Focusing on things that matter, lifting, studying, food without getting bored in life. How do you guys do that?

_ohnoes_ · 2017-03-31T15:06:47+00:00

Who said you couldn't have hobbies ? You dont want to live like a robot...

And not give a fuck about women while you are at it? How do I fuckinh maintain frame?

Abundance mentality

throw162534 · 2017-03-31T17:56:31+00:00

Find one hobby and learn everything about it that you can. That should take you months. Repeat. Delve into a new social scene. Learn about people, study them, learn how they think and take a real interest in them. People are fucking fascinating dude. You don't think about it often but they're like another world that's right in front of you. They see things differently, have different memories, opinions and habits. To me that's very interesting. Also, explore nature. Stop for a moment and appreciate that all of this is rare and you're a part of it. Then go out and fuck some chicks.

JackGetsIt · 2017-04-01T03:10:02+00:00

Step 1. Get comfortable being alone. Find something that you can do alone that you enjoy. Reading, instrument, hobby. That takes care of the pressure relief.

Step 2. Enjoy the lifting and studying. Find joy in the process and growth. You'll also find that when you fill your time with a lot of lifting and studying that people will come out of the woodwork to hangout with you and fill the precious free time you have. You'll meet interesting people as you make yourself a more valuable and interesting person.

It might be boring at first but most don't last pass the adjustment period. After that it's quite enjoyable because your perspective and expectations change.

Another way to think about this is gratitude. A old monk who ate a very spartan diet of unseasoned food was given a broth with a very small amount of salt in it. He became incredibly excited and enjoyed the broth very much and immediately asked for it to be taken from him. You will find that you quickly become that monk with a lot of things in your life when you step away from the mindless entertainment and dopamine abuse. Good luck on the journey!

Title	Focusing on things that matter, lifting, studying, food without getting bored in life. How do you guys do that?
Author	Pastatuna1234
Upvotes	20
Comments	4
Date	March 31, 2017 2:03 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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