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Non-identical. Chances are you'll share hair color, maybe eye similarity, maybe vocal similarity, probably height. But you won't really look alike, much less "exactly alike". Source: Am a non-identical (fraternal) twin.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 12:51 PM
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Right, so the mindset is intended to remove excuses. If you say that things that happen to you are your fault, then it removes your ability to blame things that don't help you. Obviously using this mindset, one could immediately deduce that someone wrecking your parked car in your driveway isn't actually your fault. But it allows you to see the difference much clearer, because you are making a distinction between internal causes and external causes, rather than putting external blame on everythi…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 04:09 PM
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Perhaps I didn't make myself clear enough. The idea is that the mindset itself leads to prosperity through clearer actions, just as stoicism itself should lead to clearer decisions. By understanding that one's situation is a direct result of their actions or lack thereof, he should be able to then start making decisions on how to change it. Because the fact of the matter is that it's not simple for everyone. There isn't one clear slab of advice for every person in every situation. But if you app…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 03:59 PM
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If you want to ask for advice, don't brush off everything everyone says to you. Here's what you should do: Stop giving a fuck that you're 5'6" tall. Go get a good body. Go get women. The problem you have is that you want to blame your failure to attract women on something you know you can't change. That way, it's not your fault. I'm sorry to say it, but everything that sucks about your life is a result of your shitty actions. This applies universally. Got fired from your job? You didn't live up …
/r/askTRP28/12/15 08:57 PM
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Hey GLO when are you going to put out more sleeveless alpha shirts? I want to buy but I'm waiting for a sleeveless design to come out
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:47 AM
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Eh I guess? I mean, it seems to me like forcing yourself to be as silent as possible in every verbal interaction seems kinda useless. There are times to be silent, like when someone isn't giving you the response you want and you just stay silent and let them give you a new response. But just staying silent for no reason? Nah. Also applying dread game on your own dick really doesn't do anything for you. I dunno why these NoFap people keep trying to insist it's the cure-all panacea for everything.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 01:22 PM
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You could also just ask for opinions on something you actually know/care about. Like I wear suits and ties a lot, so sometimes I'll point out some fashion accessory they have and ask if they got it at some such store, or I'll ask them what color tie I should wear tomorrow, out of a few choices.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:00 AM
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You don't. It's been said time and again. You are not a missionary for TRP. When someone is ready for the information here, they'll find it themselves. Over 100,000 men should be testament to that.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 08:11 PM
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Don't read too much into what women say. Some girls use "cute", some "adorable", some "hawt". Regardless of what words they use, they'll never tell you to your face if they think you're attractive because women are afraid of rejection. Just advance, and if you get rejected, then at least you know where you stand.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 07:16 AM
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You do know public transportation is a thing right? Kids aren't the only ones who get on a bus every day.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 07:21 PM
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^ This. New guys don't seem to understand that—yes, if you've already established some value in her eyes, she will make time for you if she wants you enough—but if you match with a girl on Tinder, you can't get frustrated when she doesn't want to go on a date if you only have one day free in an entire two week span.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 02:46 AM
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Yes, men are supposed to talk to their close male friends about problems (instead of talking to women who simply can't comprehend male issues). No, stoicism is not "newer than we think". Stoicism has been a quality associated with men and masculinity since its original articulation in Ancient Greece. There have always been men who are stoic and those who aren't, and the 19th century was certainly full of the quiet, soft, non-stoic type of men. It doesn't mean that stoicism wasn't a known masculi…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 11:19 PM
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Salsa dancing Go fishing or boating Beach Swimming Club and just dance instead of hanging at the bar.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 09:39 PM
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Once is an incident. Twice, a coincidence. Three times, a pattern.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 01:19 AM
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Yeah this ain't a shit test, man. You over-reacted to something that doesn't really matter to begin with, and someone called you out on it.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 09:15 PM
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She's dressing to impress.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 06:09 PM
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Don't break it completely until you have a fuck-date lined up with J. Then feel free to go ghost-mode no-contact with B. Only call her if you feel like having sex with her. But don't answer her calls or texts. Don't break it completely with B because then if you don't get a fuck-date with J, you call B, leverage her into giving you sex without you having to give her presents. Then work on J.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 12:58 AM
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Don't give her too much of your time. Be awesome when you do give her your time. Do what you want because compromises means no one's happy. That's about it.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 01:50 AM
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Simple. Don't do shit for free.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 10:57 PM
