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| 1 | My friend and I thought of this idea today. Can Seddit help me make sense of it?Pretty much this. This subreddit overthinks shit. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 03:21 AM |
| 1 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.So if they are blowing you off you should keep trying? And how can you immediately tell if they are single? | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 01:24 AM |
| -2 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.Because I have standards? | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 11:13 PM |
| 0 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.I am delusional, sure, but I'm extremely competitive so the fact that I'm not destroying it out there is severely disappointing. I can make everyone react well, to a degree, but if they give me a "lol wut...uhh" look I lose my confidence completely. Sorry, I'm better looking than you, drop your bitch shields. And the hottest ones, I don't even have time to play their bullshit. It's annoying. I go in, and have said (with moderate degrees of success), "Listen, you're hot, I'm hot. Let's cut the bu… | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 09:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.That is probably it. When I do girls who are beneath me I get joking immediately and nit works. Girls who I feel are above me I get serious as to convey absolut e confidence but bit fails | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 07:27 PM |
| -2 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.I would agree with you, sadly. It's fucking unfortunate, I know for a fact if I were 4 inches taller I would absolutely, absolutely be pulling hotties left and right. I've seen guys who are more pussyish, less entertaining, less attractive facially pull more because of their height. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 05:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.That's honestly what I gotta do. Below 7s? NO big deal. 7+? I freeze up mentally, act completely different. I guess it's because there are more < 7s than 7+s, so finding them is harder - kind of like when an animal lover sees a rare species they get all excited and may be at a loss for words. How do you get more exposure if you're not constantly around them? | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.By batting is probably 25%, quality (7+) is 5%. Then again most 7+ are taken or have shit personalities. How do I get my slugging up? | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 02:38 PM |
| -1 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.Maybe I bought into the PUA professional marketing hype? My success has never improved, it is baseline. I thought by eating this material you'd fuck tens all day. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 02:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.Thank you. I listened to it for ten seconds (I'm on the run) and had to stop but my question is, beyond the inner game talk, will he address why I'm not getting the other nine? | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 02:32 PM |
| -1 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.On my phone pardon my brevity. Thank you. Last night I went up to a few girls and asked if they collect Pokemon while visibly holding my laughter. With a lackluster response, they said I was calling them losers and left. Really upset me because in reverse I would laugh. You're right though, no reason to be upset. People are really fucking weird. Jack Black vs Hitler, extreme contrast but you get the point. Though, sometimes I feel my high energy should be more reserved, look laid back, etc. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 02:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.5 7 My face, and people tell me this a lot, is very very good. Can lose twenty but I am literally stocky strong. I have an extremely outgoing, teasing personality with high standards. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 02:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm fed up. For an attractive guy, my results are far too inconsistent.Your last paragraph should resonate with me but it never has. I'm far too friendly, warm, outgoing, flirty, funny to have people react negatively. I get not everyone will click, but I don't understand how people can flat out make situations uncomfortable even if they aren't interested, or how they can't be talkative, etc? Maybe it's my perspective - perhaps I should look at the big picture and say, "Maybe it's not me, maybe they lack developed social skills." Still, I don't think I am qualifying… | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!Thank you for your advice, well taken in! To clarify we did this in like a more secluded part of campus that wasn't being traveled. Still, I can understand why she'd feel that way. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!Also, do you give a "I want you"look while walking? | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!(on phone, pardon brevity). ty. check your PM! | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!Great to hear! I'll PM you something...please don't share. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a dry/deadpan sense of humour?What you are doing here is giving values to us, your readers. That is very alpha of you. By the way, your nose wiggles when you talk! Great post. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!She was building you up too. Calling you sexy and a real man over and over and she even teased you with that kiss. I mean you probably deserved a good portion of credit, but just be aware she deserves equal credit. Don't get me wrong, there ain't anything bad with two people being equally into each other! Holy shit, is this female game? I didn't know they had game and what not. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!Wow. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!Pretty much this. A little frustrating but it is increasing sexual tension. My dilemma is I don't know if I want to conquer her sexually or explore her personally. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!Fucking phenomenal. I don't have much to say back. However, I love that I could relate to your story. The few times I had a wingman they usually fuck it up horrrrrrribbbllkyyyyy. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!Woah, her gaming me? | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!No worries. What is most frustrating is that I don't have a wingman whatsoever, so if I go out my friends (taken) usually kick it. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!If I only knew. Situational topics that I joked her with. For example, she said how she went honeysuckle suckling. Then I said, "Oh, you like sucking on sweet things I see." Lol, she laughed. Another was us talking about men and women, how women can easily bring a guy home. Then somehow in context I went close to her ear, hand on her other cheek, and whispered dirty shit. She was flustered and said yep, that works. Another was me asking her her favorite sleeping position. She said on her stomach… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a dry/deadpan sense of humour?From what I've seen and have done, girls will want to be with something they conquered...the unattainable jerk. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!To inquire more, what about the ten who is wearing a dress with a Gucci bag? And within five minutes you can't gauge if she is interesting at all. Fantastic advice, though. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!So what does a ten want to hear? | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!Smart man. Let her work for me, too. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!Thank you so much! I typically will want to follow with, "Hey, you seemed adorable enough to make me stop you, hope you aren't a crazy woman. Who are you? " Bad? Either way, I realize that sometimes if they look caught off guard it is emotion going thru them and not a reflection on you. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:28 PM |
| 10 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!"So, were you here before I came? " I said, "Yeah, I just finished up three other dates! " She laughed. Also, for some reason women love when you jokingly tell them you're a virgin. It makes them laugh, tell you that you aren't, etc. Then I tell them to please be slow with me. They eat it up. Don't know why. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:25 PM |
| 11 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!On my phone so pardon the brevity. I knee she wanted to kiss me in my lips, she stated it, but said to wait until sunset since we were in a visible bar. I said sure, and went in for a kiss a minute later. She pulled back and said to wait, so I didn't want to be forceful, recalibrated, refocused, and played it off like it was no biggie. Sun set, I said we should take a walk. Took her hand, led her to a garden area nearby and sat on the bench. Arm around her, stroked her shoulder. Her body languag… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!She exits it? I thought the man should always lead each action. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!From your experience, can you kino within the first minute of meeting a girl? | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!Thanks Robin Hood! Have you seen improvement before? Any advice on how to help others? My brother, who is great with women, said to not worry. They are either super boring people and can't carry a conversation. Or, they are questioning if you want them for more than just looks. Both aren't a reflection on you, so why care? But, ha, when they do that "look at each other" face, wow....yeah. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 01:37 PM |
| 10 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!I have an incentive to lie for fake internet points? I can tell you about all the rejections I had before, but that isn't as helpful to hear. I used to be super skeptical of this community, and admittedly envious of the men who were good with them. Always thought talking did it without needing to be stereotypically manly. But I was wrong, and I want to learn more. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 01:25 PM |
