This is so horrible to read. Both her messages imho plus the comments

Bamboobag_Pandarrell · 2021-08-11T07:42:14+00:00

The woman in the messages was right. If you don’t respect yourself no one else is going to respect you. And this isn’t a rights issue so I don’t understand why it’s on here.

manicraccoon · 2021-08-11T07:50:47+00:00

I am with her on this one. I understand he has low self esteem issues but tinder is not the place to discuss those. She even stated that this dude's height doesn't bother her but the guy kept shooting himself in the foot. She even gave him multiple opportunities to start over. I don't understand how her replies were horrible. She wasn't even rude. I'd have done the same if I was in her place.

FinallyReborn · 2021-08-11T08:01:09+00:00

I'm not going to read the comments of the post... but yeah, she was right, she matched with him and confirmed that she was interested in him at the very beginning, then he went out of his way and made needless generalizations and acted rude towards her, I don't know why he (or anybody) would expect women to be reciprocative towards them if they act this way.

And especially considering he has continuously done this (by the looks of it), it is clearly him, not his face, height or appearance. Projecting your insecurities onto another person when they never brought it up in the first place and then pushing a generalization onto them isn't going to go down well, with anybody. This has nothing to do with men's rights and just makes our cause look like a joke if content like this keeps getting posted.

unjustexistence · 2021-08-11T07:56:11+00:00

Seems to be a pretty controversial take these days, but guys that complain about not getting women because they are under 6 feet are far more likely to not be getting women because they have shattered self confidence. Likely from reading FDS and TwoX subreddits all day and thinking most women are like that. They aren't.

This-Icarus · 2021-08-11T09:20:56+00:00

The guy is the problem here, his attitude IS the problem.

Be confident, that is what women find most attractive

elegantlywasted_ · 2021-08-11T09:21:54+00:00

It’s an early interaction on tinder. She indicated her absence of concern but he was insistent on discussing. How is this a men’s rights issue?

RunningNose14 · 2021-08-11T07:46:05+00:00

We all know that only women can have insecurities. Only you must empathize with them, you incel!!!!

evenmoremeancomments · 2021-08-11T09:18:42+00:00

Although that's not a conversation you should have on tinder, I'm still with him. She didn't even listen to his reasons but straight up invalidated his life experiences, replacing them with her perception of why he isn't successful in dating (although she is right on this specific instance, but I don't believe for a second that this is the only approach this guy has ever tried). She's also claiming that women wanting 6ft+ guys on tinder isn't true and it's a generalization, while also generalizing that "it cannot be possible that women don't like you for your height, it must be something else".

ondronCZ · 2021-08-11T10:03:03+00:00

lmfao she was horrible? When did this sub become r/incel?

This is so horrible to read. Both her messages imho plus the comments

Crosspost "As requested! Same guy, same conversation." from /r/niceguys:

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Title	This is so horrible to read. Both her messages imho plus the comments
Author	DepressedVenom
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	August 11, 2021 7:39 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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