I'm still on the fence about the entire TRP philosophy. Currently, in a close friendship with a girl that I'd like to bed and it is situations like the following exchange, two days ago, that are keeping me from going full-fledged TRP:

(6:33:41) Her: Have a good day today. Are you free for lunch?

(9:56:51) Me: Sure, sushi, our usual spot, at 11:30?

(11:01:18) Her: Sorry, was in a meeting, half hour from now sounds good, see you then!

(11:21:07) Me: Leaving work now, if you're there, grab a couple of seats at the bar. Thank you.

And, yesterday:

(9:08:47) Me: You free for drinks?

(9:09:01) Her: Maybe, what do you have in mind?

(9:15:11) Me: local wine bar?

(9:18:08) Her: Ok, I'll drive.

(9:24:19) Me: That a dear. See you soon!

(9:45:47) Her: Ok, come out.

We had 2 glasses of wine each, separate cheques.

(11:01:52) Me: Sleep well.

This is pretty much an every-few-days pattern with us. I've known this girl since 2012 and don't think I've been particularly alpha with her, yet she initiates contact 3-4 times a week in the morning and then I initiate contact the 2-3 times per week in the evenings.

Maybe I'm dense, but why does being accommodating seem to work with this girl when everything I read on /r/TheRedPill seems to suggest that being a mystery, spinning plates, and the rest is the only way to get laid?

Some enlightenment for this padwan, please, RP Jedi masters?