In a ltr with a chick. She rarely brings up her ex but she eventually confessed he cheated on her and she essentially walked in on it. This was years ago now and he lives in another state. I know that his SMV is not as high as my own but also realize that in cases like these, it may not matter.

Does emotional damage like that form a weird bond between them?

Would she consider getting back with him if he initiated contact again?

Would this be an issue if I was chad?