Have recently swallowed the red pill. Have been lifting 3 times a week, reading quite a lot of books and in general have been focusing on getting my life back together and improving myself.

I used to orbit a girl quite a bit but have changed my ways. Want to move on from this in a stoic manner if possible as we have a large group of mutual friends, should I soft next her or hard next her?

(Am gaming 2 other girls these days)