Bad guys really do get the most girls

kloo2yoo · 2011-05-11T17:00:07+00:00

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girlwriteswhat · 2011-05-11T17:54:36+00:00

Feminists define "rape culture" largely as a "pervasive rape-friendly atmosphere caused by the social sanctioning of male sexual aggression, sexually dominant male behaviors, the encouragement of men to rape through endorsement of anti-social behaviors like sexual violence and sexual risk-taking, and the objectification of women"...we're only in for more rape culture.

Because women get hot and bothered over male sexual aggression, guys who take risks and take what they want without concern for other people, bad boys who live by their own rules, etc. And women have more reproductive choice than ever--no virginity til marriage, very little social stigma and no life-destroying consequences attached to having some asshole's baby out of wedlock, no slut-shaming allowed, just the freedom to fuck whoever they want.

And the guys they do want to fuck are the very guys who'll pass on all those "bad" traits responsible for rape culture onto their kids along with their genes, right? And no dad in the picture to teach the kid right from wrong, or how good men behave, or anything else.

spiral-staircase · 2011-05-11T18:33:34+00:00

Now what I've observed is women generally want men who put them in their place, this is essentially what "challenging" means. The (illusion) of power is what women naturally, biologically desire to become "possessed" or "owned" or most simply speaking… "protected". It is a universal preference it seems.

So why do women even feel resentful that men treat women like "sex-objects" because that, in-fact, is what women demand of men? Appearances in general matter more it is considered. a nice guy seems to be a pushover. He may be, he may be not, but it is what the impression.

I believe that's why a lot of women are in abusive relationships, they're attracted to the illusion power instead of someone loyal, understanding who at first may appear "weak".

Liverotto · 2011-05-11T19:33:57+00:00

I think that is true but not bijective.

Like saying the most basketball players are black, but being black doesn't imply that you are a basketball player.

That is, most guys that get laid often are bad guys, but that doesn't imply that if you are a bad guy you will get the most girls.

Trust me, I am a bad guy who doesn't get laid often.

2011-05-12T14:57:26+00:00

If you simply want pussy and in abundance, be a bad guy.

If you want an excellent long-term relationship, maybe family, then be good, but not too good.

My GF told me her previous BF, a Portugese sailor - I am mentioning it only because there is this stereotype that sailors are very tough - was such a soft mama's boy that their evenings out were always like:

Girl: "Should we go out?"

Guy: "No problem, dear."

Girl: "Where?"

Guy: "Anywhere you want."

Girl: "Ugh, Chinese maybe?"

Guy: "No problem, dear."

Girl: "FFFFUUUUUU... be a man!"

Our conversations are like:

Me: "We should go out sometime this week. Friday?"

Girl: "OK."

Me: "I'd prefer a Greek restaurant. If you don't like that, Spanish will do as well."

Girl: "Yeah, OK, no problems with Greek"

Me: OK

She keeps telling me that what I am doing is excellent - I am doing the masculine thing and taking the lead but still offering her choice.

Try the same if you want a long-term relationship.

Of course if you just want pussy, you can be a bad guy like:

Guy: "Hey, I am going drinking with friends today. Wanna come alng?"

Girl: "Shouldn't we do a romantic evening just the two of us?"

Guy: "No. I'll go with them, you can come or you stay."

kloo2yoo · 2011-05-12T00:13:11+00:00

this looks like a copypaste of the full article, but it doesn't have the newscientist name:

http://failinggracefully.com/?p=355

Title	Bad guys really do get the most girls
Author	kloo2yoo
Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	May 11, 2011 2:11 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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