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They man seems like a nut but that doesn’t mean he is always wrong. He's been making more and more sense lately. Two videos you might enjoy: https://saidit.net/s/altrightwebm/comments/yjr/david_icke_sabbatianism_and_the_hidden_hand_of/ https://saidit.net/s/altrightwebm/comments/2xgm/why_globalism_matters_robert_sepehr/
/r/MGTOW26/02/20 02:30 AM
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Let's get real though. You can garner so much control over a society that you design it in such a way that you make slaves think they are choosing their slavery.
/r/MGTOW26/02/20 12:59 AM
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4) Racial quotas and affirmative actions are pure BS and one of the greatest scam men face. How many qualified white men have been passed on at work or at school in favor of less qualified "minorities?" Since when did r/mgtow become so based?
/r/MGTOW25/02/20 12:14 PM
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Just started listening. It's great stuff but I can't find some of the middle episodes. I'm especially struggling to find the detox episode (17 I think).
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 04:31 AM
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Try the arm pit crystal alum.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 04:12 AM
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industrial water distiller This one does 42 gallons a day for 2500. How much water do you use? https://www.waterdistillersdirect.com/durastill-42-gallon-per-day-automatic-water-distiller-no-reserve-tank/ This one would be perfect for a large family drinking and cooking water supply. https://www.waterdistillersdirect.com/durastill-8-gallon-per-day-automatic-water-distiller-with-10-gallon-reserve/
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 02:09 PM
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Doesn't this only happen when you're taking well over the amount normally produced by healthy testicles?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 09:14 PM
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if clits got larger they’d be easier to find Where's the line between large clit and small penis?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 09:12 PM
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Do you buy your water or have a distiller set up?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 09:10 PM
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Sounds like you've already checked out; that's not right. Part of getting married is being in it for times just like this. Yes he failed at his goal but that's a likelihood when you go for big goals. Now you have to be there for him. That's literally the entire point of a marriage union. Consider the reverse situation. He took a job straight out of college to buy you a house and start the family and now he's locked into a go nowhere middle manager job and hates it. Imagine you hopping on the int…
/r/RedPillWives03/08/18 04:21 AM
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Hello redpillwives! I haven't posted over here for a while but just wanted to drop buy and say hi. I hope everyone is doing well. I thought you'd enjoy this little debate.
/r/RedPillWives03/08/18 03:51 AM
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He's a complete hack in that area and so receiving challenges about it makes it sound like you're unaware of it / implicitly endorsing his ignorant ramblings. He's not a 'hack' in that area. He rejects the findings and 'discoveries' of marxists/poststructuralists and believes they should be pushed to the wayside as 'disproven.' How can you be a hack in a field you reject? Please stop trying to obfuscate the argument. It's obvious and unbecoming.
/r/MensRights31/05/18 06:58 PM
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You can't counter that with "oh look how many of the researchers were jews" unless your audience is already inclined to be bigoted. Isn't this same argument used to instal affirmative action to reduce numbers of whites and asians in ivy league schools? So I take it you are against affirmative action because an overrepresentation of one race isn't a problem right? I watched some of your pro-scientific-racism MacDonald is not a biologist and doesn't go into any race realism. antisemitic video MacD…
/r/MensRights30/05/18 04:19 PM
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This applies to a lot of other areas as well. If women want something they make up excuses to make themselves feel good about having it. Men do this too but it seems like they aren't as easily wired to deceive themselves.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 04:46 PM
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Lots of men get into and stay in relationships for financial reasons. I.e. they see a women with some money and a wealthy family and it flavors their decisions or vice versa she's dirt poor with money management issues but you put up with it (and she puts up with you) because she's hot or you like being needed. Some people also stay together months or years specifically because they can't afford to break up. This is basically pissing away your youth and precious time that you could have been mee…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 01:50 PM
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His theory is antisemitic. It's complete nonsense made up by the nazis It's not JBP's theory. Cultural marxism has been covered at length by many scholars. Irving, E. Michael Jones, Solzhenitsyn, MacDonald. I'd be impressed if you could point out a problem with the scholarship behind MacDonald's COC. Peer review and specialization works. Until it's captured by quote circles. My particular field has been devastated by these. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CPiOTC6Nyvk It's not an aversion to ideo…
/r/MensRights28/05/18 07:37 PM
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Yikes. Jordan Peterson just vaguely supports the anti-semitic cultural marxism theory LOL. Jordan Peterson is not an anti semite. https://jordanbpeterson.com/psychology/on-the-so-called-jewish-question/ And cultural marxism is not 'anti semitic' it's counter semitic and very well sourced. Am I anti catholic for opposing the Inquisition? Am I anti Italian for pointing out RICO activities of the mafia? Only when it comes to the jews is the 'anti semitism' thrown about so wildly. He also rejects a …
/r/MensRights28/05/18 05:35 PM
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The united states is a liberal democracy No. It was a constitutional republic. I belive this is understood this way by political scientists as well. I have a minor in political science and I've rarely heard it described as a liberal democracy. "Liberal democracy" is a democratic doublespeak to attempt to make lemmings think a certain way about their country. Not only the USA isn't communist, which would be a stateless moneyless plentiful society accross the whole world, it is not even socialist.…
/r/MensRights28/05/18 02:59 PM
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Why don't you believe we are under communist control? I encourage you to direct your questions as r/debatealtright as well.
/r/MensRights28/05/18 02:06 PM
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Glad you're enjoying a tour through my user history. Can I make you a whiskey? Any questions? Castiron cooking tips?
/r/MensRights28/05/18 01:43 AM
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The United States is basically living under a communist dictatorship and they are destroying our norms and traditions using media, finance and academics. Our women have been brainwashed by cultural marxism. Cultural marxism teaches women to see every problem they face through the lens of oppressor vs oppressed which they are already naturally prone to believe being the weaker sex physically. This constant reframing eventually creates helpless victims that because of their victimhood end up falli…
/r/MensRights27/05/18 03:33 PM
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It's not their money and they get millions in kickbacks so why not?
/r/MensRights29/04/18 05:42 PM
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neoreactionary-sphere I've spent less time here then I have on redpill and alt right stuff. I've dipped into some of the Mencius Moldbug pro monarch stuff. Can you give me one or two intro type articles or links to the Neo reaction space? I'm not into "identity politics I really wasn't either until the anti white rhetoric really starting picking up steam. I'd much prefer a society that didn't see race under that law but if push comes to shove as a white male I don't want to become a minority in …
/r/RedPillWives28/03/18 06:28 PM
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We're definitely pro alt right lol, Ok. Good to know. I've recently started to explore the alt right movement. I still consider myself just libertarian politically but the alt right movement is really fascinating if you're into politics. Whenever I share more potentially polarising content I try to leave a comment that fleshes out the main points I will do that next time. I was more asking if anyone had heard of or had any connections with the group because they are new to me. If you could do th…
/r/RedPillWives28/03/18 04:20 PM
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I totally get why it would get flagged. That's why I added the warning. Maybe that's a discussion RPW sub needs to have. Do you allow posts from alt right sources that share RPW views or are those all just going to be excluded from the sub? It would be helpful for the mods and endorsed contributors to be clear about this because I'm noticing a LOT of traditional women youtubers and blogs are also alt right in their politics. Brittany Pettibone, Lauren Southern, McCarthy, etc. have all made both …
/r/RedPillWives28/03/18 04:05 PM
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The fuck did I just watch? That was my reaction as well. I'm surprised this isn't getting more traction.
/r/MensRights24/03/18 02:39 PM
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I think he meant after the arrest and conviction and subsequent divorce. He's actually sympathizing with the mom that she 'might' lose her children to a the divorcing husband. Unreal the double standard. He also frequently refers to it as 'lust' and 'falling in love' instead of the predatory act it is. It's also not evil it's just a poor 'victimized' women that is trying to find love she missed out on or longs for from high school. Makes me nauseous. Women aren't even responsible when they groom…
/r/MensRights24/03/18 02:24 PM
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Well if the paying your ex thing is abolished the common law thing wouldn't be such a threat.
/r/MGTOW23/03/18 04:33 AM
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I would never do it... but I understand.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/18 04:29 AM
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About 6 decades too late.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/18 04:28 AM
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Dude, these women have absolutely no empathy for or understanding of men. It's not in a woman's interest to have empathy for men. In fact it's biologically dangerous for them too.
/r/MensRights17/03/18 09:18 AM
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You don't have to imagine. Just look at Sweden.
/r/MensRights11/03/18 10:00 PM
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Someone needs to make a twitter bot that takes anti male anti white anti christian tweets for SJW's and just switched out black, female, atheist.
/r/MensRights11/03/18 09:57 PM
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I wasn't trying to dump on your dad. There are men like your dad that have better frame with less resources and experience and men like your dad with terrible frame. My point is that frame can be tied closely tied to reality or loosely. You dad probably got all those things with good frame. Frame helps you build more material things and experiences that then help you maintain frame even more.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:36 AM
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I think for your frame to be strong it has to have 'some' tie in with reality but probably not as much as people think. For example Donald Trump has such strong frame he managed to not lose his inheritance despite being a terrible businessman or an election despite not being qualified. He succeeded in those areas because he made people fall into his frame. The stronger your frame the less you have to rely on reality. You shape reality to your will. That being said you can often get so far away f…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:16 AM
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I've really started to like Tucker. He use to spout the 'man up' phrase until he was confronted by Dr. Helen and no he's shifted his position with help from JP. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCpBa4ITEcI
/r/MensRights08/03/18 06:17 PM
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For women it's an ocean regardless of the manipulation the apps do.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/18 05:07 PM
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It confuses the hypergamy drive. The same way porn confuses the male visual drive. I really think that social media is porn for women and I lump all of social media in there because women don't just use dating apps to find men. Almost every social media platform becomes a potential to widen the pond to unreasonable levels and tickle the hypergamy (minus reddit of course, nobody would fish at lake reddit!). Instagram models are basically offering themselves up to three million followers but will …
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/18 05:06 PM
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This hasn't changed. Agreed but it's been pushed back hard. The old paradigm was get married before 23 and now it's 30+ Couple that with the growing strain of Socialism in the US, and we have real problems. Why Socialism? Agreed. Here's a whole thread on r/politics right now. https://www.reddit.com/r/politics/comments/82iijb/its_time_to_give_socialism_a_try/?utm_content=full_comments&utm_medium=user&utm_source=reddit&utm_name=frontpage
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 10:03 PM
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Social media is just giving women the impression that there are all these men out there who are interested in us. Which is really interesting because the social messaging for women in the past was almost the opposite. You need to find a man quickly. You should be thankful if you find a man. Good men are rare and many are married. You shouldn't look for a man with resources you should look for a man who has ambition and drive and get with him early and hang on. Women 60 plus years ago didn't have…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 09:16 PM
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in every way possible, and more than anything want to be a mature and capable adult If you are kind to others, going through schooling or working, read a book every now and again and practice religion or have spirit and goodness that animates you or you find something sacred in this world you are already a mature capable adult. I'm not interested in using my past as reason for not achieving what I want out of life, This just doubly confirms to me that you are a mature, passionate, self regulatin…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 03:30 AM
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Loved that interview for how well Jordan handled the attacks. Did you see how Vice tried to do the same thing?
/r/RedPillWives04/03/18 02:00 AM
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Stating women can be just a dangerous as men does not mean you have something wrong with you.
/r/MensRights27/02/18 07:53 PM
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You also left out using other women, men, and children as manipulation tools, gaslighting, spying, and sexual bargaining. And the biggest one: claiming victim status at every possible turn to co-opt whiteknights, sympathy and resources.
/r/MensRights27/02/18 07:50 PM
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Gynocentrism.
/r/MensRights26/02/18 04:16 AM
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I don't have hatred. My mother also took care of my father for 20 years before he passed with the last 5 being terrible. I'm not talking about that type of weakness. In fact I agree that women are probably better at not leaving during an illness but the relationship certainly changes the mothering instincts kick in and lots of women report that they can't love their husbands the same way after they come back from an rough illness. I'm more talking about frame weakness, protecting the family weak…
/r/MensRights24/02/18 08:18 PM
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who are you to say that all women hate/dislike when their partner shows some weakness or vulnerability? I tactfully used the word 'allergy.' So it doesn't mean you'll leave him but weakness does have an effect that intensifies with time. One bee sting might not kill you but one a day or a swarm can. I know it's scary to think that you would see your husband differently if he changed but I don't make the rules. This is programed deeply in your hypothalamus and the same way you tire if you don't s…
/r/MensRights24/02/18 07:35 PM
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You sound bitter as fuck. You sound weak and triggered. I didn't mean to imply women hate or dislike all weak men. Just weak sexual/dating partners. If you don't agree with that you have you're head up your ass and you're living in a bubble. Who are you to judge all women and what we are "extremely allergic" to? A person that's had a lot of experience with women. Are you ready to cast that same sort of generalization onto men? Yes. Men are allergic to dating unattractive women that are too old o…
/r/MensRights24/02/18 06:59 PM
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Even though you 'want' to support him it will be tempting to see him as weak. Women have an extreme allergy to weak men. Keep in mind that just because he went through this experience doesn't mean it defines him or will automatically make him a life long victim. In fact if it was a major issue for him he might not have even told you. If he doesn't emote much more about the subject it also doesn't mean he's suppressing it. Men are emotional creatures but work our emotions out in different ways th…
/r/MensRights24/02/18 05:25 PM
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Tell that to social vendetta warriors.
/r/MensRights13/02/18 12:08 AM
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Yea! Also fuck MDsplaining and JDsplaining.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 09:06 PM
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I think we need to rethink the highschool system in our country. We should have a preschool system with NO testing that runs pre k through 1rst grade, a grammar school system that runs 2-6 and a high school system that runs 7-10 (with no student parking lots and no off campus eating, and strict student dating policy and zero PDA) and then kids should be kicked the fuck out into all different types of adult oriented vocation, community college, systems that allow more professional interaction bet…
/r/MensRights11/02/18 07:07 PM
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Only certain specific types of subordinate superior positions. The vast majority have no legal restrictions.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 06:36 PM
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BULLSHIT.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 06:35 PM
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The best way I've done intactivism is to spread this outstanding lecture https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ceht-3xu84I It seems that when circumcision comes up in social chatter people fall back on tons of myths and bad science and that lecture hits every single one of them. I try to drop it in thread of emails to friends and on social media boards. I've even set with couple who are having a boy to talk about it and watch it with them. I've never had a friend or family member who is open minded ab…
/r/MensRights11/02/18 03:18 PM
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"Abort Fatherhood" should be the rallying cry. I bring it up because women use children to trap men and while a women can opt out of motherhood with abortion and adoption men have neither of those options. The pro life people might like this argument because it forces more women to go the adoption route or to change their mind and have the baby instead of the abortion route. It might reduce the number of abortions.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 02:31 PM
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Religious people seem to be under the mass delusion that if you teach people about safe sex and STDs you condone casual sex.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 02:15 PM
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Somebody quick get this talking point over to the pro life people. If women have the right to abort a child, men have a right to reject fatherhood during gestation.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 04:19 AM
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The single-sex, off-campus organizations came under fire after Harvard determined all-male groups created dangerous environments. The policy change was announced in May 2016, even though these organizations haven’t been recognized or received benefits from the university since 1984. Just wait one minute... These are off campus unrecognized clubs that receive no benefits.. HOW THE FUCK can Harvard say anything about these?? That's a complete violation of freedom of assembly.
/r/MensRights07/02/18 07:14 AM
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Why do I never get invited to these meetings? Seriously I wonder if there's some projecting going on. Women know they talk about men logistically and do some plotting so they assume men are too. Of course men know the reality. We are just shooting the shit and most likely talking about 'things' not people and plots and least of all not women.
/r/MensRights07/02/18 07:10 AM
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Are sports clubs? This seems strange to me. What's wrong with same sex clubs?
/r/MensRights07/02/18 05:27 AM
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He will lose valuable connections and be possibly graded lower by not all but some teachers. He will be labeled; few if any will be willing to join even if he is able to get it formed which I doubt will happen.
/r/MensRights05/02/18 07:02 AM
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That's why I want you to read Diamond because of a combination of factors and inventions European imperialism was just the first lucky contestant to use new technology to their benefit. I have no doubt the aztecs or the egyptians or the japanese would have engaged in imperialism as well. You also need to be hyper careful about your judgement of imperialism. The flip side of imperialism is mercantilism. Without imperialism we don't get world trade and cultures mixing and industrialization and the…
/r/MensRights05/02/18 06:07 AM
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Actually I sympathize. You could spend 10 years of daily scholarship just focusing on the atrocities. It's like they never stop. However, I can assure you it's a much more nuanced picture as your scholarship expands. Just looking into the Huns and some of the more brutal Chinese periods, or Imperial Japan or Vlad the impaler or Pol pot; atrocity and brutality are certainly not horded by people with less melanin. If you like macro history stuff I highly recommend Jared Diamond. His book Guns, Ger…
/r/MensRights05/02/18 05:46 AM
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This is a bad idea for you. Society is just not ready and you will hurt your academic career. Maybe start a conservative or libertarian club. You will get a lot more support/defenders and will be able to talk about men's issues inside of that group. The best thing you can do for MRA is to get through highschool and college and into a good career unscathed.
/r/MensRights05/02/18 05:24 AM
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Yes. The original point is that Europeans didn't invent slavery and certainly are not responsible for all the negative in the world. There are too many variables to prove beyond a shadow of a doubt the 'goodness' or 'badness' of judeo-christian culture. It's a silly argument and it's not really how historians analyze things for good reason.
/r/MensRights05/02/18 05:15 AM
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Good thing that's not what we are arguing.
/r/MensRights05/02/18 04:57 AM
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They don't really need it. Equality of outcome says we must have equal representation even if candidates aren't qualified. So why bother!
/r/MensRights05/02/18 04:54 AM
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Are you telling me that single women aren't raising their sons right?? HOW DARE YOU!!? Women don't need men! The government will provide!
/r/MensRights05/02/18 04:50 AM
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That's a pretty narrow scope, and Saddam would have steam rolled Kuwait and ethnically cleansed if we hadn't done anything.
/r/MensRights05/02/18 04:47 AM
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Read a few more. Whites didn't invent slavery or exploitation and are just as much involved in ending general suffering as they were in creating it.
/r/MensRights05/02/18 04:17 AM
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Political views should never enter the workplace. There's a lot of problems with this though. Many jobs are connected to politics or religion which nowadays has become politicized. We are also at a time in history where the country cannot come together on key issues so we are cleaving like we did in the run up to the civil war. Another angle on this is that because of the internet we've lost a sense of collective culture everything runs through our political tribes. Without collective culture it…
/r/MensRights05/02/18 04:16 AM
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I don't understand your comment.
/r/MensRights04/02/18 08:07 PM
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This comment right here really exposes the hypocrisy of the leftists. If they really wanted equality of outcome they'd set hiring standards by national and racial gender surveys (I'm against that too). Far leftism isn't even about equality of outcome it's about suppression of those perceived highest on the intersectionality totem pole and promotion of the lowest. So wealthy, abled, white men and then women must be pulled down and African, native, disabled, LGBTQ, must be promoted REGARDLESS of q…
/r/MensRights04/02/18 05:07 PM
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The smartest move they ever made was offering free storage and archive of old emails. That turns google into your mental file cabinet that you become reliant on. Throwing away a 5 or 10 year google email account is like throwing away a chunk of your brain.
/r/MensRights04/02/18 04:51 PM
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If the liberals double down on this equal outcomes identity politics shit I think we are headed for civil war.
/r/MensRights04/02/18 04:49 PM
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I think this is why a lot of the conservatives did so poorly in political discourse for so long. They failed to learn the lingo and everytime they engaged in discussions with liberals they used offensive language often without even realizing it. Finally guys like Ben Shapiro came along and could eloquently communicate the conservative positions with proper language.
/r/MensRights04/02/18 04:47 PM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted. I don't think it was the commenters intention either. If the MRA people want to try to reach across to the leftists and have conversations at least learn some of the lingo and what it means. If you're going to have civil conversations you shouldn't use insults and using the word tranny is different than the pronoun debate. I'm a libertarian and I think the poor white, black and hispanic community would be helped if we reduced not increase welfare but I'm no…
/r/MensRights04/02/18 04:44 PM
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Women will find out what your worth either directly from you when you've let down your guard or by snooping around and asking friends and family. It's impossible to hide it completely but you can hide a chunk of it.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 02:57 PM
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which paradoxically is why they want a rich beta in the first place. True. They know that won't keep a man that wants them to perform so the game becomes 'find the biggest sucker.'
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:39 AM
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After reading a few stories like yours here's my take away: If you have money and start dating a women keep your wealth partially hidden. If you get wealthy while with a women hide all of it and let her in on is slowly so she can adjust (if you want to keep her). NEVER let her in anyway know the FULL amount.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:36 AM
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unjustified sense of entitlement They have a vagina that produces life so in some sense justified; traditionally women knew that wasn't enough to get and keep a man. You had to offer a lot more as a women in the past. Not anymore.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:28 AM
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I used to ask "yeah, but what did you do" Seems like they will either submit and confessed to you or lash out and get pissy for not validating them. Either way you win.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:22 AM
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Seems like after women are married they've 'claimed' the ticket and just like normal lottery winners all the bad traits they had before winning are now amplified because they have money. It's also no surprise lottery winners are poor a few years later and no surprise many of these low quality women are divorced so fast.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:19 AM
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This is an interesting analysis but I think women certainly have the ability to not think sequentially even though it may be their preference. I do agree with you that each sequence effects their emotional states and they can't necessarily predict how certain situations might affect them emotionally. The most critical difference I see is that women can't creatively imagine the emotional states of others. Men do this a lot more efficiently after some practice and with good guidance. Women are 'af…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 08:37 PM
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I think we will have some traditionalists enclaves spring up in the midst of all this almost like the mennonites and Amish and when society starts getting worse these societies will swell because they will be the only ones with functional economies.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 05:36 AM
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I never liked you.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 02:07 AM
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Fuck off asshole.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 02:07 AM
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/r/im14andthisisdeep/
/r/askTRP29/01/18 02:06 AM
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Even yourself.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 02:04 AM
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Options: 1) Show feelings and she will leave 2) Hide feelings and she will sense you're hiding feelings and leave 3) Tell her you have feelings but she's just a plate to you and will most likely always be a plate. She will probably leave but might stay if she has a low opinion of herself which will help you actually lose feelings for her and have something more akin to a weird mix of sympathy and disgust which if you haven't found anything better would make a good wife.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:52 PM
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If a plate calls you a plate she's just projecting. Dismiss it and if you're worried about losing her she's not a plate she's your girlfriend and you have oneitis.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:32 PM
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The fact that you started out your rant with a failed relationship tells me that the reason you are feeling the way you are feeling is because you failed with a hot chick. Which means no matter how many good things you have going on you still have a lot of billy beta inside that said "This chick is going to be my wife! and make me complete!" Other people don't make you complete and especially not women. You have no idea how lucky you are that girl left you. You had already put her so high on a p…
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:28 PM
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JBP is doing a lot of great work redpilling liberals on basic facts about the wage gape and positive aspects of religion but he hasn't embraced the full redpill paradigm like Rollo has. I bet they'd have a great discussion.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 09:46 PM
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Women have more solidarity than men. Third parties will always be outvoted. I agree the answer is more complicated then is discussed on redpill. We as men ultimately run the show and at any time could stop this. We need to put our heads together. I've been chatting a lot about this with several other redpillers.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 08:47 AM
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We can't counter organize. I agree that this is a major impediment. As you outline in your original piece men don't organize along gender lines the same way women do. Even feminists have accurately pointed this out. It is a big scary problem because not only are women scary good at organizing around their instincts they've enshrined those imperatives into modern western law and we are all suffocating on them. However you keep forgetting that men run everything. The female imperative is instantly…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 02:01 AM
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Worst of all, women can just import a bunch of barbarians to overthrow the male power. Women can't do this without male compliance and if 'thegreatframe' is working they won't have that compliance. Remember that importing 'mates' goes two ways. Men could always fight back by importing single women. It's also important to note that 'legal' immigration in small quantities is not the end of western society. The only two things that will severely hurt western society is mass floods of people that do…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 01:41 AM
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But then, at some point, when do we let women back into our lives? I didn't say you don't have women in your life. I'd still encourage men to have girlfriends and live with them but men should stop lying to women and dangling that they will marry them. Women need a revolution in this area as well. They need to stop shacking up with men they think will change their minds and have children with them. Women are wasting the best years of their lives with dudes that end up leaving them and then marry…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 01:30 AM
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Men can train to "turn it off", so to speak, and rob women of their power - and women wouldn't hardly notice. Great. All we need to do is get training them. However, I just can't see life-long monogamy as viable for the majority any longer. Men need to develop a new approach to checking female power. What's interesting is marriage was never a good deal for men. I mean you got some points for being a stable guy who took one for the team by basically pledging to take care of a women and her/your o…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 01:20 AM
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If you're applying for jobs and go in for an interview and realize it's a company that you don't want to work for and won't pay you what you want do you tell them in the interview why they are a bad company?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 12:58 AM
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This has always been the long term goal of redpill in general in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:38 PM
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Val Plumwood LOL. You'd think after almost being prey herself she'd fall back into the traditional philosophy of humans should be at the top of the pecking order. I wonder how this women would have responded to a male attacking her and hurting her. Would she tell the police officer coming to rescue her to get away because this is the natural order?? This is the natural female mythos. Eco-feminism. Solipsistic, social-sensory, emotional primacy, constraining all thought and meaning into social ra…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:35 PM
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That's more social management than a man would likely get into, so my shorthand solution is just to try and make women subconsciously feel like they're outside observers of a game men are playing, and they're allowed to watch, quietly, but not fuck with it. I like some of your ideas but I think this all needs flushed out more and has kinks; but keep writing and distilling these ideas... Let's just boil this all down even further. Women have taken on a masculine frame and many men have lost it. T…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 09:33 PM
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You're falling exactly into the issue OP is talking about. Why do you care if a guy drops out of the market and doesn't want to fuck women?? That's a good thing for guys that like fucking if other guys give up. What you don't want is bunch of guys dropping out of society and living in basements. That drives the cost of labor up and shrinks the tax base up and hurts us all.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 08:44 PM
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If you get a chance you should read the book, The Story of B by Daniel Quinn. It's the sequel to his book Ishmael. In which he basically says you can't fix societal problems with government programs you have to fix it with socio-cultural shifts.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 08:08 PM
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Civilization was the compromise which channeled alpha traits in a way that betas were okay with. What betas get is not an end to alpha domination, but rather some space to not be killed young and sometimes get sex with women. I agree with this but isn't this 'civilization' contract failing? Birth rates in the western world are falling and men and women everywhere feel like they are getting a raw deal.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 08:05 PM
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I think he's just asking for a change in the social pecking order. Alpha's Alpha's wives Sluts Single moms unmarried women chaste married women that work married women that choose to take care of a family Mgtow/bums/betas/cucks He wants it changed to: Alphas Mgtow (that pay taxes and contribute to society) Beta males that don't white night Alphas wives that stay home to raise children Beta wives that stay home married women that work and have children married women that don't support their husba…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 07:39 PM
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Outstanding summarization. Bravo!
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 06:39 PM
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I'd like to add some more structured, achievable solutions. I think if we can do these we'd solve most of our problems. Vote to end welfare, especially welfare for single mothers and women. If you own a business don't hire incompetent people and fire people that are being emotional and irrational and effecting the bottom line of your business. This will most often be women. A few women will pass these tests and you should reward those particular women because they will help your business grow. S…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 06:33 PM
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Well then you're misinterpreting OP's message. He's not calling for abolishment of competition and striving within a framework he's call for a movement to abolish the old framework and institute a new one.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 06:23 PM
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negative effects of their subconscious sexual psychology. It seems like that's how we form the movement. We take the two greatest dangers: hypergamy with women and excessive alpha domination with men and we build a system that restricts both. Right now we have a legal and social system that is allowing both of these to go haywire.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 06:01 PM
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Agreed and we aren't going to reform society dragging women along or enslaving them. Women will need to intimately be part of the movement. Women are absolutely miserable today and if a 'new alliance' is going to be done correctly women will be more content with their return to family and support roles. Judeo-Christian complementarianism is the most misunderstood doctrine. Complementarianism says that both sexes are valuable and special within their own domain. No sex is better or superior just …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 05:57 PM
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If this were true we wouldn't have modern society with a constitution, police force and laws. Society itself is proof that men can form and follow contracts.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 05:47 PM
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Women are so hyper self inflated to today that your value has to be sky high for them not to say no. The key is to demonstrate value before you actually address her so that she can build you up. Next you need to engage physically. You immediately follow this up with nurturing dependence. Finally neglect, inspire, and separate entirely.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:02 AM
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We will never win because men operate better in small teams. Men don't act as a communist collective. Smart powerful men are actually driving a lot of this feminist sentiment and riding it and profiting off it. If men truly wanted to change all this it could be fixed tomorrow because men control every aspect of society.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 03:55 AM
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Somewhere along the line we crossed some type of quiet threshold and men are basically now slaves to the government/female borg collective.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 01:22 AM
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The evil patriarchy made her do it.
/r/MensRights18/01/18 07:02 PM
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Free speech organizations.
/r/MensRights18/01/18 06:34 PM
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This one really got it all going. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kasiov0ytEc The Joe Rogan Episodes as well are very very good.
/r/MensRights18/01/18 05:37 AM
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It fits the feminine imperative perfectly. They refuse to draw a line or set a standard because then they'd have to follow it and be held to it. Women prefer at all cost to avoid accountability and responsibility and that thread you cite is another example.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 07:02 AM
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It's so strange because in guy land that's a whoopin. Not so much in women land. The only way to hold women accountable today is with social ridicule and good luck orchestrating that in 'girl power' culture. I wonder what modern women would be like if they were controlled more by cultural/religious/social norms. Probably still crazy but slightly less dangerous? happier for sure.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 01:08 AM
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SMV = Money+good career This is all women just more so with asians.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 06:09 PM
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Assuming a girl is good looking; If you want to fuck her once you need game and logistics, if you want to fucker her twice you need to have equal or greater SMV if you want a plate or relationship you need to have greater SMV than her. If you want a long term plate or stable relationship you need to manage women and be on the upswing while she is static or on the downswing looks/age wise.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 06:07 PM
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I'll take a fake trad con women over an obvious feminist shill any day of the week. I can work with a trad con and leverage her previous statements and family to keep her on the straight and narrow. The only danger is when you don't manage her properly and that's on you no matter what type of women you settle with.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 06:01 PM
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Don't forget that their are also high IQ high impulse people that despite their best logic fuck shit up. The silver lining is that low IQ people can be trained to not think with their libido/impulse (religion, role models, parenting, social influence).
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:58 PM
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But the only reason they want to ride is to find a better option. They don't pleasure riding for the sake of riding.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:54 PM
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They believe in what they are 'influenced' to believe in.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:52 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Sorry that happened to you. Part of the problem is that places like panama have crime elements that only see dollar signs when westerners come to town and there's a big target on your back. 2500 might not seem like a lot to you but that's a huge score for a small gang. There's also zero incentive for authorities to protect travelers as they probably get a cut off of all the hustles. If you were a local with friends there'd be some pay back and they'd have to factor that into …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:39 PM
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The key word is 'men' most men today are not men. They are emasculated subservient shells or never matured at all. Therefore women have an endless supply of drones to run society for them. Masculinity is due up for a hard rebirth. and give men our authority back This could easily happen if men just wake up and take back the reins. I think that's what men thought they were doing when they voted for Trump. In reality they just voted for a confident man more concerned about his bank account than th…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:12 PM
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Well said. To shorten this if women are not forceable controlled by masculine constructions (religion, law, finance etc) for good or bad women will do it. There is not compromise, there is no truce. It's control or be controlled in the gender war and since modern society gives women more freedoms than they've ever had in the history of the world we are seeing this gynocentric dystopia play out before our eyes.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:08 PM
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“well I thought I was drinking the same amount as you, but I was wasted and you weren’t....” She just straight up low key accused you of drugging her. That's why I don't help visually drunk chicks at all. They will use the closest available guy to scapegoat their irresponsibility without an iota of thought for what that might do to your reputation.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:59 PM
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It's a step in the right direction. I'll taken second wave feminism over third wave tumblr feminist any day of the week.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:52 PM
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She's just mad because she wanted a relationship and he wanted a one-night stand, so she decided to try and ruin his fucking life. This is exactly what happen. Men have got to start fighting against this.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:50 PM
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heir dogs or really whatever they want to do. But I find myself completely alienated by other "liberal" people because I support real equality and not feminism. I'm in this exact same position. Not really a conservative but disgusted by a lot of leftist positions especially free speech attacks and PC culture. I'd like to see a renewal of libertarianism. It's had some issues with tone death ideologues in the past but recently guys like Austin Peterson, Dave Smith, Colin Moriarty has renewed my fa…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:26 AM
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One of the reasons I drifted away from reading a lot of redpill has been that the good content is still there but never quite gets voted up because of all the other crap you have to wade through to find it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 05:38 AM
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Maybe endorsed contributors could also endorse new posts. Instead of removing a lot of posts you'd see something like (3 endorsed contributors have recommended this post)
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 05:37 AM
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A post like that almost feels like a troll.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 05:34 AM
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Oh were needed, just not appreciated Thanks for saying this. Men are needed more than ever.
/r/MensRights10/01/18 03:50 AM
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Why does it have to involve physical labour? This makes absolutely no sense. He said counseling through 'tasks' It doesn't necessarily have to be labor. It just has to be some type of structured proactive approach.
/r/MensRights10/01/18 03:49 AM
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Technically men are the source of the worlds problems but also the source of the worlds solutions. That's because men built and maintain society. Women (in general) simply participate and copulate with winners as they are naturally risk averse by nature.
