notch.
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 05:42 PM
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I just turned 28 at the end of last month. I too am an INTJ, and also don't tend to socialize. The weird thing is that I have a desire to - but then once I actually do it, I am almost instantly over it. I have one really close friend who lives about an hour away, and my best friend lives 2k miles away. I have a couple good friends in my hometown 300 miles away that I see maybe twice a year. I am a lot happier to just socialize with like-minded women online, it gives me more time to work on proje…
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 02:34 PM
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That is ridiculously juvenile. I am embarrassed that girls these days not only think this is acceptable, but think it will do anything.
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 06:13 PM
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Great post. I think the thing to keep in mind here is gratitude - you do things for the man you love because you are grateful for him. Keeping score means you're doing it to get something out of him, not because you are grateful and want to show that.
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 01:01 AM
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I moved in with my SO because we were doing the long distance thing and it got to a point where we needed to make the choice - my lease was up, I'd been laid off several months prior and had just taken a job that I quickly realized I hated. It was a quick decision, and it was not easy at all. Had our circumstances been different, I would have preferred to have more savings and a job lined up and moved up to my own place, but that's not what happened. It started out great - I hit the job search h…
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 12:55 AM
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It’s almost like a tacit acknowledgement that (God forbid!) she agrees her hair is great, that she has a beautiful smile or a fantastic ass. When a woman says “thank you,” the complimenter hears “yeah, I know.” Regina George? I think she's off to a good start here, but she seems like she still embraces feminism - this article seems like she's really bitter about the way her life has gone thanks to feminism. However, that's a GREAT example for younger women to show them just what the future holds…
/r/RedPillWives07/06/16 11:47 PM
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Thanks for playing, folks!
/r/RedPillWives03/06/16 10:35 PM
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Practice the pause. Before you speak, think - I know how hard it is, but trust me on this. Prior to learning this, I instantly opened my mouth and let whatever horrible thing I was thinking come out. That does nothing but escalate the situation and make things worse. If you give yourself a moment to think - just remove yourself from the situation - and ask yourself "Is this really something I want to start a fight over?" I bet it's not. It certainly makes things more harmonious.
/r/RedPillWives03/06/16 05:38 PM
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Depends on what he wants. Mine doesn't care about the majority of it, but he will have final say in cost and venues. Otherwise, I'm just ...running amok, haha.
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 10:53 PM
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My SO is vehemently against destination weddings because he doesn't want to inconvenience anyone, but that sounds so stress-free...
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 06:21 PM
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That sounds really nice, very comfortable and intimate. I love it!
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 01:39 PM
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So did she just create a Facebook event or something? That seems super efficient, and I would totally be down with something like that if my SO is. Right now we're looking at a courthouse wedding (it's $35) but there's a really pretty park near the river that my coworker reminded me of and now I'm second-guessing that idea. Beer and pizza though, that sounds ...right up our alley, hahaha. Catering and alcohol were my biggest concern, so the idea was to have it at a microbrewery his family is inv…
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 01:37 PM
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I haven't thought about that book in ages, thank you for reminding me - that's a really beautiful line, too. I'm really happy so many are telling me that keeping it simple is okay, I think some big circus of a wedding would just be overwhelming and not enjoyed by either of us.
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 01:30 PM
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Thank you! My best friend eloped too, it seemed so low-stress - I call it a pop-up wedding because we just kind of gathered in a public place, had the wedding, and then went down the road to a taproom where I'd arranged for them to be greeted with champagne.
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 01:25 PM
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The wedding's not the important bit: the marriage is Absolutely - that's my thinking on it, as well. We're talking about a similar situation, courthouse wedding and small get-together afterwards.
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 01:24 PM
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That makes sense. We're saving for a bigger house to upgrade once future children get bigger, so dipping into that savings is off the table. I think the box idea sounds good, and obviously we wouldn't turn down any gifts. Thoughts on a small gift registry for the folks who really want to buy one?
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 01:23 PM
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I did not know about this - that's a good idea! I don't like the idea of just getting money, seems ...not us.
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 02:40 AM
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Small, don't want to blow our savings. Roughly $1k, but there's wiggle room if he really likes the idea.
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 02:40 AM
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It's definitely a girl thing - I used to make chicken and a salad every night for dinner. I was worried he was getting bored, so I switched it up. His reaction? "What was wrong with chicken and salad?" We still eat a lot of chicken and salad. :)
/r/RedPillWives01/06/16 09:37 PM
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I hear this, can I be part of the club?
/r/RedPillWives31/05/16 05:28 PM
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I usually just smile and shrug, or I just say something alone the lines of "he does so much for me, it's the least I can do." That's usually met with silence.
/r/RedPillWives29/05/16 10:35 PM
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It's likely just jealousy that they don't have that kind of relationship. I get a lot of shit from people about everything I do for my man, but when I look at their miserable, dramatic relationships, that's all I need to see to know that I'm on the right track. As /u/Sunhappy_DC said, fuck the haters.
/r/RedPillWives29/05/16 08:10 PM
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I would welcome more RP theory here - I mean, don't get me wrong, I love the homemaking and beauty threads too, but understanding AWALT is somewhat of an uncomfortable truth that I think a lot of us would prefer to just skate past. Understanding our flaws is an important step to improvement.
/r/RedPillWives29/05/16 03:41 PM
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Do you make your own Caesar dressing or have a particular brand you prefer? We love Caesar salads and I am trying to find a dressing that tops the stuff at the cafe in my office building.
/r/RedPillWives28/05/16 02:58 PM
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I DO love avocado too...
/r/RedPillWives28/05/16 02:57 PM
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I LOVE sriracha, I add it to a ton of stuff - spicy tends to not go over that well with his family though. Maybe that's a home recipe.
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 11:17 PM
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I'm weird about radio volumes too, but it always has to be on even numbers - sometimes my SO will mess with the volume when I'm not looking at it and then giggle until I realize what he did.
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 08:40 PM
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We heat our home with a wood stove and this is totally true - he is so much better at building and maintaining the fire than I am!
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 08:37 PM
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Cocktails are always a good idea - my SO's mom actually turned me on to pinot grigio with peach sparkling water, it's delicious. Works really well in big batches over ice!
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 07:48 PM
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Interesting - I think those would go over very well! I might give those a shot this season. :) Thanks!
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 06:18 PM
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My SO knows, we know each other's Reddit handles. I don't generally talk about it unless it's just something that came up in conversation that I thought he might find interesting.
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 06:13 PM
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Girl, this is a well-timed post! I'm literally texting my mother about what to make for tomorrow's cookout. My go-to is typically deviled eggs - for some reason, the way my mother makes them gets everyone wound up, so I make them that way. The secret is really just to use Gulden's spicy mustard and garnish with paprika. Also, use Helmann's real mayonnaise, none of that Miracle Whip crap.
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 06:11 PM
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That so funny! I've never dated anyone who loved controlling water the way my SO does, that's strange that it's apparently a more common thing. Maybe it's a trait of stronger men?
