She's an Hb7, began chasing after me towards the beginning until I went full BP and eventually got the ljbf response. I actually found the RP after the whole incident coincidentally and was pleasantly surprised that i was doing somethings right after getting rejected lol yes i know. I didn't orbit her and i lost her on social media since i made a new account. She occasionally reaches out for whatever random reason but I don't respond till today when she reached out from a different number. Our convo goes..

Her: hey is this Spider?

Me: yes it is. Who is this? Her: its me oneitis

Me: ohh Her: I thought you had changed your number...

Me: Nope still the same one Her: why didn't you ever return my texts?? (I proceed to ignore her and she texts back)

Her: Wow really why are you being like this Me: Listen i didn't think i had to say it but we had a good run and all but its time for us to go our separate ways. I wish we would've explored something real between us as i saw potential but its alright whenever one door closes the universe opens up three more instead.

Her: if that's how you really feel (silence, 1hr later) Her: i want to explore something real between us too if youll give it another chance

So im not going to respond as i have my reasons and honestly im done riding the emotional roller coaster that she subjected me to. I was BP back then but i still had good relationships since i never got attached. She was the only girl I ever got oneitis with and I prefer to live life without so much emotional ups and downs. I showed my friend the texts since he knew about her and my oneitis and he mentioned that they bumped into each other at the mall and she asked about me, he told her that i was "chilling, hanging out w females the usual". I asked why he didn't tell me about this and he said that he didn't think i would care since i was doing fine without her and that she was irrelevant lol. My question is why did she suddenly became more open to a relationship w me when I used to be "just a friend" to her? Our whole relationship was her dangling a carrot in front of me so that i would invest in her. She knew how i would party on the weekends and see other girls but yet she still never gave in to what i wanted. Is this just a last resort effort to get me to orbit again like i used to or did my absence from her life seriously made her reconsider my smv? She's not extremely social ( she only uses Snapchat) however she does have alot of orbiters and doesn't really do much on the weekends other than her gymnastics practice. I took her out once during last summer and she agreed to it even after her parents were disapproving. This was the last time i saw her and had contact after i decided it was time to cut this chick off. The date went well, she would engage in heavy eye contact w me and at times she would also mimic my body language which I learned people do subconsciously to establish rapport. The only thing that turned me off was when i dropped her off she basically bolted out of the car and then leaned from the passanger window telling me how much of a good time she had. BP me still remembers how i was planning to go for the kiss lol anyways sorry for the long post guys but thanks