Thoughts?

Chad1738 · 2018-07-23T18:30:51+00:00

“LOOKKKKK ATTTTT MMMEEEE!!!!l”

Depends what beach you are at to though. Private hidden beach vs public beach. If it’s public, I would downgrade to plate.

TelemakosTheDane · 2018-07-23T19:26:20+00:00

My first reaction was bursting out: no, what do YOU think of your girlfriend going topless on the beach? Do you think it is fine ? Then it is fine. You don´t like it? Then decide if you want to accept that behaviour or not. If not, set boundries, while maintaining a mentality of abundance.

On second thought, I actually think it is an interesting question, never really thought about it before, I usually date introverted girls so it has never been a problem. I do think, as Chad1738 points out, that there is a big risk of attention whoring being at the root of this. It would depend on the girl I suppose, and your outlook in general. If you and your girlfriend were about to go out, and she wore a super slutty outfit, showing so much clevage that even a protestant priest would call her out on it, would you be okay with that? Do you want someone who dresses conservatively or not? I realize that the situations are different, but I think they share enough overlap for that example to help shed some light on things.

If it were me, I would say that it sure as fuck depends on the woman. If it were some Venus-looking broad, with a great personality, and overall I was super happy with her and the relationship, I doubt I would dump her the second her tits saw the light of day on the beach. Hypothetically, it could be a deal-breaker though, depending on her demeanor and behaviour at the beach and when I bring it up. I would mention that I don´t know many women who would do it just to get her talking about it, and then think about what she says and how she says it.

woke_wizard · 2018-07-23T19:13:45+00:00

As long as I was with her I wouldn’t care.

abudun79 · 2018-07-23T22:34:01+00:00

I think guys who care about that are sissys.

You might live in a culture where that is no appropriate, but other than that, it's just a display of insecurity and immaturity to spend half a thought on one more topless or nude woman on a beach.

Title	Thoughts?
Author	Fontess
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	July 23, 2018 6:25 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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