| 21 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!When they are equally as confident or not showing immediate signs of interest it throws me off, badly. This girl tonight, from the first moment, I knew she was attracted for whatever reason. Others, I LEGITIMATELY don't get - I get mental blocks, stutter, it's horrible - once in a blue moon I NAIL it, and it usually stems from not caring - but it's SO rare I don't care. I feel like stopping a 5 on the street with, "Hey, are you single?" vs a 10 with, "Hey are you single?" isn't the same. I'd hon… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a dry/deadpan sense of humour?Very fair point. Initial attraction, let them "win" you over, then be a more relaxed person? | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a dry/deadpan sense of humour?Exactly. Calibrate who THEY are, and go from there. Though, I would say if you want to meet someone that's compatible, be who you are - and if it doesn't work, oh well. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 04:21 AM |
| 1 | What if you're a romantic, who is not terrible with women?Question for you (thanks, by the way) - How is attraction determined before you open the mouth? Also, in this case, what happens if their man is nearby? | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 07:59 PM |
| 1 | What if you're a romantic, who is not terrible with women?But what's the limit? "If you didn't have a boyfriend, I bet you would pull me to a dark alley and have your way with me." | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What if you're a romantic, who is not terrible with women?It's frustrating to me as well. Then throw in the fact that if even ONE of their girlfriends disapproves, it's game over. Plus with a billion other dudes trying to hit on her, it makes me want to just say something like, "Seriously, all the women here are so fucking boring. Are you cool?" It's so silly - I genuinely feel men just want a laid back girl who is cool and somewhat attractive. Women have a lot of these types of guys thrown at her, so it's whoever is different. It's a fucking game - an… | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Simple ApproachStop - he's attractive, only reason he got away with the average pickup this was. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 02:23 AM |
| -1 | I'm sorry, but this community is self-destructive. Read inside.So invite her over, have a few drinks while out, and just land a kiss on her? Pardon the brevity, but I really don't know. Funny enough, my ex girlfriend (who unbeknownst to me had baggage, different story though) and I started out as friends. We hung out in groups and I never looked at her that way. Same thing, teasing, bla bla. In fact, a few nights before I kissed her for the first time, I remember her verbally talking in front of me how this guy she knew (and was going to be at the party tog… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 06:55 AM |
| 0 | I'm sorry, but this community is self-destructive. Read inside.That's the thing, she's a great friend, and he is a good guy (but he'll never be a close friend of mine). I was always closer with her. And that's why it's interesting, if we both like each other to whatever degree, the man was always there, we were friends for a year first while they were together, etc. And that's the only reason I'm not prepared to move forward with this. Who makes the first move? What happens? What about the ex? Will people find out? How will this affect the friendship? To he… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 06:29 AM |
| 1 | I'm sorry, but this community is self-destructive. Read inside.She'll have to earn your attention, she'll have to earn your kino, she'll have to earn that neck massage (the most powerful weapon in the entire arsenal, IMO). She has to think that she's the mastermind. Fucking, amazing. Come to think of it every girl I've ever dated I didn't put myself out there, didn't try too hard, even said "Meh" with my words in response to her flirts (which makes them want it hard), etc. It's just that I am very, very playful. Physically, over the top sexual, dirty, sarca… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 06:08 AM |
| -1 | I'm sorry, but this community is self-destructive. Read inside.Pardon the shitty formatting, I'm CTRL+C and CTRL+V from my phone. Also, backstory. At the table while I was visiting I picked up her phone in front of her (she didn't care) and went to her text conversations (she didn't care). One was with a guy, and I clicked it and she had a picture of her sarcastic face and below that she said "I can roll my eyes back even further." I was busting her that she likes this dude. She said she doesn't, that she texts facial expressions to people during conversati… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 06:01 AM |
| 0 | I'm sorry, but this community is self-destructive. Read inside.I'm not blaming, it's more a precautionary tale! I've been in a few relationships before, and I've gotten in them while I was an AFC. I loved it. Now that I am more able, but not extremely great yet, to attract women it's making pursuing a relationship questionably more difficult. The methods I've worked on from this fantastic community seem to promote quicker action, less investment. There are things I will carry forward - showing you have standards, not accepting things just because it's a gir… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 05:42 AM |
| -1 | I'm sorry, but this community is self-destructive. Read inside.In due time sir! Here's the other complication. I met her and her ex at the exact same time, developing a near equal friendship with them both. However, my heart is to her and she's showing definite signs of interest. I'm moving back to North Carolina, where she is, and I'll be 30 minutes from her - nothing far whatsoever. Trouble is, as I mentioned, she's fresh out of an engagement (though, like most women, has been "over" him for some time with some residual doubt) with a guy I am friends with… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 05:21 AM |
| 0 | I'm sorry, but this community is self-destructive. Read inside.You have me intrigued! So what would you advise I work on? Any specific pointers? Funny enough, your reply is like what you're telling me to do. Rather than giving it me straight on, I want to hear it more now because you've tempted me with it. | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 05:09 AM |
| 0 | I'm sorry, but this community is self-destructive. Read inside.Thanks on the last bit, a vital piece to know. Here's my trouble. Last night I went out to a club. Made out with a few girls, but because I am living with my parents in the very short term I have no where to bring girls, plus I was with a "girl friend" of mine who needed emotional comforting that night, so I couldn't leave her. Hence, I had my fun - kissing some chicks, but I didn't push for more. Now, during the night, two of them made some remarks which basically implied I am a player. That ti… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 04:44 AM |
| 1 | I'm sorry, but this community is self-destructive. Read inside.A very fair point. May I ask you something. A girl friend of mine called off her engagement for reasons her ex-fiance understands. It's been a long time coming for her and she's relieved, though slightly emotional about the ordeal. She may be on the rebound right now, though has ceased contact with him a month ago. During the past month, a lot of signs has given me a certain feeling she is interested in me - sexually, and might be even more. After telling a few close friends the details they all… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?The first paragraph. I met my best friends this way. | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Tonight I will use the top five upvoted openers in this thread!Haha. Thank you for the suggestion. Before I tried it I wrestled with how to say it so it doesn't appear rehearsed. That was tough | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Tonight I will use the top five upvoted openers in this thread!Ended up making out with a girl a foot taller than me and got her number. | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 06:22 AM |
| 0 | Tonight I will use the top five upvoted openers in this thread!I mispronounced dames... Said it like "daymzeez" and they were confused. So I laughed and left. | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Tonight I will use the top five upvoted openers in this thread!They laughed, got a cheek kiss a few minutes later from each girl and I returned the favor. | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 06:20 AM |
| 0 | Tonight I will use the top five upvoted openers in this thread!They were really confused. Asked who, so I literally showed them the posting. Weren't Redditors but asked why it was there. I told them the gist of this sybreddit. Were intrigued and told me the best advice is be confident, say what you want, and begged guys be more forward with their sexuality. | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Tonight I will use the top five upvoted openers in this thread!Haha they laughed after I replied. I said man it makes me want to kiss you. One said she was taken, other said sure! Made out. | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Tonight I will use the top five upvoted openers in this thread!Tested it out... They said fuck off | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 06:17 AM |