/r/MensRights10/01/18 03:43 AM
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He just said labor arbitrage is a very real thing.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 08:07 PM
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^ The realest comment in this thread right here. ^
/r/askTRP06/01/18 11:59 PM
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Ok. I still don't think you're seeing the big picture here. Let me run some numbers for you. 50k salary. 1/3 gone for taxes and 401k/pension. You never even see that money. 34k Student loans based on that income are going to be minimum 500 a month payments. 28k Rent's are sky high right now. You're not getting under 1200 in most areas. Let's assume you get a roommate, so 600 a month. 21k Food is sky high and people don't cook anymore and most jobs don't give you time to cook. So 500 is bare minm…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 11:48 PM
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Say I'm making $70k a year after taxes Most people aren't working with this type of base pay. Your numbers are also going to change DRASTICALLY depending on where you live. edit. Also people lose jobs and while searching for new jobs are out of income. Moving costs for new jobs as well effect budgets. People are moving and change more jobs more frequently than ever. You're also leaving out student loans and paying for a family.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 11:23 PM
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You'd be amazed at all the extra expenses that come up in the course of a year. Medical, accidents, theft, weird fees/taxes, donations, gifts, repairs, mistakes, etc. etc. Even an excellent budget can be off by 20-30%
/r/askTRP06/01/18 11:08 PM
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Four big RP financial truths I've found: Lifestyle' dept. Any debt you take on specifically to appear to be a part of a certain class. So nicer car, nicer house, vacations, bullshit degree that's not going to pay for itself. Basically any dept that's not going to be productive. Taking on debt to start a business that has good fundamentals is not lifestyle debt. BIFL Another financial truth is buy it for life items (BIFL). Using and maintaining cast iron can be a lot more cost effective over the …
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:18 PM
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What exactly pissed her off in the first place? Did he take a route she didn't like?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 03:49 AM
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This. Most of the problem arises when feminist want to tear men down outside of the court system and with title 9 courts.
/r/MensRights27/12/17 05:08 AM
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Feel free to PM if you need someone to chat with.
/r/MensRights26/12/17 08:48 PM
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Because she's trying to play both sides. Taking a stance against false accusation would get her excommunicated from the girl tribe. Playing both sides lets her keep the girlfriends and court masculine approval. "Look I wrote an article saying girls are sometimes flirty! I'm with you guys!"
/r/MensRights26/12/17 04:08 PM
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I don't understand why you are getting downvoted. You clearly admit that abuse in your past as well as having autistic children is what causes the hyper vigilance. Sounds like you at least have a dialogue with that. I appreciate your candid comment but I also think that you should continue to have a dialogue with professionals and friends about how the past abuse triggers you and may lead you to hurting more than helping your children in 'some' scenarios although the examples you list don't seem…
/r/MensRights26/12/17 04:07 PM
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Manginas I have a feeling there are a lot of angry bluepillmen ready to switch teams. Also not every women votes blue pill. I'm not a Trump supporter myself but even with his locker room talk and negative press related to women 61 percent of non-college educated women voted Trump and 43 percent of college educated women voted Trump. So just because a candidate is a women or a bluepill advocate doesn't mean women will automatically vote for them. In fact I think there's a small but growing consor…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 04:47 PM
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I'm sorry that you were up against such a high level of weaponized false victimhood. I had something similar in my divorce. My ex whipped up lie after lie to turn both families against me. Thank god I didn't have to deal with the court system. I hope you make it/made it through in one piece. I wrote about this social pressure flip in this post titled "Why girls always complain they were used for sex when they get dumped" a few months ago. I can't link it here but you can search for it if you're …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 11:30 PM
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We have the power to form social movements and to elect redpill judges and redpill politicians.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 10:50 PM
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Not only should there be degree of punishment but even a shoplifter deserves to defend themselves in a court of law and demand evidence be present of his or her guilt. Ben also did a great piece on how women have been trading sex for roles since the start of Hollywood.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 10:48 PM
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Men need to stop fighting each other and get together and fix this shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 10:37 PM
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I’ve never heard of a fiber optic provider saying they won’t route to T_D That's because we had net neutrality. Do you even understand what NN means? NN means you can't pick and choose the packets. All the packets have to flow equally. If you want NN to go away because you think you will have a safer more open internet you're dead wrong. What would prevent Google or Facebook from buying their own ISP and blocking redpill? Nothing now that NN is gone. With NN in place it doesn't matter if there a…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 05:57 AM
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It can go both ways. Now that NN is lost the oligopoly soon to be monopoly can slow traffic to sites they deem to not fit their political agenda.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 03:52 AM
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This is a complete misunderstanding of the NN issue. Audio is fucking annoying on this video but it hits the relative points. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oInAlTKlw64
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 03:51 AM
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She fully admits to being an outlier and being a bit masculine in her thoughts and actions.
/r/RedPillWives16/12/17 02:52 AM
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Not only are they rare many alphas through years of game develop subtle ways to hint they have a soft beta side. This drives women wild because they think they've hit the jack pot. The reality is that men know this works so they use it just to get laid. Granted women have ways of baiting men as well. My recommendation to you is to look at the positives. Many women don't realize they are alpha widows till like 35 and they try to get back out on the market and realize that they there street value …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 05:01 AM
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Best response to 'be a man' is 'guess I'm a giant wet pussy then!
/r/MensRights14/12/17 05:49 PM
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"WTF? They should be excited to be with me". Women shoot guys down for all types of reasons unrelated to the quality of the guy pursuing her. Then on the occasion she shoots you down for that reason often it's because you were a shitty sales man. Women can't be bothered to research if you are a good potential mate; why would they do that when they approach regularly?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:44 PM
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Not to brag. I've fucked some quality tail. Not a lot but a few and some of the average girls I fucked where a lot more enjoyable sexual experiences because they were excited and into it. That being said there's also a danger of shooting way to low. Those girls are bitter and skeptical of your advances. Sometimes you meet women that you find attractive and they actually think you're to good for them. These are all things you find out when you get out more and take the risk to meet more people. Y…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:32 AM
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Enormous amounts of practice and this is going to sound 'mean' but time spent and practice with women you could care less about. The same way a boxer trains with training partners. Women intuitively pick up if you've 'trained' or haven't 'trained' with women. That's why teaching pickup to men is so difficult even good advice and tools need applied frequently. Most men also can't swallow their pride and flirt, hit on sport fuck average/ugly women. Which is a shame because that where the learning …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:24 AM
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Just keep this really subtle. I've used this technique a lot to but if it turns into you and your buddy competing in some way it can back fire. Most guys that just go out to have a good time in target rich environments don't have to sell each other out to get laid. The girl is also just trying to land the dude she thinks she has a better chance with and she might think both of you out of her league but you less so.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:10 AM
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pressure flip Putting the spotlight back on the other person in some way or another and putting them off guard. It's related to agree and amplify but different. It's one of a multitude of ways you can pass shit tests. example: What part of town do you live in? I live with my parents because my mom has cancer and I'm taking care of her why? I live downtown because I work with the homeless why? I live outside of the city on a private ranch why? These are only jokingly or on a hard shit test when a…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:03 AM
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They also were willing to sacrifice a shit ton more soldiers.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:41 AM
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considerable amount of time and effort on ideological indoctrination Yup there's actually a very well planned and timed 'break down' phase and corresponding 'build up' phase. People that experience great hardship together form fraternity which the military turns towards whatever they need done.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:40 AM
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inauthenticity creeps women out and works on a small portion of them which creates a vicious retarded feedback loop. Because let's face it, almost any guy that cuts his hair and plays the numbers can get laid.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:36 AM
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when the man is most vulnerable and it causes the biggest damage to do it. This isn't necessarily from a place of cruelty. It's from a place perceived necessity. When it comes down to it she's 'valuable' and needs protected emotionally for the jump to the next man and you are disposable. She's been trained on it her whole life and if you're an industrialize modern beta male you've been convinced you're disposable too.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:32 AM
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Yup. Edge sharp and plenty of money and crypto in plausibly deniable places.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:28 AM
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Read it, loved it. I'm a big CHS fan and also a big Paglia Fan. This discussions are LONG but you might enjoy them. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iv7LvRhvgNI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-hIVnmUdXM Second video takes 20-30 minutes to warm up but gets good and has some really amazing exchanges about boys in society.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 06:04 PM
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Look no further then the generation of children hitting highschool and college right now.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 05:01 PM
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The British government and legal system if run by feminist and male feminist enablers. A complaint like that would go know where or backfire on you.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 04:59 PM
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The British government and legal system is run by feminist and male feminist enablers. A complaint like that would go nowhere or backfire on you.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 04:59 PM
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Don't ask the democrats to help you distinguish though.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 04:38 PM
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Women exist in a hyper fluctuating state between responsible adults and put upon victim depending on the whichever position will garner them the most social capital.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 06:07 AM
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She was a plant so they could have a fake debate.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 06:03 AM
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Based short haired blonde, didn't catch her name, is spot fucking on. Yea. I was proud of her for standing up to the rest of the group but I wonder if she was just playing a role so that they could have weak debate where the feminist mindset wins. She could have easily made a lot of arguments but didn't
/r/MensRights10/12/17 06:03 AM
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Most women just can't fathom that they have power over men yet in 2017 women arguably have more power collectively in society then men. There are still powerful men no doubt but they are in the minority and they are increasing surrounded and contained by female soft power.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 05:59 AM
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Their brainwashed. It's different.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 05:56 AM
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looking for a whiff of poon Which they won't get because even the most ardent feminist still lusts after alpha males.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 05:54 AM
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Most blue pill men I meet at men that have not spent a lot of time around women.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 05:02 AM
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Agreed. Unless it's connected to some type of direct call to malicious action. "Kill men because they are scum" "Do your job and file a false rape claim on the nearest guy because all men our scum!."
/r/MensRights04/12/17 06:19 PM
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Even those who've hit the wall hard at 40s will still get plenty of thirsty guys throwing themselves at them whether it's for sex or wanting a relationship. Maybe for sex hardly for relationships unless it's a guy that's not very high value of which there are many. The biggest blind spot ALL women have is they seem to think that a guy fucking them must mean relationship. Even a guy fucking you on the regular means nothing. He might need a pick me up, he might have other girls on the side, he mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:35 AM
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Yea. Hagakure is a gold mine of Wisdom. There's also a mob movie called, "Ghost Dog: Way of the Samurai" staring Forrest Whitaker that used some quotes and philosophies from the book. There's definitely some redpill wisdom there. Push through fear during approach or other challenges: There is something to be learned from a rainstorm. When meeting with a sudden shower, you try not to get wet and run quickly along the road. But doing such things as passing under the eaves of houses, you still get …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 06:28 PM
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Sounds like DGAF attitude. Yamamoto Tsunetomo wrote about this in relation to battle. If a warrior is not unattached to life and death, he will be of no use whatsoever. The saying that "All abilities come from one mind" sounds as though it has to do with sentient matters, but it is in fact a matter of being unattached to life and death. With such non-attachment one can accomplish any feat. and Every day without fail one should consider himself as dead. Meditation on inevitable death should be pe…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 05:37 PM
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It was tongue in cheek, but welfare does seem to end up going to a lot of fatherless people.
/r/MensRights28/11/17 06:54 AM
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Thanks for sharing this; I was unaware. Do legislatures not think about the consequences of setting incentives up like this? Bureaucracy like this is what's pushing me more and more towards a fully libertarian political position. The worse part is that these laws stay on the books forever. It's really difficult to remove laws.
/r/MensRights27/11/17 09:06 PM
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Share this with them https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ceht-3xu84I I'd also post it in their sub but they will probably pull it down even though it's a totally sourced, academic presentation.
/r/MensRights27/11/17 09:02 PM
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or bumped into her on the subway.
/r/MensRights27/11/17 08:57 PM
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This is straight up tyranny.
/r/MensRights27/11/17 05:05 PM
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The real point of the law is to protect the mother and child and to fuck the guy over.
/r/MensRights27/11/17 05:04 PM
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We already do. It's called welfare.
/r/MensRights27/11/17 05:03 PM
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Thanks for your suggestions. I will message you if I ever make a post! Side note: you mentioned serotonin... This video is long but if you get block of time I'd highly recommend it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReRcHdeUG9Y
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:42 AM
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No. He's actually damn near a hero when it comes to holding frame as well as using social media. The reason I bring him up as a false alpha is how early in his career he messed around with claiming a lot more military experience then he really had and he seems to over hype a lot of his abilities. The criminality parts comes from his gambling and his fathers background. I'm totally speculating that he's using poker to launder a lot of his father's dirty money (he seems to be a shit player yet sti…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 02:10 AM
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I've seen it. I liked him more after that podcast but I still feel like he's hiding a ton of illegal shit going down.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 11:30 PM
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Flip this onto any group that's not white males and you'd have national news.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 08:45 PM
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I'm not trying let blacks and their current cultural failings off the hook but they've had a VERY different immigrant story than other groups.
/r/MensRights25/11/17 11:51 PM
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Deification of violence. In black culture he is an alpha who can inflict the most violence on others and live to talk about it. It is about being the gangsta. Have you seen Gangs of New York?? The Irish and Italians were pretty brutal as well. Constant victimhood. I agree with this part but I don't think black culture is forever stuck in this. They are capable of change. We just need to seriously look at the system and not incitivized people who want to live in a victim mentality and we should r…
/r/MensRights25/11/17 08:05 PM
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This and basically the strict religious black culture lost the fight somewhere along the road.
/r/MensRights25/11/17 08:00 PM
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So when you discipline/correct disobedience do you do it directly or indirectly (dread) or both? Let's say there was a dinner planned on Friday she was looking forward to and she backslides all week. Do you cancel the dinner and say the other things came up and she's left to wrestle with the hidden reason or do you just directly say, "You've been a brat maybe we will go out next month if you behave." Just trying to get an idea here because I get some mixed signals on this. I've seen dread posts …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 05:55 PM
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Joe Rogan tried to warn him about the insanity of third wave feminists but he still made his bed with them and they bit him in the ass. He ended up crawling back to Joe and apologizing for going off the rails.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 05:40 PM
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You need to be strong with them and keep them the fuck in line Most american men have ZERO training in doing this. They want to fight you, but they don't want to win. Great quote. I think what's important to note though is that women will only try this if you've shown some type of weakness or they are first getting to know you. After you've established a base line level of respect you shouldn't get challenged much. In fact (and I've only dated one eastern European) I feel like traditionally wome…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 07:00 AM
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American women use to be the same way.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:53 AM
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Foreign women absorb the modern western culture and they instantly change This phenomena would make for a good post. I think that cultural control and pressure on women is critical in keeping them happy and not running around (not Saudi Arabia type control but more of a general attitude that it's not ok to cheat if you 'feel' like you deserve it). I think it's less about feminism though and a lot more about the US losing a sense of an agreed upon set of guidelines for women. We've lost our abili…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:51 AM
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I would really enjoy a walk through post profiling some faux alpha's like Piers. Jamie Kilstein would be another good one. https://www.dailydot.com/g00/irl/jamie-kilstein-male-feminist-abuser/?i10c.encReferrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8%3D Maybe even Dan Bilzerian.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:46 AM
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within a standard deviation of their social class at upbringing. This is a good way to understand women. Especially within that deviation. Women couch their entire world based on their social class. I think Russian women are probably use to a rougher society that has less legal framework. Thus men can get away with being a bit more aggressive. American men haven't just been cucked by women but also by a rigid legal system that basically places you in permanent un-ending poverty if you fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:42 AM
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Remember that narcissism is almost always paired up with Machiavellianism and psychopathy. It's the triad and fruits of the triad that melts the panties not the narcissism itself.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 08:54 PM
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Now I'm curious as to how your therapist responded to that one.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 08:49 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4mt89q/the_6_stages_of_breaking_up_a_guide_to_not_having/
/r/askTRP24/11/17 08:38 PM
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What you're saying in your comment is also reflected in the conclusion of the piece you cite. Because feminist approaches to ethics tend to be gynocentric as well as gender sensitive, nonfeminist critics of them have complained that these approaches are “female-biased.” Ethics, insist these critics, cannot proceed from a specific standpoint—in this case, from the standpoint of women—and still be regarded as an ethics. Indeed, traditional ethics has proceeded on the assumption that its values and…
/r/MensRights24/11/17 06:17 PM
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I wonder how concerned she'd be if it were her son or husband? Would she be more concerned if she were a stay at home mom? What if her belief led to men not participating in the workforce and widespread economic collapse? What if men started randomly accusing innocent women?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 05:52 PM
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She will sob with her cats and cry: "Whereareallthegoodmen!" Yes, she will do this but it will never occur to her that she was responsible in any way.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:52 PM
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It's only post-divorce they realize when a man walks out the door/divorces, so do all the associated benefits. I think a lot of this error comes because they are still thinking from the mindset of a 19 or 20 year old girl that is getting attention from LOTs of men. Women that age turn down so much male attention that they probably think it will never end. When they are making the decision to leave their husband they are under the delusion that they will pick up Mr. Right at the bar that night an…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:30 PM
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Light switch effect. Also this guide may illuminate what was going on. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4mt89q/the_6_stages_of_breaking_up_a_guide_to_not_having/
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:30 PM
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That whole thing was just a confirmation of how much women liked celebrities.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 04:52 AM
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Peggy and Bobby both seem to lightly mock him and the show is kind of a light mocking of him. His dad certainly mocks him.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 04:42 AM
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A real man lets the neighbor fuck his wife and then catches the semen in his mouth. #sharetheload
/r/MensRights21/11/17 02:52 AM
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This makes sense in light of beta bucks alpha fucks mentality. Alpha don't have to do anything but provide seed and betas can never give enough. Make sure not to get married because women rarely marry their alpha. They only make you think you're the alpha when the reality is they are alpha widowed or settling on a blend.
/r/MensRights20/11/17 08:50 PM
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Women like separation of labor for masculine responsibilities and shared labor for their responsibilities. This is why women love to act so put upon all the time. They want to up the value of their particular contributions in order to have a relationship duty bargaining chip. Men often do the opposite. We are taught not to complain about the difficulty of a task which leads to an imbalance in perception of the difficulty of each realm of relationship duties.
/r/MensRights20/11/17 08:46 PM
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Still kind of an example of the problem. Hank was incredibly competent with almost everything he did but mocked constantly. Peggy was incompetent but always forgiven for it.
/r/MensRights20/11/17 08:41 PM
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I'm going to defend the american and European beat types for a second. Most men living in civilized conditions end up submiting and becoming political cucks in a way. They are forced to do this by the overwhelming power of the state from cradle to grave. What happens to energetic young boys and men at every stage of a civilized life? They are shoved down and beaten down into submission. Play rough at the jungle gym, time out. Try to go explore in the woods, nope that's unsafe, stay home and here…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 08:56 AM
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All women have the capacity to inflict emotional terrorism at any moment; and if you give into her you just failed another shit test. You both conditioning her to do it again and showed weakness. AWALT
/r/askTRP19/11/17 09:10 PM
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Depends on your definition of 'Patriarchy.' If you simply mean a society where men primarily hold power I'd agree with you. If you are using the more warped modern definition of patriarchy by Sylvia Walby which is "a system of interrelated social structures which allow men to exploit women." That modern definition is interesting right? It assumes men can't rule or hold power without also exploiting women. The other thing I find interesting is women can't have rights or freedoms without men. Lite…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 01:12 AM
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These cases are VERY few and far between now and we have similar situations with reversed genders. Personally I'd just like to see small child support based on the current salary of the person who doesn't house the kids. Basically a 25% garnishment on current salary not reporting salary properly is of course still punishable. No alimony, no lawyers fees. If you're out of work for a year you don't owe back child support.
/r/MensRights17/11/17 01:01 AM
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The feminist cartel makes ex Israeli military look like Barney Fife.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:31 AM
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"Young lady" I took a leap because I hear the argument you're presenting from a lot women. Not meant to be an insult. What's with the patronizing tone? *checks username wanted to express that women don't want only the best genetics but are usually interested in a long-term, exclusive relationship with a guy. Alpha fucks, beta bucks. It only appears on the surface that women want providers. In reality they are willing to allow the community and and beta men to assist in raising their offspring. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:35 PM
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if he's attractive. The dominance and asshole confidence is a huge part of the attraction. Men are 90% visual women MUCH less so. Women take in the whole package and weigh different factors. A lot of women might also be attracted to other people, who are not the "most powerful ones of the group" Women like men are forced to settle. Dating the 2nd in command, or some rogue dude doesn't mean you're not attracted to the group leader. Men find mental ways to settle with their less attractive girlfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 11:54 PM
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So you're saying women aren't attracted to the most powerful male in a group?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 04:07 AM
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He's mocking her but I would have liked to see him counter her with a more statistical approach. There are a lot of ways he could have torn her argument apart that he didn't mention because he spent all his time being condescending. The biggest vector of attack he missed was 'toxic femininity' which is a very real thing.
/r/MensRights12/11/17 03:18 AM
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Tucker could have gone there but he doesn't want to look like a racist. Republicans really aren't allowed to talk about race at all because they will be called bigots.
/r/MensRights12/11/17 03:16 AM
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The sad thing is that you're right. There's almost nothing you can do to protect yourself with the modern double standard that women can fuck around all they want but then claim they were manipulated. Best thing you can do is have a lot of money and an excellent legal team. Unfortunately the common guy doesn't have this and gets fucked over left and right.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 03:56 PM
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If I were a celebrity I it would be hookers or I'd have some 24/7 sex liaison with a law degree making groupies sign consent forms. "In the event JackGetsIt's dick is found to be too small to do the job you will not inform the general public. In the likely event you do not achieve orgasm you will not tell TMZ...sign here"
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 03:39 PM
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Not every guy can project that image though and these #metoo campaigns are like a welcome bus for women to get attention. I bet some bigger guys like a Leo or Matt will fall as well before this is all over because that's how powerful feminism has become. This is what happens when the majority of men become blue pill and don't stand up for their rights in the legal system.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 05:06 AM
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Also get caught with hookers is a lot smaller fine then paying for the legal fees to defend a rape/sexual assault charge.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 05:04 AM
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I think if anyone can turn it around and make it funny Louis can.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 05:03 AM
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Women basically hold all the cards in the western world right now. If you don't ask for consent you raped her and if you ask for consent you're some weak ass beta chump and if she consented she will withdraw or say she was pressured to consent. Feminism is basically going to end sex as we know it in the United States.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 05:01 AM
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The others consented to sex and now have a public avenue to clear their conscious of prostituting themselves to a hollywood big timer. This is probably the majority if not all of the accusations.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:58 AM
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Sounds like she was coming off an alpha pump and dump (or several)and was feeling worthless. You were good enough to toy with but she probably would have just strung you along and still not fucked you, or at least only fucked you sparingly, because all she wanted was to know there's some guy out there that wanted to put her on a pedestal. You played the right card by walking; it was all just an elaborate grab at a potential beta orbiter and you didn't play that game.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:56 AM
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I think they probably rationalize it that it will just make a weak dude stronger or that they enjoy the punishment. Maybe in a warped way it's true.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:48 AM
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I agree with the gist of this post but I think a lot of people will read it and get confused because you can literally say all this stuff on a daily basis and get laid like gangbusters. It's all about frame, timing, attitude, value, social position, delivery. In fact a few of these probably need to be said at certain times tactfully within relationships. I do agree with this one I apologize for my gender NEVER EVER EVER say this to a women unless it's completely in jest, i.e. sorry not sorry.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:54 PM
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That's because it's one thing to learn something and it's another entirely to practice it in real life. In fact over learning and under implementing can become a real detriment to your development. Maybe I should cut my own fucking balls off too because I obviously dont know how to use them... Christ. Ah. Don't do that. Actually do you mind if I workshop a draft of a future post on you?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:51 PM
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One of my favorite shit tests is to feed her a few glasses of wine then reject her sexual advances. 9 times out of 10 she will lose her shit. How hard she flies off the handle is a direct correlation to her N count and post wall ascend/descend. God damn this is so true. I've had a lot of drunken nights where a middle aged women put on such a femine show that I was deeply impressed. But the minute the night goes on and I even subtly shift attention away from her she BLOWS UP. She then tries to fi…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:16 PM
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Female hormones and psychology are much more closely related then mens. It's why they become different people once a month and after having children.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:09 PM
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Due to brain chemistry, hormones and the fact that women can become pregnant when they have sex women experience sexual interaction differently then men. When a man has sex he is capable of not becoming emotionally attached. High partner count in men does not correlate to higher rates of infidelity in marriage. When women have sex and orgasm they release a bonding chemical called oxytocin. This chemical connects a female partner to her sexual partner. There are two things that make women good wi…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:27 PM
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She wants to break the marriage and then blame me for the divorce. That's highly likely. There's a good post called the lightswitch effect. I also wrote a guide called the 6 stages of break up that might be useful for you as well. Not putting up with this shit. I deserve better. Cutting my losses. That's good but the reason I ask because if you haven't directly told her you're divorcing you have a small window to operate (hide funds, secure a lawyer, secure friendships, etc.) because when the di…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:08 AM
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Also watch out for a complete 180 from her when she gets even a whiff that you are doing any of this. Have you informed her about the divorce yet?
/r/askTRP07/11/17 01:17 AM
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Does anybody find it ironic the reason this guy is famous is because he plays a dominate male character on a show with lots of dominate male characters that fight for what they believe in? The show is viewed by millions of women because it has more traditional male female gender roles. Women complain all the time that men have become weak and don't stand up for what they believe in yet a media outlet supported by millions of those same women is shaming this guy? More and more I'm starting to bel…
/r/MensRights02/11/17 04:02 AM
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Words have been redefined by the left.
/r/MensRights02/11/17 03:57 AM
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Why would a logical man speak up if it will cost him his job or his family or his friends? The only men that really can speak up are those that are completely independent from the system which are very very few. Men speak up in other ways all the time. They do it by not marrying and by turning away from society.
/r/MensRights02/11/17 03:52 AM
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You get what you put out. If I put out shit, I'm gonna get shitty women By shitty women do you mean ugly women or just morally shitty? Most men that truly treat women like shit get laid like gangbusters but also end up dating terribly unstable women and also don't do well in life because, well, they are assholes and life is full of compensation. I really don't know if it's logical to treat EVERY woman like this. What? Who told you should treat people like shit?? Why the fuck would you do this?? …
/r/askTRP02/11/17 03:33 AM
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It's also harder to transmit information if it's nuanced and complicated. So you can't bring lots of people to a cause without distilling information into memes and symbols.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 05:53 PM
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The problem a lot of short ugly guys have is that they know they are going to get rejected a lot and what do they do?? Approach less. Which then compounds their problem. If you're short and fat you need to get VERY comfortable with rejection make learning game and small talk a big part of your life. The other suggestions in this thread are spot on as well: lift, career, hair, dress. This is my go to post recommendation for improving approach: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4o83me/wh…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 08:30 PM
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Dating standards are totally fucked sideways in the united states and there's just no right answer. I'm noticing that a lot of women are completely lost in-between all of the narratives. If you're a dominate enough man and have a good frame you can basically do what every you want with most women. And if you're not it doesn't matter what you do women will shit on you.
/r/MensRights25/10/17 04:37 AM
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You'll find it easier to minimize the amount of things you own if you subtly shift the type of people you surround yourself with. You'll find that a lot of your materialistic drives come from a desire to fit in with a peer group. I also became a lot less materialistic when I dropped a lot of advertising from my life. Use ad blockers, cut tv time back, use netflix or other ad free platforms. Even if we try to ignore ads they still find a way into subconscious and effect our buying habits. Third t…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 04:22 AM
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That was nice that they let you in and a good experience. Dating girls that young can be a lot of difficulty because they hit the 1 or two year mark of the relationship and that start looking hard to branch swing because there clock starts going crazy. I'm glad it was worth it to you but a girl like that can can also waste your time if you want a family. At least you weren't a beta orbiter helping her and you got full sex privileges out of the deal. I wrote a comment years ago about the 'Faceboo…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 10:48 PM
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You bring up an interesting phenomena. It seems like every girl I've ever been with I've left in a better place (emotionally, financially, life skills) yet they still moved on. It was like they were constantly interviewing for new boyfriends from my friends, family, random meet-ups. Every single girl would swoon and often say I love you first to me yet they were always ready to swivel on a dime to new men especially if there was any inconsistency on my end. Inconsistency on there end was to be e…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 10:20 PM
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Guys use the physical world to move up (jobs, skills, exercise); women use guys to move up. I've known 35 olds that have never been single. Literally just serial monogamy for 2 decades with the sole purpose to land Mr. Right (i.e. Mr. alpha bucks)
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 07:59 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKUvKE3bQlY
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 10:24 PM
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There are two types of realities: physical reality (natures laws, finance, engineering, business, etc.) and social reality (how people perceived each other on a social hierarchy) women simply concern themselves with social reality more. If we could travel back to cave man days both were very real. If a bear ate you you died and if you were kicked out of the tribe to wander the wilderness alone you also died. Which is why women probably are much more concerned with the social reality because they…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 10:10 PM
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It's both. Most women that can hold a harem of betas also have a few alphas in the mix. Which is why women get so mad when men don't orbit them. If they can't attract betas they will also struggle with alphas.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 10:06 PM
2

Best thing that helped me with pull-ups is a combination of greasing the groove (one or two pullup multiple times a day, i.e. on a tree when walking dog, on the door when making dinner, etc. Always perfect form.) and rigorous 3 day a week lat pull downs with proper progressive overload and perfect form.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 07:05 PM
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Remember at that age girls are practicing seduction skills and will throw them at ANYONE with a modicum of power or situational alphaness. They are also only beginning to become aware of the hard and soft power they have over men. Therefore there are a number of reasons besides wanting to actually have sex with you that they may be throwing you attention. As an authority figure you're also breaking a lot of social taboos and unwritten/written rules with your employer if you pursue a young female…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:35 PM
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If anyone has a copy could you PM it to me?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:24 PM
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Women are mostly losers or struggling imitators Pretty good description. Even successful women are normally just imitating at a very high level.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 05:59 PM
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Now that it's deleted can I get a copy of the post so I can figure out what the fuck everyone is talking about??
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 05:58 PM
1

I've noticed that it much more often a plate or chick using a beta buck guy then a girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 05:57 PM
1

This post was deleted you don't happen to have a copy do you?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 05:56 PM
1

Good point. Actually I think we are both onto something! Boyscouts are in decline because it's an organization concerned with turning children into adults. Parents and children both today are concerned with keeping children children for as long as possible.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 05:45 PM
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Let me start with the fact that I agreed with your original point. The law is too archaic and hasn't adapted to a new type of female that is acting a lot more independent. I was simply trying to add some nuance to the discussion. Any particular man who was groped could have felt violated by her behavior or threatened or for whatever reason not have been okay with it When you allow the law to be overly flexible for how people 'feel' about a crime then you're left a huge potential hole for abuse. …
/r/MensRights23/10/17 05:42 PM
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I don't think we will ever see perfect egalitarianism and maybe that's a good thing. Men and women do have differences I just wish that the feminist message would be consistent. You either believe there are no differences and want perfect legal equality or you have to recognize differences and except when the law treats the groups differently. You can't constantly fight against supposed male privilege while very publicly carving out female privileged.
/r/MensRights23/10/17 04:17 PM
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Well the 'whimper' would look like Japan right now but the west will blow up differently. I think we will have a civil war in 10 -20 years. There's no quicker way to destroy a civilization then to have lots of idle disenfranchised men. I think there will be an uptick of shootings and then some attempt at a mass confiscation of guns and men will outright resist and hide/not register the weapons which will basically turn a third of the population into criminals and there will be some type of armed…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 02:24 AM
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Unfortunately speaking up about any of these problems in society gets you labeled a misogynist and shit canned from your job on some trumped up HR bullshit. Unless you are independently wealthy the only recourse is to keep your head down publicly.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 02:19 AM
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They might just be getting a huge influx if this decision really pans out.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 02:12 AM
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I think no matter how much adult males might want to help the scouts you're still going to run into the issue of boys not wanting to enroll. My theory is that boys today express masculine traits through gaming and fandom. Smaller and smaller groups of boys are interested in sports and outdoor activities. I'm not sure exactly why this is happening. Might be single mothers, advertising, addictive nature of technology, more kids raised in cities?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 02:08 AM
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Got it. Thanks for that!
/r/MensRights16/10/17 02:28 AM
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I really don't understand the argument. Why would feminist want girl only schools but boy only schools are bad? What's the logic?
/r/MensRights15/10/17 04:58 PM
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Because is you go into more detail on any topic you're going to need more precise language.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 03:23 PM
2

Don't spend all your time finding the perfect system to stay organized. Just pick a system and go with it. If you get free time you can try upgrading your system but you can die of analysis paralyisis. I use Evernote and written notes in my pocket. It's also easy to get lost in the minutia and not do long term planning. Set a 20 minute session once a month to long term plan. Also Pomodoro technique helps. https://cirillocompany.de/pages/pomodoro-technique
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 04:52 PM
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It was well past due. He had some cogent points early on but he was losing logic and structure in comments over time. It happens. His writing kind of reminded me of the Tao Te Ching (but the profoundness slipped) “True words aren't eloquent; eloquent words aren't true. Wise men don't need to prove their point; men who need to prove their point aren't wise. The Master has no possessions. The more he does for others, the happier he is. The more he gives to others, the wealthier he is.” ― Lao Tzu, …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 04:48 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it. Most of it actually came from my U.S. women's history course taught by a passionate feminist instructor of all people. It really shows you how far off the third wave feminist have gone from first wave feminists. Maybe I will clean up my writing and put together a more comprehensive post for general discussion.
/r/RedPillWives11/10/17 02:43 PM
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Listen. I highly recommend you pick up a full text on this topic and you can pick a extreme liberal text or conservative text and you'll actually here similar things. Most of these you listed are results of an old English law called 'Coverture.' Coverture was not put in place to enslave women it was put in place because English tradition handed a women off from her father to her husband legally. The husband now owned all of her property. Now. The first reaction to reading that from most modern '…
/r/RedPillWives11/10/17 04:26 AM
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I never said they were better off I said that the narrative that they were enslaved by a patriarchy is the farthest thing from truth.