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You miss the point then; this post wasn't to highlight "lessons from Uno". It was to highlight the simple concept (as one poster above put it) of "unhappiness caused by focusing on the gap between what is and what should be". "Should", "ought to" and "feel" are all words that indicate a passive sense of entitlement, and as we all know, men are made, not born. Men are entitled to nothing; if we want something, we have to put in work. Analogies in general are never necessary; they are tools that a…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:36 PM
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That's my view on it. I feel like since I've made it clear that I want to go on a date, that if she suggests bringing her friends, it's her indication that she doesn't want to accept a date, and is being polite.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 03:19 AM
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Often times, seemingly unrelated concepts fit together in such a way to spark new clarity. Belligerence, I've found, doesn't typically benefit a debate one way or another.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:17 AM
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While I understand the frustration you have behind flaky behaviour (as I too have been stood up on numerous occasions), shaming it isn't the answer. At best, you've called out a woman on her flakiness, and life will go on because no one else really cares about your love life; at worst, you'll spark an argument about why she's a "strong independent woman". Essentially, be stoic. If you get stood up, feel free to text and ask where she is and why she didn't come. But at the same time, next her and…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:25 PM
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Although it might be nice to point that out to women, I don't think it will help much. Women are capable of solving problems and are capable of intelligence as much as men; the difference lies in how we approach these things, and that women are not naturally capable of the logical rationale that guides men. To point out to a woman that we're free to reward or deprive her based on her actions is futile simply on the basis that women will see the fact that you've even decided to point it out to he…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:21 PM
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No. The idea here is not to "hate the game". If you hate the game of dating, it's because you don't understand it yet. Don't hate women for being what they are. Instead, realize that that's just how life is, and work around it. This is the core concept of good gender dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 04:24 PM
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Look for the four people who have clothes on (weird-ass cosplay doesn't count). Tip: They're not near the center of the photo.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 04:49 AM
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TRP is not a lifestyle where you just read some articles, go to the gym once a week, and are suddenly alpha. It's simply a set of observed truths regarding sexuality and intergender relationships. The downfall of this set of truths is the point at which people start talking about "The Red Pill" like some sort of new paleo diet. And certainly it happens at the point that someone tries to market this, to women no less, who simply do not possess the same rational mindset for which these discussions…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 01:44 PM
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Read it again. There wasn't any concern trolling.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 12:35 PM
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Oh Jesus Christ, of course some people do look amazing in red. It doesn't matter how many things red stands for, certain skin tones will not look good in red. This is about how to dress nice, and there's no one-size-fits-all rule (haha get it?) when it comes to color, because no one is the exact same skin tone.
/r/seduction12/12/14 03:00 AM
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Your quick tips aren't bad, except for the first one. Red is only great if it complements your skin tone. Guys who have naturally rosier skin (and/or are ginger haired), don't wear red. You'll look like a tomato. I have this problem, so I counter it by wearing a lot of blues instead.
/r/seduction11/12/14 11:26 PM
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So you put in all this effort and didn't have sex with her?
/r/seduction10/12/14 04:28 PM
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I think what a lot of y'all are forgetting and aren't understanding is the huge barrage of shit Julien has been slung through in the past couple weeks. Banned from multiple countries, attacked internationally by major media outlets and feminists worldwide, very likely now jobless. A lot of you who are saying what he did wrong and what he should have done: yes, in theory, you are right. In practice, I think you'd find that everyone has a breaking point. The only people who could get that much glo…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:19 PM
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Ballroom dancing, boxing, keep a journal, go exploring. Whatever you happen to have an interest in, do it. Reading and painting aren't exactly boring. I do both of those as well. Do you go to art shows as well? Or show your work in galleries?
/r/askTRP16/11/14 02:22 PM
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If I remember right, 2/3 rule is that you reciprocate twice for every 3 things you get. So if she claims her love for you three times, you tell her you love her back twice. She does three nice things for you, you take her out on a date twice. Basically you make sure to give less of yourself than what you receive.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 02:32 AM
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Don't ask, tell. If you paid for them, and you didn't give them to her as a gift, then there is absolutely no reason why she should be allowed to keep them (or throw them away or get rid of them or whatever). They're yours, so get them back. Just say "Hi, you have my sunglasses. I'd like them back."
/r/askTRP09/11/14 05:37 PM
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Wow, I never thought of that one. I'll just go tell the puberty fairy to hurry up and give me a deep voice. I've only been waiting 20 years.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 03:46 PM
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If it helps you, just tell yourself you don't have to get into a relationship if you don't want to. And make that clear to them. It's not a self-esteem issue, because it was a hurdle I had to get over as well. Just go for casual dating, casual sex. And be up front about it. If she doesn't understand, she's not worth your time anyway.
/r/seduction06/11/14 01:56 AM
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As soon as she doesn't respond to you after the first message, don't send more. Wait a day, then either delete her, or choose what to do. But certainly don't keep messaging her. She's not worth your time.
