The less of a "walking male stereotype" you are, the harder hetero dating/sex will be, or how relationships expectations for men are stuck in the 1950's.

a-man-from-earth · 2020-10-03T23:22:33+00:00

Removed as low effort.

Also, you made a new account to post this? Use your big boy account. Or, if you have a good reason to be using a new account, participate in the community first, so we get a feel for whether you are here in good faith.

Melthengylf · 2020-10-03T20:50:39+00:00

This is not how it works!!!!

I'll try to explain it: sexual fantasies trigger what is more opposite of the core values of the person.

Because of this, conservatives tend to get off on cheating, gangbangs or cuckoldry, while liberals tend to get off on BDSM (specially submissive roles). Why? Because conservatives tend to view in high value the sanctity of monogamal marriage, while liberals tend to be as sacred symmetric consensual relationships, and they hate to be subjected to hierarchies.

Sexuality acts as a valve of the undigested parts of ourselves. The parts that are deeply hurt, that are unfinished, that are intimate and vulnerable.

This explains why sexuality requires consent so much: it is sharing with another person the part that is the most hurt in us, the part that is the most vulnerable, full of insecurities. Because it is so intimate and vulnerable, it has plenty of risk, people can get extremely hurt in sex. And because people are so sensitive to that pain, consent and care is crucial. But because it is so vulnerable, sharing it with someone else, simeone you trust, is a precious opportunity of connection and trust.

The fact that women love to have submissive BDSM sex does not prove that they love submissive roles in society. It prooves exactly the opposite.

There are more submissive men than dominant women precisely because submitting to authority it is so abhorred by this society.

defo18 · 2020-10-03T19:44:37+00:00

This is basically what red pilled me

I was taught that women hated anything that made them out to seem like whores or loose but it seems like only when it's in the bedroom is when they want to be degraded and stuff and God forbid a man not like that stuff then he's looked at as a weirdo which is pretty sexist

Title	The less of a "walking male stereotype" you are, the harder hetero dating/sex will be, or how relationships expectations for men are stuck in the 1950's.
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Date	October 3, 2020 7:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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