/r/RedPillWives11/10/17 02:15 AM
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That's what's great about keto. Even if you struggle to get past induction it does make you a lot more carb conscious and over time you can cut weight by just reducing carbs. Give it a shot again and stick it out and you will be amazed. Suggesetion: Go semi-low carb for two or three weeks and then plan out your meals really strictly for like 4 days with no temptation events/people nearby. I also like to have aspirin and cans of chicken broth on hand to cut down on keto flu/headaches.
/r/RedPillWives11/10/17 02:00 AM
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not everyone is happy living in that lifestyle.. Most of the sentiment I've seen from this sub is that RPW just wants to be considered another option. I don't see a lot of forcing RPW beliefs on people. I see an urge to simply be considered a viable alternative. Nobodies trying to shove women back into a housewife role. It's all about not shaming women that chose that route. Being a good mom and running a good household is a noble profession. The third wave feminist movement shamed women that ch…
/r/RedPillWives11/10/17 01:25 AM
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you weren't there. Neither were you. men fed and fucked with no regards to their own happiness That a gross oversimplification of this sub. Why are you shitting on what makes others happy? Happiness is tough to find in this world. Women didn't have the choice to not be like that before suffrage. We disagree on some core premises. So more discussion about this is just two people talking past each other. I support women voting in society but women were both creators and participators in the cultur…
/r/RedPillWives11/10/17 12:23 AM
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If men are mostly purveyors of physical violence then women are mostly purveyors of emotional violence.
/r/MensRights04/10/17 04:54 PM
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I love slamming into people like you.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 07:22 PM
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If it's a public facility maybe. Private business can segregate by gender though. Male only gyms should be a thing IMHO. I would go. I hate all the perfume women wear at gyms. Gives me a raging headache. You should post on the legal advice sub and see what they say.
/r/MensRights02/10/17 07:20 PM
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And why do you think women took up feminism so readily? They didn't. They marched in the street against suffrage. Many resisted the 2nd wave as well (Ester Vilar is a good example). Third wave is denounced by many women as well (Paglia, CHS, Fiamengo). There was something inherently wrong with the system before feminism This idea is a largely a construct by modern feminist literature. Life wasn't a picnic for men or women. Coverture laws that are taught in feminist led history classes in college…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 01:13 AM
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Women didn't go away from motherly traits because men were cheating on them. Women went away from those traits because feminism came along and said you can have your cake and it it too; aka the sexual revolution. You can marry later, have multiple partners like a man, not be a homemaker etc. Feminism went even further and it shamed women that wanted to stay at home. Women are very connected to societal narratives and don't want to be see as a lone wolf outside of the group so the bulk of young w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 06:24 PM
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Because motherly women are boring, often less attractive and not as fun to fuck I think there are a lot of men and women that would disagree with you on this point. It's a moot point anyway because even unattractive women are not offering redpill women skills. There's nothing to step down too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 03:47 PM
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Yes they can but this normally only improves a women's ability to keep a man not attract him. Most career women have also been falsely told they don't have to develop these things and those that do don't have the time or the peer support. Redpillwomen and Redpillwives are good resources for women that want to go against the grain and develop theses areas. There is a silver lining. Men are so starved for cleaning, cooking, motherly feminine skills a women can actually bring her value up in this w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 11:32 PM
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Doesn't really jive up. Most nice guys can't find women at all and most career women can find men just not the caliber of men they they've climbed up to work with everyday. Women aren't good at stepping down. So if they work with lawyers they expect to marry a lawyer caliber man or higher. Most lawyer caliber men can afford to be picky about who they date. Career women also spent their most attractive years studying. Thus when they finally get ready to find a man they are already a few notches d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 10:07 PM
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There are leagues. Women can't move as easily up, only down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 10:02 PM
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Well said. A lot of women also think that men only make money and workout to get laid. It's hard for women to understand doing things outside of social acceptance. So she's interpreting OP's action to impress others and find a better mate. It's hard for women to escape their solipsism. She also could be doing a simple comfort test. If OP reduces his exercise she knows that she has a degree of control of him.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 01:43 AM
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Would men vote in the interest of women? Yes. They've done it pretty consistently. What was the female condition like before suffrage? Not too shabby. Women were largely considered closer to god then men were and they were taken care of. All humans are selfish is a gross over simplification of the human condition and even selfish men vote for female needs because men need women for a variety of reasons.
/r/RedPillWives23/09/17 02:12 AM
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Incredibly astute observations. You also write with a good economy of words and sense of purpose. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. You have a new reader!
/r/RedPillWives22/09/17 03:46 AM
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I've also enjoyed your contributions Camille. I enjoyed your writings when you were in the redpillwomen sub but didn't follow you and your cohort when you made the exodus because it was so swift and tactful! I had also taken a bit of a break from reddit at the time. That 'dividual' blogger writes in a tone similar to my own. Kind of wandering around and jumping in and out of observation. I enjoyed this line. Of course it does lead to equality of status, but in the sense of everybody equally rese…
/r/RedPillWives22/09/17 03:40 AM
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I think every time a men's rights post reaches the front page it needs a tag like your comment but maybe you could shorten it and make it a bit more tactful although I 100% agree with your sentiment. Let me know if you need another set of eyes to draft a future sticky comment. I'd also add a sentence that this sub will NOT ban you for sharing your opinion (unlike many other subs) as long as it's shared respectfully and in good faith.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 08:20 PM
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You are spot on with the chicken egg analogy. You can't really untangle the two. Laws inform culture and culture inform laws. I give the 51% edge to culture. If you can change culture you can build coalitions that change laws. The black civil rights movement largely originated from the culture of the black southern baptists and eventually forced local and federal law changes. fascinating but probably impractical to implement Yes. I also agree with this. The genie is out of the bottle. I'm a prag…
/r/RedPillWives21/09/17 04:37 PM
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All very good points. I'm curious what laws (or political panderings) you see contributing to the disregard for male sacrifice? Divorce laws for sure. Laws that shelter/women in the workplace at the expense of men. Minimum wage laws/overtime laws. Laws put in place that handicap more qualified employees. Draft laws. I'm not necessarily against all these but disregarding male sacrifice is kind of baked into the cake in society. In fact men themselves also disregard male sacrifice and promote laws…
/r/RedPillWives21/09/17 03:34 PM
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tax paying, law abiding citizens over the age of 35 who are either married (heterosexually) or serving in the armed forces/veterans Tax paying. Yes. Over 35 (I'd kick this to 25 and if you're in the military or own property you get to vote under 25.) Anyone can influence... yes I agree with this. As far as the marriage thing goes I think it's time for the state to get out of marriage all together. All divorce laws and taxes that benefit couples or hurt couples should be torn down. Only religious…
/r/RedPillWives21/09/17 02:20 PM
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I take a step further and think that women shouldn't have ever been allowed to vote! You sound like an Ann Colter fan! Women probably still have a lot of softpower as well. Suffrage just gave them both hard and soft power. A good example of this is soft power wielded in institutions like google. Doesn't matter how many men google employs or how competent they are if they cross a political line they are canned (see James Damore). Board members and CEO's regardless of their political leaning fear …
/r/RedPillWives21/09/17 01:37 PM
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Wonderful blog post. It's worthwhile exploring how we got here. How did this hyper female centric society rear up and the answer to that is sufferage. Now I want to be very clear that I believe women have the right to vote and own property in the United States. That being said when women came onto the voter roles politicians had to cater to them if they wanted to keep their seats. It's easy for us to beat up on politicians today for making bad decision but for the most part they do what their co…
/r/RedPillWives21/09/17 02:08 AM
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Imagine a society where you can walk around and not only saw whatever you want but do whatever you want without any reprisals. You are now a women living in the west.
/r/MensRights13/09/17 12:33 PM
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Damn the answers in this thread are not the best. I read or watched somewhere (probably a Joe Rogan Podcast) that said the secret to success is two things: find the price, pay the price. I have a feeling from your comment that you might not understand the price. Another factor at play here is that not everyone can become 'Chad' the areas that you need to improve on to become 'Chad' are all difficult and you could spend your whole life on just one of them and maybe not hit a high level depending …
/r/askTRP12/09/17 10:46 PM
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I figured as much but still felt like commenting for others in the thread that might not have understood your silly trollish ways.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 02:42 AM
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The 'women like rough sex thing' doesn't come from a place of wanting to be truly raped. It comes from a place of the most powerful male in the tribe symbolically taking what's rightfully his: The most beautiful female. If a powerful male takes you you must be the most beautiful female. Women don't want to be 'taken' by betas or invaders. Women want to be 'taken' by the king, the prince, the alpha, the pack leader. So in a way it's not rape it's submission. Beta = rape; Alpha = erotic fantasy su…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 02:31 AM
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Couldn't agree with this more. If it wasn't Lopez it would have been some other schmuck. Half the time women won't even tell you they're married until you've slept with them a few times. Definitely not the guys fault. If he knew the family then it's kind of a dick move.
/r/MensRights07/09/17 05:21 PM
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So will using her method always discharge your battery?
/r/MensRights07/09/17 05:19 PM
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This is the best reply I've read. Thanks for taking the time.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 01:29 AM
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But thanks for creating valid points and expanding on them to educate everyone else who's still internalizing. No problem. That's what both of these subs are about!
/r/askTRP05/09/17 04:15 PM
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Why does the slut exist? LOL. Upon reading this I conjured up the image of a guy in a smoking jacket by a fire with a large book with gold etched letters. "Hello, and welcome to slut studies theater" Nothing wakes up the inner slut than excess of everything - money, food, drink, drugs. Very good point. Any situation where all those come together will have hot chicks. Not only are all those factors together but it's wrapped up in a package that's reasonable socially exceptable.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 09:53 PM
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Seems like there's three things that keep women from fucking LOTS of men. 1.) Social Stigma. 2.) Fear rape/injury 3.) Fear of pregnancy. Festivals eliminate all three 1 Social Stigma. She can counteract this by blaming drugs, rape, environment or completely deny it happen because boyfriend and family wasn't actually there (trickle truth). Anyone that rats you out as a festival slut you can just call a liar or you can claim rape and get a nice victim card in your pocket. Also it's 'cool' now to b…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 07:41 PM
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So is a festival just a place for women to recklessly alpha chase?
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:07 PM
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"party alpha" vs. "family alpha" Sometimes it's the same guy as well. He's just shifted. 'Now' I'm ready to look for a longterm mate'. Where as with women they always have one eye on 'the one;' a quality men will go through a period where they simply don't want to marry and any women that comes along no matter how wifely she may be will be 'plated.' Men are mission oriented and don't want to marry until they have a grasp on what they are doing and especially some financial independence. I know f…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 08:22 PM
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:)
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/17 09:58 PM
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Not attracted to Beta men but I could suck it up to be stable? At all cost do not do this. If you 'have' to settle, settle for at least a man with a blend of alpha beta so that you have something to latch on to. I'd also suggest that you're probably putting yourself in dating scenarios where you are hooking up with 'party alphas' instead of 'family alphas.' You might also just be too guarded from being hurt so may times. So it has nothing to do with the alpha and everything to do with you giving…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/17 12:38 AM
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Look up threads on Push/pull. If you need a mental mindset think or her as a bratty sister. edit. It also helps to never be out exclusively looking for women. Have other focus when you are around women; having a fun time, dancing, meeting new people, experiencing new places etc.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 10:09 PM
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She brought up something called toxic delegation Is she a therapist or psychologist? She also thinks this is going to detrimental to my mental health eventually Ok. She might be right, she might be wrong. This is just an opinion. I don't think this is the correct interpretation but I didn't say anything Good. Getting defensive might just play into her thinking. She mentioned how I've changed the way I clean certain things and do laundry, things she claims he makes me do I'm sure if you responded…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 09:46 PM
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In additional to the great reasons mentioned in this thread I'd add that her interest in you that night might have been completely superficial. I.e. she was using you to make other jelous, for a temporary attention high, or to pump you for information. When you call/text back with romantic interests theres a smaller chance that's what she was looking for when she was giving you IOI. Women will feign IOI's during social interactions to get things out of you. If she shows zero interest in you afte…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:57 PM
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This is actually a pretty good analogy. That's why it's important to try to make a personal connection as well when you meet a girl for the first time and then use that when following up with her. She needs some type of trigger to get into that heightened emotional state she had when meeting you.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:55 PM
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True codependence can be a bad thing that needs addressed but you can address it in a redpillwomen way. Exactly what negative behaviors is your husband exhibiting? Exactly what are you doing that makes your friends see you as co-dependent? Lots of redpill relationships look co-dependent from women in a feminist bubble. Keep that in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 12:54 PM
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You are the embodiment of redpill. Instead of using your illness for attention or sympathy you asked for neither in your post. You used your precious time to give the community a quality submission. We are in your debt. Ultimately family are the only ones who really care about you The largest lie of the bluepill narrative is that a LTR or wife becomes family and that a man can drop his guard. No. Under the right circumstances both will abandon you. Thanks again for your post. You are in my thoug…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 04:23 AM
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You'll need to walk away from this one. The minute you denied her sex you changed the dynamic of the relationship irrecoverable. Something breaks inside of women when they are denied sex because they don't have the emotional tools to cope with it. Their hamster goes into overdrive and even if she does clean up her act it's out of intense dread and she will probably resent you for it. Remember in LTR's and marriages you need LIGHT dread not heavy dread. You don't turn women into workout bunnies t…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:54 AM
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You're still pretty young and 8 is attractive. You will have no problem attracting a guy if you just put yourself out there. Dating apps are a mess right now; I'd stay away. Just get out to group events and maybe do some volunteer work. Your N count is great try to keep that low. Keep in mind that your education/career won't scare men away but it's also not the same selling point that it might be for a women who's looking for a man. So don't go into dates thinking your higher income bracket is g…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/17 03:19 AM
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Well for the most part they're not wrong. You can even slit a cops throat and get off. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XRO55KG_2ic
/r/MensRights20/08/17 11:14 PM
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Upper%20Decker%20Double%20Blumpkin LMAO. Seems like you'd need a specially designed toilet for this.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 03:53 PM
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Not every women that makes you wait is playing you or sees you as a beta. I've fuck a lot of women and there are many women that delay sex and want you to take them on a few dates because they don't want to get pumped and dumped and hope that they can actually have a relationship with you. Sleeping with a guy to quickly is a good way to signal to a man that you are a high partner count whore that would make a terrible wife. I've had so many one night stands that I'm pleasently surprised when a w…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:47 PM
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blumpkin I have not seen or heard that word for a long time. Blumpkin, we meet again.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:21 PM
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It's a spectrum. Just remember AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 10:28 PM
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I didn't say they were unicorns that you marry. I just said the they are rare relatively. Feminism has taught women to no longer leverage their sexuality for prizes but to give it a way freely and to act like men in the process raking up as many alpha fucks as possible. A women that makes you a wait a bit for sex still probably has some old school traditional influences and might have a lower partner count then the vast majority of used up feminists. AWALT of course still applies to every women …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 09:13 PM
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Good points. I think a good rule of thumb is if you can't attract women and intimidate men with a semi-tight t-shirt you're not working out enough. You might want to look into oil cleanse method (OCM) if you have oily skin. It sounds counter intuitive but letting oil sit on you face for 10-15 minutes and then wiping it of with a hot micro cleaning cloth cleans your face and reduces your natural oil production a bit. I have oily T zone and do it every other day. It also takes of sunscreen really …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 07:21 PM
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The bentonite mask is a lot stronger then the mint julep mask and a lot more cost effective but be careful using it because it can cause a tone of redness and overuse can cause problems. R SkincareAddiction is a great sub and actual cuts through a lot of the bullshit market and gets to the science of a lot of products. In my area of the country nobody uses Tinder anymore all the women have jumped over to bumble but it has the exact same issues as Tinder. If you haven't read the 'dance monkey dan…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 07:04 PM
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Jojoba is also good for that. One thing that changed the game for me is not using shampoo on my hair daily. Now I just use conditioner, still releases the dirt, hair products, and sweat but preserves the natural oils. Hair is a lot healthier looking. Saves money too.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:57 PM
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Wrap. Pump n dump. Repeat. Enjoy the Decline. Occasionally a girl will come along that makes you wait for it. Don't blow girls like this off, they are rare..
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:37 PM
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As long as he's not abusive a father is statistically almost always a net positive for children.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:36 PM
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It's probably 'soaked' not dipped. Like a cherry bomb or jello shot.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:31 PM
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This is an excellent description of most 8 and up women that didn't have strong father figures.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:29 PM
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Looks matter. Lifestyle design matters. There's nothing wrong with owning that.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:29 PM
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Fuck the haters. Skin care is important. Glad to see you own your age and are comfortable in your own skin. Do you use mint julep or bentonite mask? Unfortunately we live in a day and age that's very superficial and you have to not only be healthy but look healthy and that means good skin care/haircut/clothes etc. Maybe we should make a sub. redpillgrooming anyone?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:27 PM
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Most modern women are like this so it's just something you have to accept or you end up walking around hating everyone which is not healthy. It's really not their fault that our culture has incentivized this behavior. Women mold to whatever nature and dominant men design for them.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:18 PM
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The difference is modern society strongly strongly disincentivizes men to act on their natures and strongly strongly incentivizes women to act on theirs. If you want to see men incentivized to act on (a component) of their natures read about the viking raiders or the rape of Nanking.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:12 PM
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Spot on. It's got to fuck with your psyche if no matter what you do and how bad you fuck up someone will save you and fix it all.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:09 PM
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Please expand this and make it into a post. I can confirm everything said here. Especially the beta boss. I'd add that beta bosses feel like they are the alpha but the female collective are really in charge of the boss as well and will often dictate direction on projects and especially hiring.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:14 AM
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Just make sure it doesn't come off like a Ben Shapiro Novel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYp_6DcUzbU Before you embark on this journey watch these two movies. The Quiet Man McClintock! I've also heard good things about the Gavin McInnes Movie How to Be a Man but I haven't seen it yet.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 07:33 PM
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Talk to people more. Travel outside of the US. Go to a large college with a diverse array of people or work at a job that give you access to lots of different types of people. If you're the smartest highest status person in the room get out of the room. I wonder, how to determine what status a girl is If she's overly concerned with status. She's low or middle status. If she's well spoken and doesn't offend easily she's higher status. Are there different rules in communication depending on the st…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 03:21 PM
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or what else do you mean by the 'rules'? Read the post on the front page about not talking to women about redpill. Now I wonder, would it work if a not good looking guy violated the rules vs a good looking guy? It could. Breaking rules shows abundance mentality. But if you don't have other indicators like Don does you're going to get shit tested or just dismissed. There are lots of women that only play in certain sandboxes with certain types of men so it would depend on your target. say status i…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 02:09 PM
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Questions go to asktrp. You're over reading this scene. Don is violating a rule that's on the front page right now. Don't try to explain RP to a women. You can see her tone change from, 'let's fuck' to 'lets fight' Don knew he could fuck her so he was just toying with her emotions which if you watch in the other seductions on the show he doesn't do. This scene is not good for RP newbs because Don is Chad and Chad can do anything with his power; even break RP rules and shame a women for not settl…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 01:35 PM
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Public schools always circle the wagons to protect their own. All large organization do this and it's because the teachers and administrators have near zero say in how it will be handled. Lawyers working with superintendents and governing boards make all the decisions. Consumers and parents are also very very sue happy these days which has caused schools, businesses and police departments to overprotect. This is more about the litigious nature of modern Americans then public schools. edit. and b…
/r/MensRights14/08/17 02:28 PM
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*she
/r/MensRights14/08/17 02:21 PM
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Yup and be shamed for not being able to afford it.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 02:20 PM
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We don’t have kids or assets, and she’s hundreds of miles away now Consider yourself very lucky.
/r/ThankTRP13/08/17 02:47 AM
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I mean, those are actual people, not a statistic. This I strongly agree with and Bernie should have corrected himself after saying that and should avoid blanket statements like that. But this is why we have a cold civil war (now hot civil war after the Charlottesville debacle) going on in this country. Right wing pundits, to make money, construe Bernies statement to mean he's anti white. This angers a bunch of working class white people. Then Left wing pundits, to make money construe GOP members…
/r/MensRights13/08/17 12:49 AM
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Whites don't know what it's like to be poor Blacks don't know how to be fathers/follow laws Neither of these are racist statements if you're talking about averages. He lied and made a racist statement and there is no excuse There are two things going on here. One, it's not a racist statement unless his meaning is confirmed and we understand that he's not talking about averages. Second, even if it was confirmed that he believes all white men don't know poverty that doesn't necessarily make him a …
/r/MensRights12/08/17 03:47 PM
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Bernie said whites don't know what it is to be poor Do you really think any educated person in this country truly believes there are no poor white people? Do you truly believe Bernie thinks there are no poor white people? You're trying to catch a politician on a technicality. Which is easy to do when the entire point of a political speech is to speak in glittering generalities and appeal to emotions. Bernie isn't in a court room talking to a judge or writing book or article. If a reporter approa…
/r/MensRights12/08/17 02:15 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with the facts at hand. I'm trying to teach you how rhetoric works. There are more poor whites statistically because they are a higher percentage of the population. The average white is doing better then the average black and that's what Bernie is referencing obviously. It's also a fact that a lower percentage of whites live in poverty. Just because a politician uses rhetoric doesn't make him the spawn of Satan.
/r/MensRights12/08/17 01:34 PM
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My point is that political parties are large coalitions with leaders that use certain language to appeal to their base. You're doing the same thing gawker and lefty news organizations do when they seize on something a GOP politicians said to his or her base and then conflate it to 'white nationalism!!' GOP politicians are not white nationalist and Bernie does not hate white men or think all white men don't understand poverty. He was speaking in generalities as do GOP politicians. Ann Colter and …
/r/MensRights12/08/17 01:19 PM
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He's pandering. He's far less of a SJW then Hillary. As a percentage of their representation there are more blacks living in poverty. A smaller percentage of of whites live in poverty. A lot of poor whites also don't live in ghettos they live in basements of parents or rural areas. There are white ghettos but there are far far more black/Hispanic ghettos. I've personally left the left and become a conservative because of the SJW attack on white men and free speech however the GOP has it's share …
/r/MensRights12/08/17 12:57 PM
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No but Rationale Male is. It's a little higher reading level then book of Pook but has similar content. https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Rollo-Tomassi/dp/1492777862 also 3% man is good. https://www.amazon.com/Winning-Heart-Woman-Your-Dreams/dp/0692552669/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1502465369&sr=1-1&keywords=3%25+man
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 03:29 PM
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I don't want to involve family and friends because if we can work this out, I don't want anyone to hold it against him. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and you're doing the right things. Hang in there and keep us up to date. Feel free to PM if you have any other questions although it seems like you got plenty of advice and recommendations for this thread to work with.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 06:09 PM
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I feel bad for that guy.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 05:26 PM
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I predict a Lindsay Lohan esq slide.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 02:25 PM
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Yup. Prenup's are like putting on a condom before ass fucking a Bengal Tiger.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 02:22 PM
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The adage that women will swim across an ocean to get at you is true but you also have to balance that against the reality that women do not approach. They are terrible at pickup. You have to take the lead with women and you have to put yourself out there and get rejected a lot. Women can't get turned on if they have to do the work to open up the courtship. Women want to feel pursued. Here's where it gets difficult. When you're hitting on a girl at the bar or in social setting how do you know th…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 02:05 AM
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https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 01:50 AM
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concern trolling I felt this vibe as well but it's always good to error on the side of assuming the poster is genuine unless there's evidence of the contrary. Unfortunately it's something we have to watch closely for in both subs.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 01:43 AM
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This is a pretty solid comment I think you're spot on about him using the redpill as a scapegoat coping mechanism for a difficult time in his life. However, I think encouraging divorce can be a dangerous recommendation if you don't have all the context and details.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 01:39 AM
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I'm confused? What do you mean? There are lots of two parent two income families with men that make less then this that do just fine. I actually think that a low income lifestyle can sometimes be even more conducive to a healthy redpill dynamic.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 10:12 PM
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Nothing in the redpill cannon says go home and rape your wife. Right now you need to look him in the eye and say you want to be woken before sex and if you say no it's not a fun marriage sex game. Do not delay in doing this. I know it's tough to be confrontational but this has to happen right now. Lots of men get on redpill and misread it or use the ideas to justify other things going wrong in their lives. Idk is this what TRP is about No. Is this a phase? Yes, but it may go on for a while and h…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 10:09 PM
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Your Post script note is very very good advice. If you dig hard enough everyone has something interesting about them and there's an art to good conversation that takes years of practice.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 09:43 PM
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I think this debacle demonstrates once and for all that this has nothing to do with misunderstandings of facts. This has everything to do with ideology and power. I read everyword of that paper and it was fact based, respectful. It was the farthest thing from sexism or misogyny and he was still fired. Remember when talking to strangers, co-workers, friends and family even if you present a redpill argument eloquently and grounded in fact you will be accused of sexism and misogyny and your career …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 05:20 PM
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I'm going to keep this real simple. It has nothing to do with the asshole part and everything to do with the fact he's so powerful that being an asshole doesn't effect his paycheck or social connections. Women want access to resources and a man that can blunder around being an asshole and still hold a job, business etc. The silverback gorilla can walk up and slap any male gorilla in the group and they can't do shit. The fact that he has the power to slap without repercussion is more powerful the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 05:53 PM
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I personally believe that this whole abuse story is just a way to justify the fact she had sex with him and manipulate my way into thinking that it was not her fault and I shouldn't not be angry with her and start getting in contact with her again. This is EXACTLY her play. I would like to get your two cents on this and perhaps give advice for the future when things get out of hand, possibly legally. You handled everything pretty well. You and you're friend need to cut her off big time and any s…
/r/askTRP07/08/17 02:05 AM
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Conservative values are simply a contract, "Hey you! Wildman that's raiding our village killing pigs and raping our women. Why don't you and your merry band of wildmen settle down and we will give you one pig and one women each and we will allow you to govern us. The children you birth will be allowed one women and one pig as well and so forth for as long as our kingdom is safe from other wildmen!!" Those wildmen that enter a contract don't become betas becase they are agreeing to a contract. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 09:13 PM
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Everything women do is an act for resources because they historically have had very poor means of finding and securing their own. They have evolved to gain and secure access, not procure. Any companionship a women provides you is an act that she will pull away if she feels you are not going to provide legal subjugation (marriage) in the mid to long term. If you are not a strong provider that increases the resources of the family on a regular basis she will pull both companionship and sex away. O…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 05:35 PM
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This is a very important point to note. The women in western societies value being cared for much less because of social norms allowing women to work as well as government/social aide when women fail. Other societies around the world don't have those structures for women thus putting women in a position to value male stewardship higher.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 05:17 PM
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Men should refuse to date self-identified feminists. That one's already being handled.
/r/MensRights05/08/17 02:22 PM
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I like this guide but the third wave and aftermath captions could be written more clearly. Maybe we could make a new one?
/r/MensRights04/08/17 03:11 PM
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Really depends on your age, reading level, and how deep in the pill you are. The sidebar is of course essential. The next most essential reading is Rational Male by Rollo. Then the list expands like crazy. No More Mr. Nice Guy The Way of Men Models Book of Pook If you are not a strong reader or a younger male, Corey Wayne's 3% Man is an easy read and redpilll light. There are also a ton of book threads that you can search on the redpill for more suggestions. Finally I highly recommend these book…
/r/RedPillBooks04/08/17 05:09 AM
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This is actually a really inciteful comment and could get flushed out into a post. Just food for thought. I'd add that we as men have created this problem. Women have become narcissistic and unstable because they don't have good male leadership. Women have always been and will always be the mental equivalent of teenagers and they struggle mentally when the are too put upon. Therefore a women's health only improves when she has quality strong male leadership. We need to rebuild society to allow f…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 04:46 AM
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Hint: they haven't figured themselves out by 27 either and they have way less baggage at 21. Hit the sidebar --->and read or reread 'Women, the Most Responsible Teenager in the Room'
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 04:41 AM
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Came to say something similar. Good looking women are normally pretty good at turning men down often times without them even knowing they were turned down. Now that I'm taking a more guided approach (thanks TRP) the last thing I'm going to do is expose my ego to judgmental bitches my age. You're right there are a lot of low/mid value insecure women that will try to bruise your ego and validate themselves at your expense but I recommend coming on to these women too as practice for better looking …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 04:38 AM
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Those trending lists are completely controlled by Youtube and driven by money, youtube promoting an image of itself, and political ideology of the company. They have nothing to do with views or subscriptions. I think the corporate feminist position is pretty transparent. Keep tearing down men and try to crack them like a pinanta and all there money and power will flow out of them and rain down on women and 'victimized groups.' The reality is that men will hold on their freedom and assets even ti…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 08:06 PM
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Everyone has a right to casual sex and everyone has the right to be damaged by it. TRP's position (IMHO) is That men are damaged by it far less and it might be their only option in a society the allows women to walk away from marriage easily and with all the resources. That women are damaged by it far more and lied too that it's some type of empowering journey. Women also have a time limit on reproductive peak which excessive casual sex squanders.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:47 PM
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I agree with this and I've talked to guy and I'be been that guy where all my skills and background fades away because I'm in new environment. This is also why 29 year old girls are pickier about men then 19 yearolds even though their SMV has dropped. 29 year olds have met and exposed themselves to broader alphas that hold themselves well in a variety of situations and by 29 they've probably been 'alpha widowed' where they know the biggest baller they will every have a chance with has already cum…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 01:35 AM
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LMAO. Come to think of "The Situation" is a good example of a situational alpha. Put "The Situation" in a corporate board room and he's not so alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 04:19 PM
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Sure looking back from our perspective he might not have looked like a talented dancer but from her perspective as a young girl into fashion, music and dancing seeing him as the best dancer in the troop was seductive to her. On the redpill we call this situational alpha. Young women fall into the situational alpha trap all the time and more experienced women (mothers, grandmothers) are always trying to warn them about it to little avail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 02:26 PM
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I like that phrase 'biologically primed.' It shows that biology can only influence but not force actions. In societies that have more social control you see people going against their biology more and in societies that have loss social control of people you see women and men reverting to their biological impulses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 02:23 PM
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He wasn't a fastfood worker. He was a talented dancer. She looked up to his skills and position. Didn't she meet him before she peaked as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 02:16 PM
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I also want to point out for any blue pills reading that nothing you're outlining is really disparaging. Lots of young bucks confuse insults, negging, and brutishness as 'frame.' Also, for the avoidance of doubt, if a girl does come back to my place, and then doesn't want to fuck, that's fine. Then I don't fuck her. The evening ends, and I show her to the door, so she can go home and think about what she did. I find that if you do this tactfully and without a hint of anger or frustration she's b…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:09 AM
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Women in unhappy relationship go shopping for validation and fun. Two common ways are to cheat with a high value guy or to get attention from an orbiter. LMR comes when a girl wants to fuck you but doesn't want you to see her as a slut and exclude her from relationship status. LMR can also come when she doesn't want it to get back to her friends that she got pumped and dumped. LMR can also come if you throw off some warning signs before fucking her that you're not a high value guy; this can come…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:45 PM
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The above scenario happens to lots of guys. Even a top tier man can sometimes be put into beta orbiter mode by a hot chick. Women love doing that. It gives them validation and power. Now if OP was a virgin and multiple women did this two him or this girl did this too him frequently then I'd agree, he's being desperate. He's trying to learn and improve, cut him some slack.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:32 PM
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"Hey, that's great, but I'm telling you now that if you come over to my flat, I am going to fuck you. It's simple: don't wanna fuck? Don't come over." I like this. I think it would cut down on false accusations as well. There's no ambiguity that she can rationalize later. I get your first two points but how does this give her the 'it just happened' defense?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:28 PM
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This is just standard hypergamy. It's good for the species that women don't want mediocre men.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 07:28 PM
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they never got noticed by men so why would they care what men thought of their new body ? I've never really thought about it like that but I think that is where a lot of the thought process is coming from. Vice versa I think that's what also drives a lot of obesity, "Men don't care about me so why should I care about my body, I'm just going to eat what I want and be happy." Some women struggle with this pleasing the opposite sex mentality that we are all raised with and have hormones that drive …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 03:11 PM
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Thanks willow-girl. I didn't forget about your message either. When you send me stuff I always end up on a rabbit hole reading shit so I will get back with you when I'm more researched. I always try to come to discussions with an open mind and having done my homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 01:31 PM
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Their not. But if those neckbeards get a hair cut, dress better, take risks (up their approach numbers), and approach lower tier women more often they will have a better chance. My point being that most men don't get laid because they sit around saying "I can't get laid." It's kind of like playing video games all day and then complaining that you don't have a tan. Well no shit. Some people might not tan as well as others but you have to expose yourself to the sun. Very very few men are genuinely…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 04:04 AM
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Probably comes from the problem of some users don't see getting laid with ugly women as getting laid. If you're willing to get a haircut, dress well, take risks and lower your standards way way down nearly every single man can get laid (there's always a few exceptions). That being said most men, even neckbeards, don't want to fuck lower tier women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 03:50 AM
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This is a good comment. I would also add that Tim Ferris has a chapter devoted to weightlifting advice for women that's really good. It's in this book. https://www.amazon.com/Hour-Body-Uncommon-Incredible-Superhuman/dp/030746363X Also OP might like this article. http://bonytobombshell.com/bombshell-aesthetics-building-attractive-female-body-imaginable/ It's important for women to be realistic with the body type they want to achieve.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 10:05 PM
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At least in Texas. I wonder if there's a website that tracks all these differences in each state in relation to marriage/divorce/paternity/child support. I'd love to see a dataisbeautiful type map that summarizes the landscape.