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 07:09 PM
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Oh ...that sounds ...interesting. :)
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 06:16 PM
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He eats his hotdogs plain with only mustard, this kills me I am a ketchup-only person, so this disgusts me too. My SO puts mustard and relish on his. Eww.
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 06:02 PM
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We also make bets on sports too - it gets out of hand sometimes, haha.
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 06:01 PM
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This is a great idea for a post. :) He can't encounter anything without trying to fix it - even when we're at the store or something, he'll jump in and try to diagnose the problem. It's the engineer in him, but he can't help it. He's good at it though! He's also a ridiculously devout Chicago Cubs fan, while I am a born-and-raised St. Louis Cardinals fan. Though this is what our relationship started on, I'd be lying if I said this series hadn't been a rollercoaster, hahaha. Edit: I just thought o…
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 02:44 AM
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I wasn't sure if culture was an appropriate tag for this? Mods, please change if it's not.
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 12:59 AM
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I hear you can get yourself out of the same situation in the same way you got yourself into that situation.
/r/RedPillWives25/05/16 02:30 AM
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I requested to join - I actually broke my 160+ streak this weekend during our annual baseball trip, little bummed about that. Excited to start a new streak with y'all though!
/r/RedPillWives25/05/16 02:30 AM
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That's awesome! Congratulations and best wishes. :)
/r/RedPillWives24/05/16 09:11 PM
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First, I just try to stay out of his way. If he wants my company, he will seek it out - more often than not when he's stressed like that, he just wants to be alone. Second, I try to take as much off his plate as I can. He doesn't like me to do too much for him, but if I pick up some extra chores like mowing the lawn, he is very appreciative. When he's ready to open up, I give him absolutely all of my attention - put the phone in another room, and just listen.
/r/RedPillWives21/05/16 09:00 PM
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How do you set up your lives so that your SO is more than an afterthought? Well, he's the captain - I mean, how do you forget who's flying the plane, especially if you're in the passenger seat? I may be his first mate, but he's the person I am going through life with - everything I do, every decision I make, is with that in mind. He may have control of our finances, but he's not going to go make a large purchase without a thorough discussion with me first. I reciprocate that - I'm not going to m…
/r/RedPillWives20/05/16 06:05 PM
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Ooh dang, I almost missed this - yesterday was crazy! Bragging about my SO is probably one of my favorite things. Current brag is that he went into an extremely small tech team full of old dogs who don't always keep up with the most current tech, and he is completely revamping the way everything is done and making the whole place more efficient and organized. Also, there was a huge meat sale at our grocery store this past weekend, so he bought a ton of pork chops and smoked them for dinner this …
/r/RedPillWives17/05/16 08:14 PM
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I'm not a big romance movie person either. Current favorite is Goon, because I am FULL ON HOCKEY MODE! LGB!
/r/RedPillWives17/05/16 08:05 PM
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Ooh, Nikki Northview is a good one!
/r/RedPillWives17/05/16 08:03 PM
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Wooo, hooray! 1.) Favorite piece of advice? Practice the pause. 99% of my problems come from not thinking before I speak - pausing to think before I open my mouth prevents 99% of stupid things from getting out. 2.) Rachel Blaze - PERFECT! 3.) I don't normally like romantic movies because they make me feel weird, but I love Garden State.
/r/RedPillWives17/05/16 06:19 PM
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I just heard about Tied Up In Knots tonight - I have not read it yet, but it seems like a really solid read that sheds a lot of light on what feminism has done to women.
/r/RedPillWives13/05/16 01:08 AM
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Oh jeez, now I'm gonna cry :(
/r/RedPillWives12/05/16 12:59 AM
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Oh man, good one - I'm a huge Kevin Spacey fan, that was definitely one of his top 3 roles.
/r/RedPillWives12/05/16 12:58 AM
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I was a huge Little House on the Prairie reader when I was a kid - I always admired Ma and Pa Ingalls. They love each other so much, and she is the best definition of a soft place to land, even through all of the hardship and tragedy they endure.
/r/RedPillWives11/05/16 05:43 PM
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Expect him to resist your efforts. Yup, that's right. It's kind of messed up that you're going to try this hard, and he is going to push back instead of support you. This is the part that trips me up every single time. Every time I feel like I'm getting push back, it makes me feel like I'm doing the wrong thing and that I should just go back to the way things were. And shortly after that, I realize that things were much better during that time frame even though it felt like it wasn't helping. An…
/r/RedPillWives09/05/16 06:54 PM
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he'll occasionally make plans without telling me, then tell me to go get ready to go out That's definitely my favorite way of him going about it - I have to get down to business to get ready quickly, and surprises are the best! Plus, the challenge is fun. :)
/r/RedPillWives09/05/16 06:42 PM
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I have a bit of an obsessive fear of being late - I find it to be one of the most rude things you can do to someone, it shows that you don't value their time enough to ensure being there on time. Why should he have to wait due to your poor planning skills? It's a very unattractive quality, imho. B tends to not care as much as I do though (especially when it comes to family functions), so I am slowly learning to feel more comfortable with it.
/r/RedPillWives09/05/16 06:31 PM
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I like that one of the user-submitted review pictures is some sort of lasagna.
/r/RedPillWives06/05/16 07:48 PM
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I am disappointed yet completely unsurprised that exists.
/r/RedPillWives06/05/16 07:03 PM
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I think this is a fundamental reason so many relationships and marriages fail today - expecting that a ring will give you free reign to whip him into any shape that you so choose is a surefire way to make any man resent you.
/r/RedPillWives06/05/16 06:42 PM
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You've got to love the crust on a motherfucker Haha, that's a good way to put it. Kind of like a good casserole - the edges aren't necessarily supposed to be burnt, it's technically a flaw, but the burnt edges are pretty damned delicious. :)
/r/RedPillWives06/05/16 04:58 PM
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It was. I may be biased, but I am pretty sure he's the funniest guy alive. :)
/r/RedPillWives05/05/16 09:17 PM
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Ouch. This hurt to read, but I am glad I did. I am most definitely still holding onto my dolled-up shrew ways. In a previous relationship with a Shakespearean actor, I was called Katharina and it hurt worse than any hand across the face could. I don't think I've quite tamed that shrew yet ...that harlot keeps poking her head around the corner every now and then. Thank you for the tremendous insight - I've never actually read your blog, but it's fantastic from the little bit I've read!
/r/RedPillWives05/05/16 06:03 PM
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The bad ones are really, really bad, so I will leave those out. They're not even the kind of bad you can find some humor in. But the best was my first Valentine's Day living with my SO. He woke up extremely early on a Saturday to watch USA v. Russia hockey during the Sochi Olympics - and he decided to tailgate it, from our living room, in basketball shorts, a Hawaiian shirt, and sport coat while drinking Busch Light. I personally found it absolutely hilarious to wake up to and I thoroughly enjoy…
/r/RedPillWives05/05/16 05:49 PM
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I'm working on getting a better routine going, I have a bad habit of staying up until I can't anymore because I have a hard time falling asleep. So, the goal here is: Stay away from all computers, put something on TV for background noise, and Pinterest on my iPad for a bit Pick up anything still lying out in the kitchen or living room Wash face, moisturize face, brush teeth Drink a big cup of water Go to bed!