| 0 | The PERFECT example of being a "flirty jerk." (one line).Haha she said back. "<my name>, you must've not had a real White Russian ;)" | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Tonight I will use the top five upvoted openers in this thread!Oh god this won't end well lol. | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.Appreciate it. I feel a lot better without being a jerk anyway. If I have to use some playground trick to make the girl fight over me then we aren't going to click based off of personality. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.Really? She was already pissed. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.Thank you. I'll send you a picture or two of me so you can judge how I appear. Typically don't have an issue with most girls, but the hottest ones I have trouble for. I'll also give you some back story on me as well, may explain some insecurities now. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.Then why do I see meatheads going home with chicks? | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.True, I have nothing to lose! But if I was being an asshole why did she not react well? I guess everyone is different. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.What would I prefer to be? I would say I'm a 7 with a playful, not asshole, not boring personality. How would I rather be? Probably hot, but an asshole. That way I am confident in me and won't deal with shit | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.Thank you. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.Amazing advice. There really is more to pickup, socializing, etc than words. Reflecting, it opened amazingly well. Then I kept pushing, and their reactions became more negative. Notably, it got to the point where the one I wanted teased me pretty offensively back about the shirt I was wearing. She said it is how she felt, and to not push a tease. But ad another poster said, there is a point where you have to be you. I love when a girl fights back, it means compatibility for me. I've done the sen… | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.Any suggestions? It's hard because most girls are so sensitive. Tease them they are borderline upset, push and they are hurt, don't tease isn't a good thing. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.Yeah I was pretty relentless, my bad. Love and learn. I actually asked what I could do better and she said next time just say, "Hey, I think you're cute, what's your name?" Direct clearly can work. Live and learn! Girl was smoking hot, but I realized being hot means nothing. Glad I went up. I still need to work on my comfort level if the girl is cold off of the bat. Makes me feel really odd. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.Nah man she got pissed. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.My initial comment was in remark to where they got their dance moves from. They replied, I said ahh... Two for one special. Then I kept poking at it since they were laughing, but then out of nowhere she got annoyed. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Why don't you just grow some balls?We all have to have one bad one to know what a good one is. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/13 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.imagine what shes going to tell her girlfriends because girls definetly gossip. Gold. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.That's my issue. I've never understood how to execute this - a guy approaches, it shows interest, so doesn't it defeat the point? | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Amazing post. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Hah, Rick James. Do yo feel being sexual is too forward? | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Amazing point. The key word is constantly. If you do it too much, bad. If you do it too little, bad. I would also throw the idea that these rules go out the Window when you find someone who truthfully complements you. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Tyler Infield CompilationChill out dude. I don't find it hard to be calm and confident, but that's me. It used to bug me, not anymore. Have I ever banged an 8 or higher? Nope. Would I like to? Maybe, but I'd rather date and marriage and all that jazz. Curiously, why do you hate relationships? I'll try to find the clip now...it's buried somewhere on YouTube so if I don't necessarily find it pardon me, but I will try | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 06:38 AM |
| -2 | Tyler Infield CompilationThey are generally easy, but not all the time. Of course I've been rejected more than successes. But what he does isn't fundamentally hard like playing a violin. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.In your case, I would simply tell her something logical, "Let me know when you're free and we'll work something out." Then end it. I think this 1) puts the ball in her court, 2) is contextually appropriate, and 3) shows you aren't going to bend to her but she needs to bend to you as well if she is interested. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.We all have done it, but it really gets us nowhere. The benefit to not overanalyzing is that you are being you - and if you are you and a chick likes who you are being then you two are good. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 02:53 AM |
| 0 | What are some "tricks" to build kino early in an interaction and also seems natural?High five | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Shy can be sexy! | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 11:21 PM |
| 6 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.1) Have a positive attitude towards yourself, towards the conversation, and to them. 2) Assume attraction. 3) Approach, don't get in your head. You're assuming things will go poorly before you even approach - how illogical is that? 4) Look at how flirting with someone can actually make their day! It's a compliment! Realize that 95% of guys won't approach a girl they think is cute. 5) Practice - say hey to everyone, not only girls. This carries forward in how you conduct yourself. 6) Stop overthi… | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.It really was a fairly simple night! Went to an Irish bar with two friends and enjoyed a few beers. There were two groups of girls I opened: 1) Three girls. One had a warm hat on when it was cold out. I went up and said, "Hey, I'm cold, let's trade hats." And she laughed and said that I may have lice, to which I took mine off and said, "Yep, absolutely covered with lice, pounds of them." After awhile, the conversation went well, then the one I wanted I found out was married - the girl who was th… | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Haha. Sorry, conceited. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.How do you feel about the notion that women don't know what women like? | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Thing is I'm looking for a relationship and not a random hookup. I guess asking if single can come across as awkwardly forward. Really intrigued by how you phrased the former. Really fascinating. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Haha yeah, his delivery was awful. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Tyler Infield CompilationWhy do you want to fuck a drunk girl? That's the lowest thing you can do, and you are putting yourself at risk to be accused of something. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.You're spot on. As an addendum, men get do negative if they are rejected. But they don't realize that every girl you don't approach you are rejecting. Also, everyone has different tastes. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Tyler Infield CompilationI'll watch later, thanks for sharing. From experience, drunk women are far harder to get a date out of than sober. More noticeably, their reactions can be so much more negative. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.You're doing very important things which, unfortunately, most boys aren't conditioned to have. Your point on expecting positive reactions is so important. If someone thinks negatively on the outcome, it will come across in the way you approach. Having such a shifty attitude will make the other party feel uncomfortable. I try to realize that flirting is complimentary, and no one will react harshly to flirtation so long as it is appropriate. Even if a girl is taken, she will be flattered! You made… | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.You're absolutely right. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Absolutely right. There are areas we can improve on, for example I have a hard time approsching a girl if she is in a group of men and women. What do you feel you need to improve on? | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Could you elaborate? | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.You're absolutely right, I should've phrased it that way. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Tyler Infield CompilationYou're right, anyone can. He doesn't even say much. He isn't even attractive. He is sexually forward to drunk girls... Not hard. Most men who have one night stands do it with drunk women. Notice how he never ever shows day game. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Fair enough. Fortunately I never really was socially inept so this may have came more naturally. The only difference, though, from my better looking friend and me is that I am more outgoing and try more. Action is the separation between that and success. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.It's where I need to work on. In the moment I am fine, the minute I leave I get in my head about when to text, what to say, if I should text, etc. The community seems to be right in that more is less in setting up plans , and space out the initial date.. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.The great thing is that you have the capability to reflect on where to improve. That's amazing! You're not conceded and thick headed. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.DO NOT WAIT. I don't know how many times, I see a great opportunity and have a great opener, look away to tell a friend I'll be back, take a drink, or order at a bar, and suddenly, this chick Houdini'd out of the bar completely. Haha. Great point. I didn't believe it but chicks sense guys out from a mile away. They'll know if you're hesitating, and then you seem like a huge pussy. How do you handle it now? Go up immediately or do you position yourself better, or? | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 05:01 PM |
