TL;DR: Thinking of starting a LTR, but have one concern.

Moving to make a girl a LTR, and I'm the type that let's you know what we are so there's no confusion. Taking into account that if a woman doesn't feel like she has you, she'll always want you, how can I have this conversation correctly while at least limiting that conquered feeling she'll get?

I already and will never stop lifting, dressing well, and actively improving my status. Although I can't help but think that I may be missing something when it comes to the question at hand.

I know many of you have successful relationships, all tips and lessons are greatly appreciated.