Have a Chinese LTR, my grandmother is 85 and is in bad health. She is extremely racist towards anyone non-white. My LTR wants to meet my family but I don't want her to meet my grandma; not for her sake but for my grandmas sake. It would really disappoint my grandma if she found out I was seeing anyone who wasn't white and i don't want her to die disappointed in me because I am her favorite grandchild and what not. What the fuck do I do? Silly as this sounds; it's been kind of bothering the shit out of me. Anyone been in a similar situation?