| -1 | Tyler Infield CompilationNot hard. Do what he does. But at the end of the day it isn't fukfilling, you can get STDs, etc. Having a girlfriend is far better. I wish you could see the clip where he had an aside and ranted about how his life wasn't much fun and he was overworked and stressed. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Whats your style of seduction?Outgoing, raunchy because it is who I am. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 07:36 AM |
| 47 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.I'm glad. The worst thing seduction community does is that by reading so much material it makes women appear to be aliens. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 07:25 AM |
| 5 | Coaching Review: Day Game With PUA Coach ArtisanI linked your post to #6 here. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Going to Six Flags opening day. Might sarge. Any advice for a young sedditer?Also, advice -- please don't seem like the wacky out of control man. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Amuse yourself.I agree. Having fun yourself makes others have fun. Being sketchy makes people feel sketched out. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:36 AM |
| 2 | We need to talk about flaking...I respect your attitude here. You took it as a learning experience without being overly harsh on yourself, and also recognized extraneous things may come up. I've been stood up twice in my life, and it is a shitty feeling, but really the best way to take it is that it's a reflection of THEIR character. Ultimately, you win some, you lose some, but losing can often be MORE fun because you can laugh at it. PS - By stood up, I mean date planned, I show up and she didn't. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Tyler Infield CompilationHardly -- he's selling a product, he'll show you the best footage possible. But, the best footage is really all drunk girls. ANYONE can do that. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:27 AM |
| 3 | My girlfriend got gamed by someone who wasn't me...Exactly. If you have to "game" your girl then that's not what you want. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:17 AM |
| 3 | How do I gauge whether a girl is single or not?Ask her. It's quick, courteous, and shows your intention. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 11:25 PM |
| 13 | In a high school sexting scandal involving 20 students, the 12 male students have been suspended, while the female students receive no punishment.Good | /r/MensRights | 28/02/13 07:13 PM |
| 20 | In a high school sexting scandal involving 20 students, the 12 male students have been suspended, while the female students receive no punishment.How is that not illegal? | /r/MensRights | 28/02/13 06:46 PM |
| 1 | It's little things like spellchecker not recognizing misandry but does recognize misogyny that really highlights the deep rooted belief that sexism is a one way street.Email Microsoft | /r/MensRights | 28/02/13 06:00 AM |
| 1 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.It is possible, sure! Really am not sure. Would be weird though since I didn't talk about religion u til later. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 02:36 AM |
| 1 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.Thanks kindly. I think, as you mentioned, filtering and QUALIFYING is huge. Being Cal. I ad well | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 01:26 AM |
| 1 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.Thanks. Some are feeling I may have went overboard with the post meet texting, somewhere in this topic is what I said. What do you think? By the way, this isn't bragging. It was more a realization. I suppose "How about no" only came out because I knew PRECISELY what I wanted and wouldn't accept less than it. And trust me, I am a noob | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 11:20 PM |
| 1 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.Good point. Even realizing the obstacle adds negative thoughts, not positives. Devils advocate, though. If a girl doesn't share my humor then I am saving my time. No? That means it wasn't a complete click. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 09:02 PM |
| 0 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.I get your point. I should've went a more serious angle after. Live and learn! I did, also, go against my own idea of texting just once after I meet her so she had my number. Like I said in another post, nothing can come of this, I recently was laid off, sadly live at home with my parents in a state I will never live in, she's a Witness so nothing sexually will happen rasily, etc. To be fair, I tried framing the texts after as "you want me" not a frame of neediness. Best I let a day go bye befor… | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 08:47 PM |
| 2 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.I had AA going into it, assumed her stoic face was disinterest while she was doing her thing, but I said, "Fuck it!" and went up. Once I'm there just breathe, slowly, and make sure you are slow in nature. This will help calm you. Say what you'd want to say, not what you think ya should say. And I've been rejected before, too, this just was a good one. Remember, people rarely post failures. PUA rarely show the rejections, which are ample. Their success comes from numbers game and numbne | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 08:38 PM |
| 1 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.Amazing luck. Have you had experiences of finding out shit down the road? Been about fifteen hours, haven't heard, btw. Should I just call tomorrow or leave it considering my personal situation? | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 08:32 PM |
| 1 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.It was joking around lol dude sorry I am not James Bond | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 08:16 PM |
| 1 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.Wasn't pressure. I even said she could say no. Really didn't matter since she's a hit Jahovas witness. Initially hesitant since she didn't know me, then asked her friends, they said yeah. Anyway, her text responses were positive, and when interacting I decked around since I literally don't care. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 05:29 PM |
| 2 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.25 btw | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 06:02 AM |
| 1 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.See a few comments up. She's a Jahova's Witness, and I have ZERO intention of dating her just trying to fuck her somehow (really don't have a way, recently laid off living w/ parents at 25, no biggie but not attractive). The last text I sent her I didn't hear from her. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 05:27 AM |
| 3 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.Jersey! Yeah I agree with you. One thing I learned is that you really have to be true to you in the comedic way you'd shoot the shot with friends. If she doesn't like it, not a good match. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 04:59 AM |
| 6 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.Ahh... I RESPONDED with "For our gym honeymoon I know a few exercises we can do." been a bit haven't heard, tho took me three hours to get back to her | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 03:42 AM |
| 2 | It really doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.Last paragraph - should I respond, and if so, how? | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 01:31 AM |
| 1 | As a college student it's hard to start up a conversation. I've read some tips but wanted some things more specific and advice on an idea.What? You can compliment someone in a non-needy, sexually alpha way. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?Great response. Here is why I am how I am. Moreover, the PUA people don't know me whatsoever, so watching videos of being told to "MAN UP" is so ambiguous it absolutely makes no sense, especially since they don't know me. So here's a question to you after your great story (glad things worked out), what did you really do differently? That's the thing I dont' get, besides getting upset at the rejection (not the fear of it itself), what differences can be made? I can talk to groups of people no pro… | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?Everyone can improve, so why give hyper-critical bro advice? Heck, if you're reading PUA stuff, attending an event, even trying to "pickup" more than usual - you are indirectly admitting you want to improve. So why get put down even harder? It is to improve, but honestly I am pretty able at social situations. The only piece ever holding me back is that I take a single rejection too hard, and need to work on that. The rest is just common sense shit. | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?What would you recommend then? | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?Haha, no please I really am interested. I never respond well to negative criticism, only positive criticism. Negative makes me look at things negatively. Positive makes me think, "Man, I can improve! That would be amazing. Things can get better? AMAZING!" Negative says, "Fuck this guy, he sounds like a douche. His advice is more critical so that he can float his own ego." And I know people like that, who criticize to only make themselves feel better. My game issues are more inner game - where it… | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?Maybe it's because he is literally the type of person I don't like being around. I'm not bad with women by any means, but I'm not superb (this probably has something to do with gaining weight to medical issues in the past few months, but I'll get back down). I respond much better to someone like Richard La Ruina. He is the antithesis of Owen, gives great advice, and doesn't make a jackass of himself. Owen comes across as childish, always ranting without giving specific advice. The comment about … | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?Then why does RSD Tyler get such a circlejerk around them? From the videos I've seen Tyler does not know how to give good advice. The only video I've seen that's great is the few where he doesn't sound childish, gives straight advice, and then the one where he was rejected by two girls but then tried the next girl and it worked in the same clip. