I'm not an AFC, whatsoever, I am not bad with women. But when you approach a ton of women and get a ton of numbers and deal with a ton of flakes and then a ton of weird women and then the ones who do go out with you are generally incompatible thus never want to go out with me again and then when you find the one or two who you are genuinely excited to meet up with who are still flakey, it gets old, irritating, and bothersome.