How to proceed?

FeralRed · 2018-07-09T19:54:41+00:00

Satellite in my eyes.

Like a diamond in the sky.

How I wonder.

Satellite strung from the moon.

And the world your balloon.

Peeping Tom for the mother station.

She wants your attention, not your dick.

heyuguyzbrekfazt · 2018-07-09T20:47:08+00:00

I saw your reply to the other guy, so I'm just going to say this once, stop being an idiot and ignore the dumb shit and excuses she gives you. I don't give a fuck about conservative anything either.

You already went for coffee (1st date), and this chick hasn't gone on a second date. This SCREAMS she isn't interested. If she really wanted to suck the future babies out of your mushroom top, she would have set up a date when she gave you excuses, instead she gave you excuses WITH NO PLAN. That means she ain't into you. Most women I end up fucking ask me for a second date after the first one is concluded, you need to see this type of interest from a girl, but I will admit some want you to offer the second date.

Now she probably likes the attention you give her at the gym, so she is going to be super interested in you there. But the second she leaves, she's going to hit up the other guy whose coffee date didn't suck, and she's going to be extracting his future babies.

Now stop formulating some smart ass response to my comment, and read this - you are a moron and you need to understand I'm telling you the truth, now continue reading.

You've done the leg work and the logistical work, and she isn't biting. Fucking soft next this chick, and move the fuck on. If she initiates again, stop saying some dumb shit like "call me after the gym". All that does is REEK of desperation and nothing to do. You telling her to hit you up after she leaves the gym tells her you have NO OTHER OPTIONS and you're sitting there hoping she will spend time with you. Idgaf if this is true or not, THE FACT IS THAT IS WHAT SHE'S THINKING.

If she talks to you in the gym, be friendly and all but NEVER AGAIN BE THE ONE TO MENTION A DATE. Do not go out of your wait to start conversation, have her approach you first from now on. If she finally asks for a date, you ask her when shes available at the end of the week or in a few days, and then plan the date for then. Do not be a simp and ask her if she wants to go on the date the next fucking day or even worse that night.

And don't DM her if you aren't already friends, that's just fucking weird dude. Come on man, start having some self respect and stop chasing this chick. Relationship are 50/50, and right now you're doing FAR more than your share, and no woman is worth that, and even more, no woman wants that from a man.

StanDando · 2018-07-09T22:06:08+00:00

Why continue on that tack when shes had her chance and blown it? Use her. What you would need is strong hard-to-get, uninterest demos, jealousy plotlines and the like. So do something similar and use her at the same time. Next time you see her, say you have a question for her, its a bit sensitive, but youre single and youve been wanting to ask her for a while. Observe her reactions. Then say 'are you any good at matchmaking people? Because Im looking for a drinking buddy whos good with girls, and I reckon you understand them better than my male friends'. Observe her reactions. If she seems surprised or sad, feels overlooked, she was open to the possibility of sleeping with you. If not, youve just tried to get a very helpful SP accomplice to go out with - and an excellent excuse to go out drinking with her if you do think theres still a chance.

sorryforthelifestory · 2018-07-10T07:25:55+00:00

Just ask her to do something directly after the next time u see her at the gym

Title	How to proceed?
Author	44361066
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	July 9, 2018 7:33 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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