‘I met a cougar a couple years ago for a drink. She thought I was too young for her after our first date so there wasn’t a second date.

A couple weeks ago I hit her up to see how she was doing. We started talking and we are going clubbing tonight per her suggestion. She knows I’ve never been before.

I invited her to swim at my condo complex but she joked and said “sounds nice but I don’t trust you lol.” (But she’s willing to take me clubbing? Plausible deniability?)

Any tips? Do I only dance with her or others? Planning on escalating with her, but after that idk what else to do.