Dating girls who have close gay friends?

SomersetRaglan · 2014-01-20T22:18:52+00:00

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2014-01-20T21:56:22+00:00

One of the best things about TRP is that you don't have to ask the public if it's socially acceptable to demand this or that from your girlfriend.
You make the rules, if she does something that makes you uncomfortable and refuses to stop, next her. #YOLO

2014-01-20T21:37:30+00:00

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GayLubeOil · 2014-01-21T03:05:02+00:00

Sounds like this dude might be bisexual. Think of it from his standpoint your a gay dude who gets lots of shit for liking men. One day you get super horny cuz your a dude. Then there is this girl laying around practically asking to take it. So why not. I know tons of gay dudes that had sex with a woman, just to see what all they hype was about. After that he can be like that was totally weird lol, and tell all his gay friends about the expiriance. Gay dude drama gold.

The other problem you can expiriance is that gay dudes are people and some people are assholes. Some gays hide behind being gay as a way of denying any wrong doing. That way if he does something fucked up and you get mad then your a homophobe.

2FAM0US · 2014-01-20T21:37:11+00:00

there was a post a few months ago about where a gay man revealed his experience with "fruit flies" and it was refreshing to hear his point of view. i recommend you find it (im on a iPhone). i also had a gay friend a few years ago (he has passed away since). he was a great wingman but the girls he tended to attract were usually of pretty low quality: Fling and PumpNDump tier. an interesting thing he would do was once a month decide to be straight, that was quite the scene. needless to say no level of game could match this dude. just remember that gay men are still men. i wouldn't trust him any more than you trust a straight man. and even if he isn't after your girl, she could still fall for him if she spending too much time together.

spicy_fries · 2014-01-20T23:03:07+00:00

Having gay friends, awesome! Nothing wrong about that.

if she held hands with her gay friend, and if they kissed & cuddled, etc.

What the fuck is that shit! That is deal-breaker material. I would even be upset if she did those things with her girlfriends.

robesta · 2014-01-21T00:08:24+00:00

My LTR has a very close gay friend who's she's known for like 20 years (she's 31). Not sure about the dynamic as I haven't met the guy yet. I'm definitely curious tho.

GroverCleaverland · 2014-01-21T03:29:31+00:00

There's absolutely no way you should have to tolerate that. Its irrelevant if he's gay. Having gay friends is of course fine. Gay people can be a ton of fun. However, when a girl has very few friends to begin with, but does have very close gay best friends, this is typically a really big red flag. Same thing as a girl with only guy friends. That's just been my experience.

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2014-01-21T01:58:47+00:00

My best friend's girl has a gay friend she hangs out with sometimes. I think it's great for him cause she has a male that she can talk to about stuff my friend isn't really interested in talking about. He's sort of like the "friendzoned" guy except he's cool with it (btw I hate the term friend zone.. Unless you're 16 or younger it comes off as really stupid and immature.)

Your girl was texting dirty shit to her gay friend? Lol, why would you put up with that? Just don't be exclusive with her and keep her on the side for when you're horny.

Personally I don't really care if a girl I'm hanging with has gay friends or hangs out with dudes.. I don't do exclusive relationships and I couldn't care less if she's seeing other guys while I'm banging her.

Nemester · 2014-01-21T17:40:38+00:00

There is a lot of nuking in this thread. I guess there were a fair number of leftoids trolling.

Title	Dating girls who have close gay friends?
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	19
Comments	50
Date	January 20, 2014 9:25 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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