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?What if you really don't find them effective though? Everyone has areas for growth, but telling them, "You're such a pussy, man the fuck up you loser," does nothing. It's proven time and time again that negative reinforcement simply does not work, so why does this community accept it? Like I said, a better phrasing can be, "Hey, not everyone will like you. And that's okay, you also don't like everyone. Be comfortable in who you are, smile and enjoy the ride, and as long as you're trying to filte… | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?I was never really like this until my ex gaslighted me. Really loved that girl, still do, even if it was a year ago. She made me feel like I was always wrong at the end of the relationship, and blamed her shittyness on me. Always was a lose lose situation. After a year, my confidence is back but I know despite how I act (friends say I am fantastic at pickup) I know my mind is from a validation seeking one. Maybe also I am looking for a relationship, not sure if game adjusts. I suspect I should q… | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?Growth can occur without sounding like a bro. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?Thank you for being able to speak my mind better than I am able to. The PUA community is interesting, but the overall tone just kills it for me. Looking at women as conquerable objects who will wreak havoc on your life unless you control it makes me not want to develop a relationship. Looking at other men as foes is just silly. I remember there was a video Tyler (he is definitely most guilty of this, Julien seems more respectable to a degree) where 3/4 of the way through he went off on a tangent… | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?Appreciate it ! | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Any good videos that aren't demeaning?Thanks much. I went out last night and realized something I need to work on - it's not anxiety from approaching, I don't get that. I get very, very taken back by if someone reacts negatively even if others go well. It makes me question if I did something wrong. Logically, I know that if I approach the way I want to and a girl doesn't react well, we aren't ever going to click. But I take it so personally because they're passing judgment without knowing me. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel like some of the better known PUAs are a little bit full of shit?Of course they are. They are selling a product. It's easy to be confident when your job, livelihood, and marketability relies on you acting. They show only the successes, and never show the hundreds of rejections. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Best way to dominate other men?Say, "Feel free to go with your ex, nice to meet you," and that's it. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Pretty good training nightI was hanging out with my sister (she’s at least a 9 out of 10) Wow. Never ask for a number, tell her, "Put your number in my phone, we're hanging out." | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Daygame Vs NightgameDaygame - their guard is down, they will be genuinely surprised as 99% of men don't approach in the day, they will be more comfortable, conversation doesn't need to be "GO GO GO SEXUAL SEXUAL", it shows you are out with a normal life, etc. If you want a lay, night. If you want a girlfriend, day. | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 01:14 AM |
| 1 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Our mind is our worse enemy. Check this, last girl I didn't want to commit to and she found this out after we slept together a few times messaged me, "Fuck you, small dick," which hurt even though I really don't have a small one (average, probably), but then she later apologized. Another chick told me, after I called her out on being crazy, "Well you're not my type physically 100%, so fuck you," which was a 180 from what she said a few weeks earlier. | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 08:37 PM |
| 1 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Thanks man. I have work to do. What was the tipping point when you realized you had things to work on? | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 09:01 PM |
| 1 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Thanks man. Ever be in a situation where you know no one else around you is as capable of engaging a group, so you let it die down and they struggle to talk? I have the urge to revive it. And I'm even talking among my own close friends. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 08:35 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I like the kiss number. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 08:32 PM |
| 3 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Something to always consider :) Try to connect deeper to get to know who they are as a person, thus I can qualify if I want them or not, which helps us both and saves us time. Other thing I noticed - the girls I get with tend to be more introverted, shyer people. The ones I want are more outgoing, but tend to go for the "James Bond" type of guys, who are fucking boring. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 08:29 PM |
| 2 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Thanks man, makes sense on why I need to qualify. Only one girl I met in the past year was like this but she had other issues that I left her over. Side story, my ex needed me, and I loved it. However, when things got tough that created a fuck ton of issues, especially since she didn't know how to cope with her own shit and then just took it out on me. At that point ANY girl who is even slightly needy kills me. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 07:27 PM |
| 2 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Something like that. Though, everytime I find a girl who is interested I become turned off because they get really, really needy. I don't like that whatsoever, I want a girl who wants me but doesn't need me. Probably stems from my ex cheating on me and gaslighting me after emotional warfare for months. Then my previous ex also cheating on me. Then seeing how a lot of other girls cheat and generally act shitty as hell. Then how my mother cheated on my dad. Though, I've seen so many girls want to … | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 07:20 PM |
| 2 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Fucking damnit. Makes sense. What absolutely pisses me off is that women don't escalate generally. That sucks. I sound like an AFC but I would say most males would agree it's silly they don't. EDIT: I also then have sex with girls and lose interest immediately. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 07:12 PM |
| 2 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Ah, makes sense. That seems to be it - escalation, I do the basics but don't PUSH the sexual touching per se. I just repeatedly do the basic steps. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 07:08 PM |
| 4 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Thanks, I will have to do that. Two weeks ago I tried being sexual at first by mistake and that blew up horribly haha. Learning experience. I need to blend the two. Oh, and I ALWAYS tend to chase, but then the girls who are into me I generally am, "Meh" about. Does it make a difference if I am looking for a committed relationship? | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 06:59 PM |
| 2 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Thank you. If I write this up on Google Docs, would you check it out for me? Give me your feedback, criticize where necessary, and complement where I can? If I may ask, what happened in your life and where did you go with it? | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 06:09 PM |
| 2 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.I really appreciate the responses you've given - empathetic, long, etc. Thank you. Appreciate it - past year has been a rough one, my long term girlfriend cheated on me, I lost my job, put on some weight, and moved back into my parents place. I've been, generally, unhappy for a solid year. It seems that my life has taken its first real rut and it sucks. Then I am not happy I have the TIME to travel and money to, but am scared to say, "Fuck it," not apply to jobs for 1.5 months, and just go do it… | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 05:46 PM |
| 2 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Thanks, will do! From my perspective -- naturally I'll open with something that other dudes typically wouldn't, be sexually sarcastic, hug when I can, make fun of them while laughing, etc. Kind of like a playground flirt in elementary school. That's just second nature, but sometimes in a loud bar I freeze - I basically have ZERO night game. In the day my game is perfectly fine, I don't recall not getting a date or something out of a day approach. I can't tell you the last time I kissed a girl at… | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 05:35 PM |
| 3 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Suppose the issue is that I tend to be analytical, but when you throw in steps I hate it - it makes me feel restricted, and then screws up my ability to speak naturally to someone. If I am trying to talk but then I hear "dude, she said X, go to step Z but fall back on Q" I'll be done. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 05:27 PM |
| 2 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.I definitely don't qualify, but I know what I don't want. I've seen that you should ask a question, or make a statement about what you don't want. I don't know, and I don't fundamentally grip how "qualifying" helps you. Both of my long relationships I've had it completely contradicts how a girl should be into me - I was flirting with other chicks in front of her, told her of my sex stories, acted like a fun jackass, etc while we were friends in front of my friends. They both fell in love with me… | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 05:27 PM |
