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[–]nastynickdr 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Now I am freaking out because according to TRP once a women turns older than 27 men don't really look for LTRs
Best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. Second best time is today.
If you are not entitled, not bratty, not slutty, not fat, not into drugs/partying, feminine and willing to be lead by a high quality man you are ahead of most women today.
Should I start activly searching for men who want that?
Sure. Search for men that want the same as you, that are compatible with you. Keep your n count low, high quality men who are looking to settle/start a family are not going to want to do it with a slut.
DO men even still want housewive who work from home?
Yeah, plenty. But its not that tatooed bad boy from the bar or that hawwwt buff dude from tinder.
Is it REALLY too late for me once i turn 28?
No. If you take care of yourself and you are child free and you got the qualities I said before you should be good. Just dont waste your time fucking around.
Also check https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/ read the sidebar there.
[–]quicklogaccount 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I take it i'm just not the one -_-.
You're probably right. Many reasons for him to feel that way.
I NEVER wanted that till reently.
That's "the wall".
Now I am freaking out because according to TRP once a women turns older than 27 men don't really look for LTRs.
It's hard to say and it has a lot to do with your environment. All men are raised to believe "people belong in happily committed couples". As we get older and remain uncommitted we tend to learn we're mostly cool outside them, we can get laid and share some affection with womEn instead of a woman. That makes us increasingly more demanding of the chicks to consider LTRs.
I turned 30 and most of my single guy friends have no rush to change that. The only one who still seeks LTRs openly states that he does it so he doesn't have to worry with displaying good SMV. But despite having no urge to change that I'm pretty sure we're all open to the possibility if there's a fucking amazing woman around. The problem is there aren't any.
do I have hope?
For getting an attractive guy to commit, you have hope. It's not granted. I'd say chances are "good", over 60% if you have this mindset now, and way higher if you're cool dating a younger guy.
But at any point you'll be able to reach out to some environment full of sexually frustrated guys and pick the one better qualified for a long term relationship.
I could definitly work on my SMV and RMV
Yeah, always work on that. It's high return investment. But you were in a four years LTR, so take some time to look at your fuck ups there and don't make them again. Don't settle, don't get lazy, don't forget your partner has expectations, don't become a whining nagging bitch. Most of the world is blue pill, plugged in, and to most guys "relationships are hard work", they're willing to invest and make it work (it lessens with time). The problem is women became such damn entitled spoiled and ungrateful princess that they manage to cause Buddha to lose his patience.
ACTIVELY is the keyword there. Yep.
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