How should you exit the friend zone?

JimmyTheIntern · 2014-01-30T18:01:58+00:00

"If we're not having sex, I don't see the point," has been incredibly effective at keeping my ex's from trying to friend me. I'll disappear and they'll get in touch all butthurt about me never calling or texting them back, then I'll drop that line and never hear from them again.

GaiusScaevolus · 2014-01-30T18:22:50+00:00

Just leave. There are 2 basic ways to do this;

Fade out/ Soft break: Just stop answering calls/texts. Have other plans when she invites you places. The up side of this is No confrontation. The down side is that she may not get the hint.
Confront/ Hard break: This is the "fuck or walk" approach. essentially saying you don't want to be friends, you want to something else. This will lead to either to a new plate or her throwing a tantrum and storming out. The benefit of this one is that its clear and definite you want her out, the downside is that the high potential for fallout into your other relationships.

slcjosh · 2014-01-30T21:29:29+00:00

literally, just go ghost. Just cut all contact. If you get a "hey how are you my favorite orbiter!???!?!" text just right back "im great." and leave it at that. Just drop from her orbit man.

niceguy_gone_cad · 2014-01-31T16:55:36+00:00

"Sorry, I have enough friends" - This is more than enough.

[deleted] · 2014-01-31T06:33:09+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9QOQNcpuiA

HeadingRed · 2014-01-31T21:38:55+00:00

Fade out works best when you mention you have someone else. Women are used to other women going dark when they have a guy.

Title	How should you exit the friend zone?
Author	ArthurOcean
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	January 30, 2014 5:46 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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