I have been talking to this girl for four months now, and things were never official, we could always date and have sex with other people. Last Sunday, she was a little ticked about something I did to her a few days before, and I kept leaning in for the kiss. She said "I'm not kissing you today, I'm still angry about it". I stopped trying to kiss her, and we went to a bar. At the bar I told her I wanted to make love that night, and she said it wasn't going to happen.

So I ordered a few more drinks to lighten up the mood and she exclaims "I'm not having sex, even if you get me drunk!!". At which point we start arguing over the matter that happened a few days prior. Eventually, things get heated up and she decides to throw some money on the table and says she is leaving. I convince her not to, and we somehow ended up agreeing that we would have sex one last time and stop speaking to each other until December.

So, we had sex that night. Crazy, passionate sex. When i dropped her home i didn't kiss her goodnight, and when i got home i didn't tell her "i'm home! goodnight!" like I usually do. The next morning she calls me. I didn't pick up, but i called her later in the evening asking why she called. She said she was sorry, blah blah blah and that I always treat her like a princess but she treats me like shit. I told her we'll think about the situation. The next day i texted her very late at night to discuss other options. She said I have two decisions to make:

1: We don't talk at all until December.

2: We can remain friends but with no romance involved.

She tells me I am her 'rock' and she would hate to cut contact with me because she will miss me. I agree to option 2, but tell her I would still like to make love to her (big mistake, I know). She says that can't happen, and even though she has a great time having sex with me, she isn't happy afterwards. I told her " i don't see a problem, but ok. "

She then tells me we should see each other soon so she could apologize as well as give me something she has for me and begins to list her days off. I tell her " I'm free on Thursday after 7:30, I can swing by after work and get you since i work a few blocks away" and she says "ok, but actually I'll let you know I actually made plans with someone else on thursday. But it isn't confirmed, I'll let you know!". I say "ok, goodnight beautiful" and tells me "goodnight! Sleep tight!!" Thursday comes and she doesn't text me until 8:30, saying "heey!" "Sorry i forgot i was supposed to text you! But you're probably at home now?" I was pissed that she forgot to text me, so i ignored it. And it's currently the day after this texting incident, still no word from her.

Now I have some options... I can keep ignoring her until she comes crawling back, and then just act like a friend and be distant, maybe this will get her to think she is losing me. OR I can call her and tell her "Hey, I intend to keep taking you out on dates as man and woman, not as just friends", this will show her I don't intend to be "just friends".

I don't know, what would be the best course of action? Also, sorry if this was long or had unnecessary detail.