I've been talking this girl for nearly a month now, she works at a local cafe. She came over to my place for dinner one night, escalated, but didn't have a condom. Still had fun and focused on her instead. We met up for coffee again recently, but she's been busy the past few weeks.

I come into the cafe regularly and she always makes a point to sit and talk and is always very touchy, gives long hugs etc. From what I can tell she's genuinely interested. We've been pretty open about exes and past relationships in conversation, and I've made it clear that I see other people. She's assured me that she is moving on from her past, but I'm having a hard time determining whether she is still interested sexually or just stringing me along.

I'm considering texting her to reiterate that sex is an important part of any 'relationship' we might have and that if she isn't on the same page, I can just move on. Your thoughts?