Often times a woman will put herself onto a man without asking for consent and the man is just ok with it. I get if you like that but we shouldn’t just allow women to get away with things like that, it will lead them to assume that any man will be fine with her doing that to them.

I also see a lot of pressure on men to have sex. For example, people use men not having sex as an insult and say that a man “gets no bitches/pussy” to humiliate and insult them.

If a woman refuses sex, people might think he’s gay or question his attraction to women just because he doesn’t want sex. This can lead to men having unwanted sex where they have sex with women only out of fear of being insulted/humiliated.

https://contexts.org/blog/social-pressure-to-appear-masculine-leads-straight-men-to-have-unwanted-sex/

I think if men put the same boundaries on sex that women do, just as much men, if not maybe even more men would say they’ve been sexually assaulted.

It doesn’t help that when a man is sexually assaulted other men say stuff like “he’s so lucky” which I honestly find sad. It’s sad to think that people think this way.

Online, it is a trend for young people, especially boys, to find older women attractive and I feel like there could be women out there who might take advantage of this. I’ve also seen women say they want their future sons friends to think of them as the “hot mom” and to basically sexualise her which is very creepy to me.

I just wish men and young boys would take more precautions when it comes to sex and realise that they don’t always have to be up for sex and they shouldn’t feel pressured to.