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She has a boyfriend but she's giving me a lot of mixed signals. If she seems happy with both of us, does it mean something or she's just toying with me?

ricksx99
June 1, 2016
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/r/askTRP
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Title She has a boyfriend but she's giving me a lot of mixed signals. If she seems happy with both of us, does it mean something or she's just toying with me?
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ricksx99
Upvotes 1
Comments 11
Date June 1, 2016 10:59 PM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4m43hi/she_has_a_boyfriend_but_shes_giving_me_a_lot_of/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/she-has-a-boyfriend-but-shes-giving-me-a-lot-of.106320
https://theredarchive.com/post/106320
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Comments

[–]fnordsnord 7 points7 points7 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You've given me zero details to work with here, but the baseline is:

Women ENJOY the flirting process. The LIKE the chase. It makes them feel good about themselves. They flirt for fun, for practice, AND to find mates. I've often escalated and had them appear honestly startled. "I didn't think you were taking me SERIOUSLY!"

At best, you are her plan B, being kept in the wings in case Chad Thundercock falls through.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Chicks dig orbiters

[–]Endorsed Contributorfnordsnord2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Well, actually they do. They're useful, fun, and sometimes decorative. They're just never, ever attractive.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup. Chicks dig fun and decorating.

[–]ricksx99[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is what was bugging me. I am myself, and I act like this in general. In this case it had the desired effect, the only problem is that, while she reciprocates or seems into me one moment, she pulls out the boyfriend card every now and then to put me in check (at least that's my interpretation).

My behavior doesn't change, this is her pushing in and pulling out, so to speak.

[–]SoRedSuchAlpha0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They're just never, ever attractive.

Hmm? I thought it was common for women to keep a backup man around, presumably an attractive one.

[–]ricksx99[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Sorry for the lack of details. The point is, we have things in common and she's kind of flirty, when she's comfortable. I'm very outgoing with girls so they know they can flirt. Now, where's the line between friendly flirting or something else is what I'm having trouble with.

In this case though, she's already in a relationship but gives off positive signals (flirting, touching, laughing at every joke, etc) and still puts the breaks on front (mentioning she has a boyfriend multiple times, or trying to make casual conversation about how she is NOT sending signals, if you know what I mean).

The point is, could this be a shit test? Because the whole concept of "look at her actions and not her words" are making everything confusing, honestly. What do you think man?

[–]Endorsed Contributorfnordsnord0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I think that she's in a relationship, and is either looking to branch-swing, or is trying to keep you interested as plan B.

[–]ricksx99[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, that's what I figured. I don't think I'll let her orbit my ass around her though :)

[–]Endorsed Contributorfnordsnord0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your call. Most guys would say "don't waste your time/money/energy on a girl you are not banging or likely to bang in the near future."

I'm more in the "are you having fun? Then keep doing what you're doing. If you're not, then do something different" camp.

[–]GreenPiller0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Keep going but don't fall in the friendzone... As soon as there is an opening you tear that pussy up. If things don't escalate in a few weeks just drop her

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