/r/MensRights29/07/17 05:05 PM
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signed an Acknowledgement of Paternity So could he have just denied paternity in the first place and the state would allow that? Can't she compel him to pay if he won't accept paternity?
/r/MensRights29/07/17 04:58 PM
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There is an era of ULTRA ABUNDANCE coming, not the opposite. You can't have a society of ultra abundance if all the beta males stop working and go to their rooms. Look at the economic decline of Japan. I think that's coming in a big way to the west and as it's happening the welfare state will grow and grow until the whole system cracks. edit. Also historically when male feel like they are left out of the group they form rogue gangs and end up taking society down.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 01:54 PM
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I don't see mgtow or TRP going mainstream, people prefer pleasant lies more I think it will go mainstream but following the principles and improving yourself are easier said then done. Surgar is bad for you and fat is good for you has been in the mainstream for 10 years and people still eat sugar.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 01:50 PM
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I'm using the list function. Do I need spaces and bolding or something?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 01:26 PM
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More men have higher IQ's but also more men are on the mental retardation end of intelligence as well. The genders have different bell curves. would intelligence in a woman throw off the "protector and protected" dynamic? Absolutely not. A guy that starts dating a girl is just as protective of a smart girl as he is a women of average intelligence. What comes into play is that a lot of intelligent women that go to college get indoctrinated by feminists making them less then desirable people to da…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 04:08 AM
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It's not just feminism. It's also lawyers. https://www.amazon.com/Death-Common-Sense-Suffocating-America/dp/0812982746
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 03:52 AM
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You can always just Snoopsnoo me. I write for redpill and ask redpill a lot. I have other interests like lifting and sports but I have other usernames for those. I've been getting in to crypto currency more lately as well. There's a danger of getting doxed as redpill contributor and there's also a lot of subs that autoban you for just posting in redpill so you have to have a lot of different username to keep it all straight. Especially for all my female aliases. Stay away from JacquilinaGetsIt s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 11:18 PM
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Did you see that infamous r/relationships thread from the gf of a TRPer who found a list of 7 different usernames? I have not. That's actually fascinating. I'm amazed by humans every single day. I'll have to look for it. Yes. I've PM'd a few gals I know who were around for the shenanigans Well I'm sorry that happened. I hate to see a sub like RPW corrupted because there's not a lot of places women can go for non feminism oriented relationship advice. There was a user on RPW who's name I can't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 11:05 PM
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primarily male (including female sockpuppets for male users). Do you mean female sockpuppets 'created' by male users. I'm not going to outright dismiss you on this one I know reddit has corporate astroturfing and trolls but what would be the purpose of that? Why would a guy spend his time posing as a women to ask intricate relationship questions, especially since guys are allowed to comment anyway. Guys normally pose online as women to get nudes or something. Not to discuss relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 10:44 PM
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Relationships are places where people have sex. A women who is 'crying at your feet' is begging for a chance at a relationship and thus sex with you again. How are they not related? I'm not here to play semantics. I didn't intentional try to change your words if that's what your asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 10:39 PM
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crying at feet and begging for sex are similar connotations in the context of our discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 10:25 PM
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Ah, so you're one of the reasons RPWi split off from RPW. LOL. No. I started contributing after that split. I didn't know they split because of male contributions. Regardless it seems like a natural split. There should be a group dedicated to women that have already married because those discussions are going to differ. Redpill wives has also continued not to grow and redpill women is doing quite well. You were just talking about echo chambers? Isn't a female only group a bit of an echo chamber …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 10:23 PM
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This one's pretty easy. The problem lies where you want a guy to be a certain way and you block out red flags. You can't fall in love with a man then vet him. You need to keep your eyes open before the crush gets too deep. Here are my tips. Is he respected by the people he works with? Is he respected by his friends? Is he respected by his family? Does he show respect to strangers and people below him (retail workers, children, etc) Does a lot of drama surround him all the time? How does he manag…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 10:15 PM
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Sorry, TRP, your dream of the harpies who rejected you at 22 crying at your feet at 32 is pure fantasy. This show's you didn't really come to this sub with good faith to debate. You had an image that Redpillers all have this fantasy that women will beg them for sex. That's not really a concern when there are plenty of 20 year old women available. You don't have to even look at women over 26 if you have some success and you go to the gym. What I've found interesting is that 26-31 year olds are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 10:07 PM
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A, that's a man problem (if it's true) There are no women and men problems. There are human problems. A women who gets beat up by her husband or attacked in an ally is not a 'feminism' issue. It's a society issue we are all affected by it in tax dollars and the harm it does to everyone around her. Her employer loses a worker her children lose a mother if she dies, etc. Same thing for men. Men that go to war and die hurt society. Men that are false accused and thrown in jail and can't finish coll…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 09:59 PM
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We're getting attention, we know it's most likely wanting sex. But we're still getting drinks bought, door opened, dates paid for, relationships offered. Then why are female happiness indices falling all over the place? You answered you're own question. Attention is not happiness. A lot of that attention is also very very fake. Especially when it comes through social media and again lots of attention from guys doesn't necessarily lead into quality relationships. It's just that, attention. Sorry,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 09:10 PM
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Despite not getting the amount of attention that our 20 year old selves got, we still get a LOT of attention. And a lot of it is from higher quality men - guys our age with successful careers, interests, and maturity. I can't say this enough to women. If you are 4 or above in looks. Attention from a man in NOTHING to be proud of. The only thing that should validate you is a success even keel LTR or marriage. If you could crawl around in a mans body for 15 seconds and could understand how horny w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 08:36 PM
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Some states won't test. In states that do many men might not have the money for legal counseling to know they can go in and fight it by demanding for a test.
/r/MensRights28/07/17 04:30 PM
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In any case, the gov does not know and she does not know or won't tell, so this poor guy is their target. Where's feminism? Women are stronger then men right? They're independent, ass kicking, powerful superwomen right? So why do they need the state and men? Or maybe feminism is a lie. Milo was right when he called it 'quantum state feminism' Quantum Superstate Feminism: A phenomenon observed when feminist activism exists as both victim and aggressor when eliciting or exploiting preferential tre…
/r/MensRights28/07/17 02:56 PM
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Show her this and this, and this. Then hit her up with a cute boy maybe he can persuade her... When she gets older hit her with this. Above all understand that even if you could convince her to become an antifeminist she really can't because she will be an outcasts with her friends and might have her grade affected. At her age emotions and fitting in is more important then facts and politics; it doesn't mean she will be a feminist forever, hopefully. So don't deride or insult her for her views (…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:44 PM
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Sure, and Trump is definitely more Redpill aware then Hillary. However political factions are always changing and not all people vote on whether or not a candidate seems more redpill. There's specifically a sub for redpillright discussion as well and those issues are pushed over to that sub. Maybe we need to get a redpill liberals sub going on as well? And a redpilllibertarian sub? My experience is a lot of redpillers are really really weary of party politics in general. Personally I consider my…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 07:01 PM
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If you've never practiced grappling and you roll with someone who has some grappling skills you're going to get your ass handed to you and it might even seem like they have magical powers. After you get some basic grappling skills all the magic goes away and even if you get beat you see how they did it.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:05 PM
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If you ever have to use anything more then very light dread on a women she's nothing more then plate or pump and dump material.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 01:15 PM
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This is why marriage is almost always a bad idea. It's impossible for anyone to keep this game up.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 01:10 PM
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Women also seem to have this quark, when the man their with convinces her she's irreplaceable he now becomes replaceable.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 01:07 PM
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Agreed. Redpill is about the dangers of unchecked hypergamy on the personal and societal level. I think we could all agree that a complete elimination of hypergamy would be a very bad thing. The same way the feminist drive to completely eliminate male competitiveness and violence is a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 12:38 AM
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But hopefully this will cause another Cassie Jaye or Laci Green to emerge no? It's only when they see for themselves how ideological there former cult is that they truly get redpilled.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 12:19 AM
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Very good point.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 10:44 PM
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You might like this book. https://www.amazon.com/10-Happier-Self-Help-Actually-Works/dp/0062265431 This film has a protagonist you might relate too. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087980/
/r/askTRP24/07/17 10:06 PM
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I think that if you're really good with number three and you're talking with someone else who has social skills they will start noticing the balance is off and will start reciprocating. I want to also add one more little tip. If you get bored talking with people a lot try to steer the conversation to something they are passionate and knowledgeable about. The minute you find that even the most boring person becomes the most animated interesting person in the world; treat the conversation like a h…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 09:46 PM
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Thanks so much for your prompt thoughtful response. As a writer, I can tell you that there is no chance that the mainstream publishing industry is going to give you a podium to talk about these issues from the male point of view This has certainly been the case in the past but I think we are finally seeing a significant change in the culture in general which should hopefully spill over into the publishing industry. We are also at a great time in history for crowd funded/independent publishing/al…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 04:14 PM
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Hi. I've seen your book posted before. Does your book have any cold hard facts that refute the narrative in modern U.S. Women's history courses that women were treated like property and cattle in the past? I do believe the validity of scholarship on coverture laws but I'm confident that as a whole female 'enslavement' just wasn't the case and I'm looking for a well research counter argument. Do you know any other good books in this field besides your own? I've heard Paul Elam has a book on gynoc…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 11:55 AM
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This. Repill isn't Alt Right. Alt Right is a political movement. Redpill is an educational subreddit that teaches people about basic human motivations and instincts covered up by our western culture. Redpillers identify as a multitude of different political factions.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 11:46 AM
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My advice to you is to pull away from your own thoughts for a second and look at your partner. He's 21. Most twenty one year old men, even ones from good families on good career paths, are really poor at picking up on female covert communication. Most twenty-one year old men are about 2-5 years behind the average 21 year old female on understanding relationship dynamics in general. There's an old book out there called "You Just Don't Understand! Men and Women in Conversation" written by Deborah …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 02:24 AM
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Most therapist are not very redpill or traditional relationship dynamic trained. That doesn't mean that a therapist might not be helpful but it just something to be weary of during those sessions.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 01:49 AM
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Good to see this pure redpill response.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 01:47 AM
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But we don't have that history so we need to be careful about assuming that he is all those things. Let's also remember that he's 21. That's not peak masculinity. It takes men years to tame themselves, learn the value of hard work, and learn about relationships (a field that women are way ahead of us on from an early age). For all we know he could be a HUGE douche but be on his way to a great captain. Some of the best men had really rocky runs of manipulative gas lighting behavior but reformed a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 01:42 AM
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Good comment. Submission is not omission of who you are.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 01:33 AM
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so I assumed there was a level of communication there. My reading of the post give me the inclination that the communication was not there and even if it was he's only a 21 year old and might not now what to do.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 01:30 AM
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This is just an example of how women play both sides. She just accidentally exposed how most women really feel: that they get viscerally turned off by weak men, weakness in almost any capacity (and there's nothing wrong with it; for the species to survive and thrive it's probably a very good thing women don't like weak men). When accused she backs off and try's to spin it. All the other women and men not backing her up are just virtue signalling that that are 'enlightened feminist' when they all…
/r/MensRights23/07/17 05:23 PM
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Well maybe he will get MORE jacked! My point wat that lots of men get too comfortable in relationships and the only catalyst that gets them to the next level of career dedication is a life changing event like a death in the family or a trusting loyal girlfriend that gives up and leaves for good; and some men never straighten up even after that seismic event. They just fall deeper in to drugs, or partying or laziness or career stagnation. Everyman has to walk his own path. Unfortunately there's n…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 05:01 PM
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The worst part about the situation you're in is that in 2017 it's hard to find unbiased, non-Tumblr Feminism advice from female and even male friends (or even trained therapist!) about your situation. I feel for you and I hope you can figure things out. I wrote a long reply but I'm going to hold back because I'm not sure about your exact situation. I feel like there's some things left out. More details might be helpful to us all here. If your post has been up for a while and you're not finding a…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 04:00 PM
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This is the correct answer. The most powerful narrative a women can self delude herself with is that her pussy power is so strong it can change a powerful man that has access to lots of women and flip him to grovel and prostrating himself for her and her alone. That's also the narrative of all successful romance novels. Artists and musicians (and successful PUA's) are exploiting this female weakness. Most women aren't even aware this dynamic is going on which is why when a man in real life acts …
/r/askTRP22/07/17 05:20 PM
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Be careful of a false equivalency. Sure guys can act shitty after a break-up. I've also seen some shitty behavior from guys that get rejected in public by women but women go through a systematic ego protection that men don't do. Women will also live with the lies they tell themselves for decades. Where as everyone around men are willing to point out the exact mistakes they made and they are forced to deal. Women not so much. People lie to them and enable them. It's often times not until their la…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 03:19 PM
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Seriously underrated comment right here. Most young men and women today are lied to about what feminism has been doing over the last 30 years (and don't bother to really look it up). Actually most people are so under-educated about history in general they barely understand suffrage, civil rights and the history of the Republic in general. Women go with the flow and they are excellent at detecting that flow and right now it's still very much a SJW feminist playground. Unless you grew up with a co…
/r/MensRights22/07/17 12:44 PM
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A lot of municipalities and administrative positions that influence the legal system have been taken over by feminists. Women have been entering and graduating college at higher rates then men. Corporations and governments seeking to hire more women and minorities as reparations on the past and improved PR, which isn't necessarily a bad thing (if they are qualified) but these young people are coming from feminist infected colleges and they are now starting to get real power.
/r/MensRights22/07/17 12:34 PM
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I'd like to see this advice more in these 'self help' type threads. Monk mode is good for some guys. Lifting and career building is absolutle necessity. But finding fellow in the flesh men that you look up to and want to model yourself on is rarely mentioned and can be life changing. This might take the form of an instructor in a new hobby. A new group of friends that you feared before but want to reapproach. A teammate. A military friend or going into the military. All of these can have enormou…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 03:00 AM
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How do you see the future of sexual relations between men and women? The future of sexual relations between men and women is Japan. Lower birth rate. Males dropping out of society. Lower economic output. The only way I see to fix these things: *Feminsm Dies *legalization of drugs and steroids. less stigma around drugs and steroids. *sociallly shamming weak males that don't get out and do shit. *death of family court *death of welfare *Men stop marrying (driving women to change habits) *Social sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 07:58 PM
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Well that just made my day!
/r/MensRights21/07/17 07:48 PM
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Can't wait. I'm running to the local drug store and flopping my man meat right on the counter.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 07:04 PM
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Go. But remember that every guy you meet will have some downside. Be careful not to throw the baby out with the bathwater and date a guy that's too much of the opposite on the next go around. Also don't think that you have till you're 35 to find Mr. Right. Also be prepared for a very very messy breakup and a guy that's probably going to be jacked and making good money in a year or two.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 06:00 PM
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It's a shame your post hasn't caught more traction. We lost DFW much too soon. I'd highly recommend his essay collections as well. Good reflections on modern society and a lot of observations he made are still very relevant today.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 05:54 PM
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All this will change when male birth control hits the market.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 04:22 PM
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It won't mean shit to the judge either who will gladly hand her 18 years of his income without a second thought.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 04:22 PM
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No problem.
/r/askMRP21/07/17 02:27 AM
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Seriously underrated comment right here. Great points. What's interesting is in the past women were trained by mothers and grandmothers and church officials and fathers that being a side dish isn't as validating as she 'feelz' it is. Any man can fuck you but that doesn't mean anything. Women hold the keys to sex men hold the keys to commitment was pounded into every young girls head. Think of all the wisdom that's now considered an old wives tales 'getting the the milk for free' 'locks that open…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 02:11 AM
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Don't forget lesbian couples. They are brutal as fuck to each other sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 01:52 AM
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This is pretty good advice. Often times when when try to suppress things they become more pronounced.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 07:44 PM
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I did not know Chris Brown was branching out into the fitness industry. Is this 'BBC workout' an isolation high rep low weight workout? Or more compound movements like squat and deadlift?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 04:48 PM
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He said, "never let women go out to clubs without you, ever" and this is pretty good advice. Especially clubs in major cities that have lots of high power men and players. You're just asking for disaster. If you've ever met a higher quality women who had a good father figure they will actively shun this lifestyle (after getting into an LTR) because they deep down know that it's a recipe for disaster and they don't want to blow up a marriage (or potential marriage/meal ticket). That's actually a …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 04:44 PM
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You show him respect by not being something else he has to worry about. It sounds like you're a quality wife. You follow redpillwomen principles. You're practicing submission. Now all you have to do is continue to practice these principles in the hard times. The hard times is when your man 'appears' weak/cracking/struggling. You have to be honest with yourself: his anxiety and depression is a weakness and you coming to post here is partially about asking 'what can I do to support!?' but it's als…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 04:26 PM
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Step 1 is to decide if he's a tolerable beta that you can live with till the grave or he's completely intolerable and you can't cope. If he's intolerable you need to apply heavy heavy dread and get ready to leave; don't be rude but really start getting ready to leave. There's a chance he wakes up from this so only put one foot out the door. Step 2 Assuming he's tolerable at the moment... Improve yourself. Look better, dress better, get fit, be a good wife. Do not cheat or flirt with other guys d…
/r/askMRP20/07/17 03:58 PM
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This could also just shut him down completely.
/r/askMRP20/07/17 03:42 PM
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10 ONS is very different to 10 actual relationships. In my opinion it's not. The serial monogamist are sometimes even worse then the CC riders. Shows that they make really poor choices and then continue to make them. I've also noticed with serial monogamist they have an enormous fear of being alone and use the next relationship to try to transform and reinvent themselves instead of finding their own personality outside of a man. I've dated a few women in their mid twenties who've told me they've…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 12:23 AM
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How do the newer people help the community? Sounds like you're doing that. By not adding anything that you don't think brings value you've kept the quality high. There's a difference between noise and music and lots of subs are all noise. As you continue to read you can upvote quality, downvote bullshit and somewhere down the line you might have something unique to contribute. By continuing to develop yourself I'm sure that will be sooner then later!
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 10:05 PM
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I propose all new users submit to an eunuch test
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 04:49 PM
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He's probably just still in the anger phase (which is allowed and encouraged in r/redpill for venting and discussion purposes). Redpill isn't about hating women for being hypergamous and upgrading. It's about simply being aware of it, cautious of it. I didn't get the vibe that you upgraded and even if you did you have that right; it doesn't make you evil; redpill women just teaches that being overhypergamous can also have very negative consequences. Without some degree of female hypergamy the hu…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 04:22 PM
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Don't feed the troll. He's just trying to get a rise out of you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 03:52 PM
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Listen. You're a guest in one of the few corners of the internet that actually DOES call out women on hamstering/rationalizing, etc. Did you even know where you are?? Did you read the post carefully? The post topic is actually about how feminist women disregard male truth and reality. Do you see the irony here? Even if you were right about her rationalizing or trying to hide a piece of a story you don't have to be rude about it and you're going to need to provide some logic as to why you think t…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 03:51 PM
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The quality of university professor is laughably low right now. The pay is incredibly low as well. The explosion of unemployed college educated people as well as the removal of tenure tracked positions have allowed campuses to force pay way down.
/r/MensRights19/07/17 01:19 PM
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There are no roundhouse kicks in Judo. While not very practical in a streetfight unless the guy has a thick jacket on the Tomoe Nage and other sacrificing throws are really cool. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CfxIFnF7_WM
/r/askTRP18/07/17 02:15 PM
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This is very good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 10:21 PM
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If you started at a Judo club and got in great shape, met cool people, felt more confident, and learned cool useful skills (self defense, balance) would you really care if some random person you were talking to on the street called you a nerd? Would you care even if it was a friend or family? I practiced, competed, sat at promotion tables and did some instructing for 6 years and was never once called a nerd or had a conversation with someone who even loosely refered to Judo as nerdy. If you trav…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:20 PM
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You go where the quality men are. If the club is full of lots of hot overdressed chicks in high heels but only a few shitty 'player' type guys what's the purpose of being there? Granted every city has different types of bar scenes but I've noticed in lots of big cities I go to that girls will group up hardcore in certain areas because they think that's going to have the best guys when that's not always the case (the guys attracted to those scenes often are living at home and don't have busy care…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 07:56 PM
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The west still has pockets of traditional men around but they are keeping very very quiet. They are attacked by feminist everywhere. Traditional men are not allowed to joke or speak freely because they will be accused of racism, sexism and mansplaining and they will be shamed and teamed up against by feminist. They can lose their jobs very easily because HR departments are dominated by SJW feminist ideologies and any accusation made by a female against a male is believed without evidence. So men…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 07:41 PM
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I don't like fitness, I like boxing as a sport This doesn't make any sense. Boxing is fitness related. Look for a boxing instructor that will help you put together a weightlifting routine that will improve your boxing. (Probably Olympic lifts as they will help with explosiveness and power)
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:54 AM
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A part of me wants absolutely nothing to do with people and i just wanna be left alone seeing that every interaction with everyone has a underlying motive Listen. This isn't just taking the redpill. This is a general existential crisis. When you become educated and see how something works it's always a bit discordant; then if you follow the rabbit hole you see a lot of things that have lots of underlying motives that you didn't previously see. One of my favorite books is a collection of essays w…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:35 AM
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r/JoeRogan r/keto
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:02 AM
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So that should show you that it's less about your looks and more about your inner game. Getting more chicks under your belt will give you that confidence. I want to give you another bit of advice. When you do get that hotty (and she will come) don't get sucked in and slow down and go into a three-six month snuggle zone. Use that hot chick to get out and keep meeting people and building even more connections. Because she will leave you and you need to be comfortable with that and not be in a posi…
/r/askTRP16/07/17 10:44 PM
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There's been a huge shift to bumble and girls are also not monitoring and using their profile much there's a lot more game in other social media and just meeting women in person. I'd also highly reccomend you google: 'redpill dance monkey dance'. It's an outstanding article about online dating and the shifting dating market. edit. Most good looking girls are also rarely single. They just jump guy to guy and rarely need to even traditionally date.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 10:26 PM
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Seriously do it. Especially if you're a virgin. Use it to practice DGAF and frame. Also don't explicitly go for ugo and fattys you'll be surprised how fast better looking girls start matching and chatting with you more after you get only a few girls under your belt. Also wrap it up and don't get trapped or false accused. I've actually drafted a redpill post about this process.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 10:23 PM
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You most likely live a sheltered life. Go out and have shit happen to you. Go work on a crab fishing boat in Alaska. Go clean grain silos in the midwest. Sounds like you have some generalized anxiety. Find a Tyler Durden type friend to push you. Go out and make some mistakes. I've got a post on meditation that might help you as well. Feel free to give me some more background on yourself and I'll see if I can't narrow down more what going on.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:58 AM
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There might be some cases where that's true but I've nomally scene cases where couples pick someone of the opposite personality type so that they can complement eachother. I.e if I'm a dominate type I'm not only going to seek out someone who will let me dominate them but even better if I find someone who enjoys it and needs it.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 03:23 PM
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There's a good article on redpill titled the lightswitch effect that spells this out really accurately.
/r/MGTOW15/07/17 02:28 PM
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You're always going to get this on internet forums but beware the ability you have to surprise yourself. Have you every seen chump guy walking down the street with a smoke show gf? I have, all the time. Women choose mates very differently then your beta upbringing has taught you. These girls are available to you bro, you just need to drop the blue pill programming and start putting in practice what you learn here. I promise it will blow you away. Now hanging on to HB8's and 9's is a bit more dif…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 05:18 AM
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Hanlon's Razor If the theories weren't underpinned by emerging evolutionary psychology and biology I'd tend to agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 05:10 AM
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Great comment. Like most things if it's initially very hard people won't do it. Dropping carbs you've been addicted to since infancy is hard. It (initially)causes headaches, low energy, social pressure "hey why won't you drink with us and have a pizza tonight??" Modern society is also built on grains. Grains allowed for massive increase in birth rates. Since the birth of industrial agriculture it was just cheaper to eat grains so that's what people did. They didn't realize they were shortening t…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 05:06 AM
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The ugos also try to stick out in non-traditional ways. Outrageous hair dying, silly subculture, ridiculous gender fluid expirements. Then they get more mad when these cries for attention don't net them quality male attention. If you go over to the red pill women sub there are a surprising number of posts from new users saying, "should I die my hair purple??" and the community universally always tells them "No!!" The general advice is to lose weight, dress traditionally feminine, wear make-up an…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:57 AM
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Nail hit. The sexual revolution unleashed a demon on women and a heaven on the top 10% of men.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:50 AM
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I highly recommend the book 'The Practicing Mind' by Thomas Sterner. Talks a lot about what you've taught yourself here.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:46 AM
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Interchangeable no? I believe that biologically women self delude to protect themselves emotionally. Our current society just amplifies it.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:44 AM
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Lesbians are also quite abusive towards each other and fall into very traditional masculine feminine type dynamics. It's like one desperately needs to dominate and the other desperately needs submit (and few men have presented themselves as dominate characters so they settle for the next best thing, a dominate female)
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:29 AM
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About half to three quarters of of all my partners have had this streak and almost all are curious if I bring it up off hand or sneak it in during sex. The ones that are most into it or least into it all had abuse of some type.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:23 AM
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I think you're confusing politicians with bureaucrats. I lot of political characters I've shaken hands with or met all seem to be to be a touch of the frat dude that everyone liked. I agree with the part that they play both sides. There's also different types of politicians. There's the guys that come out of a military background or business (these are more alpha) there are also working class heroes that rise up, finally there are a few policy wonks that squeeze threw but even those guys are als…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:20 AM
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Combine this with a need for cleanliness that women have after they start to nest. Which is interesting cause their rooms and dorms are often times messy. There's something about settling down. There's also the bonus that they get to nag that you're a messy pig and you'd be lost without them. So it fosters dependence, which is bread a butter for a women that doesn't want to get dumped. So recap 1.Research Ops 2.Operation Baby drop zone prep 3.Psy-ops
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:13 AM
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This sub is to help men understand female motivations and social dynamics. I didn't say all women 'are' politicians. I said 'think of them like politicians' to help men understand the female mindset. Mothers, sisters, teachers, bosses, landlords only use female manipulation techniques to varying degrees and some almost never use them and some over use them to the point of destroying scores of male lives. I know that you see men as beneficiaries of society but they are currently getting ass raped…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 04:21 PM
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It's the social engineering, false accusations, and whisper campaigns to control post relationship friendships that I was trying to point out. Nobody is forcing these women to have sex or get into one sided relationships. My second point is that the relationship is rarely one-sided it's often just colored that way because of emotions and power plays. If you read redpill a bit further you'd be surprised at the quantity of men that don't want just sex. They want relationships. Many men that are tr…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 04:13 PM
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do contraceptives change anything? Since women are more likely to be able to provide sex with less fear of pregnancy? There are some studies that show that the pill messes up a women's ability to judge compatibility. Although having a lower chance of getting pregnant doesn't seem to alter her indignation because it's a deeply deeply ingrained emotion. Women are getting a lot of mixed signals as well. They're taught that it's powerful and the sign of a modern women to sleep around but this is so …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:47 PM
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I agree with everything you said here but it's a double edged sword. As you add to your badboy points you also open yourself up for false rape accusations, sexual assault accusations and whisper campaigns that can ruin careers. Women use this power all the time to fuck up innocent men. Keep on close guard if you're going to play the game.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:37 PM
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She doesn't feel robbed then, but she is doing the thieving. Lots of men don't see this. They walk away wondering where all their time and money went but don't realize that that was the play all along.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:16 PM
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Shoot. I can do the best I can but you might have a better time over at purple pill debate. Also my 'redpills greatest hits' post is overview of a lot of the terminology if that's the area you're struggling in.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:12 PM
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Preach. Feminism has produced a fire sale on the price of pussy. Women should be horrified because this is the seat of their power; and some are starting to realize what's going on. Lauren Southern and Shoeonhead are examples.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:08 PM
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For girls, it's not what actually happened, but what people believe happened. I think you just said in a sentence what I was trying to express in an entire post. Bravo. The nice thing is that later in life men finally start to recognize and beat women at this social posturing. A former boss of mine use to say: 'it's not what you intended it's how people interpreted your intentions'. It's hard to teach young men this knowledge cause they struggle to listen and have a strong impulse to learn on th…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:00 AM
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We are all a bit tribal and slave to the pack. Agreed. However, men because of their expendability are also decoupled from following the hive as religiously. So as much as I respect your view there's a danger in a false equivalency. Men are followers but are not as entrapped. My post may come off as harsh on women but it's really just as much a critique on society and biology that traps them into those roles and expressions. IMO they are more trapped then men at least on some of these relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 02:53 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j0qm0KUPeD8
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 02:37 AM
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Which girl grows up to be a 'more' rational and grounded human? A girl raised with a single mother and no masculine influence or a girl raised with a rational father who leads his family? My argument is not that we should shoehorn women to be little men, it's that women simply benefit and become better more accountable people when exposed to male leadership. Men also can benefit from feminine exposure as well. It's a symbiotic relationship.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 02:35 AM
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"Normal Women" That's a straw man No True Scotsman. Keep painting your imaginary castles...
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:23 AM
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A woman will logically destroy you if she has the horsepower to do it. Great point; and there are a lot of women in fields of study that require logic. It's really just a shame that much of the time in their private lives they launch that logic train from a faulty emotional premise. Women need quality male leadership in their lives to provide rationality and accountability.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:19 AM
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It's a lot more developed in women IMHO. Men have their hamsters and faults as well but be wary of underestimating a women's rationalization powers.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:11 AM
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I like your suggestions as well, a simple statement in a neutral tone, then leave, but I want to say it depends on the person. The hard part is you don't know exactly who she is until you see how she handles a break up. I've never tried the beta bitch method but it seems like it might work. No matter what when you dump a girl your dealing an IED. Why try to defuse it up close or even remotely around the corner? Just let her keep ticking and find another target.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:09 AM
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some women aren't as calculating and malicious Agreed. I alluded to something similar in another reply. There are women that have more control then others, and more class, but unfortunately we are living in a society that caters to and encourages their less desirable natures. When I first started reading redpill years ago I noticed a few of the vets repeatedly wrote posts and comments that when they wanted to break up with a women they simply start acting like a weak beta bitch and then she does…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:49 AM
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Thanks for sharing. That's a person that you keep tabs on and warn your boys about.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:40 AM
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Frame. The core of redpill principle. Frame, frame, frame. How do you build frame? You do hard shit. Day in and day out you beat yourself up and make yourself a better person in every way possible. You are the sculptor and the stone. The day bends to your will and nothing phases, especially not a women's falsehoods, when you wake up and chew some oats and deadlift until your vision is blury... Jocko Willink and Joe Rogan talk a lot of this. See also: stoicism.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:37 AM
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Good question. I think it would be very disingenuous to say all women are hyper aware of the magnitude of manipulation they engage in (I even see small flashes of light in social media that this whole feminism thing is buckling and cracking). I think what happens is that they get so caught up in protecting their own ego and psyche that nothing else matters. Righteous indignation burns bright in many a women. In the heat of a perceived injustice it now 'feelz' like she was raped or abused, or use…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:30 AM
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Well. I think you've got a pretty solid mate there. I think when you get into a position where you feel that way you need to reread older things from him and just mentally reflect on all the things he does for you and that might give you a pick-me-up. Sounds like a lot of your feelings might just simply stem from being away from him (you said you're traveling right now correct?) I want you to know that lots of women would kill to have a guy that does the things you just listed. You also need to …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 05:55 PM
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part of me feels like he's sort of putting me to the side if that makes sense. For a women, consistently and firmly being put to the side is painful and can errode and possibly destroy a relationship. However, just because you feel you're being put to the side doesn't mean you are. You need adjust how you see his actions and words. Men, especially masculine men, communicate love, respect and contentment with their partners very differently then women do. Women also have times where there needs f…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 04:20 PM
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I did not know this guy was a boxer/kickboxer. Seems like a pretty cool guy.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 03:07 PM
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Larry Elder is a more traditional conservative and I don't think he interacts with the redpill community but he's a strong proponent of fathers rights and pushing for more fathers in homes. He also wants to see welfare torn down. Might be a good addition to the list. Also Thomas Sowell, Paul Elam, Christina Hoff Sommers, Camila Paglia and Warren Farrell should certainly get some type of mention. Personally I'm not a fan of Tomi Lahren I think she just parrots what she thinks she suppose to say. …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 02:59 PM
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I think if feminism and welfare disappeared tomorrow you'd see near zero screeching white or black women. Men would enjoy being around them more and women would re-connect and rediscover the value men provide. The core of a male female relationship is that men bring resources, safety, leadership, skills, and sharing of child raising responsibilities. Men shouldn't have to compete with government in these arenas and you mess up the flow of male and female relationship dynamics when women have a g…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 02:26 PM
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Part of the reason men do this is if they don't have a lot of family money they are incredibly busy with school and side jobs to make ends meet. This focus leaves very little time and money. Therefore you tend to search for a women who is going to help you through this journey by not asking for expensive things and not being high maintenance. This tends to be a less attractive women. There's also the phenomenon called the college wife. You pick that one comfortable girl to unofficially 'marry' t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 10:51 PM
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(blacks have long not married) If long is 30-50 years. You're right but if long is the last century you're wrong. Blacks use to divorce at lower rates then whites. From 1890 to 1950 a black child was more likely to grow up with married parents then a white child. Larry Elder brings this up in a lot of his debates. He mentions it at the 1:26 mark in this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FszQelEQ2KY
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 09:38 PM
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What your describing is redpill knowledge 101. We don't need to rise above it because it's those two strategies that got us all here in the first place so they can't be all that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 05:34 PM
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You do sound like a bit of a rambler but I am too! When I'm responding to some comments I have to go back before posting and just cut tons out because I'm off the rails on ten different subjects. Yes I agree with you. We are in the weird gender war right now and both sexes are pulling away from each-other and very distrustful. I'm seeing it a lot in the dating market as well not just online. I do think we've always had a bit of natural tension between the genders but it's hyper inflamed right no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 05:16 PM
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It's a debate sub so it often times gets a bit tense and people don't come to table with a genuine desire to hear the other person out. It's tough to debate with people that don't come with good faith. If you want a bit more relaxed space I'd recommend redpillwomen. I do some writing over there as well and it's got some great discussions and good mods that aren't power hungry but will boot people that are rude and especially men that don't make their arguments and positions in respectful ways. e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:56 PM
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Point taken. Although even though you personally might have been misrepresented the 'male violence is weakness' trope does get brought up a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:44 PM
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There's a difference between correcting your BF about Tanzania and correcting him daily/hourly about the life course of the relationship or the daily manutiae of how you live together. Decisions like buying a house together, a car, car care, planning vacations, what social groups to join and navigate together, when to have kids, how many, decisions around the home. If you over flex your intellectual superiority in those areas or play the 'see I was right game you're such an idiot' when he tries …
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 04:40 PM
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Because they speak covertly in almost all communication. Thus calling men inferior for violence is simply a manipulation and control tactic. Men throughout history have used their physical superiority to defend women, hurt women, build empires for women, tear down empires for women, advance comfort for women, and take away from women. Women don't have a strong ability to conceptualize and look at the bigger picture outside of themselves. Everything is couched in their current very narrow world v…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:16 PM
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Thanks for this comment. This is the reality. It totally depends on the skill/careeer pursuit etc. It also depends on what type of aptitude you start with. I think what's also important to note is the greats never consider themselves master even after 60k hours. They continue to be students at heart and continue to learn more about their chosen pursuit doggedly. Jiro Dreams of Sushi is a good character study on this mindset.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 12:57 PM
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If you haven't looked into IOTA and SIA I'd highly recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 12:52 PM
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Sure. I come from a catholic, military oriented family. My father was a Marine and raised me to live with morals and to give people the benefit of the doubt when meeting them; he was a very strong but gregarious and trusting person. I was obsessed in high school and college with living a principled, disciplined life that benefited as many people as possible. I read a lot of Emerson, Japanese Bushido teachings, Catholic social philosophy, general western philosophy, etc. I was in a lot of clubs a…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 02:31 PM
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I wrote about this more extensively about a week ago https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6kawfa/how_to_manage_feelings_of_intimidation_towards/djkvgzb/ If that doesn't help clarify feel free to shoot me follow ups if you have any.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 01:55 PM
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Very succinct. I would just add it's also a play for victim status. Most women's actions can be describe by one or both of these in tandem.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 01:01 PM
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Like this type of shit never occurs to me, and so it is easy to project that it doesn't in others. But I'd be dead wrong. This was me for years. Because I didn't think like that I assumed the vast majority of people operated on the same types of principled positions as I did. Then life kicked me in my yet to drop balls and grabbed me by the shoulders while spinning me around and made me open my eyes. Dr. Cox said it best https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTbgvYPVdXE
/r/askTRP07/07/17 10:47 PM
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Office Space. bonus: Where the Red Fern Grows
/r/askTRP07/07/17 10:19 PM
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This was such a damn good movie. Underrated.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 10:13 PM
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I was actually thinking about it. I will throw in onto my 'draft post' pile and clean it up more and maybe put it up next week. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 06:57 PM
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Well said. There's just no closure for men. Any attempt to tie things up with women on the back end will just be used against you in women court!
