Hey,

I’m 21 years old, I’m 5’11” & 160 lbs. skinnyfat (but been lifting for 2 weeks straight now), I’m mixed-race White & Indian, 5/10 face, I have Asperger’s, I’m a kissless, handholdless virgin, I have very few friends & a very small social network compared to the average guy my age, I live with my parents, & I’ve been a low beta-omega my entire life (who poses as a jock, but everyone knows better apparently because no one ever initiates social contact with me, friendly or romantic).

Right now, I’ve just graduated from university, & I’ve landed a job as an accounting clerk at a major real estate property management company. By the end of August, I will have an emergency fund covering 6 months of living expenses saved up, and I’ll have the money to move out with a roommate, but not on my own (but I don’t know that many people, & most people aren’t down to do stuff with me, so that has almost no chance of happening).

As the title says, I was born, raised, and currently live & work in an area notoriously difficult for getting girls, & I’ve experienced this myself (the “I have a boyfriend excuse”, being treated coldly when I have approached, etc.). But I really want to get better at this & not be the 40-Year-Old Virgin.

Fellow Torontonians, on surviving arguably the toughest market for girls on the planet.