So for months i were on what you guys would call here "monk mode" .i managed to change lot of my blue pill,beta thinking and viewed myaelf morphing into a more confident,happy and reality orienteted individual.However with the self esteem boost came something else, a irresistable feeling of pride which in social settings it would morph into arrogance if i felt in any way disrespected.This usually happened from other males i knew from the past and after seeing my transformation they constantly try to test me and provoke me into some kind of conflict(try to drag me into old behaviour,try to see if im faking it?).i usually give a laught and ignore them knowing that its a pretty weak move and passive agressive since the attacks are not direct.still when those attacks occurs i spmetimes feel that my confidence is turning into arrogance.I want to prevent this,ive been viewed as an arrognant miserable guy even if im not.how to deal with it?