/r/askTRP07/07/17 05:20 PM
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She doesn't even deserve to know why you next her. More guys need to do this when they next girls. This is more powerful then a lot of men understand.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 05:01 PM
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Marriage use to be supported by religion and government and men took on a huge responsibility but were compensated by taking on a dowry and all of her future wealth and output. Google 'coverture' laws for more on this. Both men and women were highly encourage to stick together (even in cases of abuse) and highly discouraged to divorce. Let's look at a little snap shot of a divorce in like 1930 or even 1830: In most religions you'd be excommunicated from the church (male or female) and if you wer…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:54 PM
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Frame it like this. A cute girl working as a waitress in LA meets the guy of her dreams, a B list actor that really likes her. They start dating and she is mentally doing all the future planning for kids and marriage. Out of the blue a friend calls her up and invites her on this trip. How do you think she would respond? To me this trip seems like the couple is angling for your girlfriend to hook up with this guy and come back into the friendship group by dating him again. Bottom line it's beyond…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:43 PM
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Solipsism.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 02:29 AM
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He came to reddit for help, and we failed him Really? I haven't read all the threads but wasn't that the right advice? To get away from this psycho? Unfortunately he didn't do it soon enough.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 02:28 AM
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Yea. Thanks a lot. Now you've made me re-read the article! I think that's one of the most groundbreaking observations that guy has written. I think he expanded on it in another article about European immigrant invasion. I especially like how he explained it here in the first article Anxiety, fear, guilt, insecurity are all very debilitating emotions, however it’s women’s innate psychology that makes them more durable to these stresses. It just makes sense. Women are more exposed to these stresse…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 02:21 AM
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I don't devalue women. I didn't think you were claiming that at all. I see proof to the contrary that she's "worth it." My bar of commitment is quite high. As it should be; and even after she proves it men must still be on guard and protect their assets because at anytime women can use the system against you.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 11:22 PM
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You're throwing out a lot of nuance in both your comments. As I read his comment he's not pedestalizing he's not saying there are unicorns. He's simply saying quality women exist. 'Quality women' doesn't mean she's above cheating and leaving quality just means she offers more then just sex. Maybe she cooks and cleans, maybe she's good companionship, maybe she wants to help you on your mission(s), maybe she believes in a captain first mate dynamic. Lots of women do offer this and some of them kee…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 10:57 PM
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There's a lot of advice on redpill that goes something like, 'if she's not beating down your door then she's just playing you' this is a bit disingenuous. That advice is meant for blue pill billy beta that wants to be friends for a year and set up covert contracts with women. However, unless you're SMV is super sky high most women are going to require some pushing, tact, and pageantry. If you don't like this pushing (most men don't) you can A) get working on your SMV B) Hit on girls a lot lower …
/r/askTRP06/07/17 08:25 PM
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Women live and die on their social connections. Think of all women like mini politicians. They are always trying to play to their base and expand their base and not offend anyone unless it's politically beneficial. Have you ever noticed that it's really difficult to pin women down on where they want to eat, or their belief structures or who their friends are? It's because they are constantly trying to be tactful and benefit by playing both sides. Now. Enter in a break up scenario. It's of the hi…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 07:48 PM
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So I watched the video but still a bit confused. What are the advantages of being your own server? Also, it seems to me that no matter how good the UI gets people just won't have the technical knowledge to use this? I like the idea but it seems like it would only catch on really really slowly. Are there any other videos out there explaining this project better?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 01:09 PM
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Thanks for the details. Why would the medical community, a supposed body of scientific method driven professionals, continue to flaunt such a flawed study? I can't really understand their actions beyond some type of bias towards circumcision.
/r/MensRights03/07/17 10:40 AM
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Yea at the 32:05 mark he brings up the point that you did with the problem with men in Africa who received the circumcision and then thought they didn't need condoms.
/r/MensRights02/07/17 08:09 PM
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Well circumcision does reduce transmission rates for some diseases I think Ryan McAllister debunks most of those studies pretty well here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ceht-3xu84I&t=27m22s because now you have a bunch of people who aren't actually protected from spreading STIs that think they are and will pursue unprotected sex. This is a great point. I think it's interesting how misguided interventions can backfire so badly a lot of the time.
/r/MensRights02/07/17 07:46 PM
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Don't forget cherry picked and poorly designed studies that convince people that uncircumcised penis's increase HIV and HPV transmission.
/r/MensRights02/07/17 07:11 PM
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Infants only have 12 ounces of blood. That's a coke can. Babies can lose an ounce or more during genital mutilation. This can kill the baby. for more https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ceht-3xu84I
/r/MensRights02/07/17 06:34 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ceht-3xu84I
/r/MensRights01/07/17 03:51 PM
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Reading this made me sick to my stomach. I'm sorry this happen to you.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 03:25 PM
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Female friends do this to each other all the time. Just hold frame and keep the convo light and fun and don't let her bother you. It's tough on the fatty that the good looking friend gets the lion share of attention. Women that are out drinking get really passive aggressive toward eachother about this shit. Best you can do is again ignore it, give her a touch of attention, get a good wingman or try to isolate the good looking one; it's also ok to get her number and bail and hook up with her late…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 12:53 AM
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Good advice. OP needs to not allow the fatty to trigger him. Throw her a bit of attention and offer them both some fun times and everything will be kosher. I'd add that when you have a close bond with a male friend and he's not just an acquaintance he won't sabotage your connection. It's much more valuable to have a good male friend then to steal his lady for a quick fuck. Having a good male friend gets you emotional support and access to lots of other women to fuck because you can socialize wit…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 12:51 AM
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This was a real weakness of mine growing up. Partially because of my mother doing most of the parenting. I had a great dad but he was ill and sidelined... I had it bad. Let's just call it pedestalizing mixed with freeze up syndrome. Nothing really fixed it for me. I joined sports/social clubs and got more female attention; helped but didn't fix it. I dated/lived with a smoke show girl in college and got to see her taking a shit and all her ugly sides; helped but didn't fix it. I got my heart rip…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:51 PM
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Flowing outfits almost always hide fat. If she wasn't she'd be wearing something that shows off her body. Also, pro tip, dance with her and you will be able to feel the fat rolls in-between your fingers.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 07:25 PM
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NOOOO! She was my RPW bro. She probably knew she was spending too much time and wanted to get back to working hard for her husband/ family as a good RPW should. Pour one out for Sadie!
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 10:54 PM
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I agree with all your points here. and I even have a feeling she's bound for monk mode soon. You might be right but hopefully she sits on it a bit. I think she came to the right subreddit. Because everyone else would have just blindly been telling her to run which isn't necessarily the right advice.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 03:06 PM
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Yea. It's a train wreck of bad advice.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 03:03 PM
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He's told me he's feeling frustrated swings from being apathetic to being depressed. He was trying really hard when we met so I respected his fire to keep going. He's even admitted he's starting to lose the fire. This is where it gets difficult being a male contributer on redpillwomen. My guy side wants to scream at you to double down and stay with him through the tough times and 'if' he get's his financial act together you two will be not only stronger but he will be very inclined to marry you …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 03:03 PM
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I sounds like you knew his financial situation before you started doing all the cooking, household things. Did you think that because you stepped up your wife-material game that you'd get something out of it? It's sounds like you're the one introducing the transactional nature into the relationship. I know that he probably wouldn't care if I DIDN'T do these things So I'm also going to assume that he didn't force you into do doing all these things. I think you need to be honest with yourself. Wha…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 02:20 PM
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She's not going behind his back to read his email or view his reddit history. That's snooping. I would hope she hasn't started expressing these doubts publicly or even privately to friends and family; Granted she probably didn't tell him 'I'm going to go to a forum of women and talk about our relationship behind your back' I'll give you that but at least she's here and not on r/relationships or god forbid twoxchromosomes. I've read a few of your comments and you are an incredibly knowledgeable r…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 02:18 PM
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Great comment. You basically hit on a lot of points I was going to fumble through! This sub at times idolises the perfect mix of alpha and beta. That perfect mix just doesn't exist, Not only does the perfect mix not exist, women swing back and forth in their wants. They swing from wanting dominate alpha traits to financial and comforting beta traits. Redpill women is about being aware of that female tendency and tempering it and making a good choice in mate (not too much of either).
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 01:45 PM
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You are disrespecting him by complaining about him to a bunch of strangers on the internet I get your point but since he's unaware and the strangers will never know the guy I don't really see the disrespect. If OP does in online she might start doing it to friends and family so that's and issue but I don't see the disrespect coming from just a post. I think she also gave him a fair shake in the post and showed some of the good things he's doing instead of just bad mouthing him.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 01:41 PM
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If this shit keeps happening in society people will stop helping children or eachother in general for fear of lawsuits. I think it's already starting to happen.
/r/MensRights27/06/17 07:02 PM
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Women often hide there true personalities and weaknesses during the courtship as well. Only after you're stuck with her for eternity do you see the real person and this isn't an accident.
/r/MensRights26/06/17 08:40 PM
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I have a suspicion that it's often simply autism (that's highly undiagnosed in girls) This doc is an hour but I found it fascinating. https://vimeo.com/199745757 There's often a lot of boy obsession as well. Think Tina from Bobs Burgers.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:10 PM
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I apologize in advance for the length of this comment. I tried and failed to cut it down! Let's start out with some positives. Seems like you've done a great job by actually getting into an established relationship and withholding sex (this is quite rare today). I'm going to assume that: 'makes me extremely happy' means that this young man is a quality person with a bright future and not just someone who is popular in your social clique. If there's one thing young women do is they often conflate…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 02:23 PM
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Do you even redpillwomen bro?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 01:36 PM
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Also here's the other complicated part is that he's actually UMC where he comes from, but their salaries are lower than American salaries. That's why we get along intellectually. His UMC salary in his country is a low/medium MC salary in the US. Ok this makes a lot more sense. I think that some of the other commentors might not be getting this info. You might have a better chance of keeping this relationship together if you're on the same vibes with feelings of where you both fit in social class…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 07:15 PM
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Thanks for expanding a bit. I think you're off on this assumption a bit if you don't mind me saying. Men and women choose mates very differently. Men of all levels of wealth choose women based much more on youth and looks then on any other factors. I think you see a lot of wealthier men with socialite women because the girl falls into that role after dating him or she's in those circles and has better access to him in the first place and therefore lands him. Also 6 figures depending on your area…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 06:42 PM
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What do you mean by less pressure if you don't date up? Later in your post you say you don't date up because men with money are lazy and many are fat. So I'm just wondering if you could unpack your motives a bit more here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 06:25 PM
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No.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 06:11 PM
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Chad is not someone men model themselves off of. It's really more of a teaching model to help sexless men understand how to get more of what they want (sex from good looking women). Chad also serves as a warning to men of the pitfalls of only seeking mindless, endless sexual conquests... Men have a lot of male role models that don't get laid, don't get respect, don't earn money, men build role models very differently then women do. So you'd need to clarify a bit what you're asking for. Are you l…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 02:43 AM
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This is actually really scary.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:53 PM
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I'm thinking that this project is our best bet right now...
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:51 PM
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"You just have to be nice. Treat her like a living thing not an object." Women give this advice because it helps them weed out betas and build validation and resources through orbiters. It's kind of like asking a starving alligator the best location to cross the river at... I think most women under thirty are also hyper unaware of why they are attracted to certain men and are even scared and hostile about it because it's a loss of control. They just 'are' and gravitate towards what they are attr…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 04:12 PM
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My experience with orbiters is women only care if they are losing them, especially useful ones. Then they will give only enough attention to keep them orbiting. Losing orbiters is a sign to other women and men that she's losing value and that's to be avoided.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 03:48 PM
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Agreed but most people will never mention this or in the case of women often actively deny they need or want this. Which is almost always just a standard shit test.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 05:20 PM
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Last time I checked this was the redpill. Not the redstar... But I'm just going to assume you're trolling...
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:27 PM
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waiting for this latest round of feminazi shit to blow over. I really don't think it will, so you've made the right decision, but there a backlash forming among the young. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLUrVTVTA3PnUFpYvpfMcpg https://www.youtube.com/user/Shoe0nHead https://www.youtube.com/user/MindfreakCM Even some liberals are starting to say that we've gone off the rails. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hiVQ8vrGA_8 Feminism is a cult and it's going to hold onto power very tightly for a long…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 02:50 PM
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Not even worth getting married at that point. Maybe this is what we need to get women to swing back to offering other tangible assets besides their pussys; like cooking, cleaning, personality, etc.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 02:37 PM
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This is only the right option if you don't have some bullshit feelings harbored for her still and you can genuinely commit to the short term plating. This is not possible for most guys that got dumped by someone they liked a lot. You also have to be ready for her to go psycho when you ghost her after the two weeks. Probably not worth it. Also my experience with this is that most girls that crawl back are not willing to crawl back at any type of lower status in the relationship; in fact they ofte…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:24 PM
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These services probably wouldn't be as big if prostitution was legal. If you had a lot of money it would probably be worth the expense to have a full time trusted whore then to keep running the risks of finding escorts and prostitutes that could be undercover cops.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:40 PM
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Great post but this has been hit on a quite a lot (granted it's always good to bring up again). If anyone wants more reading about this I'd highly recommend the redpill post 'dance monkey dance' from Dec 2014.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:32 PM
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people do not modify their private behaviour for the greater good I agree with this unless it's in some type of tribal group setting. People will certainly modify their behavior and sometimes quite drastically if they think they will gain status and feeling of belonging within a group they admire.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:30 PM
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The ignoring is probably even a worse punishment. Women crave attention so badly that even negative attention can be good because she can shame you for it and then get some sweet sweet victim attention.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:28 PM
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There is 0 reason for one to settle down, until she gets her 'alpha fux' or is getting too old to capitalize on the AF, and MUST switch to BB. Before third wave feminism this use to be the 22-26 range where women decided to make this switch. Now it's the 31-36 range.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:24 PM
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I get this a lot too. What's you take on where this is coming from?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:12 PM
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Why are you sleeping with a guy that doesn't turn you on at all? Did you turn you on early in the relationship and now it's dipping or has it always been like this? You should tell him, not in a covert girl way, tell him in a direct, "I'm dry, we need to do a drastic change in the bedroom, please." You'd be surprised how responsive a guy can be when you angle it from the perspective of "let's try fun new sex stuff!!" If he get's offended then yea get out of there.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:49 PM
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There are guys that post on rpw and I'd highly reccomend posting over there. I've seen some quality threads about this exact topic so they know what they are doing...
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:47 PM
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There are a lot of great threads on this topic if you search them up. Search terms like 'advice for teens redpill' 'redpillers over thirty what advice would you give' 'older redpillers' etc. It would also be helpful if your question was paired down a little bit. What aspects do you want to know about? Some mens SMV never peaks. Just because you turn some arbitrary age doesn't make you a man of value. Most men that don't work hard in their twenties don't get this magical peak in their 30's. It's …
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:44 PM
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because someone attempted to put men on a pedestal I didn't see that in his comment but upon rereading it I can see where you'd get that impression. I agree with your position that neither sex as a whole should be pedestalized; I think the grand standing and hero worship comes because people are trying to overcome a narrative. The gender war has done a lot of of white washing of the sexes when the reality is always a lot more nuanced like your father.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/17 03:02 PM
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I appreciate hearing a counter example and there's no doubt that fathers like your's exist. It's pretty extreme not to pitch in when a partner has a serious illness and and in my experience this isn't the norm. Could your family situation also be a case of simply a broken marriage that stayed together for you?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/17 02:42 PM
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This is actually really good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/17 02:32 PM
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Or a middle-aged man is going to put in his 2cents about how he would wait that long for the right woman. That's also great. I don't know one high value man I've met that would wait this long for even the highest quality female unless it was a religious thing. It's 2017, 4-5 months is ridiculous unless it was a few dates and then a break due to travel. 4-12 weeks is the sweet spot; and definitely towards the 4 week mark if you're dating a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 06:00 PM
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It's much less about the phrases you use and much much more about the consistency. Men of course love to hear, "I trust you," "You are my world" "Everyday gets better with you," "You've made me very happy" "I'm in this for the long run" "you've already given me all my dreams and then some; everything else is a bonus" etc... But more then ever it's all about 'when' you say these things. If we've lost our job, flubbed up, been depressed about work/social situations, or made a crucial relationship …
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 05:55 PM
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This is a good metaphor in general. Too many people, men and women, in relationships and families just see their presence as an asset to the group. No. You need to provide a service/skill to your family so that the unit can grow. If there are to many stagnant functioning computer parts (or one computer part is overworking) the entire unit will fail. The unit also needs direction and leadership. When vetting men and women you need to look for someone who not only provides value but also is always…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 03:34 PM
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Lol. This reminds me of something I'd read on redpill.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 03:19 PM
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but I absolutely can refuse to help her if I see she's not putting in some effort I think you know what to do then. Let us know what the fallout is!
/r/askTRP20/05/17 04:28 PM
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You are the rock she is the wave. Repeat that to yourself. Sounds like your worried that if you don't help her she will bitch and undermine you, and you are right. However, you're not looking at the consequences of helping her. She keeps working there, she uses you even more in the future, she knows you don't value your time, she knows that her bitching works on you, you look like a beta to other office staff. So you you need to weight the two sides. Yes, you're in a lose lose but one side is a …
/r/askTRP20/05/17 03:26 PM
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The bosses won't care about your petty issues with her. They will care about the project being done. Get the project done right and get other group members to bare the weight that she's not carrying. As they start doing her work for her they will most likely start up a whisper campaign which will hurt her credibility. This will let others know that she's not doing her share. After the project is over ask your bosses not to be put on a team with her in the future.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 01:05 PM
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No. Only if 'quality' men become less plentiful. Which they certainly have. Women are already showing how they'd act because the scenario is already under way and they act like complete sluts to the men that have value and pursue. Then they obfuscate publicly to hide the slut factor. This is why feminism is so wildly popular among low and middle value women, it reduces stigma on sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 02:11 PM
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I'm a bit dumbfounded that she made this video. We'll see if the rest of the SJW's jump on board and start leaving alone the alt rights and mensrights campus speeches but I highly doubt it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 01:18 PM
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If you get a chance I'd highly recommend Dan Harris's 10% Happier https://www.amazon.com/10-Happier-Self-Help-Actually-Works/dp/0062265423
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 01:04 PM
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Thanks. I just glanced at it. It looks like a good task system but can I save links and documents with it?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 02:12 PM
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It's worked for me but I had some fits and starts and dropped it then came crawling back. You can't have it directly import all emails. Any email that has an actionable item or might have info you need you forward to your actions pending box (there's a email link that evernote gives you to import notes) and then when you get a chance that day you plow through you actions pending and either tag and archive or put them into a level of urgency. I had to watch every video like twice and I also had t…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 01:40 PM
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Is it 'bad' that he knows? I get the vibe that perhaps he can also sense my insecurities too Absolutely not. Most men over 21 that aren't on the autism spectrum and have had a girl friend or two know when women like them. It's a huge myth that men are dumb and don't pick up on these things (I think we men even play it up so that women will go out of their way to covertly flirt with us more!). If he's not responding: a) he doesn't like you, but needs you (work, job) b) can't due to personal or wo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 01:33 PM
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He knows. He's paid to give you attention. Now this doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive and doesn't mean he wouldn't date you; but this is a huge thing to keep in mind when meeting the opposite sex socially. Men need to be on guard for flirty waitresses the same way women need to be on guard for confident trainers. Any social setting where a guy can show you his physical prowess is going to affect you as a female. This is danger zone for crushes. Guys that notice a girl likes them but ar…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 04:00 AM
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But how can you guarantee the guys you vet will actually want a relationship with you There are no guarantees. It could have been two or five years you wasted. I've spoke on redpillwomen before about this and I've given a general guide which I don't have time right now to dig through and find. My advice to young women is to move on quicker the younger you are. Something like: 18-22 2-4 months 23-25 3-8 months 25 plus year or more. 27 plus: start dating a lot more and getting out more because you…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 01:19 PM
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You don't. Just mitigate any damage it might cause you. Let him fail. If he's still your friend after all the fallout offer an analysis and take him under your wing if he is genuinely self reflective and wants to grow. Her manipulations will be a lot more apparent to him after she's destroyed him and he will be more primed and softened for the hard truth.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 05:45 PM
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Did the first guy not have any other traits besides making your body 'react'? Why did you stop dating him? You said second guy had 'every aspect' of what you're looking for? Obviously not if he doesn't give you a primal feeling the first guy did. You simply need to 'vet' more men until you get a nice blend of both traits: what you're looking for in the 'body reaction' department and what you're looking for in the 'values, confidence, family' department.' It's a tough truth but if you break down …
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 05:38 PM
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The google definition of equality is: the state of being equal, especially in status, rights, and opportunities. People raised with this blanket definition totally reeks havoc on their understanding of reality. There's only two ways you are judged on planet earth: by status (which is in the eye of the beholder and wildly subjective) and by legal statute which is man made and wildly manipulated and bound by finite resources for enforcement. I should not have all the rights of a pregnant women and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:27 PM
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I think you just really highlighted the primary differences society views the genders. Women are given a complete pass to whine about all things legitimate and non. Men, not so much. My experience with the 'manosphere' is it's a lot less whining and a lot more, "this sucks, let's exchange notes on how to fix it" which is the complete opposite of whining IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:11 PM
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TRP is a subreddit. It stands for 'the red pill'. It's only loosely connected to men's rights but lots of men like myself post to both subs. It's more pragmatic in nature and doesn't want to be identified in public as pro men's rights because it can get you fired or attacked by women and men that don't share your views. We call these men 'blue pills.' The redpill in general stands for going down the rabbit hole of male issues and seeing society using men as a highly disposable commodity. It's ki…
/r/MensRights13/05/17 01:52 PM
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Instead, they are attracted to the emotional state of a man on a mission Yes. This is a powerful idea. However. If you haven't crossed a lot of finish lines (in relation to her self perceived SMV) and you're not entering more competitive races most women will still keep an arms distance. There are a lot of cringey, aspie, low value guys on 'missions' that don't magically attract women. Garret is on a mission as well, but for some reason the girl doesn't fuck him right there on the spot.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 12:13 PM
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Just keep in mind the blow job trick will fade, especially if you marry her. You're basically using light dread on her and she's so invested in the relationship that she panics and feels she needs to do a sexual act to get you back on the tracks. Once she feels she has you dead to rights (marriage or living together or she has you more comfortable in the relationship, or she gets dirt on you) those blow jobs will tail off again. I'd try other angles that don't involve dread. Dread is really usef…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:02 PM
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Sit down and identify careers in demand and pick one you have some aptitude in and go at it. Military might be good for you because it will get you away from your mother. Women will manipulate to claw you back and make you dependent on them again. Best thing I ever did for myself was getting away from my mother and living on my own for a while and feeling the cold sting of life and how little help men have unless we help ourselves. PM me if you'd like some more specific mentoring I have to go to…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 12:03 PM
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Get a job in a physical trade that you can fall back on but that will also leave time for training and will also keep you physically in shape. I.e. landscaping, woodwork, framing work, millwork, etc.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 11:58 AM
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Don't get married. Go get a useful degree or a vocational associates in a particular trade (HVAC for example) and go to work. Don't increase your living standards when you start working until your loans are paid off. After you've done that then reassess your situation.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 11:55 AM
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Doesn't your field have less consensus in general? My understanding is that the field of psychology is hardly astrophysics or chemistry and different schools of thought can exist independent of each other and still have merit.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 04:12 AM
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Thanks. I did find that both the BuJo and my evernote system sucks me into over analyzing and over planning my future (habit tracker took me forever to make and then I could barely keep up with all my new 'habits' I set for myself). I will look into Chandler.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 04:05 AM
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The sidebar has really degraded and desperately needs updated.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:58 AM
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Women have exit plans and so should men. It mitigates emotional damages should a separation take place (which it often does) and can actually strengthen a bond between two people. Sounds like you're from the burn your ship school of thought which is valid but doesn't work in a legal and social framework that encourages women to leave men in droves. If you need a cheat sheet to build relationships, romantic or otherwise, you are missing the major problem, it's probably you. This is a 'Just World …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:54 AM
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I agree with your points on 'MER' my bullet point was more directed at work environments that you're forced to work closely with women. If you can avoid women or minimize contact then yes certainly do that and rely exclusively on competent male coworkers.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:43 AM
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Alpha female's are most likely going to want to mate with a beta, This is a fundamental misunderstanding of redpill. You need to residebar. What you might be thinking is that alpha females want to covert alpha's into beta's which is partially true. "What's not simple is meeting and leading women that are worth fucking a second time It's not my fault that there are a lot of high partner count low quality women out there that don't offer much to a relationship. "Maybe you harbor some anger that yo…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:40 AM
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This was a bit of an exaggeration but divorce lawyers are good at finding hidden assets so be ready for that.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:36 AM
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Like I said in the post. If you have lower value you might have to approach more. If you have value you may not be selling it right or you might be in a different market, which is also why I suggested looking at what type of dating market you are in.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:35 AM
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yea. It took me forever to set-up and I adapted some of it for my own uses; but fundamentally it's the same premise. Everything that's important needs saved and needs to be retrievable or it will be lost. edit. Since the video was made Evernote has made some really crappy moves with it's online platform layout. I have to use the desktop version for everything because the online one is so unintuitive. There are lots of other messenger services out now since the 'secret weapon' video series was re…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 10:18 PM
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When young ladies start this process they normally aren't very good at it and don't set up their manipulations well. The biggest tell is how they bait you in. More experienced older women play longer cons and do a better job setting you up. Not so much with younger ones. Just watch out for set ups. Here are some examples of set ups or cues that she's setting up a manipulation. -acts excessively childlike -appearing helpless at something -randomly complimenting you -excessive requests (nagging) -…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 10:16 PM
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Lol. Caught red handed. That video did a good job of putting into words what I've felt and observed for years.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:53 PM
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Yea. I've tried both and I just didn't have the consistency and discipline to do the BuJo. I did like the meditative component of it, but I was constantly losing it or not having it near me when I needed it. I also had a lot of anxiety because my Bujo had a lot of info about me and my finances/personal life and the more I used it the more it would be a shit show if I lost it or had it stolen. My Evernote links to my phone and I can check lists and save things very quickly and it's also secure an…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:12 PM
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It makes sense in the context of women having a much much more heightened sense of danger. Juxtapose that with the safest time in all of human history and you have the majority of female senses totally out of wack and open for exploitation. This is my general take on why women use this language. However your scenario is a bit more nuanced and specific IMHO. Another angle you might be seeing in those particular events is emotional bonding. Those women are using powerful language to illicit emotio…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:08 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fm15cmYU0IM My two cents though is that using evernote or any online notetaking system is better. All of these systems come from the book Getting Things Done. https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Things-Done-Stress-Free-Productivity/dp/0142000280 Here's a guide on using evernote in a more systematic way. http://www.thesecretweapon.org/
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:53 PM
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I don't think you understand the core dynamics at work that men and women evolved from. A women needs a lot of security and consistency to birth and raise babies. Those babies also need to be healthy and strong. Therefore women are attracted to physically fit men, men with resources, and men with status (men with status can recruit more people and more resources to the baby raising and protecting process). As a female you can read books all day, attend seminars, and blog about egalitarianism and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 01:19 PM
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A woman who abandons her family can still get the house and half his money. He loses a lot if he leaves and the state will put him in jail if he is too broke to pay up. This is really the crux of it and there's a higher likelihood of her leaving is she's not submissive and not below him in a way. If you're with a man who's your equal then why would she not be on the constant lookout for a superior who shouldn't be hard to find considering she's already with an equal. Women simply can't empathize…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 01:03 PM
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You also get this in a more extreme form with daddy issue girls. The lack of a father figure encourages women to mythologized and pedestalize masculinity. Warped hyper masculinity is like catnip to these women. Women that have strong father figures are more aware that men are human and have flaws; because a good father pulls you aside when you're old enough to tell you that he doesn't have all the answers and can't always save you but loves you anyways and pledges to do the best 'humanly' possib…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 01:36 PM
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Women, with societal and church pressure, use to keep their pussy and a much more inflated value. Not so much. This is the big lie the feminism has told women. That they could sleep around as much as men with no downside. I hope more women wake up to the garbage cancer that feminism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:35 PM
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Exactly this. Men don't owe women a year of dinners or a marriage because they had sex. Women who have sex out of wedlock or LTR are always going to be rolling the dice. That's just the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:42 PM
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Outstanding comment. I see this all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 11:50 AM
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Unless your SMV is sky high over hers or you're a much older man with a lot of plates and abundance women are always in the advantage in these types of scenarios. Why? Because they don't 'need' sex like men do. She's doing what she's doing because she's playing a much higher dimensional chess game then you are. There's a couple things going on with LMR 1) If she can hold you off then she knows that she has you on the short term or long term dating hook if she so chooses. Lots of girls get pumped…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 03:46 AM
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Which article/post did you read that said being redpill will make you happier?
