Pretty much exactly like it sounds. My girlfriend of 4 years wants me to go to her sisters graduation. It is a 4 hour drive there and back. Her sister and I do not have a great relationship, and I really don't want to go. I know for a fact that my gf wouldn't go to my brothers graduation, so I don't think I should be obligated t go to this. Her family loves me, and has been gently pressuring me to go, but I don't think they would be too offended if I didn't. I know this isn't exactly a red pill question but you guys almost always give better advice than r/relationships.