So I’ve been an on and off Red Pill reader for about 6 months now. Really never posted much, just occasionally red an article or two. However, I can say, I fully see the topics everyone is talking about. I see all my female friends different now, and have opted out of pursing women in exchange for going after financial success.

This is where I fall apart though. I currently left my job and just got hired at a new one. But during this time, while I should have been working non-stop on my online business ventures, I’ve opted to just laying around watching YouTube mindlessly, or hanging out with friends. I really didn’t notice how bad my phone addiction was until I downloaded an app that monitored how much I used my phone. Boy was that a wake up call.

On top of that, for the first time I am starting to feel lonely. I have a female roommate and occasionally we mess around, but it’s nothing serious (as she has a boyfriend). I fully understand I’m not mentally or financially ready for a relationship, yet loneliness is still an issue.

So as of right now, I’m feeling a little defeated. No drive to pursue my goals, and feeling lonely. What’s a newbie like myself to do?