/r/RedPillWives02/05/16 12:26 PM
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I'm also in the list-making boat - every time I start to feel things getting dusty or cluttered, I sit down at my desk and make list after list. I plan the grocery list a week in advance, compile a meal plan that fits our macros (mine and his), prioritize chores, and then I literally de-clutter. I've found a nice Goodwill roundup helps kick my organizational skills into gear.
/r/RedPillWives01/05/16 08:20 PM
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I love baseball proposals actually - I secretly have daydreams about getting engaged at a game because we were brought together by a baseball rivalry. That's kind of our thing, we go out of town every year for a rivalry game, alternating "home turf" advantage. That said, I think these girls who have all these conditions for getting engaged are losing sight of the entire point of it. I once knew a girl who absolutely refused to be proposed to unless she had this EXACT ring that she had designed f…
/r/RedPillWives01/05/16 08:09 PM
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Interesting. My parents come from pretty different ancestry, it gets muddled on my mom's side once we get to the exit from a certain country. I always thought I looked like a shockingly even mix of both parents, this sounds pretty fun!
/r/RedPillWives29/04/16 12:15 AM
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This breaks it all down so simply, what a great post! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives28/04/16 06:43 PM
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Thank you so much for the update - I am SO glad you guys are okay and have help to rebuild. I absolutely look forward to your guide on how to be a good woman in a crisis. <3
/r/RedPillWives28/04/16 12:56 AM
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That's what I thought too - like the weird babysitting kids on Daria. They seem to be handling it pretty well though.
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 10:09 PM
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A few of my friends have done this with their kids - no junk food, no soda, all healthy foods. The interesting result of that as the kids have gotten older is that they automatically choose the healthier snacks even presented with the option of cake or cookies. I think you're on the right track!
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 09:33 PM
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I'm pretty interested in this - does this mean your actual recent ancestry, like where my grandparents came from?
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 09:24 PM
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Houston is my first hometown, through my life I've seen what devastation is wrought by floods. I am so proud that the community is coming forward to help you. I will have to see what we can donate but if there is anything else at all that I can do, say the word.
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 11:49 PM
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I'm a paralegal so I prepare them myself and have my boss look them over :). So they're actually backed up at work too.
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 11:27 PM
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We don't really have any of those kinds of things. Our wills and photos are all iCloud/Google Drive backed up. I would assume that means we're good? I hope? fingers crossed
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 11:19 PM
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When I gave birth to all three of our kids and “wasn’t available,” my mouth still was. And that goes back to rule #1! I love that this article was on foxsports.com, but I could see some well-meaning man sending this to his shrewish wife in hopes that she'd both find it funny and informative and getting his head bit off. :( Overall, it's absolutely great advice though.
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 12:36 AM
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Glad they're both safe, thanks for the post /u/PhantomDream09! Hope things can get back to normal quickly.
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 12:32 AM
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This sounds much more efficient than the hanging file system I use right now, thank you! Question for all though: right now, I keep our passports, birth certificates, and social security cards in the hanging file system too. I am realizing that I need to get a fireproof box for these things, but I am curious as to what else I should be keeping in there. I'm thinking of compiling a list of serial numbers of all our firearms, electronics, and my musical instruments, anything else?
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 05:52 PM
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We did not intend to merge our finances until getting married, but a sudden and unexpected job loss kind of forced our hand as I was supporting us financially for the most part for over three months. We have joint savings and checking, and we each have our own personal accounts too. Our utilities and insurance are in both of our names, but the mortgage is still in his name only (he purchased the house before we were together) and we keep all credit in our individual names. Once we're married and…
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 05:44 PM
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Chicken cordon bleu is an easy but delicious go-to for me. You need: Boneless, skinless chicken breasts (a 4-6 oz breast works best) Black forest ham, one slice per Swiss cheese - I prefer lorraine swiss Oregano Grated parmesan cheese Toothpicks Pound out the chicken so that it's very, very thin - I usually put it into a plastic freezer bag and smash it with the smooth side of a tenderizing mallet. Then, lay the ham over the chicken, and the cheese on top of that. Roll it up, then toothpick it i…
/r/RedPillWives16/04/16 05:25 PM
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You are clearly missing the point here. RPW don't just pick a man and say "Hey, I'm gonna just let you make all the choices for me, ok?" That's foolish. We go through a process, and only want to be with men whose judgment we trust. If you can't trust your partner to make decisions, I don't care what kind of relationship you're in - you are not going to have a healthy relationship. Any man who is being micromanaged and brow-beaten is going to wither up or leave for someone who's not a controlling…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 12:13 AM
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You're really choosing to equate red pill women with people who suffer from dependent personality disorder? Is every asshole a narcissist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 11:34 PM
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This isn't true at all. My SO is the leader in our relationship, handles the finances, and ultimately is the final say in the decision making process. I make just as much money as him, have my own savings, and the ability to leave at the drop of a hat if I so wanted. Deference is not about being completely helpless and needing a man to run your life for you. It's about respect and having confidence that he knows what's best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 11:31 PM
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I saw those on there, but I do like to be able to button them up and have pockets for warmth. The search continues...
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 04:15 AM
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This is super interesting, I think I will be pondering this for a while. I'm honestly not truly sure where either of us fall on this spectrum but it's something to think about, for sure. This is great!
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 03:56 AM
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From what I'm seeing here, you are most definitely not the only one in this position. My SO is the same way - when he's stressed or under a lot of pressure, he just doesn't feel like it. He knows I'm available and willing and all he has to do is say the word, but it's just not something he has any interest in doing when he's stressed. I think the best thing you can do is just be supportive, don't make him feel like you're pressuring him into it, and try to pick up on cues when it seems like he's…
/r/RedPillWives13/04/16 07:06 PM
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Same here - I used to absolutely love Target's boyfriend cardigans, but the elbows always wear really thin and end up with holes. I have been on a search for cardigans I like as well that come in as many colors and patterns, but have not found anything else I like as much. I still have two of them left that I am trying my hardest to preserve, along with one Old Navy cardigan that is probably my favorite. They didn't make it in other colors though. :(
/r/RedPillWives13/04/16 06:29 PM
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I am definitely saving this to come back to in the future: 1.) Our early days ...well, they were incredibly interesting, and filled with lots of friendly ribbing and teasing. We met on Reddit, and are fans of rival sports teams. We've built some of our favorite traditions and memories around sporting events, I love watching his eyes light up when he watches a minor league baseball game. 2.) Sometimes I get upset about things that have nothing to do with me or him or us - I try to keep that to my…
/r/RedPillWives12/04/16 11:33 PM
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I do this too - I do most of the cooking, but occasionally he gets a wild hair and wants to make some bizarre thing he saw on the internet. Sometimes it turns out amazing, sometimes it doesn't. I will still grin and bear it though, because he cared enough to make dinner and share it with me. Plus, he's been victim to some of my less than stellar meals. :)
/r/RedPillWives12/04/16 11:00 PM
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They aren't as great, but I still make an effort. He is usually doing his after-work-unwind stuff, which is typically video games or watching ESPN. I don't like to bother him too much during this time, so I will wait for a lull, say hi, ask how his day was, and start making dinner while he continues doing his thing.
