Title says it all.

Let's say i meet a chick right now. I'm currently a 6. She's a 6 so it's hard to date her and she puts me as an orbiter and shit a lot. So i try and fail, maybe look a bit beta. Offer to pay, all the bullshit. I blow her up sometimes, and make common mistakes.

Now let's say i do a makeover, start a rock band (not a garbage garage band, although that's still something even) and i have fair success. I makeover my whole wardrobe, mentality, and image in general. I lift( bringing it up cause i know someone is gunna state it, and let's face it. although i could probably pull off a skanky white boy rockstar, being a bit jacked would make it go smoother.) and step up my game.

I go back to this chick cause i really like her still (oneitis) she's confused. Well, why did i change my look? That's weird. Why am i acting different. Am i a liar? Am i fake? Am i weird? Why is everything different? umm okayy......

Is this why red pill, puas, and even dating coaches like corey wayne generally advise dudes to stay away from exes or going back? Same thing with people you've "messed up with" because once a human forms an opinion or belief of you, that's their reality. Especially for women. Even though i could MAYBE prove i changed, it's difficult and unlikely right?

TLDR- Few chicks and one in particular i've shown too much needy behavior towards. If i change up my whole look, attitude, and lift, will they accept the new me or assume i'm weird and fake?