First LTR, its been fairly rocky; let me explain.

I never thought of the idea of getting gamed by a woman or even entertained that it could be a thing.

Just recently I realize we've both been gaming but she is MUCH better then I am at it. (She's also older and has much more experience in life and dating).

She uses dread to crazy fucking levels purposefully doing sketchy things to make me anxious as hell.

She also seems MUCH better at the push/pull dynamic then I am, I just realized that she purposefully shows a little "beauty" every now and then but pushes like 75% of the time leaving me wondering wtf is going on.

She is also a fucking GOD at hiding her emotions. Only recently have I discovered that I do infact make her anxious with dread game but up until now I felt like it was 100% ineffective. No matter how hard I seem to dread its like she doesn't budge and is very good at not showing I make her anxious.

What resources do I have at this point? I have broken frame before I know I've definatelly fucked up in this relationship. She knows that she has A LITTLE power over me.

To be fair though I have pulled my shit together and increased SMV a lot by lifting and controlling frame and passing shit tests.

I'm fairly certain she doesn't view me as a 100% beta bitch as I CAN game but I know I'm not this perfect alpha in her eyes.

We both seem somewhat dependant on each other and emotionally invested in each other.

How could I overpower her game. I'd prefer to have her stop playing entirely because I hate the fucking anxiety but I know that won't happen. should I just play MUCH harder or find new prospects