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 11:35 PM
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Maisie something or other - she plays Arya on Game of Thrones. I will still watch the show because the story is great, but I have a lot less respect for that actress.
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 12:04 AM
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When it's warmer, running shorts and a tank top. When it's cooler, yoga pants and a tank top. When it's cold, yoga pants, tank top, cardigan, and thick boot socks. I slept naked prior to us living together and have attempted now that we do, but he prefers the house to be much cooler than I do so I can't get to sleep if I'm naked.
/r/RedPillWives10/04/16 02:45 PM
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I didn't think I had anything to contribute, but I just saw this asshattery on Facebook. Good to know I'm a sexist.
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 09:55 PM
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I almost did, too. Lesson learned for next time!
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 08:50 PM
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I basically just wanted to see what everyone's thoughts were on it. I've always considered the Catholic church and RP values to be pretty in-sync, and this is a big departure from that. Knowing that there are more than a few Catholic posters here, I wondered if anyone had a different perspective on it.
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 08:38 PM
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You know, I actually like this Pope - I was raised Catholic and kind of fell away from the Church, but I feel like he has been incredibly welcoming and has warmed up the atmosphere a bit. That said, I don't like this work and I think that it goes against what the Church teaches as far as marriage goes. I feel like RP and the Church have a lot of principles in line as far as marriage goes, and this is ...weird.
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 07:19 PM
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I agree, I thought it was pretty strange. Extremely liberal stance to be taking.
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 07:17 PM
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I could really go on and on, honestly, but I'll list a few things. His mind moves so incredibly fast - he is always 10 steps ahead of the situation, and he comes up with creative and efficient solutions to almost any problem. It astounds me how good he is at fixing things and solving problems. He surprises me with little things here and there, like last night coming home with a bottle of wine. Not just any bottle though, one of the MLB wines for my favorite baseball team, and my favorite kind of…
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 06:00 PM
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Shoot, they barely make peanuts. One of my friends who went through med school was practically a zombie, he was falling asleep in public any time anyone tried to take him out. It's not a glamorous life, and it doesn't make much. It's really not a nice situation.
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 03:36 AM
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What if he doesn't like being a doctor? It happens - I do know someone in that situation. Any woman who gets into a relationship for money should be ashamed of herself - while I agree that if you're planning a family you should have a plan, if you're still both broke students, you should really have a backup plan. I think that "any size rock" is entirely the view of the parties. Some people work in careers where they'll be judged by that. I'm not saying it's right, but there are ways around it. …
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 03:13 AM
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I do see what you mean there. I was interpreting it more on the view of the woman's side in an RP relationship though; I personally don't feel as though I have to make any sacrifices, because I genuinely love deferring to him and letting him lead. I didn't see where she said she got a huge rock from him, I just assumed he was saving for a little one because I know how broke med students are. That said, I do see her gratitude there for what he did to try and show his love. It's not at all necessa…
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 02:40 AM
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I think the article had a very positive and negative view of marriage at the same time, but the part that really confused me was the overall negative perception of marriage being something draining. There were those positive comments at the end, but it's hard to ascertain how those fit in to such a negative outlook. It's confusing to me, to say the least.
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 02:30 AM
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I'm also 27 and in a 3 year LTR, but I met my SO on Reddit, haha.
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 11:21 PM
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Hi, I'm Dixie - at least on the internet. I am 27, and my SO is 30. I'm originally from the great state of Texas but relocated to the middle and then the north. I've been in an LTR for almost 3 years with an awesome guy that I actually met here on Reddit almost 6 years ago. He's a Marine and I'm former Army. For fun we ride bikes together and are getting ready to embark on a very interesting teardrop camper build. I also love playing music, shooting, fishing, and swimming. We're also both extrem…
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 11:19 PM
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Congratulations!
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 11:12 PM
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That was very sweet of you, and well put. You've got a lovely way with words - thank you!
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 10:54 PM
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I'm aware, I just think his attitude is a lot more welcoming and accepting than past popes. I mean, I loved JPII too, but Francis has really kind of warmed up the atmosphere. I was about to edit my comment to say I was a bit disappointed by the most recent post being 3 months ago - I used to hang out r/Catholicism, unsubbed when I started to become disillusioned with things. It wasn't just Catholicism, it was organized religion as a whole. We've recently begun reconsidering it - my SO is Methodi…
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 10:43 PM
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You know, I may actually check that sub out. This new Pope has mollified a lot of my concerns with the church, we'll give 'er another look. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 10:35 PM
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I cried and shook on the bathroom floor sure that I had a big tumor Oh god, I just sat there frozen in fear, thinking I was going to die from cancer as a young virgin. I wish parents put a little more effort into making sure their kids have the appropriate knowledge.
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 06:03 PM
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You know, I don't know if my stress is less than or equal to my boss's stress. It's a different kind, if that explains anything. She's due to give birth any day now, so it's been a madhouse around here making sure everything is ready for her exit. I have a passion for helping people and protecting their rights and interests, so I really like helping people through some of the most difficult times in their lives. I do workers' comp on the plaintiff's side with a dash of medical malpractice/person…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/16 06:01 PM
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This is an AMAZING post! Thank you! This is the method we go with, hormonal BC doesn't work for me for myriad reasons - I was also raised Catholic but no longer practice. Thanks for such a well laid out explanation!
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 05:51 PM
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I think greeting him when he comes home is one of the nicest things you can do - it shows him you appreciate all of the day's hard work and that you're happy to see him. My SO gets home before me now, but when I was still at home all day I always tried to have dinner ready and greeted him when he came home. I do miss those days.
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 05:48 PM
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Same, I have so many things that have to be washed and dried in different ways that it's easier to just say "the laundry is my territory!"
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 05:46 PM
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Aww that is adorable! RIP He-Man cup, but I love how well it went for you. There's that shutting up saving the day again! :)
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 05:45 PM
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Yeah, I just thought the expression was funny.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 11:24 PM
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I agree, rare/medium-rare is the best way overall. Also, your flair made me laugh. :)
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 11:14 PM
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I am terrible at gift giving, but my SO has wanted a Team USA hockey jersey from the 2014 Sochi Winter Olympics since the day we played Russia. Other than that, he likes tools or stuff for his horrible favorite baseball team (we have a rivalry that brought us together - it's a weird dynamic). One thing that may or may not be a good idea is a really good wallet. Some guys are really picky about them, but a high-quality leather wallet with maybe his initials branded on it is a really thoughtful bu…
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 11:05 PM
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That looks amazing, thanks for all the tips! How juicy does it turn out when you cook it to medium? I love mine pretty rare, and my SO loves his medium so I usually try the cast iron to oven method and leave his in the oven for longer.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 10:57 PM
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I love it. Here's how it happens!
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 11:09 PM
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I've never really understood the lack of desire part, I've never had an issue - I will admit, I am afraid for that to change once we have kids. That said, this is an AWESOME post for ladies who need a little help in the bedroom zone!