| 4 | I am extremely confident, but extremely outgoing. That hurts me.Hmm, my insecurity stems from my physical appearance (I'm fine but have goals that make me insecure at the moment). Plus, don't have a job at the moment (downsized recently) and had to move back in with my parents. Otherwise, though, I truly can speak to anyone. Isn't that me knowing it? It's the last step -- the "hi" I get, the kino is generally good, but the last step - that extra kick, is lacking. I don't know how to "seduce" to a close whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 05:14 PM |
| 1 | The start of a conversationI've had many girls tell me I impressed them because I asked them meaningful things and not just fluff bs. Graet tip | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Alpha guidelinesStop wearing Metal band Tshirts. Or, you can wear what you want because it is your life. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 02:55 PM |
| 2 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?Great response man, thanks kindly for the insight and offering your story as well. Nothing but the best! | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 09:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?Thanks for the optimism man. I'm seeing my first therapist on Wednesday. I'm taking up dance, learning guitar, and then will be buying a completely new wardrobe. I want to be able to be at the ideal me by mid-25. I think that's a prime time to start really sarging, extremely young, etc. Why do you think you are who you are, disliking those who you have? I appreciate you're not ripping into me and are trying to examine the issues at play. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 08:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?Because I don't know many girls who openly say they would date down. I also think my game is off for a number of reasons, and I am seeing therapy. Girls who show interest in me I completely blow off. Girls who don't I am enamored by despite their massive red flags. The ones that date me are all similar (needy, baggage, and have big ups and downs). | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What does seddit think of the Simple Pickup guys? I reckon they're hilarious and wish I had the gall to try some of these things out!If PUA are so good why are nearly all single? Everyone, or nearly all, wants a relationship. Point is if I put myself out there 100 times, inevitably something will click. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 05:56 PM |
| -2 | Do you ever encounter groups that knock you out of state, and how do you deal with it?I didn't read your post to be honest, but if I may: If someone reacts negatively to your friendly, outgoing nature then that's their shitty personality. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 02:45 PM |
| 2 | What does seddit think of the Simple Pickup guys? I reckon they're hilarious and wish I had the gall to try some of these things out!Exactly. This is also my gripe with PUA. They are paid to "teach" to customers willing to buy it. It's their JOB to act confident, edit out videos to make them look phenomenal, spew alpha-male stuff, etc. Anyone, if you get paid enough, can do anything and say anything. This is also why Kassem on YouTube has girls constantly being open and outgoing. If he was without the cameras they would NOT be like that. Keiran, a porn star, just did an IAmA. He said it's his job to last and do well on the se… | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 02:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?So they buckle like I do in a loud blaring club? | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 02:40 PM |
| 3 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?So it's not bad to be an introvert! | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 04:08 AM |
| 1 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?Actually, I am extremely outgoing. I just don't have the fake energy to be screaming like a drunken animal. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 03:39 AM |
| 1 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?I'm getting better at this :) Any girl I've dated in the past it was at the point where I was outcome-dependent-free and I loved it. Breakup, then I cared too much, etc. Now, a rejection/no response doesn't bug me at all. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?Thanks much man. I need to learn about this side of the game. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 10:26 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop coming across as 'sweet' and 'polite'? This is true amongst my friends as well as girls.Won't mind at all, but it's hard to explain better because it's a pretty simple idea. A "nice guy" is a bullshit term thrown around too casually. There are three types of guys: 1) Pushovers, 2) Nice guys, 3) Assholes. Girls genuinely want a nice guy who is not a pushover and who is not an asshole. Someone who is their own person and not overly dependent on others. We want the same thing. We want a sweet, independent but loving girl who's not a bitch. Having common courtesy, manners, and being sw… | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?Thanks man. I have decent success, but I can't seem to game the 10s that are not taken (which, seems rare, sadly). And I'm a half decent looking dude. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 06:15 PM |
| 3 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?Thanks so much man. It's super fucking frustrating. I feel 10x more comfortable in the day, walking around, then once you have 1000s of people walking around and it's BLARING loud and there's 500 guys taller than you and so many distractions, I just can't keep up. I'll out wit you one on one, but that wit doesn't work in a bar full of a billion people when I have to try to please every fucking person in a group. It's absolutely retarded, especially when they first think "he wants my pants" (no, … | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 06:06 PM |
| 3 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?Thanks. Put myself out there in the day and I can talk to everyone. Put me in a bar, even if I am a social and good looking guy, it just becomes tough man. Their guard is up, they have 40 friends watching out for each other, then the dudes. And I can talk to EVERYONE and look like the man but it seems to be of no help. Oddly enough, I tend to automatically pick the taken ones, literally no idea why (and it's never even about their looks, sometimes I'll go for a 5/6 because they're super cool and… | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 05:57 PM |
| 13 | How do I stop coming across as 'sweet' and 'polite'? This is true amongst my friends as well as girls.Sweet and polite aren't a bad thing. Just make your intentions known. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 05:13 PM |
| 1 | The game is a joke? Want to seduce women? Learn from them.It's really fucking straight forward. I don't know why the PUA thinks it's so difficult. Seduce a 10 like you'd seduce a 1 plus a bit more teasing. Assume attraction. Don't break eye contact, if she tries to test you laugh at her (like you would if a 1 tried to), etc. What would say are the differences between us? | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 11:19 PM |
| 1 | The game is a joke? Want to seduce women? Learn from them.Yep, you can gauge what you should do by how she is reacting. But when you know she's into you, you HAVE to escalate. It's pretty easy. Open with a comment that most men wouldn't say - if she's "below" you looks wise, you can be complementary. Above you? Say something teasing. Then chit chat about complete bullshit that makes the conversation unique. Make sure YOU are having fun, and don't be afraid to walk away if you hear shit you don't like or if she's acting rude. If she's vibing, kino...gau… | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 10:58 PM |
| 0 | The game is a joke? Want to seduce women? Learn from them.Fixed | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 10:17 PM |
| 15 | Shit's finally starting to happen for me. Here's whyThis isn't mind blowing...go out and practice. | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 10:04 PM |
| 1 | What dating companies DON"T want you to know about pick up.What material do you recommend reading? | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 09:03 PM |
| 1 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?I mean I know what you're saying, but realize though that in an ideal relationship you need not game your girl to be with you. If you have to, you're not being you, the relationship isn't genuine, and it is bound to fail. The people who I know who are in long term relationships are completely themselves and are truthfully happy. No game. The ones that game them are miserable. Been there, done that - my ex cheated on me, I know the feeling, and it's easy to blame yourself but you can't blame your… | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?Or, you can love someone and not be needy? You're buying into the "game" way too much man. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 03:49 PM |
| -1 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.His advice is to be confident. This doesn't require 400000 minutes of video on. It's stupid. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 03:45 PM |
| 0 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.That tool looks like a tool. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 11:52 AM |
| -1 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Boots? | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 04:02 AM |
| 0 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Is he good? | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 04:01 AM |
| -1 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Who is Tyler? | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 02:01 AM |
| -3 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.The girls I am interested in usually have boyfriends, and they're not bullshitting. The last time I went out is when I was out of state and completely fucked up, hence this thread. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 01:46 AM |
