Dedicating entire summer to losing virginity

edrew1995 · 2017-04-26T00:24:28+00:00

I wouldn't dedicate a summer to it like maybe take up clubs to meet girls there. I'm also a 20-year-old virgin but don't make such a big deal out of it otherwise it will be unbearable until you lose it.

Thoroughway11117 · 2017-04-26T00:34:07+00:00

Go to the gym and gain some self esteem boosts from that instead of behind a screen. Going to book shops is a good idea but in practice its more difficult because people tend to be there with one goal in mind and thats to read/find their book. So join a bookclub or some sort od club to meet others. Go to the beach or join up some intramural teams like volleyball softball or soccer etc. Hope that helps Goodluck!

Woujo · 2017-04-26T02:23:26+00:00

dedicate the entire time to developing a plan to losing my virginity.

No. This is now how you get girls to like you. You will reek of desperation and neediness. Girls want guys that are on a mission and have other shit on their mind.

ThrowawayPUA · 2017-04-26T02:33:59+00:00

I suggest you dedicate your entire summer to mowing lawns. When the lady of the house asks if you are hot and want a drink of water, say yes.

Sad_Sleeper · 2017-04-26T09:30:16+00:00

You can choose the easy road :Instead of wasting 3 months on Lossing your virginity, go see an escort.

Or the Hard one: Hit the Gym, talk to some girls, read some books, be a better person.

You've set yourself some wrong goals. Instead of going for the "Loosing my virginity" goal, Go for: "I want to improve myself during the summer" goal.

villhest · 2017-04-26T17:41:00+00:00

Never thought I'd post here, but here goes.

Some background: I'm 30 years old. My first sexual encounter occurred when I was 14. I've rather continuously been in relationships or had FWBs since then. My longest "dry spell" was voluntary and lasted about three months. These days I meet new women mostly at parties, through friends and on tinder / similar services. I don't know nor do I care how many women I've slept with.

I'm by no means a PUA. I don't aspire to be. I never do cold approaches or any of that stuff unless it happens spontaneously. I just love women and immensely enjoy their affection and company.

My humble advice is as follows: - Don't worry about it - Be places where people have fun - Have fun with people at said places - Do fun things - Get good at doing fun things - Smile - Show girls how good you are at doing fun things with them - Be honest about your intentions and treat people with respect - Go on many dates - Your goal should be to go out and enjoy someone new. If you end up in bed that's a bonus, not the end goal - Offer to pay, especially if you invited her out - Hold doors open for people, help old women etc. - Be a great kisser (!) - Don't spend your energy trying to get girls to allow you sleep with them; try and learn how to arouse them instead - Try to always have easy access to somewhere private and cozy where you can spend the night - Be a beacon of impeccable personal hygiene - Clip your fingernails - Fap every day if you want, who cares (seriously I don't even know where to start on this one) - Don't be fat

Edit: Also, treat your lovers well and be pleasantly surprised when they call you up out of the blue five years from now for Netflix and chill.

tony18215 · 2017-04-27T01:16:02+00:00

Go to as many events as you can.Go to rap concerts,under 21 clubs,summer events.Just be out there and try to spit a little game and you will find success .Dress your best and be a lil aggressive and if a girl likes you try to turn her on and talk dirty

ethical_slut · 2017-04-27T08:39:54+00:00

What the fuck man?

I skimmed through your posts and the only thing you care about is losing your virginity. You're obsessed for some reason and you shouldn't be.

It's really obvious from your posts that girls are getting a weird vibe from you because you give off a desperate I-don't-care-about-you-or-having-fun-I-just-want-to-stick-my-penis-in-your-vagina feel that repels them.

Being alpha and a man is so much more than the capacity to convince a woman to let you stick your dick in her. You need to figure out what your hang up is before you figure out how to get laid.

abstractpickupartist · 2017-04-26T02:42:08+00:00

Spend your summer on self improvement, and being passionate about things. Then your virginity will take care of itself.

Spend the summer chasing girls solely to get laid, and you'll probably finish the summer a virgin.

You want a suggestion? Backpack across Europe.

dayrone150 · 2017-04-26T00:48:23+00:00

Great you're setting goals. Someone told me starting with the average women helps increase your confidence with the hotter chicks. Maybe that might help. It might be easier as well.

PapaPeyton · 2017-04-26T01:53:17+00:00

Craigslist hookup

hadesthegod · 2017-04-26T02:12:03+00:00

I'm a 16 year old virgin and I want to do the same this summer. I'm tired of jerking off it feels lame as fuck!

MonkeyFist4150 · 2017-04-26T06:36:23+00:00

Isn't that called "spring break"?

kalolilo · 2017-04-26T07:27:32+00:00

Instead, try to make 10 girls really aroused and your problem will be solved. :)

longjeep05 · 2017-04-26T08:20:45+00:00

Look up Corey Wayne. Read his book. Get good.

These are ambitious steps, but you are going to get good with women by raising your confidence. You do this by treating all women (even women you aren't romantically/sexually interested in) the same and engaging in banter. Do this with strangers you encounter every day. Always be positive.

The more you think about your virginity as an insecurity or something negative about you, the more likely it is to stay.

Tinder is not a very effective avenue for dating. Personal interaction is king.

Be strong, be centered, be masculine, but also be respectful. If she rejects you, view it as a learning experience, not as a failure.

Best of luck! Love life and make memories.

Blueeyesboi · 2017-04-27T10:19:53+00:00

I got the full package for you but you will need some motivation.

-Work out (transform phisically and mentally, you look you take care of your self therefore you come off as confident and self-invested)

-Do daygame approaches. Pile up those numbers. Its impossible not to sleep with a woman if start dating them. Some may not work but others will.

-After daygame, hit the clubs or bars (solo or with friends dosnt matter). It will be energy draining but if you really want to lose the V card then do it.

-Read posts related at how to pull at clubs and bars or how to take a date home.

Well if you do these ones i think you will have lost your v card by 1 month. Good luck

Formal123 · 2017-04-26T00:47:37+00:00

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1499141440108083/

Join this group if you're looking to improve your Tinder/Texting game. Some cool guys on there that help eachother.

chadjugo · 2017-04-27T01:03:43+00:00

Don't do that. Dedicate it to understanding yourself and how that can attract women.

Title	Dedicating entire summer to losing virginity
Author	younglad2016
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Comments	36
Date	April 26, 2017 12:18 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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