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 10:52 PM
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Yeah, running doesn't seem like something that caters to spending a lot of money and getting fat on the couch! They're pretty bad.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 10:50 PM
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Your husband is a Marine, right? How quickly can you point out the dependas at this point? ;)
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 10:45 PM
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I would love to participate in that! It's both frugal and refreshing.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 10:44 PM
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Casablanca (1942) - first of all, it's a classic and everyone who hasn't seen it needs to. Second, it explores some interesting relationship dynamics in a troubled time in history. Third, I think it's an interesting take on the AF/BB roles.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 12:49 AM
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SUCH a classic! One of my favorites, for sure.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 12:48 AM
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RPWs are not doormats. We only defer to one man, our SO, and we can only do this because we trust and respect him completely. Everyone must earn our trust, kindness, and respect. Thank you. It's not about being a pushover or letting anyone treat you like garbage, it's about deferring to the one person you promised that to.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 09:50 PM
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I'm tied for physical touch and words of affirmation - he has not taken the test, but I have a hunch that acts of service is his. This is a good topic to bring up with him sometime though, I don't believe we have ever had this conversation.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 06:01 PM
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This is a surefire way to breed resentment - if you expect an equal amount of give and take, you're just going to feel slighted and unappreciated. Giving is a way to show love - expecting something in return isn't a gift, it's business. Business is most certainly not romantic or loving at all.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 05:55 PM
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It's so easy to fall into when you're working from home - he's not there, no one's seeing you, why try? I try to get around that by keeping the mindset that someone could come by at any time - even if it's just the mail lady, I still feel embarrassed when someone sees me looking like a total slob.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 05:53 PM
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Seconding the leggings bit - also makes it a lot easier to put on boots quickly if you need to run outside for a bit (we keep a wood rack outside and inside for winter, really helps when the inside rack needs a restock).
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 05:51 PM
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Absolutely. I wear yoga pants or running shorts with a tank top and cardigan at home almost every night (we both get comfy as soon as we get home) but I try to keep my hair and makeup nicer so I don't look like an absolute slob.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 05:49 PM
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This is one of my favorite RPW posts of all time. Shutting up is probably the easiest way to get on the path to deference and harmony. Nagging wears a man down a lot more than most women realize; keeping your bitching to yourself also lets you realize how trivial it is. Once you spend a little time with your bitchy little thoughts, you realize how unimportant they are and out of mind they go. It's such a great way to improve things.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 05:48 PM
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This is like the perfect definition of hamstering. You just keep going down this dark path, trying to figure out what's wrong and then ....there's nothing at the end of the path, and you are all wound up and worried for nothing! The nice part about men is that when they say nothing's wrong, they actually mean it!
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 05:45 PM
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I never realized that a lot of the things I said just as passing comments came off as complaining until my boyfriend pointed it out. I started paying a lot more attention to what I say before I do it, and though I am obviously not perfect, it has definitely made a positive impact to eliminate the negative speech.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 01:31 AM
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/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 08:59 PM
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Blue Willow is my favorite pattern, I'm so excited that I can dress like my favorite dishes!
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 08:49 PM
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I am cringing so hard. I knew things would go downhill here, but I had no idea it would happen so quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 08:26 PM
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RedPill women want to abuse and exploit men You don't seem to have a good understanding of what the goals of RPW actually are. I would recommend starting here. Red Pill Women love and respect their partners and want to actively be better partners for them while improving the lives of their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 07:00 PM
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Your flair is absolutely fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 06:11 PM
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The original announcement on the old subreddit was removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 04:52 PM
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Her voice is fantastic - I think she could really do any genre of music and fit right in. So malleable!
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 04:29 PM
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This is my favorite RPW song - Video Games by Lana Del Rey. It's you, it's you, it's all for you Everything I do I tell you all the time Heaven is a place on earth with you Tell me all the things you want to do I heard that you like the bad girls honey, is that true? It's better than I ever even knew They say that the world was built for two Only worth living if somebody is loving you Baby now you do
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 04:09 PM
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Hahaha, I do too - I feel like this community is the only place on Reddit where that's okay!
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 02:30 PM
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That's awesome that you have so much content posted already - I'm impressed with all the work so far!
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 02:28 PM
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A lot of bigger law firms hire JDs to be senior paralegal, which comes with a significantly higher salary. I work with one who really gets to do a lot of the fun stuff because of her law degree but still doesn't get to sign off because she didn't pass the bar. I am personally a paralegal and I enjoy it quite a bit despite the stress at times. Edit: And when I say work with, I mean she's a paralegal who works for opposing counsel - I don't exactly know ALL the ins and outs of her jobs because rea…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 11:09 PM
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We don't have kids yet, and haven't talked about whether or not he wants to be in the room, but I think I would like him to be there if he wants to be. He is really good at motivating me and pushing me, so I think he would distract me from everything going on just enough that I could get past the pain. I'm a little scared of epidurals and drugs and all that (needles freak me out) so I am currently of the mind that I want to go au natural.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 11:05 PM
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I do NOT want to see what fresh hell is happening down there, the mirror idea creeps me out.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 11:04 PM
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We don't have kids yet so I don't have any specific advice (although I absolutely agree with what /u/cakeforallofyou said) but I do want to tell you congratulations, and I hope you have an easy pregnancy and birth!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 05:48 PM
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I was thinking after I posted that I should have written "strong-willed" instead of "strong."