| -6 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.For what reason do you make this judgment? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qo_vj2jb9Zs | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 01:08 AM |
| -5 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.How in the world does a guy show more status by simply walking in? That's absolutely ridiculous. I can walk in with the same body movements and shit and get BLOWN out. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 12:51 AM |
| 2 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?In other words, don't turn into a bitch. But you can be romantic/emotional and still be "alpha" . | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 12:49 AM |
| -2 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Send me some inner-game materials...please | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 12:48 AM |
| 1 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Great post, thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 12:47 AM |
| -3 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.She cheated because she was never over the guy who cheated on her years ago (her first boyfriend of 3 years). We moved in together, her life took a toll on her because she wasn't getting a job (her fault, tho), and she and I ultimately weren't compatible at all sexually which was the driving force behind why it ended. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 12:47 AM |
| -3 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Shit man, that wouldn't get you blown out of the water? Seems like a rude comment. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 11:24 PM |
| -10 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Haha, nah! | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 11:20 PM |
| -3 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.And how do I do that? How do I compete when he walks in and is taller so her natural instinct is to look at the taller man? | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 11:00 PM |
| -6 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.I know I am valuable doesn't mean I can compete with the 10s if I am a lower # by visuals alone. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 10:51 PM |
| -7 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Just because I am understanding they are BETTER looking comparitivelyd oesn't mean I treat them as such. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 10:48 PM |
| -14 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Pull the girls who I feel are better looking than I am. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 10:05 PM |
| -8 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Honestly, my ex was very attractive and she dated me for 2.5 years (until she cheated on me). It was pretty lucky though. Looking back on it, I did everything perfectly - I basically played it like I didn't want her, if I was with her made fun of her, was the center of the party constantly, etc. But that was college, it was much easier to do that. Now, out of school, when not many people know you from bar to bar, it's harder. Just gotta accept it, just like you may not talk to girls with D tits … | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 10:04 PM |
| -7 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Why shouldn't it be a factor? It's very obvious women want a tall man ideally. If they are an attractive girl to some degree and they can have options, why go for the shorter man? | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 08:50 PM |
| -2 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.I was out, not dressed up because I didn't want to be, at a few costume parties at bars. I was with my extremely nerdy roommate who I just moved in with, who kept extremely silent and in the background, so was essentially by myself. I don't remember what was said. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 08:40 PM |
| -9 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.I'm not butt-hurt, I just know what cards I'm dealt with. I have an outgoing, fun personality and a great sense of humor who deals with being short. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 08:34 PM |
| -5 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.It's pretty simple, I will approach a few girls. The one I'm interested in is usually taken. The other "less than gorgeous" ones I am completely disinterested in. Then, the single hot ones will talk but if a taller guy walks in they'll be interested in him. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 08:30 PM |
| -16 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Why would I want to settle? I rather challenge myself to get the higher number. My friends are taken, but they are with girls I find mediocore. I would much rather date a higher number, like I have. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 08:28 PM |
| 14 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?Yeah don't do pickup shit. Seriously, drop every fucking "pickup" thing you can and be confident in that she is your girl. She will want love now. Love her. Don't game her. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 08:20 PM |
| -5 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Why stop saying "I struggle with it" Yes, I use kino, I am flirtatious with every girl I practically meet. I hate the term "kino" by the way, it sounds so gay, how about "do you physically flirt with them?" Isolating, well, not so much because I try to build group rapport before I can pull one away. Also, I've noticed that (for eg, last night) the girls I approached and were interested in had boyfriends, the one who were into me and I wasn't were single. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 08:12 PM |
| -8 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.I don't have any in particular. I've just noticed I struggle with it. I can get them to laugh, talk, engage an entire group, but if someone else who is taller comes nearby they check them out. Guess it's similar to a small titted girl vs the big titted one who stands nearby. I'll check the bigger tits. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 08:07 PM |
| 8 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?That's better :) | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 08:06 PM |
| -13 | I am handsome, but 5'6". I've been told plenty of times this kills me.Well depends on the type of girl we are approaching. I tend to go for the 8/9/10 of the group. The others I just ignore. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 08:06 PM |
| 5 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?I would follow 1, 3, and a modified form of 4. Two is far too gamey. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 07:55 PM |
| 37 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?No, the game stops when you have one. Now, you develop your relationship. If you follow his advice you will fucking ruin everything. Continue being "confident" but you have to start being more open. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 07:54 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Thank you. | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Meeting up with an ex-gf after 2 years of no contact. Any tips?Don't. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Post first date tips and adviceWait one day for no contact, then call her to set up another date. If she doesn't pick up, text her, "Hey, call me back whenever you're free." And if she calls you back, be yourself, tell her you want to see her again, tell her the plans, and if she says no ask her if another time would work better, if she's vague say "No problem, let me know if you want to get together sometime," and say bye. If she accepts, you're good. Alpha goes after what he wants without caring. Beta thinks and ponders and… | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?How do you define "alpha" moves? | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 03:00 AM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Except recent studies show that abstaining from masturbation for an extended period of time puts your testosterone levels to that of a child. It's a placebo effect except for the very short term. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 01:35 AM |
| 2 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Wish my ex would apologize for treating me like shit the last few months, and talking to her ex behind my back. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 12:44 AM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?I've had girls straight up tell me that if I were taller they'd date me. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 12:03 AM |
| 2 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?I have moments of it, but I can't maintain it 24/7. Any idea? | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a dry-streak, or meeting women who aren't captivating you?Surprisingly, I genuinely don't think any. The last girl I was with was hot but she was the one with major issues. Same girl who invited me to her place, got upset I didn't respond, etc. So lose the weight, see a therapist, and then start fresh? | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a dry-streak, or meeting women who aren't captivating you?I have insecurities stemming from my ex, and I still adore her despite damaging me since she destroyed a lot of my life emotionally. I also am not happy with myself physically despite being a genearlly attractive person. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?5'6" as a male sucks. