I’ve been dating for years now and almost always split the bill with men. I always thought it was the “feminist thing to do”, and it also makes me feel more comfortable during the date (even though I know I don’t owe men anything). Recently, I started reading the FDS handbooks and different strategies that are vert against splitting the bill, and the logic make complete sense to me. My question is: how do I stop splitting the bill with a guy i’ve been seeing if I already have split the bill multiple times already? If he questions it, how could I explain myself? Is there a quick comment I could make to put it to rest?

Thanks in advance.