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A man's point of view about sex in America

westly99

January 24, 2014

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Title	A man's point of view about sex in America
Author	westly99
Upvotes	21
Comments	15
Date	January 24, 2014 10:54 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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[+][deleted] -10 points-9 points-8 points 12 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

[–]typhonblue 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Here's some stuff that feminists have done to marginalize male victims:

Feminist renders male victims of rape by women invisible. http://www.genderratic.com/p/836/manufacturing-female-victimhood-and-marginalizing-vulnerable-men/ http://www.genderratic.com/p/2798/male-disposability-mary-p-koss-and-influencing-a-government-entity-to-erase-male-victims-of-rape/ http://www.genderratic.com/p/2943/mary-koss-the-corruption-continues-manboobz-style/

Feminist groups block or remove men's protections against rape by female sexual predators. http://www.jpost.com/Israel/Womens-groups-Cancel-law-charging-women-with-rape http://toysoldier.wordpress.com/2013/03/06/a-sad-day-for-male-rape-victims-in-india/

Feminists insist that rape is gendered despite all the evidence to the contrary.

According to the CDC's 12-month statistics on sexual violence(the most accurate statistic on prevalence, 50% of the rape victims were male. According to the CDC's lifetime statistics(the most accurate statistic regarding who is raping who) on who is perpetuating sexual violence, 80% of the men were raped by women.

http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/nisvs_sofindings.pdf

The studies on relationship sexual violence using the CST or CST2 methodologies find parity between men and women in terms of being forced into sex by the opposite gender.

Here’s a recent world wide survey that found that 3% of men reported forced sex in their heterosexual relationships and 2.3% of women reported forced sex in their heterosexual relationships.

http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/ID45-PR45.pdf

Also recent results on sexual exploitation in corectional facility finds extremely high rates of female on male abuse.

“Approximately 95% of all youth reporting staff sexual misconduct said they had been victimized by female staff. In 2008, 42% of staff in state juvenile facilities were female.”

From “Sexual Victimization in Juvenile Facilities Reported by Youth, 2008-09″

http://bjs.ojp.usdoj.gov/content/pub/pdf/svjfry09.pdf

“Most victims of staff sexual misconduct were males; most perpetrators were females. Among male victims of staff sexual misconduct, 69% of those in prison and 64% of those in jails reported sexual activity with female staff. An additional 16% of prison inmates and 18% of jail inmates reported sexual activity with both female and male staff.”

From “Sexual Victimization in Prisons and Jails Reported by Inmates, 2008-09″

http://bjs.ojp.usdoj.gov/content/pub/pdf/svpjri0809.pdf

Here’s something from a survey of homeless youths:

“Males were just as likely to be sexually exploited as females. Among younger street-involved youth (ages 12-18), a greater percentage of males were exploited (34% vs. 27% of females in 2006). Among olderstreet-involved youth (ages 19-25), a higher percentage of females reported sexual exploitation (53% females vs. 32% males).”

“Although the majority of youth (70%) had been exploited by males, half of youth (50%) had also been exploited by females.”

From “It’s Not What You Think: Sexually Exploited Youth in British Columbia”

http://www.nursing.ubc.ca/PDFs/ItsNotWhatYouThink.pdf

If a group of men did to female victims what feminists are doing to male victims... you could actually say we lived in a "rape culture".

In addition to all that feminists promote campaigns that demonize male sexuality:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXK0bfrvjPM

There may be some feminists who actually help male victims... but they're not doing it because they're feminists. The feminists who are actively hurting male victims are doing it... because they're feminists.

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[–]typhonblue 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It is because of the ideology of feminism.

By emphasizing male agency and female victimhood, feminism perpetuates a modern mythology of female weakness--likening women to the disabled or children in our collective understanding.

Because women are considered in constant need of aid, men are expected to provide that aid and suck up any problems they have.

Furthermore feminism needs sexual violence to be perceived as gendered in order to perpetuate it's ideology. If sexual and domestic violence were understood to be genderless, feminism could no longer use them as evidence of patriarchy, male privilege and exclusive female victimhood.

http://youtu.be/PF_WLlMWk6U

If "true feminists" are opposed to sexual violence/exploitation of any kind, then why are all the powerful feminists--the ones influencing government policy--invested in minimizing male victimhood and stripping men of their protections against being victims of women?

At what point do the "good" feminists say "fuck it, I'm not associating with these people?" At what point do "good" feminists do more to fight the people who are doing these horrible things then they do to try and cover it up in the name of feminism?

At what point do male victims matter more than defending feminism to you "good" feminists?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]typhonblue 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]DavidByron 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

According to the CDC's 12-month statistics on sexual violence(the most accurate statistic on prevalence, 50% of the rape victims were male. According to the CDC's lifetime statistics(the most accurate statistic regarding who is raping who) on who is perpetuating sexual violence, 80% of the men were raped by women.

I read through the report and didn't find those statistics, could you quote them for me please.

in fact:

Sex of Perpetrators among Male Victims

More than three-quarters of gay men (78.6%) and about two-thirds of bisexual men (65.8%) who experienced sexual violence other than rape identified male perpetrators. However, of heterosexual men who reported sexual violence other than rape, 28.6% reported only male perpetrators, more than one-half (54.8%) reported only female perpetrators, and 16.6% reported having both male and female perpetrators.

The only way to get your 80% of men were raped by women is to include only heterosexual men. Also, you're not mentioning that 45% of said reported perpetrators are men.

Estimated Female victims 66,374,000 (Rape + Other sexual violence)

Estimated Male victims 22,434,000 (Rape + Other sexual violence)

That's not 50%

Not that any of this matters, because rape is a problem for everybody, but you know who else cherry picks numbers like that to further an agenda? Radical feminists.

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