/r/askTRP03/05/17 01:14 PM
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You need to get over to redpillwomen STAT. There's a great core group of women over there that give solid advice because they 'get it' they comprehend and live red pill lifestyle, but a lot of new ladies that come into the comments and posts need help breaking away from the blue pill feminist programming insanity.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 01:00 PM
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raped, beaten Men aren't against women fighting against this. Men are against any movement that goes beyond the fight and carves out a protected, privileged status. Which is what feminism has done. I wonder why it is hard for many women to feel empathy for men who think the way you do. It's hard for men to feel empathy for people like you because you don't understand how off the rails your own movement is. https://reason.com/blog/2015/06/11/amherst-student-was-expelled-for-rape-bu If that's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:23 PM
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Next thing you know she'll be on the cock of a burly tattooed guy and she'll say he has a 'career' and 'lots of money' because he has a 2 day a week bartending job and a new motorcycle (but no savings and no investments of course). Women are very visual when it comes to wealth and if they can't see it and be directly benefiting from it they struggle to feel comforted by the resource. If it's any consolation it sounds like she didn't want to break up but was just comfort testing a bit. The fact t…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:15 PM
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You're half right. Women are disrespectful and moody to 'hot guys' all the time. It's more the side of multiple women texting. If he had value she'd want to hold onto him more. But what's going unmentioned is that fact he allows it. Women will get away with what ever you allow them to get away with. Sounds like both these young men don't 'think' they can find others so they put up with a lot from these ladies, therefore it creates a cycle where the women continue to press and test to see how muc…
/r/askTRP02/05/17 12:57 PM
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Well it's good you're out fucking and meeting new people. You will never completely lose that emotional bond but it will certainly fade and will lose out to competition with new bonds. Hopefully you've let go of your bluepill programming fully to temper this on your next relationship. You truly only rent women. It's only your turn.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 04:56 AM
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Before your next relationship read this. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4mt89q/the_6_stages_of_breaking_up_a_guide_to_not_having/
/r/askTRP02/05/17 04:51 AM
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No matter how redpill a guy is he's not immune to emotional bonding unless he's a psychopath so you're right. However, dropping the bluepill fantasy does make break up's much less 'life shattering' and can help you plan ahead for breakups and get back on the horse faster.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 04:50 AM
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Well what I mean is some men use long term relationships as a chance to stop personal development an 'over rest' back to gaming, excessive hobbies, less career focused, drink more, less social network building, etc. 'Rest' meaning lazy. The regular sex can also drop the weightlifting, and exercise as well because guys believe it when girls say: "I like your 'dad' or 'boyfriend' bod" and the reality is she just doesn't want you to look good enough to stray.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 04:48 AM
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I like this comment. It's quickly and directly to the point of what I think OP really needs to hear. This fantasy is so very difficult to let go of. It's so hard for us to find happiness as well when we keep searching for something better on the other side of the fence. It's not to say that the impulse to want more or the need to have a guy with more resources and confidence is a 'bad' instinct but it's just that: an instinct. Men and women both are much more complete adults when they rise above…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 04:40 AM
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Very few guys end up marrying the hottest girl they got with. They all take a step or two down to marry someone with a balance of traits that they think will keep them happy over the long run. They also take a step down because they value loyalty. Which is why we tell RPW to practice respect and loyalty towards your partner because he will pay it back to you ten fold overtime. It's hard to overestimate how much men desire this trait in their partner and very few women today in this feminist cult…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 04:22 AM
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You're probably thinking that since it's not 100% then that doubt with carry into the marriage and erode the bond. Not true. Hard work and building a life together will actually inch you closer to 100% but keep in mind there's no such thing as 100% and to a degree he's settling with you as well. It doesn't sound romantic but we all settle. If after all of this discussion you still have a gut feeling not to move forward you need to ID what that is and discuss it with yourself first then him. It m…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 12:51 PM
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Feminized guys hang out with other feminized guys so they start to assume that all guys are feminized guys (which isn't that inaccurate in this modern day shit storm of cowardly men). Framing you as the problem is a female technique that they probably learned from their single mothers.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 12:35 PM
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I think, hopefully, this is where we're going. My worry is that if this becomes a thing states will change laws so that women can claw back money and resources in the event of a break. Common law states already do this.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 12:32 PM
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The biggest problem is that after the breakup I am feeling so unworthy This feeling comes up after a lot of break-ups for a number of reasons related to blue pill programming. -You placed to much value on her being in your life and her validating who you are. -You 'rested' and got comfortable in the relationship. -You think that being older means you won't meet more women. -You gave up your single guy party girl network when you met her and now you have to rebuild that and you're not happy about…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 12:21 PM
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demands a lot (due to her expecting a sum total of all the men in her past This is spot on and since she has a high count that's a lot to compete with. Women can't bear the thought that they've taken a step down in lifestyle as well.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 09:15 PM
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Most women don't hide their high N count well. Here are some signs I've seen: -relationship starts well but she quickly gets bored -Says that she's never had a long relationship -Never lets you meet her friends -Wants to avoid certain spots -Says she doesn't like anal, kink stuff or mentions is way to early. -mentions sexual abuse very very early. -Very worried about you cheating -Acts very different when drunk, doesn't cling to you. -Constantly says how loyal she is. -Doesn't ever bring up ex's…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:19 PM
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Yes this but those aren't much better as far as LTR quality is concerned.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:09 PM
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whenever she gets drunk she very quickly and easily is able to disrespect him as if he were a worthless beta. I've been in several relationships that were going great and the girl was trying to do everything right and then she gets a bit too wasted and slips on how she really feels.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:07 PM
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This is interesting. Do you have other sources on this? What do you think the thing 'outside of you' is that's causing depression for most modern people?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 01:58 PM
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Most women won't admit to it or have a number like 8-20 in their head. It's really like 1-3 Tops for most.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 01:52 PM
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cultures aren't formed exclusively from actions What would you suggests 'forms' things besides actions? Rape culture in general is an invented phrase with no substantive evidence. My understanding is the concern about 'rape culture' is that it contributes to increases in actually rape. This too is unsubstantiated. Culture in general is not a very easy thing to identify, control or even shape. The whole thing should be tabled until we have a better understanding because most of the time humans ge…
/r/MensRights30/04/17 05:46 AM
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I agree. I don't think it should be written into the law. I'm not even sure how that would look. However it should be a discussion in a 'so called' consent course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:47 PM
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Well the Trump pussy grab was a private recording and he really wasn't wrong; of course it wasn't tactful and neither was it an admission of him actually committing similar acts (also I didn't vote for the man). If people want to criticize it then they should be open to having their own private conversations taped and discussed. I haven't followed exactly what bill O'Reilly allegedly said/did but like most of these cases the repercussions: losing his position are nearly always way overboard over…
/r/MensRights29/04/17 08:36 PM
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Because women only have a limited supply of men they can allow to fuck them and leave them before they become broken, jaded and unable to deeply bond to a husband/father figure. There's also the risk of STD's and pregnancy by a man who is unwilling to marry and provide or is willing to marry and provide but treats women like dirt or is abusive. Protecting all women is impossible, beta whiteknight bluepill as fuck. Protecting your own is the height of masculinity and ingrained in our code.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 05:26 PM
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I again I don't think you understand. In a guys mind there's a big difference between thinking and doing. Men think about sex differently. Because she agreed to have sex so quickly with him he's 'thinking' she's a sexual freak and would be down for more freaky shit like unconscious sex, anal, etc. Sex on a first meeting is signal to guys that she doesn't value herself. Should he 'do it'? No. Do a lot of guys desire it? Hell no. I'm personally not a fan of unconscious sex or BDSM sex even though …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 05:14 PM
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Again I said 'think' not 'do' or 'desire to do' You're trying to make things black and white and in the area of sex they are anything but.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:33 PM
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Neither are examples of rape culture. Comments are not actions.
/r/MensRights29/04/17 04:30 PM
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This is the core of the female imperative.
/r/MensRights29/04/17 04:27 PM
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Question. Do you consider your boyfriend 'captain' material and do you want to marry him. If so how deep is this feeling?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 04:24 PM
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what every other man and woman does and nudge their partner flirtatiously Now you're making some big assumptions about other peoples sex lives. I've personally had two girlfriends request that I wake them up with a dick, not with a nudge. Granted that was inside a relationship, but again human sexuality is a very broad topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:18 PM
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I would never fuck an unconscious girl but is it really a stretch to think that if it was granted 8 hours ago it would be granted again?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:12 PM
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OP in the other thread also had a pre-established relationship. 8 hours before she fucked him. The legal system is not really built to distinguish between the two so it's forced to go all or nothing in a lot of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:52 PM
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Consent workshops (and the law in general) don't take into account the vast tapestry of human sexual expression. You would not believe the amount of women I've woken up to after not having sex and the discussion goes a little like this: Her: "Why didn't you fuck me last night?" Me: "You were drunk, and also resisted a bit and said, 'I don't want to have sex'" Her: "Oh, that was complete bullshit, I like when a guy forces himself on me." Me: "Ok. That's a bit weird." And I continued to think it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:48 PM
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Yes it's rape and or assault. Unless someone has given clear instructions: "I love waking up with your dick in all my holes honey!!" then yea. I won't even do this with girlfriends unless they've give consent. However, you willing indicated to your partner (granted a very new partner) that you wanted the relationship to go sexual quickly (allowing him to sleep with you, having brief intercourse). Our laws should take account of this and this guy shouldn't be prosecuted or should get a much more …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:41 PM
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Well. Said. I wasn't raised thinking like this but my experiences as an adult have led me to the same conclusion. People need shaped by culture, society, structure, rules, family, spirit, intellect, etc. etc. to be molded to civilized beings. While some are more moldable then others. That's basically the base state of men and women. I do think with the right structure people can become near permanently changed over but it again takes good structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:31 PM
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This one was good too. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3BBmhMsWcQ
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 02:56 PM
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That was my favorite part of the video! I had to back it up because it happen so quick. It's funny you bring up attractive top-tier women. I agree with you that they do do the auto shut down thing but some of the highest quality ones actually do the shut down with a lot of grace and experience (because they actually have to do it quite often). It's really some of the lower tier women that shut men down with such rudeness because they are using it as a self esteem boost (because they probably don…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 02:24 PM
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I liked this video. It would probably make a few people I know wake up and be able to see their situations from a different perspective. My worry of course is people actually taking the advice and sleeping with more men that change your oil. Over at redpill we call this a covert contract and we train men not to engage in them. Just because you do chores or rescue a women doesn't mean she owes you sex or a full on relationship. That being said women have a bad habit of putting men, even high qual…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 02:10 PM
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When being approved of by someone becomes a symbol of your worth, you’re not going to present yourself authentically and vulnerably, because there’s too much at stake. This is powerful. Thanks for your post.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 01:59 PM
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Yes. Grief comes when we know we've truly lost something very valuable to us and we can't hide from that experience. Grief is especially brutal when we are unequipped and un-experienced to deal with it (and/or we've inflated its value). It occurs more frequently and severely when we lack emotional maturity. Therefore intense grief (that doesn't kill us) is a very, very, good thing. If used properly we learn, mature and grow. I'd even argue that after growth we really only experience discomfort a…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:37 PM
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Still, I think if I found the right man I'd let my guard down and consider being in a long term relationship again. It's good you still have this in you. I'm not going to seek it out though, more if it happens it happens. Why not? can come to a place where you are no longer angry at women Anger is just one phase and many men struggle to get out of this phase or fall back into it. It's just part of the process. Redpill gets characterized primarily for it's user base that's still in and out of the…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 05:32 AM
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Looks like you posted here a month ago and then deleted your post. Both subs are a grab bag of ideas not a religion. Not every member on either side agrees lock stock and barrel with every post. That being said there's actually a logic behind the 'treat/talk to women as children' thing but I'm not really going to go into it because you're not here on good faith. /r/Purplepilldebate might be a good place for you and if you start to understand a bit of the RP praxology and have genuine questions y…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 01:46 PM
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You're only really a plate if you run into the issue of wanting commitment and bring up "what are we?" which I don't have any desire to do this moment in time. Sounds like you've convinced yourself that you're not worth a commitment and comforting yourself in sex with a high value guy whom you know won't commit if asked. This won't make you less gawky, insecure or shy. The likely outcome is he continues to have sex with you and you will bond very strongly to him and be hurt and as he inevitable …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 01:34 PM
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but the nuclear family unit didn't exist 300 years ago The nuclear family certainly existed 300 years ago but nearly always within the atom of extended family. Most cultures valued family much more then our capitalistic one we are living in now. The stripped away nuclear family is a relatively new thing and the devastated single mother family is certainly a new thing on it's current scale.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 01:15 PM
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There's a lot of reasons Rome fell and I don't that that's a major one. All americans should study the fall of Rome because it parallels the fall of all great empires. Rapid expansion that was impossible to sustain. Gluttony. Inability to deal with the question of slavery/foreigners. Corruption/capture of institutions by selfish interests. Erosion of foundational principles. Drop in birth rate in relation to enemies. The Goths. And on and on. Leadership of course plays into a lot of this.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 04:22 AM
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You could be right. Redpill is still in its infancy (maybe toddler stage) and all of the sound and the fury may turn out to be nothing. If it never succeeds to produced better quality men then it truly was a wasteful endeavor. I think our society has a glut of quality men and women right now and we better put our heads together and figure out what's gone wrong...
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 04:03 AM
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A foundational tenet that truly crosses over both our subs is that men are the gatekeepers of commitment and women are the gatekeepers of sex. Therefore men need to guard against women who give sex freely and women must guard against men who give commitment freely (even if it gives you a self esteem boost). While this strategy is oppositional in nature and may seem harsh and cruel on it's face upon closer inspection it's actually quite poetic in it's polarity and one might even say beautiful bec…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 03:56 AM
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and i've met a good amount of guys to fool around with since then. I've grown a lot more confident in myself this way, and I feel more like a woman than I ever felt. This is a very very dangerous trap. Just because you've had a temporary boost in self esteem and image doesn't mean that this is going to help you in the long run. In fact the truth is counter intuitive. I'm not going to tote out the stats and try to convince you because it really strongly sounds like you've made your mind up that t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 03:35 AM
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Glad we've made you feel better about yourself... I think you're missing the point. Redpill is more like a hospital. There might be few well adjusted Doctors roaming the halls but it's mostly full of damaged, angry, bitter, lazy, depressed, sexless men, trying to learn and maybe fix themselves. It's not really a place for men that have 'gotten it' and spend their time wisely building and creating. Actually the most common advice on this sub is 'get out and build and create and you'd be amazed at…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 03:01 AM
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Welcome! Stay a while. Stretch your feet. Grab some coffee!
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:54 AM
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This is a really inciteful comment. Maybe us men just have a bit of a understanding gap because we don't have the estrogen in our brains to comprehend it? Maybe it's not anxiety but a 'comfortable' anxiety. Like a tension that a women knows that to be safe is to also be unsafe? Like living under a huge rock keeps the rain off but the rock can also crush you? But living under a small rock can neither crush you nor keep the rain off?? This is a really interesting idea and I wonder if anyone else h…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:45 AM
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...I'm wondering if my recent post prompted this discussion a bit? Of course I lean on the side of helping the normies as much as possible and here's why. Where would science education be today without guys like Carl Sagan, Brian Greene, Bill Bryson and Neil deGrasse Tyson? It's critical that a certain portion of the brilliant minds of any field put that power into making dense material fun and palatable. It's also critical for people learning about the pill to be able to write and flush out wha…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:40 AM
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I don't think GLO is necessarily concerned about them leaving. It's more about the overall quality of the community. He's just getting together the brain trust to formulate the most logical approach to take.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:20 AM
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Here! Here! Had to read a lot of comments till I came to yours. Lots of great discussions in this thread and I think yours is the most useful so far. The sidebar simply hasn't kept up with the amount of quality content that the sub has produced. I get the mods hesitance to not put bullshit on the side but I've read countless posts and articles that are very nearly fundamental to redpill understanding and multiple comments call for a sidebar and they never get there. Therefore what might have bec…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:14 AM
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I agree with you they don't want the nervousness but they've basically force men to keep them that way because they also go dead bedroom or branch swinging mode if they feel like they have you fully devoted.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 01:34 PM
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Even after years of redpill this is so strange to me. I find the dynamic you speak of must be kept up in marriage as well. Why would a women want to live a life of nervousness and anxiety?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 01:27 PM
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Yea. You're right, the 'I'm busy' line was just her buying time away from you to grab a branch. Women do not like getting dumped if they don't have a branch to swing too. My guess is that's why she went all positive and lovey dovey again. It let her buy more time. I think you're first mistake was telling her about the job change. That's probably when she made the mental switch away. She knew that it wasn't headed towards LTR and it's in her best interest to decouple emotionally quickly and get h…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 01:24 PM
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Yea basically this. Except I'm extending the metaphor a bit. I really feel that even a plate that's fucking you can try to sap your time and energy and prevent you from finding better plates or a quality LTR potential. Lots of guys slip and start dating plates which is time theft. Plates are great but you plated them for a reason remember?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 03:51 AM
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There are a portion of jobs that you can sleep with co-workers with few repercussions; but even in those settings be prepared for her to use the job as an angle to get something out of you. Plus if you break up with her you've lost access to all her friends and all your co-workers are forced to pick sides, and it's almost always on hers. So you still have a job but closed down future sex options. Also since work is involved even the seemingly coolest girl in the world can flip the switch and use…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 03:48 AM
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Think of this less as, "I'll show her" and more "her and her network are watching.." Women careful monitor through friends/family how you are doing after a break up and being successful and moving on is a signal to not just her, but all of your wavering co-friendships that you are a valuable person and they would be wise to maintain contact with you. Women do a lot of damage control and spin after relationships in the hopes of winning friendships to their side and men would be wise to try to thr…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 03:38 AM
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Lol. I'm so glad a women, who of course speaks for all women, has graced us with her ruling on the matter. You have to understand that when you meet a guy YOU are attracted to, for whatever reason, he wasn't just brought into existence like that. Women like to think of men as static and not dynamic creatures. Women want a natural. A man that was born confident and oozed skill and confidence from young ages. The reality is that near zero men are natural alpha's. They all have weaknesses, insecuri…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 03:28 AM
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I think you're confusing 'sleeping' with women as success with women. Sex is very easy to attain. Sex is cheap. Consistent sex with higher quality women and not getting fucked over in work, social settings, LTR or marriage is 'success' IMO.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 01:11 PM
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If you've spent any amount of time on redpill there are lots of 'notes' and 'quotes' posts. They don't add much to the community beyond 'reminders' and orientation for newer readers. If the community only becomes quote posts like mine it dies a sad death. That being said I still think there's a place for them because we have lots of new members all the time (or old ones that appreciate refreshers), which is why I posted it!
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 01:09 PM
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/u/aftsov This is basically what I was implying. Lot's of teens get focused on what people think about them and never get out and try new things. Social media makes people very afraid to make mistakes because they think everyone is watching. People are watching but they really don't care or don't care for very long. Take lots of different part time jobs, build or work for a small business. Experience the word as best you can in a 'safe' risk way. Unsafe risks in high school would be: dropping ou…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 01:06 PM
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There's a huge difference between a safe space and tone policing. Safe spaces on college campus are places where people can go to get lied too and even respectful logical arguments are pushed away in favor of telling people what they want to hear. Tone policing is asking to deliver the truth in respectful ways or in a delayed drawn out manner. Redpill bans tone policing because they have a lot of angry people that often need to vent and be confronted in brutal ways even rude ways... but if RPW w…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 07:18 PM
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I think about discipline a lot because I'm one of the laziest people I know. I read a lot of self help lit and of course the classics as well to help this. I'm only relatively disciplined at this point in my life but I'm still going to dis-out my opinion... My experienced is a small portion of people have incredible discipline from a young age due to a unique combination of family, culture, school, city, regional factors (Biggest factor being a great dad but of course other things play into that…
/r/askTRP23/04/17 06:54 PM
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I don't think it's a bad thing if the ban hammer comes out more. Comments that are blatantly disrespectful or attacks should be a swift ban. Or at the very least a serious warning. It would also help if all posts had a 'general male advice welcome' or 'female advice only' or 'endorsed male advice only' As a frequent male commentor sometimes I don't know if a thread wants my input or not(I try not to post in these cases) and it would help if it's always clear so that myself and other male users d…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 06:06 PM
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Younger women are, for the most part, clueless. Society has made it so that they don't have to think deeply about anything, for any length of time Very well said. This is my experience as well. Feminism/poor family structure/media is giving them very bad advice and I think they know it but they are not initiators so they simply nod and follow what the media and clueless bluepill men and women tell them to follow. I do think they take advantage of all the miscommunication and play up either side …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:10 PM
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And what may I ask are you basing this experience off of? I would have said and written the same post when I was in college. It's hard to believe that a girl would turn a six pack 20 year old down for a 30 or even 40 year old but that's because in a male mindset youth and aesthetics are king. Not the female mindset. The female mindset places skill, game, resources, maturity and social status above all. Lots of teenage and college aged men haven't made anything of themselves and have no confidenc…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 02:03 PM
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The Quiet Man. Lonesome Dove Mini series. McClintock! Barry Lyndon. Eastern Promises.
/r/RedPillBooks23/04/17 03:21 AM
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Men and women are both highly visual creatures. Men prize appearance of youth, symmetry, submission, and fertility. Women: strength, status, power, resources and social aptitude. Both need to be observed and demonstrated to the perspective mate. Thus the modern mating dance.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 01:15 AM
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It’s alright when you first meet someone, but it feels like I’d have to have inhuman levels of strength to keep dealing with the constant barrage as time goes on No matter how much you might be falling or enjoy the sex if she does this you have to at all costs plate her. Plate her physically but especially mentally. This free's you up to keep looking for a higher quality mate. I'd suggest dating younger. There's less emotional baggage and lower N counts and women are surprisingly open to dating …
/r/askTRP22/04/17 03:28 PM
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I'm in OP's position more or less except in my 30's and I've come to the same conclusion you mention. Most women just aren't trained and incentivized to be suitable long term partners in our current culture. I'm sure there are a few out there but you basically have to keep most women at a distance because they are excellent at hiding their issues.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 03:22 PM
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It's probably both. She experiences and is paralyzed by a very real feeling and wants to trade it in for cash and prizes. The real surprise is she has no fear in losing her job by speaking out that she basically has a grading bias.
/r/MensRights22/04/17 03:10 PM
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Seriously great post. This is why men that work in the bar/restaurant industry do better with women. They simply have more access. You can be the best PUA artist alive and redpill as fuck with great genetics but if you work in a fire watchtower for months at a time you're not going to get laid a lot. Modern beta 'nice guy' men have essentially put themselves in a watchtower and then they wonder why they are so sexually frustrated. I like the distinction you make between getting access to women a…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 02:52 PM
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Asperger's men that get out and pursue women can't really avoid being 'awkward agressives' because they have a social signal disability. I don't think the formula would be the same for them either. They'd probably still have lower female partner counts despite increased female interaction due to other limiting factors associated with their disability.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 02:44 PM
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Their words were so frighteningly similar that the rational-instructor side of my brain could not overpower the trauma-survivor side This is another poignant example of a female's near complete in-ability to separate logic from emotion with any consistency. This is a professor. A person who is suppose to pursue truth uncluttered by bias and error. A person who is suppose prepare our young adults for future society self admitting that her emotions can become so strong that truth loses relevance. …
/r/MensRights22/04/17 02:01 PM
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This times a thousand. If you get a rep as a movement that soils itself with misrepresentation is shows that you don't have good foundational arguments on your own side. There's plenty of legit materiel to use against feminist. There's no need to misquote.
/r/MensRights21/04/17 01:08 PM
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Well said. I made a reply to OP as well.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 01:05 PM
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If you're both young how do you know that the path you want him to change over too is the 'right' path/character over the long run? How do you know you're right? How do you know the seed is a watermelon and not a strawberry bush? This 'change him' mindset is counter intuitive and incompatible with the Captain/first mate dynamic. A women who needs to change her man or shape her man or direct her man, a) thinks he's not good enough in his current form (or not evolving fast enough) and b) thinks sh…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 01:03 PM
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if they can't see it, it doesn't exist. girls would rather share an alpha than own a beta. Well said. New rp members should also know that there's a lot of leeway to play with as well. Lots of women try to get off that carousel, or try to avoid it. Women are also pragmatic. It's a mixed bag. You don't need to be Dan Bilzerian to get laid. It does help to understand the dynamics at play though.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 01:48 PM
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I had something similar happen with my fiance. When women are LTR, Fiance, or married they have two things going on. One they are invested in the relationship, and most of the time they are anxious that the relationship will fail because if they've gone this far they think the guy they are with has a lot of value. Women are always risk averse and more concerned with losing what they have then gaining something more. So a lot of drama comes from a place of insecurity, comfort tests are more likel…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 01:36 PM
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I won't use the redpillwomen forum to go on a long explanation because it's a bit off topic. I will PM you when I get a chance.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 01:33 PM
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Well said. You could almost argue that's a defining characteristic of an alpha: not easy to replicate, skillful, passionate, not easily replaceable. These are the types of men women lust for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:32 PM
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Women that say they 'wised up' to bad boys just don't have access or interest from them anymore. Almost universally if a women is offered an alpha at an point in her life she takes it or is highly tempted and pressured to take it and if she doesn't take it she becomes miserable with cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:29 PM
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I've read the quote before. I did not miss the 'overtime' part. More and more marriages are ending in divorce so obviously the benefit of settling down with a beta are not magically revealing themselves overtime. The one thing that does pan out in the data is women are much happier when they don't spend their high SMV years fucking around and they marry earlier and sooner and marry when they have lower parter counts. Try not to go on long rants I didn't think my response was that long but isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:27 PM
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It makes sense when you see the world from a gynocentric perspective: All women are valuable and most men have near zero value. (some have value that is owed to women and a small percentage of men are wild and uncontrollable and dangerous and society needs to tame these men and make them give their resources to women.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:20 PM
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If there's nothing sexier then a man who "values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home" then why not just date these guys from the onset? The reality is they're not sexier. Women date the former because they are more attracted to him and they are more attracted to him because he triggers very old, very well established female desires. Desire to be safe, desire to have resources, desire to mate with the fittest male of the group. Just because a guy is fair, think…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:11 PM
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However, there's this crush I have - my internal animal seems to be blinded by the fact that she's my crush and tends to negate/not see the problems in her. You're going to have to cure this with you're own will or years of experience with women dumping you and taking your shit (time, money, resources) will do it for you. Either learn the easy way or get out and fail faster. There are a couple of redpill posts on guys who fucked their crushes. They are quite enlightening. I just plated a 9 a cou…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:17 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4mt89q/the_6_stages_of_breaking_up_a_guide_to_not_having/
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:10 AM
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These are my least favorite women to date. They often have ridiculous standards. When they should be dropping what they will except they are often ratcheting it up because they want a husband. I exclusively date 21-25 and 30-35. And the older ones are always plate material but they are much more fun and laid back. They make great plates.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 04:27 PM
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I have to date/meet people in order to find a man to settle down with Your original question wasn't 'how should I break up a date' it was 'how do I end after several dates and emotional connections are established...i.e. a relationship' there's a big difference between serial dating and serial relationships. I doubt you'd be getting a lot of guilt tripping and insults from men that you are simply refusing to have a second or third date with... If that's really the case maybe you should re-analyz…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 04:24 PM
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The truth is often counter intuitive. If you're looking for a magical break up method that's going to have a guy giving you a nice pleasant send off with no communication or even thank you's you're going to have a very bad time. Redpill women isn't the place for this type of advice. Most of the time when a women breaks up with a guy it's because she perceives he has some weakness and she thinks she can do better (she might simply have found an upgrade that she can't pass up and this is tough on …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 04:08 PM
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makes me not want to date because I don't want to be a monster This girl sounds a bit full of herself. I think this referenced post is just a virtue signal. Best way to break up with a guy who fails vetting is in a very clear text message or email. Don't drive over. Don't call. Don't go on a date. If you've living with him you need to have at least one convo before you are 100% ready to break up that you're drifting (lots of girls won't do this because they want to secure something with someone …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 03:23 PM
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No. You're right. She doesn't. She just wants attention from him. "Wow, that felt good, I use to feel that way with my boyfriend." And repeat until he's balls deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 03:10 PM
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I just find something ugly about them, both physical, intellectual and emotional. With most women after you talk to them for a few minutes it won't be hard to do this. Don't overdo it. You don't want to come off as a misogynist, just do it internally. Have a dialogue, "yea she's hot, but hot women blow neck beards behind dumpsters for change, there are lots of hot women, what else does she have to offer, is she going to fuck my life up or complement it, does she have stds, high partner count or …
/r/askTRP16/04/17 02:44 PM
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She's 'gotten' it for a long time. Her and Warren Farrell were in the belly of the beast (feminism) for years and now actively oppose it with every fiber of their being. More people need to support these two. Other's to support: Janice Fiamengo Paul Elam Karen Straughan Roaming Millennial Shoe On Head Camilie Paglia (My personal fav) Paglia nailed everything that's happening in 2017 in 1992
/r/MensRights16/04/17 02:33 PM
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It feels that way because the average salary isn't good enough to produce the lifestyle for what the average women lusts for. Regardless of career. Most girls will drop the club promoter for the doctor any day of the week but not for the reasons the doctor wants. The people that spend a lot of time around women have positioned themselves as chad and not providers. This works because of the AFBB dichotomy. You too can do this with the right game and enough time with women. It's all about mystery.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 02:26 PM
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You should have just used a bodyfat percentage chart like this one: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/03/48/4b/03484b34b206fc464f32741d997436b0.png You'll notice that they have two girls at 25% body fat one is a 9 on the hotness scale because she's also in shape and has good genetics so carries the fat in all the right places. The other is like a 6 and she's the same BF. So it's a much more complicated picture. This article is a good read on the subject http://bonytobombshell.com/bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:03 PM
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Women get like this when they are convinced by propaganda that they should delay marriage and kids, have multiple partners, and not be submissive to mates. This propaganda is strongest in large eastern cities like New York City but of course it's basically everywhere now to a degree which is why American women are considered the worst around the world for entitlement and a list of other negative female qualities.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 04:54 AM
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Women shit test men for a number of reasons but primarily to test a mans SMP value and fitness. Thus women use testing to gauge their own desire. It's like if every women you met was behind a sheet until you prodded her with questions and tests and the sheet can go back up at anytime, even 20 years into a marriage. Men have no need for testing because we literally test SMP value visually. The only male equivalent shit tests would be questions and observations about a women's long term ability to…
/r/askTRP16/04/17 04:43 AM
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Attractive women are even more receptive to this. They crave emotional abuse. They would rather be cheated on daily than be with a predictable, average man This is enlightening. Every attractive women I've fucked has had this issue. Unless she was young, sheltered ugly duckling that hadn't received enough male attention and even those were starting to fall into this pattern as their partner count got over 2 or 3.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 12:05 AM
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Ok. You're ugly. Now get past that. Improve on what you have to work with and don't give up. If you go full learned helplessness then you might miss a genuine opportunity which often looks like just a conversation. Your extreme self consciousness is what's effecting this 'flow.' I'm also guessing it's affecting your ability to work on self improvement. Some pretty girls are treated the same way as well because often times guys aren't as tactful and miss sending the courtesy text etc. You just se…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 06:17 PM
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Let's just ignore the intelligence issue for now. You can't even really address that until you work out if humans have really evolved distinct 'races.' My point is it's neither entirely a social construct nor entirely a scientifically quantifiable fact; that's why I used the words 'probably' and 'thing'. We just don't know. The research is mixed, plagued with bias, and especially has poor repeat-ability (the hallmark of scientific discovery). The inherent problem with this type of research is al…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 06:01 PM
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The red pill HAS gone downhill as of late I'm not sure I agree with this but it's hard to pinpoint when something went tits up until it's gone and you're looking back in retrospect. I still enjoy a lot of the content on redpill. I would like to see more high quality field reports.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 05:18 PM
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Blame feminism and the sexual revolution not the entire gender. The cock carousel be it oral or vaginal is just part of the modern marketplace. Get comfortable with it and if you can't handle it don't ask. Just assume every women you might get into a relationship has a very high partner count. Your job should be to look for the lower end of the spectrum that hasn't gone fully mentally retarded from all the pump and dump. It's getting very difficult to find women out there that still have the abi…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 04:44 PM
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You bring up a good point. A vagina is meant to get fucked and women can actually be very disconnected from their vaginas. Putting a mans member into your mouth on the other hand is clearly a passionate sex act.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 04:40 PM
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If someone offered you the presidency would you take it? Probably not and your reasoning would be something like, "It's too much stress and the people with the real power are corporations/voters/etc." Women actively choose not to take a lot of jobs in politics, leadership, tech and for good reason. They have other goals and interests. Yet they still have a huge voice in society (I'd argue the dominate voice). Could those men change divorce laws if they wanted? Could those men in 'power' take the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 03:30 PM
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As bad, sexist and psychopathic the red pill seems You're getting this impression because we live in a female centric society. Academia, the media, and even the legal system is dominated by gynocentrism. If you go deeper down the rabbit hole you see this as well. Good level headed post on the core beliefs of redpill!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 03:05 PM
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people saying the gender is a social construct are saying that race is a social construct. Agreed. I'm not denying that race is probably a thing. We especially know in the medical field that racial background has effects on rates of diabetes, heart health, blood diseases etc. There is an agenda to destroy all forms of traditional identity so that new artificial identities may be imposed at a later date. I'd tend to agree with this as well; but that also doesn't mean that traditional identities a…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:48 PM
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Please tell her that what she did is completely unacceptable. If you get anything less then a sincere apology I'd start a solid round of dread. The other red flag is that if she's on her period she should offer you BJ or hand job. Denials of sex should always come with counter offers at the very least. Otherwise you might be on the road to a dead bedroom.
