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Thanks for this, I'll keep it in mind.
/r/seduction09/08/17 06:03 PM
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Thanks so much for this, when I meant on her phone I mean she could just be texting or on the internet or on an app etc. It's really tough for me as even though I've been trying for many years now I don't have much luck with girls, it's really really discouraging....
/r/seduction09/08/17 06:03 PM
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Realised the typo I'll fix it haha
/r/seduction06/08/17 08:28 PM
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I definitely need to work on having more fun. I realized that in the date and did my best to get her laughing and stuff and to walk and see what was happening int he area we went. It's very hard to find dates though thats why I get worked up when they don't go too well.
/r/seduction14/06/17 09:00 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I know what you mean by neediness must go away, but its hard to not be needy when you have had little success with women and are kind of prepared to date anything. I'm guessing once I get some kind of success it would later become easier. With your second point I see what you mean, it just frustrates me so much that everyone around me seems to treat sex as though its a normal thing and I've hardly touched a girl, it just is so infuriating and terrible to me. It seems as th…
/r/seduction14/06/17 08:55 PM
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You do have a point, but it feels horrible to be 20 and still a virgin if you understand what I mean and I'm kind of dedicating as much time as possible this summer to losing it. Thanks a lot for your reply I kind of see what you mean as I need to make it more fun for both of us, at times I'm not a very fun person so I guess I need to work on that.
/r/seduction14/06/17 08:51 PM
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Thanks for your response. It's not that I was waiting to make a move, I was actually seeing someone else at the time and then was quite preoccupied with academic work.
/r/seduction02/06/17 12:52 PM
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Yes but the thing is I've been trying that for ages and it's not working now. I want to attempt a much more serious methodical approach.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:53 PM
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I'm hoping that going to a top university can land me a good job after graduating.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:52 PM
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I thought about that but one my parents are still supporting me, I just feel wrong about using the money for that. I would rather wait until I graduate and then use my own money for that. I don't really have any other plans for the three months and I might as well use it to accomplish a major goal of mine.
/r/seduction18/04/17 09:11 PM
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Thank you :) I'll begin to look at activities I could join where I could meet girls over the summer.
/r/seduction18/04/17 08:28 PM
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I've just got it on my mind so much that I haven't had sex yet, I spend so much time thinking about what I'm missing out on, and I feel as though I'm the only one.
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:39 AM
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Would you say I should use tinder for this?
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:38 AM
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I'm considering this, but currently I'm a student so I don't want to use my parents money on this, I want to earn it myself, so I've got to wait another two years to graduate so I can have the money to do this.
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:38 AM
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The thing is, my standards are already pretty low, I don't care about what a girls physical appearance is like, as long as she's not like fat to be honest, even a few extra pounds I don't care about. And thanks for your response and your advice, but I actually met this girl from hitting on her last year, but I've not had any luck with her and I think we're just friends.
/r/seduction14/02/17 10:01 PM
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Seemed good, I think ive read about it before, pretty much revolves around the themes of confidence.
/r/seduction08/02/17 11:46 PM
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I thought this too, but I'm not letting it stop me, who cares?? THere are thousands of chicks on campus.
/r/seduction08/02/17 11:41 PM
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why red?
/r/seduction08/02/17 11:39 PM
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Just keep at it, there's nothing you can do to fix it, maybe you're over thinking it. In any case keep improving yourself and trying your hardest. I'm in that struggle as well that I try really hard to look good, work out, have a good life but I hardly seem to get women, so it's a shame but I keep at it. Remember, the harder the fight, the greater the prize.
/r/seduction08/02/17 11:38 PM
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Why not go up to her and try to dance or introduce yourself as soon as you make eye contact? Many clubs are huge and it may be hard to see her again if you go away.
/r/seduction08/02/17 11:37 PM
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Generally, if a girl is looking for a bit of loving, I can tell from her body stance, as in she'll be looking around a bit, she won't be dancing very closed with her friends and will be more open. Keep giving glances her way and see if there's any response, bear in mind that there's probably loads of other girls at the club.
/r/seduction08/02/17 11:36 PM
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No not at all, sometimes they don't even notice you. This girl I was seeing at one point actually did that, I saw her in the street, but she turned and looked down some side alley as I was going by. I thought oh shit. Anyhow I check my phone later and the text I had sent her prior to me seeing her was to ask her out on a date, she replied and said yes, prior to me seeing her on the street. I never asked her about this, but she must have just looked the other way by chance. You're putting too muc…
/r/seduction08/02/17 11:34 PM
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After all, unless the interaction goes well, no point getting the number as it'll be useless. I'm starting to adopt a 'fuck it' attitude and just go up to any girl that catches my eye and try to strike a conversation with her.
/r/seduction08/02/17 11:33 PM
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I get this issue occasionally as well, just change girls some will be flakers some won't dont worry about it and don't let them phase you. The other thing I think I want to work on is the quality of my interactions, if when you meet them they are laughing, enjoy themselves and seem happy, they're likely to want to meet you again, if they don't seem happy they probably won't want to meet you again.
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:16 PM
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Go for it, but just try not to get the whole group to turn against you.
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:12 PM
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will write this one down.