/r/seduction05/11/14 09:01 PM
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That's because logical men don't think in ultimatums. Just because we're civilized people who recognize that we live in a society that thinks women and men can equally vote and go to college doesn't mean we are pro-feminism. Feminism is inherently an institution of women who want the social and economic benefits of men and women, and they enjoy it even better if they can also reduce the power of men because they hate men.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 09:13 PM
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Smiling less doesn't backfire on you, because the advice is not to glare. After all, no woman wants to hang around with a guy who looks like his panties are in a knot 24/7. It's about staying relaxed, and most importantly, smiling selectively. The idea behind it is that if you smile at everyone, it shows that people don't need to do much to gain your approval. If you smile selectively, then people know that you're not easily impressed, and when you do smile at something they said or did, it's a …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 05:12 PM
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Plus (coming from a 5'8" guy who games 8s in regularly), you just get used to looking for different girls. Not less attractive ones, but different. The 6'1" will attract probably girls who are around my height (like 5'6"-ish). Obviously, I don't want a girl who will tower over me in heels anyway, so I tend towards the shorter (and there are tons of them out there) girls who stand naturally at 5'1" to 5'4".
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 01:31 PM
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Oh, and save face. Don't let yourself be humiliated. If/when a girl says to you "I'd rather us just be friends", then outright say "I'm not looking to be a friend right now. Call or text me if you change your mind." And walk away. Be done with it. She'll respect you a hell of a lot more than she will if you begrudgingly decide to just be her friend when you really want to fuck her.
/r/seduction02/11/14 01:27 PM
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Incoming bluntness: You said it right there in your title: you keep acting like a friend. What you're doing is that you're so needy to have the validation of the women you seek, that you act like one of them. When a woman wants to go shopping for new shoes, she takes her gay best friend, or she takes her female friends. In your case, she takes you, because you're acting like one of the other two she'd take. Other people talk about how the solution is to "just touch her", and while that is, in so…
/r/seduction01/11/14 11:48 PM
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Thank you! I'm kind of aiming to look about the level of this, and definitely not this, if that helps for more specific advice.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 12:43 AM
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Sorry about that! Thanks for the notice. Deleting this thread, re-posting to /r/asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:54 PM
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That seems to make sense. Should I also worry about jumping up weight too quickly? I used to work in construction for five years where I'd be lifting 100lb bags of concrete to and from the site all day, but I stopped doing that a year ago, so I feel like I should be building up to heavier weights rather than trying to jump to the 40lb etc weights. Is this true?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 10:49 PM
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Really? I thought it was good for me though. I see a lot of the guys who have huge arms at my gym doing alternating curls up to a set of 100 (like, A 1, B 1, A 2, B 2, A 3, ... , A 100, B 100). Is that detrimental to me?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 10:46 PM
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Nope. Girls always want guys who are desired by other girls. Unless you start ruining the reputation of the girls you're seeing to other girls (talking shit, etc), you're fine.
/r/seduction31/10/14 01:35 PM
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Flirting is a lot less of what you say, and a lot more of how you say it. Example: Friendly: "Hi, I'm John." (Smile, aloof, kinda looking just around in general) Flirty: "Hi, I'm John." ("knowing" smile, eye contact right with her, body language that says you and her are the only people in the room). Generally, flirting comes through behavior more than speech. Good eye contact with strong eyes (like you're more than just acknowledging her presence), Body angled towards her, leaning in, kino, et …
/r/seduction31/10/14 01:25 PM
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Oops, accidental mistype; meant to say "girls who say they have boyfriends" (because it's a really common tactic for girls to say they have boyfriends when they really don't). But the way I look at it, you have your morals, and it shouldn't affect whether or not you think other people have skill. There are those who have sex, and those who don't. If she's willing to cheat on her boyfriend with you, then it means she'd do it with someone else and you might as well jump on the opportunity.
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:45 PM
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Nope. If you can learn how to fuck like a porn star, you've basically got shit down.
/r/seduction28/10/14 11:49 AM
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Ask her out on a date. Openers are kinda dumb, only because they get you into this mindset of treating every interaction like an assembly line that makes Model T's, and they can sense this. If you really want to open her instead of just saying hi, this one has never failed me: "You look familiar. Have we met before?"
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:12 AM
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It might be. But it's definitely something to be aware of. There are too many guys who already have low self esteems, and apologizing doesn't help.
/r/seduction27/10/14 11:17 AM
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Don't apologize though. You think she's attractive, she should be thankful for the opportunity to be talking to you. And the general "you're [cute/pretty/gorgeous/hot]" thing only works some of the time. Most girls are so used to being told that, it's almost pedastalizing her.
