I'm reading this guide https://archive.is/7Qi7n

I'm at this part:

Initiating the Hangout/Date

This can go one of two ways. She will ask you to hang out or you can, preferably her.

1) You initiate the hangout "hey we should catch up. how about [insert coffee place] at [insert time]?"

Note: 'Catch up' is for plausible deniability and doesn't make you sound desperate. But the scenario is definitely best when she asks you.

2) She initiates the hang out

Ex: "I still have some of your things and want to return them to you. When can we meet?"

Note: This is not about her bringing your things, she wants your attention and give her validation. Accept this with, "sure, [insert place] at [insert time]" after a ~10 mins.

I'm gonna have to initiate since she thinks I havent been talking to her because I'm "hurt".

How do I initiate the hangout?. Things that I can use:

1.- I have stuff at her house

2.- I'm gonna be in town for 2 days, I need a place to stay but I think its better if I get a hotel room rather than ask her to stay at her place.

3.-???

How do I initiate the hangout? I think I somewhat fucked up the part where I was completely indifferent when she was trying to engage me she texted me 3 times and I completely dismissed her, and now she possibly thinks I'm butt-hurt.