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 05:44 PM
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Pushy and bitchy ....yeah, I know those things. Those are my biggest problems and I learned them from my mother. It took finding RPW for me to recognize that I wasn't just "feisty" or "strong" and that I was actually an insufferable bitch. I have remedied this by learning to STFU. There was a post recently about this, and it helps. Biting your tongue and being quiet gives your brain a chance to catch up and realize that you're about ready to be pushy or bitchy. Edit: Here it is. https://np.reddi…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/16 11:18 PM
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That's definitely quite the accomplishment, congratulations. I feel like this is more of a bragging thread though. I personally do strive for perfection, and it is a constant struggle for me. But if bragging is allowed here, I am down two dress sizes since December 1st, and I am confident I will be down two more by my birthday at the end of May, which is my end goal.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/16 12:14 AM
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I relocated to live with my SO after dating long distance and have struggled finding friends until the past year or so. Like /u/sugarcrush said, making friends with your man's friends' partners can be really good. That said, he has a very small social circle by choice so my options have been somewhat limited, but it has worked out and I finally feel like I am getting the hang of this.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 06:04 PM
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Rule 37.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 05:59 PM
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Same, you know what you're getting from anyone here. The IRC is nice, but sometimes I really wish I had a small group of girls to just relax with over a few glasses of wine!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 05:58 PM
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I try not to take it every night, but I had no idea it could do those things. Thank you! The worst thing I've had happen with it so far is just some really bizarre dreams.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/16 06:01 PM
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Have you tried melatonin? I know it's hit or miss for a lot of people (even for me at times) but it usually does the trick for me. I go to bed before my SO and we live in a really tiny house, so all of the sounds from him in the rest of the house have a tendency to keep me up.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/16 06:05 PM
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I like to shake it up and make random days throughout the year steak AND BJ day - steak days and BJ days come very, very frequently. In fact, Thursday night was steak, and yesterday morning was a BJ. :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/16 10:43 PM
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I have a couple of male friends, but they're not very close ones - mostly just friends of my SO that I'm friendly with or old orchestra and band mates. I'm not generally the "attacking" type though.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/16 12:28 AM
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Oh my goodness, thank you. This is one of the most maddening things I hear! I have been repeating this over and over to the point that I think there is a part of my brain that could involuntarily argue these points in my sleep. The "equal pay for equal work" thing is a load of crap too - during an evening out with a few coworkers at my old job, we discussed our starting wages (we all started in the same position) and - SHOCKER! - it was all based on prior experience or skills brought to the tabl…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 03:45 PM
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I definitely agree; my SO is a perfect example of this, and I have on several occasions in the past pushed him because I thought he was feeling something he was not sharing. It never ended with anything but me regretting pushing him, because he is not a man to be pushed, and he's honest - when he says "nothing," he means "nothing." He is truly one of those invincible men who works out his feelings in his head rather than dragging them out for show. He, more than anything I could read, has done t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 01:52 AM
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I have a history of having faster mouth than mind - I've been making a lot of progress on thinking more carefully before I speak, and it has made HUGE differences in my life. That pause is key - I still have thoughts that I know should not become words, but thankfully that pause stops me from saying something I'm going to immediately regret.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 01:47 AM
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I answer any question he asks, and I tell him everything that he would actually care about. He doesn't want to hear about the client I'm getting ready to fire because they keep disregarding our advice, or about how I got stuck behind two trains today - he doesn't want to hear about those things because all they are is bitching. Sounds like we probably don't talk much, right? Wrong. We email almost all day, talking about baseball, plans for the weekend, home improvement projects, and whatever int…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 06:42 PM
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I do hatha and kundalini. I find kundalini to be very mentally restorative, and hatha to give me more of a physical experience. I actually did not have yoga last night (which is why I took the opportunity to write this post) due to an ill instructor, and I definitely felt like a bum coming home, like I hadn't been as productive as I should have been.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 03:11 PM
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Thank you :) I don't think I've ever been called a spirit animal before!
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 03:09 PM
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I do hatha and kundalini. I am really working a lot on chaturanga because I really lack upper body strength, so crow is quite a ways out for me. I did ask my boyfriend to go to yoga with me once; he stared at me like I had 3 heads. He is not a yoga person, at all, haha. Plus, this is my "me" thing. I'm a big believer in having individual hobbies in addition to shared interests.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 03:07 PM
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This is pretty interesting, thank you! I appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 03:04 PM
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It's part of a larger process.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 01:58 AM
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If you believe what you read in the yoga subreddit, yoga is not about flexibility at all. It's more about the whole body. There are also not good teachers, too. I have a really great teacher now, but I have had some bad ones - it's mostly personal preference though. Re: shutting up - have you read Surrendered Wife/Surrendered Single?
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 01:34 AM
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Thank you! It definitely was hard. It was pretty much a part of my identity; I had gotten to the point where everything that made me who I was had ceased to exist, all I did was drink. I feel like I'm actually becoming myself again.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 01:20 AM
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So you drink it and put it on your hair? How is the taste? How much thicker would you say your hair is, like percentage-wise? I'm working on the reducing stress thing, yoga is truly working wonders for me. I have considered writing a post extolling the benefits of yoga - it has destressed me, given me a better insight into my own behavior and actions, and the increased core strength is definitely helping in bed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 08:43 PM
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I am very interested in this; where do you purchase these things, and how do you prepare them as a tea? Do you just put it in a tea ball and steep? I used to have super thick hair, but once I finished puberty and started college, it started thinning out and I miss all that volume.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 07:52 PM
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Having the kitchen torn up was really stressful - messes and disorganization makes me feel really anxious, so every time I looked at the kitchen all I wanted to do was put it back together. Ultimately, it's well worth it though, I am so excited about spending more time in there now that it looks so much nicer!
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 08:19 PM
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Thanks for the advice! I'm still trying to decide if that's really a trigger I want to pull, but we shall see...
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 05:35 PM
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I do, but I was so busy painting that I basically came home, painted, and went to bed. I do yoga in my office for a half hour during my lunch breaks sometimes, but I still feel a lot better actually attending class because my teacher is absolutely amazing. Mostly my lunch breaks are spent running errands.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 05:33 PM
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Oh man, I honestly wish I could fall asleep anywhere - I have such a huge problem with sleep. My boyfriend can literally sleep anywhere anytime, it's an enviable skill for some. I do hatha and kundalini, I have considered giving hot yoga a shot but I tend to hate hot environments - I just want to sweat and see how that works for me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 05:31 PM
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Congrats on sobriety! It's tough, for sure. I managed to decrease my drinking from nightly to only on special occasions and weekends, which has hugely helped my relationship and my waistline. What kind of yoga do you practice? I would love to see the mat bag when it's done! I have really thrown myself into yoga as a way of preventing myself from drinking and filling up my free time. I also play my flute and piccolo a lot to fill up the time, it helps with cardio a lot too. Do you have any other …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 05:10 PM
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Good: We're halfway done remodeling our kitchen! We got the paint up, new shelving, and half of the tile down. This weekend is our annual chili cookoff so we won't be working on it this weekend, but next weekend we will finish the tiling and do the backsplash, then we're done! So excited. :) I'm extra proud of it because everyone kept saying that home remodels will destroy your relationship, but I feel like it's been good for us, honestly - we made the decisions together, did the work together, …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 05:04 PM
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Snooping is bad. Do not do it. It shows immaturity, control issues, and a lack of respect - on top of that, you aren't getting the full story, and context is key. If you want to continue this relationship, forget all about the things you saw that bothered you, never mention it, and move forward.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 04:21 PM
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Welp, there's that hearty laugh I needed to get going for the morning. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 02:33 PM
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Have you ever heard someone talk while under the influence of meth? Sounds vaguely reminiscent of meth ramblings.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 02:04 PM
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I feel that the ability to be separate while being together is an important relationship dynamic. My SO lived a 5-hour drive away before I relocated to live with him. I was alone, a lot. But it gives you a lot more time for introspection; being alone gives you a good chance to drown out the outside influences and focus on self-improvement. I played my flute and piccolo more, I read more, I took my dog to interesting parks to explore, and more. I also ate less, cooked less, and went out less (not…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 01:56 PM
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Depending on your area, your local indoor range may even have a ladies' day - I used to go to one every Wednesday for no range fees and 50% off all Winchester ammo. It's MUCH more expensive to shoot where I live now (no ladies days here!) but the more you get into it, it becomes a very relaxing thing and definitely gives you a sense of security.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 01:49 PM
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Now I really want to know what it said...
