After all, if they know you are married to a woman, by discriminating against you, they are also discriminating against her, are they not? Plus, I think that for those not awake to men's issues, knowing that a man's labor will be of direct usefulness to a woman will make him more sympathetic than if his labor were only thought to benefit himself.

ADDENDUM: Also, based on this clear discrimination against men when CVs or resumes are not gender-neutral, I am now seriously wondering if it makes sense in today's world for new parents of boys to give their boys a masculine first name and a feminine middle name so that they can beat the system when they're older. In this regard, I think people of Spanish-speaking backgrounds are lucky, since "José María" has long been a common name combination for boys (as has the reverse, "María José," for girls).