/r/seduction27/10/14 10:26 AM
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In all my interactions, I literally just walk up and say "Hi, I'm [name]." She's laying on the grass on the quad? Lay down next to her, joke around, say "Nice first date we're having, huh?" She's walking? Walk up to her, say hi, tell her you want to walk her to class and chat her up.
/r/seduction27/10/14 10:25 AM
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No. The reason she'd be "not into it" is because she's seeing whether or not you're a man. She's shit-testing you, and if you just keep frame and don't break down or bend to her, you'll do much better.
/r/seduction27/10/14 10:21 AM
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Something that has never failed me (instead of beating around the bush), is go in for a close hug, say "Look at me...now close your eyes." Then just do it. Works every time.
/r/seduction27/10/14 10:19 AM
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Totally not trolling. Thank you for the advice!
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 04:56 PM
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Never thought about multis before. Thanks for the tip. I do work out at home though (20 push-ups, 100 crunches, 2 minute plank, 2 minute squats twice a day). I also ballroom dance. Is that enough?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 03:56 PM
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No, like we were doing what I'm pretty sure was missionary position. Her pussy is not where a guy's penis is. It's like in between where the balls are and the asshole (or at least, in the dark that's where it feels like it is). So I didn't understand how to get into a comfortable position to do this other than lifting her lower back up a bit.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:22 PM
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I did penetrate. But whatever position either of us thought was right obviously wasn't because it was super uncomfortable (leg cramps too much stretching to get comfortable, etc).
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:10 PM
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Wait, you have to bring her legs up? Oh that makes so much more sense now, damn.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:10 PM
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Because I didn't have any condoms (I wasn't planning on this happening because I'm inexperienced).
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:26 PM
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Hell yeah. It's fucking cold outside.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 02:57 AM
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Validation is nice. But advice for the next few is better.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 09:40 PM
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I will definitely keep this in mind. Thanks for the advice. I don't know if it was clear in the post, but I was definitely trying to come off as not always available, by being the one who says I'm going to go do something, and ask if she wants to come along for it.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 08:06 PM
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What if I want the relationship though? Obviously I'm still looking out for number 1, but is it really so bad if it's a healthy captain/first mate scenario? I guess I still just don't quite understand the sentiment behind not doing LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 07:39 PM
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I usually text right after the conversation is over, only to let her know who it is, and to set up a date. Calling can work this way too. Leave a message. Call soon. Anyone who tells you that you have to wait a day or more before contact is dumb.
/r/seduction22/09/14 02:21 AM
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Just drop it. If you want her, and you've made advances, and she doesn't seem to want you back, then just let it go at that. Especially if she's into someone else. Let her sort shit out and come to you if she really wants you. And in the meantime, move on.
/r/seduction11/09/14 10:27 AM
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Except that's kinda bullshit. If you go out with friends and tell them you're driving, then they have a right to think you're an asshole when you don't drive them home at the end of the night. Keeping your word is better than anything else.
/r/seduction18/08/14 12:18 PM
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I have a small group of about three or so really close female friends who I go to for advice ocassionally. But for the most part I just trust my own intuition on things; it's worked out pretty well so far.
/r/seduction01/08/14 02:15 AM
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Ballroom dancing Swing dancing Learn languages Paint
/r/seduction27/07/14 11:03 PM
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It can be hard for some of us though. Like I personally do ballroom, swing, and latin. Whenever I go to clubs or frat parties on my campus, I find it really hard to just get up and dance because I'm not at all used to the music or really vague style of dancing there (usually it's like techno or dubstep or some other sort of electronic music being played). Any tips or advice for someone who isn't all that great at just "letting loose"?
/r/seduction19/04/14 01:12 PM
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With all due respect, I think you're wrong. I'm sure your sister is very pretty, but I'm also sure that if it's true that she gets approached during the day as much as you claim, then the guys are probably stumbling or generally not being real men. Because the truth is, girls that are generally considered 8-10 get approached way less than 4-6. And when they do get approached, the guy usually forgets how to English, or loses his composure. If she turns down any and every cold approach then she's …
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:04 PM
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You're 16. It really doesn't matter that much, and teenage girls are shallow and dumb anyway. But here's something that someone said to me when I was 16: If she's willing to leave her boyfriend for you, have the mindset that she'll just as soon leave you for someone else.
/r/seduction22/03/14 01:20 AM
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I haven't been there. Enlighten me?
/r/seduction17/03/14 11:19 PM
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Just do the same thing. Go up to the group. Be friendly and animated and all. Introduce yourself to everyone, and then direct your attention towards the one girl you're interested in. Unless it's an immature group of schoolgirls who wants to all push you away, you'll do just fine.
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:16 PM
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