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Not showing your feelings is 'toxic masculinity'? Well, it's more complicated than that...

Blauwpetje

August 18, 2019
11 upvotes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/talking-about-men/201906/the-men-s-mental-health-double-bind

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Title Not showing your feelings is 'toxic masculinity'? Well, it's more complicated than that...
Author

Blauwpetje

Upvotes 11
Comments 6
Date August 18, 2019 7:18 PM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/cs5oan/not_showing_your_feelings_is_toxic_masculinity/
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Comments

[–]mtcapri 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Essentially, the message is, "men, rather than shoot up schools, talk to someone about your problems, but when you do, make sure you don't complain about any issues of systemic discrimination in society against you, because that's all misogynist bupkis."

[–]Aaod 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

And don't be angry or sad! Can't do either of those things.

[–]mtcapri 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Men need to talk about their feelings; not talking about them is what makes you toxic!"

Man talks about his feelings.

"Stop adding to my emotional labor!"

[–]heimdahl81 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Men need to learn to express emotions other than anger."

Man cries

"I'm not attracted to you any more."

[–]hugemongus123 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this is so fucked, real objective and observable truths about mens mental health and suicide is being held back by a subjective made up realities stemming from theory craft genderstudies. Do they not realise that suicide is the leading cause of death for young men, and that those men are a womens brother, son, grandson, boyfriend. They are seemingly disposable for the greater cause, the culture war.

[–]serpentineeyelash 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Great article!

As I said in the Mission Statement, feminism is basically perpetrating systemic psychological abuse against males, and this double bind is a prime example of it.

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