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a dry-streak, or meeting women who aren't captivating you?This is from the last X number of girls I went out with, this held true for every single one. Check this: Last girl I dated, went out ten times. Slow mover to sex, she finally invites me up to her place, gets a movie, gets us alcohol, tells me to bring a change of clothes. In the end, she said "No, next time," to a few things we wanted to do. The day after she texts me that she lost interest because she, "Can't trust me, I didn't assume she may have been a victim of sexual abuse since 1 in 4 wom… | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a dry-streak, or meeting women who aren't captivating you?I have "natural" game so I go up, say something ridiculous, have fun, tease them, etc. But it takes me a little bit to get in frame. And I do approach, but nowhere near as much as I used to - just seeing the same shit from the same girls over, and over, and over - get's stupid. Every girl has an issue, sexual hangups, massive baggage, or commitment issues. Then the ones that don't are not attractive enough in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?That's the thing - I know I have a good face, a great personality and career, but I'm 30 lbs overweight and I need that to go before I am genuinely confident in myself. I'm at 23% bodyfat, despite lifting well, and need to get to 10%. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a dry-streak, or meeting women who aren't captivating you?It's probably because I don't go out "sarging" around and what not, nor approach anywhere near as often, because I moved to a new area I'm deathly unhappy with and am not sure if I have real confidence or not (I can talk to anyone, but I always second guess myself). EDIT: And my "game" is probably off, I have fun and dick around but I don't qualify or whatever bullshit it is. I find most of the PUA shit to be so salespitchy to insecure men who buy a product to make themselves feel bette. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a dry-streak, or meeting women who aren't captivating you?My qualifiers - is she career oriented, does she smoke, does she have a good family mindset, and is she uptight? The rest is not of interest to me, except for if she has baggage. EDIT: I'm also shallow, and lose interest if I don't think they're good looking enough. My ex was fucking gorgeous, smart, same top passionate school as I was, good family, etc. She ended up cheating on me because I ignored the one major red flag - baggage from an ex. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 06:11 PM |
| 0 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?I have a weird issue - I am confident, but I feel my physical stature holds me back. I am handsome, but at 23% body fat despite being strong, I could stand to lose 30 lbs. I want to lose it then approach, and not focus on chicks in the meantime. I have dated lovely women in the past, gone on dates, and messed around a bit - but don't have the next relationship yet, that upsets me. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a dry-streak, or meeting women who aren't captivating you?Could simply not being in what I want to be physically (my shape) be the mood killer? | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 05:49 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?I am at 23% bodyfat. I want to get down to 12%, 30 lbs. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a dry-streak, or meeting women who aren't captivating you?Women who are able to smile while making fun of me then talk dirty openly while being intelligent. OR, a really, really sweet girl. Both without neediness but desire to be communicative frequently. I've met two girls in my life, one I dated, who were like this. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 03:33 PM |
| 19 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Isn't abundance exhausting? | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 02:51 PM |
| -2 | I post research articles to support my claims that men are at a disadvantage, yet I'm downvoted and said I'm a misogynist while they don't address what I linked to.Sadly, logic is downvoted. Using their technique of attacking the person gets downvoted. Any idea what to do? Even in my relationships, they must feel they won. The only thing I will do in my next relationship is just ignore them. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/12 02:25 PM |
| -2 | I post research articles to support my claims that men are at a disadvantage, yet I'm downvoted and said I'm a misogynist while they don't address what I linked to.24 | /r/MensRights | 17/10/12 04:24 AM |
| -9 | I post research articles to support my claims that men are at a disadvantage, yet I'm downvoted and said I'm a misogynist while they don't address what I linked to.My bad but it isn't that far from the truth. But when they say most men are assholes it is whatever. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/12 01:16 AM |
| 0 | I post research articles to support my claims that men are at a disadvantage, yet I'm downvoted and said I'm a misogynist while they don't address what I linked to.Each male hired in the last two years quit. Each girl received some sort of promotion. I am new but am seeing some Shit already | /r/MensRights | 17/10/12 12:03 AM |
| -6 | I post research articles to support my claims that men are at a disadvantage, yet I'm downvoted and said I'm a misogynist while they don't address what I linked to.Why do they do this and men don't? | /r/MensRights | 16/10/12 10:05 PM |
| -4 | I post research articles to support my claims that men are at a disadvantage, yet I'm downvoted and said I'm a misogynist while they don't address what I linked to.I ripped on a female cheater. I guess we should empathize with shitty people. | /r/MensRights | 16/10/12 10:04 PM |
| -4 | I post research articles to support my claims that men are at a disadvantage, yet I'm downvoted and said I'm a misogynist while they don't address what I linked to.She's returned similar sayings before, nothing that actually bothers me. But for her to go and say something really bugs me. Worse is that I have two female bosses above me, and when I told them this and said I feel it's overthetop that "You're the best" made her uncomfortable they said, "It doesn't matter." | /r/MensRights | 16/10/12 08:56 PM |
| 7 | I post research articles to support my claims that men are at a disadvantage, yet I'm downvoted and said I'm a misogynist while they don't address what I linked to.I really don't get it. The few women I have shown these type of articles to in real life say it's, 'Bullshit, [I] hate women, etc.' Then they call me a few choice names. Like I said to the poster, in reverse, if we dismissed it we'd be done. Hell, at work the other day I told a female colleague she was the best. I got written up for it since it "Made her uncomfortable." | /r/MensRights | 16/10/12 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What tips do you have for hitting on girls who are working or very busy (e.g. servers, cashiers, baristas, etc.)?Don't bother. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Any material without "gamey/routine" sounding points?You're getting me hard :) haha. I mean "seduction" is exhausting, especially if you're just trying to get a relationship. It's annoying when you meet good women who then bring out sexual insecurities, emotional hangups, trust issues, etc. This is all after both of my ex's who I adored cheated on me with guys who cheated on them years ago. It's depriving, and I get to the point where I am okay just being single. Plus, as I mentioned, I'm not fully happy with myself. I want to get to that ideal sh… | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Any material without "gamey/routine" sounding points?Thanks so much! I want to work on myself to get into a physical shape I've desired to be in for so long before I work on seduction. Funny thing, I remember the ballsiest openers have the best success: I went up to a chick in a bar and said, "Let me ask you a question. If a guy as handsome as me came up to a girl as adorable as you and said, "I want you to come with me tonight" what would you say?" She replied, "Well, it depends on if he buys me a drink." I laughed, and said, "Well, aren't you th… | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Any material without "gamey/routine" sounding points?So what would you have done differently? I tried escalating the fuck out of her, and she actually initiated 90% of contact outside of our dates. I made it clear from the get-go I wasn't there to be a friend, she verbally and physically was very datey to me. Besides her clear hangup on an ex, what should I have done? I mean I really need to know what to do differently. I can open conversations with nearly everyone, but the success rate to a lay is lower than I want. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Any material without "gamey/routine" sounding points?Thanks, I should've bailed early once it seemed apparent that she was a tease, only suggesting but rarely acting, and there were red flags (eg: skeptical of compliments, isn't for French kissing per se, said slow mover even if she talks about sex, and when there is a chance to fuck she slows it all down and then says how 25% of women are abused and I should've been aware she might have been one of them). My intention out of this is a relationship, not a sexscapade. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Any material without "gamey/routine" sounding points?Thank you for the great post. If I may ask, what would you do to a girl who, over the course of ten dates, you escalate with but never can get to the point where she lets you do anything more than kissing her and on her lips, despite being a self-proclaimed sex lover. Then, when she does invite you over and you make a move (while making sure to be careful not to go too far, making sure I know what she's cool with and not cool with - by her saying "no, next time" or moaning) and you finger her fo… | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Any material without "gamey/routine" sounding points?Thank you. The whole community, at a quick glance, seems so circlejerky bashing. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Tip: Trust your intuition, all the time.Yep. Care to share your stories? Mine sent massive IOIs over 8 dates. 9th date, her initiation, she invites me over. Freaked out because I was "too dominant" because it reminded her of a bad past experience. Then it became clear she has commitment, trust, intimacy, etc issues. I said, "Eh, let's see," went out for a 9th date and then it came crashing down. Despite her showing massive interest again, she went out with another dude the next day and ignored me on Sunday. Not sure why, at all. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 03:42 PM |
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