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 01:46 PM
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Definitely going to make some time to watch this over the weekend, great post!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 09:08 PM
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I'm reading High: A Party Girl's Guide to Peace. I'm not, nor have I ever been, a party girl, but I have anxiety and a (former, hooray!) drinking problem, so this is really helping me center myself and learn to fully consider what I'm thinking before I speak. It's also helping me let go of the little, unimportant things that I previously would hamster on until I became an intense ball of nerves. I am working through it slowly instead of my usual habit of devouring books in one single sitting, an…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 10:48 PM
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I know what you mean - we have a super tiny house with two dogs on the large end of medium size, it seems like I will never get the amount of stuff pared down to where it doesn't seem chaotic. We have milk crates full of ethernet cable and other random computer/network pieces in our home office, I don't want to get rid of it because he's planning to re-network our house at some point but we don't have a start date for it. On top of that, I'm a musician so I've got a few instruments hanging aroun…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 04:59 PM
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I had a box with some t-shirts from high school in it - I had been planning to turn them into a kitschy throw blanket to keep in my truck for roadtrips and impromptu trips in the summertime. They were all t-shirts from marching band competitions, all-state orchestra, DCI festivals, etc. - just some things I'd hung onto from when I was extremely active in the music community where I lived. I go through and de-clutter the house every few months (SO has a tendency to pack-rat, he's aware of this, a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 04:36 PM
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This is what I made with stir-fried ramen the one time I attempted it for my SO. I personally liked it, but he was not having it. I love Thai though.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 08:39 PM
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I keep a board for healthy foods (the regular things) and a board for unhealthy things (the special treats here and there) because we're trying to improve our eating habits. How do your monthly boards work, do you pin seasonal meals, or just meal plan months in advance? We have a side of beef in the freezer that I need to make plans for, so I'm considering creating separate boards for different kinds of food, like a beef one, chicken one, fish one, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 08:33 PM
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More than I'd like to, honestly. I feel like I was a lot happier for the 9 months when I deactivated Facebook - it was nice to not see the highlight reel of everyone else's lives and feel like I had to live my life to match. I reactivated when we went on vacation so family could see our pictures and get in touch with us if there was an emergency while we were overseas. I have cut back on my Facebook usage, but it's definitely an annoyance. The only thing stopping me from getting rid of it again …
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 08:29 PM
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That is a hilarious reaction! I actually mentioned this thread to him last night and reminded him of the miserable look he gave me when I made the tofu - his comment was "That's how I imagine people who eat tofu look all the time."
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 02:31 PM
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That was my thought - the one time I made tofu for my SO, he took one taste, dumped it in the garbage, and gave me this look of sadness like "How could you do this to me?" Tofu will never again enter our home.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 01:32 AM
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WOW! I bet it will do wonders for your hair, really. The girl I know who had it done was between a 3C/4A, the keratin made hers super shiny and silky looking.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 01:15 AM
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That sounds really nice actually, haha. I'm a 3B naturally, it has really gotten less curly from having it lightened so much though. I used to just let it go naturally in the mornings after washing, but it looks ridiculous now!
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 01:14 AM
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Did you guys do kind of a workaway thing in Hawaii? I'm curious since you mention adapting to farm girl life.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 09:52 PM
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I have heard AMAZING things about keratin treatments but haven't had one yet. I did have a Brazilian blowout, it took months for my hair to recover. My curls just looked stupid after I had it done, so I didn't have that as an option anymore. Really interested in how the keratin works for you! What kind of hair do you have?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 09:51 PM
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What kind of hair do you have? I've found that blowing out my hair at night and then touching it up in the morning saves me a TON of time, which is nice because we only have one tiny bathroom and get ready in the morning at the same time.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 09:48 PM
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Ahh, Maui sounds way better than Iowa right now! Lucky you! The Good: We had an awesome weekend - we went to our annual hockey game with friends and stayed in a nice hotel afterward. Went to brunch with friends the next morning, then came home and napped most of the day (one of us overdid it on Friday night, I won't say who). Spent all of Sunday at home stoking the woodstove while it snowed, I got the house to 86F while he watched basketball - new personal record! I have been working on eliminat…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 10:36 PM
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Figure out what aspects of yourself you are insecure about and work on improving those. What about this other woman is making you jealous, is she prettier than you, nicer, does she dress better? Or is it just that she's better at the mutual hobby? Whatever it is, improve those parts of yourself. Hell, improve any part of yourself you think you could do better in - it will definitely make you feel better about yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 02:32 PM
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I dont especially have low self esteem but I think I do require quite a lot of attention and validation from the man in my life That's a recipe for jealousy, honestly, and does sound very indicative of low self-esteem. You shouldn't require validation at every turn - that is extremely high-maintenance. Have you ever watched dogs and the way they are with their person? They are constantly seeking attention and validation from their owner. Dogs are perfectly okay with themselves (because they are …
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 01:24 PM
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This is such a great post! It's amazing how much it can really improve your relationship once you surrender. Also, your schedules sound amazing!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 01:50 AM
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We're seeing it on Sunday! Pretty excited, I've heard nothing but good things so far.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 06:00 PM
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I've seen this image floating around Facebook for the past couple of weeks with comments like "Sure, if I want to lose my head!" and the like. It's really disappointing that it's expected for women to just be pushy nags that can't accept even the smallest of criticisms. Any woman who actually does respect her husband is almost automatically assumed to either be abused or a saint. I don't see how it's so saintly to simply respect your partner.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 05:22 PM
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We actually recently had this exact conversation when the Powerball got really high. Our lottery plans involved quietly informing our employers and continuing to work until we leave town, hiring an attorney and a financial planner to handle the money and hire a contractor with an air-tight NDA to begin building our new home (which we've discussed the layout of - it's a fairly modest two story, he's going to turn the basement into a home theater with a bar, and I'll have an outbuilding to use as …
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 05:16 PM
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Here's a non-participation link for you. Just change www to np. :) That said, I feel incredibly bad for that father. I'm not a mother yet myself, but I know that it's hard and trying work. But it's still no excuse to treat your partner - hell, the FATHER of your child - so poorly. Part of me wonders, is she experiencing post-partum depression? If we were in this situation, I would want my partner to be frank and honest with me about his concerns; I know the common response to women like this is …
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 10:19 PM
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It drives me crazy! I remember being able to go to Walmart and get a few bricks for $13 a pop. I also grew up really close to the Winchester brass mill so I think it may have just been a lot cheaper there because of that. But even there, they have limits now.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 08:15 PM
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That sounds really fun! My other handgun is a Ruger MK II .22, which was a gift from my dad. It was his favorite handgun and he gave it to me as a gift when I moved out. The annoying thing about that gun though is that .22 ammo is worth its weight in gold where I live now, everyone hoards it so it's really a pain to get enough to have fun with. I've never shot a Makarov, but those are pretty guns.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 08:07 PM
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Tannerite targets! My dad and I have been discussing what to do with the ones he picked up at the gun show last year. I picked up a Ruger P95 this year, it's a pretty solid little 9mm. I'm a big fan of Rugers though. I hadn't either until this year, the guy kept reducing the price on it every time we looked at it and walked away - eventually, he had a sticker for $100 so we picked it up. After some research on it, turns out it's a New Haven and they were commonly referred to as "pot guns" in the…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 07:50 PM