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:08 PM
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Hey it's 'my name' from x club, how have you been. Then I'll try to relate it to something we talked about from the night before, i.e. this one girl told me she smashed up her phone recently so i asked her 'have you managed to unsmash your phone recently' or, 'hows your new job been treating you'
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:07 PM
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I live in a city with good transport, but I guess this is applicable if she's going to drive home or whatever. I'll usually kiss her on the cheek and be like 'it was good to hang out with you, see you soon' before she leaves.
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:01 PM
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This is why I like to work out, as it increases my confidence, I've been working out for many years now, and I can see it has made a difference, but I don't have the genetics to put on a lot of muscle.
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:00 PM
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Thank you for your help. Hips next time then, thing is though I didn't know if she would be ready to grind on me aha so I tried to move in a bit closer to her to try and see. But that's when she got hesitant.
/r/seduction27/01/17 08:12 PM
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I'll keep working at it, I honestly don't care anymore if women reject me now, I'll just keep at it and keep going. Thanks a lot for your response.
/r/seduction15/01/17 11:35 PM
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I talk to them, find out what they do, about their lives etc see if theyre interesting and if we can talk well. If so I asked them out, but after 2 years I only managed to get to meet 2 girls, I managed to kiss both of them but I never got a second date afterwards. I also managed to ask out another 3 girls that agreed to meet with me, but as the day approached they unmatched me. Often girls will talk to me and play the game that they have too much work to do and make it hard for us to arrange a …
/r/seduction15/01/17 11:34 PM
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I think i heard about somewhere you can get professionally taken photos done, I think I'll look into say a professional photography shop nearby, thanks you might have a point.
/r/seduction15/01/17 11:33 PM
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I'll try not to focus on it, but it's at the back of my mind all the time, its really frustrating for me argh, I will try to hit on at least one girl tomorrow, whether it be at Uni, or on the street.
/r/seduction15/01/17 11:32 PM
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No not at all, I don't brag, It's true that I focus on material things, but I think I only started that way because I thought it would improve my situation with women. It has a little but still, I feel as though there must be something magical I'm missing. Thanks for your response
/r/seduction15/01/17 11:31 PM
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I already pay for tinder and spend at least an hour each day swiping, and maybe if I'm lucky get a match or two, but often the girls don't respond or will flake on me if I make a date. I'll try even harder to put myself out there, but I've also got to balance that with extra curricular stuff as well as studying. It's my dream to get a top job when I graduate to be honest and that does take priority....but still sometimes I feel as though I only work so hard to try and attract women.
/r/seduction14/01/17 02:31 AM
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Looks really good thanks man ! Changed my profile to see if fresh pictures work, since it's been a while since I got a match.
/r/seduction23/11/16 10:46 AM
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Care to share some more on how you did it ? Id love to be in your position, as i turn 20 soon and would love to have my first. Thanks !
/r/seduction22/11/16 07:54 PM
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Care to share some more on how you did it ? Id love to be in your position, as i turn 20 soon and would love to have my first. Thanks !
/r/seduction22/11/16 07:54 PM
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Thank you for your advice !
/r/seduction22/11/16 07:11 PM
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Yes ?
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:32 PM
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It seems like a good way to meet girls, and you know the girls on there are also looking for someone.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:32 PM
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It seems like a good way to meet girls, and you know the girls on there are also looking for someone.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:32 PM
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In a club I'll just roam and look to see if I make eye contact, I spend a good while roaming usually every time I go out. If I make it I'll go and save with her and talk to her a bit. Day time I like to use the environment to strike the conversation eg were near to a university " hey by any chance do you go to x university?" Or if she's carrying shopping from a certain store " do you know where the nearest x shop is ?" And from there have a conversation, if it works And she seems vaguely into me…
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:31 PM
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In a club I'll just roam and look to see if I make eye contact, I spend a good while roaming usually every time I go out. If I make it I'll go and save with her and talk to her a bit. Day time I like to use the environment to strike the conversation eg were near to a university " hey by any chance do you go to x university?" Or if she's carrying shopping from a certain store " do you know where the nearest x shop is ?" And from there have a conversation, if it works And she seems vaguely into me…
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:31 PM
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In a club I'll just roam and look to see if I make eye contact, I spend a good while roaming usually every time I go out. If I make it I'll go and save with her and talk to her a bit. Day time I like to use the environment to strike the conversation eg were near to a university " hey by any chance do you go to x university?" Or if she's carrying shopping from a certain store " do you know where the nearest x shop is ?" And from there have a conversation, if it works And she seems vaguely into me…
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:31 PM
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In a club I'll just roam and look to see if I make eye contact, I spend a good while roaming usually every time I go out. If I make it I'll go and save with her and talk to her a bit. Day time I like to use the environment to strike the conversation eg were near to a university " hey by any chance do you go to x university?" Or if she's carrying shopping from a certain store " do you know where the nearest x shop is ?" And from there have a conversation, if it works And she seems vaguely into me…
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:31 PM
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Sorry what do you mean ?
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:27 PM
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You have a good point I was thinking about this today. Do you have any tips for me or a resource to teach me how ?
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:27 PM
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In what context, in a club, day game, or tinder?
/r/seduction17/11/16 01:16 AM
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