Female Sex Offenders – Why talk about them?

ProbablyNotToday · 2010-07-02T11:10:56+00:00

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stemgang · 2010-07-02T16:22:28+00:00

The big list: Female teachers with students, Most comprehensive account on Internet of women predators on campus

2010-07-02T11:27:43+00:00

a good, level-headed, well cited posted. Nice. Wish there was more of this.

kanuk876 · 2010-07-02T15:44:31+00:00

I get the feeling that people here don't really understand female-on-male child sexual abuse. We talk about it intellectually, but it's hard to understand at a deeper level.

Therefore, I submit the following quotes from "Speaking Our Truth: Voices of Courage and Healing for Male Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse" by Neal King:

TRIGGER WARNING -- ADULT CONTENT

I was abused in my parents' bed, after I came home from primary school. It was the only time my mother let me get close. I would cuddle up to her and she would rub her genitals against mine. I didn't understand what was going on. I would burry my head in the eiderdown to try and block out what was happening. I was ashamed because I enjoyed it... When I read the story of a survivor who was forced to perform oral sex on his mother, I was flooded with emotion. Somehow I knew it had happened to me, starting when I was three. I can still recall the revulsion I used to feel whenever I sat on my mother's lap.

-- Chris

I remember being possibly eight years old and being in the basement with my baby-sitter. I was a very innocent, naive and shy boy. I asked her what she wanted to do. She smiled and knocked me on the cold basement floor and pulled my pants down and began to fondle me. I was taught never to hit girs, so my only defense was to "leave" my body. By detaching my mind from my body, I was able to survive. This experience and several others made me fear and hate women. This brings another ingredient to the recipe. If I hate women, I must be gay... My mother did nothing to protect me. My mother treated me as a boyfriend and regarded me as a sex object. It was very common for her to whistle at me and sexualize me. I was also given the task of helping her get dressed and undressed. It seems I was the one that had to pick up the slack for my father and help my mother get her various needs met.

-- John

How lovely to have your warm little cock in my mouth No harm in that After all you said, Look, my penie is straight At first I was flustered but my little man always looks so scrumptious How soft and clean he is and how small and cuddly lying there on his back giggling with his hand rubbing himself Not like that big hairy bastard with his musty stink always trying to pin me down and stick it in even when I'm tired and dry and I'd even rather vacuum the apartment than land on my back and then end up all sticky between my thighs But you're my little man and so grateful for my attentions and you can't even come to spoil it all...

Anyhow I've got you my little man Now that we're through I'll slip my robe back on and pin your diaper up And don't say anything to your father, Johnny Boy.

-- George I

Title	Female Sex Offenders – Why talk about them?
Author	BloggerT
Upvotes	25
Comments	14
Date	July 2, 2010 10:06 AM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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