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That sounds like a really good gift! I bet you could get a really good deal at a gun show. Gun shows are always an interesting time - we picked up a bolt-action 20 gauge this year. Neat gun!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 07:19 PM
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Haha, I am not a big eater of sweets but I get what you mean - I don't typically keep certain kinds of cheese in the fridge for the same reason. I'll see if I can find that at the store, if it cuts calories out of the Thai sauce I will likely make that more often. I have never been good at shooting clays, I've always wanted to get better though! Do you have a thrower? We don't have any land to shoot on up here, but it was brought up with my SO's brother and SIL last year so maybe we'll all go in…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 06:38 PM
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Hmm, I have heard of PB2 but I've not tried it yet. Isn't it like, powdered peanut butter basically, with the oils pressed out? My dad taught me to shoot too! He used to take me to the range every Saturday morning from age 8 on - I eventually got good enough to be on a target shooting team! I live 300 miles from my family now, but before I moved we would get together and shoot the high powered rifles at frozen milk jugs of water for fun on a weekend.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 06:21 PM
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True. Post away! :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 09:51 PM
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Witch hazel is pretty good for reducing inflammation, so that could be it. I don't use lotion afterwards either because it makes it worse for me, too.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 08:46 PM
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I physically cringed when I thought about the fact that someone might actually drop $30k on something like this. I would cringe if mine did, thankfully there's literally no chance of him ever doing something like that!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 07:26 PM
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I literally went right over there to look - nothing for laser hair removal right now, but I did find this! And now I am sitting here laughing at the poor fool that actually does it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 07:22 PM
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This is a beautiful idea. I am going to get my booty on over to Groupon and see what I can find. Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 07:19 PM
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I use cartridges - whatever the four blade one for a Venus handle is called. I don't remember, I just grab the same box whenever I need them. Hmm. Was the $180 just bikini line or more? That is definitely do-able. I will seriously start looking into this, I have always been into the idea of laser hair removal but I assumed it was a lot more expensive.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 07:07 PM
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I have, that's the only way I can shave my knees no matter when I shave from all the scars, haha. I hadn't thought about laser ...I wonder how much that would cost for a full Brazilian? How often do you have to go?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 06:59 PM
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Here's the majority of my beauty regimen copy-pasted from a previous comment: Skin Care Routine * Night - Neutrogena nighttime makeup remover wipes to take off my eyes at night, then Neutrogena Rapid Clear cleansing pads. * Morning - splash some water on my face, then The Body Shop tea tree oil moisturizer. Makeup * I wear very little makeup - I didn't start wearing it until I was older and taught myself because my mom doesn't wear any makeup at all, so I was a little scared to get into it. Now,…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 06:51 PM
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I used to do the Thai sauce with ramen too! But then I realized how many calories were in the ramen noodles themselves, so I quit doing that haha. It is definitely very, very good with chicken and veggies though.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 06:44 PM
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I am seconding yoga - it makes me feel renewed inside and out, even after a long day of tedium and turmoil. I am trying to work up to doing seven days a week, and the idea of yoga teacher training has seriously crossed my mind. I think being a yoga teacher would be a much more flexible job once we start a family than the one I have (which I also picked due to a certain measure of flexibility). I'm really excited for the direction I am going with this and looking forward to see how it progresses.…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 06:12 PM
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We don't really do the traditional Valentine's Day thing. We typically get each other a very small gift (which we do for each other randomly all the time anyway), but we do have a tradition of going to see a local hockey game as our "going out" event. This year he decided to spring for a really nice hotel room afterward, so I'm looking forward to it even more than I normally do! My perception of his effort? I leave it entirely in his hands to decide what we'll do because he doesn't like traditio…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 02:31 AM
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Great post! I've been doing mine at home for the past two years (because the one time I tried to let someone else do them up here, they turned out horribly and now I'm scared) and it really really does get a lot easier over time. Practice makes perfect!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 02:24 AM
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I made a similar post quite a while back and tried to take the advice of it. For background, I moved away from where I lived for most of my life in January 2014, and between my home life and work, I couldn't really figure out how to make friends outside of my SO's family. One of the biggest suggestions made to me was to try meetup.com. So, I attended a few meetups, and the women I met were ...intense, is probably a nice way to put it. They were very harsh and forward and loud, and it was really …
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 02:19 AM
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Just one of those subs that's gone downhill over time as it got bigger. I used to just get on there and have a good laugh, now it just kind of makes me sad. Overall I've always enjoyed the idea though.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/16 02:16 PM
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I second yoga - I've met some really nice girls there!
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/16 12:00 AM
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Good: I am finally getting over the worst flu I think I have ever had - it knocked me out for a solid three and a half days, and I felt like such a failure for being able to do nothing but move between the bed and the bathroom - I was so proud of myself for eventually getting to the couch at one point! Ended up losing 7lbs while I was unable to keep anything but water down, so I guess that's a pro? Bad: I got fairly bitchy last night when my SO decided to tell me that his plans for watching the …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/16 07:48 PM
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Congratulations on having the willpower and strength to maintain your sobriety! It's such a hard road to take, but so worth it to stay on. I am right there with you on the PMS thing - I get really moody the week before mine. As long as I mention something to my SO, once it starts coming on, he is gracious enough to point it out when I am starting to go crazy over something like a jar not opening right or something. I have never understood why some women get offended by this, I recognize that my …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/16 07:27 PM
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I get really freaky for the week before my period, my SO definitely notices. I think he's at the point where he wants me to just tell him "Hey, it's about that time". Not that it's any excuse for my weirdness for that week, but he kind of does this "ohh..." thing when he realizes that there is a reason I'm being a spaz.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 05:21 PM
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I think my priorities need some rearranging. Also, I regret the TIA activity. :(
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 05:18 PM
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I keep skipping my fixes because I'm pulling even more stuff from my wardrobe - I need to just buckle down and do it! I would love to see what you think about it though.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 11:21 PM
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We go to a hockey game together every year for Valentine's Day, I think we'll be doing that again this year but he hasn't told me what he has planned yet. I love going to the hockey games for it though, we've never not had fun at one!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 08:48 PM
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I love her Snapchats - they are so cute. :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 02:40 AM
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How about a question regarding relationship/n-count history, number and length of previous LTRs, length of time between relationships, etc.?
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 05:26 PM
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My "every day" perfume is Light Blue by Dolce & Gabbana - it's light and airy, not too heavy. My "special" perfume is Flora by Gucci - it's definitely got a little more weight to it, but if used sparingly has a very elegant edge to it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 05:23 PM
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Oh! We live in a snowy area too. Rifftrax are a big thing that we love to do with a good roaring fire in the woodstove. We also both really love watching documentaries and discussing those. Or even just obscure movies. I highly recommend watching the movie the Man From Earth if you want to spur a good conversation. Also, puzzles or card games (we do tend to mix drinking in with the card games though, which makes Uno even more hilarious). Edit - forgot a word.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 05:18 PM
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Can I ask why you don't believe in voting? I'm just curious.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 05:14 PM
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