A story about the sexual assault of a gay man by a woman who would not take no for an answer (Men Are Human)

Oncefa2 · 2021-08-09T19:48:40+00:00

From one of the comments:

women certainly can be a threat to men. She can be bigger than him (like in this case). He can be unconscious, in which case any strength advantage is moot (also like in this case). She can threaten with weapons, blackmail with false accusations, manipulate emotionally if they’re “friends” or dating even if there is no threat, it is still a violating and disgusting thing to experience. Something doesn’t have to be physically violent or dangerous to be abusive

I'd argue that physical strength is the least important factor when it comes to sexual assault. This is true even when it comes to male-on-female assault. I don't have the stats or sources handy, but blackmail, drugging ("date rape"), coercion, and all sorts of things are way more common than physical force. That's where this warning over "most people know their rapist" comes from.

We may fear violent street assaults because we feel that we're the most vulnerable in that situation. But many people fear social ramifications and bullying as well. We fear threats to our reputation. We fear losing friendships. And we fear going to jail over something we didn't do.

And the later category of fears are far more common and relevant than the former.

AnonymousBlobfish · 2021-08-09T22:47:20+00:00

Idk if it counts as assault or harassment but a gay friend of mine told me that in high school, his female comrades would regularly show him their tits even when he didn't want to. It was to embarass and startle him.

At one point they even attempted to make him touch their boobs

General-Ad9818 · 2021-08-10T00:16:23+00:00

I definitely have heard about women who have a fetish for gay dudes, I honestly think it’s the concept of wanting someone you can’t have, but even so, I think it’s pretty creepy how far some women are willing to go. I hope this guy will be okay after his traumatizing experience and gets help.

Total-Success2207 · 2021-08-09T21:28:25+00:00

The fact that you had to clarify that men are human really shows how twisted the feminist movement is.

Banake · 2021-08-09T22:07:55+00:00

I hope that OP meet people who actually respect him. :-)

AcidKritana · 2021-08-09T20:54:34+00:00

Sadly I have been in some similar situations.

alclarkey · 2021-08-09T20:28:53+00:00

We don’t make apologies for the robber and say we should be glad to help them out.

Well, ackually...

No-Feedback7437 · 2021-08-10T00:15:36+00:00

We need show love than hate for everyone

nyarlathotep999 · 2021-08-10T01:29:01+00:00

Excellent article.

smimton · 2021-08-10T05:25:27+00:00

Wow, very sorry about your experience. Sounds horrible, I can sense that it was a sickening experience.

McFeely_Smackup · 2021-08-11T00:49:12+00:00

I spent many years working in bars, and ANYONE who has knows drunk women are the most sexually entitled people on the planet.

I never saw a man walk to to a woman and grab her crotch, but I've seen women do it to men dozens of times.

Right now there's a gay bar by my office that has a sign on their front door that says "no bachelorette parties". They had to ban them because these groups of women would come in and get drunk and start sexually assaulting every gay man in the place, because they felt 100% entitled to

coyocat · 2021-08-09T22:42:39+00:00

it happens <.<

Old-Acanthaceae6226 · 2021-08-11T12:06:06+00:00

This has happened to me three times.

TexasDutch · 2021-08-09T23:58:02+00:00

Yea but y’all won’t organize and do anything about this.

Diesel-66 · 2021-08-09T19:18:50+00:00

Link to a website that copied a post from this forum 😂

Title	A story about the sexual assault of a gay man by a woman who would not take no for an answer (Men Are Human)
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Date	August 9, 2021 7:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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