Hey guys.

Long story short - one of my plates has asked to hangout twice now and has cancelled last minute both times (and tried to reschedule the following day - I declined both times) with that being said, I soft nexted her.

Now she is texting me accusing me of “behaving out of character” and not talking to her/ ignoring her; she doesn’t know what she did wrong - how our friendship is fading, how she misses me etc.

Meanwhile she has had ample opportunities to come see me but has hung out with other ppl etc

I feel that she is just seeking the attention she used to get.

Thoughts on how to handle this situation?

  • Hard Next
  • keep frame and disagree with her points and state she is overanalyzing simple text messages ? (She’s been hamstering through the roof)
  • disagree with her points and point out the fact she has cancelled our plans the last two times ?

Thanks