/r/askMRP15/04/17 02:32 PM
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Genetics and culture are two different things. Furthermore, It would be impossible to establish a rock solid theory because the word 'intelligence' itself is incredibly subjective. Let's say you locked down some definition of 'intelligence' and you designed a test to compare 'cultures' and one culture shows higher scores. If that was a valid and repeatable test then it could be repeated with other groups around the world because culture is transportable, thus negating a 'racial' advantage. Same …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:08 PM
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Let's stop and think for a minute, what do you need to have sex with a girl? You need a penis and an IQ of 80 This isn't true. Many, many men are deprived of sex in 2017. There are a lot of reasons for it but the main reason is that for the vast majority of women, even average looking women, gravitation towards the top 5-10% of men is the norm. Basically extreme entitlement. Then there are men near that top percentile, some are even in it, that don't know how to hold frame or have developed a fe…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:25 PM
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It's not just the bait it's how many fish are around it and interested in it. Interest creates more interest.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:19 PM
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Jesus why are you getting downvoted for bringing facts into a thread? edit. I'm glad that some more eyes got onto your comment and upvoted you.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 12:56 PM
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why don't you just pm him? /u/BluepillProfessor
/r/askMRP15/04/17 12:53 PM
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Life. Trying and failing. Seriously there's no book for amused mastery. There is a book out called the Power of No that's an under written business type book but it might help. Most people are just too locked into their video games, sports, hobbies to get out and make mistakes and learn enough to develop amused mastery. Safe havens can become prisons. This video is for designers but actually applies here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rDjrOaoHz9s edit. I'm actually writing a redpill post on th…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 12:29 PM
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It can be a lot of things. It can be her unsure of your value, her unsure of her own value in the moment, her sure of your value but angling to make you an orbiter; on occasion it's her thinking you're value it too high and her being afraid of getting used but this doesn't normally look like mixed signals it looks like comfort test... Bottom line is you want to court and go after women that feel you have a significantly higher value then they do and women make their minds up on your value pretty…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 01:47 PM
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Hidden intelligence revealed in practical situations adds irresistible mystique that will wet panties. This is so on point. Women are constantly reading between the lines because amongst their female friends they communicate to one another covertly and indirectly and they assume the same with men. It's powerful to show that you know how to drop hints and use tact. It shows social acumen, intelligence and value. It's kind of like being interviewed but you have to answer every question indirectly …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 01:41 PM
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A lot of women are doing both. They escort and try to model on the side or model a lot and escort on the side. The careers kind run into each other. Either way I'd just plate her regardless. Unless you have rock solid frame it's not going to be easy to keep a model at bay. Granted I've never personally dated a model but I don't think it's going out on a limb to say they might be difficult to mold into a LTR or redpillwomen. I live near a college town and I've dated some very good looking young w…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:57 AM
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I'm a bit confused by your post? Are you disagreeing with the redpill maxim that high N count women make for poor LTR's and wives? Also what's a monogamous slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 12:44 AM
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And that's one of the biggest problems in relationships. Often times women hide that they are hurt or worse they expect the partner to just know, and it amplifies their hurt that he doesn't pick up on it. Then their minds wander towards thinking he's purposefully ignoring the hurt and feelings of neglect and depression set in.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 12:33 AM
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You could probably being doing the exact opposite of everything you're doing and she'd have the same negative whiny journal notes ("he's so fat and lazy, I'm not attracted any more!...He doesn't go out at all, I'm so tired of him always being around!!"). She's just depressed and unhappy and taking it out on you. Keep doing what you're doing. I couldn't help but read between the lines as I read her notes. Here's my take: She calls me tall and handsome. She kind of thinks my work outs are vain. Sh…
/r/askMRP12/04/17 01:15 AM
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I don't really see why you're upset with her. She obviously wants marriage and wants it pretty fast. Which is not good but she's being honest. You need to decide if that's you or if this is the girl or you need to put your foot down and tell her. Marriage in general is very dangerous and should be avoided but if you are going to marry this girl doesn't sound like the one. The fact that she talked about it so early says that she only see's it as a superficial milestone and not the institution and…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:23 PM
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Ghosting is not really dread. Dread would be spending less time with her and pulling back on the emotional investment.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:19 PM
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I don't think shes very traditional if she values going to parties/bars over a relationship. This. She's just acting traditional because she wants the security and money that comes from marriage. She's not really that traditional.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:18 PM
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Would a girl want to fold laundry with Leo or go to an expensive dinner with neck beard shit lord? Laundry of course because she knows that Leo doesn't just do laundry all the time and just spending time with him is fun because he's interesting and she wants a shot at a future with him when he won't always be doing laundry. You can take the celebrity factor out of this and just have guy A guy B. Guy A is interesting and has a future and is funny so doing anything with him is going to be fun even…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:13 PM
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Thanks for the heads up on infinite jest. The Whooper thing reminds me of something out of the film Idiocracy. I still might try it because I really liked Consider the lobster.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 12:57 PM
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It's really very difficult to demote. Women sense this shit and just abandon ship. Try some dread game first to see if she responds with better behavior. Then reward her if she does even the tiniest step in the right direction. It's like potty training. If she fails this then just plate any which way you see fit. I suggest just a slow fade out on her (less weekend time, very little 'future' talk). When she accuses you of getting distant just delay by saying you are busy at work. Another way to p…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:24 AM
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easing the woman’s anxieties and insecurities. This is really key. It's also why you constantly hear women say they highly prize men who can make them laugh. Women have so many insecurities and need strong, stoic, balanced men to keep them rational and grounded. This is also why women can walk after years of money, affection, and support. If you can't keep her anxieties and fears at bay she will almost immediately start branch swinging. The drug metaphor is also rightfully used on redpill a lot.…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 03:15 AM
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This is why men in general are pretty miserable and blue pill men especially so. They know the game is rigged but don't have the means, drive or tools to oppose it. Personally I'm starting to think more and more that you just have to sit back and watch. Eventually women will abandon feminism and seek out independent men with financial resources and skills as society starts to crumble. Or maybe they will double down and just buy another cat. Either way I will be enjoying the decline with my plate…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 03:07 AM
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Well played. She might still walk or continue to not put out but this is about the best way you can handle this.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 03:03 AM
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Almost word for word this has happened twice to me on dating apps the last couple of weeks. Both girls were surprised when I didn't submit to anymore slow play shenanigans. I've never seen one case in all my years of dating where a girl that was into me couldn't find a way to meet up with me in a day or two. If she has a commitment she will immediately suggest something very soon or give alternatives (come over right after or I will come to you later!). And almost universally women that keep del…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 02:59 AM
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Hitchikers Guide comes to mind but I'm sure you've read that...Lonesome Dove really sucked me in and wouldn't let go. Took about 120 pages but then I was at the 800 mark in about two days and don't even remember turning a page. McMurtry has a very utilitarian, functional, predictable writing style. Also lot's of redpill shit since it's a western. I'm not the biggest fan of fiction because I find that it's often just not engrossing enough. A lot of fiction writers also seem to get lost in the wee…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:50 AM
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All women are anxious and crazy. The uglier ones just have anger, bitterness, and a political agenda tossed in the mix. Any woman that appears devoid of anxiety and craziness is doing a pre-wall prance and trying to lock down a husband.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:40 AM
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Sometimes these reformed bitches are actually really nice and fun to be around. They are way more down to earth then lots of women who are still in bad marriages or are in denial about the wall.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:34 AM
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Redpill men that value loyalty might take the 6-7 if they have no 8-9 options but the vast majority of men take the 8-9's regardless of personality if they have access to them; which is basically why lots of 8-9's can have such horrid personalities, it doesn't matter. Men just like women lie to themselves and say that the other partner has some redeeming quality.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 01:55 PM
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At least on my scale 8, 9, and 9.5's aren't supermodel hot. 10's are supermodel hot genetic celebrities but might work at the diner. 11's are celebs and 10 plus hot. I also find that most 18-25 girls are above a six but below a 10.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 01:52 PM
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You're not the only one. A lot of women hate women. Just thrust yourself out there or it will get worse. I hate the grocery store but I still go, because I need to eat.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:41 AM
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Best time to plant a tree? 20 years ago. Second best time. Now. You're going to turn 45 and 55 anyway. Might as well hit those milestones with 10 or 20 years of productive work instead of 10 or 20 years of hee-hawing, self hate, doubt, laziness, regret, etc. Imagine you choose not to follow redpill advice to work hard and focus on the now? How much self hate will you have in a week, a year, a decade. Be nice to future you and work on something now. You might like the book The Slight Edge.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 06:47 PM
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My boyfriend is an amazing guy. Everyone who knows him tells me how lucky.. Nobody is perfect. He's twenty and a guy. Guys are much less tactful when it comes down to it and especially at 20 years old his experience with women is still small and he probably doesn't realize the world of anxiety and dread he unleashed in you. If he's as kind and connected with you as you say I guarantee he didn't mean his comments to hurt you. He doesn't even realize you're still thinking about them. When women ma…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/17 02:32 PM
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Which is why I commented. I don't think you are trying to tone police or be critical. It was just miscommunication a bit which is why you're getting some rough comments. Your post will probably get removed by mods but don't take it personally and if you have time maybe create a more concise right up. You could also pose your post in the form of a question and throw it up on asktrp. The redpill community has to be on tight guard for tone policing and valueless unsubstantiated critiques because we…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 02:18 PM
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The best I have going for me is just hanging onto a conversation and not losing frame while keeping a straight face when saying something sarcastic or not laughing at their jokes. This is enough. I don't have much more then this and finding women isn't a problem for me as long as I get out and put in the time opening. Opening can be anything. "This place is great huh?" "I love those shoes" then if you're a normal person with life experiences the conversation will just flow after that. As it flow…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:15 PM
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One of my biggest mistakes with this community was reading too much and having mindsets I don't agree with Borderline tone policing but I'll except it because technically you're saying it's your problem. Most of the conversations here revolve around the typical sorority girl. Not really true. Quite the opposite. Lot's of convo's about regular girls who when given the option or it's suite their interest normally act like sorority girls or worse. How much do you read? so I spend my time finding hi…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 01:06 PM
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McMartin daycare center hysteria of the 80s I have a book on my shelf called 'Satanic Panic' about this incident. I have yet to read it but the whole circus is fascinating to me. When I was 13 I watched a documentary about the incident and I remember being dumbfounded that adults could be so stupid. And your right. Too many people stand to profit from hysterical overly protective women. The media, religion, police departments, talk show hosts, publishers, the safety industry (stun guns, mace, et…
/r/MensRights08/04/17 05:46 PM
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So isn't 'safeguarding' just a natural human trait? Or is the term safeguarding meant to imply that it's a heightened or unnatural level of preparedness? I wonder if victims of abuse are more/less likely to safeguard statistically. Intuitively I'd say more likely but sometimes 'truth' is counter-intuitive. Maybe the type, degree, and frequency of abuse effects the statistics as well?
/r/MensRights08/04/17 05:42 PM
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The best way to handle the career question is to not answer it if you just met her. Just say you are volunteer trash man or you go around pulling cans out of dumpsters. Then when she presses you just give your general field: 'business' or 'semiconductors' or 'engineering' and let her little hamster go crazy as you change the subject. If she pushed you farther just try to change the subject or swing back on her. If she pushed even harder then you know you have a gold digger on your hands anyway..…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 04:23 PM
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Nothing. You can only mitigate the feeling. It does dull as you get your counts up and start really seeing what women are like. The hottest fucking 21 year old with the tightest bod and incredible tits could be a god damn mess of a person: drugs, STD's, no money, shit family, abuse. You don't need that shit and you just don't know if a girls like this until you get over to her VIP section and start flirting and feeling her out. Treat all women like they might be a god damn train wreck (because m…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 04:19 PM
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I don't think I'm all that rare. That's why I'm asking so many questions because I'm seeing this trend with a lot of women. A complete step back. I'm wondering if because of Tinder and Social media there's just so much male attention that women are just upping the bar with what they need to be fulfilled, captivated. Do you have any more incites and why you and a lot of your friends have this approach? I think some of it might be generational too. I'm 35 and as much as I try to socialize, interac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 04:00 PM
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This happens a lot. Girls 'settle' for a bluepill guy and think the sex will last. My guess is that just before she met him she was pumped and dumped hard and picked a safer guy that 'would never leave.' What's important to pull out of this is that even if her husband was a real Chad with high value that settled for her she'd lose interest in that guy too. That's why the CC is so dangerous for women. No matter who they settle down with they lose interest. Sure it helps if you are a redpilled guy…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 03:45 PM
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If you don't mind I have a few more questions. This is purplepill 'debate' right? I respect you and don't want you to feel like I'm judging you. I'm just trying to understand your position better. So if how do you expect to meet people that stimulate you if your at home all the time? Also do you anticipate that someone will stimulate you enough to want to marry and have a long term productive faithful relationship or is that part of your reluctance that you don't predict anyone can awaken that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:38 PM
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Not be there because someone on Reddit said dating should be an end game I'm not really suggesting what your own personal end game should be; that's why I'm asking. Now mother nature might have some polite words with you because as you age all those average guys that are so abundant will at some point stop knocking. It might even happen sooner then you think. Don't you have an internal drive/feeling that you need to use your prime years to secure a quality man that your passionate about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:10 PM
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I think there's also just too much incentive for women to report. If they do bust a real pedophile they are a hero to other female friends and they get a huge status boost because, "look how intuitive she is!!" and if she's wrong and she just embarrassed an innocent man and child and cost the tax payer some money... "oh well, who cares, you have to stay vigilant against all these dangerous rapist and pedophile men that we have to live with!!" There's just no downside for women not to constantly …
/r/MensRights08/04/17 03:06 PM
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Try to find a trusting friend that's still in contact with her to do some covert snooping around. I don't think your paranoid at all. I had the exact same thing happen to me as well. Women in the modern western world are a cartel and as men we are basically stuck playing by their rules.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 03:02 PM
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Unless you stop associating with women altogether, it's really just down to bad luck. And even then now you're the creepy guy with no female friends. I think it's actually safer to play the game and spend a lot a time with women and be in on the rumor train the best you can.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 03:00 PM
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If you don't mind me asking what's your end game. Do you just netflix and winechill alone till your thirty and panic and grab somebody?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:57 PM
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Sure you're not thrown in jail... oh wait you are. Men are false accused all the time because they are men with masculine behaviors. Police are called out on fake domestic violence calls as well because women will use the government and modern narrative as a weapon. Men are also shamed socially and in the media for trying to adhere to traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:51 PM
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This is why feminism is often referred to as a female supremacy movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:48 PM
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Plate her now or drop her. Now that she's a plate she won't be out with you much and if you do take plates out just don't take her out with him around. Befriend him as well. Probably will be a good wingman as you look for more women.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:45 PM
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This is something many of use go through and like you said it gets worse with each new girl that confirms it. Sounds like you're almost at the end of the anger stage and ready for your next journey. but I can't shake the haunting feeling that there is something more out there and that I'm only grasping the tip of what could be There isn't. That's the core of the pill. The fantasy is just that. You're partially right that there is more out there. It's just not found in the opposite sex. It's foun…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 02:42 PM
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By nature women are not risk takers and for good reason. You wouldn't want the females of your tribe that need to birth the next generation out taking too many risks. Women need a lot of protections and privilege to live a comfortable life. Women are anxious and always looking for physical emotional walls to protect them from uncomfortable realities. Thus women create their own narrative driven by selfishness and emotion. Control her emotions, control her. Women fear rejection because they live …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:03 PM
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Well. I'm a bit suspicious. The fact that this thread has 322 comments and we aren't helping you much tells me that maybe you're leaving something out?? What exactly do you look like? Are you misjudging something?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 10:44 AM
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I don't need a gf. Or sex. I call bullshit.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 01:57 AM
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You might just be a victim of lots of modern guys being afraid to approach? Question: If you have a great friendship circle why are you not meeting men in the group?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 01:13 AM
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It's in a female's nature to want more. If she is an overweight 5 with a crap personality but she works in an office with high quality men that want to bang her she will adapt and want more. If she marries a quality guy but hangs out with unmarried or low quality women and makes the mistake to complain about him they will convince her she deserves more. And on and on. The only thing that tempers this female solipsism and hypergamy is: reality, old world female knowledge, and male leadership. All…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:01 PM
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Great comment. I think a year is a lot of time out of a girls peak market time window but every girl should definitely do this for at least 3-6 months. I think lot's of women never develop who they are until way later in their lives. They get caught on who they should be for their family or their crush or their LTR, or their social group and never wrestle with themselves. Social media is making this even harder. It's so easy for women to fall back into endless hallow validation and compliments a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 03:16 AM
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Sure, she does eventually need to put out a bit, this is true but it's a balance. If she's waited a month and gone on 8 dates she's not really giving it away for free. If she had the discipline she could slow play 12 guys a year give or take and not have to have sex and still get to screen 12 guys. That's assuming they all think she's worth 4 weeks of slow play. I guess it's all a balance and depends a lot on the individuals.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 03:11 AM
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my immediate gut reaction wants to freak out with "why are you calling me hunny? Who on earth are you.... blah blah independent woman, only my SO and family get to use pet names" You're not from the south are you?
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 02:54 AM
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I'm really late to this thread and there are a lot of comments already, and I haven't read them all, but I'll throw in my two cents. I think you have two problems. You're trapped in the 27-30 bubble. This is a terrible place to be as a modern women in feminism 4.0 land. You get tons of mixed signals. Feminist media, blue pill men, and most of your friends who will want to keep you happy will tell you a big lie and they will say something like "you're in your prime!!" and "Lot's of women now a da…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 02:31 AM
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What the fuck is taking so long with vasalgel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:56 AM
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I failed this weekend. Did a vegas trip, approached a lot and had lots of options and IOI's but couldn't close. Two of those women were married and had their friends grab them from me as we were getting too close. I'm finding bachelorette parties and girl groups larger then three to be a real pain, especially in Vegas because the guard is up.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:08 PM
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I think that guy forgot 'gluteal' day.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 11:34 PM
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Seconded. Would anyone fucking question the fitness of a guy who looked like this? https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/51vBY1W7REL._SX258_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 03:05 PM
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There's a whole thread on this subject actually that has some good debate going. I wrote a comment as well that summarizes my take on this. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/62hqlu/will_some_men_never_get_involved_past_a_few_dates/
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 02:44 PM
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I think this is common for lots of women and it's a bit like a food addiction. The problem with food addiction is that we are always hungry and food is always around. No matter how much will power you have if you have to pick up Dunkin' Donuts for the staff Monday morning you're going to be overwhelmed with temptation and you will soon get that little voice in your head that says: "Just one donuts won't kill me!" next thing you know you've eaten three and had a huge unhealthy dinner as well... S…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 02:41 PM
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loving man that accepts and loves me the way he did despite my reputation This is hard to find because a lot of high quality men have options and when it comes down to it they pick lower partner count women with less baggage. If you find a man that can cope with your past and you show through your ACTIONS that it's truly your past then you still might have a chance. Since you're still relatively young and a female you are in high demand despite your N count. You need to put yourself out there an…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 02:05 PM
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This comment is post worthy itself. I'd love to see it up on redpill for debate and discussion as well. My only beef is this line. I think the higher the body count N count wise, the more carnage both sides have within them. I think men more then women are able to have high N counts and then settle and be content and loyal. Granted men with high N counts often have more game and if the opportunity comes in a marriage they have the tools to cheat but I find men better at controlling their emotion…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 01:59 PM
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Step 1. Get comfortable being alone. Find something that you can do alone that you enjoy. Reading, instrument, hobby. That takes care of the pressure relief. Step 2. Enjoy the lifting and studying. Find joy in the process and growth. You'll also find that when you fill your time with a lot of lifting and studying that people will come out of the woodwork to hangout with you and fill the precious free time you have. You'll meet interesting people as you make yourself a more valuable and interesti…
/r/askTRP01/04/17 03:10 AM
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Young girl asks you out = value goes up. Old broads shit test you about it because they want your attention = value goes up. Pass their shit test with DGAF attitude = value goes up. Hesitate and act concerned that old hens are pecking = value goes down.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 02:58 AM
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I give the same advice to women that don't think their hot enough as I give to lots of men. There's someone out there that's buying what you're selling. Should you spend time cleaning up and maintaining your product? Sure. But don't obsess that because you're not some top shelf liquor that nobody wants to consume your contents and enjoy it. One mans trash... To go a bit further. You cheapen your product when you don't own what you have. Granted you shouldn't walk around being a 300 pound land wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 01:38 AM
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While the quality of women is declining in 2017 there are still a lot of fish in the sea. Men have to make a calculation, there are lots of women that string men along for cash and prizes. So it's a balance. Men are turning towards not marrying at all as well. The institution of marriage is a legal trap for men. So even when we do find the right redpill women we are quite hesistent as we look around at all our friends with dead bedrooms and divorce rape alimony payments. Imagine you're a busy gu…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 02:01 PM
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Here's a simple calculation from one guys perspective Note: for the vast majority of men I find the table below pretty accurate, age and culture may change things a bit. Number of current plates has a lot to do with things as well. Guys that have a high number of plates hit a break point where they can't really manage another one and start culling the herd and upping standards. Guys that are going through a dry time with no plates often lower their standards and may get into a relationship with …
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 12:36 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4oar53/still_confused_about_meditation_so_was_i_heres/
/r/askTRP30/03/17 01:17 PM
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It's easier for men who have lost their alphaness to regain it then it is for a lifetime beta blue pill to have an epiphany. Normally beta's don't change unless they get a hardcore divorce or breakup. So you're in a tough situation for sure... I felt too rejected. Now I shut him out and don't respect him. This isn't good at all. Even if the guy does try to take a turn or get's into a hobby/male friendship that perks him up he's going to run head first into your complacency and disgust. Is there …
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 03:50 AM
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Absolutely everyone settles. That being said women that do it at middle age after a lot of partners have a higher likelihood of divorce and dissatisfaction in the marriage. When they do divorce they will of course take the beta's money. So the problem is again the beta who thinks he's in for a lifelong wife, mother, partner is screwed. That's what's wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 08:59 PM
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Lots of women women operate for a deny everyone and see who passes that shit test and keeps up the chase.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 08:22 PM
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I second the leangains website. There's some good information there and I've had luck with his fasted training advice. That being said I don't think OP who was at 270, is going to benefit from BCAA's or timing his carbs after workouts until he's at a healthier weight in general. In addition any hard work he puts in at the gym isn't going to be seen if he's 30 or even 20 percent body fat. As mentioned in my post I'd think he'd see more sustainable results if he only lifted lightly for 2 or 3 days…
/r/askMRP25/03/17 04:00 PM
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I'm talking a bit more about the mental side of things...What I'm getting at is there's a difference between drained and unsustainable. With both diet and exercise the benefits come after months and even years of slow progress. It took years to get to 270 and it's not going to sustainably come off after a few weeks or even months. If you think what your doing right now is sustainable and not going to cause injury then by all means keep it up. Most friends and family I've talked about dieting wit…
/r/askMRP25/03/17 03:48 PM
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Listen. I will get downvoted for this but that's just fine. Stop lifting. yup. I said it. Or severely cut back that routine. You can't cut to 2000 calories a day and go on a strong lifts 5x5 with lots of HIT and not have issues. I see this approach problem with dieters (myself included) all the time. People try to go balls to the wall on a new diet and exercise and they eventually fail. My advice to you is to walk a lot. I mean a lot. 2 times a day 60 plus minutes; lots of water as well. Hit the…
/r/askMRP25/03/17 03:18 PM
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Do you know why your post got removed? Also you might like this video https://www.ted.com/talks/dan_dennett_on_dangerous_memes
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 08:12 PM
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Thanks Sadie. I've been here. I just have to budget my time wisely so that I don't spend too much time on reddit in general. I try to lurk more then post as well because you and the other quality posters do a truly excellent job. I hope you are doing well!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 04:03 PM
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I think every group in society has intellectual meme traps like this. For white women it's 'the patriarchy' for black men it's 'whitey's system' for white males it's 'SJW!!, immigrants!', for old people it's 'Heathens, gov, Atheists, lazy kids! Media! Immigrants!" for the impoverished 'No jobs! Cost of Living! 1% control of everything!!' For the over educated it's 'nihilism and existential crisis, No intellectual jobs!' The reality is that all of these are bullshit and 99% of the time just excus…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 03:39 PM
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I think what drives a lot of feminist thought and research is a complete lack of attention from quality men. There must be something wrong with the world and society that needs fixed if she can't garner endless attention from high value men. Women live and die on male attention and these feminist writers have often shriveled up and died a thousand deaths. It's almost as if feminist thought is completely driven by female mental illness. Healthy and fulfilled females don't buy into feminist though…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 03:19 PM
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The researchers conclude, according to Smothers, that "When women's orgasms begin to serve as a masculinity achievement for male partners, the orgasms cease to be about women's liberation or sexual pleasure. That's one interpretation of the data. They're using the term 'researchers' and 'data' very liberally. Why do people that put out a poll feel like they can interpret who is benefiting from an orgasm? Does a child's high grades or athletic achievements cease to be valid or pleasurable because…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 03:09 PM
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The hunter prey model really is an old school model but it's actually what most women are comfortable with. Most blue haired feminist still want the man to approach. If a women has to approach it completely takes her out of the emotional dynamic that makes her attracted to you. To 'hunt and prey' isn't really the best metaphor because in reality 'you' are the prize. The women is really the hunter luring you in with her attractiveness. She wants the strongest most skillful resource rich hunter sh…
/r/askTRP24/03/17 02:50 PM
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You're right to be a bit guarded. A two year relationship that didn't pan out isn't abnormal but it was also a big chunk of your peak attractiveness/marketability time that is now lost. Embrace the fear. Understand yourself. Next; whether you can be honest about it or not, you're overthinking things is probably coming from a place of not wanting to spend another two years waiting for the other shoe to drop. Hot tip: Even the most healthy relationship has that slight element of fear and tension a…
/r/RedPillWives24/03/17 12:38 AM
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That's why you take her to the early dirty bird slut special at your local greasy spoon restaurant. Of course she might complain you raped her because she wasn't able to order organic free range sustainable egg white and soy breakfast salad crapes and mimosa bullshit. In the modern tumblr feminists mind bacon and eggs is somehow patriarchal oppression. I'm sure there's a feminist blogger out there explaining this for us.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 09:39 PM
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Why so many 'save money' comments in this thread? Breakfast is cheap as fuck and with the false rape hysteria anything helps. Especially if you feel like you need extra insurance. Maintenance text, breakfast, courtesy snuggle time, video/pic of her having a great time before/after, dash cam of sexual intent conversations... You want as much provable evidence as possible of consent.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:37 PM
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Hey. Give yourself more credit then that. You're at least broken clock status!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 04:23 PM
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Masculinity of all types have been under-siege in this country for 40 plus years. Media, government, modern feminism, feminine nature, blue-pill men, all actively and passive seek to criminalize, suppress and marginalize masculine behavior. Religion itself is not anti-masculine. It all depends on how the culture and the institutions interpret and carry out that doctrine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 04:21 PM
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Seriously. You seem to be very anxious. You are living in both your past and your future instead of your present. Obsessing about not being where you think you should be at 26 is just going to distract you from being a great nurse and girlfriend if you do start dating. I'd highly recommend the book: The Practicing Mind by Thomas Sterner Dan Harris's 10% Happier is also a great read. After you've come back to a better balance you might find yourself attracting and keeping the higher quality partn…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 04:16 PM
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I don't always agree with Willow-girls advice but I hope OP closely listens to this. Great job. I second the Dave Ramsey suggestion. Especially his debt snowball philosophy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 04:09 PM
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The big difference is that the female social rules are dynamic and changing with whatever whim the female social group chooses to follow. It's not really based on any foundational principles. Gossip in a way is a tactic for females to make sure they are following the current set of rules; kind of like how the Borg from Star Trek taps into the hive mind; it doesn't question the hive, it just follows. Men question, they innovate, they reason, they use logic. Men are more concerned with abstract pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 04:03 PM
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This same woman has been trying to offload tons of her work to other people all the time This is a common trait in many women. Nothing to see here. You really shouldn't snoop. You could get fired. If you do. Make sure you give us a long write up about all the redpill confirmations.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 02:37 PM
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Underrated comment right here. Women that write on reddit are not the average female at all.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 05:26 PM
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Field reports trump theory No they don't, not at all in fact. Don't get me wrong. I really favor field reports and upvote them when I can but there are a lot of issues with those as well. They can be easily faked. You're only getting the perspective of a single person. It's an isolated incident in an isolated area. It's rarely a collection of field reports and it's nearly always some variation of. "I started using redpill thinking and it worked." Which we already know already... Field reports ar…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 03:39 PM
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Treat it like a shit test. Change nothing. In the future when your shopping for grooming products that have scent try to match them with your own unique smell (of course this can be tough to do). Deodorant is the most important. Keep changing deodorant brands until one seems to blend with your natural odor. I've been using the same one for years and can't change because the plates in my life will go apeshit because they connect the smell to me.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 01:12 PM
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I guess I'll bite but I want to start out with the fact that this community has an abundance of knowledgeable writers and calling the community out in your title is a bit uncouth. Just downvote or allow others to downvote poor, low quality responses. You should also at least give cursory attention to all that post because they are trying to help you even if their advice is wrong or doesn't seem right. Lastly sometimes advice that seems wrong is really accurate because it represents a paradigm/sc…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:44 PM
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That's what's sad. I really don't think it is. It's just so cringe you want it to be.
/r/MensRights11/03/17 03:36 PM
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My theory on mansplaining is that women have very little working knowledge of most technical fields and even the ones they do have working knowledge in they aren't confident enough to articulate it and claim it (see studies on women being overqualified but refusing to ask for raises, promotions). Therefore, men are constantly forced to explain things often times repeatedly often AT FEMALE REQUEST. How many times have you had to re-explain football rules or a political concept to a female? It's l…
/r/MensRights09/03/17 12:34 PM
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I also read a study about how men need shared activities to keep in touch I've read lots of similar studies/books as well related to this. Men and women bond very differently as well. Women build friendships out of desire for social inclusion and climbing. Which means they might have nothing in common with their female friends which translates into zero loyalty. Always tread carefully when courting a women. Women see men as masculine women. They can't get outside of their own heads and conceive …
/r/askTRP09/03/17 12:24 PM
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This is the comment I came to either write or look for. Well said. I try to explain this to insecure men all the time but it never sinks in. There are a million reasons a girl might not be into you. Don't take it as a hit on your own SMV. Just get out and shop around for women that are actually excepting your currency, and lots of women are.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 12:18 PM
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Walk around to males in north america in their 30's and ask them a few questions: How did you meet your best friends? How do you keep your friendship(s) alive? Almost universally you will hear: My best friends are guys that I met in [Insert sport, club, military, time intensive hobby, school]. I struggle to keep my friendships alive because: I've moved for my job and or don't do [Insert sport, club, military, time intensive hobby, school]. The take away here is that lots of male friendships are …
/r/askTRP09/03/17 12:02 PM
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I'm just going to post a response I just made in another thread that I think applies to your questions a bit... https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5y779v/i_dont_get_it_why_am_i_getting_rejected_so_much/denswcm/ Let me know if you need clarification.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:31 PM
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this girl is most likely with low self-esteem, acne and anorexia and she did not look too sophisticated or rich as well. I am surprised I found her attractive. Yet she did not give me her phone Don't judge your game or looks or self worth on one girl or even ten. There's a thousand reasons she might have not been interested in you beyond your SMV. Examples: on period, depression, not interested in dating anyone, cute guy she's had her eye on just came into her life, you have a trait that trigger…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:24 PM
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Absolutely not. But men you consider part of your 'pack' are critical to you as a man. These men above all desire loyalty and will help you in ways you never knew possible. They will help you study, help you get jobs, help your mental health, help you mature, help you relax (jokes, parties, hobbies). This is all assuming you picked a quality group of men to connect with. Cultivating genuine male friendships helps improve your reputation which gives you access to more women. If you develop the re…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:11 PM
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Female friendships are useless. Male friendships are valuable. With male friendships your reputation is your life. You just fucked over a male friend and violated code. You need to remedy that first and foremost and not worry about the female situation.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:00 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xpv332CUL0g
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:19 AM
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Now is the time to read the stoics... This too shall pass. You need to maintain a steady frame and she will know that all her lows and highs have a rock to crash against. I'd also start doing some very covert research on what was happening right before she had this renewal of passion.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 01:54 PM
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I think the fact that their husbands are so in shape and active make them depressed and they try to eat their way out of depression. Women in general don't age well either and these couple are normally the same age because they married in highschool. So the guys going to naturally look better.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:47 PM
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I think this point is lost on in a lot of redpill posts and comments. Being prone to emotional outbursts and swings doesn't mean women can't be pragmatic. Women are so emotionally driven that they've evolved lots of systems to deal with that. Those systems are mainly: victim status in society, male leadership, male resources and intense group social skills to build security.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:37 PM
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Some female breeds are more trainable then others as well.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:32 PM
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If their without husbands doesn't mean their without babies I addressed that in my comment. Most women that delayed marriage and chose a good career also chose no babies. It's normally the poor and young that are having babies and they are doing it out of wedlock, again as mentioned in my comment. do men have no responsibility for anything. There are an enormous abundance or men that want to father and financially support a women through marriage. However women are divorcing them in droves (and …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:26 PM
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The fact that you're concerned about this is a huge signal you have scarcity mentality. If you have 5 women that might come over and keep you company that night then you don't care if you 'mess' up this response and consequently that's what she's really reading into. Stop caring, start fucking.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 01:14 PM
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Years ago I was arguing in a discussion thread with someone that feminism is only 'equality for women' and a commentor politely corrected me (he mentioned the no true Scotsmen fallacy) and then suggested the pill.... Down the rabbit hole I went.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 01:08 AM
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Are you fat right now? That guys name is Izzy and he's a great Youtuber and has a few videos where he talks about weight gain and loss. I'd hold off on his videos because they are more geared for someone that been lifting and familiar with all the jargon. You're not going to get 'fatter' unless the new weight lifting program makes you hungrier and you go crazy on your caloric intake. Since your living in 2017 you probably already eat a caloric surplus so all you have to do when you start lifting…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 01:00 PM
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It's not that women don't like men that hit on them. Women don't like men that don't know how to play social settings tactfully and flirt covertly. Women are captivated when a man can be direct and sexual to them without anyone else seemingly knowing they are doing it. Women want men with a high social IQ and high sex drive as well and when you covertly flirt with women you signal both big time. Men that just openly flirt are being lazy, not being very genuine, not showing effort and not respect…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 02:36 AM
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I pull chicks through social circle game Must men do. It's a good place to start. overall amused mastery attitude If you genuinely have this and approach enough you shouldn't need to be asking questions here. I feel like I'm far FAR away from a proper game status. I have no idea what this even means. If this is some arbitrary number you set in your head of quality or quantity that's just silly. You will find yourself sad and depressed if this is your only goal to hit some type of 'game' plateau.…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 02:29 AM
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because you might end up with a woman that hates you to the core. And she might just stay with you until she has a better option. Which might be never.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:27 AM
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He should up his game instead of making her lower hers. LOL. That's the worst thing he could do. On redpill we call this failing a shit test. Sounds like he's holding frame. Capitulating to /u/electrokiwi and trying to fit some mold she wants will only make her respect him less. Don't try to change men; most of the time you won't like the change and you will resent that you had the power to change him (he had the weakness). I also doubt that his motivation is to make himself look better. He alre…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 06:23 AM
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I find that a lot of women that post these things or tell friends a guy did this are full of shit. He probably texted her two days instead of one day after the hook up and she felt used and then cast him off. Even a lot of alpha redpill guys like spinning plates and after a hook up will go back to the well a few times. She's just peddling this bullshit for attention points and sympathy. Even if she was pumped and dumped. That's what you get when you don't vet and wait a few dates. I tell women a…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 02:48 PM
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This gets talked about A LOT on redpill and asktrp. Let me try to lay it out for you (at least how I interpret it). There's nothing wrong with acknowledging that women have a strong effect on men. You can make an argument that it's deep in our psyche and genetic expression to protect and provide for females (this is of course debatable). A women's smell, touch, shape, mannerisms and movements are like kyptonite to a healthy man. She will even help you genetically clone yourself into a new genera…
/r/askTRP19/02/17 02:41 PM
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My ideal candidate would be someone who's left on most issues except for feminism related shit (or at least downplays it if he is). This is my position as well. I suspicion a lot of people share our views. However our two party system will never allow a candidate like this. On the flip side atheists candidates are also kept out of the political process as well despite a growing portion of the country identifying as having no religion. Our election system is in ruins and hijacked by entrenched gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 01:14 PM
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This is the logical answer but it just doesn't fit with reality of human culture. I think we should go the direction of contract. Women have rights to abortion for the first third of the pregnancy then the baby is now partially owned by society. The man should have the option to opt out if the women decided to have the baby out of wedlock. No government assistance if the women decided to have the baby out of wedlock. No divorce rape of men who get marry so that men are more inclined to marry in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 12:43 PM
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It's karma whoring for simple people. This is so spot on.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:17 PM
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My father always said you have friends and you have acquaintances. It's ok to have lots of acquaintances and few friends. Don't expect every-man you meet to be your instant redpill buddy. Even if you've done the work to forge a strong friendship with a male you're still going to have the issue of lots of blue pill men. That's OK. A close friend will listen and might learn redpill ways from you or as he grows older. Lift together, do sports and accomplish goals together.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:14 PM
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I'm guessing you're in high school. High school is very different from college and the real world. These girls are practicing there powers: female power is: covert language, manipulation, acting, sexuality, public shame, shit testing. Women mature a bit faster then boys sexually and think that they can wield it over boys in high school. In the sexual market place high school boys are just starting their climb up the ladder of value so girls will just dump on you left and right. Unless you come f…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:08 PM
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Just date more so that a guy that's worth it comes along sooner. Otherwise: meditate, masturbate, and limit time from tempting guys that you're not going to date. You're like a kid in a candy store right now. Get out of the candy store?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 12:44 PM
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but honestly, that's a pretty shitty reason and reflects on my insecurity Now you're starting to get it. Also try the dating app Coffee Meets Bagel. Don't be afraid to have slow burn texting where you text a girl every couple of days. Just say you are busy and then one day drop an invite out there. Always keep first dates short and never on a Friday or Saturday. This signals to women that you don't have a regular girl or big social group you go out with on those days. You might also like the boo…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 01:56 PM
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You can't just turn off a need to be validated by women because men want women and when an attractive women dates a guy she's signalling to everyone, the guy included, that she see's value in him. This is an enormous source of validation, pride, and energy for men. So what I would suggest to you is to just acknowledge it. Moving forward you need to not seek out women for the validation high. If you do that you are externally driven. Just see the high as a bonus and use it to propel you to even g…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 01:38 PM
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Almost all women branch swing. If she did it tactfully and without actual cheating that's at least something to work with.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 01:26 PM
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validation and significance(in the great scheme) All humans want validation and significance but an online forum is a pretty shitty place to get this. Validation and significance comes from other real people and real life accomplishments. My experience with struggling men on the redpill is that they are simply looking for answers and advice on how to prevent gettin fucked over by women as they move forward in life. Any validation that comes out of the conversation is just a side bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 01:41 AM
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I think a lot of girls rotate between these as well. If they can't win with external validation as they go through school they switch to internal. If they have a flame out and lose social status (which happens a lot) they switch to internal validation for a time. I've also dated women that were very internally validated but came out of there shell and caught a taste of external validation and went crazy on it. Validation, attention, novelty, fun and resource access are at the heart of all of it.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 01:08 AM
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A lot of men on MRP are in that boat. Most men got redpilled after marriage/divorce. Consider yourself lucky that you're still in the fight and have all this knowledge and resources. Most married men in the country are completely out gunned and never see the end coming because they don't understand female nature.
