Anyone have experience hiring a surrogate

Maxwell1138 · 2021-09-09T07:39:40+00:00

There are surrogacy agencies that work very similar to adoption agencies. Where you tell them what you are looking for and they try to match you with someone working with their agency. But get ready, it costs somewhere in the neighborhood of $20 000. It is worth the cost though, because you are going through an official agency you will not need to worry about legal issues because all that is handled by the agency. Just do your research, be patient, and make sure you are ready for this (fatherhood).

2021-09-09T05:43:41+00:00

its rigged everywhere.. expectations from women are high everywhere.. south asian? you are fked.. im a 30s south asian man trying to move to canada myself.. but its just for money.. w r t love i know what to expect

efficient_slacker · 2021-09-09T12:41:48+00:00

25 is way too young to give up. Dating is harder for men, but in exchange we have more time to figure things out. Keep pushing forward and you can make something happen.

MrProficient · 2021-09-09T21:28:47+00:00

Oh I'm so going to get down voted for this....

Just because you are a man that wants love, a family, and can bring a lot to the table doesn't mean you are entitled to her or any other person. This reads terrible because you have a terrible opinion about love and relationships.

If you want to successful relationship you have to be humble and the person you're with has to be humble because when one or more persons in the relationship stop being humble and feel entitled to something it's just a matter of time why they'll end up single and alone. Yeah young girls nowadays have more options but because they're not humble they'll end up 40 and alone with 20,000 cats complaining every chance they get about how bad men are.

Your post does not read any amount of humility or being humble but rather you feel entitled to a relationship. You clearly said it that you're being denied love because of your gender. Buddy, no one is entitled to love so you can't be denied something you're not entitled to. Also, honestly if I was a chick and you came at me with that kind of attitude I would run away.

Maybe what you should do is reevaluate why you feel entitled to something you're not entitled to and learn to humble yourself and have a little bit of humility and maybe you'll be able to find love with someone who is equally humble and has humility.

Oh boo hoo the system is rigged and I give up! Waaa waaaaa waaaaaaaaaaaa. Yeah it's not fair the dating world and the imbalance between genders and cultural problems. However, if you're that willing to give up over that little bit of a setback then maybe you should give up and die alone. Anything worth obtaining you have to sacrifice for because if you are just handed it, you wouldn't be humble to it.

I feel sympathy for your pains and struggle, but a big portion of that pain and struggle is self inflicted.

If you're not able to humble yourself and learn some humility, well then there's always adoption to have a family.

MercurysonofJupiter · 2021-09-09T03:35:34+00:00

Your evidence that you can't find love "because of your gender" is that one person rejected you? You talk a lot about wanting to be loved but not about what love you're willing and ready to give. You just give a list of things you want "put into" a relationship like its going to be a business partnership, instead of real love, which is unpredictable, messy, and requires give and take, hard work and at time sacrifices as well as receiving joy. An infant is the most self centered being in the world and requires selfless fucking with no acknowledgment for many years

gonewildman5 · 2021-09-09T17:07:55+00:00

I mean you can't just expect women to offer up marriage and pussy because you have a lot of shit. And don't become a single dad just because you have bad luck with women. Date a woman for at least 3-4 years then marry with a prenup with BOTH of y'alls lawyers present. Keep y'all's bank accounts separate and pay for the house yall will live in so its only under your name. If divorce happens make sure you contact the divorce lawyer first. Also women like it when men listen and understand (no simping though) and take at least some of the housework load off. Furthermore don't get married till around 30-33 and no sex till marriage so you know she's a keeper

jacare_o · 2022-06-30T10:57:36+00:00

I would also know how to do this. Since recently this is my preferred way of having a family as well. But right now I don't have the money.

From a google search I found some companies that do this. If I were you, for a start, I would contact them and see.

That being said, you shouldn't give up on dating at 25 years old. There is time for you. It's true that the laws are biased against men. But maybe you'll meet a woman who sees you as a human being rather than a wallet or a plow horse, and a relationship with her will be worth it. If you can't find that, have a child through a surrogate before you lose your physical and mental capabilities to be a good father. But you don't need to take that step right now.

Title	Anyone have experience hiring a surrogate
Author	CanadaHousingSucks4
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Comments	16
Date	September 9, 2021 2:44 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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