Here is some backstory.

I don't mean to boast, but I got very lucky in life. I am good looking, tall, and make lots of money at the age of 19. I am a powerlifter, and known as the strongest guy in my city.

I've been dating my girlfriend for over a little over 6 months and everything is amazing. She's extremely attractive herself, treats me extremely well, but has nothing interesting about her really other than her looks.

Recently, due to publicizing my prep for a big powerlifting meet, I've been getting lots of attention from other women, and my girlfriend has been having panic attacks at school and when i'm not with her, and really bad dreams of me cheating on her. I really do care about her, and don't want her to constantly feel like i'm going to leave her.

Is this a good indicator that my SMV is where it needs to be to keep my relationship fiery?

Thank you so much.