/r/askMRP12/02/17 06:58 PM
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You're in a tough spot that I feel like a lot of redpill married men are as well. Even perfect leadership and holding frame might not stop her from getting more indoctrinated. I'm going to assume a lot of other men are in a similar boat as you because of all this political turmoil. What good are 6 pack abs, 10% BF, owning shit regularly, leading the household, if she can't help but thinking deep in her feminist feelz that I'm part of the problem, because I'm not part of the solution? I hate to b…
/r/askMRP12/02/17 06:13 PM
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Apparently you've done a shit job educating her. Women are bombarded by feminist propoganda everyday. It will probably cause more trouble then it's worth to try to logic her out of her position. If he had just started dating her and could toss her aside if she didn't listen to reason then yea throw all the data at her.
/r/askMRP12/02/17 05:46 PM
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I think he's just worried she's on that path. He's trying to be preemptive.
/r/askMRP12/02/17 05:45 PM
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Thanks for the shout out. I think he's already read it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 05:24 PM
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This is also known as 'trickle truth.' You definitely did the right thing man. Don't second guess yourself.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:52 PM
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True. However, men are better at putting their emotions in boxes that don't effect other brain functions. Women have a lot more interconnection with how they feel and how they function day to day. Which means that women must justify and confirm/validate that they made the right choice. Women will twist facts to suit their narrative (hamster). This helps them avoid emotional turmoil which isn't as easy to deal with as a women.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:51 PM
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Well said. 'Closure' is bullshit for women too. It's really a chance to see if they can extract anything else out of you and to validate that they made the right decision when they jumped on another cock.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:46 PM
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This would be epic.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:44 PM
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Prior to getting married the other chicks I had before never complain about the smell of my dick Doesn't mean that it didn't smell. Women fall into two camps. Camp 1. They genuinely like it. I've fucked some nasty (in a good way) women that love dirty, sweaty smelly sex of all types especially BJ, the 'funk' is part of the turn on. Studies show women are turned on by fresh male sweat but that sweat quickly grows bacteria and a stronger smell. Camp 2. They're sensitive to bad smells and the only …
/r/askMRP12/02/17 03:56 PM
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Consistent texting...'Chad and I got pizza and beer today and lunch and worked on xxx'...'Don't be silly baby, he's just a work friend.' Most women have already monkey branched by this point if they say/do something like this. If a girl ever says this she should have already been plated months ago... An even more likely scenario, she's already broken up with you (in her mind), and cheated multiple times especially if she's this bold. You've already been 'cucked.' I like to call this the extracti…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 03:17 PM
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If you like classics: 'McClintock!' and the 'Quiet Man' are both good. 'Intolerable Cruelty' is also great and more modern. Don't tell anyone but I'm also a huge Gilmore Girls fan.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 04:05 AM
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That airplane feeling never goes away. Men love women. They inspire us and drive us. But the airplane feeling can be greatly mitigated if you know that there's a huge air bubble on the ground. You need to spin plates, even if they are ugly. Women don't have any power over you if you're getting laid on a consistent basis. When it's wet, it's wet. It's the completely flawed mindset that this one sloot your about to go up too might be you're last best chance at every getting laid/love/kids/companio…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:02 AM
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Men and women are both a mixture of logical mindset and emotional mindset. Men prefer and have natural inclination to spend most of their time in logical land and women, emotional land. If you ask women what they are looking for in a partner, what turns them on so to speak, whether they are talking to female friends male friends or a news reporter or themselves they almost universally say some variation of, "he makes me laugh." Now notice that she doesn't say 'he's funny', or 'he tells good joke…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:40 AM
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they use me as an excuse to talk to the girls because they know I am to fucking nice. Retrain them. edit. Also don't try to drive them away. Just be aloof, hold frame, have fun and above all have abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:34 PM
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Buy the book 'fun house mirror' right away. https://www.amazon.com/Funhouse-Mirror-Reflections-Prison/dp/0874221986
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:32 PM
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If the no make-up thing was combined with an unhealthy level of control (some control isn't a bad thing) then yea I can see it as a red flag but that doesn't seem to be your situation. Seems like a win win. You get to save time on money and make-up; but don't get confused and let yourself go entirely. He still wants you to be healthy and beautiful he's just comfy with you in general. Also remember to be on guard for both of you slipping into the 'lazy relationship zone' where you take each other…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 05:03 PM
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I can confirm this is true distilled, unadulterated redpill knowledge. Can someone please endorse this person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 02:39 PM
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I find that often times this can be a sign of true leadership.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 03:08 AM
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There's nothing wrong with this and if you can still stay attracted to him and continue to have a strong sexual connection this might work out for you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 02:56 AM
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What? Where are you getting this?
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 02:52 AM
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access. There are only so many alphas to go around and by their nature they don't stick.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:47 AM
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If a man's SMV isn't a lot higher then his mate and she's not very very attached to him then an 'I love you' is a neon sign to a women that you are officially declaring yourself a beta provider that she should systematically use, manipulate and extract from.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:16 AM
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Why is this so difficult? They don't 'logically' want to be dominated but they are turned on because they are with a man who 'can' and turned off if he 'can't'. Women want the most powerful man in the world and want to dominate him. Since that's impossible everything else is a compromise. The minute you marry or LTR a women she attempts to subjugate you. Your resistance to this is what keeps a relationship going. Have you ever read female romance novels? Yea, the pirate in his chambers might rum…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 02:11 AM
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I think you need to broaden your idea of alpha. There are lots of alphas in careers where they talk up a storm. I think you're just getting trapped by the cowboy/loner mystique that we are raised on in film and TV.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:19 PM
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I think we can also define privilege as what's available on the job market as a whole. OP has a cushy job that's not really available to a lot of men.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 02:17 PM
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All I can do is try to respect what he's doing. Any single women reading that can do this will have men falling all over their feet. Men are starved for respect in 2017. Respect is male currency, attention is female currency. Great post OP!
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 02:12 PM
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It's a positive trait but sometimes you need to tone it down among groups of people that are weak and easily intimidated. On the flip there are groups that will enjoy your strength and challenge you right back! they just close off instantly Sometimes this is a good sign because a women who is too kind to you might just see you as a beta orbiter and she's trying to put you in a category. All women quickly try to put men in boxes. Which is why mystery is such a powerful pickup tool. If you are a p…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:04 PM
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Most of approach anxiety flows from where you get your self value. If you get it from external sources (women, friends, family, success) you're going to have a bad time. Those things are fickle and fleeting and just plain wrong sometimes about how they evaluate you. Which means you must get your value as a man from your own inner dialogue. You must be able to go up to a women get completely shot down by her and then walk away with the knowledge that she just missed out on a guy with strength, sk…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 01:01 PM
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It's where a women systematically extracts as much as she can from a marriage. Kids, home, cars, house, alimony, family circles, friendship circles. It's called rape because she often uses social engineering and manipulations to emotional crush her parter as well. Often times it's done way before the marriage ends and might involve baiting the husband into verbal or physical aggression to help create a victimhood narrative for herself to aid in resource extraction. Sometimes this is done with ad…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 12:41 PM
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Basically the essence of redpill knowledge.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:53 AM
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I couldn't disagree more. There's probably a wealth of redpill knowledge in people that are poor writers or have low tech aptitude. The other side of this is the self improvement angle. To paraphrase Prof Jordan Peterson, writing is an advanced form of thinking. We think better when we write. OP will grow and may become a wonderful contributor if he takes the steps to read think and publicly write.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:58 PM
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Seek ways to draw out emotion in the conversation Well said. Reminder /u/redpilljunior this doesn't mean BE emotional it means illicit emotion from the conversational partner. Actually I'm wondering if anyone knows a great book on drawing out emotion from women in conversation?
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:05 PM
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Caffeine doesn't give you energy. It only blocks the signal in your brain telling you you are tired. If you want genuine energy: eat right, exercise and sleep enough. Caffeine is not bad or good for you per say. It's the most studied drug in medical history. Over 30k papers. One things it's does is acts as a diuretic. Causing light bowel spasm and temporary reduction of hunger. So your two can a day habit while nothing close to an unsafe level may have other side effects. It may mess up your eat…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:02 PM
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Our society rewards them for being a victim You hit the nail on the head here; and because it's so rewarded it's now just a strategy for many women and men. We live in a time of constant victim and oppression Olympics. The one who can be the biggest victim garners the most attention, support and resources.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:48 PM
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LOL. So true and since doctors sacrifice so much social time they end up getting played by the first hot girl they meet (normally a pharma rep) and marry her and get divorce raped.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 04:10 PM
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Highschool and college are very warped sexual marketplaces. It does not operate like the real world does Great point. I've tried to explain this to high school aged people but it's a bit difficult for them to comprehend because they don't have any real world knowledge yet. The real world has it's pockets of warped sexual market places as well but much less so then highschool.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 04:06 PM
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You'll be fine. You sound like a good person that's committed to that hard work of growth. Keep working on that ego and you will start realizing all the time you were wasting feeling bad could have been more time spent gaming new girls. You might also enjoy the victory unlimited podcasts. I think #43 or #44 uses the metaphor of women as shop owners. It really helped me a lot and I think it will help you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 04:00 PM
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We've come to a sad place in gender relations when men are forced to record conversations for fear of legal and social manipulations.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 03:20 PM
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i am worried that I will take a piss and she can be taken. If this is your mindset then she will be. But then you're right back to where you started at a club with no girl so why should that bother you? I cant just do something about this Men are logical and action oriented. There's always something you can do. Improve your value. Approach more. Get comfortable with rejection. (I think in general you need to read and especially write more your sentence structure needs some gains!). Above all jus…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 03:12 PM
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If it's any consolation you will lose her real quick if you project that shit storm of self loathing at her. She probably found you charming because you got out of your own bullshit internal dialogue for a second and just enjoyed the present moment with her and had fun. If you want to keep it going with her just keep working on staying the in the present moment. I'd recommend reading Sterner's The Practicing Mind and 10% Happier by Dan Harris.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:35 PM
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So it's normal for other guys that women wont msg then first? Yes, very normal. Even if he's high value man women will sit back and let men take the lead with everything. but im still frustrated when i see these 2 girls dancing with other guys You need to fully take the redpill and relax. You've got all that testosterone and you think that every girl should want you and you should have a harem of women. That's what male hormones do to your brain. There's so many reasons that those girls might be…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:32 PM
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Absolutely social life does NOT end after college but it slows down a lot. This of course depends on your personality and career. Sometimes I ask myself if those subs attract losers and a lot of other losers upvote posts made by losers or if it really sucks that much after college. It partially does but that doesn't make the sub all bad. There's still a lot of quality content. The sub is like a hospital ward. Lot of people going in and out, men recovering, etc. I mean what about the fun times wi…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 03:48 AM
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Does she just want to stay by his side forever, knowing that she can never physically have him? Look at nuns in convents. They are literally devoting their whole lives and wombs to a fictional deity. Women are intoxicated by power the same way men are enraptured by beauty. A mans status is his resources a women's status is her mans status. This elevates them among other women. They are viciously competitive beings but artfully hide it. Women are quite content to just take up a place in the shado…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 03:37 AM
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The societal narrative is basically that the man must not only be superior to his mate but always attempting to grow the couples resources. Women are not held to this same standard. This guy doesn't fit the narrative so she's playing the game of poke the bear and hope it doesn't bite her. Women should realize you get more fly's with honey. Either lead by example and be a good wife or just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 01:29 AM
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I kind of disagree. Even if a women find his profession detestful they still see him as driven, successful, wealthy, and good at his trade. I think women are actually pretty good at looking past the trade itself and seeing that this guy has value and would have succeeded in other areas. The other issue is that women will 'act' like they find porn disgusting in order to virtue signal and mesh with group think but privately most probably don't hate porn.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:23 AM
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Don't listen to anyone that says get rid of the computer or 'Just stop it'. You kill addiction by weaning yourself off it very gradually, replacing it with other activities, and planning to fail. Because you will fail. It's all about not completely relapsing and having failures just be little blips on a road to full abstinence. The power of habit is a good read as well but don't look to it for a constructive plan on ending your habits.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:19 AM
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Well said. OP needs to just practice simple tried and true leadership policies and not think about gender dynamics or sexual dynamics at all in his position.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:16 AM
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Should i even bother any further? No. Your value wasn't high enough (or you didn't project it was high enough). You also probably weren't controlling the mood and providing a lot of fun. A girl that was into you or afraid of losing a chance with you would have quickly push a guy grabbing her by the waist away. I was a bit upset after this You failed a test. She might have really wanted to fuck you but thought that the waist grab was a great little test. You failed it miserably. You shouldn't hav…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:11 AM
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The first thing I need you to do is get out our your own head. What attracts you to women does not attract women to men. Men and women live in vastly different planes of existence when it comes to 'sexual attraction' men have such a strong visual sexual drive that they believe women share it. Women DO NOT have a strong visual drive when it comes to attraction. Women have a completely different paradigm/schema that most men struggle to comprehend. why girls wont... text me first The SMP has found…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:05 AM
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Glad you've taken the pill. Don't get pissed at redpill for pointing out the flaws and pitfalls of LTR's and marriage. If you re read your own post your basically saying: "LTR and Marriage is the only thing that's suppose to make me happy in life and some online forum says I can't do these, please tell me what to do to make me happy. Fucking lots of women doesn't make me happy either." Just think about all the flaws in that logic train wreck. Redpill is about being aware of risk and understandin…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:36 PM
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Eventually though her attraction for him with wear off, don't you think? Quite the opposite. Because she only sees a lot of the positives (him at work doing things, him enjoying lunch her) she will continue to pine for him and build him up in her mind. While all mystery is lost from her own mate and she see's all his flaws. Women can crush and lust after men for years with no abatement. This is also why marriages are so difficult to maintain, especially in this era were women are told it's empow…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:13 PM
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Most charismatic people you meet are faking it but it's a bit of a chicken and egg thing because when you fake being happy and full of energy you actually just become genuinely happy. It's just how we work. Look up some of the laughing workshops used in Japan.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:01 PM
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Well said. OP would do well to find hobbies and pursuits where he can let loose and have fun and be a child again. Then he can use that energy for other interactions.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:00 PM
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Yes; but they normally go together because women confuse the admiration with attraction and vice versus.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:58 PM
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He simply failed a comfort test. He had too options: agree and amplify or throw her a bone, i.e. trickle out some beta to keep her going. She basically even answered the questions for him and would have guaranteed him weeks or months of commitment free sex. You're friend has really week game or a lot of abundance and doesn't need her and didn't really care if he failed the test. If you listen most women tell you how to game them.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 01:45 PM
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What attracts people to each other is a desire to mate with them. No matter how many layers of humanity and Disney propaganda you want to throw on that it doesn't change the fact that we are 'fuck' driven. Let start off by throwing out low quality men. Let's talks about the top 20-30% of men in the dating market. These are men the women are interested in that the rest of the male world is invisible to them. The top 20% of men might act like normal men but the reality is many women want to lock t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 01:36 PM
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No. The pursued one OK's sex. The man provides the relationship. Women that withhold sex from relationships end up losing said men very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 02:00 PM
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When I meet people and I'm stuck with small talk I use the frame of, "This person has something fascinating about them and I'm gonna find it and ask them to elaborate about it and I will learn something."
/r/askTRP01/02/17 01:57 PM
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It's hard for men to feel that women are into the because all women have a general front of 'your not getting in these panties sir!' which is a total lie. Women love men. We are their kryptonite.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 01:00 PM
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Very very few people have this discipline and drive and especially ones that might not have shown adherence to a more basic routine for a period of time.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:57 PM
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People dont get in good shape working out 45 minutes a day 3 days a week. I think this is a bit of your problem. No you can't be a professional with that amount of time but used properly with good programming you'd be blown away at what you can do with 3 45 minute sessions. Don't get a personal trainer. There's way to much mis information and variance in quality. Here's where I'd start: read 'starting strength' by Mark Rippetoe cover to cover. Every detail. Next. Go to the Youtube channel Candit…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:55 PM
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I think that Rocco is a good example of SGM but don't try to fuck like him out of the blocks. You need to just stick to the vanilla stuff the first few sex sessions but be firm and dominate. Finger, light smacks, hold her hips down, flip her over and fuck her good, flip her again. When she start to orgasm or gets close fall into a good rhythm and don't change it up no matter how hard she starts to buck and spasm. Just fucking like that is better then 80% of guys out there.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:41 PM
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Here's a summary of the suggestions in this thread: Low T General Depression Fetish for Romanticism/girlfriend experience Excessive masturbation (dopamine abuse) Emotional Unavailability It seems like you've schluffed off most of these and all of these are good recommendations and you should seriously try treatment for all of them because it won't hurt to exercise more and it won't hurt to masturbate less and it won't hurt to experiment with more emotional connection again... All that being said…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:37 PM
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She's got enough value and youth that she's in alpha fux or alpha bucks only mode. All those tall, handsome, rich dudes you mentioned in her post have probably overplayed the provider hand and put themselves into beta bux status; just because you have money doesn't mean you understand female sexual attraction or redpill concepts. Which is why no matter how much or how little money you have never signal to women your provider status. It really doesn't turn them on it just turns on their succubus …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 01:08 PM
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Do not, do not, DO NOT 'have access' to a male friend I'm not implying that OP should go on a date with one of his male friends or go out of her way to force access. I'm saying that in the course of parties and family gathering OP might be able to speak with a family member or friend of her husband and in an organic way suggest the subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 09:21 PM
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If he's a busy man but you get the small amount of free time he has then you are in a pretty good place. If he spends his Friday and Saturday's with you you are in a pretty good place. That being said it sounds like you are a bit blinded by your infatuation with him which means he may be plating you and you wouldn't know it. If I were you I wouldn't walk away. He could genuinely just be too busy to move an LTR forward at this point and if you want to stay with him for a potential LTR or marriage…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 09:19 PM
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they always try to dominate me or pick on me This is perception. You have an anti-authority figure complex. You're only feeling they are picking on you because you want to be your own boss in all things and many men are born with this problem. If you don't fix this quickly life will not pan out well for you. You can't fight the law. I'd highly recommend you pick up an old classic: "The Road Less Traveled" by Scott Peck. He talks a lot about his own anti-authority complex. It helped me a lot beca…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 05:47 PM
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Personally, I think custody should be split 50-50 with neither parent obliged to pay the other. I think this would eliminate a lot of bitter custody battles which are (hate to be cynical, but ...) motivated primarily by the father's desire to get out of paying child support. I'd agree with the 50/50 thing. I actually agree with child support but I think it should be very low and shouldn't pile up and accrue interest on men that are jailed or in-between work. It also shouldn't be a crime with a j…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 05:42 PM
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When you push your man to improve, no matter how subtle, you run the risk of him backsliding. Why? Because for men a women that want's her man to improve is signaling he's not good enough regardless of belief or intention. This very often has the opposite effect on men. He absolutely needs to improve on his own and for himself. Your realm is to improve yourself and make it easy for him to improve if he so chooses. That's enough to focus on right there. You are a muse, you are an inspiration. Tip…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 05:13 PM
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something like 4 in 10 women earn more than their husbands, so I'm not sure it's a given that marriage is always more risky for men! :-o If my wife makes 100k and I make 40k and we get divorced and she takes 60 percent of my income for alimony and child support then yes marriage is still risky for me. Most men don't make 500k and after divorce still have 250k a year to live on. It doesn't matter which party has more to lose in a divorce it matters which party loses out in the precedings and that…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 04:42 PM
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hot people turn 28 year olds and all of a sudden they become ugly losers This is a bit of an exaggeration but it doesn't matter if you are hot when you are 35 and 45. Your biological clock is up. You are most fertile and most attractive to the highest quality men from 19-25ish. Who is a the attractive sexy doctor guy gonna marry? The 32 year old female doctor colleague with the great personality or the 22 year old air headed pharma rep? Yup, you guessed it. I don't make up the rules, you can't n…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 04:16 PM
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This is an enlightening comment. Both feminism and MRA have legitimate complaints about the structure of society and the fallout of traditional mating rituals. That being said women have made a lot more advances because they support eachother as a collective (and bankrolled/unopposed by men). Both men and women do not support MRA's. MRA will never get off the ground. Men are too out for themselves or their 'teams'/'gangs' etc. We can only hope that society as a whole collectively grows more educ…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 03:36 PM
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Good post. It's difficult to explain this truth to someone who hasn't had a lot sexual and relationship contact with women.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 03:19 PM
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r/keto. Just be prepared for headaches and a tough adjustment period.
/r/RedPillWives27/01/17 02:19 PM
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A women constantly throwing herself at Tinder Romeo's, and Fuckboys or even obsessing over her married boss is no better then a boy masturbating to porn all day.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 02:15 PM
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If you come from an impoverished or low middle class family and you have 'fun' in middle and highschool the rest of your life is devoted to minimum wage work or seasonal construction work.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 01:33 PM
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Trump Trump is part of the oligarchy. What in his past shows you he will ever do anything that doesn't directly benefit his immediate interests and needs? If there is a global slavery as you put it Trump immensely benefits from it. There are plenty of other men that would have actually drained the swamp if put in power. Trump is not your savior.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 01:58 PM
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But probably not at a rate that women like.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 01:50 PM
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There's really no bubble to burst because you can't declare bankruptcy and you can't 'recollect' the education. Therefore it will just depress the economy. It will especially hurt housing and car markets.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 01:43 PM
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There's no logically explaining things to these people, because their political ideology isn't just a set of opinions I do find that conservatives are way more open to a healthy debate, and more respectful when debating. They are also more open to logic. That being said. Much of the conservative party uses actual religion as it's guide to politics and if you think a SJW is immune to logic and facts try touching a topic that a conservative has decided lines up with his or her 'book' again out goe…
/r/askMRP24/01/17 01:37 PM
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I think there are probably a good portion of men out there that flat out don't deserve all this from a women (and women are struggling to find a man that does) and on the flip side of this the average non RP american women thinks that doing these things is antiquated, weak, and will bring shame. As a society we really need to adjust the narrative if we are going to rebuild the family unit; because a man that receives these five things from his partner will be happy and go to work refreshed and f…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 01:31 PM
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Really interesting comments in here. I enjoyed reading this. No one, I mean no one, is happy when the person they are with, if they reached their potential, is only hitting the FLOOR of what you'd find tolerable in life. Very well put but this is absolutely ENFLAMED in our modern media/facebook culture where the fruits of labor are everywhere and the labor itself is nowhere. Women and men are both being duped. Women are being trained that they deserve a high income high motivated man and men are…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 12:59 PM
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Improve game and status. Continue to lift. It's that simple. Maintain and reduce aging with r / skincareaddiction.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 02:01 PM
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I wish guys here would stop acting like incels That's why they are here. To read and learn how to not just stop acting but stop being an incel (insert other monikers here). Most of them probably don't even know they are doing it.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 08:47 PM
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Again, 90% of your posts are just restating vanilla TRP topics and dumbing them down with no quality FR or different perspective on the material. To be fair that's a lot of posts on redpill.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 08:43 PM
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This, thankfully, is actually discussed on redpill quite a bit. It's just another reason you don't 'improve' for women. You improve for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 07:03 PM
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And does your fiance look at you differently? Probably, but in a good way! In an "I can't keep my hands off of that" way This is basically what I came here to say as well. I think a lot of the fear comes from a place that OP will mess up the image of herself to her husband. In reality it will only make him connect to her more. Men love when a women can flip a switch and be comfortable/enthusiastic with being 'adventurous' in the bedroom.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 06:15 PM
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This gets brought up a lot and there's really no solution. The minute you create a teen redpill it's ghost town because teens don't want advice from other teens and adult won't spend time on the subreddit. Asktrp is the closest you will get to a teen subreddit. The other problem with a teen redpill is that a lot of the advice boils down too: bury your head in the books or a trade and get a good financial footing as early as possible then fuck women. Go monk mode and reap a better harvest in adul…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 11:36 PM
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You just described like 80 percent of guys in relationships. Guys that get in LTR's often lose a lot of drive because they have what they need: food, sex, shelter (and because they don't have a lot of redpill knowledge they take LTR's for granted and don't manage their mates very well). They lose the fight. That's kind of where we are in society right now. That being said you need to leave. Sounds like you've already flipped a switch. I promise you nothing you do will get the spark back and it's…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 11:30 PM
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Many women do this but few produce any fruit from the process. She's doing this because she see's you as her captain and she will continue to do it until she doesn't. How do I support her to become stronger without letting her lose the beautiful part of her personality? Nothing you do will make her become tougher without your leadership. She will only lose the beautiful part of her personality if you want her too. She is only doing all of this because of your leadership. So you support her by co…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 06:38 PM
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Here's a deeper problem with speed reading. Let's assume that someone can increase speed AND comprehension. To say like 800 words per minute. There's a third level to consider: Internalization. Very few people in the world have a brain that can 'Internalize' information at the rate they read and comprehend it. By internalize I mean comprehend something at such a level that I can use it in my life, connect it to other experiences, manipulate the information, and teach it to others. Another way to…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 06:27 PM
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I find it interesting how some of the best and most useful posts on redpill that keep getting shared and discussed in perpetuity didn't get that many upvotes upon release.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:41 PM
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Well said. Both tests come from a place of insecurity. Women operate from a constant state of insecurity. Shit tests are an insecurity that you're not a strong enough man for her requirements. Comfort tests are a projection of insecurity that you are so strong she needs reassurance of commitment. A good LTR is basically a series of occasional comfort tests and zero shit tests. Because it is always better to error on the side of strength.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:36 PM
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Don't mind Neo. He's just the resident Redpill Cabalist.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:30 PM
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'sure the world isn't fair, it doesn't owe you anything, here is how you can exploit that.' This we are both in agreement about and redpill probably needs to not venture into MRA issues at the risk of corrupting it's core message... However, it will be redpill type men: useful, strong, goal oriented men who will end up picking up the pieces of society that feminism has shredded. It's my hope that another branch that's not quite redpill and not quite MRA arises that seeks to form clear, action or…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 04:25 PM
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But isn't it masculine to shape, build and mold the world? Isn't it men that created society, laws, police forces, and military in the first place? We as men have allowed 'feminism' to hijack these legal and societal instruments and institute/expand feminist doctrine (duluth model, family court, continued unfair alimony, etc.). Granted the MRA movement in it's current form is not very 'action' oriented but that doesn't mean it can't grow towards that. I'm not an MRA myself because I still think …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 03:04 PM
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A lot of social meetings are focused around alcohol and if you avoid alcohol you also exclude a lot of opportunities to meet people. So do what a lot of people do. Have one or two shitty low alcohol beers like Michelob ultra. Your other alternative is to focus your Friday and Saturday nights around events. Going to sporting events, participating in sporting events, hobbies, clubs, art, music, etc. There may be alcohol at these events but there will be less pressure because alcohol isn't the focu…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 01:43 PM
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You never own women you only rent them and this one's contract is up. You didn't even need to check the text. Women that mysteriously start burying themselves in social media are normally starting the monkey branching process.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 01:36 PM
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Thanks for the post but this is just a script and a script that works for YOU in YOUR area. What people need to take away from this is the attitude you project of DGAF and Abundance Mentality. These are the take-away not the PUA script.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 01:31 PM
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The men at my work are significantly older (like 40+) and I don't find the majority of them attractive. So it sounds like your sticking point isn't age it's attraction.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 01:28 PM
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Stacey gets hit on less as well. Maybe not 2 times a month but men have collectively stopped hitting on women in general because of feminism and the hostility women have towards men. In fact the only men left hitting on women are complete scumbags for the most part and this further biases women towards a very that men are complete assholes. This attention deficit has made women turn to social media which is a huge fake validation train that messes with women's signals. Stacey fucks Chad because …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 12:18 PM
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I'm purple pill about MRA. Redpill is pretty hostile to it and I think it's phase two. The current set of ideas and suggestions behind redpill tell you to just keep your head down and behave as others so that you can have a career and if you're already married to prevent divorce. I feel eventually we will have an army of dyed in the wool redpill men (I think we already do in the case of lot of conservative and military men that don't identify with redpill but identify with a lot of MRA issues) a…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 11:37 AM
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It's really sounding like you need a mentor that's in the field to help you with these apps and interviews. Start calling old professors or people that you currently looking for and asking for advice.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 11:19 AM
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You have this fear because you trust and envy women. *shudders. You trust that if a women rejects you, you must not have value. Therefore every approach is a legitimate evaluation of your complete masculinity. This mindset is a result of feminist blue pill indoctrination and it is absolutely toxic to healthy masculinity. The fact is that women reject men as a default and they reject men in countless ways for countless reasons. Stop trying to gauge how attractive you are to the opposite sex at an…
/r/askTRP14/01/17 11:01 PM
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Every girl is on a sliding scale of attention seeking personality type. Regardless of how badly they seek general attention women hide this when they are courting a man and leading up to marriage but struggle to hide it after marriage. Sounds like you have a women that's high on the attention seeking side and she's starting to drop the ruse because she know's she has you trapped in marriage. She's getting bolder for a few reasons: she wants you to man up and 'posses' her again. She doesn't see y…
/r/askMRP14/01/17 07:14 PM
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I think what's funny is that most women and especially good looking ones are sleeping and hanging out with high value men that have lots of women in their life. They are use too seeing condom rappers and girl stuff in a guys house. They are only acting surprised/accusatory when they see that stuff to gauge your reaction. It's just another test.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 06:59 PM
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Limit your exposure to Facebook and social media. That's just everyone else's highlight reel. More people then you realize are in the same position or worse then you are. Also the fact that all your friends are successful and connected is a good thing. Imagine being in the exact same position you are now and all of your friends and family are even lower on the totum pole of life. It's all about gratitude and how you look at things. There's a saying. If you are the most successful person in the r…
/r/askTRP14/01/17 06:57 PM
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